Husband Finds Out That His Wife Had $22K Stashed Away In "Just In Case He Leaves Her" Account
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ส.ค. 2024
- Men, if you ever find your woman having an account saying it's in case you leave then you might as well leave because she's planning her exit.
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I love how women can do wrong and make out that they are the victim.
Exactly
Never changes. Too many of them never can admit that they're wrong, nor say I'm sorry.
Always. Eternal victims .. especially the ABw .
@@Solidstone67 some love to deflect, forget lie and delusional narcissist af that's the american women altitude
She makes good women look bad. Smh she’s wrong in so many level. She’s no victim. She disrespected her husband in so many level. I feel like he knew how she really is. He should of checked daily.
getting a joint account is a NO NO! even my grandmother told me to NEVER co-sign for nobody because should something happen, then you would be responsible.
Bingo I concur 💯
my girl dont understand why i dont let her drive my cars...lmao bishhh you cant afford none of these and i aint doin any unnecessary fixes/ maintenance
This why women get deleted. That 40cal will meet her today people get deleted for less.
Thataint what Steve Harvey said! Lol
My mama told me never get a joint account. And on the off chance you do get one, 85%-90% of your earnings is in your main account.
You will never catch me arguing (and yelling) with a woman like this. If it reaches this point, someone's gots to go 😂
She’s not listening to anything he has to say. She just knows she’s right in her BS
Steal 22,000 dollars off me. There’s going to be yelling and furniture moving going on that night!
Yep....I have walked away from women who jump up like that. Not worth hanging around. It's a lose lose situation for a man.
These young kids in the streets will erase you for far less
@@luvbig41How is it a lose-lose?
She just wanted cash on hand cause she knows she gone leave
They plan like this even before they get in relationships
@@Brothapocalypseyup that’s why as men you have to have an exit strategy as well don’t over spend on these women keep a savings no matter what I saw what my sister did to my brother-in-law
She already left 🤦🏽♂️
@@demetriuspowell29 😎👍🏿💯
She said incase you leave. She meant when she leaves.
She saw him as a meal ticket. Probably planning on bailing Pookie out of jail or leaving the country with one.
When a woman says "What are you going to do about it?"
That's when you go to divorce court, and file divorce papers.
Then she gets half...no that's when "she" plans a trip and disappears
Yep....All respect out the window. Any woman that challenges a man like that is not a woman a man wants to be around for too long. Smash and leave.
Yeah, you right.
She's attempting to set him up for a DV charge, PLAYING THE VICTIM.
@@freddy8479Your best believe that she's waiting for you to say the keyword D
He's explaining how he works long hours for them and she says, "I did it just in case you decide to leave! Look at my nails!" Such a selfish person!
She’s Cheating
MANE 💯 💯 💯
What she said about how she need to take care of herself in case they get a divorce is exactly what men should be on with a pre-nup
YEP 💯 💯 💯
That’s exactly WHY men want prenups.
This is why I will not allow anyone other than myself access to my accounts. Simple as that.
You're right, but you know how these women are. They will get you in that "Samson and Delilah" moment when you're most susceptible to their charm. Then she will whisper sweet nothings in your ear about opening a joint account so she can plan a surprise sensual trip to an exotic location and buy the sexiest lingerie you like the most to take with y'all 😂😂 They stay plottin and schemin dawg.
This is why some men want 50/50. Most men pay 60-100% of the bills. This allows women to save $400-5,000 per month.
Beeitch I don't blame her. The husband is lane for not having his own stash💵
And when y'all split... You now go from 60 percent to 100 percent solo with hardly any savings. She goes on to her next life with a decent savings and all the gifts you gave and then she finds anotha sucka to pay 60 plus percent of the bills.
Facts
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@@theerealatm relationships sound lucrative for women. And they get to have sex and company? God really does have favorites.
This is why I don't support the narrative of "Men should pay all the bills"
A joint account is for paying the bills.
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Legally, it's not theft. Morally, it's theft. Any woman who thinks this is okay needs to be left alone. Assume that most women are like this and adjust accordingly.
Nah there has to be some legal action that can be taken, that ain't right.
Morally corrupt as hell.
@@chenyung8154 Then your no good..just like she is. Sneaky and potting her exit ...on the DL. If everything was all good why hide it from her husband? SMH.
Right on...
That "legal" thing in America, as in legal owner, legal father, legal woman, and so on, is stupid.
Fellas, don't argue with women. Just move on. Even explaining yourself won't go anywhere because they ALWAYS have to be right. Just leave and let her figure it out.
