·siko· Dude this video is full of very bad information it's telling u to lie at times but u really need to be truthfull don't believe videos like this.
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That’s what happens with me. I’ve noticed I can have some toxic characteristics with my friends from watching this vid. But that’s mainly because I’m angry at them.
True I have a feiend who basically says she's the only friend I have gets mad when I compliment other people or hang out with my cousins. Nd she always says who nobody likes me, that I'm boring, and my personality is the reason why I got bullied.😠
@@dianatrejo2006 here i got bullied for being a orphan!! I am 21 still in my life i didn't made a friend Day by day i forgetting does friends exist or not
😔 why is it so hard to find genuine people? When I try to make friendships, which is rare. I feel like I’m the only one that tries, I give everything and get little back.
Right?? What you think of this? I had friend that always had pick a fight Everytime I tried to talked to her since I had moved and she goes tell other friend I been friend with since 4 grade and idk if it jealous or what it with her but she always had a attitude but I have found about what happened and she still have took her angry at me and other friend I grew up with said that she haven't talked her but yet she said she agreed with her and they both block me
Lucky Charm hmm my friend and I blocked another guy that was friends with me cause he borrowed money from me and started making stories gossip and framed me on not having given him money or I took it from him(the other friend was at the scene).
Some people are like that..Just let em go. If you keep on trying u'll end up being left alone all the time. Try to be friends with people who are silly ,less cool or are alone all the time. Even if they wont tell jokes or wont be cool all the time..such people will be genuine.
Well.. I do feel like I'm the toxic friend here... But I liked the video cause maybe now I stop being that kind of friend. I do feel bad about myself right now but I'm guessing it's me who was wrong. And i cane here to change that.
I have a friend that likes to argue a lot and thinks she is always right, and when she realizes that she is wrong, she changes her mind and acts like that is how it was from the beginning
Or maybe it’s wrong to let a person behind a voice tell you what is right and what isn’t. If someone you care about is hanging around bad people or picking up bad habits, wouldn’t it be best to intervene? What if they have food on their face? You wouldn’t tell them because it’s rude? Do you really believe everything people tell you? Of course most of this video is common sense, but those small details can leave a big impression on a weak minded individual. If you agree with everything here than you have no ability to think freely.
Nathan or maybe the differences between the two are stated quite simply, clearly, and honestly. Having food on ones face is NO where near the example used in the video. Thats a reach. This video can give most people the chance to have an open conversation with themselves and their possible toxic friend. The only concern is that impressionable people (mainly teens, probably the adjective you meant to use) not “weak” people may using this video as an excuse to disregard a misunderstood friend(though honestly, if they cause more trauma and drama in your life than necessary, then you need to cut the chord).
@@nathan3170 yeah i agree with you, one should always inform their friend Especially if they being a slob or someshit id say the ones who save it for behind their backs are the real toxic ones also we all shouldnt listen to one video since all people are different
to all you who say you only have toxic friends. People reflect yourself. You have many toxic friends? maybe look at what you do first. I used to be toxic, had ALOT of friends, but they were all superficial. I than became more mature. I only have 4 friends now, but I really care about them and they care about me.
Sadly I’m having to do this but I’ll have no friends so it’s hard even though there are really not good for me it’s still hard I’m going to be alone now
When u insult yr friends and u mean it just for fun and you do it in a way they understand u don't mean it is completely fine some sense of humour is needed in any relationship
Yes but what if ya only got 3 friends n they are all of the toxic nature ....being alone is not always good ..it's hard to laugh at ur own same old jokes lol ..it's just want a friend who can be honest,caring and not only looking for personal gain ....but my city is considered one of the worst possible places sooo ...I dunno
Bruh I was everything a toxic friend was and I didn't realize till me friend told me I was toxic so I'm trying to change I was just raised weirdly so it's hard
M Goncalves this is actually true, and in my opinion its good, it means they are confortable with you, know how to take a joke and aren't shy of eachother
I actually found this true. My best friends and I always tease each other and push each other (not hard) a few of these things on this video I find can be true in different friendships (keep in mind a few not all) I find a toxic friend is someone who lies to your face if you ask how you look, and let you be honest back to them and never get offended. But this video is good, and so is the comment I'm replying too. Have a wonderful day or night.
There's a difference between a best friend telling you you don't look good, and someone trying to bully you saying you look bad. You know which one it is by YOUR reaction.
My friends: we never hang out! I miss you! Me: let’s hang out Friday, we can have some dinner and drinks after My friends: sorry! I have things going on, I’ll hit you up when I’m free Me: waits 3 years
You can always give your friend a call and apologise, let them know that you understand what you did to them wasn't the best, a little bit of communication can go a long way
I mean realizing that some of your close friends display some of these traits is painful, but looking in the mirror and realizing you've been guilty of displaying some of those in the past ist just as painful.
1:49 - 1:56 Wrong. Sometimes, friends like that are actually toxic because they compliment you no matter what. This can give you a false sense of security, and maybe even take away your self awareness. Just because a friend says you always look great, doesn't mean everyone else thinks the same thing. Sometimes it's good for a friend to critique you, so you can learn from your mistakes. *That's* a good friend.
@Jacelyn Suprise The spiders are gigantic this year. We haven't had those big spiders in years prior. Disgusting. And I still have that friend even though I KNOW she's toxic. Idk what else she has to do before I block her.
Well you did try to force them to stay under your rule and doubt their new country and presidency... And assume that they'd be crawling back to you not the other way around..
#1 nope.. they don't do that #2 no #3 they hate all my clothes #4 oh... i have only toxic friends #5 .....no #6 they don't belive me #7 ohh..... nobody calls me with question " how are your day " #8 toxic friends .... that is my world #9...... #10 i don't tell to anyone my secrets ..... i can't belive anyone ! all my friends are toxic 💔😢
I dont think a friend that lies to you when you actually look terrible ans say look good is not even a good friend. A good friend would tell you the truth because honestly it would save you the embarrassment of being criticized. Some of the things on the list are a bit disagreeable.
I wouldn't try and give a friend a makeover but if I was out shopping with them I would give honest advice about clothes they pick out before they pay for them.
I haven't recognized any of these in my friends, but I just recognized a lot of these in myself with my relationship to my husband. He is an angel and I don't want to be another spider in his already infested life. I didn't realize until now how unhealthy I have been, but at least now I know where I need to start improving.
1:45 that is completely wrong...good friends should criticize if there is anything wrong...friends who say "ohh ...you look great" even if you have the worst costume are toxic....
It's about how they make you feel. They want you to be comfortable or to feel awkward and embarrassed. Obviously they can tell you if you dressing is appropriate or not.
My good friends will be honest with me even if it hurts my feelings. Part of the trust I place in my friends is that they will not be dishonest or conceal the truth, so if they are too agreeable then I can no longer trust them, and that damages the relationship I have with them. In other words, the "good friend" described in this video would not be a good friend to me. I prefer the mean, grumpy, yet honest ones, to be honest. (;
There’s definitely truth to this video, but I also I that “bad” friends can turn into good relationships if you commit to setting boundaries & if there is a genuine sense of care expressed by both sides
That was really odd. I've never heard anyone compare people to spiders before and spiders don't have any personality stereotypes like pigs being slobs so it made no sense.
