Some of the guilt heaped upon addicts by the Church is truly staggering! Some will say if you're feeling the urge you're already sinning, and you are responsible to have "custody of your thoughts", so struggling with intrusive thoughts are your fault! 😱🥺
I'm literally crying right now because of how hopeless I've felt about this and how much I've hated myself because of this struggle. I'm crying because I just feel like somehow there is hope after watching this. And somehow I can stop thinking of myself with so much hatred for the pain this has caused my wife and the struggle it's been in my life.
Best way to describe pcrn is a sand castle versus a real home/real architecture. I’d say for women/girls pcrn is not as damaging since we don’t have ere
I would like to understand what sex positivity looks like for a man? Currently, and from what we see in society, sex positivity has nothing to do with men when people mention this. It is often used to justify sexual promiscuity and sexless relationships... as long as it is not coming from a man's perspective.
Sex positivity as a man is totally fine, if you're not white hetero cis-male. If that's you, then you're toxic no matter what. Well, if you tattoo a rainbow to your forehead then you're maybe passing.
It depends. In churches even lgbtq ones it's no shame or guilting people about sex. And a push for monogamous relationships that involve sex in a married relationship.
People need to accept that you do not need sex or society's validation. You will become stronger.
Great advice. Much needed today.
The problem is it is freely available to everyone and anyone sooner they get rid of it the better
Would love to hear an episode about celibacy
Anyone who enters this field will eventually regret it and this is normal
I certainly don't need the validation of religious busybodies who try to tell people what they can and cannot watch.
I feel stronger already!
Some of the guilt heaped upon addicts by the Church is truly staggering! Some will say if you're feeling the urge you're already sinning, and you are responsible to have "custody of your thoughts", so struggling with intrusive thoughts are your fault! 😱🥺
I'm literally crying right now because of how hopeless I've felt about this and how much I've hated myself because of this struggle. I'm crying because I just feel like somehow there is hope after watching this. And somehow I can stop thinking of myself with so much hatred for the pain this has caused my wife and the struggle it's been in my life.
Best way to describe pcrn is a sand castle versus a real home/real architecture. I’d say for women/girls pcrn is not as damaging since we don’t have ere
I would like to understand what sex positivity looks like for a man?
Currently, and from what we see in society, sex positivity has nothing to do with men when people mention this. It is often used to justify sexual promiscuity and sexless relationships... as long as it is not coming from a man's perspective.
Sex positivity as a man is totally fine, if you're not white hetero cis-male. If that's you, then you're toxic no matter what. Well, if you tattoo a rainbow to your forehead then you're maybe passing.
It depends. In churches even lgbtq ones it's no shame or guilting people about sex. And a push for monogamous relationships that involve sex in a married relationship.
Great talk thans for this i like that not an on off switch but a journey.
this is SOOO TUFFF somebody has got to bee like me emotions..