I just wanted to say thanks. Because of your videos I am now dating a beautiful woman. I am 63 and was recently 'dumped' by my 60 year old girlfriend. I took to heart what you say about acting and believing that I am the prize. Now I am dating a beautiful 35 year old women who is completely infatuated with me. I can't believe how changing my mindset has increased my attractiveness to women. It is truly is amazing! Thanks again.
He IS talking about people who are interested. He's not talking about misleading girls or making fake peronalities to make a girl like you bc it is about girls who already have some kind of interest in you. He is just giving advice to boys who act really needy and can't be theirselves around girls they like bc they are afraid to ruin it, this scares girls away and has nothing to do if she feels attracted to you or something. Furthermore in the video they say to NOT go after her if you watch the video, especially with the "no stalking" rule. He gives advice how to fucus on yourself and NOT CHASING her and in that way getting the girl (back) you really like.
5 WAYS TO MAKE HER MISS YOU: 1. Pre-Emptive - Time Capsules: Wear distinctive cologne, or have an inside joke, or conversation that she only has with you. 2. Leave on a high note: Have her associating good vibes and high notes with you. Don't stay too long, leave when it is good, on a high note. Stop putting her under pressure. Time your stays. Be the one to end it. Leave her wanting more. 3. NO Stalking - No social media stalking; you will come across things that will set you off. Less in better to keep you less jaded and reactionary about what she is doing. 4. How to use social media to make her miss you. No heavy handedness. Don't try to make her jealous. She has you and she knows it, if you are trying to make her jealous. 4a. Mystery & Jealousy - Make them wonder, don't reveal too many details. Don't tell them who, say just as friend. Add Mystery, Beer and an Apple Tini take photo put on social media. 5. Competing - try to show her that she doesn't have any power over you. If she calls, maybe you need to be busy and not available to you. Introduce new interests, like snow skiing, adventures. you post online. 6. Bonus * Be Different - when a woman has power over you - she expects you to work a certain way around her, how fast you text her back; Power dynamic for your following her rules, you have to bust up her rules, that favor her. Change your looks, grow a beard, dress different, than what she was used to when you were with her. Eliminate subtle mistakes. Change it up, be unpredictable.
@@Davidgoldd never met a cool David in my LIFE...met alot of David's I took there girl from and not a one had the man in him to take her back...you caught me on a good day so let's bury the hatchet In your head..
Always leave them wanting more Never tell them too much Always leave them wondering Never give it all away because if they know everything about you then the intrigue is over
One tip for long term relationship: As a woman I don´t say I understand all women´s motifs but I understand the best one. You love yourself not for what you say but for what you feel in present moment its spontaneity and happiness woman loves you for the same reason not for things you say but for things you feel at the moment, but dont say them (the things the guy thinks in head subconsciously and unknowingly, without preparation) with spontaneity and happiness because if she is a normal nice woman her only dream is to have a guy who is spontaneous and happy happy men easily fall in love Preparation is good, but at the same time its annoying. Preparation is opposite of spontaneity and happiness. I mean when you go to buy an ice cream you feel spontaneous and happy,, you dont prepare long speech to get the ice cream you just buy it because you feel spontaneous and happy at the moment and every woman who dreams about falling in love also dreams about this one moment of happiness with the guy, the feeling that he is happy to see her and meet her. because she cares of his happiness, other wise she wouldn´t fall in love with him if the happiness doesn´t go both ways. if you buy a car and you start to prepare in your head all the reasons about why you need car and for what reason and start to analyze everything for two hours your level of happiness drops down and you feel no joy from buying the car because of analyzis - paralyzis the same is about women they want you to feel happy at the moment, so she may get closer to you, and feel the moment of happiness because it makes her happy that you can not hide the happiness because you were not prepared for falling in love with her no protocol prepared you for falling in love therefore starts to be spontaneous, because love can not be prepared starts to have unexpected feelings but I am not talking about some sex on first date, or flirt, I am talking about long term relationships. this moment of happiness and spontaneity women dream about she dreams about guy who dreams about her with a happy thoughts she doesn´t want a man who is unhappy who doesn´t understand what happiness means etc The only problem is a chemistry but even chemistry may come later if both are humble and nice
I personally think that sometimes true love can end by such a trivial moment. That's the hardest thing to deal with if you realize it. I am not old but old enough to know when you really become true to yourself you will either find reconciliation, the answers, or start your new life. I hope the best for everyone.