Me, bowl in lap, having puked multiple times: Hey dude, I'm really sick, I think I need to get off my phone for now. Can we talk later? My (ex) friend: *despite hearing me clearly, continues to talk about their day* Me: *literally still puking*
I remember when I was a toxic friend, I convinced my self that I was always right. I was really unaware of this most toxic friends I knew got angry, I always cried instead. It was not until I noticed what I was doing My life really changed. I changed how I acted and just became a better person, I made a lot more friends, I am a more happier person in general. Don't ever become friends with a toxic person trying to change them, they can only change themselves. I know that from experience
Everyone at my school knows that I never tell secrets, mainly because I don't talk much during school. but because of this lots of people tell me their secrets and lots of people try to get me to tell them stuff about other people. I probably know things that could make the most popular people in my school become the most hated person ever
One of my friends was very very toxic. They were demanding, wanted free food all the time, wanted free service from my business, got their friends to go after me when they didn’t get their way, and overall were very emotionally draining. I cut them off after knowing them for 13 years because of this and intend to never talk to them again.
I feel the losing temper easily one has more to do with someone's personality than them being a toxic friend. Who wouldn't want to be the type of person to just laugh off a stressful situation? In reality people fall on a spectrum when it comes to dealing with problems, it has nothing to do with being a good friend or not. It's up to you to make sure you're not being disrespected.
But then you just silently turn around and walk away and say NOTHING, I did this with a neighbour of my dads when his stuff was being cleared out of his home after he died. My Dad lived in a 4 story block of flats on the top story, as the removal company was taking his stuff away, they were putting some of the big stuff on his landing and blocking the other tenant's doors. only temporary for 10 minutes, as my dad had died not for long you can imagine how I was feeling to see his stuff going. well one of his neighbours had came in and started to bawling me out, as to the stuff on the landing, my 1st instinct was to deck him as I was not up to being civil because of what I was dealing with I kept my cool and ignored him. I am waiting for my dads home to be sold and I make a point not to communicate with his neighbour on purpose
I have two friends who beg me to hang out with them ALL. THE. TIME. They just don’t seem to understand that I’m a fairly introverted person and need my share of alone time. Especially after school. To make matters worse whenever I actually do hang out with them they always deticate most of their time and energy to finding a new way to push me over the edge and snap. I don’t understand how this is entertaining to them and I never will.
I have 3 best friend in college 1st 99% toxic friend 2nd 75% toxic friend 3rd 1% toxic friend The first one hate my friends,she always want to make me jealous by being with the 2nd friend,She just text me or call me when she need help about homeworks or other school stuffs. She always make me jealous by taking pictures with other friends. She always take all my cakes and in return she never give me some but she just give to 2 nd one that never gave her cakes and all this just to make me jealous. She always uses my time just by gossiping about other friends and about her time.AnD even through she my "cousin". 2nd always need me about CAKES AND CAKES AND CAKES . *AM I THAT USELESS?!*😟 3rd one is a good person but never help me,like when I am handling 10 things in my hand,she'll never help me with it.... *GOD I ONLY NEED ONE BEST FRIEND,A TRUE FRIEND,A TRUSTWORTHY FRIEND,AND I PROMISE I WILL GIVE MY BEST TO MAKE HER HAPPY!!!* WHO ELSE NEED A BEST FRIEND 😢😢😢😭😭😭😭
You’re not the only one , ok 😭🥺 I’ve been praying to God to just give me the real friends , don’t care how many it is, 1 or 2 or 5. Just need real friends!🥺
1st friend: blames me for every thing 2nd friend: always grabs my time 3rd friend : get jealous 4th friend judges me of what i wear 5th friend: a real friend
Ikr. All my friend does is complain whenever I hang out with another friend. Then she told me to watch this, wow. Am I really a toxic friend for being friends with somebody besides her?
WolfurLily That sounds really Really manipulative! I'd say consider your actions and whether or not you do the stuff in the video to others. If not, then THEY are the toxic ones trying to project their jealousy onto you. Be careful!
I think one would only consider criticism to be a trait of a toxic friend if the person receiving the criticism was extremely insecure. Criticism comes with feeling comfortable being honest with your friend and there's nothing wrong with healthy criticism, because it helps us to develop into better people; sometimes feeling awkward and uncomfortable is exactly what we need to realize that what we're doing is either foolish or potentially dangerous. It can't always be a free-for-all of feelings
I have a friend who always likes to start arguements with everyone. Let's call her F. One day, there was a kid in the lower grade who broke his neck, and nearly died. Once an actual friend of mine told F what happened, F responded with, 'XD'. We told her, 'Hey, that isn't really funny. You wouldn't be laughing if it were you in the hospital.' She got all offended, and said, 'Well, it's your fault because you're judging me. I'm not a bully like all of you.' Using logic, I said, 'If we were bullies, I'm pretty sure we'd be laughing, along with you.' F ended up putting the blame on me. She is very manipulative. :(
Drawn Terribly Yeah something similar happened to me, when my friend was yelling at me and I told her to stop but she got up in my face and said 'Geez, you don't have to be rude about it!' , when she was being rude to me! I feel you 😊
I’m both toxic and a good friend and I’m not afraid to admit it. I clicked on this video because I’ve just lost one of my friends but actually , now I see it was also my fault. I don’t do all of these things, the only toxic thing I do is probably want my friends to talk to me and just me all of the time because I get scared they’ll find someone better or leave me (which they usually have done). But I don’t judge or do other things. I love being helpful and being there for people. Thank you for this
Same I was crying because someone said I did terrible things to them and was telling everyone, they told a girl who was becoming my close friend the lies and started saying hurtful things. I told my best friend and she said "I think you're being real sensitive." I broke into tears when I told her.
The last one.... Once I told my best friend I had a crush on someone and this other person found out about it and he told her he knew who it was and she specifically told him, “I don’t need to know, I respect her too much to find something like this out.” I almost cried for how happy I was.
I have a toxic friend, she doesn't understand that I want to have my space and when we meet she always talks about her friends and srly I don't even care about her internet friends.
yeah my bff I am not really sure but she does not respect my space she is aways whit and sometime it's pretty annoying but I really have luck to have her as an friend cuz she accepts me even I'm a bit crazy and insane but she just laughs at in a good way and I trust her that much I tell her when I have my period and she does the same even tho i am sometimes a bad friend like I hate her sometimes but I am super happy to have her and I have luck to have another bff like friend she is polite whit me and even trust me and thold about her crush so I'm not lonely anymore yaaay
My friend likes to gossip about people right in front of us when I'm not interested in it at all, whenever we're out she always seems disinterested and only talks about her issues and life and boyfriend, and backchats about someone then acts like them. When I went to a museum with them together for my school work they would not listen when I said we should go to the next section I could finish my work instead they just wanted to sit down and do what they wanted and complain when I was trying to get my work done to the point I got angry and told them they are not taking me serious and to come so I could finish my work. Also when we are in public they put on a really fake voice like 'oh my God, she totally did this ' and i dont find it funny its quite annoying. I just want to walk normally and chat normally but they think everything theyre saying is the funniest thing in the world and I can only give small laughs. Also when I made sarcastic jokes they wouldn't laugh and instead tease me or put me down saying 'you're the weirdest' etc and stuff and I got tired of it. I'm not one to usually take things personally from my friends but this friend is antagonising.
mint suga I hope you have walked away from that person. I've gone through the same experience than you and believe me, it is the best you can do for yourself. You can always find nicer people that won't judge you.
What you think of this? I had friend that always had pick a fight Everytime I tried to talked to her since I had moved and she goes tell other friend I been friend with since 4 grade and idk if it jealous or what it with her but she always had a attitude but I have found about what happened and she still have took her angry at me and other friend I grew up with said that she haven't talked her but yet she said she agreed with her and they both block me
Guys, don't watch these videos to judge the way in which your relationships are. You just need to know this- Friends are people who make you feel special. You're always comfortable around them and will be. But you will always feel uncomfortable and out of place around toxic friends. *Peace*
Not necessarily, someone exhibiting toxic behaviour could feel good and special around the people they're doing it too and the others feel so bad being around them but don't pull them up on their behaviour.
