How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You Deeply

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    3 Ways to Forgive Someone Who Has Hurt You Deeply
    1. Prepare in Advance to Forgive Someone “When” They Hurt You Deeply
    The more you believe in someone’s perfection, the more it hurts you when you see their imperfections. By preparing for imperfection before you see it, it can better equip you to offer forgiveness, because it will be needed.
    2. Forgive Imperfect People Who Have Hurt You Deeply Because of Your Perfect God
    Christians are called to always forgive not because people deserve this but because God always deserves this from us (Ephesians 4:32).
    3. Remember that Reconciliation Is a Process But Forgiveness Is a Choice
    God wants us to be reconciled when possible. Sometimes it’s not possible because you would be then acting unwise with your heart (Proverbs 4:23). If you do reconcile, it takes time to mend the relationship. Forgiveness, however, is a choice we can make in an instant. Forgiveness is when you no longer punish someone even though they deserve it.
    Forgiveness is not a feeling. It’s a decision.

ความคิดเห็น • 48

  • @potato5904
    @potato5904 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The timing is crazy!! God knew I needed this.

  • @denisewilliamson4749
    @denisewilliamson4749 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Amen! I had to forgive someone who hurt me because I didn't want to block my blessings. Forgiveness also helped me to move on ouietly! Forgiveness helping me heal better, and I also had to forgive myself too. I am at peace now! Thanks for this video! 🙏😊

  • @pyromanjake
    @pyromanjake ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It isn’t our place to punish someone for their wrongdoing. Yes it hurts, but forgiveness will always make feel better. Let them be judged by our Heavenly Father as you will be.

  • @EieiExamplEeiEi
    @EieiExamplEeiEi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can forgive but I never forget what they had done to me.

  • @ivanmoreno808
    @ivanmoreno808 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Forgiveness is a decision not a emotion

  • @chansonjimson1633
    @chansonjimson1633 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I will forgive my enemies and I wish them the best and Good things for them.🙏

  • @michelleward1173
    @michelleward1173 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been hurt in relationships with people and I have learned. 💙

  • @velvetvasquez7077
    @velvetvasquez7077 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Forgiveness is very hard yet are Heavenly Father forgiven us for our mistakes and sins for what we done to him 👈🏼thank you lord Jesus for dying on the cross👈🏼✝️💜so that I can have a second chance for a better blessing life 🙌🏼🕊️🙏🏼so if God and the lord can forgive me who am I not to forgive thou who have hurt me!! I will let go and let God to deal with them !! And keep a peace of mind knowing that he will never let me down on taking care of my enemies for sure 👈🏼☝🏼💜✝️🙏🏼🙌🏼👍🏼knowing that he keeps his promise!!

  • @justinsandolph4861
    @justinsandolph4861 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All we could do is keep praying

  • @dawnstonerock4253
    @dawnstonerock4253 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this! My ex and I are working on this after 40 years. Yes. Really. We are different people now. I never would have imagined this happening.

    • @Jennifr1966
      @Jennifr1966 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know a divorced couple who are still celebrating their anniversary!

  • @aschenkielbayocboc
    @aschenkielbayocboc 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Amen lord.
    I forgive everybody who has hurt me.
    Even tho it is a never lasting pain in my head, I still forive them, even tho they would not accept it.

  • @evasccl7846
    @evasccl7846 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So timely... finally i understand it, whilst i have not witnessed it in my life as I grew up, mostly it was resentment and a reminder of the past that I saw in my family... now I know. Thank you!

  • @mommovesherbabies2384
    @mommovesherbabies2384 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are always forgiven… I can’t help myself. 😢

  • @clairefeltsman4767
    @clairefeltsman4767 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All is forgiven be happy everyone thank you for all the lessons learned , health , happiness and love to you all in new year ❤goodbye I’m free amen god amen Jesus I WISH YOU LOVE , doors closed , I’m moving on thank you

  • @cosmealcantar9396
    @cosmealcantar9396 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's almost impossible

  • @xxkissmeketutxx
    @xxkissmeketutxx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have true anger issues. Serious issues. I was starting to tumble through the rabbit hole, then I thought I'll search How to Forgive Someone, even though I didn't expect anything to work.
    A whole screen of videos came up and I thought I'll be going through all of them. 😡😡
    Yours is the first video I watched.
    The 2nd point started me crying, and I prayed to Jesus to please forgive me for my sins that put Him on the cross.
    The only reason I'm not medicated for my anger is because I lie to the psychologists, so I hope you can understand the immensity of this video God must've put into your heart.
    I can't believe my anger simmered down from a short video lol!!! Anyway THANKYOU my sibling in Christ for helping me to obey Jesus's commands by forgiving.
    May God bless everything you're going through. Amen 🙏🏼

  • @xcobyxzei
    @xcobyxzei ปีที่แล้ว

    I fell for someone online. They lied to me about big things. I’m deeply hurt. I keep thinking about them.

