I think they are an amazing and thoughtful and loving relationship but I think Sadie, as someone who has been in your shoes before and has a similar personality and sensitivity to the world, being on your own and navigating life on your own AND being COMFORTABLE with that is fundamentally crucial before thinking about being with someone else long-term. We all can only say from the place we are at NOW that something feels right but if you get deep in touch with yourself, you can find whether it is something that is right for you NOW or whether you see it longer term.
At 39, in a soon-to-be 9 years relationship with someone older than me, I still find myself wondering about the concept of “The One”. Compatibility is such a weird concept, because I think there is plenty of “more compatible” people around than the ones that are actually in our lives. But the people in our lives are often there for a reason, if we are deliberate about it. We grow with them, we change, hopefully for the better but we’ll always be adjusting, evolving. I know I can be SO happy when my gf shares something I love doing, but I try reminding myself that if she doesn’t I can be happy sharing it with someone else. Friends are great for that (and I definitely do not have enough of them lol). My gf is someone I can count on no matter what, someone that chose to dedicate her time and energy to build a life with me. Such a big deal compared to the details I often lose myself into.
@@SadieP oh thank you! I worry A LOT when trying to explain something (eng or ita, doesn’t change lol) So summarizing: we know the solution > solution entails managing new people in our lives > relationships with new people are hard to form and maintain > solution is not viable anymore 🤡 > need new solution
I appreciate the way you guys Q&A. So real and natural. For me, for my country age gap and same sex relationships are normal. If you get the chance to travel, you should come to Thailand. You guys will love it. 😊
Is it just me or P is more and more beautiful! 😅😊🙃 (Yeah, I do have a thing for "older woman" 😁) I think it is her hair and tan and being happy and authentic 😊 Sadie I can relate to you ❤️
Hey Sadie, please stop overthinking I've been watching your videos for years and I can feel that she's(don't need to mention your better half I think you got it lol) the one for you. You are such a nice couple. Love from Australia
I too get car sick Sadie. I find that traveling in the front and keeping my eyes straight ahead helps. Driving myself is even better so I’m almost always the one driving everywhere.
Sadie, there is no excuse to stop going places in the car. Because, there are motion sickness pills available at chemists. And as I told you before, sit on a paper bag in the car, this helps. Also you can buy a static strap to attach to th car. Make sure it touches the ground while driving. This is the oldest remedy ever. Good luck.
My twin flame and I are not together. But you guys make me think of us so much. I so relate to Sadie and her stillness and P needs to move just like my TF. When Sadie says, “I want a divorce“ and then a minute later says “I’m going wherever you go”. It’s like hearing myself. Sadie, on getting nauseous in cars. I have found I must always look ahead. No phone play or reading. Definitely no sleeping.
Wow! I didn't know you guys got married for real, was there a ceremony? Congratulations 💕. Sadie I do really enjoy listening to your music, can you challenge yourself to do more covers? that will be nice.
Great video and questions. Love when you're being so real. I wanted to share my experience on what you said that you don't like to disclose in public that you're a couple. My ex girlfriend was 21 years older than me and physically it was very obvious that I was much younger. We lived in London at the time and I was worried about being judged for sure. She was very relaxed and she refused to "hide" so we were always walking hand in hand and sometimes even kissed in public. No one ever said anything or treated us differently. It definitely depends on the place for sure though. More recently I was in Mexico with my more recent ex who is the same age as me and people were definitely staring sometimes and judging us even though the Caribbean area is very touristy and more open
I'm sorry that you have to do that. I'm half Iranian, half American, and I live in the US. I have never met my Iranian family in person, and I am scared that if they knew the real me, they wouldn't love me anymore, or even that they would hurt me, heaven forbid. So, if I was in Iran, I would probably try to leave too. God bless you on your journey. Be safe, and may you always have love.