Ok honestly I see all these comments about how u realized some of ur friends are toxic and this is what I have to say to u: if ur friend only exhibits one or possibly two of these qualities, then don't start something. I'm not sure what this video was meant to do, but I feel like it may send a message of idealism in friends that honestly nobody can live up to. These aren't friends that u described, they are yes men/women. Ur friend will do what's best for u, even if it means not being very nice. They want the best for you, and it'll be easy to tell these friends from the jealous buttwipes who insult everything u do. I have a HUGE temper, but my friends accept me because I'm working on it and they have flaws too. Nobody is perfect, and though if ur friend has a lot of these qualities u should just stop and think, the idealistic and yes-man/woman image portrayed in this video isn't very realistic. I promise you, I'm not hating. I personally think that this video will help people.... but I really don't like the image that they're painting of a good friend.
bunxi boy as I said, this list is accurate if they do a lot of these things. U should, first, confront ur friend and ask them why they're treating u like this. However, this sends an (I've used this word so u can probably guess what it is) idealistic message that there is such thing as friend who won't lose their temper, will be okay with all your other friends, and will always agree with u. Nobody's like this! Reconsider ur friendship ONLY IF ur friend does a lot of these things. Plz don't think I'm trying to act like I know more than u do, I honestly just want to make sure nobody throws away their friends because of a video.
Emma Grey yeah, if your friend only shows one or two of these qualities, then don't just drop them for being a 'toxic friend', just start to be concerned when they reach five to six qualities....
Those 10 differences are completely true about my toxic best friend 😔😔😣 .Thank you bright side for let me know more about my toxic best friend !🤗🤗I really appreciate your help!
edit: jomarline i hope u know this comment is for you. same😢😩😢 she does all these things and pays attention to her phone and TIKTOK more than me, and i naturally have long nails so when i paint them, she begs her mom to go get her nails done and to put blingy things on them so they look better than everyones, she also knows i am not allowed to have a phone, yet she brags about her new phone and expensive things all the time, and then she wonders why i have such a nice room and no phone or airpods or watch or ipad, just a computer and she has all that and no nice things that much, all she got is a small bed a dresser and a nightstand which has some jewelry on it and clothes. well she dont have nice things cuz she chooses airpods and electronics over nice clothes room decor a bigger bed a desk and more. she is starting to become "that girl" type of person if you know what i mean
Because of the now disabilites of the cancer I had, and the damage the radiotherapy treament thats been left behind on both legs in the form of D V TS AND BLOOD CLOTS. All of the friends I had exept 1 true friend who has stayed the distance with me, The rest of my well ex friends if they see me hobbling and see me walking badly in the street, they dont meet me and ask how am I doing or am I ok. I am a 54 year old man coming up to 55 years old, I am very soon to have an operation on my 2 legs to have the blood clots removed. The friends I thought I had wont be around, I am thankfull for 1. Even when my dear old dad passed over, they were not around its times like this you get to know who your true friends are. The truth is I have come this far any way, in a period of 7 month since my dad died I did everything unsupported. But hey now its time for me, thats the best part, my job is done.
Thanks PrinceVegeta595 other than pain and discomfort in my legs and worrying signs bubbling up, I need to get checked out its an absolute bore pal, but an absolute need it has to be done. so thanks for thinking about me, I really appreciate that.
I call these people emotional vampires. I cut loose a friend I knew for a very long time. He was always angry and would erupt into childish temper tantrums and he was in his late fifties. His outbursts were something I would expect from a two year old which made me realize he was very mentally ill. I believe this video mentions that jealousy is all over someone's face. I misjudged him because I 'm confident and I didn't realize just how much he resented me and was jealous of me. In retrospect, given that I cut our friendship off four years ago now realize this. I finally wrote him an e-mail telling him off and was brutally honest about something he did that put me at risk at his work place. E-mailing was the only way I could communicate with him uninterrupted because he would interrupt me constantly when he didn't want to hear something he might not want to hear. He was classic small man with a Napoleon complex. He was the type of person that could never admit he was wrong or say he's sorry. If I said the weather was great, he'd refute me and find some technicality that was unimportant. He was very unhappy and insecure and felt a weight was lifted off of me. Avoid these people at all cost and wish them well and be the bigger person. They're just not worth it. Let these toxic, passive aggressive people that like to pull childish guilt trips on you and others wallow in their own nightmare prison of the mind. AVOID!
I had this one friend, she was one of my best friends. She was always controlling me to do what she wants, and of course I agreed cz she was my best friend.when I achieve something, she says that she can do better, and I encouraged her. But one day, she got in a fight with all our class, on whatsApp, she told me, and I was not understanding her cz she was saying some crazy stuff that don't make sense.And after she told me she says that she made a mistake for telling me, and I wasn't doing anything wrong, I was trying to help her. And she got mad from my other best friend( let's call her bff). My bf didn't do anything wrong, she was trying to solve the problem and end it peacefully, But my best friend made me choose: her or my bff ( my best friend was always jealous of her). I didn't want to choose cz I love them both. She got extremely mad and made me choose. I chose my bff , Cz I wanted to make things right(and I told her the truth cz I can't lie to her) then she told me that I was always lying to her, and that all out friendship was a lie. Me and my bff understand each other better, and me and my best friend can't go together, there was always some arguments between us. But after all of this, I felt that a piece of me has gone, but maybe that was the right decision. And after this vid I knew that our friendship was toxic. Srry for the long comment, I wanted to express my feelings. Thank you for listening
• Average Perfume • you know, she may be toxic, but yes there are some people who get so angry fast and don't know what to do at that very moment. I think she might had felt sorry after this... this doesn't define her as a toxic friend,,, sweet heart.
random Me same i ha e like 2 toxis 50/50 friends and only 1 friend that truly is there for me... when I told my toxic friend that I can do a front flip now she said oh I could do that since grade 0/kindergarten she was being rude but in the end I just left... but she got better about gloating so... she a little better than before
I used to have toxic friends. But they weren't my real friends. I quickly let go of them and now I'm really happy with the friend group that I have now and I'm very happy with my best friends with whom I've known for 5-6 years now
Erica Blocker Yes that’s a good reason NOT to keep the same set of friends. When a friend insists on still being friends with someone who is a bully then something is wrong with that person as well. Good and healthy people will not put up with consistently unhealthy people.
Very accurate list. Might also want to add number 11: toxic friends will NEVER be above pettiness and low blows. If you happen to have had a heated disagreement with them, they will seek any means to hurt you, even if it's a very morally low thing to do. Good friends will never make things that personal.
I have toxic friend in my high school . Once I won an award for the best art And she said “so.. . She always makes me feel uncomfortable. I am leaving her
I always trying to be good friend but my friends always stab my back.
Hasharina Haidar Cut them loose.
Hasharina Haidar friends don't hurt your well being
Hasharina Haidar the same with me
Hasharina Haidar same
Hasharina Haidar that used to hapoen to me. Once I got into high school, I got great friends and treated them very, very well (:
I think we can all be toxic by accident sometimes
It does not mean it is right though
Isabella Andrews-Cookson yeah
true
You can't control your thoughts & behavior!!!
@@leeshmurda3469 yes you can, that's no excuse
this just makes me realize how much of a bad 'friend' i am..
·siko· Dude this video is full of very bad information it's telling u to lie at times but u really need to be truthfull don't believe videos like this.
Don't listen to the video it's full of wrong information.
·siko· ikr same with me :(
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·siko· same
I'm just tired being friends with people, they will all end up looking down on me, ignoring me, talking behind my back, or make fun of my appearance.
Sometimes it’s hard to find a better real friend expectly shy people
We can be friends ε(*´･ω･)з
who wanna be friends with me
@@Iluvhim3622 yay a friend
That’s what happens with me. I’ve noticed I can have some toxic characteristics with my friends from watching this vid. But that’s mainly because I’m angry at them.
