AITA for behaving like kind of a normal person? (React Court)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ต.ค. 2024
- This came from my livestream on May 19th, 2022. Catch me live every weekday from 11AM-4PM here: / northernlion
I wanted to mix up my content a little bit and I figured, what better way to use my unique brand of judgemental gaze than to read the top posts on one of the most entertaining subreddits out there: r/AmITheAsshole? Check it out!
Imagine going to a wedding only to be watched by an entire staff toting spyware like your in the warzone gulag and they’re just waiting their turn
Also, depending on the nightvision, the cheap ones shine with a small green light in the front. I am guessing they wont have USMC gear but more like the cheap shit... so you are in dark, green eyes watching from everywhere.
I would be fuckin uncomfortable as fuck and I did a lot of airsoft shit in complete darkness, I am not uncomfortable in the dark at all and would not mind the wedding. But the staff watching is just so much worse.
@@CZProtton dude even then imagine trying to do any wait staff responsibilities wearing those things
they completely kill depth perception atleast the cheap gen 1 shit
i would probably end up knocking over glasses
@@FlyingPanda324 They are not that bad, but they do limit fow quite a lot and it would probably be quite a job for the waiters. Even just walking around the people while you have nightvision and they cannot see shit.
Its just a super bad idea all around. Maybe if the groom was into it, it could be a gimick wedding. But having a normal wedding just in complete darkness sounds like a fuckin nightmare.
I can imagine making it work if both the bride and the groom wanted it. Have a buffe table instead of serving, have it iluminated by very pale green or red light (red is eery as fuck though, so probably green) and have a green lightstick, the big one, iluminating every table. Have mostly finger food and stuff where you dont really have to see much. It would still suck for the regular guests though :D
I am also guessing the parents would not be happy with it at all. All the handicapped people I know dont want to bother people too much with their handicap and want to be treated normaly. Just with the handicap in mind, but normaly. So maybe dont take them to see a movie, but a wedding could be just a normal god damn venue and I am sure they will be completely happy with it.
@@CZProtton I just don't understand how that would make someone uncomfortable. The staff would be able to watch you if the lights were on, but now because you can't see them, you're going to assume they're doing what exactly?
I can understand concerns about stuff being stolen, but I feel like it's just some weird social pressure where people are afraid they'll act like their true selves and other people will see it.
spyware lol
The only time I've ever been excited to get summoned for jury duty
The only time I’ve ever been summoned for jury duty
This might be one of the best comments of all time
True true so true
I feel like such a dog right now, I get summoned for react court and I just gotta +1/+0 or +0/+1 man
@@nathanrobbins2440 nm mn
The aunt in the last post could have avoided the trouble of seeing a gay person by simply having a lights-out wedding
+2 way to bring it back full circle
Alternatively, have the wedding in the top floor of a chick fil a
@@GEM4sta bars
I CRIED
@@GEM4sta What kind of magical two story chik fil as do you have?
"There will literally be staff wearing night vision goggles..."
Tbh it would probably be hilarious to be staff at that event. Watching people maneuver around awkwardly while you can see everything would be great content.
I‘d just empty everyone’s wallets
@@Skeletontiger that is very rude of you
@@noobarium AITA for taking an opportunity to gain easy money at work?
@@canox6017 nta stealing wallets is cool
This wedding sounds like a Hitman challenge level
Hair off wedding for the vow renewals. Make them understand how it feels.
I’m begging you Northernlion, please keep doing these regularly. How else am I supposed to do laundry? It’s been months, please help.
This is literally the go to laundry content
Great for cooking too
Same honestly
@@ezgolf1764 thats what I do. i miss this shit man been going through all these a second time.
I’m literally folding laundry right now, wtf
Sam Fisher manning the open bar killed me holy shit *night vision goggles activate*
his sound effect was so good that i had to rewind to see what the noise was
I can still hear the nvg activation soundbite
That guy playing games with his kids is literally the definition of no good deed goes unpunished. Just wanted to play with his kids, one of them got jealous of something out of his control, and ruined it for everyone.
