Husband Demands His Wife Take Care Of His Grandma, Wife Says She Will Leave If Grandma Stay There
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- A husband wanted his wife to take care of his grandmother. The wife said no because she doesn't have time for that. The wife stated she would divorce her husband if he moved grandma into the house.
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He is Not invested in taking care of his grandmother; he is invested in having someone else do that.
Yeah that dude is out of pocket. And record her.. he really made himself look dumb
Wasn’t no rap when my grandmother was dying, all her 6 kids and us grandkids took turns caring for her and my grandfather. She sounds like don’t nobody in the family rock with her (including him) and she’s on her way to a home.
Elderly parents ARE NOT easy. Especially if they have dementia/Alzheimers, more challenging than rasing an infant or toddler aged kid.
Plus not everyone wants that responsibility/commitment. More so if you dont like cleaning up after others
@mackinshizzaveli4202 amen... it's sad all around dude didn't care to help anyone , but she didn't want to do it at all, ... they are our elders, why so mean? I've dealt with dementia, progress cancer, and dementia again (my neighbor not even family but it's our Elders , that hurts they get so angry at them.)
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Even if she doesn't work, he has no right to demand she does ANYTHING for HIS family!
Exactly 💯 💯 💯. I wouldn't care if I didn't work. I would've told him NO and told him off.
She does work tho
@@nawepmukwan7502 I don't. I take care of our kids..I still wouldn't do it
The fact that he is filming this says a lot about him.
NO, IT SAYS ALOT ABOUT HER
@@cutiepie6796 she ain’t falling for his bs, end of discussion. He got the nerve to demand she take care of his grandmother too on top of working outside the home, taking care of his twin children, taking care of the home, helping to pay bills. I would have told him to kick rocks too. It’s his responsibility since he invited grandma to stay. Trying to dump all the work on her then talk crazy demanding she do what he says. Nothing but disrespect from him.
@@JJ-fq4nl other cultures people do this
Other cultures may do this, but the demand part is out of order. A conversation should be had. I get it. Things come up in life. But any time a person leads with disrespect and demands, things don’t end well.
@@bryanbeeman5256 NO THE DEMAND PART IS NOT OUT OF ORDER
The stutter after she said no😂😂
😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he knew he f up
I hate how people air their dirty laundry in public.
Why are we recording it? Smh
Exactly 💯 he's acting like a child he should had of other plans
It sucks, but it also serves as a visual learning for others....
I was thinking the same thing.
Why is he filming this ?
And why is she allowing him to film this ?
🤦♂️makes me wonder if these types of videos are even real.
So if you're filming for your family, tell your family to take care of your grandmother. I'm confused
Right
Speaking Facts
Exactly!
That’s what I said!
Like his momma.
That filming is to have his family on his side and to alienate her to make her seem as if she doesn't care about his family.
Not everyone can handle taking care of the elderly. She is respectfully letting her husband know the answer is no. Taking care of the elderly requires a special person that can handle physical and mental abuse. Elderly people can be mean.
yeah no one will step up to help my grandma all her children are evil, i sacrificed alot to be my grandmas caretaker even though i dont get paid for it its just horrible i love my grandma but her children so evil and selfish...
EXACTLY! I don't like that kind of responsibility myself.
@@nashambenyisrael7689are they evil or was she a bad parent?
Be honest fam, cause kids don't just stop coming around for 0 reason. There is a reason whether you were told what that reason was or not is the question.
Nowl, she is not respectfully telling him. She shouldn't have suggested putting the lady in a home. Then I believe she said with jello. I wouldn't put a dog in one of those places. She should sit down with him and help him find a better place for her, like the grandmother's children. That's whose responsibility it is.
@rosestulips8440 Maybe there's bad blood between her and the grandmother on top of her not wanting the stress of caring for him, their twins and the lady
He needs to be grateful that she takes care of him and the twins! Wow!
