Sydney is naturally charming and endearing. Some significant others interpret that as flirting. I naturally draw people, I’m charismatic, and I love meeting new people, and I sincerely enjoy connecting with people and some people have interpreted it as flirting. It’s my gift, it energizes me, and I’ll never stop being myself. I suspect it’s the same for Sydney, and advise him to do the same and just walk in his gift. To that end, Sydney has a fleet of close female friends likely drawn to him for the above mentioned reasons and it’s probably reducing his dating opportunities with peace-loving women who see it as a red flag, because life teaches us that more than a few of those female friends are trying/hoping/waiting to get out of the friend zone 🤷🏾♀️. Eh, life is complicated like that. Good luck with the dating game Syd. Your fans are rooting for you lol!
Tacarra is absolutely right about setting boundaries and letting people know, upfront, where you are so nothing gets misconstrued. It's easy to do all of that while you're sitting down somewhere. It's difficult when you start putting yourself back out there and your boundary is crossed and having to address it as your new self instead of your comfort self.
Love Tacarra and what she brings to your conversations. It’s always such a dope discussion and she is a friend who provides you wise counsel. The last 3 episodes have been 👌🏾👌🏾 And I agree you should sit down until you are mentally in the space to be in a relationship. Take the time to work on the things and fill up your cup!
Also the woman who said she can’t date you based on your podcast. I agree with Tacarra. This podcast is so vulnerable (love it). Most relationships have a natural progression of sharing and vulnerability. She got your intimate stories way too early…. And it scared her. She didn’t know you well enough to know the full person and thus wrote you off. Don’t take it personal.
It kinda feels like your mind is stuck on this age thing, causing you to kinda rush situations. Sydney, you gone be alright. If the person you're liking is feeling you too she won't be going anywhere & won't mind taking it a lil slow. I respect the vulnerability ❤ Keep pushing King Syd! 💪🏾
Ladies, if you ever have the opportunity to be in a relationship with Sidney, be real, be compassionate, don't have hidden agendas, be honest and loyal. I believe Sidney would give that back to you and more. I am rooting for you Sidney!! ❤
This is my fav episode yet, cause I also realized I need to sit down, and an ready and happy to. But I am gonna date, but SERIOUSLY with the intention of being married, meaning it's going to look totally different. Actually get to know the person- their shadow, their essence, etc. And I HOPE I meet him while I'm in my year of celibacy. Let's be friends first, like Tacarra said. We got this Sydney lol
Depends on the voice note LOL, sometimes people (women) blow things out of proportion and be assuming, and other times, folks legit be tryna shoot their shot..
Same because half the time I send or get voice notes because my hands are full and I can’t text or the person is driving and can’t text. It’s usually out of convenience and necessity vs anything flirtatious or potentially nefarious. 🫣🫢
I don't do podcasts at all. However, when I saw Tacarra on some of your past episodes, that's when I first started watching, which then turned to binge watching. I enjoy your podcasts & your topics. Definitely gained a new subbie.
Tacarra is absolutely correct, it’s on your time. No one can tell you when you’re ready, growth is ongoing it’s a continuous journey. Also, the fact that you’re able to sit down and have these conversations give what you’ve learned, etc, no one should hold you accountable for your past, especially, when you’ve learned from it.
At this point, this is the My Cup is full with Sydney and Tacarra. I respect her so much for keeping it 100 like she has since the first episode. Sit downs means to focus Sydney. If you don't know what areas you want to focus on, then you need a plan. Call Chris, I feel like chris is going to confirm everything tacarra said, but I don't think that's what you want sydney, especially if you don't know what's included in your sit down. YASSSS Tacarra boundaries!!!! I love this podcast❤
The podcast is helping your dating. Think of it as a filter. 😂 Tocarra gives great advice. You deserve to be your authentic self. Talk your isht! Be you. You’re dope!
Sitting down is figuring out why your ass keep attracting these type of women because it’s you … imma just keep it real . More blessings to you my brother
THIS IS A GREAT EPISODE, SHE IS A GREAT FRIEND & HER ADVICE IS REAL‼️ LISTEN TO HER… YOUR PODCAST IS AMAZING & YOU GOT THIS SYDNEY‼️ CALLING SOMEONE MAMA SHOULD NOT BE AN ISSUE AT ALL AS WELL‼️
SYDNEY!! lol You think : "im just flirting", They think: " He wants me to have his babies cause he called me mama" ...You just got to put it on ice sir... if you flirt with intention, state the intention. I have a flirty demeanor, and I gotta reign that shit in cause folks really think I'm into them! You are going to have to say... I'm not interested mama, I'm just a flirt... Be direct like Tacarra said.. LOL
this my first time even hearing the "sit down" lol so im on the same page as Syd geezuz all these rules and regulations with just being a human these days are stressing me out. let me stay in the house lol yesssssssssssss to the MEN CHOOSE US ;) Thank you sista boo aka Tacarra we love you !
