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I used to be a successful freelancer before, I gave my 110% in that. Now, I am in depression because I am not doing well at all. I gave my 100% in my first relationship, that ended up in a miserable break-up which affected my mental health tremendously. Guys, never give your 100% in anything, because if that fails, you will suffer 1000%. Important life lesson this is. Thank you Amit Sir.
Sir, Not only your Videos are awesome, people commenting on your videos with their realisation and their thinking is also enriching. People are calling you guru, Gurudev and other adjectives because they are getting that soul fulfilling solutions through your videos. Keep enlightening our path. I hear you daily.
I completely agree to you Amitji. Better to be Mediocre. Best example is Amir Khan - Amir give 100% to career but other side, He is 2 time divorcee (NOT A GOOD HUSBAND) his daughter is in depression from age 18-24 (amir khan is not aware) - NOT A GOOD FATHER His brother is jobless and mentally tired person because of X reason - NOT A GOOD BROTHER.
He meant being medicore ( 75/100/) in 8 -9 things in life. He is 100% only in his career . He is not even average in his other aspects of life. Moreover he said he is not talking about Big people. This channel is for middle class
You are absolutely correct but very difficult for a working woman in our society. Office mange100/. Husband mange well managed home , mummy jaisa tasty food with cheerful mood. Children need your full attention for their carrier. Elder mother always in bad mood because you are not giving her time. After a certain age your health also need attention. End result you don’t have any time for yourself. 😢
As he said, their expectations will change automatically over time. Yes, they will not like it initially, but will adjust to it. I see this issue very constantly with women in my own house. They want to score 10/10 in all areas. Don't do it. Get time for yourself
i have been thinking the same thing lately ...that being too much ambitious about having a so called perfect life is taking a toll on my happiness n mental peace . thankyou for your reinforcement
Ok sir bilkul ab poora dhayaan rakkha jayega. 100% nahi dena hai har jagah.. kash ye vdo 10 years pehle aa jata😢. Tab aise samjhane wala koi ni tha.. but ab thik chal rahi h life. Thode hard decision lene pade. Apni happy life k liye.. 😊 thanks a lot 🎉
Totally relatable. I have done this for long time. Tried to give 100 percnt every where beyond my capacity and now don't want to continue those things. Thank you for the clarity.
People who are watching you in their 20's and 30's are so lucky. They will benefit so much from the wisdom imparted by you I have mostly followed these rules and have been successful.
Excellent video 🙏 I have always argued that nothing is wrong in being mediocre! As long as u r happy doing whatever u r and maintaining a good standard of living why bother about what others say?? Believe me I have fought for such average people all my life ! Some people understood me and many didn't because of social compulsions. I was severely criticized for not being ambitious. But I continued leading a simple and a happy life and my husband too is like me. My son too is not very ambitious but doing well. He too is happy with his wife. No matter what we do we must be happy and contented in life. Otherwise whatever u achieve will be useless. But I know majority is not with me. Most of them want to excel and become number one !!Hope ur video will change their minds!!
👏. nothing is perfect in life..each person has limitations..the final objective is to be happy by balancing and trying to optimize..this lies in the middle path the true concept of Buddhism..excesses lead to imbalance..aim to please the soul more than body for lasting happiness. 🤔
He doesn't say that u don't have to excel as a student....he says once u r a family man u have so many roles to perform. And there occurs conflict....coz here one area can be excelled at the cost of another and that is not advisable, so being a family person one has to take care of many areas at the same time, then we can make an average of our performance in every role and can do justice to many things at the same time without compromising on any area.
You are right I was very ambitious and burned out early only to realise it was waste of life as to excel you need genetic potential, great luck, big contacts and strong finance along with good looks.
I agree very much with this. Even as a student, giving just 100 to your acads, you miss out on extra currics, friends, and the overall enjoyment. What use is your 9.5 cpi like this? Attending college everyday and exhausting yourself My overall chill life of getting 8.5-8.8cpi, causally taking holidays if wanted, Kutch Kutch farak nahi padta Overall khushi rehti hai Gg
Good video sir Ji.very realistic. My percentage in senior school was 76 and BTech it was 76% 😊. I thoroughly enjoyed studies and landed a good job from campus. In early professional years I was at 95% and less on health and family, but it paid handsomly. Now I have built up good corpus and prefer to go easy at my job. I am focusing in health family sports and finances. In corporate world you might be tagged as laid back but when you are intellectual, financially satisfied, others' perception about you don't matter much. stay humble, keep balance in life. Thank you for wonderful video.