If anyone is an asshole it’s His other son But That’s not fair either lol, he’s What, 12?
“Honey, NL just did an AITA.”
"Mom I'm hungry."
"Not now sweatie Mommy's judging Reddit posts with the bald man."
Literally me to my bf just now.
Maybe if this had come out sooner it could have saved my relationship
@@formerlypie8781 F
I feel so bad for Minecraft dad, he tried so hard to make both sons happy but ended up unintentionally hurting both in the process. They'll get over it though, they're just young kids and in the grand scheme of things it's not that big a deal.
Welcome to being a parent, the next 20 years will be hell.
They’ll understand when they’re older
True dude. And it's something out of your control. Could have reached different groups. And since it was like play Minecraft with me now the content wasn't as new and genuine . But in the end the he only wanted to do it because the other son did. So it could be a lesson in humility and how some things in life just don't work the right way. But being told something like that at a young age would just make me pessimistic lmao
@@MrStebaan Watch out, in 5-10 years you'll get not one but TWO emails.
definitely not the asshole; he's dealing with 2 kids who are probably dealing with their own parental issues, needing love and acceptance from a father figure. kind of a weird remark from his wife though, in no way was he "putting down" his stepson to make his other son feel better, and there's no way he could've predicted how the situation would play out, especially regarding the "viral" youtube parts. the guy was just trying to spend time with his kids and mitigate jealousy and other hurt/negative feelings
It was the perfect opportunity to show the kid an "atheist" isn't a bad thing and you went the polar opposite direction lmao
Exactly. I’m atheist and wasn’t raised in religion at all. Was I a little shit about it in middle school? You bet. But as an adult I understand it’s much more productive to just say nope I don’t believe in any kind of religion but I think everyone is entitled to believe whatever they would like to believe as long as those beliefs don’t hurt others. Like he could’ve taught that kid something about being accepting of differing beliefs and blew it lol
what do you expect from a Reddit Atheist.
definitely the type of atheist who thinks they're smarter than everyone by default because their an atheist.
The side agrees to let churchy people celebrate a religious holiday on his property, then gets tilted by a kid. Now he apparently doesn’t care about his relationship with his step mom despite agreeing to let her friends come to the party to appease her. Plus, the dude kept doubling down after every loss. He could have just said the questions were bothering him and he took it too far, and instead he just started laughing at the kid, the parents, and his step mom.
Yeah. He totally scared the kid and only validated him in his false assumptions that all non-religious people are evil xd Parents are also not good in this scenario. If 9 year old religious kid assumes every non-religious people are basically doing devils work and cant be told otherwise tells you a lot about the home he lives in. No logic or empathy lives in there, clearly. Poor kid.
"There will literally be staff wearing night vision goggles" is sending me dude.
What a sentence
I never understand where these insane reddit people come from. Like what events in this reality lead people to believe "This adult who ruined their own party by a religious 9 year old isn't a loser and they are, in fact, based" and is common enough to support a popular social media site?
Reddit Atheists are insane
@@owenrutherford1739 yep and sadly whenever someone thinks of an atheist they think of a reddit user
@@g76agi its really annoying being compared to them when your a normal atheist
Reddit athiests are a different breed... not in a good way
To be fair, i think NL misread the kid when he assumed that the kid was joking. No 9 year old christian is well adjusted enough to understand that atheists arent devil worshipers. At that age they're deeeeeeeep into the kool aid. They just dont know any better. The guy from the post ITA though cuz scaring kids is pretty mean especially if you arent related to them.
The rumors of React Court’s death have been greatly exaggerated
The amount of teachers in elementary school that would instigate fights and hold grudges against us single digit humans was insane. I still talk to friends in college who I went to elementary school with and looking back, most of the drama we had as kids was with the adults
wow, where u from? the teachers i had never caused any drama
Single digit humans sounds funny. I'll add that to my repertoire. Thanks good sir
That's some Gossip Girl shit
legit 100%. the number of teachers i had bully me or say/do inappropriate things? my gods, i wish i knew sooner i could have justice
@@IktaSol damn that athiest from the other post really ruined a family gathering because a single digit human asked him the wrong question
"I'm having a steak with bleu cheese on it."
my brother in Christ, you're allergic to bleu cheese.
