Hey, another thing to add to that list: When you don’t have a bad attitude when you say something, then your parents tell you to lose your attitude, now I have an attitude because you told me to lose one that I didn’t have. I get really tired of this with my mom who does this all the time
Yeah and every time I do ask they hit me with the “you should know this” and they want me to tell them everything but when I do they just use it against me
Another annoying thing is when an adult or parent says “you know what you did and until you can tell me your grounded” and you genuinely don’t know what you did
@@delta390gt Because your parents don't tell you. Maybe you made a mistake, maybe they frame you for something to release their feelings if they're abusive, maybe you just don't know.
My parents know I want to become a nurse. So every time I have an argument with them, they always say: ‘You really want to become a nurse with that attitude?’
well dealing with foks who think that you are below them comes with working as a nurse. next time they give you that attitude you can thank them for training you to deal with karen shitheads.
I'm a nurse, your WILL need some attitude to get through nursing school and deal with the shiz nurses deal with. Learn when and how to use it, but one day it'll be your backbone And boundaries! 😊
@@monito8823 You do owe them respect. They're the reason you have a roof over your head, they're feeding you, spending their money on you. But they do say some stupid shit every now and then. Just gotta deal with it until you get old enough.
"Don't force us to be social." I live in a house I can't leave ever Edit: I don't want to socialize btw, I just can't even see my friends which is annoying
I wear a mask outside of the house because of social anxiety and insecurities. Mom, dad, FORCING me to take off the mask dosnt help. Heck, it makes it fucking worse. Social development takes lots of TIME 😞
I don’t like how parents start asking why we don’t act as good as other kids as if they live with them and as if they know how they really act instead of how they act in public
@@PapaToast263 not if your parent is 40 year old junky with zero work experience, living off wellfare, having no friends, no plans for life. A LOT if your parent has his life put together, earns and supports you well, while being healthy and taking care of himself too. From the first parent you can't expect wisdom with age, from the second...that's that kind when they die and you are all grown up and you do have it all together, still you look at their picture and knowing that you lost your best friend and free life coach forever makes it feel all hurt and pain, because they were through your growing pains but didn't live long enough to see you're ok, doing well and you can never return the favor and say thank you. A Grownup person takes about 50 000 decisions everyday..some of them have extrem mental balast (mothers esp.) try to make living easier for each other. By not being demanding little narcissist.
This one is true on so many levels. One time my dad pulled that crap during an argument and I answered back with: “Just because you’re an adult and have responsibility over me doesn’t mean you’re right all the time.” To his credit, he did say that that was true, but he just needed to taste a sliver of victory in the argument, so he said: “Still, I’m right most of time.”
@Tristan Lane Its not much a view its reality. Parents don't think there child is smart enough to make up a reasonable debate so they come back at it with aggression because they have no idea how to handle it because parents should be the ones to know many things and teach there child that. Its not based on perspective, its reality
How it goes, their house their rules. Even if it's their job to take care of you. Not every parent will have that mindset. That reminds me. Anyone reading this, what's your thoughts on making your child get a job wether they want to or not?
@@Crimbtw At the end of the day, you can’t FORCE your child to do anything. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. Parents do need to remember that their child is their own person, they’re not their property. Respect goes both ways.
@@Crimbtw also making your child get a job is very wrong. for one, it’s not their job to fend for themself. as long as they are with you, they are your responsibility. even in low income families, i was never forced to get a job because a parent decides to have a child, not the other way around, and by doing so you signed up to take care of them whenever they need it. you can discuss it with your child, but at the end of the day if they’re not ready then they’re not ready. you can teach a child how to handle money responsibly, how to have responsibilities, how to take care of themself without forcing a job upon them
@@babybrin5118 I think getting your kid a job is alright as long as it's been agreed upon by both the parent AND the child. It teaches them how the workplace operates and gives them experience, it also gives them a bit of money that's theirs which they can do whatever they want with it. However, if it is just the parent that wants the kid to get a job and the kid is opposed to the idea, the kid is at least owed an explanation as to why, and it should be made clear what the benefits are and if the kid is still opposed then it shouldn't be forced onto them.
@@susannah8342 yes! i agree 100%. i started working odd jobs from a young age and i worked in the field as soon as i was old enough to. but it was something my parent and i agreed upon. even she was hesitant at first, because she knows i’m a child and that it’s not my job to do that. that’s something i’ll always respect her for
Or when you say something completely reasonable that shows ur parents how dumb their logic is, they are just like „I DONT CARE“ or fricking ground you. I mean just why
Respect your parents. They do so much for you when you were younger, feeding you and looking after you and that's how you think of them? I'm glad I didn't grow up around these types of people, at least I can respect my parents
@@5shotslikerambo parents are people, so they make mistakes and aren’t perfect, but if they try to come at me with an argument with flawed logic I’ll point it out like I would with any other person, I’m not gonna sit there mute if they say something that is factually wrong, respect for parents doesn’t bend reality and it was never meant to
The thing is, when the parents say fo do the dishes when your in an ONLINE game with NO pause, they say, oh your so addicted keep it up and your going to end up on the streets, and the next 5 minutes they are playing candy crush on their phone when your hungry 💀💀💀
Exactly they spend as much time on electronics as we do And how is us doing stuff on our pcs and phones a waste of time in their eyes yet spending the entire day watching tv and talking isn't????
Parents during an argument: "don’t talk back to me its rude" Me: *says nothing because they said so* Also Parents during an argument: "why won’t you answer me???"
My Breakup happened....and I started to be depressed.....But my parents instead of motivating.....told " I am showing them attitude"....And keep on saying...my attitude would kill me .....But Till present my attitude and workout rocks 🔥🔥🔥
The most annoying this is when they call your name while you're in your room but after you say "what?" They never reply so you have to get up and go outside for it.
Having a “conversation” Mom: you should study and get of that phone Me: but I just finished my homework Mum: don’t talk back and go do your work Me in my head: I am not talking back Isn’t that how a conversation works 🙄
The last one is so true, my mom would go on Facebook doing random stuff and go shopping on there for hours, same thing when she’s on instagram. And yet she still yells at me for being on my phone.