सरजी इतने साल कहा थे आप?? बड़ी देर से मिले हो। खैर मिले हो यही बड़ी बात है। हमारे सरजी का चैनल जल्द ही बड़ी ऊंचाई पर जायेगा विश्वास है।। Love you Sirji ❤
Sir really loved this video.. Sukoon mila sahi mai isse sun kar.. Aisa maal aapki dukaan pe hi mil skta hai , kahi aur nahi .. Thank u so much ! So mmuch thoughtful and creative ! Salute to you..
That's a great video. Managing expectation is very important. I had heard about it in professional life. But I never knew it can be applied to every aspect of life in this way. Set lower expectation, such that people will get a "pleasant surprise" when you give more or perform higher. Giving 100 percent in the first place, getting burn out and despite this, listen to everyone's complaints will get us into a vicious cycle of "burning out" from which there is no escape. We should plan to show some "scope of improvement" in advance.
This video came as a relief! Where we strugglea to become best. I am a mother, running my small business and other things too. I struggle because to make one thing amazing some other thing goes bad and i feel guilty. I am happy that i have to run my own race now. Bahut, clarity mili.
🙏🙏🙏 Sir aap mn ki bat jan lete h mai aaj subh hi mhsoos kr rhi thi ki mai ek cheej pe bhut focus kr rhi hu or baki cheeje chhoot rhi h, fir maine sbko balance krne ka socha bt vo aasan nhi lg rha tha, or aapke es video ne meri problem solve kr li thank you sir 🙏
Acc to charak Samhita The limit for exercise should be below fifty percent of your maximum strength(Bala) I knw guruji is averse to references but i found this reference too relevant to this video so couldn’t resist typing!!!😇
Sir , yours videos are always awesome. Life is nothing but managing time & energy between yours family, office, friends , relatives etc and that can only be achieved as effectively explained by yourself @ 75-80%👍👌👏🙏
Sir , you really give the article solutions of the real-life problems. Not only that seeing you I also think to become a counsellor in order to help the world and the people who need some suggestion and are stuck in some dilemma. This is very first time when I really realise that a person can help the word a lot without becoming a doctor or scientist. This is very first time in my life when I have come to know the value of a real counselor. Thanks a lot, sir.
That’s what he said, you can’t give 100% on everything, to cover many thing’s to have fulfilling life, you will be at 75 % but will achive more in life. By expanding horizontally more
Sir....u r excellent....can't express 8n words......I felt myself stuck in this big trap and expectations and crisis of how much time n energy to allocate and when to allocate to which area.....it is very clear cut understanding which u give us so easily.....thanks a lot sir !!
Without putting it this way, I have found to be more successful in endeavours where I chose to operate in the "60-80%" category, with the focus on doing just about enough so I dont hesitate to do it again tomorrow....with consistency, again and again and again. Endeavours where I operated at 90-95%, it was for very short period. Good results in the short time frame, but no magic of compounded efforts over long periods of time.
Maine amit ji k kafi videos dekhe hai last 2-3 months may. Ek theme dhire dhire samaj may ane lagi hai. Ye wala video linked hai woh iit iim wale brain juice k examples se. His overall message is life is like a marathon aur sprint ka culture ho chuka hai aaj kal. Academics may top marks k liye, job may promotion ya package k liye. Apne aap ko pace karna jyada jaruri hai. Jyada tezi se bhagoge toh thak kar ruk jaoge. Meri hobby jogging hai aur maine 21k max run kiye hai. Toh ye abstract idea samaj sakta hu may running se relate karke.
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Please make a video on adoption
Make a video on career choice
Work life
Sir please make video on how to choose a good career
Mid life crisis
I used to be a successful freelancer before, I gave my 110% in that. Now, I am in depression because I am not doing well at all. I gave my 100% in my first relationship, that ended up in a miserable break-up which affected my mental health tremendously. Guys, never give your 100% in anything, because if that fails, you will suffer 1000%. Important life lesson this is. Thank you Amit Sir.
Sad
Why is your freelancing isn't working?
Why dont u try going to Bageshwar Dham? Maybe u will find peace
@@Vladimirprotein09what??🤣🤣
Sir,i literally start dancing after watching this video,,and feel so much light..bcz har chiz me 100% dena bhit torcher hai khud ko..
