Best believe this platform allows the girls to understand, to an extent, how men think, feel and see relationships. It's so sad how a lot of girlies feel like guys are unemotional, unresponsive walls in the sense that you guys block all your emotions we can't even tell what you guys are feeling. It brings enlightenment, I can only speak for myself ATP.
Relationships can be a distraction, especially when you are on your grind. Dividing emotions can be really tough, especially when you are still learning about yourself emotionally.
Getting bored in a relationship can be a result of bad communication,it’s a problem that most people are facing without even realising it.And it’s so funny how it will always be someone else’s fault and not the one who’s getting bored,but seeing your mistake says a lot about you Lucas.(growth)
Thank you for the great content. I've come to the realisation that I'm only 20 and the person I might get into a relationship now might not be the person I'll be with when I'm 28 so I'd rather save myself the heartbreak and work towards being a better person for when I'm older. I don't know myself entirely which means I also don't entirely know the attributes the person that's ideal for me should have
Can't believe I'm only learning of this pod rn; this is beautiful guys. 🙌🏾 The guys really spoke on the realities/difficulties of dating post varsity. Time is a big factor and I think the older we get, the more particular we become about what we want. Like Tladi, I'm probably too idealistic about what I want, and like Lucas, the next relationship has to be my last coz wow... I'm not built for the streets.
Like Lucas when you work and you don't have much time you need to be with someone who actually understands and is willing to make the necessary adjustments. I work from 7am to 6pm Monday to Saturday. Run a small poultry farm and also doing my masters program. My partner is my biggest supporter and helps to hold everything together.
Thato you are amazing man.Thank you for sharing so much value with us.And to Lucas and Matladi thank you for supporting Thato’s career.May the Good Lord continue to bless y’all.
Dammmn the ending advice from Prime Luca!!! Like ‘a relationship should make sense to you’ really hit the bottom🕊☁️ The prohibiting thing is the medical degree I’m about to finish🤣🤣and the pure scare of how exit when I’d like to start
One thing about Matladi, he will throw banter around like confetti! Also, my nigga deflected tf out of the questions directed to him 😂 and just as I thought bamthola he’s opening up then Thato wraps up. 😩 Great episode once again, with the perfect balance of realistic chats and humour. 😂❤️
I know one of the major reasons I'm single is that I don't have boundaries when it comes to doing things for those close to me (I'm working on it). I go above and beyond for those I care about which can be problematic around the wrong people. That's why I take all my relationships slowly before diving in and unfortunately these days not everyone wants to do things slow
I think Tladi is saying that something could develop to be exactly what you need, even if it doesn't initially look like what you want. I think that's true, and that's where fantasies can have us messed up.
Soo good guys, it's super rare for guys to sit down and have such conversations. I am personally drawing up so much from this podcast. Hope guys out there are learning from this. One thing is also that your person is out there mahn, you go find them one day. #Monthoflove #loveliveshere #Mjolo
You guys posted🥳.. This is my favourite segment please. Warming up to the different personalities, lovely seeing you guys outside of 'Looking for Mjolo'.🥺🥰✨
Thank you for all ❤your insight and wisdom. I felt so relieved after your conversation, and it totally put my mind at ease. Everything Lucas has said it applies to me. Also, I am more of a Tladi when it comes to having an idea of what I want and if things do not turn up that way I bottle it up and leave. Before this I felt really lost and I was in a low place in my life and I felt empty but hearing Thato and Lucas encouraging Tladi about his issue I found encouragement through this message. I had been struggling to process all the having fantasies thing to an extant that I was putting so much pressure on myself trying to change that but you really helped me. Once again thank you guys for this. Its so good to have our big brothers talk about such topics because some of us really have no one to talk to us about such. We'll be glad to have your mother here Thato I am curious too. For the record Lucas does speak a lot than Tladi🤣🤣🤣
Dating in varsity was both beautiful and hectic hhay... It was beautiful to obviously dream, to be adventurous about our love, be reckless.. Haha damn now that I think about it dating in varsity had really beautiful moments.. The downside of dating in varsity was the fact that when mjolo was hectic, it literally strained my academics.. I couldn't focus on school, I'd miss classes, and basically just end up in a terrible state holistically..
