Tips on Building Confidence to go on Reborn Outings!

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  • @mehalla451
    @mehalla451 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love taking mine out to buy new outfits. I also play it either way if it's real or not, depends on the situation. if I'm not in the mood to have a conversation, I'll say the baby is sleeping and walk off. I bring an extra blanket to cover them. sometimes I bring 1 or 2 reborn with me.

  • @SpecialAngelArtDolls
    @SpecialAngelArtDolls 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I've watched a lot of these types of videos, because I have zero confidence to take a baby with me anywhere, even though I would like to and I know any of them would pass for real. Yours is the best one I've ever seen. You talked about some things that others seem to gloss over, such as feeling safer having a reason for having them with you and whether or not to correct people when they ask how old the baby is. I do have strong feelings about not wanting to ever lie to anyone, but the few times I've actually taken a baby out with me, it's come down to time and the situation like you said. I'm also super excited to see that you have a video about babywearing your reborn!!!!! I'm going to watch that one next!!! We don't have a car, and a stroller is really impractical for me for many reasons, so babywearing is my best option and I love the feeling of having them snuggled up close. :)

    • @doeadeernursery5659
      @doeadeernursery5659  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nicole's Little Ones that's so wonderful to hear! I'm so glad you found it helpful and best of luck on all your future outings!

    • @sabrinastratton1991
      @sabrinastratton1991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To build confidence, put baby in a carseat and put a cover over it. That way nobody is the wiser

  • @LambysNursery
    @LambysNursery 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for the tips in this video!
    I'll be using some of your tips for my future outings because my first real outing last week I was so scared lol!
    I had my baby in the car seat covered by a blanket the whole time and people would try and peek in and I would like run away because I didn't know what to say.

  • @Tori-ok9lh
    @Tori-ok9lh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I also think a good tip is have them covered:) that way when someone asks and wants to take a peak just use the excuse they’re sleeping and “I’d let you take a peak but they’re getting to sleep or just fell asleep and gets fussy.” And maybe have a picture on your phone of a real baby even if it’s one of you when you were younger or a son, daughter, niece, nephew, cousin etc as a backup as some people can be persistent:)
    Your tips were great and I’m definitely starting to feel more comfortable with trying to take one out x

  • @presleyzadorozny7556
    @presleyzadorozny7556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This actually helped me out a lot. I don’t know why we get so scared to take them out... of anything it’s cool to people because people don’t see these dolls everyday so when they do, they react and get interested. Obviously people judge but oh well... I feel better taking them out when strangers are around, not people I know :)

    • @PineStateCinema
      @PineStateCinema 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here, I guess reborns are still kinda new and others are not used to seeing them, I have a reborn with down syndrome (reborn baby patience awake but I renamed her Stellen) that I've always wanted to take her on outings but I worry for all the "Karen's" out there who would comment on my "baby" but once you take them out more, you'll get used to it and eventually gain the confidence to do so! We only live once so do what you like :)

  • @Michelle-gj7bt
    @Michelle-gj7bt ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi I have been do this hobby for 3 years and just have found the confidence tell people it's a doll.❤

  • @4my4kidslovinglife40
    @4my4kidslovinglife40 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    very very helpful, I have 3 reborns and my 4th is almost ready to come home and I am still in the process of trying to take them out and feel comfortable.

  • @oggoddesszi2702
    @oggoddesszi2702 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    thank you this help alot. I'm getting my first doll in the mail sometime this week and you just made me feel more confident because. first doll.her from Paradise Galleries and it's baby kione it's African American doll and I'm a little nervous and a little bit anxious.

    • @zoeyfierce9992
      @zoeyfierce9992 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      T- Why goodluck and congrats girlie 💕. I am waiting for my first baby as well and I am super excited but even more nervous because many people don't understand the reborn community..

    • @PineStateCinema
      @PineStateCinema 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just got my reborn last week, Stellen (my reborn) and she is a sculpt of a baby with down syndrome, I wasn't nervous to bring stellen out, but what did worry me was the "Karen's" bc I wouldn't want them to comment on my "baby" but I understand it's nerve wracking the first few times, but by bringing ur baby out more, you'll gain more confidence

  • @JessicaRebornMom2016
    @JessicaRebornMom2016 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Great tips!! It depends who I'm talking to on an outing on whether or not I tell them Bella's real or not? Right now I go along w/her age which tomorrow the 9th she'll be 8 months!!
    Lately I've just let people think she's real, bcause I don't always feel like explaining the reason why. I have PTSD & she does wonders for me but recently my Mom has said that Bella helps her too!!
    We've had a lot of bad stuff happened to us & everyday is a battle to get through. My Aunt understands why I have her but not the full reason of the hobby.
    Mom & I took #BellaBoo on a lot of outings during the holidays & spoiled her for her 1st Xmas!! She now has her own closet of clothes & stuff!!
    We live in housing right now & my room has 2 small closets which I just cleaned out the one for her stuff!! Bought baby hangers at Walmart & hung up her clothes!!
    So we're enjoying her & this hobby a lot!! It's a healing process for us, we take it one day at a time!!