Stop aspousing your religious beliefs on people who didn't ask for it. YTA. 😁
@@theduckularpeanuts Double YTA for spelling mistake!
when you know too much nl lore
not allergic, his vow renewal his rules
@@asgar1852 damn ya got me 😭
timestamps:
0:36 "Am I the asshole for keeping track of older people who told me I would 'understand when I was older' and emailing them to prove them wrong now I'm an adult?"
5:29 "Am I the asshole for not refunding clients because of my weight gain?"
11:12 "Am I the asshole for having a 'lights-out wedding'?"
26:17 "Am I the asshole for making fun of my brother in law after he lost a shit ton of money on crypto currency?"
31:00 "Am I the asshole for ruining Easter by agreeing with a self-righteous little brat that I am a devil worshipper?"
45:08 "Am I the asshole for not wanting my husband to work from home?"
48:57 "Am I the asshole for telling my 'sperm donated nephew' he's not part of my family?"
1:02:00 "Am I the asshole for skipping 'family togethers' because my girlfriend doesn't feel welcome?"
1:12:15 "Am I the asshole for no longer playing a video game with my step-son after my own son said it wasn't fair?"
1:17:56 "Am I the asshole for defending my friend and saying my wife needs to work on her insecurities?"
1:26:51 "Am I the asshole for bringing my girlfriend to my aunt's wedding despite my family's warnings?"
easter story was insane
The devilworshipper story is wild.
Like I could have seen him say yes to the kid saying he is a devil worshipper in a joking fashion, but once you notice the kid took you seriously, at the very latest when the parents confront you maybe tell them you thought the kid was joking and responded likewise?
It really isn't hard to just backpedal once you notice something was taken the wrong way.
Too much SAP or sports? No. He needed somewhere to release all his anger that chat had build up over the last few weeks.
It was a tiny bit too much. I would like this series to come back a bit.
But also far too much SAP, imo
Ooh. So you are saying Shotgun King is the new gateway for React Court. Understood.
first time actually experiencing this series , let's see why lots of people love it so much.
Ok, I get it , definetly pog content.
You got quite a backlog to go through then!
same, this is amazing holy cannoli
@@LunyDR I'm so jealous of you right now
I THOUGHT THE DAY WOULD NEVER COME, PAY OUT THE BELIEVERS
I was a doubter but I am pogging nonetheless
"AITA for bullying a 9 year old kid and im 28?" My brother in christ your 28.
AITA for telling a child I killed deer specifically to sacrifice them to Satan? Btw I’m 28 years old”
He is **not** your brother in christ tho lol
@@TheEnmineer well to a Christian everyone is their brother or sister in Christ while to an atheist everyone is their cousin in monke
@@boblobgobstopper13214 You're right about that XD
That whole deal with him explaining how she shouldn't do what she wants at her wedding followed by him making a metaphor about how she should do what she wants at her wedding "but it scares me" was peak content.
It's segments like this where I really want a chat overlay since he's bouncing off chat more than usual.
yeah that'd be great
Can't believe he'd shut down the marketplace of ideas like that
trust me you dont wanna see chat there's like 10.000 people on stream; like 3000 of them are chatting
I'm glad he reads the chat message out loud before responding to it, so many streamers don't do this and watching VODs on youtube is agony because 90% of the stream is them just responding into the void
@@Bikonito definitely an amazing habit, really helps contextualize the tangents
i freakin snorted when he said you should convince your birth son to be funnier
That bit made me do an actual spit take
“Honey, why are you crying?”
