A Night Out Ruined Our Friendship | KARAMO
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ย. 2024
- Sheilyn and Aledia used to be besties but after Aledia got kicked out of the club these two fell out. Since then, Aledia emotionally says their friendship has changed. Sheilyn admits she’s moved and has felt isolated. Can Karamo help these former friends have a breakthrough and move on as the besties they once were?
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Golden Rule of Thumb: We go together, we leave together. That's it! That's all!!!
PERIOD !
Exactly
Period !!! 🗣️🎯
Yep...sure do leave together it's called loyalty
PERIOD 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
This is not about a fight. This is about her friend continuing to party after she was kicked out. A loyal and true friend would have left with her. You kick out my friend who was trying to protect me, I kick myself right out with her
Thank you
Nah, we would have been kicked out together and have a talk after. LA gets to many peoples heads.
Thank you!!! It’s about loyalty.
Lol this friend tried it, she’s deflecting from the fact that she left her friend alone and went back to her section knowing full well her friend is not from LA and is alone. She’s a terrible person anything could of happened to her friend.
We came together we leave together period‼️‼️‼️‼️
She tried to make it about fighting but at the end of the day she still left her…it’s not about fighting it’s about loyalty.
Exactly
She outgrew her friend. But still, she came all the way to see her. You DON'T leave your friend. Drinks flowing...anything could have happened to her. That's a no-no. If my friend embarrassed me and got thrown out, I'm making sure she's safe and we leave together. After that, we'd have to have a conversation. But you DO NOT leave her by herself. That's dangerous and I wouldn't forget that.
Exactly 💯
100%
Exactly and especially the friend is in a strange, unfamiliar place
As a woman I would never leave my friend alone to fend for herself in a city she is unfamiliar with-especially one as anonymous and dangerous as LA. it’s more than just being “loyal” and leaving with your friend, it’s about making sure your friend is SAFE
NEVER
Absolutely 💯
You still left her out to dry in a city she knows nothing about! Couldn’t be my friend again period
That’s what I am saying
That part!!!
Helloooo
Exactly, Karamo failed to tell check her, and tell her she was absolutely wrong for leaving her friend outside by herself, especially in an unfamiliar city.
He glossed over that to have a girl moment. Everyone can see she was wrong for leaving her friend out to dry.
They still didn’t acknowledge the fact that she stayed in the club while her friend was kicked out………
They were both still in the club. Aledia just got put out the section
If anyone of my friends are getting kicked of anywhere I am right there with them
Yeah and I’m gonna make it seem like we didn’t want to be there anyway.
All facts
Exactly we both leaving
Period ! I understand changing & not fighting anymore but once my bestie was up out that section & the club I would’ve been right beside her, NO EXCUSES ! We come together, we leave together ALWAYS ! My bestie is like my sister, I won’t play about her EVER so I’m definitely the first friend but I have learn to not turn up on folks especially when you’re not in your own HOME town. I’m glad they fixed it but I still feel like Sheilyn was a shitty friend for leaving her outside in a town she never been to. & then especially with her mentioning it’s so dangerous there, all the more reason she should’ve left with her !
I would be mad we gotta leave but I would get over it an we go to the next club
YOU NEVER LEAVE YOUR FRIEND .. ever .. he needs to address that too
When your friend get kicked out.
You guys move to another club or go home together.
Advice to everyone! When you go somewhere with a friend, you leave that place with a friend. Whether you still wanted to party or not, if you are a true friend, you will choose being loyal to your friend over limited fun. Friendship is like every other relationship. So she telling me if this was a family member, she would've just carried on with her partying? Chile, don't play with me.
I love the moment of apologies... but the fact still stands you left your friend outside in an unfamiliar place. I wish they would've touched on that a little more.
At the end of the day, if she had a problem with how she reacted, she could’ve discussed that with her AFTER she left WITH her. There’s no way I’d allow my friend to leave on her own, especially in a city that she’s unfamiliar with. That’s beyond dangerous & careless for the other person’s safety. This wasn’t about the fight, this was about her not wanting to be around her anyway.
No way I would have left my friend outside by herself. This is beyond her outgrowing her friend.
She wasn’t left outside. She was kicked out of the section.
A true friend is supposed to be there for their friend through thick and thin. This was a misunderstanding and I hope that Shailyn and Aledia can move past this and rekindle their friendship. They're going to be fine.
You sound like Karamo .. go head Maurice 😂
A true friend won't leave a friend out to dry in a city they no nothing about. Just so they can keep partying.
After this situation they shouldn't be friends anymore.
@@ramonahamm6292 😂😂😂😂
@@ramonahamm6292 IM CRYINN
@@ricohall6124 True, but that situation was so silly man.
