Catching him in her moms house with another chick should’ve sealed the deal ! Smh that’s so disrespectful to be cheating but to be bold enough to be in her mother house with another woman is Beyond disrespectful
Him leaving her for 6 weeks after literally giving birth to their son told me everything. And what's worse is she really allowed him to do that because she eats up whatever bs he tells her omg.
What makes me mad is she’s scared to be a single mom when in all sense of the word she’s already a single mom who gets the bare minimum of help from him. She’s doesn’t love herself at all and it’s very sad.
@tyntyn1010 lmao what kind of men are you speaking of, do you see all of these women getting bigger asses and hips, paying thousands of dollars and risking their lives to be bigger
You are Correct…And about the Weight in the USA 🇺🇸 , and other European countries it is a very big issue,in some other Countries ,however, it is the other way around..Totally Opposite, ..I remember in My Teenage yrs. and some of us, (Colleagues.. fam…my friends,etc ) , in their twenties (20)& early thirties (30)were trying to gain Some weight.. and even Now whenever,we are going back 😂to our Countries ,we tried to gained and Put on Weight 😂..😂.. The addition of the weight, is considered Sexy 😍👍.. ..it is Crazy !😜..it is called Culture!!..(NB..HAVING Parents from two different countries/Cultures one idolizes fat &Sexy ..and the other Skinny $ Sexy…and us (Children)benefactors of Dual Citizenship/Cultures..it is absolutely Crazy !!😝we should flow with the Programs!!!..Please Pray🙏for us!!!😂😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹
First of all, when Karmo asked him why there were so many calls to her to the best friend, he was having a hard time coming up with an excuse - and the GIRLFRIEND - interrupted and gave him a built in excuse and said it was her... no, that's not how that works - if he's not talking to your best friend AT ALL... why was he trying to figure out an excuse instead of saying, immediately, "I don't call her!!!!"?? Secondly, the best friend stepped in and gave him cover when she explained why he deleted their messages... then, SHE deleted their messages from HER phone too? What are you saying about her to the best friend - and what is the best friend saying to him about you that they're doing all this talking behind your back? I wish I WOULD find out that my significant other is talking to my best friend and I don't know about it! These people are having secks, sweetheart... get your self esteem together and find you another man and best friend.
Everything you stated is CORRECT!! Let's also add that nobody discussed the text message she saw, asking "how was it?" Or something to that affect, unless that cut out from what I watched. Also, she was very loose with every response she had to every question asked to her and even him, but when asked about her deleted messages, she took awhile to get the response out. It just seemed like she was definitely lying and couldn't think of a real reason. Aside from the ex. I'm sorry, this just screamed "sis, they're playing in your face"!
Her shady ahh “friend” has an explanation for everything 🙄. Why would you hide that he was coming to you for “advice”? I knew that the boyfriend bent her over as soon as the friend said “if I wanted him I can have him”. No ma’am no ma’am. Can’t have people like that around me.
Me and her both knew he was cheating as a matter of fact he’s about to have another child with another girl now. Me and her are STILL bestfriends & they finally broke up. I have a type, and it is HISPANIC men, that’s why it was funny to me bc she and everyone who knows me knows this. I don’t lay down with men who dropped out of college, smoke weed all day everyday, he doesn’t even take care of his son.. I STILL AM. He 100% was cheating on her and it was NOT with me. 😭😭😂
@@PrettySequoia First of all...The correct words are: SHE and I. So I guess you dropped out of college too? You have some ridiculous reasons why you wouldn't sleep with him supposedly according to you. Those things wouldn't matter since it was just messing around, not marrying him! That profile picture looks nothing like you. I could tell that you're very insecure about your weight, even though you'd probably never admit it. Hopefully your friend kicked you out of her life for good.
Me and her both knew he was cheating as a matter of fact he’s about to have another child with another girl now. Me and her are STILL bestfriends & they finally broke up. I have a type, and it is HISPANIC men, that’s why it was funny to me bc she and everyone who knows me knows this. I don’t lay down with men who dropped out of college, smoke weed all day everyday, he doesn’t even take care of his son.. I STILL AM. He 100% was cheating on her and it was NOT with me. 😭😭😂
Me and her both knew he was cheating as a matter of fact he’s about to have another child with another girl now. Me and her are STILL bestfriends & they finally broke up. I have a type, and it is HISPANIC men, that’s why it was funny to me bc she and everyone who knows me knows this. I don’t lay down with men who dropped out of college, smoke weed all day everyday, he doesn’t even take care of his son.. I STILL AM. He 100% was cheating on her and it was NOT with me. 😭😭😂
I’ll NEVER understand why people ask for help only to KNOW THEY’RE going to stay with the foolery. When she needed him MOST, he went ghost instead of bonding and supporting her. Why didn’t his parents suggest he go home to his FAMILY??? And so-called friends shouldn’t be secretly communicating with your mate PERIOD!!! Don’t come get airtime/help knowing the truth is in your face🤦🏽♀️
I agree sis! WTF are they even doing with eachothers number as well. And as long as she love him she isn't going nowhere. She will learn the hard way,,,I still think they messed around .
This was really hard to watch. I PRAY she finds her self worth. She’s already raising her baby by herself. She doesn’t think there’s better out there! So sad.
