How To Attract Your Ex Back
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How to attract your ex back. In this video, Coach Lee guides you through the process of attracting your ex back after they broke up with you.
If you want your ex back, being attractive is extremely important since, as Coach Lee often says, a drop in attraction is what causes most breakups.
Becoming more attractive is attainable but there are several things that you need to consider and Coach Lee goes through those in this powerful video.
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Am I the only one who gets sad when his videos are over? Coach Lee always helps me feel so much better
The more time apart the one who is supposed to change more than likely would not want the other same ole person who didnt accept that a relationship is two (2) people not one and that instead of wanting to GROW together that they wanted to throw blame and judge their significant other. A tomatoes is still a tomatoes even when it's a seed or even green, lol. Relationships grow together not change apart.... That's what I think I'm probably wrong! 😬🤷
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Me 2
R.I.P
When I first broke up (it’s weird to admit this because of ego; I thought my intellect, education, rationalism altogether was almost sad to reach out to break-up coaching videos on TH-cam). Coach Lee was the first coach to help me through my hardest, most depressed and suicidal days where I was thrown into a whirlwind of primal panic and a lot of PTSD trauma.
I LOVE Coach Lee and am very grateful for his presence in my life as well as the calming deductions in his videos. However, I’m just going to be really honest here - I actually purchased the Emergency Break Up Kit and I felt a little disappointed because I feel like his multitude of videos here on TH-cam were more helpful and informative (and they’re free resources also). Once again, I LOVE Coach Lee but I think it’s not worth it to purchase the EBU Kit.
NOT BOYCOTTING (for the last time, I LOVE Coach Lee but-) Try also - Coach Craig Kenneth (and his amazing co-host Coach Margaret) here on TH-cam. (Free resources) They speak about attachment styles, childhood traumas that we unwittingly bring unto our adulthood and why we behave the way we do. They also have a lot of valuable case studies and insights.
All the best.
No contact because you don’t realize what you have until you lose it
@@brantleygilbert913 you know what you are doing is pathetic
@@THISSHOWNEEDSMORETITS i fucking hate these bots it takes away from comments that actually mean something.
45-75 day window is the highest point of separation anxiety… this information is GOLDDUST!!!
Yes, be strong between weeks 6 and 8. This is when they can't hide their feelings or stay away any longer. He messaged me on day 40.
my life has just become one big long coach lee video
facts I watch his videos every day & night. dope gothboiclique t shirt btw
Factssss lol
Yep, 8 weeks now, almost to the minute..
Same....💔
😭💀
People learn from mistakes. Show your ex the mistake he/she made and it won't happen again. That's how life works💪
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Dude if I get my ex back or not I’ve learned a lot for you man you’re best on the internet.
I used to get to sleep with headset on talking to my ex(LDR - same country, different cities. ) He was my sleeping pill. Now, I am getting to sleep still with headset on watching Coach lee's videos. They comfort me. 😁
Thank you Coach Lee! ❤️
Ms. Martian Same
Ms. Martian
I do the same. I fall asleep every night listening to Coach Lee. And again when I wake up in the middle of the night, and I cannot stop thinking about my ex and feel anxious- coach Lee and his voice calms me down. These videos have given me so much strength.
This really work out for me
I got my ex back
Same
Whoever thumbs down this video is not getting their ex back
They just face the reality
😂😂😂LMFAO!!!
Azazel it’s not a reality nobody knows what will happen
@@masondykstra9464 you can know if they break up or not they giving you signs before it happens
Why do black women have to make statements like this 😂
Time,Space,Patience ❤️❤️💯
Jim White So sorry about that, it’s really tough. Her seeing other men is cheating, I’m against that with all my being. If your unhappy tell your partner and make a choice. Best wishes for you!
@@alpha1inspectionservices I'm so sorry. It's hard but i dont think it meant to her as much as it means to you. I wish you all the happiness and i wish you get someone you absolutely deserve, and WHO DESERVES YOU. I hope the right things happen at the right time for you and for everyone who walks around with a shattered heart rn.
@@alpha1inspectionservices by the time she realizes what she did, you won't want her back.
Thank you
@@alpha1inspectionservices please let her go.
I love how you're producing new content!
Although it's a lot of the same stuff, I think it's necessary for us to hear this over and over and over to REALLY learn and stop making those mistakes!