Mother: "No! You won't be going out with your friends" Literally while talking to other people: "I don't know why she's so antisocial, I want her to go out more and not stay inside home like a bat hiding in a cave"
Oh my god that's literally what my dad does. He gets mad at me for not having friends but I just never hang out with them because he doesn't let me. Which makes no sense.
@@peqnii3404 my mom's like that, I don't understand anything anymore. She says I should "get a boyfriend" but nags at me if I talk with my boy friends, says I should go out more but doesn't let me go out. This sucks bro
I feel like my mom is like that, me and the neighbors where playing around with the landlords porch and my mom screamed for me to come over to her so I did and never went outside unless it's school or going on a trip (my favorite) or going shopping And now I'm missing the out doors ;-;
How come when parents say “because I said so” it’s a valid reason but if a kid says “because” or “because I said so” suddenly they’re all like “ThAtS nOt A rEaL rEaSoN”
@@Totalchaos0228 we love that. My mother has never used that and has a no hypocrisy tolerance she hold herself accountable too and she raised us better than most kids I see where the parents are lazy, like "hey I wanna go to the doctor to ask about something I'm worried about" "Stop self diagnosing" "Hey can you help me with the school work your mad at me for not knowing how to do" "Pfft, no" Plus not to mention when they say " don't do this" and immediately do it or their child makes a point and instead of acknowledging it and responding like a mature person they go to insults and shit. And then those parents wonder why once heir kid turns 18 they leave.
@@z8318 yeah kind of 🤣 but before they even care they won't watch this www btw I copy this from the Chinese comment section so sorry for any mistake○|￣|_
i am a parent too and i saw it lol. i made the same experiences and i pay very much attention to everything i do or say, so my child doesn’t have to live it.
“When I was your age I didn’t even have this!” My dear parent, I sincerely apologise for the person who invented this product I MEAN REALLY THEY INVENTED THIS TO MAKE OUR LIVES EASIER AND WE’RE SUPPOSED TO FEEL GUILTY FOR USING IT
ok, let’s both live without houses, electricity, running water, or money and become Hunter gatherers. When we want some potato chips let’s grow potatoes, cut them with rudimentary tools, find oil, make a pan out of raw iron, attempt to fry it over a fire, which we use sticks for, and finally mine for rock salt, then add it, and enjoy.
Dude same adults don't understand you can't pause a game when your playing online. I tried many times to get my mum to understand that when she was still alive.
True my gallery is full of short piano things and pics of skies and some drawing ref fr but theres some boys i simp 4 in there so i dont like ppl going to my personal space if i wanna be alone leave me be fr i wanna do things alone on a room Edit: wt flip... y do ppl like dis comment???????? Da ff?? But thanks for the likes tho Edit 9th of February 2022: Things have gone a lot. A lot better than it was last year with my father, we had serious talks and such, make me feel a lot closer to my father. My father wasn’t really there physically when i was younger and no one was there to teach me.. stuff. So i was kind of a brat. I wont lie about that. But i think i am changing little by little. I think my daily life now is much better than it was. Which i am happy for. Mother is still working abroad so i am still not that content. Just a lil tho xD. I am pretty happy where i am right now. I do have ups and downs but its alright :}.
or they expect us to tell them everything after acting like this video. like i am afraid of retaliation dude if i tell you i’m depressed how are you going to act? because i’m pretty sure when i told you you refused to get me help to take me to appointments and it wasn’t until 6 years later at the age of 17 that i was finally able
Why don't u tell them? Then they won't bother you. See heres the thing I see a lot of kids complaining about these but why don't u just answer them bc their there for you. They want to help u every way. So it's just my opinion of what u can do.
@@Cough_Dropppp If I don't know what he's referring to, I can't give him a correct answer. I really didn't know what he was talking about so I didn't get what he meant, everything was fine that day
@@_shichiro_ well what if he was clear then what will u do? Also u can ask him "what do u mean?" Maybe that could work but if u tried it already just tell me to "shut up" kk?
My parents: forces me to stay inside and stay away from my friends because they say they’re a bad influence. Also my parents: forces me to socialize with people after years of staying indoors away from people and friends.
My parents didn’t let me go out because they were really paranoid. Now they’re always asking me why I don’t go out and why I’m unhappy with the current people I surround myself with and the current state of my life 💀
When I was like 5 my mom used to lock the door and hide the keys so I wouldnt go out (we was living in a place where gypsys were a lot and I can reason that but is too much) and I didnt knew how to play football till year 7 (from pe classes I learned and my father was in uk trying his best for a better life for us, my home country is turkey) I didnt enjoyed football and I felt left out by everyone in my school and when I moved to uk with my parents O had so much social anxiety and shyness but Im about to turn 18 now and I saved up for a nice car, I have a dream girlfriend and tons of frienda. Lucky me I could change, but there are people who arent fortunate as me.
Also she was forcing me to go out when we moved to uk like and I didnt wanted to all I wanted was play video games (till my 16.5s and then I think maturity hit me and I changed a lot like my appereance everything.)
Exactly it’s so annoying like my mom is just over there like: “why are u always on you’re phone?!” Her: casually sits on couch watching tv for hours and playing on her phone at the same time.
My family will be watching something and then my Dad is just on his phone looking at Facebook or something and we all have to rewatch the episode because he wasn’t playing attention
Ikr- and if I give a valid argument they're like- "gO tO uR rOoM" like dude I'm right face it ur not always right. And then they hv tell me that I'm not always right
It's also the same thing where you set your phone down FOR LITERALLY LIKE 5 SECONDS and one of your parents gets up and checks your phone LIKE BRUH I RESPECT YOUR PRIVACY atleast do the same for us. This happened when I got up for a glass of water, and mom went thru my history and I was like "bro stop I don't want you being nosy or smth" and she just changes the subject instantly like she didn't do anything.
Me: *Just casually going to the kitchen* My mom: "Wash the dishes for me please." My brain: "f*ck this, I don't wanna wash em' anymore! As if I'm REQUIRED to do it..."
