Marrying After Going Through A Haram Relationship!
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im 16 and i never been in a relationship, i wont be in any haram relationship inshaAllah
I'm 19 and alhamdulillah Allah saved me from these things
@hy good for you boy keep it up
@@AbubakarrJalloh-m3d
No one asked for your opinion too
@@AbubakarrJalloh-m3dwe need people to be proud of being a virgin, unfortunately we the being a virgin as a insult (in western societies) we need to flip that narrative
@@AbubakarrJalloh-m3d man you know how hard it is? i just want to share with my brothers what is the problem
I was in a haram relationship and now I stopped meeting her for the sake of Allah and asking Allah to make both of us together, insha Allah she'll be my naseeb
Definitely she will be your naseeb , because you don't deserve a pure woman either
In Sha Allah ❤️🩹
Don't tell anyone about your sins!
@@Azizn.7why
In-shaa-allah
25 year's old and without any relationship. Alhamdulliha that never happened with me.
Didn't u want to get married 😂
Gotta get married bro
mash’Allah and same here 23 year’s old😂 Muslimah❤🤲🏽
@@ArabiangigachadWell you don’t have too lol (to be technical, whenever Allah SWT wrote for us to get married either young or old).🙌🏽🕌
It’s just a “social norms” 25 isn’t to old yet in my opinion…maybe in a couple years sounds better to me like 27+ perfect age in guys nowadays this gen. (for wiseness, maturity etc)😊
Of course I want to. If Allah wills it will happen. Anyways for marriage one should be prepared mentally, physically and financially. Maybe some criterias are missing from me, maybe I'm not ready yet.
What he described happened to me but in reverse i was born non muslim and fell in love with a muslim girl 2 years into the relationship she tells me shes muslim and actually you need to convert etc etc. She never had any intentions of marrying me but alhumdullialah that was over 5 years ago she is completely out of my life and i have just said my shahada. Alhumdullialah, Surely Allah is the Best of Planners!
I was perhaps a very good guy 2 years back but not now anymore :). Its just a dilemma I've always fought against. I hope Allah SWT forgives me for my mistakes. Ameen
Same here I use to pray every day but idk what happened to me and I’ve be come lazier 🤦🏾♂️
@@mcseditz7986you need your problem! Get back to it Inshalla..what helped me was every time I didn’t want to pray I would tell my self this is the devis work and I would tell my self. Would I want the devil to win or knock him out , I would go pray just to win over him
@@mcseditz7986same here, In Shaa Allaah we’ll get back on our deen
Ameen
I needed to hear this inshallah I shall let go of this relationship as it was built off distrust and is only ruining me and her
Alhumdulillah married after a haram relationship and we r going strong 5 years. That was the best decision I took to marry my wife going against my parents. Already in my family 3 divorces happened all of them were arranged marriages. The guys cheated as they married only to show respect to their parents and never loved their ex wives. This kind stupid logic wont work always. Seek forgiveness from Allah and have a clear objective in life.
20 a medical college student never been in any haram relationship Allahmdulliah. ..❤
I am 19 now. Have never been in a relationship yet and don't want as well for the sake of Allah. As my prophet Muhammad SAW forbade us from that, it doesn't make any sense to go for it and to think that everything will go right. I believe in only marriage and as soon as possible I wanna marry and I'll INSHAALLAH. Pray for me guys, so that I can protect myself from this haram thing and can be 100% loyal to my wife. May Allah bless me and you all and give us tawfiq to stick with our niyah. Amin.
Just a friendly notice- I think you meant to put SAW (salallahu 3layhi wa Salam) after Muhammad instead of SWT (as this is usually used after mentioning Allah).
@@Mira.Ismail2002 Ya sorry, thanks for it.
Just a note, Allah forbade it, not our prophet.
Our Prophet ﷺ said “Whoever recites Ayatul Kursi immediately after each prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entering Paradise except death."
