I'm Brazilian and TH-cam suddenly recommended your video, I've never felt so comfortable and so focused on a subject as I do now, you have a lot of personality and potential, I loved it
You are very intelligent and I like listening to your perspective. You are a very deep thinker and I find that attractive. People don't often consider these topics and talk about surface-level things in the real world. I can't do surface level I am all about deep feelings and discussion. I also always have been introverted and now still struggle with communication, but as a nursing student I get to push these boundaries every day and I try to enjoy the uncomfortable feeling that growth puts me through.
It's hard to believe that many of us feel this way nowadays, and even our parents don't really understand us. They think we're crazy for having this perspective. I feel like I'm a nihilist and I don't know why. I suppose I just see the world differently than others.
Now that remote jobs and virtual online schools is really becoming a thing since covid hit, everyone is just used to doing everything at home. No more interactions with each other, and that just makes everything even lonelier than before.
3:40 this is where I realised you are intelligent. You understood the women's side too back then in marriages especially. You understand why women are raising standards. Women have to if they dont want to struggle in life. It's all about survival for women down to women's anatomy. It's all about survival.
As a woman, I wanted a husband and to start a family, but being treated badly by men has turned me off. I feel like it will take me a while to even have a crush on a guy again let alone trust a guy. 7:52
You felt attracted to that sort of guy so now it's every guys fault that you can't trust a guy, because whom you trusted didn't end up being the good one.
@@karenbagdasarov7644 no where in my comment did I blame all men for anything. I mentioned my experience. No need to take ish personally. Not like I know who you are lol. Or maybe I do because the response is typical af.
@@jujubee2903 you did blame men... i dont know, how low can your iq be to deny that "let alone trust a guy" is not blaming them. And btw that kind of response is also typical when encountering not a favourable experience from the opposite sex. I could say the same, because my experience with women has been bad as well, but will I type "I won't trust a girl"; well, that wouldn't be fair from my part because other women didn't take part into it, while it also would not be nice to spread more hatred between genders. Some men and women end up finding the right partner for them, and we all human beings (lowkey pieces of shit that we hurt but need each other). I trust in the miracle of being able to trust a man or a woman in the long term; but trust is gained over time, it's not something you can immediately give the first month of getting to know someone.
@@karenbagdasarov7644 You bring up Iq but aren’t comprehending a word I said which is ironic and dense. Me saying it might take me a while to trust a guy (which is a valid statement due to me experiences) does not equate to “all mean are at fault”. I don’t understand how else to keep explaining that. And even then I said it’d take a while for me to trust again. I never said “oh all dudes are at fault and I’ll never give one a chance again”. If a guy came in here saying it would take him a while to trust a woman again because of his experience, I wouldn’t be offended because that’s his experience and his feelings are valid. I’m not about to explain this a whole 4th time and my FEELINGS are not a discussion for debate anyway.
@@jujubee2903 I understand, I'm sorry that I was unappropriate (I hope you don't take the iq thing too bad and can forget about it) but there's still something fishy in the way girls say things; like you can't trust a person because of the gender. And the way i just said "in the way girls say things" is something similar as the way you said it, impliying some hatred, I think. I mean, I agree your feelings are actually justified, it's just more of a wonder.. because you also said you don't blame men, but then proceeded to build a phrase like that.
Most people go to the internet for approval and I refuse to do that. It's not just the youth, I've seen it in many older people doing it as well. Likes, it's all about the likes. That's their friendship now and that's so sad.
I absolutely love listening to u speak . A lot of what ur saying is real I completely feel u on all levels . Our Society is corrupt !! I feel this way lately too I’m 37 and only had one real relationship believe ur not a lone God is with us . U are a realest and Say it like it is that’s takes courage . I love u brother keep ur head up what ur saying is absolutely true. Keep spreading the truth this will help wake up people from the matrix . The world is not the same anymore that’s why we need to be in God and Gods word read the bible everything else in this world is fading away but In Jesus we have everlasting life in heaven ❤
Yes young man u right everyone using online life am 60 so I from old school when people did love talking each other languages grew up in the 70s u have good insight about society relationship between men & women u are soooooooooooo right ❤
You are right women didn't have an option back then but trust me men are no better to their wives these days and visa versa. As someone who witnessed those days I can tell you that the percentage of good men and women were a lot higher in the 50s and 60s. It was the 70s when things started to change, at least here in Australia so I can't talk for America.