Girl she ain’t your friend no more. When she didn’t leave with you she showed you that. Even If you don’t agree with her, she had your back, you leave with your friend .. period. Y’all could have had that conversation at home and moved on.
As a friend Sheilyn could have had that conversation with her and not left her standing outside of the club.
Rewatch the video and pay attention. She wasn’t kicked out of the club or standing outside. She was waiting in a different part of the club.
@@denib4677 Club, section, whatever! The bottom line is that her friend left her while she went back to the section and enjoyed her night when her friend was only doing what she knows to do and that's have her friends back.
Her friend is so mature at her age, it's so refreshing to see a young person have such a mature attitude, I pray they continue their friendship
Her friend didn't show her she was any kind of friend. By staying in the party while her friend was kicked out while drunk in a city she knows nothing about.
Naww you don't leave your friend at night by herself anything right or wrong anything could of happened to her we come together we leave together.
Her friend is full of s***
They’re both mature because she could have continued with the hood mentality that ol girl claim she had, instead she listened to her friend to understand, showed accountability, and apologized, but that was not reciprocated the night at the club. It’s great she wants better for herself but she deflected from the main reason for their appearance
Loved it ❤️
Would not be her friend again … ain’t no telling what she’ll do in the future might leave u for dead.. no mam .
That part . I was taught you never leave a friend .. she drunk . Drag her out and put her in the cab . But we all leaving together no matter what
@@ramonahamm6292 righttt there ain’t no excuse for going back in the club thennnnn her friend came from outta state . I would never speak to her again
That’s not cool at all. But LA does this to people so it’s not surprising. My little sister is a senior in college in LA and she talks about it all the time. While I understand Shay was trying to calm the situation, Aledia felt like she was protecting and defending her friend but just letting her be put out alone, was disloyal and unsafe. If my friend is kicked out, I’m leaving too. 🤷🏾♀️
This is another story where the perpetrator turns herself into the victim by claiming it was for the actual victims best interest. I mean, why the hell did she carry on partying without her after that? And, she said, "You are embarrassing me", I don't know about y'all but I would never tell my friend that. She makes it sound as if she had a calm and mature talk with her, but she actually called her out for helping her then she ditched her. Then she talks about age, and how they were in high school and how they grown now? I mean, the fact that Aledia is talking about it now means it really did affect her. Time does not really heal all wounds. She felt betrayed and wanted to confront her about it. I believe she also brought it up this late, because she did not like the hole it built on their friendship, and she wanted clarification on where they stand, or at least an apology so she can move forward.
One is more in the friendship than the other…
Agreed
What a lot of people don't understand is sometimes your friends change.
Her changing isn't an excuse to leave her best friend outside alone, especially in a city that she's not familiar with. You go together, and you come back home together. Karamo failed to check Sheilyn, by telling her she was wrong period.
@@fountainmedia4683 Agree 100% . Her disloyalty should've been checked. That's the knife that cut her friend the deepest.
Shenanigans, go to club together you leave together.
Nah because if that girl came up and didn’t say nothing and just slapped her she would be looking for her friend to help her or be mad at her because she didn’t 😂 it was probably some dudes she was trying to impress and make her friend look bad and crazy. Get you some new friends sis, nobody you call a best friend should leave you stranded.
I agree 110%
Damn wasn’t even thinking
Exactly. If she wouldn’t have helped she’d be on the show screaming betrayal and expecting her to have a hood mentality
But if my friend get kicked out I gotta leave with them no matter what
The Bestie thinks she more than her and that’s why she didn’t leave with her . Sick
loyalty is supposed to be forever tho when it comes to close friends… doesn’t matter what age we are. if im going to be loyal, i’m GOING TO BE LOYAL. no matter what.
Aledia seems like she takes no s%&t from no one and that's who she is and I am sure with alcohol she gets turnt all the way up! I get Sheilyn being embarrassed and taking the mature route but sis, you can't continue to club while your friend has been kicked out. The fight is one thing, but the night was over when friend got kicked out. If you couldn't get her back in then you should have left the club too. I would have been mad with my friend that "we" got kicked out but it wouldn't have ended my friendship. We would have argued with each other and laughed about it the next day! Glad they made it work! They are too cute...
If my friend continues to act a damn fool every time we’re trying to have a good time the friendship is over
@@haleylogsdon8791 she never stated every time she just made it clear she don’t take no shit and loyal to her friends 😂 and the friend confirmed that was their friendship. You don’t leave your friend alone in a city she’s not from when she came to see you now if she was a hot head and you outgrow your friend then you communicate that and leave the friendship if they don’t change
Yes her trying to fight in the club may have been embarrassing, but that’s still your friend. Leaving her outside alone in L.A. just so you can continue to party could’ve put that girl into some serious harm’s way. We’ve gotta do better at watching each other’s backs and protecting one another, ladies. Even when we are angry.