    • @doeadeernursery5659
      @doeadeernursery5659  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jessica- Reborn Mommy I'm so glad to hear this hobby has been so rewarding to you in many ways!

    • @JessicaRebornMom2016
      @JessicaRebornMom2016 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank You!!

    • @lpsrock17
      @lpsrock17 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessica- Reborn Mommy hi

    • @queenpinky9818
      @queenpinky9818 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessica-Reborn Mom- 2016 that was beautiful and I wish I could do that

  • @MsFava32
    @MsFava32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I took my Reborn out the day after I got her. i don't really care what people think about it. Nobody was the wiser lol. I can understand why it is a process for most.

  • @christinajudd9674
    @christinajudd9674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im getting my first reborn at the end of February. Im super excited. I reallly like your videos and i plan on taking my reborn out alot .

  • @ingridr4374
    @ingridr4374 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The problem I'm having about taking my reborn out is that people are going to think I'm crazy. I myself have a hard time thinking I own a doll. Just trying to get used to the fact that it's ok to enjoy baby dolls.

  • @nessasreborns6667
    @nessasreborns6667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video, I will be moving in with my friends in March so I will be having roommates . Right now I live alone so it will be adjustment. I'm nervous cut I've gotten made fun of before when I've taking my baby out. But I'm trying my best to build my confidence.

  • @raven-ek1yl
    @raven-ek1yl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am 14 and I am more nervous that other teens juge me and my reborn! I don’t really mind going out that much..

    • @PineStateCinema
      @PineStateCinema 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have a reborn with down syndrome (reborn baby patience awake but I renamed her Stellen) that I've always wanted to take her on outings but I worry for all the "Karen's" out there who would comment on my "baby," but no one did, yea I got a few stares but those who showed curiousness I offered for them to hold Stellen and they were so surprised at how real she looked, yes I may be 17 but the more you take them out, the more confidence you'll get :)

  • @PineStateCinema
    @PineStateCinema 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for the tips, I have a reborn with down syndrome (reborn baby patience awake but I renamed her Stellen) that I've always wanted to take her on outings but I worry for all the "Karen's" out there who would comment on my "baby," plus I'm only 17, but doing outings takes away my stress.

  • @thesparklingbean9308
    @thesparklingbean9308 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are all wonderful tips! I totally agree if you're nervous, take baby steps!

  • @aahoychristina
    @aahoychristina 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video helps a lot since I'm on the next step in my reborn mommy life to start taking my reborns out!!!

  • @hopebyrnes551
    @hopebyrnes551 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the tips .I am new to reborn dolls and just took my baby out shopping

  • @lex42923
    @lex42923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    tank you so much! this really does help a lot! normally I don't mind taking them out but lately, it has been different and IDK why. but anyways I think it's really will help and just wanted to thank you!

  • @josephineskennedy4564
    @josephineskennedy4564 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks so much for this! Great tips! I am starting to try to take my dolls out! I am getting my FIRST reborn soon! so I am exited! It helps that my family is so supportive of my liking of dolls/reborns! I don't feel there is anything wrong with dolls/reborns. Just takes time to get used to other people seeing you with a doll/reborns! I think girls/women liking dolls is great!🤗💗

  • @stellashipley7927
    @stellashipley7927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was about to do my first outing at a gas station, but I chickened out 😖

  • @mildredmuller6868
    @mildredmuller6868 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is wonderful. I'm a new reborn mommy and found your tips very encouraging , thanks a lot

  • @louisecooper1001
    @louisecooper1001 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have Argos tiny treasure and 23" and 19" my twinn the 19" being the main one I take out these are great tips

  • @stacisrainbownursery7825
    @stacisrainbownursery7825 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for all the tips!!!

  • @Melanie73Paul
    @Melanie73Paul 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are great tips. I just personally don’t care what others think. I like to freak people out so I’ll do a little bit of both on what I’ll tell people. I hate people and where I live, women with strollers or babies, people just kind of ignore you.

