Hey! Please only use this if you found something useful in my videos that you want to buy me a coffee for, and if you can afford to - this isn't necessary but can help me to keep creating some hopefully useful videos! www.buymeacoffee.com/jordan.peterson
Mr. Peterson, you have started a flame in my soul. For years, I have been dead to myself and to the world around me. I now aspire to be a psycologist because of you. I don't know if I will ever achieve it, but I have hope that one day, I can work with you or carry on your message. Thank you for saving my life.
@@LeSquatchy1 you are not responding to Jordan Peterson. You know that, right? This video was cobbled together by some rando with access to JP lecture audio and cheesy stock footage.
So true abt standing up straight w/ shoulders back…It’s one of the first things you learn in professional dance training, singing and performing arts! Dr. Peterson is perhaps the most powerful and articulate speakers in the world. Thank you kindly; I wish I learned of you earlier in my life.
You are one of a kind ! Truly . Only one Elvis ! Only one you ! Your bride is the luckiest woman in the world! Xo love health happiness to you and your whole family xo
Nowadays things are different from when it was cool silent and there was lots of loving people around. But things are different now. Every body are literally little confused. because this world is changing rapidly and it is not far when every person will go crazy in their minds. Because it'll be harder to survive in this world
Jordan I think you're pretty awesome!! Loved listening to you speak on our youth, meaning, and hedonistic goal seeking... "We need to offer them something more" Like why don't we get that? And why do we seem to expect more from our youth than we do from ourselves...speaking on responsibility and baring our crosses... Let's go!!! These kids are counting on us...;
The problem is to live with full filing self esteem not being as fighting for it ! That’s not what I do, it’s natural life adapting as normal human. Don’t pressure yourself into motivating of materialism either! It’s you can live anyway!
If you can't find challenge, perhaps you are aiming too low. Look for something outside your grasp, maybe a challenge you have never attempted. Maybe something like computer programming, rock climbing, sales, idk...but something outside your comfort zone.
be grateful for every day you wake up reasonably sane psychologically, despite the mental struggles associated with handling dealing with the difficult persona and be grateful for every inch of healthy body that you have. train gratefulness like a muscle. it will allow you to find heaven on the edge of a cheap coffefilled papercup. remind yourself that whatever has to happen will not stay undone to make peace with what you cannot change and embrace the eventuality of a great thing happening to you so that you are capable of noticing it when it is there. realize that you are life in motion, it is not life happening to you, but through you - partly in accord, partly in response and partly in chaos… embrace the challenge of having to deal with something that seems irreconcilable with the dreams and goals for your life - despite it being harder than you imagine being able to bare it for long, it is the hand you‘re dealt… play it as best as you can.
I think he would say you need to surround yourself with people who want the best for you and who you want the best for. It is ideal if that starts with family, but sometimes it doesn't. If you can find your path then look towards people who support that. And if you're lost and seeking, take really good care of yourself and be careful who you share your heart with - family included. Be well PS Brave comment ❤
Tobby, as someone who can empathize with what you are describing (mother was second wave feminist who abused, gas lit, and tried to emasculate me all my life growing up) I'm going to tell you this: It's not your fault that happened to you, but it is your responsibility to deal with what happened to you. You're already on the right track listening to Dr. Peterson. This isn't his real channel though so find the real one. Perdonally would recommend you begin by setting clear goals for yourself as well as write out clearly where you are currently at. Use these 7 categories: physical, mental (both healing and growth), emotional, spiritual, social ("good influence friends" and charisma), fun (hobbies, things you enjoy that actually benefit you in the long term - video games don't benefit in long term, but learning a skill like woodworking does), and financial. Consider separating yourself from your mother as soon as possible (i.e., going to college, moving out after getting a good paying job, etc.). Make sure to surround yourself with people who seem to have something your missing. You will make mistakes and faux pas; go easy on yourself. You are learning. Like Dr. P says, treat yourself as someone your responsible of taking CARE of. Develop discipline through consistent routine and whenever your discipline breaks, acknowledge it, and pick yourself back up. Surround yourself with people who are parental figures that can be trusted. They know more than you and will help teach you. Ask men who are older and smarter than you (and living a life you want to live) if you can buy them coffee because you would like to ask them for advice. For me, church was an excellent way to have an instant social group and be surrounded by older/wiser people than me. It also helped me to see healthy parental relationships. And whatever you do, don't stop growing. Even if you mess up one day, it's just a set back, not a permanent declaration over your life.