Yup that is the truth social media ruins life people don t even reply most of the time even though on the phone all the time. So it s tough getting a girlfriend for sure from scratch
The developed Western world epidemic. I recently move back to South East Asia and I've never been happier. There s sunshine here and people genuinely care for one another. There is no personal space so people would often cross the line, you get used to it and tbh, I prefer it like this.
Back in the days is different then now, new young generation grow and stay single because we all focused on ourselves be independent have freedom no settled down or have family either im born in gen z it's never easy to go out date met new people nowadays it's a struggle for many young people out there
Bro where can I meet people now outside of work and academics? Its not like everything will go back to what it was before. If I want a girlfriend, apps are probably the most "normal" way, and it is very hard already to find anything And how on earth will I find a FRIEND? I am truly lost, I am feeling like a loser, and its getting worse. I am considering doing some things that are best left unsaid.
Every night I tweak out. I feel like my soul is crying out for some connection. Or a Desire of a better environment then what I am condition to believe is the “best”
I'd go home from work and relax put on Tv Binge watch or video games. Cause it is comfortable. Going out with people feels forced for me. But lil by lil trying to get back out there, but being a kid back then going out was easier than an adult to me.
Notice how we had friends when we were young,and we tolerated a bunch of red flags but we were too young to know. I see 1 thing a person has that I don't like and I walk. The worst kind of people are the ones that smile to your face but talk shyt disguised as jokes.
The internet has convinced people that a life of "convenience" is good enough. Why go to the store when you have Amazon? Why have friends when you have Discord? Why get a girl when you have Only Fans? But at the end of the day, NOTHING can replace the human touch. Something people realize the minute they step outside and long for human connection.
I’m 14 and I’m so lonely it just feels like I try so hard and no one cares or tries back I think I’m just hard to love I’m just scared I’ll be alone forever
Lack of touch and oxytocin-depletion for years is very heavy..... partly lead me to mystical experiences alone in my room, probably ignited to find the way forth, faster and better, hyper-transformative
Comment: Some parents have failed, and some schools with its teachers have failed the youth of today and of right now. Young men of all races need to be taught their content by positive teachers. Schools [also] need to teach dancing to all students. Life is not just about working but it too is about having fun and "learning" to dance is a great way for men to meet lovely ladies their age when they are going through high school. May 2024. USA
I had someone good, who treated me well and gave us a good life. But I met him at 17 and by age 22 felt this need to go out and “explore”, and we broke up. By the time I realized I wanted him back he’d already found someone more traditional for him… so too late now. And now post Trump, post Covid, the society is even more fucked and everybody I’ve dated has sucked. And tbh I’m not a great person either cuz I’m so unhappy…
also because of the huge choice of men women have online, they simply scroll through hundreds of men and simply choose the best looking guy and they have a BF if they are ok looking too
Its getting worse every new year. Social Life is so important for our mental health, but Not only Interactions. You need Real Love and relationships with Friends and Girls
the devil doesn't want you to be out of your comfort zone or think outside the box or to go outside and enjoy Gods creation or to have physical contact with another human and to be isolated and lonely and distracted from God's calling on your life....
i agree 100% and your video in your car reminds me of ER who filmed in this same position, whatever happens, yes life is a joke, no one cares about you, just dont do anything stupid ok bro, it aint worth it brother, it aint worth it, your better off getting a good job, saving and investing like i do, and retire early, buy a little cottage away from people and live free away from humanity, thats my plan, just get away from people asap, humans are TOXIC, they are so loud and annoying and two faced with their double standards, i cant wait to retire and never talk to people every again if i can help it.