Thanks for Savin our asses and keepin us sane in a insane situation. God bless brotha
@Ashley Victoria I see you everywhere lol
No contact is the most powerful and effective method to realise your value to someone
If everything is available people never consider as important
You absolutely right
true ,marne do saalon ko 😑😏
I'm of no value so I doubt my ex will miss me
Peachblossom.Phlox :3 😩
No contact work , although he has moved on but just today, l saw him calling n never mind him.
You saved my sanity
Got my woman back
I'm a better man... Strong... Very Strong...
Thank you Coach Lee💪💪💪💪💪❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
No contact works i was discarded few months ago I agreed with him but said that's not want I want but I have to respect your wishes I watched these videos daily and put the focus on me I am fit but stepped up the exercise from 3 times a week to daily after 8 weeks I got a text then the calls and trying to get back with me followed I am back with him now but I made him wait and he had to work hard to come back sit tight it can and does work thanks coach Lee very good videos.
Congrats
Did you end up getting back?
@@naiko6700 yes still together make them feel the loss it works.
I’m so happy for you. Are you two still together?
Everytime she pops up in my mind i always watched your video
I do the same, his videos keep me from the urge to break NC
Me too
Your videos encourage me so much, im doing no contact rule for almost two weeks, after 3 years in relationship he just broke up with me in the beginning of December, it's has been hard to not contact him as we ever talked every day.I keep watching all your videos n make me feel better n trying to working on myself, he reached out once to me asking for his stuffs, I replied very simple n polite then continue no contact rule, I know he still have feeling for me but I won't reach out until I am sure he wants me back! Or if not I will move on and be positive..🙏 thank you very much Coach Lee..I have learnt so much from you 👍❤
Yusita P wow this was me as well. 3 years and we broke up november 30th. 2 weeks no contact now and still nothing, but not worried anymore! It’s getting better.
@@rachaelskye4398 yes, it's very hard time as we still love each other, but we had some disagreements n he seem push me away, however im working on myself .I wish we can get back together again, or I move on n be a better person for next relationship, I hope you will success on your process too ❤👍
Same, i'm in NC rule for 1 week.. He messaged me 2 days ago for crazy stuff like annulment and get my stuffs at his house. :( we've been married for 2 years and currently LDR.. It's very hard for my part. I can't see him until i go home on April.. I hope everything will be okay
@@julieann8141 sorry to hear that, I hope he will back to you soon ..for me , seem like he is dating someone else now..I will focus on myself n move on..that what I can do for now ❤
@@thaiwithme8960 Update?
Coach Lee, I was dumped a week and a half ago after 1 year relationship and I straight went to 'hell' experiencing all kinds of anger, sadness, depression and self hatred. During that period I heavily relied on your video's to survive each days. However as of yesterday i just suddenly realized , I don't need him anymore, is he even worth my effort to get him back? I mean if he left me once why not again next time? I am over him. I am too good for him. So no more waiting or no more no contact. I don't care about him anymore and this feels really good. No contact helped me to self aware and my conclusion is I deserve a better man. Thank you again. Coach Lee. You are the best.
sweet sweet
Alcohol/ Their meatandmeec to make that April and since the patmenr
Update? Did you ex reach out?
Did y'all get back together?
Coach Lee it's been two months of no contact and I just want to thank you for all the comfort and reassurance you gave me. No I didn't get her back she never reached out or even tired I lost her. But I realized by losing her I found myself worth and I'll carry the lessons I've learned to my next. When I feel like I'm ready thank you for everything.
stay strong! it’s almost two months for me as well and it’s helping me find my self worth
Did she ever reach out?
@@toroinoue444 update?
Update?
@@dwightschrute8141 i’m in a new relationship and i’m so much more happier. honestly, don’t wait for your ex, you could be better.
Wow coach Lee more nuggets of wisdom. Thank you for this new video! I can't thank you enough for all you do!
Thank you coach for opening my eyes. Please keep making this kind of videos.
Everything you’re saying makes sense coach Lee! Personally, for me...it’s best to remain single and love myself most. I don’t want to give anyone the opportunity to hurt me again. I believe that I can be completely happy being alone. I have amazing kids, family and friends that always makes me smile 😊 Thank you for sharing🙏🏼
Your very pretty. Hope a good person come along your way.
Coach Lee, I can hear you for hours ...Your calm voice and your clear explanations are amazing...Love your description of the 🎂..You are right ...It's really the same 😊
coach Lee your one of my favorite coaches, your by far the best. when I'm at my lowest I click on your page and Its calming, encouraging and uplifting, everything you say be spot on, I thank you for dropping your knowledge
This guy is so good, i wish i would have watched this earlier. i watched about 5 videos in a row and its the best advice ever!