Once I told my mom this, “When you tell me to do something that I’m about to do, it makes me not want to do it anymore.” And she told me this, “That doesn’t make any sense (my name), who cares?” And then she said I was talking back to her even though i was trying to tell her why I felt that way! And yeah, I was grounded for like 2 days 👍
@@Hehehehe935 Oof- I'm only 19 (turning 20 next year) and if I tried saying something like that to my mom, I would've gotten a lecture from her in Spanish
And when our parents accuse us of something we didn't do,we try defend ourselves by telling them we didn't do it,but then they say we are back chatting 😑
"Your friend doesn’t use this in her TikToks why don’t you?" She literally got on me for using TikTok sounds with curse words in them and brung up the fact that my friend at the time used clean versions of hers. 😒✋
i got so demotivated that accepted the fact that i'll live on the streets, and now i'm happy to live as a gamer with only 2 friends and hope that school let me pass without effort(it's not like i'd do smth it they don't)
Sorry kids but it's true 😂😂😂😂😂 . No school means you needs to reserve your place in street. 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭. We mums we loves you, so we want to be proud of you.❤💪
Yeah I’m adopted and they’re 60+ and he always gives the “well I walked 2+ miles to my school everyday” “I stayed out in the sun doing farm work with no water and no breaks” etc
Parent interrupting you: DONT CARE DONT CARE You talking to oarent when theyre not even talking: STOP INTERRUPTING AND BACKCHATTING Finally the worst crime you can ever do to your parents... Being factually correct in an argument
Yeah but back then all they thought about is "I gotta go to school and study my books to be successful and force my future kids to do way better than they can"
@@edithmarka3255 my mum and dad don't force me to do stuff better than them like that, and they were born in the 70s Are you saying the majority thought like that?
As I’m getting older I realize that I can no longer remember a lot of the things that I wanted to improve about parenting when I was a kid. So when I’m a parent I’ll have to figure them out all over again :/
The comparing one hurts me so much. Everytime I get my grades they always compare me to my sister. So what? Yeah I know she's smart and I'm stupid. But it doesn't give you a reason to compare me. Every. Time. Because once you've compared me to someone it just adds to my insecurities, and I just end up wanting to change myself because of that, thinking I'm never enough..
So I have Adhd and so my emotions are more intense than the average person. So my parents will keep on telling me “your not 5 stop crying” like screaming isn’t gonna make me stop crying it’s just gonna make me drag on longer
@@tteee7241 nah stop crying, it's really annoying. Also don't blame your condition on your failings. It makes you weak, better yourself. Be strong, stop being a victim.
Parents: *Arguing with their kid over something Kid: *Gives valid evidence to support claim/counter argument to the parent Parent: *I don’t wanna hear anything else from you, go to your room*
@@mctartaglia615 what kind of parents did you grow up with, ya'll? Mine slap me or punch me if I do something as little as spilling something on the table or "talking back" (as in giving my point of view/side in an argument, or just trying to give them some advice.)
The third one is so real, remembering what my dad said about me needing more friends i tried to start up a conversation with a girl i saw at a library… she soon looked away and i panicked and noped out but baby steps here since usually I am introduced or someone comes up to me
It’s funny when they compare you to kids they know nothing about “Our neighbor is in a lot of clubs. Why can’t you be more like him?” He’s a C student who yells inappropriate things on a bus because he thinks it’s funny and he has an affinity for jumping off of neighborhood bridges in their free time. But okay, I guess I could be more like that if you want.
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Hey, another thing to add to that list: When you don’t have a bad attitude when you say something, then your parents tell you to lose your attitude, now I have an attitude because you told me to lose one that I didn’t have. I get really tired of this with my mom who does this all the time
Yes and this was uploaded in 2020 so u are copying
OH MAN YOU GAVE CREDITS BECAUSE WE SAW YOUR VOLUME SYSTEM, AWW MAN.
The most annoying thing is when you tell a joke to your parents and they turn it into a lecture
Tbh
Ikr my parents do that all the time
Ah yes
I feel headache coming from miles away just reading this comment.uuuuhhhhh 😵
LOOOL SO TRUEE
Parent: **is in a bad mood**
Child: **breathes too loud**
Parent: *smells like disrespect in here*
Yes! FACTS! Facts people facts
Exactly lmao
Lmfao!
It’s the new toothpaste I bought mom damn
This is my life 😅
mom: stop using your phone and come be social!"
also mom: candy crush level 8467
Me who uses SOCIAL media: 😑
EXACTLY
That’s my dad for me lol
He’s addicted
You have a bad mom if this happens to you
My mom when I see her candy crush account she is on level 2700 and higher or less idk
Parents: “Don’t be afraid to ask!”
Also parents: “did you just say why to me?”
@@XinT.Trelated
Yeah and every time I do ask they hit me with the “you should know this” and they want me to tell them everything but when I do they just use it against me
"Stop talking back!"
@@strawberystarlol, for me they hit me with the straight ol' belt
@@Kid_2007 their punishments have been getting worse😭😭 they straight up started burning me
Another annoying thing is when an adult or parent says “you know what you did and until you can tell me your grounded” and you genuinely don’t know what you did
My mom does something similar , instead of not telling me what I got grounded for she doesn’t tell me how long I’m grounded for
agreed
No offense but how do you not know if you did something....
@@delta390gt Because your parents don't tell you. Maybe you made a mistake, maybe they frame you for something to release their feelings if they're abusive, maybe you just don't know.
This happens all the time when u have to apologize (I don't ever apologize)
Parents watching this: I'm gonna pretend I didn't see that
My parents would totally do that, grizzly bear
that's why i don't like them they don't care
@@noname-wr4go Not all Parents tho 🙂
@@user-qd7me6fz4i I know
I'm so sorry I didn't touch my parents show me a picture I look through all these things because one day I told my parents cheating on each other
My parents know I want to become a nurse. So every time I have an argument with them, they always say: ‘You really want to become a nurse with that attitude?’
OMG SOOIII TRUEEEE expect not being a Nurse
Just say "it's called having an emotion"
well dealing with foks who think that you are below them comes with working as a nurse.
next time they give you that attitude you can thank them for training you to deal with karen shitheads.
I'm a nurse, your WILL need some attitude to get through nursing school and deal with the shiz nurses deal with. Learn when and how to use it, but one day it'll be your backbone And boundaries! 😊
Dad: *gives lecture about electronics and being on them all day*
Meanwhile: *dad playing World of Tanks all day*
my dad takes my sister's tablet all day :/
Parents after watching this : hmm tastes like disrespect
sad
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@@monito8823 You do owe them respect. They're the reason you have a roof over your head, they're feeding you, spending their money on you. But they do say some stupid shit every now and then. Just gotta deal with it until you get old enough.