"No stalking." Very true. I unfollowed her on FB and muted her on IG. Crisis averted; I'm staying busy, as well. Makes it much easier not to see anything from her pop up on your timeline. I also end up not unfriending/unfollowing her, which raises a red flag with her. I could always just click on her profile, but for me, that's something I can resist doing very easily.
*The key tips here really show how it's not about playing games but about creating genuine emotional space. Sometimes giving her time to miss you is more powerful than constant contact!*
Thanks for taking the time to make content. Enjoyed the Scrambler material. I never had a dad so I never learned any of these things. All the shit my mom taught me about how a man should be towards women is 100% the reason I always got taken advantage of, taken for granted, or left for the first grass-is-greener opportunity she found. Since applying your material, I noticed and immediate change in the way women I'm pursuing act towards me without feeling like I'm being manipulative or playing games. My ex, whom I sobbed over for YEARS and never thought I'd get with again, is blowing me up now. We just got back from an amazing camping date last weekend. And now I'm not even sure if I want her back. Her best friend even started hitting me up! Thank you, thank you, thank you! I can't say it enough! Thank you!
Hi J Timberpate...i need some Scrambler advice if can help me out.... Last nite I paid the dinner ..with my gf who broke up with me twice...while driving home I had a argument with her in the car over a picture of her with a man she said just a Yoga instructor..i told her if she has new bf and dont love me she can leave and I will Walk away and never look back if she want 3rd breakup is The Final ... I told her I have other women option...she got angry and open my car door want to leave and said since I have other women and she will never have sex with me if I have other women blaming me for this 3rd breakup..I grab her hand and tell her come back to the car that I dont have other women and I love her...she was agitated as I am ...we make love and she said she trust me this time and told me to trust her ....I told her the last 2 breakup she said she will never leave me but she left...I told her if she really love me then dont ever try to open door and leave ...she said she is Not jealous i have other women but she dont want me have sex with other women and then come to her...I could not walk away..what should i do and say...because she set boundaries to only meet me Once a week for sex ( last year we used to make love almost every day at least 4x a week )...she dont want to text me everyday and if she does text me she expect me to reply her asap...but she also say I can not text her unless she text ...her reason is she only want me to focus on my job...and not on her and told me to trust her and stop me goin to her gym to check on her and that Yoga instructor in her picture who she said she dont love anyone except me ??
Bobby Rio despite the content, the most important thing I got from the scrambler was getting my mindset right and focusing on my improvement. I really appreciate you and robs teachings.
Hi friend I got my broken relationship fixed with the help of this great spiritualist who brought my partner Back in 48hours after many years of separation.💯❤🎯💤✅💯***
You are so right about wearing the same cologne to remind her of you.I remember a girl i went out with and she used to wear Este lauder youth dew every time i smell that i instantly think of her and that was forty years ago.
Quite simple. Don't give a toss. Even if you do. I don't mean go to extreme lengths. But do not be all over her. Guys need to get out of the way. Don't need her. That's her job....for her to NEED you. Don't reply instantly to her texts. Do other things. Finally...if she dumps you...if she goes on other dates....don't care! Don't fight it. Just let it go. No contact. Zip....nadda.
It is not a woman’s job to need anybody. Sorry to break it to you, but woman can be independent too. If my partner ever told me this, I seriously would break up with them. This is how you end up alone, sure you could some desperate enough person to sleep with you, (if you’re lucky enough and he/she/or whoever is mentally deranged enough) but you will never really be in a relationship with this kind of attitude, plus it’s borderline passively aggressively sexist.
This guy’s got it all wrong. Just look her in the eyes and tell her your from the future and if she doesn’t sleep with you, everyone will die.... by fire. You got to mean it though, really connect with her.
They should teach this stuff about relationship at school that the biggest problem today with marriages divorces better than learning how many stars are in galaxy haha
Teaching this in a school is not needed. Just go on the internet or learn from experience,plus I don't think to many parents will be happy with there sons learning about how to get a girlfriend instead of academics.
Heart connections are way more important that control tricks...Love doesn't control.. Love is being what they need..YOU WONT HAVE TO CONTROL A WOMAN IF ITS THE RIGHT ONE!😀
I just want to say thank you to you and Rob Judge. Just listening to the Scrambler I realized my perspective was totally skewed, and the biggest thing holding me back was actually some codependency and emotional immaturity I had blinded myself to. These tips are great, too, and it turns out I instinctively did 2 of them lol. As far as what you could do next, I think a little something on being autonomous would greatly help a lot of people. Most who I see trying just end up playing more complicated roles rather than being themselves, and to be honest, I don't think most people know how to be themselves.