💯 correct
Aka as...Kick Rocks
Real talk
Exactly! Consider that $22K as “severance” and a lesson learned and send her packing!
It took me a moment to figure that out but I finally learned. That is 100% the truth.
If she stole 22k she stole more. It's already spent.
@@CrimsonCureExposesBlackWomen And Ray Ray
Women ain’t Crap
YEP 💯 💯 💯
She is Absolutely Wrong! My grandmother always said if a person you are with “will lie, she said they will steal and cheat!
The issue isn’t that she had a stash.
The problem is the STASH is for herself or divorce purposes.
Why is she saving for a divorce? Time to file papers NOW!
I ALWAYS have a stash, nonnegotiable! However, it’s not hidden or a secret. Mine is for emergencies or sudden loss of income.
Right on. Cause u a G.A.M./GROWN A-- MAN ✊🏿
@jasminewatson, Now, someone is talking like an adult. There nothing wrong with a stash or emergency fund. Just don't be sneaky about it by stealing and concealing.
Make sense.
So far the reddit streets disagree with you. And, Normally women who get a divorce take more of a financial hit even when there arent kids involved. Women should not be putting themselves in the position where they have to start from scratch. It's called financial abuse.
Women NEED to have a secret stash so if a man ever becomes abusive she can leave & he can’t take it, it has nothing to do with wanting to divorce a guy and all to do with security and safety. Y’all stop getting in your irrational feelings instead of using logic.
She is doing what women have been told to do by their mothers and grandmothers, especially if she is a stay at home mom. PROTECT YOURSELF.
That's deception
This isn’t the 1950s
@@observerealityinhd290it is when women want it to be
@@observerealityinhd290What does that have to do with anything
Yes, her SINGLE mother and grandmother
If he created an emergency fund for himself: you can only imagine. But, we all know how everyone would react.
Facts💯💯💯
Why would that be a problem? He is entitled to have an emergency fund.
Emergency fund is important... people don't realize at the death of one, sometimes the joint accounts get frozen
@@stevenroshni1228 yes so why hide it from the person your living the rest of your life with? Why not tell them and suggest they make one as well instead of hiding it.
If the shoe was on the other foot people would be calling him every name in the book. The double standards is real
As if divorce isn't already in a woman's favor....
Same thing I thought. They must have a very strict pre-nup for her to be THAT worried.
This the one!
I hope he throws everything in a trust before he starts the divorce process. After that, let her legal fees dwindle that $22k "secret savings". Lawyers might drag it out.
As a divorced woman from Mississippi who’s ex in-laws are in law enforcement, the courts were NOT on my side. I hate that people always assume that divorce is favorable to women. Maybe in more liberal states. 🤷🏾♀️
It’s not
She should have been focused on making sure the family is good. Not her selfish ass alone, this is crazy. Red flags are flying young man
She making sure the family minus him are good lmao
Exactly so if he had a downfall they would have a back up… that’s how I roll
@@truebengalsfan 🤦🏽♀️😁
@@lionessontherise2403 let's be honest if they have kids and they split she will 9/10 have primary custody
If he leaves her and she has that stash for her and the kids, she will be making sure the families good, this is a green flag.
How u get a joint account with someone with a mouth like that😂😂😂😂
Exactly
MANE 💯 💯 💯
As a man you should never argue with a women that's a waste of time. Either leave her or don't say anything at all cuz you ignore the red flags you chose her so either deal with it or leave but arguing with a female is a female thing. It makes me sad when I see men tolerate disrespect for a piece of ass :(
She sounds like she's playing Russian roulette with her life.
Ain’t no sound like brother.. cause the next one she tries this crap on..what the folks at the church gonna be saying.. family members front row please…
I found out last week there are some states coming up with laws that if the woman came with nothing, she gets nothing..some nations are like that also..modern women days of grifting and going fornthe bag must end
Which States are doing that? Can guarantee they aren't American States. 🙄
They can go for the bag..........as long as she earns it herself. 😂
Rightfully so!. Came with nothing, leave with nothing.
yep. Thats would be the best thing ever.
@@rockon8174I don't see why you would be so sure of that. Seeing as how DeSimpleton is accomplishing what he is in Florida.
She's already out the door he just doesn't know it yet!
For her to ask him "What are u gonna do about it" she is running him. The wrong man would have beat her ass behind this. That's why I have never put a woman on my account.