Thank you so much coach Lee for all your input, your videos help me so much, I lost 32lbs and counting, I try to keep myself busy exercising going out out, learning new stuff, but there's always that emptyness...
Yes you’re definitely right. It’s a total BS when they say “it’s not you, it’s me”. Generic lines!!
Coach Lee's hair is on point in this video!!🥰
Yes!!
@Coach Lee- thank you so much for your videos. Your strategies work 100%👏👏👏 I went on radio silent for over two months and things have worked.
I welcome and thank you for the analogy. Makes sense. I appreciate you, Coach Lee. 😘
“It’s not you, it’s me” was actually his transition to another woman. But after I realized (thanks to you Coach Lee) that he has NPD.
Coach Lee, You are absolutely correct, I went no contact and I am working on myself along with reducing my stress less, but at the end of the day, my attraction dropped for him and it began with my loss of emotional and mental attraction to him, He was a narcist!!! I loved your video, keep up the great work!!!
Beautiful everything you mentioned was spot-on thank you for just being on TH-cam you would definitely help me through my journey
This is my new favorite video from Coach Lee. It’s so spot on to why breakups happen and the part that each person plays. Another video with hard hitting truths and great insight!
Just simply go no contact and focus on self development* BOOM months later ex reach out and see you've change now you guys are back together
she reached out and it was the same of remorse of her I didn't say anything needy or anything I was just like yea she has to put in work and I was acting shy know I see her in tinder 5 months of no contact any advice it's been 3 weeks of NC again
@@valentineterni1697 just focus on yourself be the best version. I have another suggestion wait 7 days then reach to her and don't discuss about the relationship just flirt with her and set a date to meet up
@@EJayyDreadHead u think she will chase?
@@valentineterni1697 yes but just be respectful and plan a date to meet up with her give it 7 days max and reach out
@@EJayyDreadHead oh ok fshw
Thank you coach lee, everytime I'm not sure about what I feel, I just watch your videos, It gave me clearer vision. Thank you!!
You truly are the best and you soothe my withering soul thank you 🙏🏼
Omg I now fully understand the lyrics to “Enjoy the Silence” by Depeche Mode. Lol Thanks again Coach!
I love the longer videos. I have listened to all of them- over and over. Although my ex has been in another relationship for 6 months.... these videos have gotten me through this and -no doubt - given ME strength.
update?
For me we i watch coach lee videos makes me rational an decrease the emotional madness.. talks to the common sense.. works for me👍🏻
This what we call right advice from the right person your really outstanding.
Your hair looks so great in this video, I'm a bit of a hair enthusiast and your hair looks great like this! Random but yeah, great haircut. 👌
My favorite video of yours. I’ve watched all of them and have helped me tremendously. Thank you! Now we’re talking after a couple months, still unsure, but I am baking that cake! Listen to him y’all! He knows his stuff.
Update?
He is amazing. I watch his videos every night until I fall sleep.
He's real good. Everything he said is real. Thanks it explained everything.
Your hair looks so good!
I like how he always has hope in his coaching In every situation with relationships
Thanks, Coach Lee. I really get a lot of hope and learn much from you as well. Please let me know when I can arrange a session with you. I know this woman is worth it.
Dear Coach Lee. I've started watchig your videos almost exactly one your ago. I thought that I will not survive this pain. I knew he wasn't honest with me. I knew we should not continue our secret relationship
but I was also terrified that I would be alone.
Finally I made decision and I broke off contact
with him. He hasn't even tried to make contact for a year since. I' m proud of myself that I manage to go through it and that I'm fighting for myself.
I'm so much stronger because of your advices! Thank you so much.
Coach Lee,
I’ve just came across your videos, and wow oh wow. You have put things is such an easier perspective for me! I’ve just been dumped a week ago & everything was beautiful in our relationship. He just felt like he lost the affection for me & didn’t love me like he did at first. Never once, did anything go wrong in our relationship. I’m hoping for the best & that he does come back! I will try to update, but this video honestly helped me to calm down and just give him room to breathe, since we were together every single day! Thank you so much for this lovely advice!
Did you get them back?