Maybe I’m missing something, but I don’t see the harm in flirting. 🤷🏾♀️ I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with voice notes either. But I’ll agree that you they’re worth being mindful about. Because based on my own friends’ responses when I send them voice notes, I think there’s a level of intimacy in sending a voicenote that makes people feel special. Truly though, sometimes I just don’t feel like typing or proofreading. I’m just trying to be efficient. 💀 18:48 Update: hold a minute now. A man flirting and cooking is dinner is a whole date. And I’m quite likely to fall in love. Don’t play like that. lol 23:50 I don’t think it was the podcast itself that bothered her. I think she made an honest assessment of whether or not she was equipped or willing to support someone with Sydney’s particular set of issues, at this time. We all have issues. But not everyone’s issues can peacefully coexist. And that’s fine. It was actually mature of her to communicate rather than ghosting.
Sid, I love your podcast man. It's shining light maybe where folks don't want to look. Tacarra forget ole boy on t😊he East Coast. You got good prospect here in michigan.
I feel like yesterday’s episode made people stop shipping y’all together. I also believe you staring at her with that koolaid smile after being asked “who you like right now”, threw all that progress out the window😂😂😂
DOLCE would take care of you & never allow you to question how loved & respected you are. She did her work in the show. Respect that you're somewhere different. You are the point where ALL GOOD women begin to salivate. Thank you for pleading the blood of Jesus! The Lord is with you! Be well my king🎉! Joy is coming!
Sydney, I think you are ready to date because you want to be married and dating is getting to know people until you find your person. Once you find your person, you can date exclusively and then pursue marriage. You do want to date now because you’re at the age where you want children too and still be able to enjoy them in your youth.❤ just don’t give your time away to time wasters you have to know exactly what you want and what you’re looking for when you see it you’ll recognize it
I always say you can’t say the wrong thing to the right person. If she seen or heard things that turned her off she wasn’t for you. You should be happy you found out early on then down the line. Also I learned that dating is more of learning about yourself than learning about the person. The more you date the more you learn what you do and don’t like for yourself!
Virgo men, IN MY EXPERIENCE, move very fast when they like someone, like a lesbian relationship. Be moved in and married in less than 6 months 😂 All jokes aside, I sat down for over 3 yrs after ending a 8yr relationship and it really changed my habits and mindset; what I watched, what I listened to, places I went and I became soooo much stronger for it. Sitting down weeds out the weaklings. Don't let the ones who run away get you down, its a blessing 💪🙂
The more and more I watch the podcast, the more I know I don't have a chance with Sydney. Lol, I still will watch and be a fan. Lol but seriously I always walk away with something from each episode.
🎟 11/29 & 11/30 Sydney Castillo: Live in Ft. Worth Texas Tickets fortworth.blcomedy.com/shows/sydney-castillo-live-in-fort-worth
Yay!!!🎉🎉
I love how TaCarra breaks shit down. She needs to be the co-host.
I like her a lot also, but I like that this is solely his and he has a different guest here and there. But I get what you mean.
👍
She's a great/best once a month guest. It should stay his
She needs to be his girlfriend
@@SHOTTAeastcoast they're friends it ain't happening
Man Tacarra is the best kind of friend, they will tell you the truth and not let you bullshit them. She clocked him "lie to yourself not me"
lol his voice is deep and smooth so he definitely gotta be careful 🤣
That is why he sends those voice notes lol. He know what he be doing lol.
Sydney & Tacarra...does numbers together ❤️! She needs to be consistent CO-HOST! Its a healthy balance
🎯
Sydney is naturally charming and endearing. Some significant others interpret that as flirting. I naturally draw people, I’m charismatic, and I love meeting new people, and I sincerely enjoy connecting with people and some people have interpreted it as flirting. It’s my gift, it energizes me, and I’ll never stop being myself. I suspect it’s the same for Sydney, and advise him to do the same and just walk in his gift.