  • @jennifermcswain9193
    @jennifermcswain9193 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Emily, loved this video, one of my favorites! You are such a wino derail and positive force in this community!

  • @ajpreclaro1608
    @ajpreclaro1608 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was really helpful as I'm contemplating getting my first reborn in the near future to help with my anxiety and depression

  • @lauren5744
    @lauren5744 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a sweet video with kind and encouraging words. I'm sure you are great inspiration to young and or new reborn mommies!! xoxo

  • @Teejay8290
    @Teejay8290 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks I was so sacred every time a kid came I would cover him because he dose not look that real

  • @tiffk113
    @tiffk113 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m just worried about my family seeing my babe! But I know they can judge but I love my babe

  • @laurac5451
    @laurac5451 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's the only one I've seen that looks real. And I've been looking g at a lot of reborn videos.

  • @azbaer123
    @azbaer123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love taking my reborns out! I was worried that people would start looking into my pram/stroller but nobody really does. One woman did, but she didn't say anything so I don't know if she thought he was real or didn't want to say anything but yeah.

    • @PineStateCinema
      @PineStateCinema 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have a reborn with down syndrome (reborn baby patience awake but I renamed her Stellen) that I've always wanted to take her on outings but I worry for all the "Karen's" out there who would comment on my "baby," but no one did, yea I got a few stares but those who showed curiousness I offered for them to hold Stellen and they were so surprised at how real she looked

  • @dawn64
    @dawn64 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If my neighbors can walk their dogs while they push their cats in a stroller, I think I will be able to overcome and walk with my Reborn.

  • @raven-ek1yl
    @raven-ek1yl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Also my hole family juges me ... And so I don’t bring her out of my room 😔

    • @honeyss.nursery7022
      @honeyss.nursery7022 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to my family

    • @liviaraye878
      @liviaraye878 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally understand how you feel. My family is the same way...

  • @ClementineWaterFairy123
    @ClementineWaterFairy123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really wanted to take my reborn doll out but I felt nervous that I would run into someone I know or someone from school so I just brought her but left her In the car and makes sure she was hidden (edit I don’t care if anyone sees her in the car but I just want her to stay hidden

  • @BootsieDior74
    @BootsieDior74 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video Emily! I always enjoy hearing you speak about these great topics. You cover so much and your voice is super relaxing :-D Hi Ivy!! You look so pretty sweetheart!

  • @MiraJOrtiz5176
    @MiraJOrtiz5176 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome video well said and inspiring 💜💚💞👍🏼

  • @Laurenleig
    @Laurenleig 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m getting my very first reborn on Tuesday

  • @queenpinky9818
    @queenpinky9818 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What if the baby isn't a reborn or lifelike baby doll and you have a regular drink and wet baby doll how do you react about that I need help I have a regular basis drink and wet baby doll I really need help I'm almost 24 and my story is I love all babies and I want to have my own hobby or love towards me

    • @tiffkeeley1189
      @tiffkeeley1189 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jasmine Marie keep them in a bag its helps and u take them out at park when u confortable

    • @queenpinky9818
      @queenpinky9818 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tiff Keeley I have a question what if your grandparents don't like it and they are embarrassed of you having a baby doll, they are the only ones who knows about it, and they don't want me to take her out of my room,

  • @PurrBetweenThePages
    @PurrBetweenThePages 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My biggest fear is people thinking im a teen mom.
    Although ive been told when i wear college jackets and stuff i look like i could be 20.
    I plan on taking Ava out of state for our first big outting, as we love right on the border, so we wont run into people we know.

  • @fvang12
    @fvang12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it

  • @urekataylor1166
    @urekataylor1166 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    happy holidays thanks for the inspiration tips. I love your baby

  • @ashleymorgan3595
    @ashleymorgan3595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your tips are helpful

  • @lisasdolliesmomluvsrebornd4944
    @lisasdolliesmomluvsrebornd4944 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the tips. 👍🏻😎

  • @elena4847
    @elena4847 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 11 and if i’m walking with like a stroller, it would make people think i’m weird or something

  • @PaganSkye
    @PaganSkye 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing this I enjoy all of your videos

  • @annagilleland2754
    @annagilleland2754 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What carrier is that? I love it!