I support her in not taking up that responsibility
He had the unmitigated gall to tell her, " Instead of relaxing watching TV, you could be taking care of MY Grandma. " He didn't care that she got the kids settled for bed & she was tired & wanted to rest . BM see us as work mules & don't care how much is on our backs . While they saunter around with a mini man purse 👛 🙄. # bye dusty # stop BMW
My girlfriend and I don't have living grandparents. But, we are not going to take care of our parents when they are incapable. It also has to do with how our own parents treated us, so we are focused on us, and our kids.
Being a caregiver is a full-time job. No matter what age is a person .
Nah the lady is 100% in right here. Like she said; she takes care of him, their kids and the household. She’s not responsible for your grandma. Bro that’s so far removed. Homeboy needs to check himself because like uncle Phil said, he’s straight up disrespectful.
Let's see if she feels the same when its her and hers....
She won't so spare the hypocrisy.
Yep exactly 💯,
@@blackice8824 if it’s hers, she would be the one to take care of them, not telling her husband to take care of them.
She said she gonna save up to help her family
@@MiamiPush2theLimit Thanks for responding to him . For some men , it's all about them , what you want doesn't matter.
He needs to call a Nursing agency have a CNA or GNA come out to the house and take care of her for about $15-18 dollars per hour! Dude is tripping!
She doesn’t want him there at all.
Dude wants a free caregiver that's all.
@@Shutdownoftheday
*her
CNA will find some way to make the other adults in the house do some of the work, or constantly bothering ask, where's this, where's that
@@stevenroshni1228good. Because they are severely underpaid for the work they have to do.
he said "my mom said all she need is......" sounds like his mom needs to take care of her.....
She was minding her own business comfy cozy and here he comes fast talking her into being a caregiver. And after she expressed that she not going to do it he still wants his grandma up in there with her.
He double bad for putting their business on the internet trying to make her look bad. There are plenty of complaints about modern women but she's in the right on this one. Can't just someone to put their life on hold for your wants. He sounds like a child
Yeah real genius to say the least..
@@wmd13194 I can’t get over why doesn’t HE do it? She is a women? She is not even related to the elder! Shouldn’t it be the one related that is responsible? Not based off what is between their legs?
I love the way he say after he leaves for work she can do this, that and the other for his grandma. Not one word about what he’s going to do with HIS grandmother
Where's his mom and dad or siblings in this discussion. What happens if the shoe was on the other foot. I'm with the sister on this one.
Maybe his grandma took care of him okay when her family member need help we going to see what happens
Sound to me like his mother instigated all of this. This happened to me years ago and I stood my grounds.
His sister died and they wanted me to take care of a toddler.
I told my spouse at the time that if I wanted another baby I would have gotten one and I did put him in his rightful place..... and he had numerous sisters, the AUDACITY!
Later I moved out.
@@robertgillespie5666 Then he should quit his job and take care of his grandma instead of dumping the work on his spouse. Given her responsibilities that she take care of him, their twins, the household, and full time job.
@@robertgillespie5666You assume that when people get older that they need help. Not every person gets to a nursing home. There are a lot of independent elderly out here.
Someone in his family, talked him into doing this, come on bro, goofiness at it's highest form, wow.
His mama who won't take care of grandma ma!
The goofiest of them all!🤦🏾♀️😂
Yeah, he's stupid.
Yupp
It's always easy to volunteer someone else to carry out your responsibility. She is HIS grandmother, ergo HIS responsibility. She is not her grandmother.
Divorce is approved in this case😂
It’s too far. Not necessary.
@@realmaureenoyakhilome who are YOU to say that's going too far?????????? Go sit yo ass down somewhere
You overly emotional dude
Yep. F that dude. He can take the grandma and the twins.
@@H99LNlmao overly emotional? For what? Not wanting to be slave and maid for your grandma that you won’t TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
He was wrong, you don't treat your spouse like that. Taking care of your grandma was not in the vows.
Also we probably don't know his grandmother treated her
But what happens to his parents
@@jeannettegordon8064 His mother, she should do the responsibility not the grandchild. She sounds like the one who set this up anyway.