I would not be her friend no more. You NEVER leave your friend
She admitted that she knew it wasn't safe. Why then would she leave her friend alone, knowing what's its like to be alone in LA? Ridiculous.
I think all of us who have grown apart from a friend feel what's happening here!
Agreed
This episode made me shed some tears 😭….this was so cute! They need each other and I know they will be fine ❤❤❤
Nah they really finessed homegirl…she had a point
You made this exact comment under another video ….
@@Mimidabraatt maybe I felt the same way about both videos.
That is an issue of abandonment and it hurts! There was a trigger and I understand what’s it’s like to be alone with loyalty not reciprocated. ❤
🤨Her friend is whack...like are we gonna address how she just left her friend that CAME TO VISIT kicked out the club. Embarrassed or not you came together you leave together (especially if she got kicked out sticking up for you). Her friend moved & thinK she's "EVOLVED".
Girl you don't need her as a friend she'll leave you behind.
SOOOOOO GREAT to see Besties re-unite.
ThAnkhs to Karamo as always. xxx
I’m in tearsss, this hit home for me 😭. I’m finna bring my ex-bestie on the Karamo show 🤣🤣
rightttt, cuz i got a JUICY story🤣🤣🤣
Wow!!! This was amazing!! These ladies like each other for sure!! I hope their relationship grow stronger as years goes on!! Thanks Karamo
I’ve been with friends that either couldn’t get into a spot, or were getting thrown out of a spot, and even though It can be annoying, you still have to leave with your friend. Especially as women the key rule is if you came with your friend, you leave with your friend
You come together you leave together and make it back home safely.
Oof! Siding with the Pink Sauce lady was a choice that is gonna haunt this show forever.
We don’t claim this dude he the social reject in the black community with his self fed hate and arrogance
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Where’s the pink sauce video?
I understand both women but we came together we leave together. Then we have a conversation about WHAT happened.
We come together we leave together! She could have told her all that while they was in the car headed to the next club! She left her outside in a city she doesn’t know.
U should NEVER EVER leave ur friend anywhere especially a club in a different city! U gotta have a ride or die bestie. I know certain people aren't going to ride with me when we go out but u always gotta have that one that's on ur time. ❤️
😂 Who does night clubs anymore too. Much drama I rather stay home n shake it 😆
What u say😭😭 me and my sister partying at club home tonight... No driver needed lol
Your profile pic gives me such hopes. Almost done with my invisalign and have to get the crown lengthening procedure. I had so many teeth removed. I'm super excited. I'm going to do a before and after! 😊
Let's teach out kids the power of loyalty I mean if my friend is kicked out at the party we would be out together
I Love how they were able to patch things up ❤️❤️❤️
I totally get the friendship/loyalty element, but moreso it’s about safety. Classic rule your parents teach you. You even learn the buddy system in grade school. You go together, you leave together. Don’t invite me to a foreign city and basically leave me for dead. That’s messed up.
Any means necessary. A real friend gonna ride through the storms & stay loyal. I lived it for 38yrs.I was 5yrs old. Maria will remain my best friend.We more like a sisters.
Definition of "she's my best friend but im not hers"
It wasnt about growth to her. It was about her LA image. She let it get to her head and left her friend. Now she wants to say it is about change but at that time of the club it wasn’t cause of change.
I understand both of there situation but I would never leave my friends and family members alone. I don’t care if we came in a group we are all leaving together.
Definitely a lesson in giving grace and the fact tht therz alwaySsss two sides to every story and the truth is inside of bn vulnerable and communication. So beautiful!!! Good job Karamo i love how you hold such gentle space for people and dont judge~ BLESSSSS these besties!! 💕👯♀️💕👏🏽🥰
Here because of the pink sauce😂.
Damn acknowledge your friends feelings 😢
I love this. I was smiling so hard at the end and looking goofy as hell 😂
I love their friendship they love each-other so much it’s the distance that hurts
I'm so glad that they made up Cause like they love each other
What a beautiful episode and friendship they have ... And i just love karamo.. he has ssuch a great and lovely spirit
I understand change. She could've at least leave with her.
A FRIEND WHO WOULD LEAVE YOU OUTSIDE OF A NIGHT CLUB BY YOURSELF IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
They have outgrown each other. The friend in LA has another life.
What does any of this have to do with her leaving her? She should've never left her hanging. We leave together.
Sheilyn still wrong. Cus if you know the vibe is diff from what they came from she should have prepped her before the club. Aledia is a true friend. LA changes people for the worse.