To that end, Sydney has a fleet of close female friends likely drawn to him for the above mentioned reasons and it’s probably reducing his dating opportunities with peace-loving women who see it as a red flag, because life teaches us that more than a few of those female friends are trying/hoping/waiting to get out of the friend zone 🤷🏾♀️. Eh, life is complicated like that. Good luck with the dating game Syd. Your fans are rooting for you lol!
Tacarra Williams gotta be the Co-host. The energy, chemistry, and the laughs. And holding you accountable. A good mix!
TaCarra should just be the permanent cohost
Tacarra is absolutely right about setting boundaries and letting people know, upfront, where you are so nothing gets misconstrued. It's easy to do all of that while you're sitting down somewhere. It's difficult when you start putting yourself back out there and your boundary is crossed and having to address it as your new self instead of your comfort self.
Love Tacarra and what she brings to your conversations. It’s always such a dope discussion and she is a friend who provides you wise counsel. The last 3 episodes have been 👌🏾👌🏾
And I agree you should sit down until you are mentally in the space to be in a relationship. Take the time to work on the things and fill up your cup!
Also the woman who said she can’t date you based on your podcast. I agree with Tacarra. This podcast is so vulnerable (love it). Most relationships have a natural progression of sharing and vulnerability. She got your intimate stories way too early…. And it scared her. She didn’t know you well enough to know the full person and thus wrote you off. Don’t take it personal.
It kinda feels like your mind is stuck on this age thing, causing you to kinda rush situations.
Sydney, you gone be alright.
If the person you're liking is feeling you too she won't be going anywhere & won't mind taking it a lil slow.
I respect the vulnerability ❤
Keep pushing King Syd! 💪🏾
Ole boy getting free therapy 😅
KEEP HER ON THE SHOW!!!!!!
Ladies, if you ever have the opportunity to be in a relationship with Sidney, be real, be compassionate, don't have hidden agendas, be honest and loyal. I believe Sidney would give that back to you and more. I am rooting for you Sidney!! ❤
Yall might as well just do the show together full time cuz the chemistry is great
This is my fav episode yet, cause I also realized I need to sit down, and an ready and happy to. But I am gonna date, but SERIOUSLY with the intention of being married, meaning it's going to look totally different. Actually get to know the person- their shadow, their essence, etc. And I HOPE I meet him while I'm in my year of celibacy. Let's be friends first, like Tacarra said. We got this Sydney lol
She funny as hell and Fine AF.
I had no idea voice notes were considered flirtatious 🤯 I don’t send them but damn it’s mind boggling
Man! Lol I’m learning this now lol I had no idea
Depends on the voice note LOL, sometimes people (women) blow things out of proportion and be assuming, and other times, folks legit be tryna shoot their shot..
Same because half the time I send or get voice notes because my hands are full and I can’t text or the person is driving and can’t text. It’s usually out of convenience and necessity vs anything flirtatious or potentially nefarious. 🫣🫢
I’ve never considered it flirting. Seems like it would depend on what you said
@@julianiwhiteI agree. I send voice notes to my family because it’s safer when driving
I don't do podcasts at all. However, when I saw Tacarra on some of your past episodes, that's when I first started watching, which then turned to binge watching. I enjoy your podcasts & your topics. Definitely gained a new subbie.
Tacarra is absolutely correct, it’s on your time. No one can tell you when you’re ready, growth is ongoing it’s a continuous journey. Also, the fact that you’re able to sit down and have these conversations give what you’ve learned, etc, no one should hold you accountable for your past, especially, when you’ve learned from it.
KEEP TACARRA ON THE PODCAST!
I love the Energy - the conversations are so 🔥
Perfect advice Tacarra! You're a good friend for him. Lots of wisdom this episode. ❤
This is the Sydney and Carra show & im here for it 😂🫶🏽
Tacarra is great at this.
At this point, this is the My Cup is full with Sydney and Tacarra. I respect her so much for keeping it 100 like she has since the first episode. Sit downs means to focus Sydney. If you don't know what areas you want to focus on, then you need a plan. Call Chris, I feel like chris is going to confirm everything tacarra said, but I don't think that's what you want sydney, especially if you don't know what's included in your sit down. YASSSS Tacarra boundaries!!!! I love this podcast❤
The podcast is helping your dating. Think of it as a filter. 😂 Tocarra gives great advice. You deserve to be your authentic self. Talk your isht! Be you. You’re dope!