Karamo was low key about to say something to her about that yellow dress in the beginning but he caught himself 🤣🤣🤣. I’m sure he didn’t want her to take it the wrong way
Neither can be trusted. Both of them are in toxic relationships and I wouldn’t be surprised if there was something more to the text messages that were deleted. The whole Tindr thing - I believe he’s cheating and she needs to really look within and gather her self esteem. She said she don’t wanna raise her kid on her own but she is basically doing that now because he’s leaving.
I hate when females say that, girl a lot of females don’t wanna be a single parent but I be damn if you going be cheating on me and keep leaving me I rather be single.
That man cheats on this woman consistently because he can, it’s also very likely that he done something with the friend. It’s so sad that someone would allow herself to be treated like this.
From the guilty look on Sequoia’s face when Karamo started talking about the unlocked phones, it was clear that she had something to hide. Alecia is gullible, she honestly doesn’t see that her so called friend is not a friend at all. How is it that Sequoia knew the answers to why all of Sheffer’s messages with her had been deleted both from his phone and the cloud? When Karamo asked him about them. I wish that Karamo had called her out on why she was answering a question directed to Sheffer, who he himself was stumbling to answer. You would think that the advice that a true friend would give would be in favour of saving your relationship, so there would be no need to erase the messages.
It’s so hard as a new mom in the first weeks, still in pain from giving birth, not feeling yourself with baby weight etc, and having a brand new tiny baby who cries every 2 hours to eat, change diapers, and mom has to figure out what the baby needs. Having a supportive partner is so helpful and can make you feel so much better about yourself.
The friend answering for him is sketchy. Him hesitating to figure out why his phone showed calls to the the friend? Sketchy. Because he would have said “I haven’t called her I don’t know why that’s even there”. Instead of scratching his brain for an answer. On top of that all their nerves said a lot to me. Whew, I wouldn’t trust either of them.
Lord help, the pack of self esteem and self respect breaks my heart. In your bed at your parents house and he disappeared 6weeks after giving birth, it's just sad.
He going keep cheating on her because she lets him, she complains about it but doesn’t leave him, sis you deserve better and your child deserves attach mom and you can’t do that fully dealing with this.
I’m confused. She said she won’t leave because I don’t want to be a single mother yet he leaves her for weeks at a time. This the epitome of I’m in a relationship alone. Girl you need to be afraid of STDs
Ale is a beautiful lady!! Boost up that self confidence and move on away from both your bf and bff, they're not in your corner. You should never beg someone to stay with you.
Exactly! And notice the friend would answer for him, he deleted because I gave advice. I believe some physical activities took place between those two. They deleted even from the cloud. Edit: they discussed and rehearsed their 'innocent' faces for the camera, they deleted from both their clouds!
@@SL-ud7tf the fuck if it did 😂😂😭 I have a type and it’s hispanic men, that’s why I was laughing bc her and everyone that knows me knows this… he was 100% cheating he even has a baby on the way now, he was NOT fucking me trust that 😂😂
I still think they are doing something honestly, they never answered what they were texting about when she asked "Was it good?" very suspicious, plus her smiling when they are about to check her phone.
A man who can leave you for six weeks when you just gave birth so you can bond alone with a newborn is a psycho and doesn’t deserve you. My god. How do you forgive someone who wasn’t there for you when you needed him the most. The first few weeks and months of a newborn is so hard and the hormones don’t help too
@@brianwright889 & if im not tripping karamo did state that they both had some differences before and they worked past them. so therefore they are no longer talking about it. this episode was to see if he was cheating on her with her best friend. they are not on this episode because of her possibly cheating. they are there because of him. and he has many red flags so just stop trying to play victim for him.
Nah i don't trust either one of them. I don't like the fact that both of them are deleting texts between the two of them - thats shady. But... the man is 100% trash. On tinder and logging in every time he goes away coincidentally? For color? What does that even mean. He's cheating clear as day and she deserves better.
Okay well who cares, I know I ain’t do anything w him or want to. Unknown them both for years. And JUST stopped messing w my ex a month ago I wasn’t up in no one’s shit like that. Like I said he ain’t MY TYPE. I want a GOOD man, he look good to you?
@@PrettySequoia People are gonna have opinions 🤷🏽♀️ I feel like you were being shady - that don't have to be cheating. But to me if my friend already has suspicions about me and her man then i would've been stop communicating with him AND stop deleting the messages. I would've been upfront and said i was giving him relationship advice about the two of you because he came to me. It took going on a tv show for you to do that.
@@realmnthrwknivesshe knew that I was, I sent her messages of it. It’s a habit to delete stuff do you save all your unsaved contacts messages and spams? No? Didn’t think so.
@@PrettySequoia spam and unsaved contacts are very different from a friend's boyfriend especially when that friend has already accused yall of doing something lmaoo and you know that but we can keep pretending ig
The dude who was gripping his shirt at 9:41 is meee asff😭😭😭 but nah i dont understand why she even wanted the results knowing she was gonna stay with him.🤦🏽♀️
Yeah I believe he’s cheated with anything walking, he’s a horrible lier and he had the nerve to laugh about it! She needs to wake the f*** up! Talking about she scared to be a single mom, girl that’s ur self esteem. She’s needs to dismiss both of them.