😭😭
Parents: Buys pc for kid
Kid: uses pc
Parents: and I took that personally
What’s the point of parents taking the phones but they also bought it for them so it’s technically their fault
@@roslandero if you’re addicted to it...I don’t see why not
bc they love their children but they don't want them to play all the time
@@Mrpotatoes617 u can tell u r a parent lol
My dad bought a GAMING pc, and now he won't let me get games for it...
-_-
Parents: "Stop watching your phone they hurt your eyes"
Also parents: *watch Facebook for 24 hours*
"Don't force us to be social."
I live in a house I can't leave ever
Edit: I don't want to socialize btw, I just can't even see my friends which is annoying
Just leave when you grow up
@@riyasingh2729 I plan on it
Yeah i just want to go outside but i can't
I wear a mask outside of the house because of social anxiety and insecurities.
Mom, dad, FORCING me to take off the mask dosnt help.
Heck, it makes it fucking worse.
Social development takes lots of TIME 😞
Fr
Parents: “You should be grateful we raised you”
Me: “Hold on. This whole operation was your idea”
Parents: “we weren’t expecting special forces”
Ah yes when we were but an infant you had to ask for our consent to raise us 🤦♀️
Well... I mean, yes, we ought to be grateful to our parents
@Tara B of course we should. I’m speaking for those who are emotionally/physically abused by their parents’ toxicity
@Tara B Yes we should thank our parents for raising us healthy and happy. Remember other kids are extremely unlucky with their parents
"Why Can't You Be More Like Them?"
- " *Well I'm Sorry, Why Don't You Go Raise Them Instead?* "
Good one!
I meaaaaan
I know that
My parents have never said that to me.
Looks like you wanted to tell that to your parents for long time but could not get the courage.
lmao and my parents literally deny that they are addicted to their phones
My mom tells me to get off my phone WHILE being on her phone 💀
@@GimmieUrDonuts”your always texting you need to go outside more” *goes back to judging the other moms on Facebook*
“Cuz parents ain’t always right”
-Yungblood
Hell yeah! That’s a perfect lyric for this! 😊
I don’t like how parents start asking why we don’t act as good as other kids as if they live with them and as if they know how they really act instead of how they act in public
THIS
EXACTLY DAMN
You're grounded. Go to your room right now. Why don't you act as good as other kids. Smh.
My mom doesnt say that but god damn if she did i'd be pissed
@@alessandror7654 thanks
“I’m not arguing, I’m just stating out facts to prove why you’re wrong”
@@Demon_DX_ what does age have to do with you being right?
@@PapaToast263 EXACTLY
Tell it to your boss. Oh, wait...
@@PapaToast263 not if your parent is 40 year old junky with zero work experience, living off wellfare, having no friends, no plans for life. A LOT if your parent has his life put together, earns and supports you well, while being healthy and taking care of himself too. From the first parent you can't expect wisdom with age, from the second...that's that kind when they die and you are all grown up and you do have it all together, still you look at their picture and knowing that you lost your best friend and free life coach forever makes it feel all hurt and pain, because they were through your growing pains but didn't live long enough to see you're ok, doing well and you can never return the favor and say thank you. A Grownup person takes about 50 000 decisions everyday..some of them have extrem mental balast (mothers esp.) try to make living easier for each other. By not being demanding little narcissist.
@@britvica you sure you aren’t just talking about your own life :)
Bro we have to protect this guy at all cost🫡🫡🫡
my mom: get off your phone, you screen time is 5 hours.
her screen time: 12 hours, 49 minutes
You can’t forget about: “well, I’m the adult”, or “I don’t wanna hear it”, every time that they’re losing in an argument.
This one is true on so many levels. One time my dad pulled that crap during an argument and I answered back with: “Just because you’re an adult and have responsibility over me doesn’t mean you’re right all the time.” To his credit, he did say that that was true, but he just needed to taste a sliver of victory in the argument, so he said: “Still, I’m right most of time.”
Or “stop being disrespectful”
@@PapaToast263 Yeah that one too
@@Paul-gf6kp literally my dad yesterday bruh
You're not the adult, you're an overgrown toddler who thinks they have power because they can choose who has full power (voting)
Parents and kid: argues
Kid: says something reasonable
Parents: You're grounded
@Tristan Lane Its not much a view its reality. Parents don't think there child is smart enough to make up a reasonable debate so they come back at it with aggression because they have no idea how to handle it because parents should be the ones to know many things and teach there child that. Its not based on perspective, its reality
I like ur pfp
@Tristan Lane lmao true;-;
Me actually as a reasoning for something
My parents :- wHeN dId You HaVe ThiS aTTitUdE
True that
And then they respond with the classic “bEcAuSe I sAiD sOo” LIKE BRUH!?
Yeah, why can't parents actually be good role models instead of just raising their kids to be horrible people?
@@AdrieneTheDarkestHorse horrible people no have you heard of a spanking or discipline
This one is so true:
Mom: stop using your phone all the time
Also mom: (candy crush level 8999)
“Adults think it’s disrespectful when we don’t let them disrespect us”
How it goes, their house their rules. Even if it's their job to take care of you. Not every parent will have that mindset. That reminds me. Anyone reading this, what's your thoughts on making your child get a job wether they want to or not?
@@Crimbtw At the end of the day, you can’t FORCE your child to do anything. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. Parents do need to remember that their child is their own person, they’re not their property. Respect goes both ways.
@@Crimbtw also making your child get a job is very wrong. for one, it’s not their job to fend for themself. as long as they are with you, they are your responsibility. even in low income families, i was never forced to get a job because a parent decides to have a child, not the other way around, and by doing so you signed up to take care of them whenever they need it. you can discuss it with your child, but at the end of the day if they’re not ready then they’re not ready. you can teach a child how to handle money responsibly, how to have responsibilities, how to take care of themself without forcing a job upon them
@@babybrin5118 I think getting your kid a job is alright as long as it's been agreed upon by both the parent AND the child. It teaches them how the workplace operates and gives them experience, it also gives them a bit of money that's theirs which they can do whatever they want with it. However, if it is just the parent that wants the kid to get a job and the kid is opposed to the idea, the kid is at least owed an explanation as to why, and it should be made clear what the benefits are and if the kid is still opposed then it shouldn't be forced onto them.