And you saw that we don’t need people to show us what we see that most just don’t know how to be themselves and if you are your gonna get hurt cuz “No one can keep that up”🙄 if that’s just me I don’t know how to change or be someone else, refuse to wear masks. That’s our problem add social media and no one really interacts it’s just words. I don’t want words I don’t spew em and not show the Actions behind the words🤷🏼♂️ most just cannot do the same
Bobby, man you are genius.I watch this video today and my ex used to just send me message during her bed time.Today she sent me message while her dinner, I just gave her a like without saying nothing.She again sent me some kind of quotes that am silent.I didn't replied her back While her routine bed time message she tried to be smarter by asking me about what I have done today and she concluded her message with am tired ,feeling sleepy so goodnight and bye.I read it without replied.After 15 mins she message me back asking me about my plan for tomorrow.I replied her in a very short sentence that I need to wake up early to go somewhere . After 5 mins she send me a song saying those evening in the past was something and this evening is something else.lol...I even didn't replied.Your advise is an instant magic.
Hi Richie I need advice if can help me out.. How to make her earn me back.. I try not to show anymore love to her as she put little effort saying we already a couple she dont need to proof and sex once a week is a Proof So I didnt want to invest on her on reply to her text and this love become fake when I want to lead by telling her what to do she say no ..she say she feel stress doing what I want her to she feel force i felt she no longer love me as much and does not respect me enough to listen like before How to not be her Text Buddy only... as she dont want to see me more than once a week For past 2 month she text me everyday Goodnite kiss and Good morning kiss without any message on what she doing everyday I have no clue what she doing.. I didn’t reply I love u when she did and I didnt say I miss u she was confront me why I dont love her anymore i told her because it was her fault she broke up with me twice.. Our conversation mainly become text but I only set dates with her without any pet name..though she called me as Honey She is upset and she will not text me if I dont reply I told her it was her who took me for granted This become a fight I don't know what should I do
@@fj4731 My friend just keep in mind as long as you chase her,she gonna away from you.Never say sorry to her.Give her the space in meanwhile do not text her anymore .Chile out with friends and make new friends to keep your mind busy.I am even not yet settle completely but she agree to meet me.Please do not send any goodnight, good morning or any sorts of quotes.If really she loves you, definitely she will make the first move.All the best my friend.
@@richiesubron5003Thank u very much ... I still confuse what is the right course of action getting my gf back from breakup I had tried 2 month to be fun and playful but the Honeymoon soon became she having too much ..I dont understand what I do next …give space let her come back and then repeat the fun and playful then Hot and cold again…will this become mentally unhealthy for her and me ? Is spending good dinner and good lunch with her putting her on Pedestal? Is holding her hand and the one to ask for a kiss become a Beta Needy.. How do I make her have a Crush and be submissive instead of her sitting there waiting for me to lead
@@fj4731 If you 2 broke up then take your attention elsewhere. You aren't together anymore, so you need to focus on yourself and accept that it's over just now. It doesn't mean it will always be over, but for now it is the way it is and you need to start moving on. Stop trying to get her back, just leave her alone completely and go cold because if you keep trying to get her back you'll only keep pushing her away. If she really cares, she'll start to feel your absence and will get back into contact with you, but you NEED to make her feel that absence. Meanwhile, you need to let go of her and rebuild yourself. Start working out, hang out with friends, get back into your hobbies or find new ones, take your focus off of her. If things were complicated then maybe it just wasn't meant to work between you 2. Time will make that clearer to you. It will be hard to start with but it will get easier, bad times pass.
Everything you say is so true I'm guilty of everything you mention ...sometimes it's best to cut certain women off completely they're not worth the trouble ....great video and I'm sure if people take in what you say and don't forget then in many cases you'll save alot of people heart ache ...
He’s saying introduce new interests into your life. I advocate consistently having new interests . I rock climb, lift, play piano and ride my motorcycle ~ standards that will always be there. But I also take weekend trips to Tahoe, Yosemite, SF, go to concerts, do the art walk in town (and loads of towns have them). But I find new shit to do constantly ~ even bowling is a change of pace. It doesn’t have to be glorious, just a new thing. Gonna add parachuting to my list. But that’s my list. You do you and do something more than watch TV.