Toxic friends are just bullies who force you to hang out with them
Not totally true
True I have a feiend who basically says she's the only friend I have gets mad when I compliment other people or hang out with my cousins. Nd she always says who nobody likes me, that I'm boring, and my personality is the reason why I got bullied.😠
.. True
@@dianatrejo2006 here i got bullied for being a orphan!!
I am 21 still in my life i didn't made a friend
Day by day i forgetting does friends exist or not
Ava tale yup!
"You are who you hang with!" So choose wisely.
Gypsy Tee good because my 2 best friends I've always considered really good girls amd good people. 😁😁
Gypsy Tee Definitely
Yup not everyone in the world likes u for being good to them
I hang out with my teacher at school so im my teacher
What if the people you hang with pretend to be your friend to gain more stuff in their lives ????
Where can I download these "good friends" you speak of?
David Lenart i got you to 69 likes.... i have fricking problems
I got it to 205
David Lenart got you to 220
David Lenart Google it. (:
Nevermind GOOD friends, is there a website i can download friends in general
I came to find if my friends are toxic...
I'm the toxic one,...
Oof
At least you have the guts to accept it
At least you admitted it! :)
i just realised i was toxic too
I'm a bit toxic too 🤣
I admit I used to be a toxic friend, I'm learning more and more every day on how to be a good friend to others.👍
same
Kt the Logician 👏
Kt the Logician same
Kt the Logician Good On You!
Kt the Logician the fact that you recognize your mistake makes you non toxic CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤
😔 why is it so hard to find genuine people?
When I try to make friendships, which is rare. I feel like I’m the only one that tries, I give everything and get little back.
Right?? What you think of this? I had friend
that always had pick a fight Everytime I tried to talked to her since I had moved and she goes tell other friend I been friend with since 4 grade and idk if it jealous or what it with her but she always had a attitude but I have found about what happened and she still have took her angry at me and other friend I grew up with said that she haven't talked her but yet she said she agreed with her and they both block me
Lucky Charm hmm my friend and I blocked another guy that was friends with me cause he borrowed money from me and started making stories gossip and framed me on not having given him money or I took it from him(the other friend was at the scene).
Ugh be my friend. I need a good friend. I’m so tired of not having a good friend.
Some people are like that..Just let em go. If you keep on trying u'll end up being left alone all the time. Try to be friends with people who are silly ,less cool or are alone all the time. Even if they wont tell jokes or wont be cool all the time..such people will be genuine.
I know exactly how you feel!
Toxic friends will hate this video cuz they just got exposed
ventacon. vantu exactly
Ikr
Lol 😂😂 😂
Haha very true today i feeld to block friend fromy life forever
Well.. I do feel like I'm the toxic friend here... But I liked the video cause maybe now I stop being that kind of friend. I do feel bad about myself right now but I'm guessing it's me who was wrong. And i cane here to change that.
99.9%kids watching this
00.1%adults watching this
True
Yes
Teenagers you mean skksksk
Lol true and you one of them
Okay boomer
I have a friend that likes to argue a lot and thinks she is always right, and when she realizes that she is wrong, she changes her mind and acts like that is how it was from the beginning
@Kallewe: welp u basically described me xD but sometimes I am capable to admit i'm wrong
Kallewe op
Kallewe Yeah lol
Kallewe leave her.
Kallewe I have a friend exactly like that
Why was this recommended to me when I don't have any friends???
TH-cam is mocking you
Gerardo042196 so when you finally get some you know witch ones to cut out
Gerardo042196 same
Why does TH-cam have to rub it on the face? :(
I wouldn't mind having "Toxic Friends". I just want to have friends at all...........(;_;)
3.4k dislikes... I guess all the narcissists felt exposed. 😂
True
Lol
Or maybe it’s wrong to let a person behind a voice tell you what is right and what isn’t. If someone you care about is hanging around bad people or picking up bad habits, wouldn’t it be best to intervene? What if they have food on their face? You wouldn’t tell them because it’s rude? Do you really believe everything people tell you? Of course most of this video is common sense, but those small details can leave a big impression on a weak minded individual. If you agree with everything here than you have no ability to think freely.
Nathan or maybe the differences between the two are stated quite simply, clearly, and honestly. Having food on ones face is NO where near the example used in the video. Thats a reach. This video can give most people the chance to have an open conversation with themselves and their possible toxic friend. The only concern is that impressionable people (mainly teens, probably the adjective you meant to use) not “weak” people may using this video as an excuse to disregard a misunderstood friend(though honestly, if they cause more trauma and drama in your life than necessary, then you need to cut the chord).
@@nathan3170 yeah i agree with you, one should always inform their friend Especially if they being a slob or someshit id say the ones who save it for behind their backs are the real toxic ones also we all shouldnt listen to one video since all people are different
“toxic friends are like spiders, they literally need all your time and attention” girl what spiders have you been hanging out with
I told them four years ago and they still didn't put a statement out.
please-☠
I don't get the spider analogy in this video and he use it twice! 🤷🏽
Hey, spiders just want to hang.
Whyyyyyyyyyyyy spiders????
I have 3 best friends
1st she is 95% a toxic friend
2nd she is 20% a toxic friend
3rd she is 99% a gd friend
.... i spend more time with the first
@SaTaNaMa hahahhaha yh ur rt
Pick friend number 2 they seem reasonable
Sameeee
Go for the third friend
@BangTwiceBangPink :3 army once blink yay 😄
to all you who say you only have toxic friends. People reflect yourself.
You have many toxic friends? maybe look at what you do first.
I used to be toxic, had ALOT of friends, but they were all superficial.
I than became more mature. I only have 4 friends now, but I really care about them and they care about me.
Solar Aqier lucky I have a toxic friend whenever I want to be alone she tells the head teacher on me
My bff is toxic
Solar Aqier what does superficial mean
Then*
Its not important to have like a LOT of friends... 4 to 6 friends i think re enough ...
"toxic friends" = narcissists. Cut ties with them if they keep using and abusing and accusing you unfairly
Sadly I’m having to do this but I’ll have no friends so it’s hard even though there are really not good for me it’s still hard I’m going to be alone now
.....Try having a dog for starters, you won't be alone, then you'll probably attract good people, as good people have dogs generally. You never know!
Bro me and my friends out here roasting each other so we’re all toxic 😂😂
Lol
When u insult yr friends and u mean it just for fun and you do it in a way they understand u don't mean it is completely fine some sense of humour is needed in any relationship
yeah we do that everyday
Yeah me too. I always roast my sisters and close friends. It shows that im close to them and they roast me back.😂😅 And we dont even care
12 year old moment
good friends sure is hard to find .....sigh
Nah it’s not just as long as they don’t use you for their self gain and you and your friend likes to hangout with you it’s ok
ur right. especially here in Canada where ppl r stingy and egocentric af and think that offending others is fun
True..
ThatOneGuy REALLY is
*ehem*
Its best to show toxic friends the door. I am speaking from experience here.
They are not worth the trouble and time to bother with :).
Toxic sisters, too!😈😨
Yes but what if ya only got 3 friends n they are all of the toxic nature ....being alone is not always good ..it's hard to laugh at ur own same old jokes lol ..it's just want a friend who can be honest,caring and not only looking for personal gain ....but my city is considered one of the worst possible places sooo ...I dunno
I'm dealing with one too and I don't know what I'm supposed to do
Transport & Simulation Hub thank you
Oops I guess I’ve been too toxic I have to change my attitude now.
Bruh I was everything a toxic friend was and I didn't realize till me friend told me I was toxic so I'm trying to change I was just raised weirdly so it's hard
@@v_egames1801 That's a true friend. Real friends correct you with love & help you reach your fullest potential.
You guys have a good heart. Good luck on your changes.
