BUSLIFE to escape my homophobic family
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00:00-00:41 Introduction
00:41-01:22 My Childhood
01:22-02:01 Fighting with my Family
02:01-02:57 Coming Out to my mom
02:57-03:47 My Homophobic Family
03:47-04:57 Building A Fire
04:57-05:29 Hate Comments
05:29-07:19 Navigating a Homophobic Family
07:19-07:50 Van Build Progress
07:50-09:47 Installing Roof Rack
09:47-10:47 Importance of Community
10:47-11:01 Sending You Love
#vanlife #travel #buslife #busconversion #nomad #lgbtq #wlw #queer #pride #lgbtqrelationship #lesbianrelationship #couplegoals #vanconversion #vanbuild
Live your life to make you happy. With no regrets. Be safe have a great day
You & Tori are kind, beautiful, fun & adventurous travellers, rock climbers, van dwellers and passionate advocates for all animals.❤ That’s what stands out to me.
If ignorant, close-minded people can’t see past your sexuality that’s their problem!
Thank you so much Gabriella 🫶🏽
She exaggerates for views. Her father is the one who helped her build out her van. She's only staying in this bus because her friend wanted her to watch over it while she traveled.
@@oasisofchangeit's harmful for you to say she's exaggerating... you have no idea what she goes through and how it affects her.
to me it seems like she wanted to keep her peace by creating space, and had the perfect opportunity by staying in her friend's bus.
Your van is awesome, your doggo is beautiful, your spirit is beautiful and you are worthy. I am so sad that your family is caught in their homophobic belief system. You deserve total love and acceptance. Love is love 💜
When our son came out to my husband and I, I told him he had one rule. His boyfriend wasn't allowed to be cuter than my husband.
We told him we didn't care who he loved...man, woman, pink and purple polka dotted alien, it didn't matter. All we wanted for him was for him was to be in a healthy and loving relationship.
Now, I'm retired on disability and write gay romances, and my son edits them for me!
My heart aches for people that need to escape from family. Family should be the place you are able to escape to 😢
Truth 🏳️🌈✨️♀️
She exaggerates for views. Her father is the one who helped her build out her van. She's only staying in this bus because her friend wanted her to watch over it while she traveled.
@@oasisofchangeyou don’t know that, you aren’t there when they exchange comments about things like that. if you had watched the video she says rn they have a good relationship but probably just like me it wasn’t always that way. things change over time and people can still have their opposing views and still bond over other things (like she says in the video)
What a beautiful soul. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm happy that your mother is supporting you nonetheless. My daughter came out to me at a young age. It didn't change a thing between us. I love her no matter what . Family love should be unconditional. Blessings to you and your family. Blessings to the love you found with your girlfriend.
I think it's admirable to come out honestly. I'm 71 and when I was young, Most people I knew were in the closet. It made things so much harder for everyone. I'm sure I had at least 3 people in my extended family who were closer gays. It was never spoken about. Even after my cousin moved to San Francisco and after many years died from AIDS! We never spoke about it, only my sister and I did. Horrible, we knew him all our lives. Anyway, God bless you Sara, it's nice that you are trying with your family.
I’m sorry. Family should always be there for each other, no matter what. You are such a wonderful person, and you don’t deserve to have a shitty family like that. And they definitely don’t deserve someone as amazing and kind as you.
I’m so sorry you have so much negativity from family. I wish they could be as open as you are to accept people for who they are and love them. I understand once you said they are engineers. They tend to be rigid thinkers, there’s only one way. But it’s just not true. Do what you need to be happy. If their inflexibility means they are cut out from your life it’s their problem to conquer. God bless and a thousand hugs
Why do people look and think like that. Your a wonderful person and your love or lovers is your choice keep it the way you want 🐼🐼🐼🐼🐼
wish I knew telegram and how to use it but guess this oldman is dumb
Just because someone is family, does not mean you have to have a relationship with them. Much love and peace to you and Tori. xo
As a parent (one child non binary) it saddens and angers me when parents are not able to unconditionally accept their children. Let me just say: I see you. I hear you. You matter.
She exaggerates for views. Her father is the one who helped her build out her van. She's only staying in this bus because her friend wanted her to watch over it while she traveled.
@@oasisofchange I think you are a troll.