“the judge is presiding, dear”
That wedding one was nuts. Of course people are going to tolerate it to attend a loved one's wedding. That doesn't mean they enjoy the idea. If the event was specifically, say, a blindfolded dinner, it'd be one thing - people are deliberately attending for the sake of that gimmick. But she doesn't seem to realize the RSVPs are *in spite* of the gimmick, not *because* of it. Weddings of course should cater to the tastes of the wed, but it's also a crucial moment for loved ones to see a cherished family member enter a new phase of life. Give the attendees the option to wear a blind fold when eating maybe, but that's really the most I think should be incorporated.
Also that crypto one was straight up fanfic lol, not defending crypto scams but come the fuck on lol, can Albert Einstein verify?
Maybe I’m retarded, but if an event isn’t to my likely, I simply won’t go? Wedding ceremony’s are useless anyway, so why would someone throw a fit about someone else’s special day? Go, or don’t go, as long as there are no surprises. The opposition seems childish.
also i cant imagine something worse than a bunch of drunk wedding patrons stumbling in the dark. thats just asking for somethin to go wrong
That Easter one blows me away that so many people thought the OP was in the right. That one seemed so obviously like a YTA to me.
remember this is on reddit. most of them are probably atheists and op's story is like their wet dream. "i don't believe in your superstitious bullshit" nerdface emoji
Reddit is full of the worse kinds of atheists. I'm a atheist but a lot of these people are so against religion that even mentioning it will send them into a hissy fit. It was pretty obvious as soon as the idea of owning some religious person came up, even if it was just a kid, it would be upvoted to hell and back just because they think that religion is stupid.
Meh, joked/messed with a kid who over reacted due to his parents who then blew things out of proportion, NTA for telling a scary story to a 4th grader
HEY NL. I'm not sure if you read comments, but with the return of React Court to youtube, I just wanted to post this. I was moving from Arizona to Pennsylvania, and driving the whole distance. It took me about 4 days total. In that downtime of driving for hours on hours through deserted towns and cropped filled fields, I found something to pass the time. React Court. I know it may not seem like much, but listening to all the React Court videos made the hours FLY by. Thank you for doing them, and thank you for bringing them back to youtube!
welcome to pennsylvania :)
NTA your car your rules.
Bro imagine being 28 and letting anything a 9 year old child does or says effect you in any way
Actual reddit moment fr
The OP just made a snarky joke in response to the kid, the drama came from how the other adults responded to that.
@@Hedgpig *reddit user identified*
@@Hedgpigmocking a child is extra pathetic, don't they remember being 9? I do, children at that age are sponges you must treat them with dignity.
As a blind person the wedding one seemed really strange and out of touch. Struck me strongly of 'I am offended for you and trying to act blind because I know blind people'. And yes watching a bunch of sighted people stumble in the dark like idiots would be funny, it isn't realistic as a blind person. That is why you have the cane you know. (And for those few blind people who read and don't use a cane, stop being stubborn and go get your training)
If anyone wants to come experience the true blind lifestyle come to New Orleans in early July and attend our National Federation of the Blind (NFB) National Convention.
How would you watch a bunch of sighted people stumble in the dark if A) it is dark and B) you are blind?
@@goaway9977 With audio description of course. Its how I watch Netflix
The sister in law's brother part had me DYING
This is genuinely my favourite NL series of all time, so glad to see it return
im a sperm donor baby, and even if i contacted my donor he has no obligation to me. they don't sign up to be a dad. they donate sperm. i hope jake finds a counselor or someone to sort out his feelings. at least he got some medical info
Yeah plus many donors end up being the biological father of 10+ kids. It's unreasonable to expect him to treat all these kids as family, even if they are all adults when they make contact. There is a donor sibling registry however, where you can elect to put up your contact info and meet other people who have the same donor father as yourself. While not quite the same as meeting your biological father, I think it is a pretty great alternative to connect with people that share that half of your DNA.