LMAO Lucas definitely speaks more than Matladi 🤣 And to be fair im exactly like Matladi, in the sense that i have an idea of what i want and as soon as i realise that the person im talking to or interested in is not giving me that, or it looks like they wont be able to, i leave VERY QUICKLY and i dont look back.
The trinity 😍😂 love this podcast, ang'fun ukungasho 🔥I can relate to Lucas in that I often bottle things inside and struggle to say no, especially to a significant other. I can also relate to Matladi in that I have an idealized notion in my head of what a relationship should be like and I back off quickly if I'm not seeing it. Usually ppl tell me that I'm too picky so I was pleasantly surprised when you guys encouraged Matladi to persist in looking for exactly what he wants. I found that so encouraging, thank you ❤️
I have to agree with Lucas it's exhausting to constantly meet new people and start the connection all over again yho. But I really like how you guys talk about women and relationships man, really liked this conversation a lot.
The reason I find it so hard to be in a relationship is because I get bored so quickly especially when the guy is too sweet and I've concluded that on that matter, I'm the problem... Besides that, I have serious trust issues, these niggas been playing me so hard I barely believe a person when they tell me they're really into me, feels like they only here to take what they want and leave. Anyway, I love you guys so much, your topics are so relatable and the conversation flows so perfectly, I hope you invite Tron someday ❤️
One thing that is holding me back are my priorities and also trying to be someone I look for in person - you can't really ask something you yourself cannot give. Also, dating in varsity is easier because of convenience and having less responsibilities to tend to. This was a really lovely episode. Thanks y'all!
I am still in uni and I think the one thing that’s prohibiting me from being in a relationship is trauma..I think it has a lot more to do with myself than other people out there…This was yet another great conversation ❤️❤️
I`m doing my second year in Varsity but please, I want nothing to do with relationships and I think it has everything to do with what Matladi said, I too fantasize a lot on how an ideal relationship should be like to an extent that I end up having gang expectations and I feel like the only way to avoid disappointments is to remain single.
I am exactly like @Lucas. It's a very big learning curve because you assume you are a really good communicator then you find out kuthi you leave things in the air.
Heeeyyyyyy Mahlatsi😁😁😁😁😁lolz loved the podcast.....this podcast just shows how important vat n sit is.......when people get a chance they should definitely move in with their partners 🤞😁😁
I really enjoy Malomes Mic. Relationships are difficult in general I feel 🤣. Thank you guys for sharing your experiences, giving advice and obvs giving us personality 🤌🏾🤌🏾.
I fail to be in a relationship because I'm busy where do we meet girls? When I'm free I want to rest, online dating is a No No whilst I'm an indoor person.
Came off the podcast app to come post my comment on here. Absolutely brilliant podcast, I’ve related to every conversation you guys have had since the first episode.
You three are such a perfect balance there is a little diference but the differences still cover each other it's like you cover a lot without doing too muc
That “Hey baby” from Lucas❤️❤️😭😭😭😍 I relate to all the traits that Lucas hassss😭. I hate conflict in a relationship, in such a way that if i have a problem with my partner, I’d just keep it to myself to avoid arguments and I really do get easily bored😐. Reason why I sometimes hate dating😹😹.
I love a man who knows his worth, however I am a true believer in "a man who finds a wife finds a good thing" (Proverbs 18:22). So a man is not the prize please (a woman is). But he is a blessing.
That thing of Lucas behaving perfect or looking perfect is so true. I beeeeeen watching looking for mjolo and just seeing him before then and that's dead how he been carrying himself and it's like go pala eng then kana it's just a thing of not having met the right one ? 👁️😂
Halala Malume TH-cam🥺Malume 100k🥳🥳 starting a podcast was the best decision you ever made✨ we are enjoying the content 💯
Ahh thanks sm Julia
Best believe this platform allows the girls to understand, to an extent, how men think, feel and see relationships. It's so sad how a lot of girlies feel like guys are unemotional, unresponsive walls in the sense that you guys block all your emotions we can't even tell what you guys are feeling. It brings enlightenment, I can only speak for myself ATP.
The look on Matladi’s face when Lucas said “hey baby “😂😂 priceless
Relationships can be a distraction, especially when you are on your grind. Dividing emotions can be really tough, especially when you are still learning about yourself emotionally.