Sir, Not only your Videos are awesome, people commenting on your videos with their realisation and their thinking is also enriching. People are calling you guru, Gurudev and other adjectives because they are getting that soul fulfilling solutions through your videos. Keep enlightening our path. I hear you daily.
Comments are also equally helpful on every video on this channel
I completely agree to you Amitji. Better to be Mediocre. Best example is Amir Khan -
Amir give 100% to career but other side,
He is 2 time divorcee (NOT A GOOD HUSBAND)
his daughter is in depression from age 18-24 (amir khan is not aware) - NOT A GOOD FATHER
His brother is jobless and mentally tired person because of X reason - NOT A GOOD BROTHER.
He meant being medicore ( 75/100/) in 8 -9 things in life. He is 100% only in his career . He is not even average in his other aspects of life. Moreover he said he is not talking about Big people. This channel is for middle class
Uncle ji ka gyan bhumulya hai
You are absolutely correct but very difficult for a working woman in our society. Office mange100/. Husband mange well managed home , mummy jaisa tasty food with cheerful mood. Children need your full attention for their carrier. Elder mother always in bad mood because you are not giving her time. After a certain age your health also need attention. End result you don’t have any time for yourself. 😢
As he said, their expectations will change automatically over time. Yes, they will not like it initially, but will adjust to it. I see this issue very constantly with women in my own house. They want to score 10/10 in all areas. Don't do it. Get time for yourself
i have been thinking the same thing lately ...that being too much ambitious about having a so called perfect life is taking a toll on my happiness n mental peace .
thankyou for your reinforcement
Ok sir bilkul ab poora dhayaan rakkha jayega. 100% nahi dena hai har jagah.. kash ye vdo 10 years pehle aa jata😢. Tab aise samjhane wala koi ni tha.. but ab thik chal rahi h life. Thode hard decision lene pade. Apni happy life k liye.. 😊 thanks a lot 🎉
100% right sir, this video is applicable to 98% , rest 2% are exceptions
what a clarity sirji...Maneuver envelope....thats what i define my current being to be...family, career, friends hobbies health
Jai Ho Prabhu 🙏 you are really a Guru in peoples lives. May god bless you with health wealth and long life Sir.
Totally relatable. I have done this for long time. Tried to give 100 percnt every where beyond my capacity and now don't want to continue those things. Thank you for the clarity.
People who are watching you in their 20's and 30's are so lucky. They will benefit so much from the wisdom imparted by you
I have mostly followed these rules and have been successful.
Excellent video 🙏 I have always argued that nothing is wrong in being mediocre! As long as u r happy doing whatever u r and maintaining a good standard of living why bother about what others say?? Believe me I have fought for such average people all my life ! Some people understood me and many didn't because of social compulsions. I was severely criticized for not being ambitious. But I continued leading a simple and a happy life and my husband too is like me. My son too is not very ambitious but doing well. He too is happy with his wife. No matter what we do we must be happy and contented in life. Otherwise whatever u achieve will be useless. But I know majority is not with me. Most of them want to excel and become number one !!Hope ur video will change their minds!!
👏. nothing is perfect in life..each person has limitations..the final objective is to be happy by balancing and trying to optimize..this lies in the middle path the true concept of Buddhism..excesses lead to imbalance..aim to please the soul more than body for lasting happiness. 🤔
He doesn't say that u don't have to excel as a student....he says once u r a family man u have so many roles to perform. And there occurs conflict....coz here one area can be excelled at the cost of another and that is not advisable, so being a family person one has to take care of many areas at the same time, then we can make an average of our performance in every role and can do justice to many things at the same time without compromising on any area.
❤❤🪔🪔
You are right I was very ambitious and burned out early only to realise it was waste of life as to excel you need genetic potential, great luck, big contacts and strong finance along with good looks.
I agree very much with this. Even as a student, giving just 100 to your acads, you miss out on extra currics, friends, and the overall enjoyment. What use is your 9.5 cpi like this?
Attending college everyday and exhausting yourself
My overall chill life of getting 8.5-8.8cpi, causally taking holidays if wanted, Kutch Kutch farak nahi padta
Overall khushi rehti hai
Gg
Bhai 6-7 bhi chale jaaye but the thing is you should know certain skills relevant to your job.
Maze karo bhai, exactly.
Unparalleled clarity of thought. I will definitely implement this.. achieving at least 75-80%
Good video sir Ji.very realistic.