Medical info is understandable to reach out to the donor for. Even more so if they want to start a family (not saying that is the case in this scenario). This situation has multiple layers to it. Not only is the OP, not the father or even the donor, OP is also not even in contact anymore with the donor.
same, as a donor kid I agree with NL and I agree the poster isn't an asshole for this. I've taken a gene test and talked to one of my many half "siblings" but they are all just strangers to me. And even though I didn't find anything about the "father" I think it'd be insane to try to involve myself in his family just because we share genes, one meetup at most to learn maybe medical history is fair.
also from what I know you have to have pretty damn spotless genes to become a donor in the first place so even that isn't really necessary
I know I’m replying forever later but… yeah, donor kid here too; I have 0 interest in learning anything about the donor and honestly even looking into half-siblings would feel too odd (but maybe that’s because I have several full siblings already). The guy seems mean but not in the wrong, they’re not family. That being said: it felt like he was very specifically avoiding saying *why* the kid reached out? Left me wondering if he didn’t want to look worse by revealing that their parents had passed away or that he’d gone no contact with them, etc.
In terms of the wedding thing, I remember planning my wedding and literally whatever my wife wanted I was like “cool, whatever you want, as long as my Bruce Campbell candle is there.” And she said “of course Bruce Candle will be there.” My only restriction was one that we shared and that was: if her mom shows up I’m going to spit in her face. She’s a terrible person.
Hold on tell us more about the Bruce Campbell Candle
Anyone who doesn’t like your wedding plans, simply shouldn’t go. The entitlement is wild.
You gotta tell us more about this candle man
Imagining that wedding with a huge crowd of glowing circlets around everyone's neck and wrists sounds both hilarious and kind of horrifying
True. Also if the glow sticks provide enough light that you can see it kinda defeats the purpose of the “lights out” thing. I think it’s a dumb idea either way, frankly, but if she really wants to experience what her parents experience then she should just be blind folded the whole time or something
If I stumbled into that room I'd assume I'd run into a cult meetup and was up next on the sacrifice altar.
Was just thinking about the Watermelon Ass clip today. React Court is a GOATED segment.
Dude I was telling people about Watermelon Ass just a few weeks ago lmao
As a MTG fan I geeked out when NL recognized EDH as a magic format when trying to figure out what FDH means
OMG LOL M8
He used to play actual MTG, he used to tell anecdotes about him playing for fun (maybe in tournaments?) in Isaac videos lol
@@alexchimi7093 no way! That's cool
@@alexchimi7093 I think he did tournaments, yes.
@@brando7637 AFAIK Kate was more into MTG than he was but they did have a good time playing together at events and such
Love the " unasked for btw" everytime Kate brings him anything
We've been waiting much to long for another one of these NL. Hoping for some quality pettiness.
As a man the moment my wedding started involving night vision I'd be sold. It's also where I completely lost confidence in it being even remotely real.
i was just binging some react court yesterday and now there’s a new set of trials today. this is pog
THIS IS WHAT I WATCH NL FOR!! No chat BS, just his humor and wit. This is my favorite series of his right now for sure.
100% that kid was just like 'gasp, my momma told me ppl like that are devil worshippers' hes 9 my mans doesnt know how to joke around about religion
Naw. People fuck kid’s ages up all the time.
I was hanging out with another family last weekend. They have a 9 year old.
I mentioned in passing that I don’t drink and he popped in with “This might shock you… but I don’t either”
9 is old enough to be funny.
yeah and he's still nine
@@brendanmystery LOL, have you never had fun pretending to go along with a kid who believes something ridiculous? I think he assumed the kid would realise how stupid he was being. I doubt he was trying to "own" him.
I was watching a documentary where a Japanese woman froze to death in some rural part of the US.
Upon retracing this woman's last movements it came to light a child saw the woman, (who had dark clothes on), in a field and told his mother, who said "It's a witch! Come on kids, we must pray!", so they all fell to their knees and prayed.
There is a great number of bible literalists in the US, and they are raising their kids the same way.
"She married a guy with fuck you money" is the funniest sentence to ever be constructed
The return of the greatest NL segment of ALL TIME
There needs to be a "You are an asshole, but not strictly because of this" tag
the night vison wedding sounds like a hitman level
1:25:34 - Amen Brother. A Wedding with close family is maybe 12-15 people, is affordable, and you can get amazing food. As soon as you invite one cousin or Uncle, there are 50 more people you have to invite and the wedding becomes insane. Forget that… a small wedding is the only way to go unless you’re a friggin millionaire.