Dont forget to recite Ayatul kursi before sleep Our Prophet ﷺ said, When you go to your bed, recite Ayatul Kursi and you will be protected by Allah, and no devil will come near you until morning (5010) Narrated by al-Bukhari
Take screenshot and share to earn reward (it allows you to copy and paste easily), and spread this message to also earn rewards by directing others towards good In’Sha’Allah, maybe Allah could make this a means to grant us Jannaht Ul Firdaus Ameen
I'm 25 years old and have never been in such a relationship. Alhamdulillah (All praise be to Allah)
May Allah Bless Us All
Ameen
Allahuma Ameen 🤲🏽
Allahuma ameen!🤲🏽🫶🏽
Ameen
May Allah guide us to the right path
Ameen
Aamin!
Ameen❤🤲🏽
Alhamdulliah,As a medical student, i am 26! Never any relationship!
me too! proud!
Konse year me bhaiya mera neet exam hai 2025 me kuch batao padhayi to karrahi ho hun par utna effectively nahi hoparaha
May allah guide the youth of today most of society marry through haram relationships and the problem is they don’t even think they are wrong they even laugh on people who are not in a haram relationships.
Thanks
Harama relationships destroy us from the outside and the inside ,stay away from them full your time with prayer until you get marry the right person who sent by Allah to you .❤
May Allah protect all of us from evil deeds
I was that non Muslim woman who entered into a haram relationship with a Muslim man before marrying. I did not know any better. He was kind and loving. We started the haram relationship in in 2007. During that time I was finding out a little about Islam, but he never told me what we were doing was haram. I think what he was doing was getting me more interested in Islam through giving me a copy of the English translation of the Quran and some leaflets so that I would become a revert and we could marry under Sharia law at a mosque. We married at a local mosque in 2010. Before the marriage ceremony, I took the Shahada. Since that day I committed to being a Muslim though it took me a long while to learn it properly. I did not start doing 5 times a day prayer until the summer time, when in the middle of Ramadan, even though I started fasting from day one of Ramadan. I did not learn the Salah until well into Ramadan from another Muslim sister. When I look back I was surprised at all this. The following year we married at a British Law registration office in 2011, so that my husband could have a spouse visa. He was from Bangladesh, I am white English. He was refused as he was already having problems with home office. It resulted in him going back to Bangladesh. I finally managed to get a spouse visa for him and he returned in October 2023 and moved back in with me. In September 2024, he told me he had another wife in Bangladesh who he married in 2019 and had four children with her. I felt betrayed and doubted his love for me, even though he said he did love me. We separated in September and I have filed for a divorce. I then doubted myself as to my real reason for becoming a Muslim revert. However, I managed to speak to the Muslim Women's Helpline who helped me to restore faith in Islam. My husband was not a good role model for Islam. This video has helped me to put things in perspective.
The one who is watching this video may Allah bless you and your family !! And guide you to his path and keep your heart firm on his religion
Ameen
May Allah SWT guide all of us 🤲🏼❤️
Allahuma ameen❤🤲🏽
26 years old and never been in a relationship before. May Allah grant me a chaste and pure wife.
Amin
Aamen
Always remember, its not wrong to love or care for someone. But u approach marriage way. In Shaa Allah
Alhamdulillah I never been in relationship but I need to get married now and its hard find
Leaving in a society full of non Muslims is really a dilemma.may Allah guide us through the right path.
Amin
May Allah SWT guide and protect from satanic deceit.
I am 15 and I have never approached a man except for my mahrams, I commented once I want my husband to be a virgin like me. I was accused of Zina by some strangers on the internet, I don't even know them, it made me upset because I remembered our Mother Aisha, how distressed must she been to be accused of zina :(
my wife left me for someone she had a relationship in her past.
May Allah ﷻ grant u better for what was already before brother, that’s the way of Allah ﷻ he takes something from you just to gift you more honourably with something far more better !
Have faith in it.
That's rough but Allah (swt) will give you someone better inshallah
Just stay patience ask Allah for forgiveness of your sins and ask him for a better woman for you
@@BoomeansBoo i didn't do any sin
@Zohaib6M still we should always do istagfar
The title is kinda misleading. I thought we would get into the topic of marriage that was based on haram, not the need to repent WHILE in the haram relationship.