Getting bored in a relationship can be a result of bad communication,it’s a problem that most people are facing without even realising it.And it’s so funny how it will always be someone else’s fault and not the one who’s getting bored,but seeing your mistake says a lot about you Lucas.(growth)
Lucas being incapable of saying no to an S/O is the most relatable Lucas-related thing I've ever heard. 😭
This man just gives off perfect energy 😭
I love how you guys often compliment and affirm each other so often and so easily ❤️
Thato 42:17 seconds not enough, we need something like 2 hours of this conversation.😭😭👏
Honestly! 🥺
Or at least two episodes a week could be a continuation
Thank you for the great content. I've come to the realisation that I'm only 20 and the person I might get into a relationship now might not be the person I'll be with when I'm 28 so I'd rather save myself the heartbreak and work towards being a better person for when I'm older. I don't know myself entirely which means I also don't entirely know the attributes the person that's ideal for me should have
“How would I not remember my own relationship”
Oh Lucas, you’d be surprised 😂🤣
Everything that Thato touches turns into gold 😭 Haibo. Teach us your ways sir 🥺
"They don't know that he's lonely in the night time" I AM SCREAMINGGGGGGGG
😂😂😂😂
"mnah mnah mnah... eww!"😂😂😂Matladi is an essential!😂🔥❤️
Tladi has STANDARDS 🤩
Can't believe I'm only learning of this pod rn; this is beautiful guys. 🙌🏾 The guys really spoke on the realities/difficulties of dating post varsity. Time is a big factor and I think the older we get, the more particular we become about what we want. Like Tladi, I'm probably too idealistic about what I want, and like Lucas, the next relationship has to be my last coz wow... I'm not built for the streets.
please tell Mo some of us really love seeing her so she can also pull up the camera when doing her podcast....
I never knew I needed to see Lucas in Formal until today .😍❤
now this is a podcast🔥👏🏽 i mean I'd listen to this as an audio and still not get bored. Great Job Malume100k
27:48" they don't know that his lonely in the night time"
Thato you killed me🤣🤣🤣😭
Love it, it's all intellectuals here.
Like Lucas when you work and you don't have much time you need to be with someone who actually understands and is willing to make the necessary adjustments. I work from 7am to 6pm Monday to Saturday. Run a small poultry farm and also doing my masters program.
My partner is my biggest supporter and helps to hold everything together.
Thato you are amazing man.Thank you for sharing so much value with us.And to Lucas and Matladi thank you for supporting Thato’s career.May the Good Lord continue to bless y’all.
... Your friendship is so real. So genuine. The bond is beautiful. I loved every bit of it. 😩🥺♥️
Matladi’s situation is just like mine, I’m so glad I’m not alone in this space🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️
Dammmn the ending advice from Prime Luca!!! Like ‘a relationship should make sense to you’ really hit the bottom🕊☁️
The prohibiting thing is the medical degree I’m about to finish🤣🤣and the pure scare of how exit when I’d like to start
That thing Lucas said there by 36:53🥺 actually it's how he said it😍🙌🏾...brother man🔥🔥
I went to the last Malume's mic episode and counted the days 😭😭🥺 I was like is today not the day 😂😂 thank God it is I've been waiting 😩😩😩
Matladi: who am I helping there?
Thato and Lucas: Her!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
One thing about Matladi, he will throw banter around like confetti! Also, my nigga deflected tf out of the questions directed to him 😂 and just as I thought bamthola he’s opening up then Thato wraps up. 😩 Great episode once again, with the perfect balance of realistic chats and humour. 😂❤️
I love this podcast the best thing that has happened to this Southern Africa....I come here every time for Lucas🥰🥰🥰 anyway you guys are smart gents
😂😂😂🤎
The fact that the tie alwyz match with shoes got me love this podcast
I know one of the major reasons I'm single is that I don't have boundaries when it comes to doing things for those close to me (I'm working on it). I go above and beyond for those I care about which can be problematic around the wrong people. That's why I take all my relationships slowly before diving in and unfortunately these days not everyone wants to do things slow
Matladi summed it up well besides the trauma, I fantisize about relationships like a child.
ULucas ngiyamfuna ngenze njani? 😭
Matladi’s reasoning towards the end 🙌🏾♥️, things really need to make sense 🤞🏽
Eksseeee sharp fede Malomeeeee!!!!!🔥🔥🔥❤
Halalaaaaaaa
I think Tladi is saying that something could develop to be exactly what you need, even if it doesn't initially look like what you want. I think that's true, and that's where fantasies can have us messed up.