Look down under and you will see binary.
oh so you know sarah personally then? bc that would be the only way you would know if she's exaggerating for views!! @@oasisofchange go make your own content and stop trolling others
I love how you just burned away the neg comments! Also awesome work setting boundaries, it took me way too long to learn that with my family but we got there.
Nick!! 🫶🏽 I miss you so much. You should watch my last video about moving into a bus to see your artwork featured 👀
Sending so much love back! Sucks that today people still hold onto those negative beliefs. You are so strong!
She exaggerates for views. Her father is the one who helped her build out her van. She's only staying in this bus because her friend wanted her to watch over it while she traveled.
I am sorry to hear about the situation with your family. Please remember that you should never have to change who you are to please them. I am glad you have decided to live your life in a way that makes you happy. Often, people get trapped in traditional corporate jobs or high stress and become miserable. Your channel inspires me because I admire your courage, self-reliance, and intelligence. I hope your family will find the strength to accept you for who you are and be happy because you are a wonderful daughter. 💙💙💙💙
Watching you build the rack, I am SO glad you bolted the brackets down. So many van lifers use butyl tape and silkaflex ONLY!
Looks like you did a great build.
I’m sending you positive vibes and love. You hang in there girl. I know what it’s like to struggle with a family that doesn’t understand you.
Thank you ❤️
@@sarahyak_ keep your sexual orientation to yourself. It's only lgbtqxyz people who feel you need to press who you have sex with on everyone when people just want to see van life stuff. I'm blocking your channel don't wanna hear it.
You are an amazing strong woman, living your life with authenticity and integrity. Just keep doing you....
I really enjoy you speaking about this and how every situation is different with every family. I hope you know how much your videos bring people joy, and how amazing you are ❤
Sarah, I hope one day in the future, your family will accept you for who you are. I really believe that we should be treated as equals.
It is horrible when you cannot connect with your family ..it is great to have good friends circle to connect in times when you would need family to understand you. Stay in your positive energy and avoid negativity... have great holidays🎉
She exaggerates for views. Her father is the one who helped her build out her van. She's only staying in this bus because her friend wanted her to watch over it while she traveled.
Thank you for holding a space for all the other souls going through a similar situation whilst standing up for, and healing, yourself. You are beautiful inside and out, you have so much to contribute to this world, and deserve all the love and respect in return, just as you are! Can't wait for many more creative videos, you're a natural story teller and you have the presence and soothing voice for it ❤❤❤
This is such an effective and powerful video, with the way that you've shared your story and experience in way that is interwoven with those lovely bus-life scenes.
Bravo !
She exaggerates for views. Her father is the one who helped her build out her van. She's only staying in this bus because her friend wanted her to watch over it while she traveled.
I appreciate your courage in sharing your story
sending you love. keep being you and standing in your power!
So sorry to hear Sarah! Keep your head up keep inspiring love keeping up with your content ❤ from Sydney Aus
Who you love isn't anybody's business. Im a straight white male who has several gay friends. Gay people aren't any different than anybody else. They have the same issues with paying rent and just surviving in this world. we need to accept people for who they are and be happy that you have really cool people in your life.
Not much I could add that hasn’t already been said but you’re a beautiful soul & im sending so much love to you ❤
Bless your hearts and relationship,much luv and respect from Canada!!!
Ever since I have known your channel, I only watch your short but WOW. Your long videos are so relaxing ✨ and calme.
Congratulations and thanks for your work ❤. It make my day feel much better
I live in Texas and too am a lesbian and I understand the homophobia from my parents and other people. glad to know someone understands!
She exaggerates for views. Her father is the one who helped her build out her van. She's only staying in this bus because her friend wanted her to watch over it while she traveled.
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You are loved and deserve happiness 🙂. Best wishes for the new year and always
I'm so happy that you not only found what was best for you, but you chose it and you're happy. Your free to live your life the way that you want to live your life. I say do you and be happy. You are living everyone's dream you are living your life unafraid and unapologetically. I say YOU GO GIRL . I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. . KEEP LIVING YOUR LIFE. KEEP FLYING GIRL!!! ❤😊❤😊
like how you waited to make this video, I think it made it that much better
This is such an amazing video. I love following your story. These always bring so much happiness to my day.
I love following yours as well! Hopefully our paths will cross one day and we can meet in person 🫶🏽 safe travels
Great fit out on the van. Your family will come around. Eventually they will realise it doesn’t matter.
Beautiful video Sarah, love you so much. ❤️
Love you babe ❤️
You are so brave to come out to your family!!