May Allah forgive and conceal our sins. aaameen
Jazka'allah khair shukran ☝🏼😇💖🦋✨☝🏼
I'm 17 and I've never been in a relationship before but also the thought of arranged marriage scares me sm coz the people ik who got arranged marriage aren't yk happy with their partners in their life including my parents so idk I feel like I've to know the person deeply before marrying them but also as that is haram idk it's very confusing
Love marriage doesn't guarantee happy marriage life nor does arranged marriage do..
Pray to Allah for a kind hearted spouse who loves you and respects you .
I don't think that Fathers can be surprised if their daughters find boyfriends if they send them out as alone (trustworthy) unveiled (mushrik - essentially, a girlfriend that you give housing to) women.
Same goes for men having girlfriends when they are not taught to respect women and they use women for fun. Men. Both will pay for Haram relationship unless God forgives them
I am 26, alhamdulillah, and have never been in a haram relationship
According to Quran adopted son wife after divorce it's permissable so which sahaba married his adopted son wife after divorce
@MasudFahim-h2i bro, what are you talking about?
@@khilafahforummah3322 read surah 33 verse 37 believer Muslims men marriage his adopted son wife after divorce it's legal
IN SHA ALLAH TA ALA AAMEEN SUMMA AAMEEN
The speaker's name in this video is Bilal Assad for anyone wondering.
If you want to marry after having a haram relationship both need to do tawbah and then you can marry each other.
this video was above the ali abdaal video that he married to someone whose is a non muslim , ali literally said by this act dunya over deen
Allah may Allah forgive US
Subhan Allah
Ya Allah forgive us and grant us immeasurable wealth. Ameen
Ameen
19 years old alhamdulilah waiting for a halal relationship
It’s always good to stay away from Haram Relationships, but we shouldn’t bash people who for the fear of Allah do get married, and I’m talking about people who ask Allah to help make that relationship halal, nikkah is the best route. Allah knows best and I pray you all find good spouses ❤
If they feared ALLAH they wouldn’t be in a haram relationship.
@ yeah but everyone sins, even if they are in a haram relationship who are we to judge, if Allah wants to make that into nikkah it can happen. That doesn’t mean they do not fear Allah, as they are trying to get married for the sake of Allah and to make their relationship halal.
@ lol what??? Astaghfirullah.
@@Shay3356 you shouldn’t judge people though, that’s not being a Muslim. You can tell them to get out of that relationship or make it halal (marriage) This is why the youth find it so hard to get married now because people just like to judge.
@ lol judgment can’t be wrong when people think it’s ok to disobey ALLAH for now. Get real.
Assalamualaikum my brother or sister.
I guess you have to change the thumbnail photo as it's not look good.
May ALLAH (AZZAWAJAL) forgive our mistakes and guide all of us to the straight and the right path, Ameen.
Allahuma Ameen Yarab AL Alameen 🤲🤲🤲
I have to be in a relationship before marrying her. Unfortunately
Im 30 and unmarried 😞
You'll get Married soon with the Fazal of ALLAH INSHA ALLAH.
please don't lose hope on ALLAH.
Ok tell me then how to get married without relationship.
I am also single but IDK how to get married without knowing the girl.
Also Tell me about halal relationship.
💕 From Kashmir.
You can just talk to each other for a while before marriage, not relationship
@Guru-ij3ow But how to get a girl?
Can you help me with an explanation?🙂
@@AAMlR-Ah wdym? Are you shy?
@@Guru-ij3ow yes 😢
@AAMlR-Ah then leave it to your mom bro😂
Allahuma Aameen
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I have a question
If you love a girl and she loves you but you're not in a Haram relationship and you try your best to stay away from the Haram but you guys still talk, you do nothing Haram by staying within the boundaries Allah made. Will you have these problems?