And WHY THE HELL DO PEOPLE GIVE THIER FRIENDS THEIR MATES NUMBER ? 🙄 I NEVER FIGURED THAT OUT my husband calling and talking with my friends behind my back ABOUT ME SMH that's a form of comfort and intimacy that should be between both parties involved only
And what is marriage gonna do? He’s gonna do the same thing even worse then. Y’all put too much importance on marriage then be more f**** up than before!
You deserve what you accept. Once I learned that I had the strength to walk away from a cheater I loved. I told myself he’s only been able to repeatedly hurt me because I allowed it. It’s my fault and I’m done hurting myself.
Ok Karamo, I like the "unlock the phone" segment of your show but there needs to be some stipulations to this....I don't know what incentives, if any, you give to your guests, but something should be done about deleted text messages, apps, etc. and broken/new phones within a certain time period before the show....It's too easy for the guests to do and we are all still left without answers and having to speculate.....It defeats the purpose of them coming to the show....No pay, no return ticket home, something! Everything should be on hold until after the show besides a one-way ticket there!
If Karamo did lie detector tests this show would be insane … Sheffer is sitting there like he doesn’t even know his name is Sheffer . He’s not even saying anything just sitting there saying “yea” “idk” “color apps”
No what Karamo should have done was compare the dates, times and lengths of those calls between the two ladies to see if they were the 2 actually communicating together. Ijs 😳
He is just looking around. She is The side chick "friend". Why delete all of the text. They wasn't talking about her 24/7. They just both happen to delete all text. The friend kept talk because he isn't going to get them caught on tv. I would be upset that my best friend boyfriend is doing shady stuff to my best friend. If the two women are friends. There is no way the friend should be cool with him. I see no one validating her feelings until the end. It wasn't real. You know he is cheating with her. He is seriously on a whole dating app. He left her and the child to do his own thing. She is too young & beautiful. I wish Karamo would do a polygraph for once. I don't trust the best friend. Girl just co-parent and do you. If she fear being a single parent. That mean she must already figured that he ain't ish. Never stay because you have a child. If she haven't already. She need to take pictures of his info Incase he run. He seem like a**hole not a deadbeat. If he can leave her with the baby that long he may very well abandon his responsibilities. You can still find someone eventually to be in a loving healthy relationship with. It is better than being treated wrong.
They’re both trash and lying. Girl dump him and tell her to kick rocks. She’s not your friend. Withholding info is the same as lying. You’re beautiful. You can do better💯💯💯💯
Yep. The friend is still suspicious. In the first place it's not appropriate to be discussing intimate details of your "best friend's" relationship with her boyfriend. That's what therapy is for. If my friend's bf came to me looking for advice I'd say no, not my place I'm not gonna sit here and talk about my friend behind her back. They don't respect that poor girl at all. The boyfriend is pure trash. She needs to leave them both alone.
There's way too much stock being put into the word. Love. Relationships are built on more than that. No one wants to be a single parent, but you have to have boundaries. I hope she gets it together and sees the light soon enough.
Indeed. What about respect? Sadly, he is a child. She is going to be going it alone whether he is around or not. And her so called Friend is disrespectful.
@@kirascullark5224 don't even get me started on this so-called friend. Homegirl just needs a new circle. I was a single mother for years and my kids are great. Life does not end because you are a single mother
Her man showed absolutely no emotions at all. Meanwhile she’s making excuses and being delusional about it. Sis leave him and glow up on him. You are worth more.
Young people: do not idolize relationships. Stop loving friends and significant others more than god. There is a high probability your dedication will all be in vain.
The Bible said that family comes, frist, and it also said, keep your faith in private, pray in private and religion in private, and don't say he's name in vain, I'm sick of religious people always throwing their bullshit in people's face your not god
@@Shlbizzy_21 that’s the thing I’m not bound to any religion. I’m a spiritual individual…those are two very things but both religion and spirituality have love for god.
I get the reason why she’s still with him, it hurts having to watch your mom be alone and being depressed , yes good things will come in time , but you don’t know how much time that will take. I get her fear and fear is a big factor in why people don’t leave.
I don't believe the friend, I think they have something going on because of the way he's looking and her friend keeps making excuses I just don't buy it
Being a single parent is no joke. It can be both emotionally and financially draining. She’s not weak for not leaving. She probably will when the time is right.
@@vb593 i hear you. But in all fairness, he probably does help with the bills. Single income housing is an endless struggle for a big part of the population. Women are quick to say LeAve HiM. But when sis is homeless they be quiet.
She been with him 4 years and her phone was turned off!! These young people wanna do grown stuff then make excuses when things are hard. Why he running back to his parents AFTER making a baby?
Where do you find a perfect spouse these days, you leave one and get into worse toxic relationship than the one you left, just stay alone and be happy if you don't want trouble.
She may have a problem with being alone but she was ready to drop the friend and not the cheating boyfriend. He’s not even there, she IS alone, and the way she’s acting towards the friend tells she was going to blame her for whatever they did but couldn’t.
Such lies 🤣 these 2 are playing her big time and they have both found a way to have complete control over her. The "bestfriend" is quick with answering questions which are directed to either the man/both of them cause she's a better liar, this is sad.
Many people would say it's wrong to blame the victim, but it seems like the victim puts themselves in the position and can't make themselves stop believing lies. Women are programmed to need a man...but they don't.