Watching a virtual belly dance has the same energy as getting take out from hooters
It turns out the rumours of the demise of react court were exaggerated indeed!
Best Victorias Day ever!
I want to play the hitman level of that lights-out wedding
Kate's "oh no it's you!" killed me 💀
"I'm kinda close to my *wife"*
What the fuck is Reddit smoking?
That was the first clue to that post being a fake.
I think was meant to be a joke
@@fledbeast5783 Knowing reddit's strange brand of misogyny, prob not
@@jenm1 Do you bother listening to the parts of the video where NL dunks on people for automatically assuming the absolute worst about everyone involved with a story? OP says it's a joke in the comments, by the way.
"wife bad" humor, truly peak comedy that definitely never belies any lowkey actual resentment
That guy talking about his brother's "spawn" and how he was "created", like he's talking about a fuckin' homunculus lmao
Cold.
Timestamps for Posterity
00:37 AITA - For Keeping Track of when people said you'll get it when you're older
05:30 AITA - For not refunding clients because of my weight gain
11:12 AITA - For having a 'lights out' wedding
26:20 AITA - For making fun of my BIL for losing in crypto market
30:27 AITA - For Ruining Easter by agreeing with a self righteous little brat
41:31 (K8 + Smoothie Cameo)
45:10 AITA - For not wanting my husband to work from home
48:57 AITA - For telling my (sperm donated) "nephew" is not part of our family
1:01:55 AITA - For skipping Family togethers because my gf doesn't feel welcome
1:11:58 AITA - For no longer playing a video game with my stepson after my own son said its unfair
1:17:57 AITA - For defending my frinedand saying my wife needs to work on her insecurities
1:25:16 (Thoughts on Weddings/AITA Weddings)
1:26:52 AITA - For bringing my my girlfriend to my aunt's wedding despite my family's warnings
"That's a nice asshole right there" - Ryan Letourneau (2022)
The last episode made me laugh out loud on the subway. I’m so ready for this! Bring me them hot takes.
DONT CALL IT A COMEBACK
I'VE BEEN HERE FOR YEARS
Just do the whole wedding with the lights on, and tell the blind parents that the lights were off the whole time
Right? I'm so surprised no one brought this up. If they're blind and want to wear specific fabrics than do so, why turn off the lights for the other 121 people who are all presumably sighted?
The point is for the bride and the guests to experience it that way.
I'm surprised no one said to accept the invitation, not turn up but say you went.
15:40 The thing about this one is it just sounds like a really fun idea. It's like originally you got the idea from accommodating your parents, but then it was like wait, this sounds really cool. People will still be able to see, and in my experience 90% of the reception is spent with the lights down as low as they can be anyway. Honestly I would love to got to a wedding like that it sounds so fun. Although to be fair About Time is one of my favourite movies so they already had me on board when they referenced that.
I also think people, including NL are just way overthinking it. Not in terms of the safety that should be thought about and considered. But it's their wedding and they wanna have fun with it and do their own thing. You might not have had fond memories of your wedding if it was yours, but that's why it isn't your wedding. If they wanna do it, and they do it and love it, and have great memories of their cool wedding, then the wedding has served it's purpose to be honest. What other people think really doesn't matter that much!
Goddamn he did get me back on side laughing at crypto man though, I'm only human.
I agree, NTA in that case. All the objections were just silly and they're spending THEIR OWN MONEY on THEIR OWN WEDDING which is not going to be totally dark, there will still be some visibility. Plus they hired a team of Sam Fishers. I would actually pay a cover to attend THAT wedding! This is now my fundraiser idea, it will be popular!
the last one should be titled AITA for hoping my family could hold in their homophobia for one day
Well if you know their homophobic and expect them to act differently, then you are a slow learner. all she has done is put her GF in an embarrassing situation.