How do you know that the grandma took care of him we can have the same situation grandma did not have to take him in and guess what a lot of grandmas and grandfathers or taking care of grandkids
How do you know his grandmama took care of him we can have the same situation grandma didn't have to take care of him but guess what grandmama and granddaddy's or taking care kids and they old
The audacity… He want the free slave that take care of him, their twins, the household, and on the top of that full time job. Of course that is not enough so she also have to be care taker of his sick grandma. That is not a loving husband.
I agree with you 100%
@Shad moss Nah, 50/50. She also have a fulltime job. He just can't stand seeing her watching TV.
@@shadmoss4089She said in the video she has twins and work. Brother should probably consider 2 jobs so that she can be a stay at home mom and have more time to be a caretaker. If he’s not willing to work MORE than he shouldn’t expect her to work MORE.
@shadmoss4089 stop being delusional. How many bm can single handedly take care of a home financially. Y'all are kangs of 50 50
@@schoolgyrl6 you're not a good observer.....SHE WASN'T GOING TO TAKE CARE OF THE GRAMMA EVEN IF SHE DIDN'T HAVE A JOB ....AND I DON'T BLAME HER
In my African culture, we take care of our elders, no nursing homes, plus we’re all medical professionals, but you can’t FORCE your spouse or family members to do it. He was wrong.
@TheCrimsonCuretellsthetruthabo really? He is? A Nigerian?
He was dead wrong and completely selfish to her needs and stress
African families unite. Taking care of someone who hasn't been a part of your daily life makes less sense
That's absolutely correct 💯
My mom, not his. Especially with his attitude.
I watched my parents try to take care of both my grandmother's in their glory years and let me tell YOU it is not easy watching over the elderly. It's a 24\7 job! It's tiresome too. Your entire life changes when you become a caretaker. He's wrong...I pray it's a skit.
Elderly parents ARE NOT easy. Especially if they have dementia/Alzheimers, more challenging than rasing an infant or toddler aged kid.
Plus not everyone wants that responsibility/commitment. More so if you dont like cleaning up after others 😮
That was no skit ... if it was that woman deserves an Oscar.
Something is in the air. What is wrong with people. Why did he come like that. It's like he's taking advantage of her. But she ain't having it. Smh
If these weren't real people, it would be funny how every exchange he adds something new to 'all you got to do'. The list just keeps growing!😂
Ikr! That made me think this had to be staged! 😂 It sounded like jokes on his part!
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The squirrel from Hoodwinked!
Communication, Consideration and Cooperation a must for a harmonious relationship.
Your comment is underrated. What’s frustrating is people who have this undervalue it, that’s why everyone has gone mad.
This dude is out pocket. If that woman is working and she taking care of my kids and handling business around house and in the bed... that the as good as it needs to get.
I’ve worked in two nursing homes …I’d never put family in one unless absolutely necessary because of the type of care being beyond what my family could provide. I still don’t agree to the childish mess this guy pulled!
Dude is a jack....
IT WASN'T CHILDISH AND HE WAS RIGHT
@@FaithandPurpose828 NO HE'S NOT
@@cutiepie6796 Also his video which is on the internet "forever" will be played at the divorce hearing....yeah he's dusty for sho...
@@FaithandPurpose828 I WATCHED THE VIDEO AND NOTHING IN THE VIDEO INCRIMINATED HIM SO YOUR POINT IS IRRELEVANT
Sound to me like his mother instigated all of this. This happened to me years ago and I stood my grounds.
His sister died and they wanted me to take care of a toddler.
I told my spouse at the time that if I wanted another baby I would have gotten one and I did put him in his rightful place..... and he had numerous sisters, the AUDACITY!
Later I moved out.
Why isn't his mother and/or his aunts and uncles taking car of grandma?? More unpaid labor. Next, she'll have to change her depends.
So much for family “Blissed and Highly Favored.” Your rightful place is the trash, smh.
You surely showed him the sense of family. 😂😂😂. The guy dodge a bullet.
@@Christopher0632: Where is the child's father at? That's his job, not the aunt's job.
@@robertm135 Yes I did 🤣🤣😀😀😀
His parents can look after his Grandma!
It’s not easy. I saw my mom and aunt take care of my grandma and it was physically taxing. As a mom of twins, I couldn’t do it all!