She's ready to part ways. She's trying to bait HIM into initiate it so she can FURTHER play victim
The right one
Lmao if you ever hear a woman getting their ass beat think of this video. Met a chick who told me her ex used to beat her ass . It just took her getting comfortable to start shooting off her mouth like a grown ass man.
it doesn't take somebody being beat that is so ignorant of you to say
......yeah, a few brothers out there would have Ike Turner-ed her ass for that on the strength.
If it takes 22k to get rid of her, it's 22k well spent
Exactly!!!
It's more complicated than that. They have kids.
Amen...no price for peace if mind
YEP 💯 💯 💯
“I’m not saying OJ shoulda killed her………..but I understand.”
- Chris Rock
When she said, "What are you going to do about it ?" He should handed out the divorce papers. Then, stated, "This is what you get for being greedy & selfish."
You shouldn't have said nothing just implemented his gameplan wit some SKULDUGGERY & STEPPED THA F--- OFF.
It doesn’t sound like they have kids so definitely time to go
@@usmanvcx, One of them did mentioned kids. I believe that it was her. This makes it more complicated.
@@rayj.9568 yep. He’s f**d then
lmao the system is on her side, they have a kid.
I would file for divorce immediately and have her pay the attorney's fees with that $22,000
She thought she was slick but she got BUSTED!!! She is trifilin at the max.
Her day is coming.
😂😂😂 you’re gonna make her spend the 22k on a divorce lawyer
She is cheating on him and has been doing it. Trust me when I tell you 🤦🏾♂️. He has to take some blame because for her to talk to him like that means she was like this all along.
Exactly! She didn't just show up like this. She was ALWAYS like this.
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Why he got2 take the blame 4 a b**** ?
No proof of cheating on this.
Sounds like she wanted to have a stash on top of whatever the courts will give her when she decides to leave him.
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Facts
And the courts may not give her anything. A stash is smart and necessary & any man not okay with her having one is abusive.
@@Rosemary46840y'all are something else lol
@@Rosemary46840exactly. Especially, if she’s a mother.
He’s a punk for even arguing. I would’ve told her to kick rocks
I’ve seen this video on Facebook, the fact that she opened a separate account in the case of the man leaving her means she planning her exit out of the relationship.
Not necessarily. She could have grown up in a house where her father left her mom high and dry. Or a girlfriend or sister dealing with it.
The family court system makes sure the woman isn’t left with nothing, they would’ve found every account her husband had…..there was no need for her to do that.
I think so too, she might be about to bounce. Damn shame
Right 100%
@@swissmiss-rj4pqgo to therapy then.
Almost anything these bw have to say about or to bm can easily be turned on your trifling ass.
I was taught by my older sister never get a joint account
Tell the man hair and nails was $80 when really it was $50 and stach the rest...
She was secretly getting ready to split.
He should leave her and ask for half of it back! 😂😂😂😂😂
RIGHT!!🤣👍🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Get it all back😂
It should work that way... unfortunately, American laws will favor that woman.
Why though? If there was financial abuse on his end, he would lose his case.
You have lost your ever lasting mind
Take the lost and dump her now. She broke the trust bond. If she'll do that behind your back, she'll do other things behind your back. Save yourself from going to prison.
I never allow any women to have access to my personal bank account.
Just in case he leaves her……or she’s planning her exit. Women typically initiate divorce 70% of the time.
90% of the time it’s the women who file for divorce
You don't know what the situation is. Women take a substantial financial hit when they get divorced, especially if the former spouse has control over the bank account. Likely there is financial abuse happening in the relationship for the woman in the video. No one really knows what is really going on. If the bills are still getting paid, i dont see what the issue is.
@@humanbeing8948A "financial hit" like taking half the assets, alimony and child support. You must be a woman.
@POPAWOLF they do because men are always cheating.
Men earn for the Family;Women earn for themselves and put everything in your Mom or Dad name.
All of us can't trust our parents like that. The BEST thing to do is NEVER sign that contract in western society.
If u do get married, there's also prenupt's which could help keep that goofy govt from screwing the husband over.
@@feetfunkerson1312I heard that those aren't a guarantee.
Remember 3 months ago a mom made sure her daughter in law wasnt able to get anything from her son after divorce, lol she made sure the son had everything in her name if anything happened to him..but we do have some greedy mothers out there..especially those who just want to se their sons grow up to be sport stars and they can get rich off of it
@ShadowMan23914, they are not a guarantee, and the judge can easily throw it out. It's better to have everything in a trust account. The system is too biased against men, and you have more to lose if you are the breadwinner.
What a incredible positive story you went through, you are a blessing brother Phillip👍👃
If he was smart he would have had a stash even fatter...that she didn't know about. Mother always told me to have a back up plan and never loose sleep over a woman! Preach Mama...RIP!