Sitting down is figuring out why your ass keep attracting these type of women because it’s you … imma just keep it real . More blessings to you my brother
Aye I need more friends of all walks with mental maturity and security as Tacarra. The realist
THIS IS A GREAT EPISODE, SHE IS A GREAT FRIEND & HER ADVICE IS REAL‼️ LISTEN TO HER… YOUR PODCAST IS AMAZING & YOU GOT THIS SYDNEY‼️ CALLING SOMEONE MAMA SHOULD NOT BE AN ISSUE AT ALL AS WELL‼️
Toccarra is so real. ❤
You ain’t missed yet! Love this podcast ❤
But they are right 90 day rule, SATDOWN 😂
DoBoy onna intro? IKTR. Love the podcast Sydney
THANK YOU SO MUCH
I didn’t even catch it
I was always like these either Doboy or Mozzy. After the last ep i was like yea that's fat drake fasho
Wow had no idea that's how his music sounded. I know he's a hip hop connoisseur tho.
I didn't catch that, now I gotta rewind the episode lol
I'm over here cheering Tacara like yess ma'am! TELL HIM 😂
This is about to be a regular guest. It’s like watching a dating reality show 🤌😂
Let’s just play this on the other side what if a woman went around calling everyone daddy 🤣🤣🤣 that would be crazy 🤣🤣
Sidney really said YOU WANT MOREEEE? Yup🤣🤣Thanks for the laughs💙
Keep Tacarra in your circle for life.
Thank you Sid for your vulnerability and the ability to be open enough to receive counsel from those who you cherish.
This is my new favorite podcast!
Every episode has been gold. Please keep them coming.
SYDNEY!! lol You think : "im just flirting", They think: " He wants me to have his babies cause he called me mama" ...You just got to put it on ice sir... if you flirt with intention, state the intention. I have a flirty demeanor, and I gotta reign that shit in cause folks really think I'm into them! You are going to have to say... I'm not interested mama, I'm just a flirt... Be direct like Tacarra said.. LOL
2 episodes in one week, ALWAYS RIGHT ON TIME ⏲️ 👌🏽 👍🏽 💯
I love this podcast man. The only show to make me laugh and cry all at the same time lol. And it’s always great to see the beautiful Tacarra.
this my first time even hearing the "sit down" lol so im on the same page as Syd geezuz all these rules and regulations with just being a human these days are stressing me out. let me stay in the house lol yesssssssssssss to the MEN CHOOSE US ;) Thank you sista boo aka Tacarra we love you !
Love love love the podcast. You and Tacarra chemistry is fire, perfect for podcasting!
Love this dynamic energy 💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🫡🫡🫡
Tacarra is a lovely dynamic for the show. Enjoyin' the pod my guy.
Take it off and put it in the cabinet lmaooo
@@keycrum4218 😂😂😂😂
Y’all 2 work great together
Back to back episodes is perfect. Thanks!
Tacarra!! Idk where I’ve been but she’s so funny 🤣 I like this content
I swear yall sound like me and my friends. And double episodes give me life
Tocarra is breaking it down @19:00
I love this show!!!! 😍
What 'Carra' is saying is on point. Public peeps only share pieces & the truly intimate sides are nOt for the public.
As a therapist/mental health advocate, I’m enjoying the podcast, Sydney! Do you have any upcoming shows in Charlotte?
From the very first episode to this one, you definitely see the growth with the promos, introductions, and transitions…
Maybe I’m missing something, but I don’t see the harm in flirting. 🤷🏾♀️ I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with voice notes either. But I’ll agree that you they’re worth being mindful about. Because based on my own friends’ responses when I send them voice notes, I think there’s a level of intimacy in sending a voicenote that makes people feel special. Truly though, sometimes I just don’t feel like typing or proofreading. I’m just trying to be efficient. 💀
18:48 Update: hold a minute now. A man flirting and cooking is dinner is a whole date. And I’m quite likely to fall in love. Don’t play like that. lol
23:50 I don’t think it was the podcast itself that bothered her. I think she made an honest assessment of whether or not she was equipped or willing to support someone with Sydney’s particular set of issues, at this time. We all have issues. But not everyone’s issues can peacefully coexist. And that’s fine. It was actually mature of her to communicate rather than ghosting.