I agree with the woman. Taking care of someone is a job. Its draining... it's not her responsibility. He's a Fool
Well said beloved. He's too TAME
Until she wants to bring in her family member then it will be he never helped her with anything😢😢😅😅😅
@@johnpoteat6691 why would you expect him to help when he's not even willing to help with his own grandmother.
@@xshesyourqorqeousxx3 exactly 🙄
@@johnpoteat6691
Lmao you say that like men do that ever.
Taken care of a elderly person, takes a lot of your time. It’s not a walk in the park. And when you have job, and children to take care of, cook, clean, pickup kids, baths, homework. When do you have the time to take on someone else. When will she sleep and take care of herself.
Sound to me like his mother instigated all of this. This happened to me years ago and I stood my grounds.
His sister died and they wanted me to take care of a toddler.
I told my spouse at the time that if I wanted another baby I would have gotten one and I did put him in his rightful place..... and he had numerous sisters, the AUDACITY!
Later I moved out.
He doesn't care talking about she gotta do some extra work while HE does WHAT SIT ON HIM BEHIND OR RUN THE STREETS.
@@shirleyrussell7089 Exactly my point. Sounds like a Cheater to me and a NARCISSISTIC who only cares about what he wants.
Exactly..
If grandma needs help taking her meds and eating and help using the bathroom then that is a full time job. If you’re dealing with someone with dementia even doing one of these things can take hours. He is trifling.
It's disrespectful to tell a woman she needs to cook because she's a woman..
It's not. You are the problem. Simping for these triflings
Why can’t both men and women cook ?
This is absolutely disrespectful. He should have a sit down and talk and not asking her what she need to do. Where is the grandmother children at. She is right that not her grandmother. It's his grandmother.
He should be mad at his mother its her mom
It’s not wife’s responsibility to take care of grandma. He is a Narcissist. Most men act like this.
Uh no most men don't. You trippin
How do you know?!!
Nah, a lot of men have common sense and try to be decent, its just the fools go viral for nonsense making them look bad.
Have you met MOST men on earth b*tch/whore? Go stand in a corner and stay there forever
@@ChaseNSmoke
Studies have shown this. Most men do less chores and child care (even if both equally work) and men are also more likely to leave a partner if they become seriously ill.
Hold on..where are the grandma's kids?? They are suppose to take of the grandma.
Grandmama daughter is the mother of motormouth!!!!
Dead, in jail, deported, the insane asylum....
Good Question ?? 🤨
My Loving Mother has dementia. My Wonderful Father & I both have difficulties in taking care of her. (btw-I also work in with dementia residents in a health care facility) My poor Father had to give up his retirement life to take care of her. Elderly people like his grandmother needs round the clock care.THAT IS COMPLETELY UNFAIR ❗️And he is very selfish and immature 👶🏾🍼especially for putting her on blast!
Many prayers for strength for not only your mother but also you and your father 🙏🏾 🙏🏾
@@yumiko0017 Thank you & Amen 🙏🏾
I’m sorry about your mom and dad but you said, “your poor father has to give up his retirement…” I’m confused. Isn’t that what he signed up for? True it’s sad. Don’t think I’m going in on you. It’s just the truth. Daddy may need some counseling, the church, a nurse and other resources to help him take care of mom. However, that’s his job til death do them part.
Contrary to popular belief, she is not "Wonder Woman." She says she has a job, a household to take care of (cooking and cleaning, washing, etc) and on top of that you guys have twins. What more do you want this woman to do??? She already has a heavy workload!
You are speaking straight facts Phil!!!
I am a nurse and I was a CNA in hospitals and assisted livings. I couldn't imagine doing that 24/7 as long as someone lived. I am grateful to go home and have peace before starting all over.
My mom had to be placed in a nursing home because of a car accident. I was 23 and in the military. I'm the only child and my father died way before the accident. Almost 8 years later, she is still there because I can't afford the mental strain of taking care of her by myself.
I pray for you and your mom. God is always there looking after both of you❤🙏
Thanks for your service brother
YOU ARE A HORRIBLE PERSON
I just found out that you can apply for VA aid and attendance for your mom. You should check into the VA claims for aid and attendance. Also Social Security as well Goverment programs can help you.