My percentage in senior school was 76 and BTech it was 76% 😊. I thoroughly enjoyed studies and landed a good job from campus. In early professional years I was at 95% and less on health and family, but it paid handsomly. Now I have built up good corpus and prefer to go easy at my job. I am focusing in health family sports and finances. In corporate world you might be tagged as laid back but when you are intellectual, financially satisfied, others' perception about you don't matter much. stay humble, keep balance in life. Thank you for wonderful video.
You are very smart 😊
सरजी इतने साल कहा थे आप?? बड़ी देर से मिले हो। खैर मिले हो यही बड़ी बात है। हमारे सरजी का चैनल जल्द ही बड़ी ऊंचाई पर जायेगा विश्वास है।। Love you Sirji ❤
Amit sir ji gurudev ko bahut bahut pranaam.🌹
Sir really loved this video.. Sukoon mila sahi mai isse sun kar.. Aisa maal aapki dukaan pe hi mil skta hai , kahi aur nahi .. Thank u so much ! So mmuch thoughtful and creative ! Salute to you..
You are genius sir. This is also my philosophy of life. I say myself let's be in top 25% in many area , rather than top in single area of life
That's a great video. Managing expectation is very important. I had heard about it in professional life. But I never knew it can be applied to every aspect of life in this way. Set lower expectation, such that people will get a "pleasant surprise" when you give more or perform higher. Giving 100 percent in the first place, getting burn out and despite this, listen to everyone's complaints will get us into a vicious cycle of "burning out" from which there is no escape. We should plan to show some "scope of improvement" in advance.
Bhut shi video hai. 100% agree. Gives all sort of mental relief. Life is not only about stuggle and stress but relief and joy also.
Maine balanced life kar liya hain as of now reached 55 .n living a relaxed fulfilling life. Thank u sir 🙏
Excellent video and good clarification on how to stop yourself from being burnt out
Offices and family demands are sucking life out of most people. 😢
Family should be top priority 😊
This video came as a relief! Where we strugglea to become best. I am a mother, running my small business and other things too. I struggle because to make one thing amazing some other thing goes bad and i feel guilty. I am happy that i have to run my own race now. Bahut, clarity mili.
Me too same position
thank you sir ,u r amazing ,,,
my husband says you - my online Sasurji
love from Kathmandu
Bhut shi sir 🙏🙏🙏ye sb baate hm hmesha sochte the...
🙏🙏🙏
Sir aap mn ki bat jan lete h mai aaj subh hi mhsoos kr rhi thi ki mai ek cheej pe bhut focus kr rhi hu or baki cheeje chhoot rhi h, fir maine sbko balance krne ka socha bt vo aasan nhi lg rha tha, or aapke es video ne meri problem solve kr li thank you sir 🙏
Acc to charak Samhita
The limit for exercise should be below fifty percent of your maximum strength(Bala)
I knw guruji is averse to references but i found this reference too relevant to this video so couldn’t resist typing!!!😇
Everyday one hour exercise or yoga is enough
Awesome video🙏 I completed agree with your thoughts.
सांगवान साहब के ज्ञान की गंगा बह चली है आओ भाई यो डुबकी लगाएं
Itna kabhi socha hi nhi sir...... Thanku sir for this perspective 💙💙💙
A video on work-life balance would be truly valuable.
Yiu are an Excellent Adviser. Thank you, guruji 🙏
Guruji ki jai 🙏🏻
Pleasure listening to you as always..
Liked your aeroplane examples.....It's in the blood and does show up sometime...
God speed
Thanks, Sirji 🙏🏻
I Am😴😊🎉 Winner🏆🎉🏆 Yes Sir 🙇Pray For Me including🌍World🕯 People Amen🙌 Hallelujah, Amen, Amen. Dhanyavaad Saheb.
One of my cousins prayed to her parents after becoming top in matric plz don't expect in future classes. I am tired to become top
This is exactly what we wanted.Thank you sir.
God bless you aap bahut acha samjhate ho
you are the best Guruji !!!!!
Yes,time and energy is limited 😊
Work life video plz
Yes sir aapne ekdum sahi bola
You detail out complex topics in a very realistic manner. These kinds of things and topics are very much helpful for all age audiences
U r an angel in my life!!! U make me feel good about myself!!
thank you for the video Sango ji
Every video I watch just couldn't resist myself from commenting, very useful n utilising 15 minutes 🙏
I have been following this in my life for many years. Golden advice 👏🏿
The crux being how to maintain a balanced attitude in various aspects of life. Very nice video Sir. Need of the hour video.