Resources that helped me: -Getting my bachelor's (finance) -Friends who were good influences -Having several mentors via the "coffee method" - Working out TH-cam channels: Renaissance Periodization, More Plates More Dates, Greg Doucette (recipes) -Evernote (to write out goals) -The "Every Dollar App" by Dave Ramsay -Sitting down and calculating how much $ I need to live the life I want, accounting for inflation (40 million to equal $250,000 a year) -Books: anything by Dr. Peterson (12 rules is a good place to start), anything by Jocko Willink, the Art of War, Boundaries (by Henry Cloud I think), 48 Laws of Power (tough read emotionally though), the Bible - TH-cam: Dr. Jordan Peterson (his actual channel), the Daily Wire, Jocko Willink, Andrew Huberman, David Goggins, Will Tennyson, Greg Doucette, Charisma on Command (for social skill improvement) -Google/TH-cam to search for hobbies that interest you -Start setting chores for yourself And I know I personally wouldn't have made it without faith and a relationship with God. I'm far from perfect, but He helped me a lot. I just said a LOT, but if you sit down and write everything you want to accomplish (use paper for the first time), then write what it will take to achieve it, write a plan of how you're going to take measurable steps toward each of your goals, and then stick to the plan. Feel free to take what helps and leave the rest. Remember, where you are right now - it's not your fault, but it is your responsibility. You've got this brother.
Hey! Please only use this if you found something useful in my videos
that you want to buy me a coffee for, and if you can afford to - this
isn't necessary but can help me to keep creating some hopefully useful
videos! www.buymeacoffee.com/jordan.peterson
Mr. Peterson, you have started a flame in my soul. For years, I have been dead to myself and to the world around me. I now aspire to be a psycologist because of you. I don't know if I will ever achieve it, but I have hope that one day, I can work with you or carry on your message. Thank you for saving my life.
Ok 👍🏻
@@LeSquatchy1 you are not responding to Jordan Peterson. You know that, right? This video was cobbled together by some rando with access to JP lecture audio and cheesy stock footage.
What about this video is even yours? You stole audio from a JP lecture, and paired it up with a Cobb salad of cheesy stock footage. Wow, great work.
@idahofallsmagazine3691 oh... that's sad. But it remains the same. JP is a lifesaver. Thanks for calling out the channel tho, I'll un-sub.
So true abt standing up straight w/ shoulders back…It’s one of the first things you learn in professional dance training, singing and performing arts! Dr. Peterson is perhaps the most powerful and articulate speakers in the world. Thank you kindly; I wish I learned of you earlier in my life.
You are one of a kind ! Truly . Only one Elvis ! Only one you ! Your bride is the luckiest woman in the world! Xo love health happiness to you and your whole family xo
Nowadays things are different from when it was cool silent and there was lots of loving people around. But things are different now. Every body are literally little confused. because this world is changing rapidly and it is not far when every person will go crazy in their minds. Because it'll be harder to survive in this world
Im happy I realised I can climb out from "endless pit". Thanks God I'm still 37.
Thank you sir for being an inspiration to all of us.
Jordan I think you're pretty awesome!! Loved listening to you speak on our youth, meaning, and hedonistic goal seeking...
"We need to offer them something more"
Like why don't we get that? And why do we seem to expect more from our youth than we do from ourselves...speaking on responsibility and baring our crosses...
Let's go!!! These kids are counting on us...;
The problem is to live with full filing self esteem not being as fighting for it ! That’s not what I do, it’s natural life adapting as normal human. Don’t pressure yourself into motivating of materialism either! It’s you can live anyway!
💯
Jordan,
I just finished college with honors, Suma cum laude. I do landscaping- design - install - maintain !?
I cannot seem to find challenge.
If you can't find challenge, perhaps you are aiming too low. Look for something outside your grasp, maybe a challenge you have never attempted. Maybe something like computer programming, rock climbing, sales, idk...but something outside your comfort zone.