@cassiuswilliams6633 I checked, and I can receive VA aid and attendance when I'm older but she can't receive it. She is already receiving Social Security and has Medicaid. I made sure to at least do that for her.
How come his other relatives are not taking care of the grandmother? She needs assisted living because family members are not capable of taking care of the elderly. Dude is FOOLISH! He needs to quit his job and take care of his grandmother since he's so passionate about it! My late grandfather wanted me to live with him, but I stood my ground and his brother, (my uncle) took my side and it was a dead issue! My aunt(my mother's sister) put her two cents in and agreed as well and called the idea selfish because he lived his life already and I was young, working and even going to school.
Who raised this guy??? He dont wanna touch his grandma do nothing at all.
He is so rude and despicable I tell you some of these men.
I have 2 children and I deliberately have them years apart because 1 child is enough for me to take care of and I am home everyday busy doing other thing's.
He's just too BRITE!!!
Question where is the other family members at why they can't take care of her?
This the question!!
This a skit.
They are waiting for the video that he is recording to see how horrible and mean she is for refusing to take care of their sick grandma. 😂
@@Nihdem only women do stuff like that
I can tell that he was raised by a single mother 🔹he needs to hire someone to help his grandmother
Yep, he definitely was raised in a fatherless home.
So I guess you are single parent because you know so much about how them.
He has a serious problem because the way he came to her was very rude and disrespectful he comes off to me as a bully and a narcissist I’m still smdh she looks like she’s tired of him anyway 😡
After seeing so much ELDER ABUSE, especially FINANCIAL ABUSE, from FAMILY members, I feel that ELDERS WHO are unable to take care of themselves, need to be placed in ASSISTED living. They need to be with qualified CAREGIVERS....
@ShawnB1. I agree, but I have witnessed too many ELDERS ABUSED by FAMILY members. It's just makes me sick. I will make a suggestion that if you choose assisted living that you are going to have to make surprise visits and constantly check on your LOVE ones. Other FAMILY members must help in visiting the ASSISTED living facility to make sure that the FACILITY is doing what they are paid to do....
I am a nurse and I wouldn't recommend it. Elders who get abused in nursing homes is even worse
This has gotta be a joke...that isn't safe either.
They abuse people in homes, too! Getting old is dangerous.
Very I worked as a housekeeper at a home and my God my days I'd come home crying after consoling a elderly patient after they slammed him on his bed after changing him, it's NOT a part of my duty neither is feeding them but after 2 days working there they almost all 56 rooms wanted me or my husband to be their keepers. It made my heart weak for a min but after a bit ill know when it's happening and I always noe have the urge to start it up to 100. I'll kill you if you touch them.
I'm trying to figure out how he is demanding her to take care of his grandmother. And then tell her what his mother said that she needs. Why isn't the mother taking care of the grandmother??
100% with the sister on this one. She is absolutely correcr.
He’s trippin. He can’t force her to do that. Like what? Force her to quit her job to do something she doesn’t want to do? And is not her responsibility? The resentment he’s creating is so unnecessary. He should hire a care giver to come help out. That shouldn’t be his wife’s responsibility.
Three words why he won't: CHEAP, CHEAP, CHEAP!!!! Why do u think he filmed her? To get his family to badger her into elder care!!
Still, grandma would inconvenience their routine. No, she's better off in a nursing facility.
Why don’t he quit his job and take care of his grandmother? I like the woman’s solid suggestion.
Its really not his responsibility to take care of his grandmother. Its the responsibility of the children. He is just the grandchild. Secondly, he went about that all wrong.
I would pack up MY TWIN Babies and get the Hell Up Out of there. The nerve of him. I bet she make more than him anyway.
If it's that important and they both are not willing to compromise and find a constructive resolution for the elder Grandma, then part ways and do what have to do! Stop putting your business out on social media to see who is right or wrong, to seek validation!
Would you foolishly allow one of your family members to break up your family when they wouldn't allow you to come and break up their home.