@@susannah8342 yes! i agree 100%. i started working odd jobs from a young age and i worked in the field as soon as i was old enough to. but it was something my parent and i agreed upon. even she was hesitant at first, because she knows i’m a child and that it’s not my job to do that. that’s something i’ll always respect her for
Parents: Why you cant be like other kids?
Me: *Silence*
Me: Why cant you be like other parents?
Parents: *Trigerred*
Or when you say something completely reasonable that shows ur parents how dumb their logic is, they are just like „I DONT CARE“ or fricking ground you. I mean just why
Respect your parents. They do so much for you when you were younger, feeding you and looking after you and that's how you think of them? I'm glad I didn't grow up around these types of people, at least I can respect my parents
I hate when you say that they’re basically saying they need to replace you because of you because your Not good enough
@-黒い葉黒い葉 ikr
@@5shotslikerambo parents are people, so they make mistakes and aren’t perfect, but if they try to come at me with an argument with flawed logic I’ll point it out like I would with any other person, I’m not gonna sit there mute if they say something that is factually wrong, respect for parents doesn’t bend reality and it was never meant to
The thing is, when the parents say fo do the dishes when your in an ONLINE game with NO pause, they say, oh your so addicted keep it up and your going to end up on the streets, and the next 5 minutes they are playing candy crush on their phone when your hungry 💀💀💀
They taught us to respect them but they never respect us just because we’re “their child”
"You're just as addicted to technology as we are"
I am tired of saying this to my parents again and again.
Exactly they spend as much time on electronics as we do
And how is us doing stuff on our pcs and phones a waste of time in their eyes yet spending the entire day watching tv and talking isn't????
@@ninamarques341 How are parents going to say that it’s a waste if they bought the electronics
@@gghostiii Exactly lmao
But of course you can't use that argument against them anyway because "they're the adults they know better"
Ikr it's getting boring having to tell them the same thing over and over
@@ninamarques341 yep my mom also says that a lot
Parents during an argument: "don’t talk back to me its rude"
Me: *says nothing because they said so*
Also Parents during an argument: "why won’t you answer me???"
True
Relatable
Yup
Same
lmao I tried that and they were like ok it u don’t speak I will ground you
My mom will always say: you are to addicted to your phone. Meanwhile my mom can’t even hear me talking to her when she’s on her phone
Friend: “Why are you grounded”
Me: “Apparently I was being “disrespectful”
Me: politely disagrees with parents
Parents: knowing what I said was logical
Their response: *attitude*
Exactly
My Mother says: I MADE U AND U GOTTA BE RESPECTFUL BC IF THERE WASNT ME, U WOULDNT EXIST YOUNG LADY
My father says: *becouse i said so*
when that happens with me they hit me with the “you dont pay rent here”
LMAO SAME
I can’t win arguments even though I am completely right. So long as they think otherwise they won’t change their mind.
"Why can't you be like others kids?"
"Why can't you be like others parents?"
Thats definetly gonna get you grounded and/or scolded at
@@code_breaker3756 yep, i know how that feels. i swear some parents do that just to inflate their ego
Others*
@@IronHexacyanoferrate Don't correct someone for being wrong if your correction is wrong itself. The proper way to say it is others'.
Don't even try
I have experienced the chaos this sentence creates
My Breakup happened....and I started to be depressed.....But my parents instead of motivating.....told " I am showing them attitude"....And keep on saying...my attitude would kill me
.....But Till present my attitude and workout rocks 🔥🔥🔥
You got a Girlfriend/Boyfriend when you can’t spell and your comment looks like you were having a stroke while writing it?
Dont let anyone bring you dont and gaslighting you
My parents would just tell me I’m a brat if I said any of this lol
The most annoying this is when they call your name while you're in your room but after you say "what?" They never reply so you have to get up and go outside for it.
Why are you so relatable?!?!?!!!
This happens every single time. Even if I try saying what like 3 times
Lmfao
Oh my god yes!!! It’s like if you yell why can’t I
I yel what a couple times if no reply I continue sitting in my room😂
“can I go hangout with my friends”
“stop talking back”
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
"but I wasn-"
"GO TO YOUR ROOM"
yes
This one was actually funny
@@Myheartisburiedinvenice__ lol relatable
And yet I sent this to my mom then she just said I was 'dissing' her. Meaning parents will never understand us.
Having a “conversation”
Mom: you should study and get of that phone
Me: but I just finished my homework
Mum: don’t talk back and go do your work
Me in my head: I am not talking back
Isn’t that how a conversation works 🙄
When they start comparing you to other kids start comparing their salaries to other parents salaries
I bet they’ll just flip out and start saying how the money they earn is barely enough to raise us and that they work hard all the time to feed us
@@queeenie excuses they made with such a kid-like rage face ever
No thanks I'm okay keeping my head on my shoulders.
Nah, I'm good
@@ubitialcosmos fair enough lol
parents: Get off that phone it’s hurting your eyes
Also parents: Playing candy crush for the 7823467832472354th fricking time at 3am
The last one is so true, my mom would go on Facebook doing random stuff and go shopping on there for hours, same thing when she’s on instagram. And yet she still yells at me for being on my phone.
My mum: it’s because of that damn phone!!
Also my mum: *level 20987 on Candy Crush*
Fr
Sameeee not quite that level tho 😅
basically
Lol
Not to brag, but my mom is higher
Asian parents: “I’ll pretend I didn’t see that”
im playing this next to my mom.. things ARE AWKWAAARD.. im asian too.. lmao
Same lol
IMAO TBH MAH DAD N MOM IS LIKE CONFUSED AFTER SEEING DIS VID
I'm Asian too but why are your parents confused- your parents don't these things?