We all have this feeling inside us, fear, we are afraid that our family will know who we really are, gay, I am from Morocco, I know if my family knows who I am, I will not have a family again, I disguise well in front of everyone so that they do not know my truth, but the truth is that I am tired of acting and hiding I like girls
@@alinaaaa6244 I know how much it is difficult, stressful and depressing to be gay in Islamic world, I wish one day Middle East and North Africa will be a safe and peaceful place for everyone
I too enjoy some of the black & white classic movies like P, and I too love L-Word, YOU, and Julie and Julia, Sound of Music, Mrs. Doubtfire like Sadie. Thanks for this fun Q&A and answering my question. Now I have another question though- regarding twin flames, P. seemed certain that you two are soulmates rather than twins, and my question is what leads her to this conclusion? Are there any characteristics of your dynamic together that brought you to this understanding?
I enjoyed this video a lot and enjoy your update I guess that’s what I would call it, and you both so cute together. Thank you so much for sharing this video and sending lots of love from Sydney Australia and hope the heat goes away soon it’s so hot there and also fires going on all over Europe.
I to get car sick but a little trick that my parents came up with when I was a kid that still works. On long trips I nap, drink ginger ale and try not staring out the window, break it up read, look at P and talk.
Ooh thats a recipe for disaster for me. The best thing is to sit in front, make sure I ate something beforehand, and to look out to a point as far off as possible to get a sense of the cars movements. If it’s a windy, curvy road though, forget about it I always get carsick 🤢
Thanks for the answer to my question. A tip you can wear the engagement rings in a necklace. But you decide what is best for you. We still love you. Have a wonderful day in the sun
Im just curious about Sadie's comment that she left Istanbul for fear of being judged for being gay. But isn't that what you are currently experiencing in Italy? No hate, just curious.
Italy is so much more accepting of gay people! Muslim countries in general are very scary when it comes to homophobia and crime rates related to that. Italy is definitely a huge improvement! We mostly just hide because of the huge age gap. But yeah there are lots of lesbians here. 😉
S eglatevi sempre con il cuore pieno di speranza in u granello di sabia ce l'universo acobaleno per i colori che rendono felici le persone una rosa per auguravi una stupenda giornata
Ragazze mi spiace per le vostre lumache ma noi li mangiamo lasciarlo tribolato con polenta e un buon vino amarene e per non lasciaci mancare niente tiramisù su e un limoncello e un buon caffe all'italiana vi saluto
@@luisa2278 the dynamic that first showed in their first videos (for example in drunk confessions, avoidant vs anxious attachment style, we almost broke up stories) is still so present in every one of their videos and it seems Sadie still suffers because of that.
I genuinely don't mean this in a malicious way, it's just that I genuinely care for Sadie and hate to see her in a relationship where her needs are not met and her (emotional) wishes never prioritized. C
Or you could say one of the strongest. Most relationships probably couldn't handle the amount of honesty this one has. The fact that they are able to be no-holds-barred honest with each-other about everything shows that there is a real strength to the relationship.
I haven’t been in that many relationships but I feel like this is the healthiest one I’ve ever been in/witnessed. Especially from growing up with domestic abuse as a reality in my parent’s relationship. I never wanted to experience something like that. And so I really manifested the sweetest person. She is so kind, funny and very accepting of me! Sure she doesn’t meet my every need but who does? There are always things that could be better. But the core of our relationship is strong because we wanna be in eachothers lives so badly, that we have become eachother’s family. I feel closer to her than my own blood relatives at this point. And that is something I will never give up..
I think they are an amazing and thoughtful and loving relationship but I think Sadie, as someone who has been in your shoes before and has a similar personality and sensitivity to the world, being on your own and navigating life on your own AND being COMFORTABLE with that is fundamentally crucial before thinking about being with someone else long-term. We all can only say from the place we are at NOW that something feels right but if you get deep in touch with yourself, you can find whether it is something that is right for you NOW or whether you see it longer term.
At 39, in a soon-to-be 9 years relationship with someone older than me, I still find myself wondering about the concept of “The One”. Compatibility is such a weird concept, because I think there is plenty of “more compatible” people around than the ones that are actually in our lives. But the people in our lives are often there for a reason, if we are deliberate about it. We grow with them, we change, hopefully for the better but we’ll always be adjusting, evolving.
I know I can be SO happy when my gf shares something I love doing, but I try reminding myself that if she doesn’t I can be happy sharing it with someone else. Friends are great for that (and I definitely do not have enough of them lol). My gf is someone I can count on no matter what, someone that chose to dedicate her time and energy to build a life with me. Such a big deal compared to the details I often lose myself into.
