A Young Love Rollercoaster: Sakarreon Bonds v Anthony Bonds S24 E89
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- Sakarreon says her husband's alcohol use spiked during the pandemic and she is ready to file for divorce and take the kids. Anthony argues he doesn’t have a drinking problem.
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Once I saw the matching outfits, I knew she wasn't gonna be done with him.
Men who can't provide for a family are turn off for me .I grew up with a father, uncles, cousins who provide for their families.
Exactly, the men that raised me will look at me sideways if I ever even tried to be with a man who can't provide.
And the saddest thing as that men who don’t provide for their own will burn in hell forever. It actually benefits us spiritually to provide.🙏🏿✝️🕎
I can provide. I just need to find a woman that is compatible with me.
Me too
Yep me too
1st problem : She being 28 and with him since the age of 14. 14 year Olds shouldn't be in serious relationships. Parents need to normalize teens being teens and not rushing to be tied down. Focus on school,friends,future and etc. Romance and the emotions that come with it,can sometimes take focus on more important parts of a teens life.
Whew! This is it! My sentiments exactly.
It wasn't a bad ideas for their specific situation because to date at age 14 and end up married to the same exact person that's unheard of in 2023. That isnt great but it's not bad either. They beat the odds and their not statistics 🗣️
@@beb5407 and being an addict, with serious help and his willingness, they can work through it.
I don't think girls should get serious about a man or even seriously date until they're at least 18 and grown. There's just too many women in relationships with guys they started dating when they're not even old enough to make decisions for themselves!! Stop dating little girls!! Try starting your relationship with a WOMAN - NOT A LITTLE GIRL!!
A hot mess
“And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Holy Spirit.” - Ephesians 5:18 🙏🏿✝️📖
I'd say the issue in 90% of divorce court cases is the man won't step into his role whether it be providing for the family or being a faithful partner. There's a societal issue somewhere.
The male.
No accountability
@@saturnladee110 degenerates
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The males NEVER want to grow the fuck up.
This is one couple that I really have hope for. As long as he keeps his promise and accepts the help, they'll be just fine 🥰
They doing ok. That’s my cousin and his wife but the thing I don’t understand is that she wanna leave him but she has a drinking problem as well and he never said sober up or imma take you on divorce court and I might leave you if you don’t get any help.
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I really hope these two can work it out , especially with his alcohol. These boys need their dad and he has to be a good role model for them and drop the booze. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Even if they remain together,if he is in denial about drinking,the kids still won't have their dad in a healthy manner.
@@kerrywhite5253
True 💯
If you're an alcoholic,you shouldn't be having " little" drinks.
Addiction is a powerful demon to fight. I pray they succeed 🙏🏼
Did ANYONE notice that when they started DATING.... he was 18 ( a grown adult) and she was only 14 ( definitely a minor) WOW! 👀😟
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That’s ok as long as they didn’t fornicate before marriage. I dated a 15 year old when I was 18 and all we did was go to museums and movies. It was perfectly innocent. But she was a devout Christian and her father would’ve murked me if I tried anything out of pocket.🙏🏿✝️🕎
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Sounds like they met in high school.
And he’s STILL a man child.
JESUS IS THE WAY, THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE!!!🙌🙌... WILL YOU ACCEPT HIM AS YOUR SAVIOR RIGHT NOW!?🙏
Yes.✝️
Amen
I hope he gets treatment and gets sober. Alcoholism is a difficult disease to overcome. It’s especially hard for functional alcoholics because they haven’t lost everything.
Those two boys are going to have no respect for him and are going to have a lot of issues themselves if he doesn't get a handle on his drinking!! I grew up around an alcoholic and it is a living nightmare! I have severe anxiety as an adult because of it. If he loves his kids he will go to rehab. I hope he recovers and I wish him the best.
This is sad.The kids are the ones who will bare the brunt of his alcoholism.She is a beautiful woman and seems to be a good person.She should stick to her guns and not let him back until he proves himself to her
Judge Star is killing it! Hair, makeup, wardrobe, and being a great judge.