Smart woman you’re mother was! Great sound advice. Amen! Rest in power mama!
@@PhdMusic03 She was awesome Brotha...passed at 80 in 2019...dearly missed...she was a handful 🤣. Stay safe out there Fam! 🤜🏾🤛🏾
Foreal doe
If they have children, his everything is going towards them and their future.
How dare he not be as selfish as that demon. That's not a sound plan or a good look for someone who loves his kids.
@@willdiesel8431I disagree sometimes you got to look out for yourself. Take care of your family but something on the side.
Leave her, Move on, And Rebuild.
Just never have a joint account. EVER. Even if they don't take it there's no guarantee that they are keeping an accurate record of the spending. Either way you're screwed.
You're exactly right. I just posted my experience earlier
@@Brothapocalypse smh
Never have never will a bihhh...zero attachments, just take it one day at a time w/them judas hyenas, White Supremacy 2.0s
Facts,been there and done that....!!!...Definitely won't do it again
You can equally manage dual accounts. A set amount every pay week goes into the joint account and all of the bills and taxes are paid from that one account. Each person keeps a set amount for their on personal accounts.
Think you better let her go! Looks like another love TKO!!
Check Your Bank Accounts Daily, 'cause Banks Can't Be Trusted These Days!
If that’s the case, he’s better make one for himself as well if that’s the game she wants to play.
His mistake was marrying her. He needs to cut ties immediately. 😑
Even if he does create his own account, she will still have access to the joint account to pull from as she pleases.
@@ericlittle7400 he suppose to close the joint account fool. 🤣
@@ericlittle7400 the joint account is for the HOUSEHOLD. If she wanted to have her own account that’s fine but it gets shady when your hiding stuff
@@commanderbracey7501 no, the joint account is for the WHOLE FAMILY. Not just one person to pull from when you want how you want. It’s a team effort not one for all.
Mariah Carey sued her ex boyfriend because he was a billionaire. What I'm trying to say is, They always want everything we work for.
Yea what have you worked for because word on the street brother you ain’t got no job
The same hyenas get an attitude when a prenup is brought up. Wheels up! Peace of mind awaits.
I’m on that flight right with ya brother 😂
Don’t act like some men have not drained joint bank accounts to run off with their mistresses. I personally know of two cases that happened to ex-coworkers, and left the woman to take care of the kids and herself. So it is proper for a woman to have her own account separate from the joint.
Well, if he divorces her, she'll have to give him half...it's community property.😂
But she gets half of whatever's still left in the joint
Yes, it is community property. But, most judges give her all of what is hers, and half of his. Trust me, that’s what’s gonna happen. Divorce is the screwing to get, for the screwing you got. It will not be fair, you can believe that.
He should still divorce her and let her have her half, cause like Phillip Scott say, he can still rebuild his life if he continues to work hard like he is.
Yes,Phil,men better check their checking account.Better yet she shouldn't have access to his account.
Why he arguing about it ain't nothing to talk about divorce her already. Only talking he need to be doing is to a lawyer!
The hypocrisy knows no bounds!!!😏😏😏😏😏
She would get Alimony child support, probably the house. Furniture. She's planning to leave dude. She already has a side dude.
😅😅 probably do...but that's his fault he should have picked better. Please believe there was signs but he was only looking at how her body was looking...overlooking all the obvious signs. He a clown 🤡 just like her😅
Or a girlfriend cause she plays the dude role 😂
Separate banking accounts.
"what are you gonna do about it?" lmaooo. yh he needs to put her out TODAY
Cut your losses she never had your interest at heart. All she wanted was a freeride.
She a thief. You better off getting robbed at the corner store by Ray Ray
This is how domestic violence starts, and it can be deadly.
My brother is a police officer and trust me he’s told me he’s seen more women than you could ever imagine murdered for doing stupid stuff like this and less. So women be very careful with the way you treat men because all are not like this soft hearted gentleman.
They know what kind of man they are dealing with most of the time but they are a few times they misjudge that leads to death. That's why it's best to never argue walk away even if you have to leave the home completely it gives you more time to comprehend what has happened and what the necessary moves you need to make. 🌄🦍❤️
@@POPAWOLFthreats won’t work, we have guns, just look what happened to ole “knockout king” who was permanently knocked out by a bullet in Chicago after he thought he’d hit a woman 😆
It isn't a lot, wow! But she didn't have it on her own, lmao. Stay away from any female who rocks like this.
She never loved him, she was thanking about herself.