Don’t talk unnecessarily..if you guys love each other then wait for eachother while praying and asking Allah to do what’s best for both of you..trust in Allah’s planning..don’t worry if the intention is good on both sides surely Allah will help you with that so leave it in the hands of Almighty and wait
Akhi talking to a non mehram alone is haram, that's the boundaries set by Allah,stop talking her, both of you should cut off any communications and put your trust on Allah, pray tahajjud, if you are really sincere and want something, and you are not praying tahajjud, then you really don't want it with all your heart .
What kind of advice is this? How else are we supposed to get married in this day and age? The least they can do is text and/or call, if not talk face to face. @@mohammedashiq084
@@mohammedashiq084A non-mahram is a female with whom marriage is permissible. Your comment makes no sense to me.
Can anybody give tell me how we marry to someone without having any relationship? My parents doesn’t going to do anything…
relationship is haram right then making dua to get married to a specific person without entering to relationship , we both like each other but no relationship etc then whether its haram?????
nop not haram
Nothing is happening. People who had 8-10 years of relationship without marriage are getting married and living a happy life after graduation. We who rejected haram relationships and waited for the halal partner for the entirety of life are suffering to married. So i don't know what is right or wrong at this point.
Have sabr ukhti,Allah has written your naseeb already,maybe he's making you wait because you're not ready yet..it's all about his plans, he's the best planner.inshallah Allah will bless you with a pious spouse.
100% feel the same way. It's especially hard out here in the west.. seeing people in university, at work.. everyone has their special someone.. hell I'm the only one without someone.. and not to mention there's haram/fitna everywhere. The worst thing is that I don't think I'm really ready for marriage (financially I'm good but religiously maybe not).. I just want someone that I can learn/improve my Islam with. Just gotta stay strong I guess.. may Allah help us.
I personally believe we don't do good things to have something good in turn, you do good without expecting anything except to please God and after that it's upto God what he gives us good or bad. Good luck on your journey ❤
When you do things and strive in the way of Allah , He gives His Barakah and blessings in whatever it is. Also many people are getting married in the halal way and liviing the best lives ever pleasing Allah and enjoying what is correct and halal. Look at different places , looking at a perspective of the immoral western culture isnt any good .Everyone having a 'special someone' dosent mean they won in life , while they have aldready disobeyed the one who created them. We staying away from anything haram is only beneficial for us in this life and also in the hereafter( which is even more important and eternal). May Allah bless us with righteous spouse.
The most important thing is that you did your best to please Allah, and stayed from what displease him. Forever happiness is in Aljannah.
Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him not harm his neighbor. Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him honor his guest. Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak goodness or remain silent.
Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6136, Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi
May Allah guide me
❤❤SUBHAANALLAH🍎🍎
Didn't you already post a video about this? Regardless thank you very much for the reminder Alhamdulilah. 😅
In which verse of Quran is this written can u kindly tell me? As far as i have knowledge about the Quran, it is written that premarital sex is haram in islam, other than that i have found nth like ‚relationships in islam is haram‘
I still don’t understand why some people try to make such beautiful and easy relationships over complicated by adding some of their own ridiculous ideologies to this relationship by stating that it was said by our prophet or allah without being able to show that verse in Quran. All mighty Allah have sent us the Quran, please read the Quran properly and then speak about this religion.
Hb reverts who turned the haram to halal by getting married after finding out its haram?
The funniest thing is the men my age that are married met their wives during dating and doing zinna with them. Then the women converted to Islam and now they are happily married. Yet I never even chatted with a non mehram woman in my life and I’m still single at 29. It’s like Allah rewarded my sinful friends but punished me for not going near Zinna.
Lesson learned I guess
Akhi, you’re on the right path! It’s also not haram for muslim men to chat to muslim women, for as long as both do not chat innapropriately!
If you really want to get married, it’s totally permissible in Islam for you to find women to marry because your intention is to get married for the sake of Allah s.w.t, and the process of getting married involves chatting with the opposite gender, discussing marriage with each other, then getting family members involved and so on.