I was with someone for 3 years Engage to him on the last year and within all that we both agree that he go rehab and he also was in and out of AA meeting and still drink on the last year of our relationship I told him if he keeps relapse ill have to leave him and he choose rum so I left him...
So she was 14 and he was 18 when they first met if my math is mathing
There has to be some unresolved trauma -- he has to deal with that first.
Wow at some of these comments defending the age gap 😳 14 and 18 are not the same as 26 and 30 or 40 and 44. When you're in high-school! A year is more like 2+yrs. I have a Junior now and if she came home talking about she liked a freshman, she would get the side eye 👀 because girl, you getting ready for College WTH 🙄
I refuse to support an adult who chooses to take the wrong path and causes both of us to suffer, especially if it affects our finance that's a hell naw for me
So he was 18 and she was 14 when they started dating 😵💫 but he said they were “friends” beforehand. What business does an adult have dating a 14 year old?
He's very immature 🙄
Legally grown but I’m sure he was still a kid himself. Who’s really “grown” at 18? Teen is still at the end of his age.
@@lounisepierre2080 with that logic, a nineTEEN year old should be able to date a thirTEEN year old since it both has teen 🤢
We it happened and there married with kids no statistics or no babies out of wedlock smooth sailing
@beb You're right about no out of wedlock, etc..... but morals does not equate to a happy and healthy marriage and this man came across as very immature 🙄
She wants him to work full-time but doesn't have a plan for the safety and care for her kids while they are at work. Making decisions while emotionally compromised is costly for everyone... especially children. I pray things turn around for them.
Nothing emotional about him not working. It was never said she didn't have a plan. How bout the plan is on the both of them.
@Reveal You Beauty Studio when she was asked what her plan was for her children if they both returned to work fulltime, she did not have one. She said she'd figure it out. So yes, as I stated, making emotionally compromised decisions is costly for everyone. Have a blessed day.
@@tanisemcbride she did state at one point they could get someone to pick up the child from school. And again it ain't all on her to figure out. The real issue is he's an alcoholic. The fact that anyone can see his issues could be the reason she can't fully put together a plan is the real issue. She's not the problem here.
@Reveal You Beauty Studio No one said she was the problem, but clearly, you're pressed, and you're choosing to pit them against one another in your statement. He's not perfect in the least, and he is totally to blame for his own actions or lack thereof. However, him not being to blame was never a statement I said OR implied. BUT I hope for his family, he gets it together, but in this matter, she brought the case to court, not him. With that comes responsibilities of ensuring the warranted or desired outcome of the case! Neither of us live their lives or have to look after their kids while they work. Lol, I stated an obvious truth, and you chose to go out of your way to have this discussion, and I obliged but will only do that so much. With that said, again, have a blessed day.
A DRUNK BABYSITTER.
They been together for 14 yrs. She's now 28 & he's 32. 🤔
I love her hair! I would totally love the same hairstyle and color for my head..
And then everyone around them should also stop bringing alcohol around him until he is able to stay away from it totally.
Because if she or people who come around the house have a "social" drink he might be triggered again.
Hope it works out for them 💪🏽
There is something deeper going on to why he drink’s! You can see it in his face. He looks heartbroken over something deeper than his marriage. Rehab will be great for him.
True! He has sad eyes...
I'm not giving him a pass but he does look like a lot is on his mind
They should have never been together if you do the math. She was 14 & he was 18. That’s gross.
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The prime example of codependency or a codependent relationship, he has to stop the minimizing, and the excuse making, to begin treatment, before anything can begin to change though, wishing them the best, GOD BLESS ❤
I Hate Star Jones
@@michelemiddleton7533 Why?
@@robbbietheim2096 she Wears Glasses In 2023
@@michelemiddleton7533 that makes no sense.
@@gailsmith836 the Year Is Runiend.