@@reyphobic Yes my parents do the problems in the video but they probably won’t listen to the guy who said the answer to all these problems
Parents are like another breed of human.
honestly i didn’t know how much i was hurting inside until i watched this. now i know that i’ve been treated so badly
Mother: "No! You won't be going out with your friends"
Literally while talking to other people: "I don't know why she's so antisocial, I want her to go out more and not stay inside home like a bat hiding in a cave"
Oh my god that's literally what my dad does. He gets mad at me for not having friends but I just never hang out with them because he doesn't let me. Which makes no sense.
@@peqnii3404 my mom's like that, I don't understand anything anymore. She says I should "get a boyfriend" but nags at me if I talk with my boy friends, says I should go out more but doesn't let me go out. This sucks bro
My mom: wHy iS mY cHiLd sO aNtIsOcIaL
Also her: _you should not friend anyone online_
_wHy aRe yOu aLwAyS cHaTtInG_
I feel like my mom is like that, me and the neighbors where playing around with the landlords porch and my mom screamed for me to come over to her so I did and never went outside unless it's school or going on a trip (my favorite) or going shopping
And now I'm missing the out doors ;-;
That is sooooo true ❤️❤️ only u can feel my feelings 😩
I will definitely NOT make my future kid feel like the shittiest dump on earth.
Just be careful though, I don’t want to sound rude or offensive but you would definitely want a good grade just try not to stress your kid out :D
@@jermi1181 :D
Yup same here 💀🙏🏻
Same here
@@uwugamingz5800 Yea I'm a 10 years old kid and I gets stressed out so much and so many times
My dad says this " GET OFF YOUR PHONE " LIKE FIVE MINUTES LATER HE'S ON HIS PHONE!? FOR LIKE FIVE HOURS
“Your just as addicted to technology as we are”
FAXXXXX
How come when parents say “because I said so” it’s a valid reason but if a kid says “because” or “because I said so” suddenly they’re all like “ThAtS nOt A rEaL rEaSoN”
I have purposely never said that to my kids, never will. It takes 2 seconds to explain a valid reason to someone.
@@Totalchaos0228 you are an amazing parent then😊
@@Totalchaos0228 Nice going. Make sure to never yell at them either
@@Totalchaos0228 we love that.
My mother has never used that and has a no hypocrisy tolerance she hold herself accountable too and she raised us better than most kids I see where the parents are lazy, like "hey I wanna go to the doctor to ask about something I'm worried about"
"Stop self diagnosing"
"Hey can you help me with the school work your mad at me for not knowing how to do"
"Pfft, no"
Plus not to mention when they say " don't do this" and immediately do it or their child makes a point and instead of acknowledging it and responding like a mature person they go to insults and shit. And then those parents wonder why once heir kid turns 18 they leave.
My dad says that it's cause children should respect their parents but parents don't have to respect their children 🥰🥰
welcome to the “parents never see this” series.
I think you mean:"parents literally won't care about these videos" series
@@z8318 yeah kind of 🤣 but before they even care they won't watch this www btw I copy this from the Chinese comment section so sorry for any mistake○|￣|_
i am a parent too and i saw it lol. i made the same experiences and i pay very much attention to everything i do or say, so my child doesn’t have to live it.
Yay I'm 15, and surely my parents not gonna watch this.. (sigh)
@@fa.ben-beauty1621 The world need more parents like this
#IRespectU
"privacy is a privilege not a right! i have full authority to go through your phone!"
I cannot tell you how relatable this is.
“You kids and your damn phones this generation is ruined”
*sits in his chair on Facebook all day*
Maybe they should blame the “problems” on the generation who raised us 🤷
@@crazy_pyromaniac it’s their generation that made the phones LMAO
So fucking true omg
wrong
@@jaitsu1616 for educational and to help people not for pple to be addicted smh
“When I was your age I didn’t even have this!”
My dear parent, I sincerely apologise for the person who invented this product
I MEAN REALLY THEY INVENTED THIS TO MAKE OUR LIVES EASIER AND WE’RE SUPPOSED TO FEEL GUILTY FOR USING IT
ok, let’s both live without houses, electricity, running water, or money and become Hunter gatherers. When we want some potato chips let’s grow potatoes, cut them with rudimentary tools, find oil, make a pan out of raw iron,
attempt to fry it over a fire, which we use sticks for, and finally mine for rock salt, then add it, and enjoy.
@@funeralruiner oh boy time to die trying to find out which berries aren’t poisonous!
it's funny because they will never admit it but if back then they had this high technology they would use it just like we do
"Look at that New gaming pc we bought you what you can just use for gaming"
"Yeah"
"Dont use it or you work for the Rest of your life at mcDonalds"
Yea we’re born to the generation of technology so it’s kinda natural now- ya can’t do anything about it
“Why won’t you let us do the things you said no to”
My mom: because I said so
As a parent, I wish I could like this more than once. 100% on everything you said.
Parents: “Pause the game”
Kid: “I can’t I’m playing online”
Parents: “PAUSE THE GAME-“
My mom did that to me once..like bish there’s no pause button!!
@@pineapple3555 exactly lol
Dude same adults don't understand you can't pause a game when your playing online. I tried many times to get my mum to understand that when she was still alive.
Then just close the game she is the one who bought you
@@obar2415 fr like damn who’s more important your parents or the game cuz i know damn well they bought you your pc / console
I don’t like people going through my stuff not bc I’m hiding something but bc it’s kinda my space
True soooo true
True my gallery is full of short piano things and pics of skies and some drawing ref fr but theres some boys i simp 4 in there so i dont like ppl going to my personal space if i wanna be alone leave me be fr i wanna do things alone on a room
Edit: wt flip... y do ppl like dis comment???????? Da ff?? But thanks for the likes tho
Edit 9th of February 2022:
Things have gone a lot. A lot better than it was last year with my father, we had serious talks and such, make me feel a lot closer to my father.
My father wasn’t really there physically when i was younger and no one was there to teach me.. stuff. So i was kind of a brat. I wont lie about that. But i think i am changing little by little. I think my daily life now is much better than it was. Which i am happy for. Mother is still working abroad so i am still not that content. Just a lil tho xD. I am pretty happy where i am right now. I do have ups and downs but its alright :}.
Yes same
Exactly,someone understands😊👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻❤❤
Yeah I don't want people to see my killua-
This reeks of “I’m a teenager and my mom doesn’t understand me.” That last one isn’t true at all. In the slightest sense.