Nah her friend is messing with her man. She’s easily manipulated. Karamo knew. He should have just said “your friend can’t be trusted” but I think he stopped caring when he realized that she was dumb.
Why continue to stay in a relationship if your partner continue to leave you? Aleacia needs to be strong for herself and cut all ties with Sheffer, as he's not committed to the relationship or being a father to their child.
This is objective fact. These girls are insanely gorgeous. Our society is so messed up with these warped beauty standards that make curvy females like these feel less because they're not thin. Except for health concerns that might exist. Otherwise, these ladies are beautiful. Somebody needs to let them know they're a 10 & to stop dating losers.
It's not easy leave but when you leave you will be the happiest person. It's hard really hard am telling you but abuse let's not take it. As women or men. You can be single and love yourself.
Catching him in her moms house with another chick should’ve sealed the deal ! Smh that’s so disrespectful to be cheating but to be bold enough to be in her mother house with another woman is Beyond disrespectful
I was like wait what!? He would still be running from me till this day 😂
WHAT! 😮😧
And then be with him for 4 years unmarried with his baby. I can't.
He’s dispicable, she has to know her worth and leave that cockroach
If catching her man balls deep in another chick wasn't enough to make her leave, nothing will smh #WasteOurTime
He's a pathological liar but it's hard to feel bad for her when she wants him more than her own sanity. It's soooo sad
That resonated deeply in my soul.❤️🙏🏾
literally , i just hope she finds the strength to walk away
So sad😢
That's exactly why we should feel bad for her.
I know them personally and it is sad, she’s been with him since she was in high school so she had years of emotional ties to him.
Him leaving her for 6 weeks after literally giving birth to their son told me everything. And what's worse is she really allowed him to do that because she eats up whatever bs he tells her omg.
What makes me mad is she’s scared to be a single mom when in all sense of the word she’s already a single mom who gets the bare minimum of help from him. She’s doesn’t love herself at all and it’s very sad.
Karamo needs to do the lie detector tests included in shows also that would be cool
Yes
Right
I feel like we always know the truth, body language is the key look at their face!!! Both liars
Yeah because this unlocking phone ish ain’t it
Yessss!!!!
That six weeks thing was wild lol
I literally clutched my pearls when she shared that. Like what?!
He couldn’t have sex with her so he left for six months
So wild!
Literally insane omg
Lol
1) lack of self esteem
2) trauma bonding
3) weight makes her insecure
4) wasting her time with trash
why bring her weight into this……….
@@agabboo weight is a source of insecurity for many women, whether Americans wanna admit it or not.
@@randomfemale4322 exactly thanks for explaining. We all know kids bully kids with weight issues and men mostly/always go for the skinnier girls.
@tyntyn1010 lmao what kind of men are you speaking of, do you see all of these women getting bigger asses and hips, paying thousands of dollars and risking their lives to be bigger
You are Correct…And about the Weight in the USA 🇺🇸 , and other European countries it is a very big issue,in some other Countries ,however, it is the other way around..Totally Opposite, ..I remember in My Teenage yrs. and some of us, (Colleagues.. fam…my friends,etc ) , in their twenties (20)& early thirties (30)were trying to gain Some weight.. and even Now whenever,we are going back 😂to our Countries ,we tried to gained and Put on Weight 😂..😂.. The addition of the weight, is considered Sexy 😍👍.. ..it is Crazy !😜..it is called Culture!!..(NB..HAVING Parents from two different countries/Cultures one idolizes fat &Sexy ..and the other Skinny $ Sexy…and us (Children)benefactors of Dual Citizenship/Cultures..it is absolutely Crazy !!😝we should flow with the Programs!!!..Please Pray🙏for us!!!😂😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹
First of all, when Karmo asked him why there were so many calls to her to the best friend, he was having a hard time coming up with an excuse - and the GIRLFRIEND - interrupted and gave him a built in excuse and said it was her... no, that's not how that works - if he's not talking to your best friend AT ALL... why was he trying to figure out an excuse instead of saying, immediately, "I don't call her!!!!"??
Secondly, the best friend stepped in and gave him cover when she explained why he deleted their messages... then, SHE deleted their messages from HER phone too? What are you saying about her to the best friend - and what is the best friend saying to him about you that they're doing all this talking behind your back? I wish I WOULD find out that my significant other is talking to my best friend and I don't know about it!
These people are having secks, sweetheart... get your self esteem together and find you another man and best friend.
You stated nothing but FACTS on top of FACTS LOL....she so delusional that she making excuses for them and choosing not to see it
and did you see when she was explaining he looks at her like she lying 😂
That’s not her best friend that heffa is no good.
Everything you stated is CORRECT!! Let's also add that nobody discussed the text message she saw, asking "how was it?" Or something to that affect, unless that cut out from what I watched. Also, she was very loose with every response she had to every question asked to her and even him, but when asked about her deleted messages, she took awhile to get the response out. It just seemed like she was definitely lying and couldn't think of a real reason. Aside from the ex. I'm sorry, this just screamed "sis, they're playing in your face"!
Well said 👏👏👏👏
The moment she said, I don't want him to leave me, is the moment it was over for her. He leaves her all the time. ......
😩😩😂😂
She caught him at her parents house in her bed. He knew he could do whatever he wanted from the beginning.