How did LA change her for the worse when Sheilyn has obviously matured beyond the hood stage of fighting and acting a fool,but at 25 Aledia was still in that hood mentality?
She should have checked on her friend and not continued partying like nothing happened. Doesn’t matter who’s in the right or wrong being a true friend is staying loyal. Unless she is robbing or killing someone then she should have left with her friend. We come together, we leave together.
@@trinathompson8587 her not wanting to fight doesn’t make her wrong it’s her leaving her friend in a unfamiliar city by herself. She could’ve left with her and then explained to her that she didn’t really like her behavior on their way home. Not leave your best friend who came from a whole different state to com see you, stranded by herself.
Girl code ! Don’t leave ur friend!!
Whatever circumstances occur, you came together, were supposed to leave together PERIOD !!!!!!
She is right . Elevate your mentality
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Had to delete that pink sauce video out of pure embarassment.
He showed his true colors if they weren’t obvious before. Idk how my brothers and sisters can watch and support this scumbag
Their getting older and ppl change and mature suppose to anyway, but she shouldn't have left her out in the cold. We came together we leave together the streets can be dangerous.
Yea naw Aledia wasn’t wrong at all !! I’m not continuing to party after my friend gets put out that is wrong asf
Karamo is so good at this!
Ya'll came together...Ya'll leave together
The hug was so cute 🤍
and this is exactly y ion have friends !!!
This generation is so interesting, the fashion, makeup, mentality, they look older than 25.
It's sad but reality. They are growing at different levels. One is a ride and die friend, and one is "we used to be cool, BUT... I'm not in that place anymore. They both need to move on. The ride and die friend will experience hurt because she's loyal and the other is not.
If my friend gets kicked out I'm leaving with her
‘ Omggg why am I cryinggg 🥺🥺🥺.
False! It absolutely does matter about representation. She’s outgrown the “fighting bout that life” girl her friend is. This is just like when Keyshia Cole said Eve was no longer her friend bc she was too rough. Keyshia said she learned her lesson & grew from that. She’s a GROWN woman & she’s thinking like a GROWN woman. She’s thinking about her safety as well. She explained she wanted to de-escalate the situation for safety reasons & for reasons of growth. She’s absolutely right & her friend needs to grow up. She keep going back to her past & she’s not there anymore…Either evolve to a new woman & keep the friendship of stay in the trenches. I get everyone is saying oh she left her outside & something could’ve happened to her, I get it. But she has to take accountability & see where the friend is coming from as well. They could’ve had a conversation. It was a misunderstanding. Y’all are the same friends who will fight a friend over ur baby daddy or some other man. So stop it. 🙄
I really wish Kuramo would stop interrupting them when they're trying to talk to each other lol. He does that a lottttt to give his interpretation like while they're in mid-thought. Sometimes.. after they get the ephinany just let them talk it out, it's for them not you lol.
It’s his show
She not her REAL FRIEND. Just let it go💯
This was my favorite episode I'm so happy they made amends and put the incident behind them beautiful 😊
Karamo is a man-child. Acknowledge your mistake on the pink sauce video and come fourth. You said it yourself, "..Before I post something.. I'm gonna do my research". How'd that work out? And to top it all off, for someone who adamantly states they're "neutral" in subjects you are far from it. You victim blamed, and embarassed that woman who was only critiquing a damn product. You said it best, I'm looking forward to the "ripple effects" on your show from this time forward and after.
he already apologized babe. let it go
She keep talking about the actual fight, girl it’s the principle. The friendship is definitely over.
Damn Karamo I need to bring my mom on this show you know how to make people see how they really hurt the other person when they don't see it 👏🏽
I see why her friend left her. Because why would you start fighting in the club. But I wouldn’t leave her.
For her!!! It wasn’t even her fight that’s what’s foul
They are so cute, I hope they can move forward. I am 25 years old as well, it is understandable when you feel like you are changing and your friend is not changing at the same pace as you. Ol girl still should have left with her homegirl though
Relationships change...change w it or be left behind.....my son once told me ..All relationships come to an end for one reason or another..they all end..I have not been the same person since..its 100% true...they all end...and its ok
I love Karamo
All I know is if my bestfriend is kicked out IM KICKED OUT and I’m leaving PERIOD
EVERYBODY CAN’T GO… Sheilyn is growing and her friend is NOT❤
THEY DIDNT TALK ABOUT THE FACT THAT SHE STAYED BEHIND WHILE SHE GOT KICKED OUT!
Y’all probably out grew each other
u r girls made me cry. change is hard but unavoidable.
The audience didn’t even have her back, nobody clapped for her when she was spitting facts
They are in 2 different spaces in life lol
They beautiful 😢