Thanks Syd! Was def missing you. Congrats on the special!🎉🎉🎉🎉 🎤
🥷 logic is hilarious!😂
So I’ve watched every podcast ep and can sincerely say this is a course changing podcast… keep doing ya thing Syd!
50k we coming 🎉
Last ep was teewww interesting thanks for sharing both of you.😘❤
this is the my cup is full of Poon Poon episode🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Sid, I love your podcast man. It's shining light maybe where folks don't want to look. Tacarra forget ole boy on t😊he East Coast. You got good prospect here in michigan.
BACK 2 BACK!!!! LFG!!!!!
Dawg really care about us 🙂↔️ ptsss 🤣😂🤣
Full Cuppers we in here hahahaha
And with the immaculate Tacarra!!!
Many blessings Black mane! Keep shining.
That's some good advice Tacarra.
I love this podcast bro!!!
Another good and uplifting conversation. Im taking notes and sitting down😂..thank you King Sydney and Queen Tacarra❤️🖤💚🙌🏾
Damn I said I was unsatisfied last ep. And you came thru filling the cup 💯
I got you! I appreciate the support.
Po it up po it up
9:11 this is the whole point to the song “half crazy” by Musiq
I feel like yesterday’s episode made people stop shipping y’all together. I also believe you staring at her with that koolaid smile after being asked “who you like right now”, threw all that progress out the window😂😂😂
aye who is that rapping on the intro??
😂first time I really paid attention to it but buddy got off no diddy
Doboy
DoBoy another comedian
Bravo!!!! 👏 👏 👏 real and great conversation 💯
Another great episode ❤❤❤❤❤
Great advice Tacarra.....
DOLCE would take care of you & never allow you to question how loved & respected you are. She did her work in the show. Respect that you're somewhere different. You are the point where ALL GOOD women begin to salivate. Thank you for pleading the blood of Jesus! The Lord is with you! Be well my king🎉! Joy is coming!
Yass, no one can make you feel any way.
I hate that I missed the Dallas show 🤦🏾♀️ ima be there for the next one
I love you two. God bless yall🎉🎉❤❤
OMG!!! That is DoBoy!!!!🙌🏾❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥
Oh, Tacarra 8 this epsiode, when she said practice a level of discipline, I knew it was going to be good.
Sydney this is dope podcast. Crazy experiences. Tacarra I missed you in DC. Hope to catch your show soon. Teezus told me you're so dope.
Love Tacarra on this topic! Talk it out. Good to have a woman’s perspective.
*questioning every voice note I’ve ever received 🤔
Two shows!!! 🎉
We Virgos are Very Passionate.
Sidney has a sexy voice by default..is what is is...!
Exactly 😂
Heyyyy you can’t help what you attract it’s what you choseeee babyyyy 😮 you said a word
Sydney is squatting not sitting down!
😂😂😂
Where is the link for the hoodie??
It’s because Sydney is handsome and in-tuned with himself.
Sydney, I think you are ready to date because you want to be married and dating is getting to know people until you find your person. Once you find your person, you can date exclusively and then pursue marriage. You do want to date now because you’re at the age where you want children too and still be able to enjoy them in your youth.❤ just don’t give your time away to time wasters you have to know exactly what you want and what you’re looking for when you see it you’ll recognize it
He makes me smile 😊
I always say you can’t say the wrong thing to the right person. If she seen or heard things that turned her off she wasn’t for you. You should be happy you found out early on then down the line. Also I learned that dating is more of learning about yourself than learning about the person. The more you date the more you learn what you do and don’t like for yourself!
I’m so mad I missed your Dallas show 😭
Let’s Gooooo!!! 🔥🔥🔥 New episode!
Virgo men, IN MY EXPERIENCE, move very fast when they like someone, like a lesbian relationship. Be moved in and married in less than 6 months 😂
All jokes aside, I sat down for over 3 yrs after ending a 8yr relationship and it really changed my habits and mindset; what I watched, what I listened to, places I went and I became soooo much stronger for it.
Sitting down weeds out the weaklings. Don't let the ones who run away get you down, its a blessing 💪🙂
I love the open conversations. I see you have more episodes but I’m not watching those if Auntie/ sister Cara is not on.
Hey Dobeezy if you see this. Just know you killed this intro 🔥🔥🔥
The more and more I watch the podcast, the more I know I don't have a chance with Sydney. Lol, I still will watch and be a fan. Lol but seriously I always walk away with something from each episode.