I had a friend once, who works in a "permanent" job for the government with a great salary. Her husband was a small to medium entrepreneur. That guy paid all the bills, including insurance, food, car repairs, school stuff for their kid everything. So I asked her, so what do you do to help out financially? She just smiled and said she saves her entire salary. By the way, he gives her a monthly allowance also and she gripes if he's not quick to repair something around the house. To me she is evil and he is stupid and you cannot expect evil people to not take advantage of stupid people.
He's stupid, let's us hope he surives
Great job to the female
@southernbellnc6241 Well, if you think her banking, her salary for years and not lifting a finger to help her husband financially is a good job, that says a lot about you.
She's light skinned ain't she?
My thinking is if hubby is doing what her husband is doing I’d invest most of my earnings for our retirement and the other for our vacations together.
Are we not a family? "I" need to make sure I'm ok 😂😂
She did the right thing
I would nove out that day ,not pay anymore bills in that house
Karma has no expiration date for what she did 💯👌 20 stacks won’t last at the rate she going ….🤦♀️
Smart woman. She don't want to be left broke.
There are a lot of men who encourage women not to work... Just to leave them broke.
She’s going to leave him and already planned it out
She is too combative. He needs to get rid of her.
Another reason to not have joint accounts.
Nothing wrong with a separate account, man or woman. Not making judgment on where it comes from.
Brotha, time to get your passport 😂
She's planning on dipping out on him REAL SOON!
That's why he should make her help pay bills
And this is exactly why women fight so hard against prenuptial agreements. It's never about "trust" or "love" but about ensuring their financial success and security. *NOTHING else.* This is their instinct. Don't hate women for it, just prepare for it dispassionately
She's dead wrong. I'd be getting a divorce.
Go ahead, lose 50% of what you own. How is that a smart move?
Thanks Uncle Phil for another GOLD NUGGET of an informative video! VIVA THE PHILLIP SCOTT SHOW! Amen-RA!
Absolutely yes she's doing something else.
Yep, that’s our women
🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️ if she could do that, imagine what she doing behind doors she
I hope she says that to the wrong man
"What you gone do about it?"
Famous last words.
If she’s doing this it shows that she’s making preparations to leave. ✌🏽
She should have said that she was putting it up just in case “they” ever get in a bind. Smh fumbled the ball
She, is Planning to Leave!
This, is Why their are Passport Brothers.
He’s an extremely patient gentleman , I’ll stop there…
That is so deceitful. And then she wants to challenge him by saying what are you going to do about it. If it were me I would file for a divorce immediately without telling her. That's what you call a tramp.
She has to sign the divorce papers, so she will know. 🫥
@@rockon8174He said FILE, as in give NOTICE.
Of course, he has to wait until she signs.
Reading comprehension is still required on threads.
He need to get rid of her right now. She has no Respect for that man.
Disrespectful little 304.
Everyone should have a Stash. Job loss, disability, divorce rate is 60%.
That's a Thief
Earn your own stash ...why not tell your husband why be so corrupt and sneaky ? So many of yall are just bad women.
A) Remember who it is that files for divorces more often than not and
B) If you're going to have a stash and your spouse finds out, don't be surprised they stop supporting you financially and make you get whatever you need from that "stash".
Yeah if she's using our own skrilla, she was stealing from their bank account. She's a THIEF
Everyone is keyword for “women” lol. And the divorce rate is 60% overall and 80% in the black community 🤷🏽
Thank you Brother Phil. You have been an inspiration in this young black man's life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
They don't respect us brothers. Go where u are loved and respected.
They do this clown shi.. cause they know they finna leave 😂😂
Assuming this is NOT another skit, this whole situation could have been avoided had they had an honest conversation about their financial expectations and responsibilities.
Definitely felt like a skit
This is what you do, kick her out, keep the children, withdraw the funds, get a trust, put the house, cars, & everything else in your trust. Divorce her and seek child support
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Right, 🤡
You are funny. 😁
Maybe you are dreaming. 😂
Lol, this is what you do if you wanna get absolutely WRECKED in divorce court. This is why no one should take random internet advice: it can mess you up.
He will pay in a divorce with kids for he has the highest income. Courts tend to favor the mother when it comes to custody.
Id immediately filed for divorce once she said that
That's a mindset that will make some men do the most ........ things to a woman.
She took 22k "just in case" but I guaran-fucking-tee she's *STILL* gonna take half of what the poor fool's got left 😂
She wants out from the word go, let her go, simple. She's got something up her sleeve. There's is more to this...