So sad 😞
Her shady ahh “friend” has an explanation for everything 🙄. Why would you hide that he was coming to you for “advice”? I knew that the boyfriend bent her over as soon as the friend said “if I wanted him I can have him”. No ma’am no ma’am. Can’t have people like that around me.
U SAID IT!!!!!!
Soooo TRUE! 👍 🙌 👏 👌
Me and her both knew he was cheating as a matter of fact he’s about to have another child with another girl now. Me and her are STILL bestfriends & they finally broke up. I have a type, and it is HISPANIC men, that’s why it was funny to me bc she and everyone who knows me knows this. I don’t lay down with men who dropped out of college, smoke weed all day everyday, he doesn’t even take care of his son.. I STILL AM. He 100% was cheating on her and it was NOT with me. 😭😭😂
@@PrettySequoia First of all...The correct words are: SHE and I. So I guess you dropped out of college too? You have some ridiculous reasons why you wouldn't sleep with him supposedly according to you. Those things wouldn't matter since it was just messing around, not marrying him! That profile picture looks nothing like you. I could tell that you're very insecure about your weight, even though you'd probably never admit it. Hopefully your friend kicked you out of her life for good.
@@PrettySequoia Yeah right the majority of people know that you're guilty especially since you deleted everything from your phone.
Not Karamo about to call that woman a big ball of sunshine and catching himself 💀💀💀💀
😂😂😂
I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS BECAUSE I ALMOST FELL TF OUTTTT😂😂😂😂
@@yfb.audiii he had to remember he was on TV 🤣🤣🤣
Yesss 😂😂
Okay so it wasn’t just me 😭
Her friend even looked suspicious when karamo was telling her to be there for her . Let’s hope she leaves him & finds a new friend
Yes you better be alone
Me and her both knew he was cheating as a matter of fact he’s about to have another child with another girl now. Me and her are STILL bestfriends & they finally broke up. I have a type, and it is HISPANIC men, that’s why it was funny to me bc she and everyone who knows me knows this. I don’t lay down with men who dropped out of college, smoke weed all day everyday, he doesn’t even take care of his son.. I STILL AM. He 100% was cheating on her and it was NOT with me. 😭😭😂
It’s the copy and paste for me 😂
Her so called best friend shouldn't been texting him behind her back. Her loyalty belongs to her. She's not a friend at all to me!
As soon as he lied about being a full time student, ( no reason to lie about it) I knew he couldn’t be trusted & everything was questionable.
Him and the best friend got something going on 💯
Me and her both knew he was cheating as a matter of fact he’s about to have another child with another girl now. Me and her are STILL bestfriends & they finally broke up. I have a type, and it is HISPANIC men, that’s why it was funny to me bc she and everyone who knows me knows this. I don’t lay down with men who dropped out of college, smoke weed all day everyday, he doesn’t even take care of his son.. I STILL AM. He 100% was cheating on her and it was NOT with me. 😭😭😂
I’ll NEVER understand why people ask for help only to KNOW THEY’RE going to stay with the foolery. When she needed him MOST, he went ghost instead of bonding and supporting her. Why didn’t his parents suggest he go home to his FAMILY??? And so-called friends shouldn’t be secretly communicating with your mate PERIOD!!! Don’t come get airtime/help knowing the truth is in your face🤦🏽♀️
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EXACTLY
This is the one
Okay... why is she sitting there knowing she ain't going anywhere after the truth is revealed. 🤔😒🤦🏾♀️
I agree sis! WTF are they even doing with eachothers number as well. And as long as she love him she isn't going nowhere. She will learn the hard way,,,I still think they messed around .
The way he look at the friend when she is answering questions 😒 “don’t slip” 😒😂
YES I saw that.
I swear 😂😂😂😂
This was really hard to watch. I PRAY she finds her self worth. She’s already raising her baby by herself. She doesn’t think there’s better out there! So sad.
When she first came out Karamo said “look at you looking like ah…….beautiful “ he wanted to say something else lol😂
I was looking for u🤭🤐
She’s easily manipulated.
The fact that she said she don’t think so bout her bestfriend is crazy.
Karamo was low key about to say something to her about that yellow dress in the beginning but he caught himself 🤣🤣🤣. I’m sure he didn’t want her to take it the wrong way
He was two seconds from calling her Big Bird
@@JoeCola he really was though! 🤣 I felt it
Big ball of sunshine 😂
I caught that as well
@@JoeColaI think it’s was a bumble bee 🐝
Neither can be trusted. Both of them are in toxic relationships and I wouldn’t be surprised if there was something more to the text messages that were deleted. The whole Tindr thing - I believe he’s cheating and she needs to really look within and gather her self esteem. She said she don’t wanna raise her kid on her own but she is basically doing that now because he’s leaving.
I hate when females say that, girl a lot of females don’t wanna be a single parent but I be damn if you going be cheating on me and keep leaving me I rather be single.
@@sophiebutler5684 By all definition she is already single raising her child alone. He is an absentee father and boyfriend.
Exactly 💯
The first giggle they did together would have been their last lmao
My eyes damn near rolled out my skull every time she said “because I love him” 🙄
That man cheats on this woman consistently because he can, it’s also very likely that he done something with the friend. It’s so sad that someone would allow herself to be treated like this.