Damn bro! The chemistry between you guys man. You can’t make this up! Loved this.
Never clicked so fast in my life.🥳🥳🥳🥳🥰. halalla📢📢📢📢
😂😂😂😂🤎
We need Part 2...
Dope dope content gents. I always walk away with something new at end of each episode
I literally screamed 😍😍I live for this podcast
Weekly 🔝🔝
Love the chemistry and the openess❤
“They don’t know he’s lonely in the night time “ 😂
Soo good guys, it's super rare for guys to sit down and have such conversations. I am personally drawing up so much from this podcast. Hope guys out there are learning from this. One thing is also that your person is out there mahn, you go find them one day.
#Monthoflove #loveliveshere #Mjolo
Another installment 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 I live for this podcast ♥️♥️
Kopa part 2 🤩👑❤️
Damn I love this segment more😭❤
😂😂🤎
i love the relationship you guys have with each other and how honest but playful you guys are🫶🏽
You guys posted🥳.. This is my favourite segment please. Warming up to the different personalities, lovely seeing you guys outside of 'Looking for Mjolo'.🥺🥰✨
I haven't watched it yet, but I'm already excited!😂🔥❤️I love Malome's Mic!
These podcasts are always a vibe!🥺🫂
Thank you for all ❤your insight and wisdom. I felt so relieved after your conversation, and it totally put my mind at ease. Everything Lucas has said it applies to me. Also, I am more of a Tladi when it comes to having an idea of what I want and if things do not turn up that way I bottle it up and leave. Before this I felt really lost and I was in a low place in my life and I felt empty but hearing Thato and Lucas encouraging Tladi about his issue I found encouragement through this message. I had been struggling to process all the having fantasies thing to an extant that I was putting so much pressure on myself trying to change that but you really helped me. Once again thank you guys for this. Its so good to have our big brothers talk about such topics because some of us really have no one to talk to us about such. We'll be glad to have your mother here Thato I am curious too. For the record Lucas does speak a lot than Tladi🤣🤣🤣
these episode was interesting loved it ,you fan from Botswana ,you are doing great guys
This Podcast is so phenomenal🥺♥️😀!!!
Dating in varsity was both beautiful and hectic hhay... It was beautiful to obviously dream, to be adventurous about our love, be reckless.. Haha damn now that I think about it dating in varsity had really beautiful moments..
The downside of dating in varsity was the fact that when mjolo was hectic, it literally strained my academics.. I couldn't focus on school, I'd miss classes, and basically just end up in a terrible state holistically..
LMAO Lucas definitely speaks more than Matladi 🤣
And to be fair im exactly like Matladi, in the sense that i have an idea of what i want and as soon as i realise that the person im talking to or interested in is not giving me that, or it looks like they wont be able to, i leave VERY QUICKLY and i dont look back.
The trinity 😍😂 love this podcast, ang'fun ukungasho 🔥I can relate to Lucas in that I often bottle things inside and struggle to say no, especially to a significant other. I can also relate to Matladi in that I have an idealized notion in my head of what a relationship should be like and I back off quickly if I'm not seeing it. Usually ppl tell me that I'm too picky so I was pleasantly surprised when you guys encouraged Matladi to persist in looking for exactly what he wants. I found that so encouraging, thank you ❤️
I have to agree with Lucas it's exhausting to constantly meet new people and start the connection all over again yho. But I really like how you guys talk about women and relationships man, really liked this conversation a lot.
The reason I find it so hard to be in a relationship is because I get bored so quickly especially when the guy is too sweet and I've concluded that on that matter, I'm the problem... Besides that, I have serious trust issues, these niggas been playing me so hard I barely believe a person when they tell me they're really into me, feels like they only here to take what they want and leave. Anyway, I love you guys so much, your topics are so relatable and the conversation flows so perfectly, I hope you invite Tron someday ❤️
One thing that is holding me back are my priorities and also trying to be someone I look for in person - you can't really ask something you yourself cannot give.
Also, dating in varsity is easier because of convenience and having less responsibilities to tend to.
This was a really lovely episode. Thanks y'all!