Army ...
I need to do the same
This hits different when you actually don't have friends, and realise you are that toxic friend being mentioned here...
😂😂😂
Same dude..same..
When you say:
Ugh, I'm ugly.
Good friends: No, you're not.
Best friends: Ha, I know, right?
*"best friends"*
M Goncalves this is actually true, and in my opinion its good, it means they are confortable with you, know how to take a joke and aren't shy of eachother
I actually found this true. My best friends and I always tease each other and push each other (not hard) a few of these things on this video I find can be true in different friendships (keep in mind a few not all) I find a toxic friend is someone who lies to your face if you ask how you look, and let you be honest back to them and never get offended. But this video is good, and so is the comment I'm replying too. Have a wonderful day or night.
M Goncalves all my friends are judgemental they even pit a dildo in my surname 😑😑
los alamos how do you put a dildo in a surname?
Then that means every person I know is toxic!
Flower Wolf same lol ;-;
Flower Wolf same ;;-;;
Technically we are all are toxic to some degree. Nobody is perfect.
I only have 1 friend and he's a good friend
Flower Wolf, good job
There's a difference between a best friend telling you you don't look good, and someone trying to bully you saying you look bad. You know which one it is by YOUR reaction.
T tus k
Agreed
thank you . best friends know how to be honest Not trying to put you down or make it come off as pompous or rude or mean
well i guess i’m toxi-
*wait, i don’t have any friends!*
let's be toxic together. hahaha :(
Sounds about right..
Lol.🖤
I will be your friend.😊😊
yeah : (
I used to have a friend with all the “toxic characteristics” like everything was spot on. I’m so glad I stopped talking to him!
Same here! Those ppl are disgusting. I recently walked away from a toxic guy who i thought was a friend. Life is better without him
Same! Literally living with one right now.
My friends: we never hang out! I miss you!
Me: let’s hang out Friday, we can have some dinner and drinks after
My friends: sorry! I have things going on, I’ll hit you up when I’m free
Me: waits 3 years
Happily waiting, all on my own. Under the endless sky.
@@supercon20 lol spinel reference
*basically*
Happens to all of us buddy cheer up 😂😉 I will say you one thing stay true to your heart good people will follow
What do you mean
Oh heck I feel like a fake friend now...
Don't worry .. You aren't late to think about the way you act to your friends!! ^^
Im not a toxic friend. I just have mental disabilitys
Same... I feel like I should break up with my friend to save her the trouble.
You can always give your friend a call and apologise, let them know that you understand what you did to them wasn't the best, a little bit of communication can go a long way
Joanne Do fake/toxic people are usually oblivious to the fact that they're bad
I mean realizing that some of your close friends display some of these traits is painful, but looking in the mirror and realizing you've been guilty of displaying some of those in the past ist just as painful.
1:49 - 1:56 Wrong.
Sometimes, friends like that are actually toxic because they compliment you no matter what. This can give you a false sense of security, and maybe even take away your self awareness. Just because a friend says you always look great, doesn't mean everyone else thinks the same thing. Sometimes it's good for a friend to critique you, so you can learn from your mistakes. *That's* a good friend.
Yohead111 I wish there were more people who think like you.
aww thanks :))))
Very true
Very true
Yohead111 Yep.
My spiders don't need all my time and attention. They live on my wall and leave me all the time in the world.
AND they like my family, too.
Theresia Sommer sure...
( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
@Jacelyn Suprise The spiders are gigantic this year. We haven't had those big spiders in years prior. Disgusting. And I still have that friend even though I KNOW she's toxic. Idk what else she has to do before I block her.
some good friends do the "toxic" thing. even me
Edit: Wow! I've never had this much likes on a comment!
blackpink bts kpop anime lover. I kinda sometimes need attention 'just like what Charlie Puth said 😂😛'
Ender Cat lol
blackpink bts kpop anime lover 😂😂😂
blackpink bts kpop anime lover same
sometimes we can be blind.. We don't know what we're actually doing.. Sometimes we don't know it but we're actually causing problems , No offence.
There's no perfect friends, we have flaws
Everyone’s talking about that they have toxic friends and I’m here worrying that I’M the toxic friend😨
no,theirs others.
Well you did try to force them to stay under your rule and doubt their new country and presidency... And assume that they'd be crawling back to you not the other way around..
King George III If you’re worried that means you care about you and your friend’s friendship
Same.
King George III ME TOO
Worst part of toxic friends in my opinion is that they use you to save themselves and don't care what ever that happens to you...
RobloxianOnDrugs happens to me
RobloxianOnDrugs same here
And i realized i'm a toxic friend.
Red Pandai fuck you
RobloxianOnDrugs ii
#1 nope.. they don't do that
#2 no
#3 they hate all my clothes
#4 oh... i have only toxic friends
#5 .....no
#6 they don't belive me
#7 ohh..... nobody calls me with question " how are your day "
#8 toxic friends .... that is my world
#9......
#10 i don't tell to anyone my secrets ..... i can't belive anyone !
all my friends are toxic 💔😢
kája schliech me too
Same
You guys need to cut them loose. In my opinion it's better to be alone than to sell your free time to some toxic idiots.
Same
Kush Berg I agree
I always try to be a good friend
1. I say they look nice even if they don't
2. I help them even when I am extremely busy
Fathima Irshad don’t do that, they will use you and have no respect if you do that. To be honest is the key and communication too
I dont think a friend that lies to you when you actually look terrible ans say look good is not even a good friend. A good friend would tell you the truth because honestly it would save you the embarrassment of being criticized. Some of the things on the list are a bit disagreeable.
QueenOfHearts I say yeah... it’s good! In a manner that they know I mean it looks bad (if that makes sense)
Yea
QueenOfHearts you are right.I also have friends like that
Exactly
I wouldn't try and give a friend a makeover but if I was out shopping with them I would give honest advice about clothes they pick out before they pay for them.
According to my friends, I'm a "Good friend". According to this video, I'm more toxic than a nuclear bomb + fallout.
רז חרש y'all are toxic
רז חרש !Same though
רז חרש אתה מישראל!?
שלום
I'm a good friend because I always forget what secret they told me
Looks like I have no good friends.
RetroR0bbie same
Same
Lets be friends
RetroR0bbie you'll find some eventually. The blessing part is you know what kind of people they are.
same
I haven't recognized any of these in my friends, but I just recognized a lot of these in myself with my relationship to my husband.
He is an angel and I don't want to be another spider in his already infested life. I didn't realize until now how unhealthy I have been, but at least now I know where I need to start improving.
1:45 that is completely wrong...good friends should criticize if there is anything wrong...friends who say "ohh ...you look great" even if you have the worst costume are toxic....
That part👏👏👏
True
Gopi Krishnan Yeah because true friends don't want you going out In public looking bad.
FIameIeaf yup, I know right
It's about how they make you feel.
They want you to be comfortable or to feel awkward and embarrassed.
Obviously they can tell you if you dressing is appropriate or not.
My good friends will be honest with me even if it hurts my feelings. Part of the trust I place in my friends is that they will not be dishonest or conceal the truth, so if they are too agreeable then I can no longer trust them, and that damages the relationship I have with them. In other words, the "good friend" described in this video would not be a good friend to me. I prefer the mean, grumpy, yet honest ones, to be honest. (;
PB Johnny me too i prefer the frank one compared to a friend who is too nice that you won't believe that his/her niceness exist 😄
U can be honest without being mean; keeping in mind the other person's emotions and feelings, and say the same thing in a kind way 😉
PB Johnny exactly.