  • @jeffreybabino8161
    @jeffreybabino8161 ปีที่แล้ว

    About five years ago I had to forgive somebody that hurt me very badly in life so I did I knew it was the right thing to do this person was dying I knew that God wanted me to do this✝️🙏❤️

  • @eamoncoyle8780
    @eamoncoyle8780 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im Sorry Jesus for hurting Others.

  • @rochellesmith510
    @rochellesmith510 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ❤ Amen ❤😊

  • @Summer-tk8yk
    @Summer-tk8yk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I choose to forgive him. ❤

  • @yantekuzumaki543
    @yantekuzumaki543 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is really spoke to me deeply man, got hurt badly and this came up as a notification. I wanna forgive them for god.
    Also question, is it out of character for god to punish those for hurting people when the victim doesn't want them to be punished and rather have them apologize for their actions?

    • @melilopez_proverbs31_Eph6
      @melilopez_proverbs31_Eph6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love sharing about our Big G God ..little g god/s are not our God 🙏🏻😇✝️📖👍🏻 let’s give God all the Glory & all the Praise in His mighty glorious name of Christ Jesus!! Amen

    • @melilopez_proverbs31_Eph6
      @melilopez_proverbs31_Eph6 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is no safer place, nothing more valuable in life and nothing that this world offers that can compare with the intimate presence of God - seeing his face.
      Lord, today I want to see your face. I ask you to satisfy the deepest longings of my heart with your intimate presence. 👑😇❤️‍🔥📖✝️

  • @ytzpro
    @ytzpro 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Forgive yourself for being imperfect

  • @vernvilar6922
    @vernvilar6922 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @ameliabell5597
    @ameliabell5597 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes Amen 💯🙏👣😇

  • @joyjewel748
    @joyjewel748 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If forgiveness is not a feeling, then what does it mean to forgive someone from the heart as Jesus said? Just trying to understand.

    • @lia_romi01
      @lia_romi01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It means, that no matter if it makes you feel hurt, sad, angry, upset, you can let it go.

  • @colski3333
    @colski3333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Forgive because it was you who seek them and found what you were looking for. Real forgiveness is ALWAYS Self forgiveness

  • @gloriaholloway6282
    @gloriaholloway6282 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen

  • @norahbwire647
    @norahbwire647 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If your watching this due to being with a narcissist. Forgive, but never forget. Keep the door shut forever or they will ultimately keep on trying to destroy you by chipping away your exterior.

    • @emmamonroe3311
      @emmamonroe3311 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aliciastoaks1955 good boundaries how about having them as high until the sky ends.

  • @shalomleftismisalie3470
    @shalomleftismisalie3470 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amayn

  • @BobMarley-uh7gf
    @BobMarley-uh7gf ปีที่แล้ว

    AMEN 🙏

  • @jezus4018
    @jezus4018 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen 🙏❤️

  • @Jennifr1966
    @Jennifr1966 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So when you see them and they're saying I'M lying and that they didn't do this (crime!), how do you reply?

  • @oblivicmonarch6669
    @oblivicmonarch6669 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Forgiveness" is for weaklings who are too weak to get revenge.

  • @RachelWeeping
    @RachelWeeping 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A great Lamentation with dark moans and deep sorrow is heard in Ramah tonight. Why? What happened? It's Rachel weeping with soul crushing bitterness for her baby boys. Her pain is severe, so she will not be comforted because her precious boys are no more. Does Rachel have to forgive the demonic ruler who ordered her boys to be murdered? Let me know, my name is Rachel.

  • @kevinjohnson6259
    @kevinjohnson6259 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not trying to be racist, but why did you choose a black woman 😂

    • @justinsandolph4861
      @justinsandolph4861 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why the hell you have a black man buddy this is not the place here for this sir

    • @mistybihler1424
      @mistybihler1424 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because black lives matter

  • @Tobito-
    @Tobito- ปีที่แล้ว

    I knew this guy who I talked to almost everyday for almost a year and he leaked my face and I don’t know if I should go back to be friends with him what should I do