Loved the video. You are amazing!!
Thank you!
Ooo Sarah to escape your homophobic family 😢 I’m so sorry for what you are going through and have been through. We support you for whoever you are and you are a beautiful human💚💗
If you ever make it out to southern Oregon with your new van build you have family and a safe place here with me 💗💚💕
Living away from family is necessary if it keeps you happy and safe. Started my fukuoka time van life in August. Winter's not so bad in Florida. And I get all these rockets being launched from the cape.
I was just at Enchanted Rock last weekend!! ❤️
Sarah just be you and slay all day.... We are all crushing on you. Talented, beautiful inside and out ❤️
Fellow queer vanlifer here to send u so much love. Family can be hard to navigate. Youre doing great✨
Thank you Tiffany 🥺🫶🏽
It takes more than DNA to make family. Family are the people who you can count on to love, accept, and support you no matter what. They can be genetically related or not.
You are a amazing woman so stay strong,live happy and be you
I'm glad you escaped. The best family you can have is the family you make. And wait.. Is that enchanted rock? It's been decades since I last climbed it, but that looked super familiar.
Be who you are and that's what matters in the End..I know it's sometimes hard to think about others comments..in the end you're happiness is what matters ✌️
Stay strong and shine bright ❤
My heart breaks for you. Our families should be our refuge from all that is bad in the world. I have a daughter about your age. She’s not gay (well, I don’t think she is😂) but honestly I couldn’t care less if she is or not. What is more important than who she loves is that she has the capacity to love. I think you are a beautiful, wise, compassionate soul. If you were my daughter I would be so proud to shout it to the world.
She exaggerates for views. Her father is the one who helped her build out her van. She's only staying in this bus because her friend wanted her to watch over it while she traveled.
@@oasisofchange it is not possible to say that she is exaggerating for views. You do not live with her and you don’t personally know her family. She has been very open about the fact that her family has helper her in many ways and has said that she so grateful for that. Families can often be double edged swords-they can be blessings and at the same time can be problematic. Homophobia is never acceptable even if it comes from family members who can also be supportive and helpful at times.
What a beautifully made video regarding such a tough topic. I really like how you handle it.
as a heads up, the audio from your microphone only comes through on the left headphone, the music is on both the right and left :)
Thanks for letting me know!
Totally understand what you going through life is too short to worry about someone who doesn't love and respect 💯 u friend or family 😊
i can really understand the issue with your family. i feel like the odd man out because i could never turn my back on my daughter no matter what. my family would have dropped me like a hot potato if i were gay. i think too many families, especially parents feel like their children are letting them down if they don't live exactly like they do and believe what they do. it's their problem not yours.
You're a beautiful Soul. Stay positive and you'll only attract, beautiful loving people! You're a magnet! Stay true to what makes you happy! 🙏 ❤
I love your little bus, it’s perfect for you and your awesome dog.
you are a beautiful person just the way you are.
My family isn’t exactly homophobic, but they can be unwelcoming… my youngest child is trans, and my oldest is basically bi. She’s hard to pin down on it, but I love them both unconditionally. I hope you stay happy, and healthy.
I think having to deal with it from family is the worst.
Keep in mind, family will ALWAYS think their opinions about your life are helping. Even criticisms. I KNOW it can be hard, but remember, they are not in your life. They are COMPARING what they hear about you with their experiences and comprehension.
Hopefully, they love you, and the arguments are with love.
Thank you for your video
love you sarah
Merry Christmas and peace be with
I'm so sorry Sarah, you are a beautiful soul. My family doesn't accept my sexuality (lesbian) either and it's incredibly isolating and heartbreaking.
We love you just as you are! Love is Love-----no qualifiers! :-)
Cholla?! Omg look at that handsome boy!!!😍
Just always be careful sending giod vibes♥
Enjoy your Van life Dear
lamentablemente las familias quieren que un hombre con plata nos mantenga y eso no es la felicidad .si no conseguimos eso en la vida se frustran .tu sigue tu felicidad tori es buena persona y si ella te ama y lucha por vos no bajes los brazoa aunque tu familia no acepte sigue tu corazon .admiro que te hagas tu propia casita en tu vehiculo los años pasan volando se feliz viaja y disfruta como lo haces el tiempo no vuelve ❤
So sorry you and anyone in 2023 experience homophobia. There are still many unenlighted people on this planet. Positive LOVE to all. 🐾💙💫💙🐾
Wow, you wouldn't believe this is actually 2023
Sending you & Tori, so much love. And happy holidays to you both!! 💖 Also, where did you get your outfit from? It was cute 😍
It’s Indigo Luna! One of my favorite brands ever. It’s soo soft and also sustainable 🫶🏽
@@sarahyak_ thank you so much!! 🫶🏼
Her tattoos, food choices, and lifestyle choices fit her personality and political ideology.