👍 Watching your channel in Virginia 👍
Dr Peterson if your mom tried or ruined your life what would you do?
You love her but ser boundaries. You talk without hurting, but stand your ground.
be grateful for every day you wake up reasonably sane psychologically, despite the mental struggles associated with handling dealing with the difficult persona and be grateful for every inch of healthy body that you have. train gratefulness like a muscle. it will allow you to find heaven on the edge of a cheap coffefilled papercup. remind yourself that whatever has to happen will not stay undone to make peace with what you cannot change and embrace the eventuality of a great thing happening to you so that you are capable of noticing it when it is there. realize that you are life in motion, it is not life happening to you, but through you - partly in accord, partly in response and partly in chaos… embrace the challenge of having to deal with something that seems irreconcilable with the dreams and goals for your life - despite it being harder than you imagine being able to bare it for long, it is the hand you‘re dealt… play it as best as you can.
I think he would say you need to surround yourself with people who want the best for you and who you want the best for. It is ideal if that starts with family, but sometimes it doesn't. If you can find your path then look towards people who support that. And if you're lost and seeking, take really good care of yourself and be careful who you share your heart with - family included.
Be well
PS Brave comment ❤
Tobby, as someone who can empathize with what you are describing (mother was second wave feminist who abused, gas lit, and tried to emasculate me all my life growing up) I'm going to tell you this:
It's not your fault that happened to you, but it is your responsibility to deal with what happened to you.
You're already on the right track listening to Dr. Peterson. This isn't his real channel though so find the real one.
Perdonally would recommend you begin by setting clear goals for yourself as well as write out clearly where you are currently at. Use these 7 categories: physical, mental (both healing and growth), emotional, spiritual, social ("good influence friends" and charisma), fun (hobbies, things you enjoy that actually benefit you in the long term - video games don't benefit in long term, but learning a skill like woodworking does), and financial.
Consider separating yourself from your mother as soon as possible (i.e., going to college, moving out after getting a good paying job, etc.).
Make sure to surround yourself with people who seem to have something your missing. You will make mistakes and faux pas; go easy on yourself. You are learning. Like Dr. P says, treat yourself as someone your responsible of taking CARE of.
Develop discipline through consistent routine and whenever your discipline breaks, acknowledge it, and pick yourself back up.
Surround yourself with people who are parental figures that can be trusted. They know more than you and will help teach you.
Ask men who are older and smarter than you (and living a life you want to live) if you can buy them coffee because you would like to ask them for advice.
For me, church was an excellent way to have an instant social group and be surrounded by older/wiser people than me.
It also helped me to see healthy parental relationships.
And whatever you do, don't stop growing. Even if you mess up one day, it's just a set back, not a permanent declaration over your life.
Resources that helped me:
-Getting my bachelor's (finance)
-Friends who were good influences
-Having several mentors via the "coffee method"
- Working out TH-cam channels: Renaissance Periodization, More Plates More Dates, Greg Doucette (recipes)
-Evernote (to write out goals)
-The "Every Dollar App" by Dave Ramsay
-Sitting down and calculating how much $ I need to live the life I want, accounting for inflation (40 million to equal $250,000 a year)
-Books: anything by Dr. Peterson (12 rules is a good place to start), anything by Jocko Willink, the Art of War, Boundaries (by Henry Cloud I think), 48 Laws of Power (tough read emotionally though), the Bible
- TH-cam: Dr. Jordan Peterson (his actual channel), the Daily Wire, Jocko Willink, Andrew Huberman, David Goggins, Will Tennyson, Greg Doucette, Charisma on Command (for social skill improvement)
-Google/TH-cam to search for hobbies that interest you
-Start setting chores for yourself
And I know I personally wouldn't have made it without faith and a relationship with God. I'm far from perfect, but He helped me a lot.
I just said a LOT, but if you sit down and write everything you want to accomplish (use paper for the first time), then write what it will take to achieve it, write a plan of how you're going to take measurable steps toward each of your goals, and then stick to the plan.
Feel free to take what helps and leave the rest.
Remember, where you are right now - it's not your fault, but it is your responsibility.
You've got this brother.
Jordan need a lawyer
God bless you Dr Jordan Peterson.