@@Cheepchipsable The Aunt put everyone in an embarrassing situation by inviting gay people to her wedding when she hates gay people
I'm so fucking hyped for react court coming back LETS GO
The no light wedding has me reeling
The perfect goldilocks zone between being too insane to be real and too out there to just be made up
A classic tale on the AITA subreddit
if OP = athiest
then OP = NTA
The thought of being called fat dumb hubby is weirdly funny to me.
Edit: people with night vision watching me pick my nose is terrifying.
Laughed out loud at "last one in the Prius is Derek Jeetah"
37:45
Redditors Try Not to Make the Same Joke (But Worse) Challenge 2022 (Impossible)
AITA for wanting Mario 64 to come back?
The crypto one is completely fake, he's just using a popular opinion for internet points. The wedding one is a complete get some real problems scenario, just have the wedding and if some people don't show it literally doesn't matter.
Dude I'm actually so deeply pogged to watch this while eating my dinosaur nuggets I recently bought and my homemade fries, infinite hype all around.
ah, an enjoyer of joke foods
The ”YTA because you posted on /r/AITA” take is so good
"Here's your fentanyl, honey"
-NL 2022
I see React Court, I pog out of my gourd. This is seriously some of the best content NL ever did and that is saying something.
This one has a lot of "what are you talking about, what is going on " moments.
The returnal of react court is honestly the best news I've had in weeks, glad to see another episode! :)
love how with NL it's both fun to agree and disagree with him, especially in react court
Alternative lights out wedding solution. The bride wears a blindfold throughout. You're welcome.
I have never laughed out loud so much at a NL video before. Improv class is really paying off!
Blind wedding sounds like a fun and different experience to me. If I care about them and that's what they want, let's just enjoy it. I wouldn't want other people to tell me how to do my own wedding idk
I mean thats my whole thing. He went on a rant about how it's her wedding. Well ya and thats what she wants lol.
yeah that's one where honestly NL was TA there lol...his whole point was "i don't like it"...if it's someone not that close to you just don't go..if it's someone that close just f-ing stomach an unconfortable day ..but hey it's pretty on brand for him to be the old curmudgeon lol
You can do whatever you want with your wedding. Just don't expect other people to come or enjoy it if you're doing some stupid shit with it.
They're literally blind why do they care if the lights are on or off. Just make them wear whatever fabric they want and keep the lights on. It may be your wedding, but you aren't the only person there. You can still theme it, low lights would be a better compromise then glow sticks. At that point it sounds like a rave wedding more than a blind one anyways.
@@Sp33LzZz The point is not that the parents will feel at ease with the lights off, it was that other people experience life as she has growing up with blind parents. It was about being literally unable to judge others on their looks and going for other senses like feel/texture or hearing.
If you don't like the person enough to try it, just don't come lol
Just read the "9yo thread" and I legit dont really know how someone (and the whole thread) can be THAT clueless with social cue. On top of that, the redditors KNEW it was a 9yo kid (because of the thread) unlike OP who initially assume He's a 12yo.
I dont think even the average 4chan goer wont go that far against a 9yo tbh
My local library is currently closed due to a fire and as a favor to my mother who is a local council member, I agreed to host the Drag Queen Story Hour in my grandfathers palatial home library which I recently inherited. One of the kids in attendance, who I incorrectly assumed was a boy due to her short hair and non-gender specific attire, came up to me and asked me how many people I was in a relationship in. When I answered "just one, my girlfriend", she asked me if that meant that I didn't believe in polyamory. I responded that I am agnostic to the idea, but that personally I find monogamous relationships preferable. She said "oh, so you're one of those incels then right?" This kind of annoyed me, so I responded "yeah, that's why I have those AR15s in the basement. The incel rebellion has begun brother!". She instantly started crying, snot running down her face, and ran to one of the drag queens and told him that she did not feel safe in this house and that they should all leave. My mother is furious with me and says this incident has hurt her chances at reelection. My dad wrote an fb post apologising on my behalf but soon after deleted it. Now my mom and her boyfriend won't even let dad sleep in the house with them. AITA?