PB Johnny true lol
PB Johnny 👏
I don't have best friend but i have my mom she is my best friend 😂
OoOF well #KARMA
kimmy ss same
This is so nice ❤❤❤
kimmy ss sameeee I have friends and In my friend group for 6 years but ya know I don’t consider them as my best friends
SAME
There’s definitely truth to this video, but I also I that “bad” friends can turn into good relationships if you commit to setting boundaries & if there is a genuine sense of care expressed by both sides
True/good friends do sometimes criticize and judge you cause they new you can do better
I don't think this narrator knows what spiders are like.
Dana Baldus hahahaha 😂
Dana Baldus me neither
Dana Baldus god damned spiders always trying to keep my attention
Fucking spiders always criticizing me behind my back. I thought they were my friens
That was really odd. I've never heard anyone compare people to spiders before and spiders don't have any personality stereotypes like pigs being slobs so it made no sense.
Toxic friends sounds like sociopaths and narcissists
When you're sick:
Real friends: you should get some rest, I'll talk to you later.
Fake friends: It's just a cold, get over it!
I know what you mean. Genuine concern is a blessing.
@@emuriddle9364 true
Me, bowl in lap, having puked multiple times: Hey dude, I'm really sick, I think I need to get off my phone for now. Can we talk later?
My (ex) friend: *despite hearing me clearly, continues to talk about their day*
Me: *literally still puking*
Yeah,
I guess I’m a real friend to my toxic friend...
Best friends: "DIIIEEEE!" and then they send you everything they did in class and tell them that they love them😂
I remember when I was a toxic friend, I convinced my self that I was always right. I was really unaware of this most toxic friends I knew got angry, I always cried instead. It was not until I noticed what I was doing My life really changed. I changed how I acted and just became a better person, I made a lot more friends, I am a more happier person in general. Don't ever become friends with a toxic person trying to change them, they can only change themselves. I know that from experience
Bluemoonwolf 64 Great comment
Everyone at school told me their secrets all because I usually forgot them in a couple days
Same xD
Everyone at my school knows that I never tell secrets, mainly because I don't talk much during school. but because of this lots of people tell me their secrets and lots of people try to get me to tell them stuff about other people. I probably know things that could make the most popular people in my school become the most hated person ever
Eeveeon The eeveelution master same here
Eeveeon The eeveelution master same
haha, same
Isn't it better to have an actual friend rather than a robot who just compliments you all the time?
Why not, is agree too
X0MNi we all do
X0MNi I'm a robot. Don't worry. I like your hair just the way it is. Haha.
This is probably the best comment I've seen here.
It's sad that this is even a question. I don't understand why people are fake I just don't.
One of my friends was very very toxic. They were demanding, wanted free food all the time, wanted free service from my business, got their friends to go after me when they didn’t get their way, and overall were very emotionally draining. I cut them off after knowing them for 13 years because of this and intend to never talk to them again.
Welp all my friends are toxic
jane hunt same. rest in peace.
I actualy made my friend change his steam name to Toxic. Maybe im toxic too xd
Lorax he's probably silver and always gets 7 day cooldown because of being kicked due to toxicness alot of times.
jane hunt same mine don't respect me at all they use me complain, argue merp
jane hunt i just have 13 Good Friends and 7 toxic
jane hunt my friends, i thought they were nice...SO OPISITE RIGHT NOW
I feel the losing temper easily one has more to do with someone's personality than them being a toxic friend. Who wouldn't want to be the type of person to just laugh off a stressful situation? In reality people fall on a spectrum when it comes to dealing with problems, it has nothing to do with being a good friend or not. It's up to you to make sure you're not being disrespected.
M Alc true
But then you just silently turn around and walk away and say NOTHING, I did this with a neighbour of my dads when his stuff was being cleared out of his home after he died. My Dad lived in a 4 story block of flats on the top story, as the removal company was taking his stuff away, they were putting some of the big stuff on his landing and blocking the other tenant's doors. only temporary for 10 minutes, as my dad had died not for long you can imagine how I was feeling to see his stuff going. well one of his neighbours had came in and started to bawling me out, as to the stuff on the landing, my 1st instinct was to deck him as I was not up to being civil because of what I was dealing with I kept my cool and ignored him. I am waiting for my dads home to be sold and I make a point not to communicate with his neighbour on purpose
I agree whole heartedly
I have two friends who beg me to hang out with them ALL. THE. TIME. They just don’t seem to understand that I’m a fairly introverted person and need my share of alone time. Especially after school. To make matters worse whenever I actually do hang out with them they always deticate most of their time and energy to finding a new way to push me over the edge and snap. I don’t understand how this is entertaining to them and I never will.
Natalia Smith s a m e
Natalia Smith They're not friends.
Haha, if you're too lazy to play why don't you just stop making friends... Isn't that easier?? Friend is toxic anyway.
Relatable
Carrara OMG OMG FINALLY SOME ONE WITH THE SAME PROBLEMS AS ME!!!
My whole class doesn't even care about my achievement
Don’t worry about them they’re not important. Do you.
My doesen't care too but they care only when i tell them (friends only)
@@John_Rambo1982 and plz sub to my channel
@@John_Rambo1982 I subed you
Your whole class is not your friend. Understand that.
So thank you very much for showing me that real friends don't try to put you down.
Wow , how many toxic friends i have :(
Georgi Lazov same :(
So many bro, many...
I think, that good friends often don't meet! It's so f**k...
Don't worry. You're not the only one
NikeronPlay dont swear kid
All my friends were toxic, I have no friends to hang with the summer. I'm not sad or anything, I'm glad they're gone for good
General Potato yeah same for me
Kyle Dell muffin Nah bro I'm fine, thanks for the offer tho. I need some alone time. But I hope you find some great friends that'll treat you better.
Yeah, you don't need those jerks.
General Potato I feel the same way my few good friends are gone
True story potatoes
Thank you. A toxic friend seperated me from the love of my life.
How? mee too😭
Sometimes toxic friends=best friends.
Realising I have no friends
TIFFANIE ALICE that's not a bad thing
ΑAHAHAHAHHA
It okay, youre just like me
Me xD
Yey im not alone😂😂
God, I wish I watched this video 2 years ago, before I made friends with the wrong people, which ruined my life forever
Peggy Schuyler Yeah. Looks like Eliza made the same mistake
Peggy Schuyler it ruined your life forever? what happened
Peggy Schuyler I wish i watched this 5 years ago. A those years i had two toxic and heartbreaking 'friends'
Angelina and Eliza...?
Peggy Schuyler IKR
I have 3 best friend in college
1st 99% toxic friend
2nd 75% toxic friend
3rd 1% toxic friend
The first one hate my friends,she always want to make me jealous by being with the 2nd friend,She just text me or call me when she need help about homeworks or other school stuffs. She always make me jealous by taking pictures with other friends. She always take all my cakes and in return she never give me some but she just give to 2 nd one that never gave her cakes and all this just to make me jealous. She always uses my time just by gossiping about other friends and about her time.AnD even through she my "cousin".
2nd always need me about CAKES AND CAKES AND CAKES .
*AM I THAT USELESS?!*😟
3rd one is a good person but never help me,like when I am handling 10 things in my hand,she'll never help me with it....
*GOD I ONLY NEED ONE BEST FRIEND,A TRUE FRIEND,A TRUSTWORTHY FRIEND,AND I PROMISE I WILL GIVE MY BEST TO MAKE HER HAPPY!!!*
WHO ELSE NEED A BEST FRIEND 😢😢😢😭😭😭😭
Are you really in college
@@stevie0fox162 yep 😟.i wish I was never in this college
Me in need of a best friends 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Awe, I feel the exact same way. It hard looking for a bestfriend its the same as looking for a husband.
You’re not the only one , ok 😭🥺
I’ve been praying to God to just give me the real friends , don’t care how many it is, 1 or 2 or 5. Just need real friends!🥺
1st friend: blames me for every thing
2nd friend: always grabs my time
3rd friend : get jealous
4th friend judges me of what i wear
5th friend: a real friend
Exactly! Except for my list for fifth friend it's all of those combined.