I thought the exact same when watching his other more viral video. ER was a complete ncel though, this guy seems like a genuinely good guy who has had a gf or two.
@@DagnirRen yes good point, if he is crying even when he has had a few GFs, imagine me as a 40yr old who cant even score ONE date, lol , thank god my testosterone levels have collapsed as ive gotten older, i dont even watch porn at all anymore, does nothing for me which is a blessing, now i can just focus on work and investing and retirement in a few yrs
Women can be abusive too. Men, despite working, are more likely to stick it out. The difference is likely that most women can jump ship with any man the same day, whereas men have to work much harder to attract a new partner. Either gender finding a quality partner is rare though. It's a lot of materialism now. Nobody wants to grow together or put in work anymore. They just feel entitled to have you at your best.
Yep. All this work and effort just to get thrown under the Bus for someone "Better", despite the fact you met every criteria and then some. The big problem is people can't truly love each other, at worst, you're lonely. At best, you're a stepping stone.
“ Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. *We are the change we seek* ~ Barack Obama
beautiful video bro and again 100%, the thing is even when you DO have money no one cares, lol look at me, im a 40yr old INCEL, i have a house a full time job a car a stock portfolio and i still cant even date ONE DATE even with a fat ugly chick, lol let alone a nice lady, ive been rejected by crack whores for a date, because for some reason women just dont fancy me, even if i can offer them stuff, i always thought when i have money women will want me, well ive been proven wrong time and time again and im not ugly or fat or disabled im a normal shy quiet maybe a little creepy but so what? does that mean i should be denied even ONE friggin date? ive given up on humanity 100%, i dont care about no one no more, if society has rejected me so be it, i shall reject society, thats why i dont even say HI to anyone when i come into work
You're not lonely. You're just alone. Hello, darkness, my old friend. Find others in sharing your aloneness. It's called alone deluxe. Shared solitude.
Your expectations of what you should have and relationship are based on what?...on social media, what you see others have? You define your priorities based on what you want for yourself. I notice you do not make eye contact with the camera. I encourage you to seek counseling.
You’re missing the looks factor. On dating apps, almost every single woman is going after the same 5-10% of men. It’s not because of their personalities, it’s because they are tall and good looking. That’s it. If you’re an average guy on a dating app, delete it.
you are so underrated, the fact that you dont ignore women's pov shows how openminded and unbiased you are and amazing takes
Thanks for seeing the women's situation. You are wise beyond your years. I wish you live a long, happy life.
I was so shocked (in a good way) that be bought up the women's perspective as a woman myself . Very balanced points in this vid
Most people are going to end up single or divorced. Only a few will be able to maintain long relationships and marriages.
I'm Brazilian and TH-cam suddenly recommended your video, I've never felt so comfortable and so focused on a subject as I do now, you have a lot of personality and potential, I loved it
You are very intelligent and I like listening to your perspective. You are a very deep thinker and I find that attractive. People don't often consider these topics and talk about surface-level things in the real world. I can't do surface level I am all about deep feelings and discussion. I also always have been introverted and now still struggle with communication, but as a nursing student I get to push these boundaries every day and I try to enjoy the uncomfortable feeling that growth puts me through.
Wow! You really summed it up!! You are wise beyond your years.
It's hard to believe that many of us feel this way nowadays, and even our parents don't really understand us. They think we're crazy for having this perspective. I feel like I'm a nihilist and I don't know why. I suppose I just see the world differently than others.
i wish you was my friend. youre such a great person.. and youre so strong. and say the right words. man i love you
Now that remote jobs and virtual online schools is really becoming a thing since covid hit, everyone is just used to doing everything at home. No more interactions with each other, and that just makes everything even lonelier than before.
3:40 this is where I realised you are intelligent. You understood the women's side too back then in marriages especially. You understand why women are raising standards. Women have to if they dont want to struggle in life. It's all about survival for women down to women's anatomy. It's all about survival.