That simple huh? Lol
You wrong bro you done lost your mind 😂 that woman ain't gonna do that bro
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My husband told his mother she could come live with us without discussing it with me. One of the worst times of my life.
And that’s your cue to leave without discussing it with him. Some men are so inconsiderate and they force us to match their energy. My nervous system can’t take that kind of bs 🙄😮💨
Leave.
I brought my 92 yo mom to live with my husband and I. He was okay with it but after 15 months I had to put her in an assisted living facility. She caused too much havoc. The facility took outstanding care of her. I took her to all her dr’s appts; I visited her 3-4 x’s a week; took her to church and bible study. Then we had outings to the nail and hair salon, movies, etc. Not to mention the facility had outings also. She passed away at 96 surrounded by people who loved and cared for her. There are great facilities out there but it is the family’s obligation to make sure your loved one is being properly cared for!
I think his Grandma was staying with her daughter/ his Mom . He kept saying, " My Mom said , that's all you have to do ." HER own daughter is trying to make an in-law / not family , take care of her Mom . He's probably at his Mom's home bragging that they have 3 bedrooms & a loft . His Mom : OK, bet .😌
He needs to buy his grandma 👵 a house 🏠 😊
She didnt sign up for that. Like she said "why arent her kids taking care of her?". She has her own family shes caring for, sounds like the rest of his family passed the buck. Thats his problem
He mention his family. Why the grandma can't live with his family.
This is one of the few times I agree with the woman.
This is a Son-Husband. Children shouldn't have to take care of adults. Why would an adult want to take resources from a child. What about the rest of the family.
Yeah same here. He wilding.
Yea dude ended up lookin goofy. Also him stuttering wasn't helping his case😂
I DON'T AGREE WITH HER
@@roddyrod4922 THERE'S NO CHILDREN HERE
How are you going to force someone to take care of your grandmother 👵🏾 ??? Where are her daughters and her sons ?? It’s the children’s responsibility to take of their parents not the grandchildren. Invest in a nursing home.
That is a very stressful conversation. I’m surprised we agree.
I come from a family who ALWAYS took care of older members. As a child I watched my mom take care of cousins, grandparents and others. I didn't understand at that age however I understand now as a adult. With that being said, I don't believe EVERYONE should be subjected to believe this way. I, however, will continue the tradition. The difference is I will put the responsibility on MYSELF and not my mate.
Agreed!
Who took care of your mom?
@@sadejones6657 me
Phil your spot on about this situation The brother's wrong
After this Argument If He ever Made a Decision and She puts her Foot down, He will go back to Stuttering! LOL!
Hire a independent nurse for your grandmother ❤
Dude been watching too much manosphere, lol🤣
His mom and sister put him up to it. They need to take care of grandma
As soon as she opened her mouth, he should have knew HE WASN'T DOIN ENOUGH...
In honesty......both of them are sorry. I yield back the rest of my time. Enough love to go around for everybody.
This dude wilding, and putting it on video as well... that's crazy. He taking a L on this one.
Edit: people so fking stupid these days. You don't need to put your personal/family issues on the internet.
I think if he promised to take full responsibility for his grandmother, it would have been an easier talk.
Nah that's like a kid aski.g for a puppy and promising to take full care of it. We both know the parents end up doing all the work.
@@joannediaz8978 lol, you might be right. But he just came out the gate telling her that him and his family weren't doing much & it was mostly on her. Like what kind of strategy is that??!! "Hey, babe, you're doing all of the work, what do you think?" Wut?!!🤣
@@deenaprice1524 LOL, that;'s the strategy of a family that had no intention of doing any of the work themselves. He figured he was going to force her into submission because his family was behind him--all he did was force a separation.
He act like she obligated to take care of his grandma, he acts like a child throwing a tantrum this is no man.
She is both a working woman and the mother of twins. This combination means she is already a fulltime
worker. He walks in and tells her what she is going to do. Wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong. Nor can you put
anyone before your spouse. Bad move. He will wind up with a grandmother, but no spouse and part time
children. Maybe he'll be happy then. I hope this is a skit and not a real life situation.