Your the man Chris, I went through a bad time, well times in my life, having to have to quit work, judo, due to many personal things. I hit the booze hard and now I'm soberish, I wernt a alcoholic, but had a bad experience. I'm back in work, we miss eachother, I'm just following your instructions, as I love her. Wish me luck
This man gives the BESR advice ever - seriously just found these vids - realizing how precise he is.
Coach Lee, I have decided during no contact that actually I'm worth more. My ex is a classic Narc and wouldn't even need a diagnosis. Went days without randomly not talking to me, making me feel very low, blaming his depression for his behaviour etc. Always really mean to people making comments, striving to be better than everyone else. Had a big thing about famous people, always bragging about those he had met as he was a bouncer for 11 years. I've met someone else who is actually normal and respects me and we have much more in common. If my ex does return after no contact I'm definitely showing him the door. Anyone out there who has any doubt about getting their ex back for the same reasons, you are worth more and there is definitely someone else out there for you who can make you a million times happier xx
This hairstyle suits you very much...
Thank you Sir, I'm really learning alot from you and I must say you're looking great 😊🙏🙏🙏
Wow! This video really spoke to me! Thank you so much
You are so attractive coach Lee :D
Always look forward to your videos Coach Lee. They are def helping me, 43 days of no contact and also being blocked. I do feel like I've actually become a better person and realized the mistakes I've made and becoming better not bitter so thank you Coach Lee you are appreciated!! ☺
Update?
Did they ever unblock you?
@@paul8513 don't care anymore haha I moved on and now in a relationship with someone who treats me like a QUEEN! 😊❤️❤️❤️
@@MiSSKBG88 so glad to hear that!
@@paul8513 thank you!
Hi coach lee. Your videos are spot on. The advice is great. Can you do a video on how to get your ex back if you dont see them or go to the same places? Thank you x
😂😂😂 All bs excuses where used on me since I was countering back almost left him without excuses until the phrase I love you but not in love with you...what does that mean I reply... I care about you he meant and then all Coach lee mentioned on his video came true, it a shame I watch his videos like 8 months after. Though I dont feel like getting my ex back (mix feelings) I feel at peace, Im in love of my solitude, been with myself is effortless. Coach Lee videos are like ancient knowledge that you need to know to build better relationships.
Your videos have helped me realize I’m better off with out her... keep making videos man you know your stuff
Thanks for getting me thru a hard time
Already liked the video before watching it.
I always agree to your videos 👌
It has been well over the 45 day mark. We’re talking double that amount of time. My ex past the mark and she’s going to miss out. Thank you for your videos and being there, Coach. Life is getting better every day and my attitude is improving every day.
16:30
update
Did she reach out
Another enlightening video. Problem is I think I’m getting addicted to your videos, Coach Lee.Any advice for us who can’t stop listening to you?
Tara brac- letting go, or R.A.I.N Mindfulness
I like your new hair!..I wrote this when I first started the video. Then, watching it you mention about getting a new hair cut! My compliment was not related at all to your comment during the video It just is a good look for you!
Hard truth... Beautifully said... Thank You 😊 🙏
Your videos have really been getting me through 😔 1 month NC
Any update?
Everything you say is so true ....I am experiencing it
Thank you Coach Lee! You keep me going. I am truly hope that I will get the love of my life back. Your videos have taught me so much. I am hoping we get back together for now ...I am in NC..
Update?
This guy is good. He's nailed my post break up behaviour and it makes me cringe to think I've been a text book douche
I'm so grateful for you. At 54 in the dating world.... man oh man. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. It is definately a source of hope and comfort.
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Coach Lee, I just can't get over the fact that you look like one of the guys from ABBA. :)
Bro you’re the best And I don’t say that often to ppl
Thank You Sir.Your explanation is great.💓💓
i swear I use your videos to fall asleep
1. By time,
2. Indeed, mankind is in loss,
4. Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and patience.
im so happy that this guy exist
its amazing i wish i had seen your videos before ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Was literally watching this. This is day 4 of our no contact and he texted me!!
I understand the whole no contact thing and you give very great advice. In my opinion if someone do no contact for 2 or 3 months, they will be right back seeking advice on how to get their ex back that is now in a rebound relationship because the ex will be in a vulnerable state of mind, plus their friends and family will be convincing them to move on. Then you will have to go into no contact again because they are now in a rebound relationship and maybe less attracted to you due to being in a rebound relationship. I could be wrong just my vision
It could happen but anything can happen in life but I will say this begging and pleading isn't going to help at all
Thank you so much for these spot on, inspirational videos.