"stop telling us to be social, that's something that will take time" Something that people who ain't social say
The fact they used the wrong “Your” At the end right after talking about school kills me
So your dead now
IN KIDDING IM KIDDING
That Prof pic scare me
Maybe that's why his parents are like that with him.
I mean, i learnt it from memes
Mom: "look at him , why can't u be like him"
Also mom : "stop comparing yourself to other kids"
This is so damn true and kinda hypocritical (for the parents I mean)
Why is this trueee
Ikr
I’m the kid the parents compare to. I’m so sorry for you guys.
Me reading mom (why cant you be like him) my mind ... BECAUSE IM NOT THEM SHUT THE FRICK UP LRT ME LIVE MY STYLEE
Me: "I don't owe you anything"
Parents: "I made you. Ungrateful. "
Me: "I DIDN'T ASK TO BE BORN. SHOOT ME GO AHEAD."
This is why I love my parents 🥺
They don’t say these things 🤩
"What's wrong?"
"Why do you ask...?"
"Don't give me that attitude!"
Okay dad, thanks?
or they expect us to tell them everything after acting like this video. like i am afraid of retaliation dude if i tell you i’m depressed how are you going to act? because i’m pretty sure when i told you you refused to get me help to take me to appointments and it wasn’t until 6 years later at the age of 17 that i was finally able
Why don't u tell them? Then they won't bother you. See heres the thing I see a lot of kids complaining about these but why don't u just answer them bc their there for you. They want to help u every way. So it's just my opinion of what u can do.
@@Cough_Dropppp If I don't know what he's referring to, I can't give him a correct answer. I really didn't know what he was talking about so I didn't get what he meant, everything was fine that day
@@Cough_Dropppp "they want to help you every way" bae, i'm glad you got nice parents, but not all of us are as lucky.
@@_shichiro_ well what if he was clear then what will u do? Also u can ask him "what do u mean?" Maybe that could work but if u tried it already just tell me to "shut up" kk?
My parents: forces me to stay inside and stay away from my friends because they say they’re a bad influence.
Also my parents: forces me to socialize with people after years of staying indoors away from people and friends.
Exactly 🗿
My parents didn’t let me go out because they were really paranoid. Now they’re always asking me why I don’t go out and why I’m unhappy with the current people I surround myself with and the current state of my life 💀
Isn't this the opposite scenario of what the video is said? This is why some parents push their kids to become more social
When I was like 5 my mom used to lock the door and hide the keys so I wouldnt go out (we was living in a place where gypsys were a lot and I can reason that but is too much) and I didnt knew how to play football till year 7 (from pe classes I learned and my father was in uk trying his best for a better life for us, my home country is turkey) I didnt enjoyed football and I felt left out by everyone in my school and when I moved to uk with my parents O had so much social anxiety and shyness but Im about to turn 18 now and I saved up for a nice car, I have a dream girlfriend and tons of frienda. Lucky me I could change, but there are people who arent fortunate as me.
Also she was forcing me to go out when we moved to uk like and I didnt wanted to all I wanted was play video games (till my 16.5s and then I think maturity hit me and I changed a lot like my appereance everything.)
Even my own Family tells me if I don’t study or go to school everyday I’ll be picking up trash on the streets for the rest of my life.
man. I wished my parents loved me
“Why do you always look at hour phone?”
Parents: *casually sits on the couch watching TV in 4 hours*
Exactly it’s so annoying like my mom is just over there like: “why are u always on you’re phone?!”
Her: casually sits on couch watching tv for hours and playing on her phone at the same time.
@@eggsandpancakeswittstrawbe3838 Same thing always happens here.
@@eggsandpancakeswittstrawbe3838 literally my mother hahaha
My family will be watching something and then my Dad is just on his phone looking at Facebook or something and we all have to rewatch the episode because he wasn’t playing attention
I barely use my phone the only time I ever see my mom away from her phone is when she forgets to charge it
"Dont talk back to me"
Isn't that how conversations work?
IKR !!
And then theyll say
Right go toyour room dont have cheek-
Ikr- and if I give a valid argument they're like- "gO tO uR rOoM" like dude I'm right face it ur not always right. And then they hv tell me that I'm not always right
"dont talk back to me"
"Then maybe don't ask questions?"
Not trying to be a party pooper but uh they’re saying “don’t interrupt me when I am talking.”
It's also the same thing where you set your phone down FOR LITERALLY LIKE 5 SECONDS and one of your parents gets up and checks your phone LIKE BRUH I RESPECT YOUR PRIVACY atleast do the same for us.
This happened when I got up for a glass of water, and mom went thru my history and I was like "bro stop I don't want you being nosy or smth" and she just changes the subject instantly like she didn't do anything.
Me: *Just casually going to the kitchen*
My mom: "Wash the dishes for me please."
My brain: "f*ck this, I don't wanna wash em' anymore! As if I'm REQUIRED to do it..."
Same for me tbh
Once I told my mom this, “When you tell me to do something that I’m about to do, it makes me not want to do it anymore.” And she told me this, “That doesn’t make any sense (my name), who cares?” And then she said I was talking back to her even though i was trying to tell her why I felt that way! And yeah, I was grounded for like 2 days 👍
@@Hehehehe935 Oof-
I'm only 19 (turning 20 next year) and if I tried saying something like that to my mom, I would've gotten a lecture from her in Spanish
And when our parents accuse us of something we didn't do,we try defend ourselves by telling them we didn't do it,but then they say we are back chatting 😑
Exactly 💯
Like this is so annoying 🙄
@@user-pe7ip7qh6r
They didnt even read the both ends of the tail and thats most annoying
I got yelled at for not doing the dishes I had just got home 5 minutes before
Yesss!!!!
"The other kids work hard why can't you be like them"
Who are the other kids?
"Your friend doesn’t use this in her TikToks why don’t you?" She literally got on me for using TikTok sounds with curse words in them and brung up the fact that my friend at the time used clean versions of hers. 😒✋
@Mikayla W Did you read?
@choovy The WEEB Your parents can't force you, they can only suggest to you.
For real I'm 8
@choovy The WEEB that's sad
Like seriously! Their like "u should be more like her, she actually listens to her parents."
This guy be talking facts fr
"do your homework"
"hold on."