As a woman, I wanted a husband and to start a family, but being treated badly by men has turned me off. I feel like it will take me a while to even have a crush on a guy again let alone trust a guy. 7:52
You felt attracted to that sort of guy so now it's every guys fault that you can't trust a guy, because whom you trusted didn't end up being the good one.
@@karenbagdasarov7644 no where in my comment did I blame all men for anything. I mentioned my experience. No need to take ish personally. Not like I know who you are lol. Or maybe I do because the response is typical af.
@@jujubee2903 you did blame men... i dont know, how low can your iq be to deny that "let alone trust a guy" is not blaming them. And btw that kind of response is also typical when encountering not a favourable experience from the opposite sex.
I could say the same, because my experience with women has been bad as well, but will I type "I won't trust a girl"; well, that wouldn't be fair from my part because other women didn't take part into it, while it also would not be nice to spread more hatred between genders.
Some men and women end up finding the right partner for them, and we all human beings (lowkey pieces of shit that we hurt but need each other). I trust in the miracle of being able to trust a man or a woman in the long term; but trust is gained over time, it's not something you can immediately give the first month of getting to know someone.
@@karenbagdasarov7644 You bring up Iq but aren’t comprehending a word I said which is ironic and dense. Me saying it might take me a while to trust a guy (which is a valid statement due to me experiences) does not equate to “all mean are at fault”. I don’t understand how else to keep explaining that. And even then I said it’d take a while for me to trust again. I never said “oh all dudes are at fault and I’ll never give one a chance again”. If a guy came in here saying it would take him a while to trust a woman again because of his experience, I wouldn’t be offended because that’s his experience and his feelings are valid. I’m not about to explain this a whole 4th time and my FEELINGS are not a discussion for debate anyway.
@@jujubee2903 I understand, I'm sorry that I was unappropriate (I hope you don't take the iq thing too bad and can forget about it) but there's still something fishy in the way girls say things; like you can't trust a person because of the gender. And the way i just said "in the way girls say things" is something similar as the way you said it, impliying some hatred, I think. I mean, I agree your feelings are actually justified, it's just more of a wonder.. because you also said you don't blame men, but then proceeded to build a phrase like that.
Most people go to the internet for approval and I refuse to do that. It's not just the youth, I've seen it in many older people doing it as well. Likes, it's all about the likes. That's their friendship now and that's so sad.
I absolutely love listening to u speak . A lot of what ur saying is real I completely feel u on all levels . Our Society is corrupt !! I feel this way lately too I’m 37 and only had one real relationship believe ur not a lone God is with us . U are a realest and Say it like it is that’s takes courage . I love u brother keep ur head up what ur saying is absolutely true. Keep spreading the truth this will help wake up people from the matrix . The world is not the same anymore that’s why we need to be in God and Gods word read the bible everything else in this world is fading away but In Jesus we have everlasting life in heaven ❤
Yes young man u right everyone using online life am 60 so I from old school when people did love talking each other languages grew up in the 70s u have good insight about society relationship between men & women u are soooooooooooo right ❤
You are right women didn't have an option back then but trust me men are no better to their wives these days and visa versa. As someone who witnessed those days I can tell you that the percentage of good men and women were a lot higher in the 50s and 60s. It was the 70s when things started to change, at least here in Australia so I can't talk for America.
This metaverse thing is designed to tear apart the society brick by a brick. One brick at a time.
I was fine being alone but now I have no choice but to be alone.
Yup that is the truth social media ruins life people don t even reply most of the time even though on the phone all the time. So it s tough getting a girlfriend for sure from scratch
The developed Western world epidemic. I recently move back to South East Asia and I've never been happier. There s sunshine here and people genuinely care for one another. There is no personal space so people would often cross the line, you get used to it and tbh, I prefer it like this.
You seem kind hearted, too much for society.