From the guilty look on Sequoia’s face when Karamo started talking about the unlocked phones, it was clear that she had something to hide.
Alecia is gullible, she honestly doesn’t see that her so called friend is not a friend at all. How is it that Sequoia knew the answers to why all of Sheffer’s messages with her had been deleted both from his phone and the cloud? When Karamo asked him about them.
I wish that Karamo had called her out on why she was answering a question directed to Sheffer, who he himself was stumbling to answer.
You would think that the advice that a true friend would give would be in favour of saving your relationship, so there would be no need to erase the messages.
Calm down I ain’t messing w anyone’s man. 😂 these shows aren’t want you think they are, remember that.
Let the church say AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@PrettySequoia please don’t tell me this ish scripted. I’ll be pissed
@@PrettySequoia texting and deleting messages to her man ,funny 🤣
I really don’t think she is.
It’s so hard as a new mom in the first weeks, still in pain from giving birth, not feeling yourself with baby weight etc, and having a brand new tiny baby who cries every 2 hours to eat, change diapers, and mom has to figure out what the baby needs. Having a supportive partner is so helpful and can make you feel so much better about yourself.
The Bestfriend and Boyfriend are definitely doing shit behind her back and I pray she opens her eyes very soon God Bless Her and Her Baby ♥️🙏🏽
Pro tip: if you're already having problems in your relationship, don't add an innocent human into the mix.
Some think that adding a child to the mix will help solve their problems since it would make them “closer” and more “committed”…..uhhh no.
The friend answering for him is sketchy. Him hesitating to figure out why his phone showed calls to the the friend? Sketchy. Because he would have said “I haven’t called her I don’t know why that’s even there”. Instead of scratching his brain for an answer. On top of that all their nerves said a lot to me. Whew, I wouldn’t trust either of them.
Sameeee!!! Even the friend deleting messages, is so suspicious! Cause if it was only giving advice, why would her ex make an issue out off it??👀..
@@dellapremium3704 I agree. They were way too quick to absolve her from any guilt.
She has no self respect and he’s feeding from that 😩🙏🏽😔I’m praying for her and her child .🙏🏽
Lord help, the pack of self esteem and self respect breaks my heart. In your bed at your parents house and he disappeared 6weeks after giving birth, it's just sad.
He has no respect for her. And know he got her
LACK of?
He going keep cheating on her because she lets him, she complains about it but doesn’t leave him, sis you deserve better and your child deserves attach mom and you can’t do that fully dealing with this.
I’m confused. She said she won’t leave because I don’t want to be a single mother yet he leaves her for weeks at a time. This the epitome of I’m in a relationship alone. Girl you need to be afraid of STDs
Ale is a beautiful lady!! Boost up that self confidence and move on away from both your bf and bff, they're not in your corner. You should never beg someone to stay with you.
Yall deleted alllll the text messages??? So u mean to tell me EVERY single time you text him it's about giving advice???? Cut da crap lol...
She’s lying
Her lie was all over the place
Don't you wish you could be in the audience to yell that to them. I pray she gets it soon. For herself and her child.
Exactly! And notice the friend would answer for him, he deleted because I gave advice. I believe some physical activities took place between those two. They deleted even from the cloud.
Edit: they discussed and rehearsed their 'innocent' faces for the camera, they deleted from both their clouds!
@@SL-ud7tf the fuck if it did 😂😂😭 I have a type and it’s hispanic men, that’s why I was laughing bc her and everyone that knows me knows this… he was 100% cheating he even has a baby on the way now, he was NOT fucking me trust that 😂😂
I still think they are doing something honestly, they never answered what they were texting about when she asked "Was it good?" very suspicious, plus her smiling when they are about to check her phone.
I wouldn't trust her friend even if my LIFE depended on it !!! 😡😡
EXACTLY!!
A man who can leave you for six weeks when you just gave birth so you can bond alone with a newborn is a psycho and doesn’t deserve you. My god. How do you forgive someone who wasn’t there for you when you needed him the most. The first few weeks and months of a newborn is so hard and the hormones don’t help too
When a man cheats on you What Love Got to Do with It🤨🥰🥰✌🏾
She Cheated On Him Too She Is Not Perfect Either
@@brianwright889 shut up
@@andrikaroberson5609 So You Saying She Could Sleep With His Friend Too That Don't Make It Right
@@brianwright889 but she didn’t though??
@@brianwright889 & if im not tripping karamo did state that they both had some differences before and they worked past them. so therefore they are no longer talking about it. this episode was to see if he was cheating on her with her best friend. they are not on this episode because of her possibly cheating. they are there because of him. and he has many red flags so just stop trying to play victim for him.
Deleting the messages from the phone is one thing but to delete them from iCloud…. That’s different.
Facts
Nah i don't trust either one of them. I don't like the fact that both of them are deleting texts between the two of them - thats shady. But... the man is 100% trash. On tinder and logging in every time he goes away coincidentally? For color? What does that even mean. He's cheating clear as day and she deserves better.
I’m bias because I dated a guy who looked like him. I disagree he’s not trash. He’s a dumpster fire.
Edit: I don’t trust her bff either.
Okay well who cares, I know I ain’t do anything w him or want to. Unknown them both for years. And JUST stopped messing w my ex a month ago I wasn’t up in no one’s shit like that. Like I said he ain’t MY TYPE. I want a GOOD man, he look good to you?
