PRODUCTIVITY VS. BURNOUT | a vulnerable vlog, navigating life when it's hard, how & where i've been

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  • @MommaBeeb
    @MommaBeeb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I lost my first pet I had as an adult in 2020. It was made harder due to pandemic restrictions, but I was grateful to be able to hold her during her passing. Losing pets is not trivial when we have a close bond. I don’t think anyone who understands this pain would want you to rush your healing for the benefit of your channel viewers, or fake as if you are okay. I’m so glad you were vulnerable. You are not alone in loving and grieving a pet. ❤

  • @planet_myk
    @planet_myk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I lost my cat July of 2023. I’ve had her since she was a kitten. She had just turn 23 a few months prior to her passing. My other cat is 11 and he had only ever known her. He has never been alone.
    Katie I’m so sorry for the loss of killer. Pet grief is so real and it’s hard on a person.

  • @lyayers
    @lyayers 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm really sorry to hear about your fur babies, Katie. They are family, and it's truly one of the hardest things to go through. As heartbreaking as it was to watch, I appreciate you being real. You're absolutely right about how TH-cam is full of people who seemingly never experience hardship. Thank you for sharing, and I hope May gives you a reprieve from life.

  • @nicolec2515
    @nicolec2515 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I empathize with you so much. I am tearing up with you while watching this video. My first pet that I got as an adult passed about 3 weeks ago also. It is so hard, they truly are family. I hope you find comfort knowing Killer is at peace now. She will be waiting for you on the other side of the rainbow bridge. Take as much time as you need to heal and process this. Please do not stress about making content on days you do not feel up to it. We understand and want you to take car of YOU first.

  • @Jesswrites33
    @Jesswrites33 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Katie, my heart and thoughts and prayers are with you ❤ I’m sending so much love. A few years ago I lost my favorite cat in the world, who I had since I was in elementary school so for almost 15 years. He was the sweetest thing ever and my best friend; I basically grew up with him. I understand your pain 😢 they will always be in our hearts and memories and pictures 🫶🏼 love you 💕.

  • @charliegonzalez9290
    @charliegonzalez9290 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for sharing your truth. We all go through so much and when all the sunshine content is all we see, it can feel like we are just looking at life wrong or that our mindset is somehow wrong. It's nice to feel not alone. It's ok to feel what you feel when you feel it. It's all part of the human experience. Love to you and your family and fur babies.

  • @ninazimmerman6458
    @ninazimmerman6458 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so sorry about the loss of your baby. I completely empathize and started crying as you were talking about just wanting 24 more hours with her. She was with you for a significant portion of your life, don’t put pressure on yourself to “get over it” quickly. Or at all. I lost my baby (dog) 3 years ago now and I still cry all the damn time. I used to say “why can’t I move on” to myself all the time. And I realized I’m not supposed to. I want to remember her and feel her impact forever.

  • @holleyjay1122
    @holleyjay1122 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I lost the dog that raised me 2 years ago. I still have days where I cry because I miss her. She was there with me through over a decade of my life, from the time I was a fresh out of college newlywed to being a mom in her 30’s starting scary new ventures, and she was always by my side. I have a new dog, and she brings me so much joy and is the best furry side-kick, but there are those heart animals. All this to say, I understand. I’m so sorry you going through this!

  • @loubnabourara7457
    @loubnabourara7457 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really can understand what you've been through, I believe it's even harder for you to bear all this pain, I put myself in your shoes and it's extremely painful and heart breaking, our pets are our saviors when we've been through hard times. All my prayers for you my dear, and may God give you strength to handle all of them ❤

  • @rhiannonevans7726
    @rhiannonevans7726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So sorry Katie for your loss of Killer & ongoing worry with Tony. I hope you can comfort yourself with the knowledge that they have the most loving of home & care with you. We had a similar loss of our much loved cat & about a year later our much loved GSD & it will eventually be solace for you. Take care & be as kind to yourself as you can ❤

  • @candiceseretin7230
    @candiceseretin7230 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your hard time with us, my thoughts are with you. Your pets are always apart of your family they are never just a cat or dog.

  • @katie.besemer
    @katie.besemer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I so felt the need to tell you thank you for being so raw and vulnerable , I am sending so much love your way through everything. It’s so true what you said, your pets are your family, your fur babies, and they have a piece of your heart. I hope you are able to recuperate and recharge in the ways that you need most 💕

  • @karenfocht2159
    @karenfocht2159 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So sorry to hear about your animals. I appreciate the honesty. Don’t apologize for being real.

  • @LadyPinwheel_b
    @LadyPinwheel_b 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My 16 yo cat has a liver tumour and we just learned about it. We don’t know how long she’s got… but I’m dreading the moment. 😢 I’m so sorry for your loss and I’m sending you a big hug

  • @IceHockeyBrothers
    @IceHockeyBrothers 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so sorry about your cat ❤ I have two cats now but I still cry about my childhood cat. I’m sending healing vibes.