We send you love and courage ❤
you´re dope bro. Keep ya head up, you´ll find your way. Peace.
guys and girls remember music is better than people.
good music be the best medicine
Back in the days is different then now, new young generation grow and stay single because we all focused on ourselves be independent have freedom no settled down or have family either im born in gen z it's never easy to go out date met new people nowadays it's a struggle for many young people out there
Bro where can I meet people now outside of work and academics?
Its not like everything will go back to what it was before.
If I want a girlfriend, apps are probably the most "normal" way, and it is very hard already to find anything
And how on earth will I find a FRIEND?
I am truly lost, I am feeling like a loser, and its getting worse.
I am considering doing some things that are best left unsaid.
Yeah it’s tuff . I’d say pick up a sport . Easy way to meet new people
Im happy you see the issues from both sexes and not just from men`s pov
Every night I tweak out. I feel like my soul is crying out for some connection. Or a Desire of a better environment then what I am condition to believe is the “best”
Im still waiting for a real masculine man who is a protector& a provider ❤
The great thing about a habit is that you can break it..just make your own rules
Loneliness is part of life and you can overcome it.
We can't overcome it alone, not meaningfully
I'd go home from work and relax put on Tv Binge watch or video games. Cause it is comfortable. Going out with people feels forced for me. But lil by lil trying to get back out there, but being a kid back then going out was easier than an adult to me.
U are a truth speaker and very inspiring can u post another video on this topic I really agree with what ur sayin !!!!
One of my friends was single until he was 50 years old
Notice how we had friends when we were young,and we tolerated a bunch of red flags but we were too young to know.
I see 1 thing a person has that I don't like and I walk. The worst kind of people are the ones that smile to your face but talk shyt disguised as jokes.
Theres going to be some really rich online personalities who would not be successful in person. Like writers who hide their identity.
I resonate a lot with everything you're saying.
The internet has convinced people that a life of "convenience" is good enough. Why go to the store when you have Amazon? Why have friends when you have Discord? Why get a girl when you have Only Fans? But at the end of the day, NOTHING can replace the human touch. Something people realize the minute they step outside and long for human connection.
I’m 14 and I’m so lonely it just feels like I try so hard and no one cares or tries back I think I’m just hard to love I’m just scared I’ll be alone forever
Lack of touch and oxytocin-depletion for years is very heavy..... partly lead me to mystical experiences alone in my room, probably ignited to find the way forth, faster and better, hyper-transformative
Comment: Some parents have failed, and some schools with its teachers have failed the youth of today and of right now. Young men of all races need to be taught their content by positive teachers. Schools [also] need to teach dancing to all students. Life is not just about working but it too is about having fun and "learning" to dance is a great way for men to meet lovely ladies their age when they are going through high school. May 2024. USA
Trust me this video is gonna blow up
5 years after high school, I have accepted I'm a loner for life like ruby Biggs
I had someone good, who treated me well and gave us a good life. But I met him at 17 and by age 22 felt this need to go out and “explore”, and we broke up. By the time I realized I wanted him back he’d already found someone more traditional for him… so too late now.
And now post Trump, post Covid, the society is even more fucked and everybody I’ve dated has sucked. And tbh I’m not a great person either cuz I’m so unhappy…
also because of the huge choice of men women have online, they simply scroll through hundreds of men and simply choose the best looking guy and they have a BF if they are ok looking too
Its getting worse every new year. Social Life is so important for our mental health, but Not only Interactions. You need Real Love and relationships with Friends and Girls
social media ruined everything.
I don’t know if it’s me but Covid literally fucked up everyone’s mental health to the point that loneliness is more common then it was before
the devil doesn't want you to be out of your comfort zone or think outside the box or to go outside and enjoy Gods creation or to have physical contact with another human and to be isolated and lonely and distracted from God's calling on your life....