Empty promises destroys any relationship. He talks like he is on control of his drinking but he is definitely not. Bottom line admit you have a problem and get help. There is no shame in that....
Judge Star is right,he needs to go to rehab,he needs to be in rehab to quit alcohol. A person cannot quit alcohol cold turkey, it's very dangerous to do that. Some have died quitting alcohol cold turkey and others have had seizures trying to quit alcohol cold turkey and barely survived. He probably gets the shakes or very sick if he doesn't have a drink. Rehab can help him to slowly wean off of alcohol. Alcohol is one of the most dangerous substances to quit cold turkey,he can't just quit abruptly. Good luck to him going to rehab and getting sober
So true!! I feel like a lot of people don't know this!
I had let alcohol become more important than my family. I quit almost 7 years ago. It was hard in the beginning but it got easier as time progressed. If I can quit drinking then anyone can.
That's awesome! Good for you! 🎉🎉
Praise God! Thats wonderful.
Awesome 👍 please help me with my brother who's struggling from alcohol. How did you slowly quit?
That’s great. Keep up the good work
It’s the “about to have a job” for me…my pops taught me that any man that says what they about to do ain’t about to do ish!
Not true. Not true
This man needs to seek behavioral health treatment and also steady employment.
10:50 She Whines about Money being wasted, but doesn't have a Problem with getting her $500 Bracelet, $300 Purse, & $300 Michael Kors Shades.
She works and is making the $, she can buy nice things for herself.
Sis, you knew he had a drinking problem before you married him.
He didn't start drinking until COVID that was way after marriage
She is a keeper, he wrote her a love letter in high school, awwww ain't that cute❤💯
Like I said long ago, if you love me, get a job
How can they be high school sweethearts if they didn’t go to high school at the same time her being 28 and him being 32 like that’s a 4 year differance
She could have been a freshman and he was a senior
And if they have been together for 14 years, that would mean that she was 14 and he was 18 when they met…
It looks like she is carrying this whole relationship, she will be reaching her breaking point soon. They're not even on the same page with these conversations.
I pray this Family can make it.
Whew!!! Noooo wayyyy in hell anybody could ever convince me that having kids is a good thing. Their issues are bc they need 2 incomes but don’t have the means of doing that & taking care of their kids. 0 financial stability. The audacity to bring kids into the mix. I make great money but still would NOOOTTTT!!
The choice NOT to have children was the best decision for me in my life. I am 51 and have so many lil "nieces and nephews" I am good. LOL. Folks be so willing to throw the baby out with the bath water. What is the root of the problem. He is going to need a good support system. Not someone who has an attitude with him. That shit makes folk drink more. What she should have did was leave and make him step up. During the Pandeezy, there were more folks who had to go to rehab it ain't even funny. Good luck to them. Yes he has to do his job, but the wife has to support him through the process and know that this is going to be one of the hardest things ever. Times like these is what your For Better or For Worse really means.
@@Mentagasm loooove this. I’m 33 & solid on NO kids. && I agree there is a root for sure. She’s clearly fed up which is understandable. She’s prob tired of supporting him in multiple ways tho.
If the husband can follow through with the with his promise of rehab, because he will need the tools that rehab can provide . Then I think they can make it.
I wish them the best on his road to sobriety!!!
I see these 50/50 relationships are going so well! 😂
When will they learn 😂😂😂
I was thinking the same thing.
Yes I agree 100% I wish bw would be very hypergamous out the gate bcus when you’re hypergamous a lot of times u can avoid a lot of the other stuff that comes with dating dusty men lol. & idek if this is 50/50 bcus judging by other comments that I’ve read he isn’t even employed and can’t keep a job so really it’s her paying all the bills.
I'm with him on this one but not the alcohol use but he explained that there is no one there to care for his child and he said they never built together she did say I have my half he want them to put there money together equally
Finally! He was absolutely correct in his sacrifice if she made more money. She never denied he did all those things at home and cared for the kids and the house and worked part time. It seems like he wasn't respected for it and that probably aided in his alcoholism. If she had stayed home and took care of the house and kids and stil lworked part time she'd expect to be commended and everyone would have done so.