  • @sxphedits7857
    @sxphedits7857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi! I was wondering if you could help me. My reborn is coming soon but I do not have a stroller or car seat to take her out🥺 I could hold her but I look 12 and I’m small so people will think I’m a little girl holding a doll🥺

  • @daynabartley6618
    @daynabartley6618 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your Work Is Beautiful Loving Your Videos 👶🏻🍼

  • @kellycollee
    @kellycollee 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such a lovely person. Thnx for sharing

  • @johannasalazar7741
    @johannasalazar7741 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    you have great tips they all worked on me thanks you, love you

  • @august-wz3jt
    @august-wz3jt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't really do these tips because I'm 12 and people from my school will make fun of me for having reborns🙁

    • @kenz1538
      @kenz1538 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kaitlyn, Shelton & Skyla its nice to see someone around my age on reborn videos ( PS. I'm 11) I just got my first reborn on Christmas and names her winter joy

    • @gabbieowens7536
      @gabbieowens7536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kenzie rose I’m 11 too and just got my reborn today for Christmas ( lol) . I’m bringing mine tomorrow to the store

  • @RedLipstick19
    @RedLipstick19 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video helped me a lot! i don't have confidence to take my reborn out. What kit is your baby?

  • @purple84123
    @purple84123 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your baby is so cute love this video

  • @itsjustfandoms619
    @itsjustfandoms619 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you should adopt a baby. you seem like an amazing mom.

    • @Chloe9Isabelle
      @Chloe9Isabelle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yui -Sama great it's not like that costs $20,000 or anything!!

    • @sabrinastratton1991
      @sabrinastratton1991 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not like adoption is super expensive or anything....

    • @itsjustfandoms619
      @itsjustfandoms619 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sabrinastratton1991 this comment was 4 years ago,,, I was like 12 lmao

  • @steffithayer9531
    @steffithayer9531 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have an african american baby. Would people be offended by me taking an african american baby out even though I'm caucasian??

  • @tiffkeeley1189
    @tiffkeeley1189 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My fiance thinks its odd and weird but he knows it makes me happy so hes ok and happy with it i do have anxiety and depression so to me it does help but deep down i know if my parents ever found out they would be mad the would throw me in a insane insylum

  • @jniahcorry3278
    @jniahcorry3278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Okay so I’m getting my reborn tommorow and I wanna buy her a stroller on wednesday and it’s a umbrella stroller I wanna know should I hide her with a blanket over the stroller to make it seem like she’s sleeping or should I buy a stroller cover and cover her in the stroller so nobody can’t really see her face ? I need advice to make me feel more better

    • @jniahcorry3278
      @jniahcorry3278 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      MxgicalVibez thank you 🙃😘 and what kind of stroller cover should I get for the umbrella stroller ??

    • @jniahcorry3278
      @jniahcorry3278 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      MxgicalVibez and u think I can use the umbrella stroller for the winter

  • @dakotarae9533
    @dakotarae9533 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a HUGE question about mid year last year I had contacted you about maybe doing my dream reborn for me for around Christmas time and by that time last year you were already full with customs so my question is if I want a custom baby from you around the end of December this year what time this year should I message you on face book ?

    • @doeadeernursery5659
      @doeadeernursery5659  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please contact me via the links in the description!

    • @dakotarae9533
      @dakotarae9533 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Doe A Deer Nursery
      Ok thank you !

  • @emmamorales1125
    @emmamorales1125 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for a great video. Love it . Emma

  • @ShaGurl609
    @ShaGurl609 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    great tips

  • @itsjustmegan2610
    @itsjustmegan2610 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really needed this thanks 😇

    • @doeadeernursery5659
      @doeadeernursery5659  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Meghan Jones you're welcome!

    • @itsjustmegan2610
      @itsjustmegan2610 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Doe A Deer Nursery 😎😎Thanks for replying..I have started by talking her around the house when mynmoms friends are around and stuff

  • @ninabaxter1266
    @ninabaxter1266 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where do you get the boba rap?😃❤️

  • @marievalcarcel3611
    @marievalcarcel3611 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the tips I'm 10 and I can get very nerves

  • @youtubequeen1869
    @youtubequeen1869 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I swear my confidants bully like 34 % better

  • @evierawson8037
    @evierawson8037 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    where did you get your reborn?

  • @colleencook1432
    @colleencook1432 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi my name is colleen i only got one reborn baby boy his name mason i was wondering if it be ok take him to a garden for a walk with me or not

    • @gabbieowens7536
      @gabbieowens7536 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      colleen cook what ever makes you feel comfortable

  • @nadirafarzana1461
    @nadirafarzana1461 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    ok

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  • @dawnroussey1166
    @dawnroussey1166 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First