If you need more advice on how to talk to Muslim women regarding marriage and/or just how to get married in Islam, go to a mosque/masjid and ask all of your marriage queries/questions to the imams of that place, or research online “how to get married in Islam” and then you’ll know what to do (Insha’Allah).
@@MuslimTexasMan there is a story brother, once there was a man who worshipped Allah ﷻ for years no stop one day whilst sleeping he said with arrogance and pride I’m guaranteed paradise. In that night he had an headache so bad and made dua persistently to be relieved from this headache. after a while the pain stopped and he said “ya Allah ﷻ I worshiped u day and night and all I had was headache” then a voice came to his heart inspiring “all of his worship was the reason Allah ﷻ relieved him from his headache” he got wise and learnt not be ever arrogant and prideful in doing the right thing for we are doing it for sake of Allah ﷻ 1 lesson.
Never belittle anyone just because you know you are doing the right thing and other isn’t indeed Allah ﷻ is all merciful and all appreciative toward his slaves if ever confronted in this situation guide them to right path don’t belittle them or take them as example 2 lesson.
There is a time for everything brother and no human stories n life are the same therefore live your story and try to be more active in your life and make dua with faith knowing Allah ﷻ accepts it, for he is the one who put it there in ur heart in the first place 3 lesson.
@@Haider484 Private + unnecessary conversation with non mahram women is not halal though
They may be rewarded in this life but who knows what lies in wait for them in the hereafter.
@ nah brother we get everything in this dunya be it punishment or reward and more of it in hereafter
Where can I find the full lecture?
umm like pls tell me how to get it into and halal relationship
Ameen
What do you mean by Haram relationship
Aslaamualaykhum
Please change the thumbnail to something else more appropriate.
Assalamu alaikum
I have a question about menstruation.
I have a confusing cycle of menstruation.
When I have my menstruation it stays about 6 to 7 days.
After staying for 6 to 7 days, it happens again after three or four days and stays for 3 or 4 days. This time the bleeding is very light so what should I do in this time should I pray or should I wait for the bleeding to stop?
I am having this issue for about 4 months.
Please consult a gynecologist...it may effect your health..
@@Arisha-ch1nu maybe you have mental issues take care of your sleep, keep good diet, stop overthinking, don't get stressed, and stay positive.
Lastly never share these kinds of personal things online share with your mother sister or anyone you know.
@@BoomeansBoo Thank you
I have consulted doctor
And I have also told my mom but didn't get any solid answers.
@@AyraMariyam-y5c I have consulted a gynecologist she
said I'm having this issue for weight so I'm trying to lose weight it will take some time in the meantime should I pray?
@@laibahmuntaha Thank you
wa alaikum salam
Why did u add thi kinda thumbnail? First educate urself. Then think of us!
Don't get married , no if you really wanna live in the western countries
❤
Subhan Allah beautiful video
Your app is not free i m underage big brother
🤍
Read KALIMAH messenger pbuh not final, i am and always since born was a prophet, i am the FINAL PROPHET, FINAL MESSANGER. Remember status in jannat, u cant get more in jannat you will really be like what did he do to get more then me, e.g some murderers at the bottom. China car running into oeople because of divorce Allah made him do it quick JANNAT u dont see it they will its so quick its next level beautiful.
I'm 15 and i have never been in any haram relationship
cuz no one wants me🗣💁♂️
Kid don't ever look for a relationship unless you are stable enough to lead a family and have a marriage, good luck on your journey
@webwemake5300 Thnx bruv!😊 How old are ya? Are u married??.
Liar....
ALLAH forgives all sins whether haraam or not. There's no restriction to the Mercy of ALLAH.
Stop misleading the Ummah.
At the end of the day, you know you engage in sinful relationship and stop acting perfect in your dawah Cz you are sinners yourselves.
My message to all Muslims is do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Allah forgive all sins.
Just forget your imaams, they say what they do not practice🙄.
It shall all be exposed on the day of Judgement wallahi🙌🏽.
19 never been in any relationship alhamdulillah 🤍
What do you mean by Haram relationship