Sir , yours videos are always awesome. Life is nothing but managing time & energy between yours family, office, friends , relatives etc and that can only be achieved as effectively explained by yourself @ 75-80%👍👌👏🙏
Aapke video Ek particular level ka vyakti hi samajh sakta hai your video and openion are great
Mind blowing video......
Sir , you really give the article solutions of the real-life problems. Not only that seeing you I also think to become a counsellor in order to help the world and the people who need some suggestion and are stuck in some dilemma. This is very first time when I really realise that a person can help the word a lot without becoming a doctor or scientist. This is very first time in my life when I have come to know the value of a real counselor. Thanks a lot, sir.
this was a much needed video. sare jagah se dots connect ho rahe hain. kab-kaha-kitna-karna hai woh malum chal gaya.
Very true said sir I also believe in good luck with work
Definition of being mediocre is subjective.. At the end matters whether you are happy satisfied by your life or not.. That's should be the goal..
That’s what he said, you can’t give 100% on everything, to cover many thing’s to have fulfilling life, you will be at 75 % but will achive more in life. By expanding horizontally more
@@James-Bond-007_to kisko assign kar rakhe hai batanne ke liye😂
@@James-Bond-007_ha toh likha hai na subjective. Dikhta nhi kya?
Kaash aap k jaisa koi life me pehle koi hota jo guide karta.... I always cursed myself being mediocre.... Now I am proud of myself!!!!
Work Life 🙌
Great must watch video, it shouldnt reach to many people for personal gain
Solid clarity
Agree. This is how I have also stayed happy this far in life
Beautiful thought Guruji
Life's different aspects are shared by you. These videos are enriching sir👍👍👍
this is such a wonderful session sango ji, it's an eye opener for all those who are willing to listen to you with an open mind.
Very good 👍
Sir....u r excellent....can't express 8n words......I felt myself stuck in this big trap and expectations and crisis of how much time n energy to allocate and when to allocate to which area.....it is very clear cut understanding which u give us so easily.....thanks a lot sir !!
Best advice thanks
Very useful video. Message conveyed beautifully...
Awesome!!
Need work-life.
Thank you sir
पृणाम सर जी🙏 best समझ आ गया
Without putting it this way, I have found to be more successful in endeavours where I chose to operate in the "60-80%" category, with the focus on doing just about enough so I dont hesitate to do it again tomorrow....with consistency, again and again and again.
Endeavours where I operated at 90-95%, it was for very short period. Good results in the short time frame, but no magic of compounded efforts over long periods of time.
Wah bilkul naya concept.awasome
Thanks for the thaught
Sir dark colour suits u alot. 🙏🙏🙏. Sir urs 80 or 75 percent line concept is very good. Now life is little easy to live by doing these advice 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Nice concept. Thank you sir.
Bahut badhiya guruji.maza aa gaya.👌👌
I am feeling very thankful to see this video and understand the thought at this young age.
Marvelous topic. Very thought full. Love you sir.
Maine amit ji k kafi videos dekhe hai last 2-3 months may.
Ek theme dhire dhire samaj may ane lagi hai. Ye wala video linked hai woh iit iim wale brain juice k examples se.
His overall message is life is like a marathon aur sprint ka culture ho chuka hai aaj kal. Academics may top marks k liye, job may promotion ya package k liye.
Apne aap ko pace karna jyada jaruri hai. Jyada tezi se bhagoge toh thak kar ruk jaoge. Meri hobby jogging hai aur maine 21k max run kiye hai. Toh ye abstract idea samaj sakta hu may running se relate karke.
Thanku so much sir ❤❤video bhut helpful h
Mid life crisis and work life balance pe please video banaiye sir. Kuch naya sikhne ko milega
Very nice concept of life. ❤
Awesome video.
Sir, excellent higher order and provoking discussion.
Very nice concepts
You’re absolutely right
The Maverick!! 🤝
🙏Phaji
Right Sir ji, all aspects of life are important.
Very nice video
Thankyou guruji 🙏🏻 waiting for nakshatra course to start 🎉
Real pilot sharing his secrets😊
Mazaa aa gaya Sir... Superrr clarity
Sir ye apne caryminati wala example badhiya diya. Or video to apke shandar jaandar hote hi hai👍🏼
Lovely video. A useful perspective explained beautifully. Thought provoking!
Big salute to you sir 🙏