This was so well said!!!! I agree. And i do need more friends as well 😂
@@SadieP oh thank you! I worry A LOT when trying to explain something (eng or ita, doesn’t change lol)
So summarizing: we know the solution > solution entails managing new people in our lives > relationships with new people are hard to form and maintain > solution is not viable anymore 🤡 > need new solution
I love and admire just how candid you are with yourselves, each other and your viewers! It's so refreshing. so much love to you both x
I appreciate the way you guys Q&A.
So real and natural.
For me, for my country age gap and same sex relationships are normal.
If you get the chance to travel, you should come to Thailand. You guys will love it. 😊
Is it just me or P is more and more beautiful! 😅😊🙃 (Yeah, I do have a thing for "older woman" 😁) I think it is her hair and tan and being happy and authentic 😊
Sadie I can relate to you ❤️
Hey Sadie, please stop overthinking I've been watching your videos for years and I can feel that she's(don't need to mention your better half I think you got it lol) the one for you. You are such a nice couple. Love from Australia
I appreciate your unflinching honesty!
I did enjoy that. It was a nice update. I love it when you get real. That's what it's all about, right?! Lots of love, Marieke
I too get car sick Sadie. I find that traveling in the front and keeping my eyes straight ahead helps. Driving myself is even better so I’m almost always the one driving everywhere.
Cinema paradiso is just a beautiful film - it’s a treat
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Thank you for sharing this
Sadie, there is no excuse to stop going places in the car.
Because, there are motion sickness pills available at chemists.
And as I told you before, sit on a paper bag in the car, this helps.
Also you can buy a static strap to attach to th car. Make sure it touches the ground while driving.
This is the oldest remedy ever.
Good luck.
Omg thank you for answering 💗, it was so good knowing your life goals, you guys are really therapeutic✨
Good for you P.
I wish you well. Trust your intuitive self. Your deepest soul will guide you to your truth and your ultimate destiny. 💓
Sadie you're like a gorgeous disney princess, just like an ice cream softie(sanely) 💗
My twin flame and I are not together. But you guys make me think of us so much. I so relate to Sadie and her stillness and P needs to move just like my TF. When Sadie says, “I want a divorce“ and then a minute later says “I’m going wherever you go”. It’s like hearing myself.
Sadie, on getting nauseous in cars. I have found I must always look ahead. No phone play or reading. Definitely no sleeping.
Yes I never look inside when I’m in a car! But I still get super carsick on the windy mountain roads! 😂 🤢
Hahah Sadie "I'm coming where you go" sooo cute
I’m the same, survive. Love you two
Wow! I didn't know you guys got married for real, was there a ceremony? Congratulations 💕. Sadie I do really enjoy listening to your music, can you challenge yourself to do more covers? that will be nice.
No ceramony. We actually talk about it in one of our past videos called “2 girls 1 marriage”
As for covers, I can’t promise anything 😅
Great video and questions. Love when you're being so real. I wanted to share my experience on what you said that you don't like to disclose in public that you're a couple. My ex girlfriend was 21 years older than me and physically it was very obvious that I was much younger. We lived in London at the time and I was worried about being judged for sure. She was very relaxed and she refused to "hide" so we were always walking hand in hand and sometimes even kissed in public. No one ever said anything or treated us differently. It definitely depends on the place for sure though. More recently I was in Mexico with my more recent ex who is the same age as me and people were definitely staring sometimes and judging us even though the Caribbean area is very touristy and more open
Sadie I can relate to your experience so much, I don't want to move to another country but I have to because I'm lesbian and I'm from Iran
I'm sorry that you have to do that. I'm half Iranian, half American, and I live in the US. I have never met my Iranian family in person, and I am scared that if they knew the real me, they wouldn't love me anymore, or even that they would hurt me, heaven forbid. So, if I was in Iran, I would probably try to leave too. God bless you on your journey. Be safe, and may you always have love.