MEN SHOULDN'T FEEL COMFORTABLE HOME WITH AN APRON ON. FAMILIES WORK AS A TEAM. PRIEST, PROVIDER, PROTECTOR. NOT A BABYSITTER.
My father was an alcoholic and he made promise after promise but he refused to get help and his liver killed him in the end
AA has online meetings since covid and it's still happening.
This relationship is very unhealthy.
14yrs?
Yes. Meaning she was a 14 year old child.!
A man full of excuses. No ma’am.
Idk if it just me but I hate the part at the end of each episode where they discuss what just happened, it sounds like gossiping to me
These people spent $700 on sunglasses ..... REALLY!
I mean kids don't do what you say kids do only what they see so hopefully this brother really gets himself together she seems like a very supportive woman so I hope it works out
I feel like he was depressed to a great degree
Her braids tho!🔥🔥
9:40 If you BOTH are at an "ADULT ONLY" Party, & then say "That's Not Me" then Why TF are YOU there????????
Trying to make her husband happy that's why👀
I hope he can get the help he need for his drinking and couples counseling, so they can work it out.
I think they both need a plan… they have been together long and not taking life seriously. She maybe growing up faster than him. Without a plan, you PLAN to fail.
When you grown grown it's no reason you shouldn't be working unless you hit the lottery other than that we grown we adults you should never be broke you should never be not working once you are a grown person especially in ya 30's it's common sense I had no father or father figures in my life but i do know you gotta be grown point blank
He sounds like he needs a man's boot camp!!!! The drinking is because he's dealing with the feeling of feeling like a failure. Then this happens when maturity and understanding what marriage requires before the marriage happens are not present.
I hope the best for them, it doesn’t seem like irreparable damage to their marriage has been done yet and it seems that love is still there. I see hope and the want to do better at the end after Judge Star got him to laugh a little and he seemed a bit more comfortable. There aren’t many episodes where I genuinely hope one party shows up in the comments-but this is one of them for sure!!
She was just 14 he was 18 or I just can’t count 14 years
I have hope for these two. I really liked them.🙏🏾💜
It's a shame that we have overturned the structure in marriages. When a woman has children, she should not be responsible for half of the household finances. It ia a real burden to feel well enough always, to do so. Drinking destroys. They need counseling.
He's SO Trifling🤔 Trying to Pretend HE was doing More than WHAT He was Doing🤔
👉🏾TRIFLING!👈🏽
Hey Judge Star watching here in the Philippines🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Her job is seasonal? So both of you don’t have a stable career it’s not just her husband. Both of y’all can’t work full time one of y’all need to spend more time at home with the 2 year old.
My friend said hello to our boss in his language. This not only surprised him but it stopped him dead in his tracks, got his attention, caused him to turn, and put a smile on his face. This is what happens when you speak in your heavenly language (tongues) it will cause the angels to stop dead in their tracks, it will get their attention, cause them to turn, to listen, and it will put a smile on their face! Your tongues may be a foreign language down here, but in heaven all understand it and are moved by it!! I’m a citizen of HEAVEN! Therefore I will speak in my heavenly language! -Vanisia Tapia
Philippians 3:20 O But we are citizens of heaven, where the Lord Jesus Christ lives. And we are eagerly waiting for him to return as our Savior.
I don't understand why people like alcohol so much. Beer is nasty, and wine is ok, but not too much. Not sure about the rest, but alcohol is alcohol. I'm not against people drinking alcohol, but know your limit & not drink too much.
Loser Vibes chile!
I love that the couple has on the same color ❤❤❤❤
Yes it's cute when they do that! ❤️❤️
They Sound Like Complainers
Looking Like A Fake Member Of Excape
This judge perpetuates ridiculous attitudes towards drinking:
"Cut down on the drinking"
"Ya drinking every day?"