@@chipsandbot9444 same :/
Did you ever stop and think about what type of the friend are you to them?
do we all have the same life?😂
Same except from 4th is my mum
Actually a good friend will tell you if something is wrong
With your look
Everything and Beyond
Yeah but they would say something like this:
Umm your hair is a bit.....But its ok
Ikr. All my friend does is complain whenever I hang out with another friend. Then she told me to watch this, wow. Am I really a toxic friend for being friends with somebody besides her?
WolfurLily That sounds really Really manipulative! I'd say consider your actions and whether or not you do the stuff in the video to others. If not, then THEY are the toxic ones trying to project their jealousy onto you. Be careful!
WolfurLily no girl she's just being toxic
I think one would only consider criticism to be a trait of a toxic friend if the person receiving the criticism was extremely insecure. Criticism comes with feeling comfortable being honest with your friend and there's nothing wrong with healthy criticism, because it helps us to develop into better people; sometimes feeling awkward and uncomfortable is exactly what we need to realize that what we're doing is either foolish or potentially dangerous. It can't always be a free-for-all of feelings
Killing your family members too is absolutely NOT being a friend at all either and I definitely know whom those people are too as I discovered today
I have a friend who always likes to start arguements with everyone. Let's call her F.
One day, there was a kid in the lower grade who broke his neck, and nearly died. Once an actual friend of mine told F what happened, F responded with, 'XD'. We told her, 'Hey, that isn't really funny. You wouldn't be laughing if it were you in the hospital.' She got all offended, and said, 'Well, it's your fault because you're judging me. I'm not a bully like all of you.' Using logic, I said, 'If we were bullies, I'm pretty sure we'd be laughing, along with you.' F ended up putting the blame on me. She is very manipulative. :(
Wow
Drawn Terribly OMG SHE'S SUCH AN IGNORANT LITTLE- okay I'll stop here. Please get away from her. 💗
Drawn Terribly ditch her
Fuck F
Drawn Terribly Yeah something similar happened to me, when my friend was yelling at me and I told her to stop but she got up in my face and said 'Geez, you don't have to be rude about it!' , when she was being rude to me! I feel you 😊
I’m both toxic and a good friend and I’m not afraid to admit it. I clicked on this video because I’ve just lost one of my friends but actually , now I see it was also my fault. I don’t do all of these things, the only toxic thing I do is probably want my friends to talk to me and just me all of the time because I get scared they’ll find someone better or leave me (which they usually have done). But I don’t judge or do other things. I love being helpful and being there for people. Thank you for this
I feel so left out all the time
that's true. especially here in Canada
Same
I was crying because someone said I did terrible things to them and was telling everyone, they told a girl who was becoming my close friend the lies and started saying hurtful things. I told my best friend and she said "I think you're being real sensitive." I broke into tears when I told her.
Dougie samez
the back handed buddy
Ikr like they always run away from me for some reasons... I didn't do anything wrong!
The last one....
Once I told my best friend I had a crush on someone and this other person found out about it and he told her he knew who it was and she specifically told him, “I don’t need to know, I respect her too much to find something like this out.” I almost cried for how happy I was.
"They're like spiders, they literally need all your time and attention." ????? what
I know that weird but he's right
I just thought the same thing.
I have a toxic friend, she doesn't understand that I want to have my space and when we meet she always talks about her friends and srly I don't even care about her internet friends.
August-D ft. genius Suga jjang jjang man boom boom hi rosè
yeah my bff I am not really sure but she does not respect my space she is aways whit and sometime it's pretty annoying but I really have luck to have her as an friend cuz she accepts me even I'm a bit crazy and insane but she just laughs at in a good way and I trust her that much I tell her when I have my period and she does the same even tho i am sometimes a bad friend like I hate her sometimes but I am super happy to have her and I have luck to have another bff like friend she is polite whit me and even trust me and thold about her crush so I'm not lonely anymore yaaay
August-D ft. genius Suga jjang jjang man boom boom Is that supposed to be toxic?
Rani Bhatia, you're so lucky
Tuasu .Clara. glad we found each other.
My friend likes to gossip about people right in front of us when I'm not interested in it at all, whenever we're out she always seems disinterested and only talks about her issues and life and boyfriend, and backchats about someone then acts like them. When I went to a museum with them together for my school work they would not listen when I said we should go to the next section I could finish my work instead they just wanted to sit down and do what they wanted and complain when I was trying to get my work done to the point I got angry and told them they are not taking me serious and to come so I could finish my work. Also when we are in public they put on a really fake voice like 'oh my God, she totally did this ' and i dont find it funny its quite annoying. I just want to walk normally and chat normally but they think everything theyre saying is the funniest thing in the world and I can only give small laughs. Also when I made sarcastic jokes they wouldn't laugh and instead tease me or put me down saying 'you're the weirdest' etc and stuff and I got tired of it. I'm not one to usually take things personally from my friends but this friend is antagonising.
mint suga I hope you have walked away from that person. I've gone through the same experience than you and believe me, it is the best you can do for yourself. You can always find nicer people that won't judge you.
I'm not the one to give advice since I can't do this but try finding other friends
What you think of this? I had friend
that always had pick a fight Everytime I tried to talked to her since I had moved and she goes tell other friend I been friend with since 4 grade and idk if it jealous or what it with her but she always had a attitude but I have found about what happened and she still have took her angry at me and other friend I grew up with said that she haven't talked her but yet she said she agreed with her and they both block me
Ridding toxic friends was the best thing that happened to me! 🙌🏼
Guys, don't watch these videos to judge the way in
which your relationships are.
You just need to know this-
Friends are people who make you feel special.
You're always comfortable around them and will be.
But you will always feel uncomfortable and out of place
around toxic friends. *Peace*
Cherry Pie746 i completely agree
Cherry Pie746 You are so right !
Then, I now know that I have a toxic friend. Thank you.
Not necessarily, someone exhibiting toxic behaviour could feel good and special around the people they're doing it too and the others feel so bad being around them but don't pull them up on their behaviour.
If you have a friend that doesn't mean you are in a relationship! Everything else makes lots of sense
A girl I thought was one of my best friends told me once she pitied me. That made it clear to me that sadly we were far from being best friends...
Ok honestly I see all these comments about how u realized some of ur friends are toxic and this is what I have to say to u: if ur friend only exhibits one or possibly two of these qualities, then don't start something. I'm not sure what this video was meant to do, but I feel like it may send a message of idealism in friends that honestly nobody can live up to. These aren't friends that u described, they are yes men/women. Ur friend will do what's best for u, even if it means not being very nice. They want the best for you, and it'll be easy to tell these friends from the jealous buttwipes who insult everything u do. I have a HUGE temper, but my friends accept me because I'm working on it and they have flaws too. Nobody is perfect, and though if ur friend has a lot of these qualities u should just stop and think, the idealistic and yes-man/woman image portrayed in this video isn't very realistic. I promise you, I'm not hating. I personally think that this video will help people.... but I really don't like the image that they're painting of a good friend.
bunxi boy as I said, this list is accurate if they do a lot of these things. U should, first, confront ur friend and ask them why they're treating u like this. However, this sends an (I've used this word so u can probably guess what it is) idealistic message that there is such thing as friend who won't lose their temper, will be okay with all your other friends, and will always agree with u. Nobody's like this! Reconsider ur friendship ONLY IF ur friend does a lot of these things. Plz don't think I'm trying to act like I know more than u do, I honestly just want to make sure nobody throws away their friends because of a video.
Emma Grey yeah, if your friend only shows one or two of these qualities, then don't just drop them for being a 'toxic friend', just start to be concerned when they reach five to six qualities....