You are a beautiful person and who you date.My partner is female and we have been together, 15 years almost and been there.We had to cut out some, boundaries with others but never allowed it.Much love and peace.♥️🏳️🌈✌️
HI Sarah ~
I found you through Maddie and I just wanted to say heeeeeey!!!
my heart goes out to you about your family being homophobic! Our son came out to us when he was 14 and we were like well maybe you're confused (we've always been a really open household and non judgement) but then when he was 18 he came out again as def I'm gay!! and I said "well I still love you the same what do you want for dinner?"
I'm not religious but spiritual and it's really sad to hear about how GOD doesn't make mistakes but yet gay people are mistakes broken not normal Yada yada yada!
There is nothing wrong with you and I'm sure rationally you know this but to have your family tell you that you are sinful by just loving who you do is so wrong!!! so I'm sending you out some love and light! accepting people where they are and loving them is some very hard work my friend! Bless you for doing the work!!!
Honey, don't let those neanderthal thinking family members get you down. You are a beautiful, intelligent lady. You have a wonderful heart and your girlfriend is a lucky lady as well!
Need never look down on anyone, never look up to anyone, never criticize anyone or anything!
Im a mom and grandma and i love you and accept your lifestyle.❤
Thank you so much Kimberly!
You do you!
This is the problem I have because your family does not accept your life style that does not make them homophobic
Agreed. And she moved into a bus to watch it for her friend. Her family helped her build out her van. She changes her story for her views.
I don't judge people for what they do or who they want to be with i like to follow people on TH-cam and help support there channel as long as no rude comments come in thank u for not being rude when u see my comments i enjoy seeing your videos and being here to support u
I know it's not your bus, but do you know where to get a ladder like that? I don't want a permanent ladder and that's the first time I saw one that hooks on the side.
I'm saddened everytime u post a video about this. I can't even imagine. I personally couldn't live in a State that is soooo conservative. I grew up in CA & love it! It's a big melting pot & open minded people for the most part. Stay strong & know u r loved. 🫶🌈
I love California 🫶🏽 one of my favorite states
So sad your family didn’t support you not matter what. Hope you will love else where.
Homophobia? Get over yourselves. Love is love. I am sorry that you fear what you don't understand. Ms. Yak. I am glad you found your voice and your love. I love the times you appeared on Maddie Taylor's channel.
I am a Christian and don’t condone homosexuality. But I would not be mean to anybody. I would not disown my child.
Homophobia is an erroneous label, assuming anyone who doesn't agree with your lifestyle is afraid. You purposely misunderstand others who just don't see things your way, just like those people do to you. We have to get beyond this.
I agree ❤
Love the bus so pretty
Hiya, do you need a special license to drive a full size bus? or is a regular driver's license fine?
To have the opinion that its a sin year 2023, thats really crazy. Ron/Sweden
They have dont to agree with it. Nothing wrong with it
The question can be asked, you don't accept your family life style does that make you anti heterosexual
I find it interesting that you think engineers are not creative. I wish I could be as creative as my partner who is a mechanical engineer, he can design and build the most incredible machines and can do the most impressive finishing carpentry work because he can do the complex math that I am unable to do. I on the other hand have an eye for color, spatial visualization and interior design. Together we make an excellent team when we renovate homes.
Awesome
Sarah homophobic is everywhere in the UK but we do have pride in Liverpool and Manchester it's an awesome event's I've been to both you and Tori soon beautiful together xxxx
I love your videos and God loves everyone 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
And that's another L for Religion
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Live ur life
This is not a dress rehearsal….you have one life….and it goes fast..do anything and everything you want….LIVE life happy….
a persons life choices are there's alone. do you for your hearts. family or not.
Feel like u & Nikki Delvinfal would be great friends
I cannotnhear your audio except about 1 minute in the middle.... I can hear the music tho.
Thanks for another excellent video. Life is too short to deal with bigots.