I enjoy this podcast, you guys blend together, nonke guys i appreciate you all❤
I am still in uni and I think the one thing that’s prohibiting me from being in a relationship is trauma..I think it has a lot more to do with myself than other people out there…This was yet another great conversation ❤️❤️
Yoh been checking out the channel every hour😭😹
Since last week... Thank you for the content
#halala👌🏽
😂😂😂
Me too
I literally came to youtube after every hour to check yesterday
@@rethabilengwenya7232 right thought he be dropping Thursday, since #LookingForMjolo was dropped every Thursday🔥😹
I`m doing my second year in Varsity but please, I want nothing to do with relationships and I think it has everything to do with what Matladi said, I too fantasize a lot on how an ideal relationship should be like to an extent that I end up having gang expectations and I feel like the only way to avoid disappointments is to remain single.
Omg just dropped someone's video 😩😍🤣💃💃💃
I loveeeee Malomes Mic♥️
we appreciate the international listeners translations thato haha keep them coming ! some of us are watching all the way from tanzania
😂😂😂😌
Literally ,My favourite space🤗
I was so excited to see the notification I love love this podcast 😍😍🤌
Well im going to say it...Lucas is fully understanding the meaning of life is best lived in motion...
I am exactly like @Lucas. It's a very big learning curve because you assume you are a really good communicator then you find out kuthi you leave things in the air.
That first comment you read was so beautiful. It's so true, we really are here for you than for all the other things
We at it again 💃💃💃💃 shap fede, it's Malume TH-cam, Mr 100k
Another 5 star episode.
Yey guys!!! I have been waiting for this all week 🙌
Heeeyyyyyy Mahlatsi😁😁😁😁😁lolz loved the podcast.....this podcast just shows how important vat n sit is.......when people get a chance they should definitely move in with their partners 🤞😁😁
I really enjoy Malomes Mic. Relationships are difficult in general I feel 🤣. Thank you guys for sharing your experiences, giving advice and obvs giving us personality 🤌🏾🤌🏾.
I fail to be in a relationship because I'm busy where do we meet girls? When I'm free I want to rest, online dating is a No No whilst I'm an indoor person.
17:18 life motto 🤝🏿😌
Came off the podcast app to come post my comment on here. Absolutely brilliant podcast, I’ve related to every conversation you guys have had since the first episode.
Oufff the consistency 🔥
As I wait for Ep4🤭🤭 I am enjoying the podcast so much, you guys talk about relatable things❤
You three are such a perfect balance there is a little diference but the differences still cover each other it's like you cover a lot without doing too muc
My everything 😂😂😂😂that is such a fact my friends complained alot but all I wanted was to see my mans
Thato stop recording Podcast nkari vlog hle 😢😢. 2 hours please
I could honestly listen to these guys speak the whole day☺️❤️
That “Hey baby” from Lucas❤️❤️😭😭😭😍
I relate to all the traits that Lucas hassss😭. I hate conflict in a relationship, in such a way that if i have a problem with my partner, I’d just keep it to myself to avoid arguments and I really do get easily bored😐. Reason why I sometimes hate dating😹😹.
I love it here !🥺🙏🏾I love how raw and honest you guys are in sharing your experiences.
One thing I like about Matladi is he just doesn’t like stress he is a baby boy 😂💀😂🏃🏾♀️
Tladi's reaction when Lucas said "hey baby" 😭 0:17
I love this podcast… but we need an intro asap . It’s SOLID I love it.
I love a man who knows his worth, however I am a true believer in "a man who finds a wife finds a good thing" (Proverbs 18:22). So a man is not the prize please (a woman is). But he is a blessing.
Yall, Im at work listening to this and im deaaaddd and learning ;) Shem I was having a bad and tired day and yall woke me up. Danko!!!
Halalalaalalalala 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
Halalaaaaa
That thing of Lucas behaving perfect or looking perfect is so true. I beeeeeen watching looking for mjolo and just seeing him before then and that's dead how he been carrying himself and it's like go pala eng then kana it's just a thing of not having met the right one ? 👁️😂
Thato khopela request, please feature Zille on one episode, just one😭 please bro.
Hey Gents, Cape Town loves the content....#fire,fire
Nah, best podcast. Period.
I listen / watch from Kenya...I love you guys