@@PrettySequoia People are gonna have opinions 🤷🏽♀️ I feel like you were being shady - that don't have to be cheating. But to me if my friend already has suspicions about me and her man then i would've been stop communicating with him AND stop deleting the messages. I would've been upfront and said i was giving him relationship advice about the two of you because he came to me. It took going on a tv show for you to do that.
@@realmnthrwknivesshe knew that I was, I sent her messages of it. It’s a habit to delete stuff do you save all your unsaved contacts messages and spams? No? Didn’t think so.
@@PrettySequoia spam and unsaved contacts are very different from a friend's boyfriend especially when that friend has already accused yall of doing something lmaoo and you know that but we can keep pretending ig
The dude who was gripping his shirt at 9:41 is meee asff😭😭😭 but nah i dont understand why she even wanted the results knowing she was gonna stay with him.🤦🏽♀️
the having tinder for the “colours” made me cackle… like bffr dude
He just don’t make no damn sense 😅😩🤦🏾♀️ and she allow him to do what he wants, she not going anywhere Lawd smh
Yeah I believe he’s cheated with anything walking, he’s a horrible lier and he had the nerve to laugh about it! She needs to wake the f*** up! Talking about she scared to be a single mom, girl that’s ur self esteem. She’s needs to dismiss both of them.
And WHY THE HELL DO PEOPLE GIVE THIER FRIENDS THEIR MATES NUMBER ? 🙄 I NEVER FIGURED THAT OUT my husband calling and talking with my friends behind my back ABOUT ME SMH that's a form of comfort and intimacy that should be between both parties involved only
Period!
Im convinced the best friend and boyfriend did something behind her back.
This is why you don't carry before you marry.
What that has to do with anything you shouldn’t disrespect someone you say you love god bless her with a baby at that time.
I agree
Agreed
And what is marriage gonna do? He’s gonna do the same thing even worse then. Y’all put too much importance on marriage then be more f**** up than before!
@@torry24 can people have opinion?!! Goodness.
The gf needs some self esteem and self worth honestly. It's sad af how little she loves herself
' I dont want him to leave me ' ... Lord 😑
You deserve what you accept. Once I learned that I had the strength to walk away from a cheater I loved. I told myself he’s only been able to repeatedly hurt me because I allowed it. It’s my fault and I’m done hurting myself.
Ok Karamo, I like the "unlock the phone" segment of your show but there needs to be some stipulations to this....I don't know what incentives, if any, you give to your guests, but something should be done about deleted text messages, apps, etc. and broken/new phones within a certain time period before the show....It's too easy for the guests to do and we are all still left without answers and having to speculate.....It defeats the purpose of them coming to the show....No pay, no return ticket home, something! Everything should be on hold until after the show besides a one-way ticket there!
Right because apparently the guests know about unlocking the phone before coming on the show!
I agree!
They should also do a lie detector test
it's sad how naive she is, how she doesn't value herself.
He doesn’t need to be texting her best friend to get relationship advice. That’s inappropriate to me. Especially after all that he’s put her through!
If Karamo did lie detector tests this show would be insane … Sheffer is sitting there like he doesn’t even know his name is Sheffer . He’s not even saying anything just sitting there saying “yea” “idk” “color apps”
Hope she can build the strength to be more confident with herself and know that she doesn’t need to put up with a cheater and liar.
why is the best friend answering for him..
That's what I say
How can you trust your best friend talking behind her back with her boyfriend
And giving him advice
Is she a psychologist?
No what Karamo should have done was compare the dates, times and lengths of those calls between the two ladies to see if they were the 2 actually communicating together. Ijs 😳
Hes not that very smart i see
He just a gay man on tv
his excuse was so weak 💀💀
Karamo is wise like Oprah, but the show is hella ghetto like Jerry Springer and I LOVE IT!…
He is just looking around. She is The side chick "friend". Why delete all of the text. They wasn't talking about her 24/7. They just both happen to delete all text. The friend kept talk because he isn't going to get them caught on tv. I would be upset that my best friend boyfriend is doing shady stuff to my best friend. If the two women are friends. There is no way the friend should be cool with him. I see no one validating her feelings until the end. It wasn't real.
You know he is cheating with her. He is seriously on a whole dating app. He left her and the child to do his own thing. She is too young & beautiful. I wish Karamo would do a polygraph for once. I don't trust the best friend. Girl just co-parent and do you. If she fear being a single parent. That mean she must already figured that he ain't ish. Never stay because you have a child. If she haven't already. She need to take pictures of his info Incase he run. He seem like a**hole not a deadbeat. If he can leave her with the baby that long he may very well abandon his responsibilities. You can still find someone eventually to be in a loving healthy relationship with. It is better than being treated wrong.
He downloaded the app for the widgets🤣
Really she needs to be more in love with herself she so pretty she deserves better
They’re both trash and lying. Girl dump him and tell her to kick rocks. She’s not your friend. Withholding info is the same as lying. You’re beautiful. You can do better💯💯💯💯
Girl bye, they've already discussed " we're deleting it" wake up!!