Emma Grey well those your comment still count if my friends have all this bad qualities in this video.
Emma Grey lol you could ran 10miles lol
Nico rereast any comments like this or like the one I replied to, plz read that reply or the very heavy disclaimer I put in the original comment
Those 10 differences are completely true about my toxic best friend 😔😔😣 .Thank you bright side for let me know more about my toxic best friend !🤗🤗I really appreciate your help!
OMG I think my BFF that I have known for 6 years is a toxic
Yeah...ik how u feel
edit: jomarline i hope u know this comment is for you. same😢😩😢 she does all these things and pays attention to her phone and TIKTOK more than me, and i naturally have long nails
so when i paint them, she begs her mom to go get her nails done and to put blingy things on them so they
look better than everyones, she also knows i am not allowed to have a phone, yet she brags about her new phone and expensive things
all the time, and then she wonders why i have such a nice room and no phone or airpods or watch or ipad, just a computer
and she has all that and no nice things that much, all she got is a small bed a dresser and a nightstand which has some
jewelry on it and clothes. well she dont have nice things cuz she chooses airpods and electronics over nice clothes
room decor a bigger bed a desk and more. she is starting to become "that girl" type of person if you know what i mean
haha my bff if 8 years was a toxic b****
I’ve had a best friend for two years but I know she’s toxic
If your Friendship lasted for more than 5 years , believe me you have a good friend !
After I watched this video i realized that I have just toxic friends....😭😭
😁 just keep smiling😊
Zahyra de Faria Bilhim
That's so kind! Thank you😊😘
Because of the now disabilites of the cancer I had, and the damage the radiotherapy treament thats been left behind on both legs in the form of D V TS AND BLOOD CLOTS. All of the friends I had exept 1 true friend who has stayed the distance with me, The rest of my well ex friends if they see me hobbling and see me walking badly in the street, they dont meet me and ask how am I doing or am I ok. I am a 54 year old man coming up to 55 years old, I am very soon to have an operation on my 2 legs to have the blood clots removed. The friends I thought I had wont be around, I am thankfull for 1. Even when my dear old dad passed over, they were not around its times like this you get to know who your true friends are. The truth is I have come this far any way, in a period of 7 month since my dad died I did everything unsupported. But hey now its time for me, thats the best part, my job is done.
Kevin Unsworth i hope you're doing okay now
Thanks PrinceVegeta595 other than pain and discomfort in my legs and worrying signs bubbling up, I need to get checked out its an absolute bore pal, but an absolute need it has to be done. so thanks for thinking about me, I really appreciate that.
My best friend just talk me when needs something
Nicolly Farao get yourself a new best friend
Naya Morris lol exactly! 😂😂😂
That is not a bestfriend
People only talk to me when they need favors, especially my "friends."
stenionet so they it's not yours
All I want for Christmas is a good friend for everyone of us.
Andreas Crust ppl I met a group of people and now they all hang out without me so I’m just gonna ignore them and look for better people.
Frs , I’m 14 and my friends are all toxic and I just pray to God that there’s some people that don’t judge or find fault 😔
aLL i WaNT fOr ChRIstmAs iS MY TWO FRONT TEETH, MY TWO FRONT TEETH
I call these people emotional vampires. I cut loose a friend I knew for a very long time. He was always angry and would erupt into childish temper tantrums and he was in his late fifties. His outbursts were something I would expect from a two year old which made me realize he was very mentally ill. I believe this video mentions that jealousy is all over someone's face. I misjudged him because I 'm confident and I didn't realize just how much he resented me and was jealous of me. In retrospect, given that I cut our friendship off four years ago now realize this. I finally wrote him an e-mail telling him off and was brutally honest about something he did that put me at risk at his work place. E-mailing was the only way I could communicate with him uninterrupted because he would interrupt me constantly when he didn't want to hear something he might not want to hear. He was classic small man with a Napoleon complex. He was the type of person that could never admit he was wrong or say he's sorry. If I said the weather was great, he'd refute me and find some technicality that was unimportant. He was very unhappy and insecure and felt a weight was lifted off of me. Avoid these people at all cost and wish them well and be the bigger person. They're just not worth it. Let these toxic, passive aggressive people that like to pull childish guilt trips on you and others wallow in their own nightmare prison of the mind. AVOID!
I had this one friend, she was one of my best friends. She was always controlling me to do what she wants, and of course I agreed cz she was my best friend.when I achieve something, she says that she can do better, and I encouraged her. But one day, she got in a fight with all our class, on whatsApp, she told me, and I was not understanding her cz she was saying some crazy stuff that don't make sense.And after she told me she says that she made a mistake for telling me, and I wasn't doing anything wrong, I was trying to help her. And she got mad from my other best friend( let's call her bff). My bf didn't do anything wrong, she was trying to solve the problem and end it peacefully, But my best friend made me choose: her or my bff ( my best friend was always jealous of her). I didn't want to choose cz I love them both. She got extremely mad and made me choose. I chose my bff , Cz I wanted to make things right(and I told her the truth cz I can't lie to her) then she told me that I was always lying to her, and that all out friendship was a lie. Me and my bff understand each other better, and me and my best friend can't go together, there was always some arguments between us. But after all of this, I felt that a piece of me has gone, but maybe that was the right decision. And after this vid I knew that our friendship was toxic.
Srry for the long comment, I wanted to express my feelings. Thank you for listening
• Average Perfume • hey no problem! Just be glad it's over
• Average Perfume • you know, she may be toxic, but yes there are some people who get so angry fast and don't know what to do at that very moment. I think she might had felt sorry after this... this doesn't define her as a toxic friend,,, sweet heart.
thecattydragon toothless yeah, it was a better decision for both of us.😂
#toolazytoread
• Average Perfume • yaa may be u r right!
some of my friends are so toxic! but some of my other friends are super good friends
random Me same i ha e like 2 toxis 50/50 friends and only 1 friend that truly is there for me... when I told my toxic friend that I can do a front flip now she said oh I could do that since grade 0/kindergarten she was being rude but in the end I just left... but she got better about gloating so... she a little better than before
random Me me too
I used to have toxic friends. But they weren't my real friends. I quickly let go of them and now I'm really happy with the friend group that I have now and I'm very happy with my best friends with whom I've known for 5-6 years now
What if your friends are friends with people that bullied you? Wouldn't that be a reason why you don't like their "other friends"?
Erica Blocker
Yes that’s a good reason NOT to keep the same set of friends. When a friend insists on still being friends with someone who is a bully then something is wrong with that person as well. Good and healthy people will not put up with consistently unhealthy people.
Then that friend does not really care about you and is not a real friend. Dump the friend.
Very accurate list. Might also want to add number 11: toxic friends will NEVER be above pettiness and low blows. If you happen to have had a heated disagreement with them, they will seek any means to hurt you, even if it's a very morally low thing to do. Good friends will never make things that personal.
sometimes Good is Fake and toxic is a true friend
yeah......not sometimes but always that why i don't like to have a bff.
maria moore that happens to me several times #fakefriends
The most true friendships are always made in childhoods
Not always.
I have toxic friend in my high school . Once I won an award for the best art And she said “so.. . She always makes me feel uncomfortable. I am leaving her
Yay! You proved that I am a great friend! But you also proved what horrible friends I have... I feel bad for me
LittleKitty's Gaming I wish you to find your real friends and to have a crazy life with them!
Love from Asia😛💖💖
Me too, I can relate.
Same I have 2 good friends
Random Buddies
LittleKitty's Gaming exactly same
now I know! that...
I'm a Toxic Friend
Edit: wow! 1.3K? Thank you so much!
hi five😂😂 JK I'm sometime toxic
lol
Llemonjuice Aj yes Im toxic too
Llemonjuice Aj same
Same.
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