@@storybellz ❤️🙏🏻
We all have this feeling inside us, fear, we are afraid that our family will know who we really are, gay, I am from Morocco, I know if my family knows who I am, I will not have a family again, I disguise well in front of everyone so that they do not know my truth, but the truth is that I am tired of acting and hiding I like girls
@@alinaaaa6244 I know how much it is difficult, stressful and depressing to be gay in Islamic world,
I wish one day Middle East and North Africa will be a safe and peaceful place for everyone
@@raha704 yes m2😔
I too enjoy some of the black & white classic movies like P, and I too love L-Word, YOU, and Julie and Julia, Sound of Music, Mrs. Doubtfire like Sadie.
Thanks for this fun Q&A and answering my question.
Now I have another question though- regarding twin flames, P. seemed certain that you two are soulmates rather than twins, and my question is what leads her to this conclusion? Are there any characteristics of your dynamic together that brought you to this understanding?
I enjoyed this video a lot and enjoy your update I guess that’s what I would call it, and you both so cute together. Thank you so much for sharing this video and sending lots of love from Sydney Australia and hope the heat goes away soon it’s so hot there and also fires going on all over Europe.
I to get car sick but a little trick that my parents came up with when I was a kid that still works. On long trips I nap, drink ginger ale and try not staring out the window, break it up read, look at P and talk.
Ooh thats a recipe for disaster for me. The best thing is to sit in front, make sure I ate something beforehand, and to look out to a point as far off as possible to get a sense of the cars movements. If it’s a windy, curvy road though, forget about it I always get carsick 🤢
I dont ever throw up though so i guess that’s my silver lining 😅
love you both ❤️ so much
Thanks for the answer to my question.
A tip you can wear the engagement rings in a necklace.
But you decide what is best for you.
We still love you.
Have a wonderful day in the sun
That’s actually a really cool idea!
Im just curious about Sadie's comment that she left Istanbul for fear of being judged for being gay. But isn't that what you are currently experiencing in Italy? No hate, just curious.
Italy is so much more accepting of gay people! Muslim countries in general are very scary when it comes to homophobia and crime rates related to that. Italy is definitely a huge improvement! We mostly just hide because of the huge age gap. But yeah there are lots of lesbians here. 😉
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S eglatevi sempre con il cuore pieno di speranza in u granello di sabia ce l'universo acobaleno per i colori che rendono felici le persone una rosa per auguravi una stupenda giornata
Cute video ❤
Love you gays from Africa
Really wanted a slug but I live in Brazil :'(
Oh shoot! Im really sorry I wish there was a shipping option from italy to brazil but it’s just ridiculously expensive! 😢
@@SadieP I can imagine 😞
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Sadie how did OUAT not make your 10?
I love the first season but the rest of it really wasn’t my favourite to be honest. I couldn’t even sit through the last few seasons! 😂
Ragazze mi spiace per le vostre lumache ma noi li mangiamo lasciarlo tribolato con polenta e un buon vino amarene e per non lasciaci mancare niente tiramisù su e un limoncello e un buon caffe all'italiana vi saluto
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What do y’all do for a living ? To make money
TH-camr for Sadie
p ...my.....you vaccum while she sleep....nonono lack off respect that i would not be please next time wait
jesus checking in after two years and this is still THE most toxic relationship I've ever seen...
Could you share your opinion on why? 😅👀
@@luisa2278 the dynamic that first showed in their first videos (for example in drunk confessions, avoidant vs anxious attachment style, we almost broke up stories) is still so present in every one of their videos and it seems Sadie still suffers because of that.
I genuinely don't mean this in a malicious way, it's just that I genuinely care for Sadie and hate to see her in a relationship where her needs are not met and her (emotional) wishes never prioritized. C
Or you could say one of the strongest. Most relationships probably couldn't handle the amount of honesty this one has. The fact that they are able to be no-holds-barred honest with each-other about everything shows that there is a real strength to the relationship.
I haven’t been in that many relationships but I feel like this is the healthiest one I’ve ever been in/witnessed. Especially from growing up with domestic abuse as a reality in my parent’s relationship. I never wanted to experience something like that. And so I really manifested the sweetest person. She is so kind, funny and very accepting of me! Sure she doesn’t meet my every need but who does? There are always things that could be better. But the core of our relationship is strong because we wanna be in eachothers lives so badly, that we have become eachother’s family. I feel closer to her than my own blood relatives at this point. And that is something I will never give up..