The average 4channer isn't allowed to be alone with 9 year olds
The kid is 9, not 5. At that age he should've known better. That being said the dude went completely insane with everything he did after that
@@Revacholiere honestly even a 12 year old I could expect saying stuff like that
@@Revacholiere im honestly just very confused by that sentiment. a 9 year old knows better than to ask an adult why they dont go to church? bro hes 9. and he has very christian parents. the chances of him understanding the social nuance and etiquette of differing religious beliefs is like absolute zero at that age lmao
The wedding story is a rough one.
On one hand, I get the appreciation for the blind parents. I get that it's painful living with these handicaps weighing you down, but this is the wedding of her and her husband, it's not an obstacle course. People don't come to your special day to be reminded of how lucky they are to not be disabled - that's such a fucked up thing to subject people to without a will of their own.
And don't even wing it with the excuse "But everyone already agreed to come!", of course they did. You think your friends would openly tell you in your face that this is a bad idea?
It's even worse that she keeps riling up herself on this point, too. "The point isn't about making people uncomfortable!", YES IT IS, YES, YES, YES, YES!!!! What do you THINK people will feel coming to a pretend-blind wedding? "Oh I quite like whatever I'm eating honey, I'm so glad we've been invited to Rachel's wedding! ...Honey? Oh sorry, it's you, John?"
A verbal agreement doesn't make people less uncomfortable with your idea man. You just coerce them to play along because otherwise they'll be "That person who couldn't even come to my wedding" and you know damn well that's what she'll say in the aftermath, 99% of people do.
I love how NL doesn't think conflict or strange people are real.
I know it would make the scoring much more complicated, but it should be an option to say something to the effect of ‘Based, Red Pilled, but Your the Asshole.’ I very often pick NTA because that’s closest to the spirit of what I think, but if I could say I agree with you and would probably have done the same or similar to what you did, but that makes us both assholes, I would pick that. Thanks for attending my TED talk.
I thought this was a previous episode and then I saw it was posted 4 hours ago and got really excited! Glad this is back!
"It's not possible for a 9 year old kid to ruin Easter" Hold my Ribena.
He obviously hasn't met a lot of 9 yos.
The best series has RETURNED
I just don't understand why the aunt invited a gay person to her wedding if she didn't want gay people at her wedding. If you're that homophobic where seeing two people just existing upsets you, maybe you should save everyone the effort and just admit you're a piece
homophobic and transphobic people get offended at being called that even though they don't hide their phobia at all, it's strange lol..
The whole pitch black wedding thing sounds awesome. However I would like to see who I’m talking to during the reception. Not to mention glow bracelets and necklaces would have a “zebra effect” on the dance floor and you won’t know where people actually are
as someone who went to "many nightclubs and raves in their teens", you would've thought that OP would have remembered how chaotic those kinds of places are.
In the marketplace of ideas, I load up on Northernlion calls, exercise them the day they expire, and collect a frankly obscene dividend in pogs.
"Owned in the marketplace of ideas" sounds like some new kind of slavery.
My opinion on wedding stories like this is generally “your wedding is about you, but you’re also a host so don’t do a bunch of crap to inconvenience them”. Save the goofy themes for when you only a small group that would enjoy it
Excited for this to come back, if it does. I drive a LOT for my job and this series is by far the thing I look forward to listening to the most. More than any audio book, podcast, or music.
I forget when it's been a while since he's done AITA but when he does I fucking pog
It took the entire public debacle that is Heard vs Depp for NL to be like "Yeah this was good content"
Ryan I am begging I know I’m just a lowly TH-cam Highlights Watcher but please keep doing more react courts they’re so good
I’ve been waiting in suspense for 108 days - I can finally see my family again
I physically pogged when I saw this. May be a wake up call.
yea for him to listen to the fans!
Always delighted to see react court come back.
This video is so fucking good! I cried with laughter at least 4 times this video! Thank you