I actually loved going outside😢
i agree 100% and your video in your car reminds me of ER who filmed in this same position, whatever happens, yes life is a joke, no one cares about you, just dont do anything stupid ok bro, it aint worth it brother, it aint worth it, your better off getting a good job, saving and investing like i do, and retire early, buy a little cottage away from people and live free away from humanity, thats my plan, just get away from people asap, humans are TOXIC, they are so loud and annoying and two faced with their double standards, i cant wait to retire and never talk to people every again if i can help it.
I thought the exact same when watching his other more viral video.
ER was a complete ncel though, this guy seems like a genuinely good guy who has had a gf or two.
@@DagnirRen yes good point, if he is crying even when he has had a few GFs, imagine me as a 40yr old who cant even score ONE date, lol , thank god my testosterone levels have collapsed as ive gotten older, i dont even watch porn at all anymore, does nothing for me which is a blessing, now i can just focus on work and investing and retirement in a few yrs
Hey Kev, I hope you are doing well!!! Sending love and light!
Women can be abusive too. Men, despite working, are more likely to stick it out. The difference is likely that most women can jump ship with any man the same day, whereas men have to work much harder to attract a new partner. Either gender finding a quality partner is rare though. It's a lot of materialism now. Nobody wants to grow together or put in work anymore. They just feel entitled to have you at your best.
The strong survive, either men get what they want or women get what they want. Or only the rich get what they want.
Yep. All this work and effort just to get thrown under the Bus for someone "Better", despite the fact you met every criteria and then some.
The big problem is people can't truly love each other, at worst, you're lonely. At best, you're a stepping stone.
And women are still unhappy today.
Nothing new under the sun
“ Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time.
We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. *We are the change we seek*
~ Barack Obama
Amen. 🥶 world
Well said.
beautiful video bro and again 100%, the thing is even when you DO have money no one cares, lol look at me, im a 40yr old INCEL, i have a house a full time job a car a stock portfolio and i still cant even date ONE DATE even with a fat ugly chick, lol let alone a nice lady, ive been rejected by crack whores for a date, because for some reason women just dont fancy me, even if i can offer them stuff, i always thought when i have money women will want me, well ive been proven wrong time and time again and im not ugly or fat or disabled im a normal shy quiet maybe a little creepy but so what? does that mean i should be denied even ONE friggin date? ive given up on humanity 100%, i dont care about no one no more, if society has rejected me so be it, i shall reject society, thats why i dont even say HI to anyone when i come into work
wow this shit rlly said ‘for you’😝
This guy is just like me. I'd be your friend mate!
im high asl
Noo I'm not on the VR train! Life is enough, you don't need a simulation
facts bro
Dude I feel this lost my bff my bf barly has times for me cause of work I feel so damn lonly
WHAT CAN WE DO ABOUT IT
Word
The metaverse hasn't got popular
The TH-cam algorithm called me out 😄😔
Internet killed the world
It's more nuanced than that. It was our inability to utilize the internet in enough of it's responsible facets that is killing us
New sub. 🤯🤯👍👏🖤
Trust me i tried the Oculus quest 2 and it wasn't that good and Even Vrchat on vr and most virtual reality games suck a lot.
You're not lonely. You're just alone. Hello, darkness, my old friend. Find others in sharing your aloneness. It's called alone deluxe. Shared solitude.
Your expectations of what you should have and relationship are based on what?...on social media, what you see others have? You define your priorities based on what you want for yourself. I notice you do not make eye contact with the camera. I encourage you to seek counseling.
You’re missing the looks factor. On dating apps, almost every single woman is going after the same 5-10% of men. It’s not because of their personalities, it’s because they are tall and good looking. That’s it. If you’re an average guy on a dating app, delete it.
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Know more human interaction, This world sucks 😭.I pray the Lord comes to me now.
Look at the camera. Make eye contact
look at the camera
no you
Do you use discord?
I was waiting for something to make me feel motivator, but most of the video was talking about find a girlfriend 😅
I don’t wanna find a girlfriend 🥲
You don't have to, he's not trying to drill that idea of a mandate into you