Something tells me he's pranking her 😂🎉
The whole video is a prank
A skit perhaps, but this isn't stuff to prank around with, as it could become serious one day. The kids being grown having their own family changes this calculus.
I said the same thing when I saw this. He went about it all wrong. However, I do feel we should take care of our elders.
This was never an issue in the black community 50 years ago. Both actually make great points, but they never really sat down to really plan it out. He shouldn’t just make her do it, but the society we live in unfortunately doesn’t fit the whole take care of your parents like our grandparents use to back in the day.
Elderly parents ARE NOT easy. Especially if they have dementia/Alzheimers, more challenging than rasing an infant or toddler aged kid.
Plus not everyone wants that responsibility/commitment. More so if you dont like cleaning up after others 😮
I agree with you sir
@@desellis8117 but they cleaned up after you when you were little and couldn't do anything for yourselves. wow what a spiritually dead society, no wonder........
@@user-nx9it5br3h as babies people dont have the concept of self care(we are taught those things---sucks that loose those life skills with dementia/alzheimers, with age and successful physical development) or emotions like reluctance or disgust. You can pay a hospice home nurse to do the hygiene part. Other care aspects (reasonably and within means) I'll manage.
@@desellis8117 i understand where your coming from, however in most societies we can't fathom dumping our elderly in some old folks home because they no are deemed no longer useful. Anyway i'm not suprised at this behavior, I see how people here treat their own children.
They have got to be playing. This is so funny😂😂
This dude is straight up silly.😂 I agree with the sista.
There are many federal funding programs so that grandmom could stay in the house,having home health aids,check with the state will provide to make everyone comfortable.
Grandma would still be staying with them & she was not having it & I can't blame her.
Two chickens cannot roost in the same coop..and he wants her to be a nurse?
Coops can support multiple chickens depending on its size. Roosting space has to be allowed for each chicken.
If she said no and gave u her reasons. Respect her wishes. U want grandma to be cared for. Not neglected because her carer is overwhelmed.
This is an iceberg.
The clip at 6:24 of the woman being spoon fed got me screaming….loudly 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Like seriously where do these clips come from? 😂😂
Honestly. I'm on your side lady. Where did you dig up that overgrown mama's boy ?????? Damn. You can hear it when he's talking. Brah. Are you for real ??? Your grandma is not her responsibility. Really dude ???? If she did. Thats HER CHOICE. You cant make her do it. So you do it.
The fact that he is recording for views...is this a skit?
Notice how her lips are moving when she's not talking
I think the real problem her is not where the grandma is going to live ... its who is going to end up doing all the work. This woman knows that if grandma moves in its going to all fall on her. From the sounds of it she already has a full plate.
💯! It is not a spouse's responsibility to take care of extended family members.
Especially if they don't get along. Plus there should be other family members, cousins, ect..., maybe even a house nurse, that could help out.
Nah that’s weird having the grandma staying in there for along time
That husband is going about this all kinds of wrong. She gonna end up kickin it with one of her co-workers.
I used to be a care giver and I can say genuinely this is a full time job. He needs to quit his day job and get paid by the state to be her care giver. Working full time with a husband and children is hard enough.
I agree with her if her husband acts that way lady leave him you're not obligated to do anything
I wouldn’t want anybody who doesn’t care for my grandma being near or taking care of her. Brother needs to figure out what he’s gonna do.
It’s the way he ask her. And plus she has responsibilities anyway.
@@kingamir7487 That'[s the thing. He didnt ask her. He TOLD her.
@@DuttyGyal718 lol that too
He’s a goofy.
He said "shots fired"😂
Okay dude, that is not fair. When you stood at the alter there was no where in the vows that she has to take care of your grandmother. If she leaves that's on you.
For one, he has NO CLUE what it takes to take care of a person who is needy enough to need a nursing home. He’s like “all you need to do is…”
No, no, no… that woman has a full time job. So what’s going to happen to grandma when they’re both at work and the kids are at school? Is she going to be stuck in her recliner pissing all over herself, which how pressure sores happen. And what if she falls and nobody is home?
I worked in long term acute care. If he thinks all grandma does is watch family feud he is completely clueless.