My question is do these strategies, (no contact for example) work on an ex boyfriend who has been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder? People say just move on he has BPD, but he's still a human being I love who deserves love in my opinion.
Thank you so much coach Lee am really grateful not there yet but I can feel myself being me knowing myself
You're 😍 cute.
if I never get him back, so be it, but I am learning so much about me and what I can do for my own benefit for the future
Amazing how on the nose this is. At day 48 of NC my ex finally reached out. Pretty much exactly in line with what coach Lee said. Just goes to show, even if you're skeptical, this process pushes all the right psychological buttons to get the best chance at good results.
Today is day 42 for me and I pray to god I too can hear from him on day 48. But I doubt it. I’m
Losing hope by the day and it’s heart breaking. I see him on ig liking girls’ bikini ass boobs pictures.
congrads
Hey coach Lee! Love your videos, its helped me get through my breakup. Me and my ex broke up “mutually” about a month ago.. i say mutually because she initiated it but i played it cool, and although i was upset, i didn’t show it... i stuck to no contact and worked on myself. About 5 days ago she sent me a snapchat message at about midnight, i opened the message the next day and saw that she had deleted the message. She then sent me another message the same day but all she said in the text was my name... Literally just my first name. I havent replied because i didn’t feel it was necessary. Also, (she never usually posts on her story) but she posted on her snapchat a video of her on a ‘date night’ but i knew it was her and one of her girls because i know the other girl and i also saw it on her story. I havent reacted to anything she has done, i havent posted on my story either to try and make her jealous or anything. Ive just kept my personal life a secret. Any advice on what this could mean?
Elizaberth Thomos thanks. Any advice?
Coach Lee -Does the 45-day separation anxiety rule apply to a short-term relationship of a healthy, happy & intense connection of four months? Or is duration shorter? Thank you for these video's!
Coach Lee, this is so helpful. I know now that my wife will be attracted to me again. I have been watching your videos since the day she told me she does not love me any more. I have followed your advice all the way. I know she is curious of me now, I know she wants me to contact her. I also know from this video I still have to be cool and relaxed about it. And I also know that this will make our relationship better. I have watched all your videos, and this one is one of the best. The thing I am curious about now is emotional attraction, and how to make it last. Please make a video about that topic. And thanks, you have been my best friend the last week. :-)
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I'm not going backwards I'm not going back I'm,good .god bless u sir
U can do it trust me walking away and letting go of my ex is the hardest thing i ever done its been 2 months im feeling relieved
I would like coach Lee to do more in depth on rebound monkrybranch relationships. Getting your ex back. And from long term relationships that were generally good. We both 56. Still can't believe someone could do this. Just wow!
Coach lee u something else god bless u .U said the 🎂 cake monster time got to be patient .⛪⛪💝💝🎁🎁🎁🎁
Bruh I need these, only if I found these earlier
God bless you sir .you are so right people are so desperate and selfish that's why ,I keep,the lord number one in,my life 💒💒💒⛪⛪⛪⛪💝💝💝
He knows his stuff
I love you Coach Lee
She gave me the "I'm focused on work and study" rap.
sameeeeeee. What you planning to do about it?
That is a very typical NC situation. Happens all the time.
"And I'm more focused on family right now" Says just before jumping into a relationship with a new guy
So I’m just over 3 weeks in NC - my worry at present is will I be able to forgive my ex for breaking up with me? It’s bold to say “forgive”, because most of the time if you are successful to re-attract your ex, it means that you have seen their decision as something that is their problem and not in your control, so it’s easier to move past it and start again - but I have started wondering if I’ll ever be able to forget how the break up has made me feel 🤔
Dale, you have to. If you want her back she needs to be attracted to you. With anger and resentment she will not. What you can do is ask her what she has learnt from this, and also set some new standards. If you want her back, your only focus should be your own emotional attraction.
Over time you will be able to forgive her ... give it time the anger goes away
I have been thinking this too
Update?
It’s a personal thing. I feel the same way. We all get to decide how we want to be treated.
This is a great video, especially on the vague reasons which means you feel left bereft and confused for the relationship ending. My ex broke up with me six months ago and never told me that she was seeing someone else. We were good together so I've no idea what happened. Does no contact work to get an ex back (rather than just recovering-although recovery is good), when they left you for some flashier older guy?
Man 👨 Coach Lee is the best for a reason
God bless you .