They keep trying to let the best friend off-the-hook you know if you're going to blame him you're going to blame her to
Bc I am off the hook, it happened with one of her old bestfriends of course she’s gonna think the same. But I was and am not never interested. :)
Yep. The friend is still suspicious. In the first place it's not appropriate to be discussing intimate details of your "best friend's" relationship with her boyfriend. That's what therapy is for. If my friend's bf came to me looking for advice I'd say no, not my place I'm not gonna sit here and talk about my friend behind her back. They don't respect that poor girl at all. The boyfriend is pure trash. She needs to leave them both alone.
There's way too much stock being put into the word. Love. Relationships are built on more than that. No one wants to be a single parent, but you have to have boundaries. I hope she gets it together and sees the light soon enough.
Indeed. What about respect? Sadly, he is a child. She is going to be going it alone whether he is around or not. And her so called Friend is disrespectful.
@@kirascullark5224 don't even get me started on this so-called friend. Homegirl just needs a new circle. I was a single mother for years and my kids are great. Life does not end because you are a single mother
Her man showed absolutely no emotions at all. Meanwhile she’s making excuses and being delusional about it. Sis leave him and glow up on him. You are worth more.
The guy at 9:41 🤣
Don’t put anything past the boyfriend and befriend because it happen to me.
Young people: do not idolize relationships. Stop loving friends and significant others more than god. There is a high probability your dedication will all be in vain.
The Bible said that family comes, frist, and it also said, keep your faith in private, pray in private and religion in private, and don't say he's name in vain, I'm sick of religious people always throwing their bullshit in people's face your not god
@@Shlbizzy_21 that’s the thing I’m not bound to any religion. I’m a spiritual individual…those are two very things but both religion and spirituality have love for god.
I get the reason why she’s still with him, it hurts having to watch your mom be alone and being depressed , yes good things will come in time , but you don’t know how much time that will take. I get her fear and fear is a big factor in why people don’t leave.
Once you conquer that fear you get stronger
The way he was gridding his teeth together when karamo was reading the his cat fish messages 😂
I love this show, it helps me so much! Karamo is the best!
The best friend is triffllliinnggg!! Leave her in the dust! She know she messing around her with best friend man
I don't believe the friend, I think they have something going on because of the way he's looking and her friend keeps making excuses I just don't buy it
The fact that they both deleted those text....
The lack of love for self....
Smh I don’t ever wanna be that “in love” .. he’s gonna play in her face until she’s dead smh
Being a single parent is no joke. It can be both emotionally and financially draining. She’s not weak for not leaving. She probably will when the time is right.
She basically is a single parent though, he just lives there. Might as well be another child
@@vb593 i hear you. But in all fairness, he probably does help with the bills. Single income housing is an endless struggle for a big part of the population. Women are quick to say LeAve HiM. But when sis is homeless they be quiet.
She been with him 4 years and her phone was turned off!! These young people wanna do grown stuff then make excuses when things are hard. Why he running back to his parents AFTER making a baby?
Not her type that's not the first thing say to ur BFF.
Love Karamo he is so healing
She is easily manipulated and it’s sad. The best friend and the man are bad for her. I wish there was w lie detector test
bro could not even speak, he knew he was wrong.
Where do you find a perfect spouse these days, you leave one and get into worse toxic relationship than the one you left, just stay alone and be happy if you don't want trouble.
This one!!! 💯
👆This one
Fact.
exactly. you got a baby, what a blessing rock thru life with your baby
She may have a problem with being alone but she was ready to drop the friend and not the cheating boyfriend. He’s not even there, she IS alone, and the way she’s acting towards the friend tells she was going to blame her for whatever they did but couldn’t.
Mom and dad both need to bond with the child. She should leave him.
Such lies 🤣 these 2 are playing her big time and they have both found a way to have complete control over her. The "bestfriend" is quick with answering questions which are directed to either the man/both of them cause she's a better liar, this is sad.
Exactly
Yes it's very SAD!!! 😢
We need a lie detector test!!
I didn’t feel like the guest in yellow was surrounded by genuine supporters. Her womanhood is telling her something.
Many people would say it's wrong to blame the victim, but it seems
like the victim puts themselves in the position and can't make themselves
stop believing lies. Women are programmed to need a man...but they don't.
She's gorgeous. She can do so much better. Smh
That "I give him advice that's why he deletes the text." Is so weird they lying.
Nah her friend is messing with her man. She’s easily manipulated. Karamo knew. He should have just said “your friend can’t be trusted” but I think he stopped caring when he realized that she was dumb.
🤣😭
Why continue to stay in a relationship if your partner continue to leave you? Aleacia needs to be strong for herself and cut all ties with Sheffer, as he's not committed to the relationship or being a father to their child.
This is objective fact. These girls are insanely gorgeous. Our society is so messed up with these warped beauty standards that make curvy females like these feel less because they're not thin. Except for health concerns that might exist. Otherwise, these ladies are beautiful. Somebody needs to let them know they're a 10 & to stop dating losers.
These two (BFF & hubby) needed a lie- detector test something doesn't add-up!
She know damn well. Just playing stupid. No backbone. He’s not even sitting next to her.
If that’s the best friend you got, you need new friends…. Smh
He clearly got a type. 😂
It's not easy leave but when you leave you will be the happiest person. It's hard really hard am telling you but abuse let's not take it. As women or men. You can be single and love yourself.
9:40😂😂😂😂 Dude was hear for the tea, Hunni.