"fine. i geuss youll just be living on the streets."
-every day of my life
I can feel it too😩
This way I'm demotivated
The main reason they act like that is mostly because they see it as the only way too get a job more or less
It's not as if the housing market would be any easier to navigate from having done this reading exercise on _Gatsby._ 🙄
i got so demotivated that accepted the fact that i'll live on the streets, and now i'm happy to live as a gamer with only 2 friends and hope that school let me pass without effort(it's not like i'd do smth it they don't)
Sorry kids but it's true 😂😂😂😂😂 . No school means you needs to reserve your place in street. 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭. We mums we loves you, so we want to be proud of you.❤💪
Parents were once teenagers....but apparently most of them stayed outside all day and never got in trouble according to my mum
Yeah apparently
Yeah I’m adopted and they’re 60+ and he always gives the “well I walked 2+ miles to my school everyday” “I stayed out in the sun doing farm work with no water and no breaks” etc
Bullshit. Chances are your parents behaved worse than you did
@bubbinator88 I am 13 myself and gosh.....kids my age are doing that?!
I mostly wear oversized hoodies and black leggings with tshirts
@Rei Bella Aguila
And becouse of that YOU DIDNT KNOW THAT WAS HAPPENING SINCE THEN TOO
Parent interrupting you: DONT CARE DONT CARE
You talking to oarent when theyre not even talking: STOP INTERRUPTING AND BACKCHATTING
Finally the worst crime you can ever do to your parents... Being factually correct in an argument
when i tell my mom shes just as addicted to electronics , i get "yes, but im the parent and 40"
Parents confuse the shit out of me. Like weren't you a child back then lmao
They didn't experience the same things we did though most parents nowadays we're born in the 70s or 80s
Yeah but back then all they thought about is "I gotta go to school and study my books to be successful and force my future kids to do way better than they can"
@@edithmarka3255 my mum and dad don't force me to do stuff better than them like that, and they were born in the 70s
Are you saying the majority thought like that?
As I’m getting older I realize that I can no longer remember a lot of the things that I wanted to improve about parenting when I was a kid. So when I’m a parent I’ll have to figure them out all over again :/
@@HL-777- Idk some parents are like that
parent: “i do everything around here!”
child: “need some help?”
parent: “no it’s okay i’m alright”
That do be true tho XD
So fucking true
You're godamn right.
The parents like Scream at you "HEY WHY ARENT YOU NOT HELPING" a few mins earlier "need help?" "No im fine honey"
Then: YOU never do anything! Your lazy!
Me: dude I asked to help you?!!! AhEm
The fact that some parents compare you to people they don't even know
“I’m sick”
Moms: ITS BECAUSE OF THAT STUPID PHONE
Parents and kid: argues
Parents: says something that’s not true
Kid: says something that is true
Parents: ur grounded
Kid: has valid point and logical reasoning
Parent: That is DISRESPECTFUL
Me: welp I tried, ues homemade climbing rope to get down and walks to friends.
Me arguing with like 3-5 total idiots every single day in a nutshell
That's actually true btw
Yep!
You're godamn right.
Parents: Bobby got all As, why can't you?
Me: *Bobby's dad makes 600k a year, why can't you?*
@Your Editor mm recommend not
My parents scold me over an 87
YES FOR REAL 🤣
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Hmm...tastes like disrespect
Bro my dad just did that 😭
“What’re you watching?”
And proceeds to try move to the tab I was watching Netflix on 💀
The comparing one hurts me so much. Everytime I get my grades they always compare me to my sister. So what? Yeah I know she's smart and I'm stupid. But it doesn't give you a reason to compare me. Every. Time. Because once you've compared me to someone it just adds to my insecurities, and I just end up wanting to change myself because of that, thinking I'm never enough..
"you're just a kid"
"stop acting like a child"
bRUH make up your mind???
So I have Adhd and so my emotions are more intense than the average person. So my parents will keep on telling me “your not 5 stop crying” like screaming isn’t gonna make me stop crying it’s just gonna make me drag on longer
Bruh stop
Same I don't get that
Both. Figure it out. When you do that you will be ready my son.
@@tteee7241 nah stop crying, it's really annoying. Also don't blame your condition on your failings. It makes you weak, better yourself. Be strong, stop being a victim.
The "your just as addicted to technology as we are"is so true, my mom spend all night on her phone but if I even pick mine up, she just goes crazy
Child: *Stays on technology/ device for "to long"*
Parent(s): *Goes completely Apeshit over it*
"b-b-but, the radiation!"
Ya think your Iphone doesn't have that too?
They say this but it was their doing lol
SAME!!
Does as your mom says, not do what they do
You have no idea how relatable this is
As an Asian kid I always ask why and my parents are like: “stop saying why or_______”
Parents: *Arguing with their kid over something
Kid: *Gives valid evidence to support claim/counter argument to the parent
Parent: *I don’t wanna hear anything else from you, go to your room*
That wold be in my case
SIKE, I DON'T HAVE A ROOM
Nah my parents ground me by not letting me in my room and force me to socialize with them.
I didn’t think parents actually say “go to your room” to their kids
@@mctartaglia615 Yes... yes they do, very often actually its like one of the most common phrases parents say.
@@mctartaglia615 what kind of parents did you grow up with, ya'll? Mine slap me or punch me if I do something as little as spilling something on the table or "talking back" (as in giving my point of view/side in an argument, or just trying to give them some advice.)
Me: Literally breathing
“Don’t go huffing and puffing at me!”
The third one is so real, remembering what my dad said about me needing more friends i tried to start up a conversation with a girl i saw at a library… she soon looked away and i panicked and noped out but baby steps here since usually I am introduced or someone comes up to me
It’s funny when they compare you to kids they know nothing about
“Our neighbor is in a lot of clubs. Why can’t you be more like him?”
He’s a C student who yells inappropriate things on a bus because he thinks it’s funny and he has an affinity for jumping off of neighborhood bridges in their free time.
But okay, I guess I could be more like that if you want.
I wish I could say this is 100% true but my dad is never on his phone my mom has a flip phone that she’s barely on
He also has severe depression
And is a superhero
Let’s just say his parent aren’t doing so well
Oof-
When my mother compares me to my older sisterd