Rehab...its efficacy depends on drunks who stop drinking. Period.
Nope, drunks cannot drink!! And children are NOT safe around drunks! 🤦
Ok my thing is this if he'd promised NO ALCOHOL PERIOD then I think he should've kept what he'd promised if you're not going to do it it's better to not even write it he hope that he gets the kind of help that he needs for his addiction!
They need counseling..
Most marriages end because of finances.
👀 he needs to stop drinking it will cost you financially. Making excuses to not go rehab. He overdrink in Cancun an spent 1,200.0o wow
Cute couple, good people, clearly love each other. Glad wify gave him an ultimatum. He got comfortable playing with dem alcohol bottles. He need to get in rehab, get occupied with a full time job and they will be fine. I'm rooting for them
I love Star Jones❤if I ever need a Judge for a Divorce I will look for Star Jones
The makeup artist is 🔥
Christmas is a man made holiday we are to celebrate the holy days. “IF” you are a Bible believer ❤
The Bible says don’t let someone judge or condemn you for what you eat or drink or not celebrating certain holidays or new moon ceremonies or sabbaths (All sabbaths because Hebrews lived under a theocracy all ceremonies and celebrations fall on the Sabbath day.) for those are rules for the reality to come who is Jesus Christ who is that reality.
Paul address this again in Galatians. “So now that you know God (or should I say, now that God knows you), why do you want to go back again and become slaves once more to the weak and useless spiritual principles of this world? You are trying to earn favor with God by observing certain days or months or seasons or years. Dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to live as I do in freedom from these things, for I have become like you Gentiles-free from those laws. You did not mistreat me when I first preached to you.” Galatians 4:9-10, 12
If you are a Bible believer why are you judging some for the Holidays they celebrate? Those are enslaved to those laws die by those laws! There is no room to mess up no grace in those laws.
@@beatforjesusbykellym2104 The righteous can judge when you align with the scriptures. You have the wrong author saying only God can judge me that was Tupac. Where in the Bible tells us to celebrate man made holidays?? Find ☝🏾 in the scriptures. The chosen ones know how to judge righteously. Shalom
I Knew Of A "BONÐS" 😮
You don't drink because you're "stubborn"!! You drink because you're addictedto the alcohol!!! He needs to go to rehab ASAP!! You got kids that look up to you- be a good example to them!!?
Their relationship is bad enough to come to divorce court, yet they're wearing matching outfits...hilarious 😂 & it sounds like they shouldn't have had kids🤷🏼♀️
Isn't it aleays interesting that the guy that's drinking and playing around always want to "save the relationship", but don't really think they're doing anything wrong?? They're always sayong that "Oh, she worries toouch about the little stuff!!"
He looks like he don't get much sleep
First of all Lady they're not just your kids I don't understand why women think they could just take the kids and run off in a man is just supposed to accept that this is one of the many reasons why men don't want to get married
Maybe if she didn't nag so much he wouldn't drink so much. That's why folks go to Cancun to get drunk
You have to leave sister I had to best thing ever. With you gone he would either get better or get wast either way it would be a wine for you. Because you wouldn't have to deal with his stress
He needs inpatient treatment it could be deadly for him to detox that is why he drinks a little he can't do it alone at home he can have seizures etc.
The crazy part is a man is supposed to provide but let a woman have to provide is all types of issues
For better or worse help him go to the AA meeting with him
HE MAY CAN DO AA RIGHT ON ZOOM ON HIS PHONE, TABLET, ETC,,2...SO ANY NO AA EXCUSE CAN B DEAD!
90 in 90, 90 meetings in 90 days...It works if you work it...
Man stop drinking or he going to lose.his wife 😮. get a job. Period.
I love wife hair
And she doesn’t take accountability for anything. Yeah she’s toxic as well. Don’t sit there and blame this man for everything. You’re not perfect
Tell 'em Judge Star
Is that really her first name?
Of course