  • @mountain-mornings
    @mountain-mornings 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I went though this last year with my cat, Lily that I had since college also (Im now 35). 😢💔 It was incredibly hard leading up to her passing (she had kidney failure), and we eventually had someone come to our home to put her down. She helped me though many difficult events in my adulthood. She was MY first pet, although I had family pets as a child like you. I just wanted to say that I completely empathize with you and Im so sorry for how much pain you're going through right now. I can tell that youre a great pet mommy and your babies are/were very lucky to have you. ❤ *giant hug* -Kimberly

  • @christinac8866
    @christinac8866 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Katie thank you so much for your honest video. It’s so true that sometimes life is just hard even when we are positive people overall. I lost my cat almost a year ago and I still grieve. Please don’t think it’s silly or that you should apologize for it. They are family members so it should be painful when we lose our precious pets. There are brighter days in your future! Loving your videos + I have always loved your other Animal Crossing channel too. ❤ Take care of yourself!

  • @dlmonty5423
    @dlmonty5423 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so sorry for your recent loss and that your other fur baby is in a bad way. We love them and they become our family. My heart goes out to you. From my own experience I can tell you that it does get better with time.

  • @cathystaynice
    @cathystaynice 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My love goes out to you. I have lost pets, its not nice and heartbreaking. I know how you feel. ❤❤❤

  • @honeywerehomeblogMegan
    @honeywerehomeblogMegan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sending you so much love Katie. It's a really painful loss. I'm so sorry. It will be a process to grieve and heal, very understandable when you loved so deeply.

  • @pennystratford1968
    @pennystratford1968 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Katie they are not just Cats or Dogs they are Family, when we lost our Indey Girl🐱 from kidney failure we where heart Broken we had her for nearly nineteen years, it hurts and my Heart goes out to you Both Much Love x🐾

  • @Tissa1124
    @Tissa1124 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so sorry for the loss of your kitty. 🙏🏼

  • @EnricaM-d2w
    @EnricaM-d2w 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so in love with Tony, he's so cute. Thank you for sharing. Big hug to both of you. Enrica

  • @Nsc2222
    @Nsc2222 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sending lots of love. I dread the day I ever have to say goodbye to our family dog! She is like my fourth child and a massive part of the family. Hope you’re ok ❤

  • @jenniferwebre6328
    @jenniferwebre6328 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel so deeply for your feelings on killer. My cat passed and I wasn’t right for months. Your heart will heal. ❤

  • @mariamunoz3115
    @mariamunoz3115 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awww just started your channel. So sorry about your pet issues. It is super hard and brutal. Our family pets are such special parts of our lives. I lost my Santi over 2 years ago and I still miss him especially on hard days.
    Maybe give Tony his med before his walk and then he doesn’t have to wait so long once he get home???
    It’s not just a cat and a dog, it’s a family member. Be kind to yourself. It will get easier but it will take time.

    • @mariamunoz3115
      @mariamunoz3115 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Also! I have a 3 year old Samoyed… looks like Tony is Samoyed.

  • @princesssimplicity5172
    @princesssimplicity5172 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so sorry for your loss ❤❤

  • @nerdiebird
    @nerdiebird 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Katie, I’m very sorry for your loss of your cat, and I hope Tony’s health gets better or at least he doesn’t have much pain.
    It’s been a very hard month (2 months really) for me as well. I have a 2 year old sphynx who’s my first “my pet”, who’s going in for her first heart scan next week and I’m terrified of the results they might find.
    I know you might not like this kind of content, being vulnerable and all that, but it really does help let us know we’re not alone and everyone has struggles. I hope 2024 starts treating all of us better.❤

    • @Katie.Callaway
      @Katie.Callaway  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Giving you the biggest virtual hug ❤ Thank you for your kindness, and I'm sending you and your kitty positive vibes for next week.

  • @Kathleen4052
    @Kathleen4052 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are wonderful and amazing! Thank you for this video, for your honesty. Please take care of yourself.

  • @luzperez7796
    @luzperez7796 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sorry for your loss

  • @SoliRhymesWithJulie
    @SoliRhymesWithJulie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so so sorry to hear about Killer, and Tony's diagnosis. I feel like it is worse with pets because you can't have the same communication as with people. I lost the love of my life, my beloved boy cat Stark, back in late 2021. I still miss him daily, even though his sister is very much alive and I got her another cat friend a few months after we lost him.

  • @shyliewoods
    @shyliewoods 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm sitting here trying to casually wipe tears on a plane like a big dork 😉 They aren't just pets, big hugs from Tassie ❤

  • @katiefroncek9400
    @katiefroncek9400 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sending you lots of love

    • @Katie.Callaway
      @Katie.Callaway  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, Katie ❤

  • @IndoorsyAdventures
    @IndoorsyAdventures 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @growthandroses
    @growthandroses 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don’t overwhelm yourself for a society that scrolls past you within 2 seconds, your mental heath is far more valuable! Although I’m grateful and enjoy your videos, you’re a human being! Take care of yourself and pray about it 🥰

  • @eddiemartinez7555
    @eddiemartinez7555 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lovely dear friend 😅😊🎉😂❤

  • @LadyPinwheel_b
    @LadyPinwheel_b 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The toilet in the background is so distracting 😂

    • @Katie.Callaway
      @Katie.Callaway  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hahahah I usually close that door when I film but *completely forgot* to this time

  • @valerieyoungren7561
    @valerieyoungren7561 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s not you it’s just bad luck

  • @mallory04layne
    @mallory04layne 7 หลายเดือนก่อน