For me, I did these things unintentionally…until I really liked some girl(barely happens) and things became sour. Now I’m seeing “oh snap, that’s what I did wrong, let me just take it back to the basics” This is gonna work…whether she pulled away, lost interest etc. it always works. 😌
Hi friend I got my broken relationship fixed with the help of this great spiritualist who brought my partner Back in 48hours after many years of separation.💯❤🎯💤✅💯***
He’s right! I never take the guy that touched base seriously- even if I really like him. Just make fun plans with me and we’ll grow to like each other. That’s it
Dating shouldn't be complicated. If you have to watch videos and use different tactics to get a girls attention then she's not the one. Just invite a girl out to do something fun and see how you vibe with each other. It's as simple as that.
I dont know man. We might be naturally inclined with women skills. I just call it common since. But there are some guys I coach that dont have the ability and naturally come across as creepy in some situations with female but then are good in other areas. They need people like this guys to break things down to them. This video is more basic then advanced level but some guys aren't ready for the advanced stuff. They need to here the basics to understand what they are doing wrong and usually helps them not only get better with females but actually better in approaching life period, work, social life etc.
Not agreed. He's talking about someone who already is interested in you. Not about misleading tricks to trick a girl into liking you, or give you fake peronalities to get a girl or something. He's giving advice to boys who act needy and kinda ruin it when they have a girl they like, simply bc they don't know how to act, and because of that, push her away. Furthermore it's not that easy just to make a connection and "just have fun with a girl" like you said. Because some people are so fucused in hoping she likes him, they can't be theirselves and act uncontrolably needy and too nice, just because they are so nervous with her around and that can scare ppl away. This has nothing to do with if she is interested in you or not
She will see you as a SIMP and ghost you on the spot. We all know this now, from personal experience. How many intimate relationships have you ever had with a female?
Great video. Pretty accurate. Its wild that some people are just naturally inclined and know and understand all said in this video. There are people out there that really dont know and understand this stuff that to some people is just common sense. That's great they have videos for people that dont know at all how a women think and what is appropriate behavior etc with female. In a nut shell dont be creepy and behave highly valuable (work on yourself). Lots of respect for this guy in the video doing a good deed for guys that really need the help.
Hi Jordon Smith ...i need some Scramble advice if can help me out .... Last nite I paid the dinner ..with my gf who broke up with me twice...while driving home I had a argument with her in the car over a picture of her with a man she said just a Yoga instructor..i told her if she has new bf and dont love me she can leave and I will Walk away and never look back if she want 3rd breakup is The Final ... I told her I have other women option...she got angry and open my car door want to leave and said since I have other women and she will never have sex with me if I have other women blaming me for this 3rd breakup..I grab her hand and tell her come back to the car that I dont have other women and I love her...she was agitated as I am ...we make love and she said she trust me this time and told me to trust her ....I told her the last 2 breakup she said she will never leave me but she left...I told her if she really love me then dont ever try to open door and leave ...she said she is Not jealous i have other women but she dont want me have sex with other women and then come to her...I could not walk away..what should i do and say...because she set boundaries to only meet me Once a week for sex ( last year we used to make love almost every day at least 4x a week )...she dont want to text me everyday and if she does text me she expect me to reply her asap...but she also say I can not text her unless she text ...her reason is she only want me to focus on my job...and not on her and told me to trust her and stop me goin to her gym to check on her and that Yoga instructor in her picture who she said she dont love anyone except me ??
Hi Jordan I need advice if can help me out.. How to make her earn me back.. I try not to show anymore love to her as she put little effort saying we already a couple she dont need to proof and sex once a week is a Proof So I didnt want to invest on her on reply to her text and this love become fake when I want to lead by telling her what to do she say no ..she say she feel stress doing what I want her to she feel force i felt she no longer love me as much and does not respect me enough to listen like before How to not be her Text Buddy only... as she dont want to see me more than once a week For past 2 month she text me everyday Goodnite kiss and Good morning kiss without any message on what she doing everyday I have no clue what she doing.. I didn’t reply I love u when she did and I didnt say I miss u she was confront me why I dont love her anymore i told her because it was her fault she broke up with me twice.. Our conversation mainly become text but I only set dates with her without any pet name..though she called me as Honey She is upset and she will not text me if I dont reply I told her it was her who took me for granted This become a fight I don't know what should I do
Just disappear. Ghost her. Ignore her messages, don't like any picture of her, don't watch her stories. If she's meant to come back, she will, il not, move on.
Even if you go back, this video is about getting that someone’s attention, which means they broke up with you, in which both of you should move on and not insult eachother.
Ha! just FYI: I took the 'free' quiz, three times and answered each differently, and each 'conclusion' from the test stated the same answer: "You have certain habits that might be causing women to “pull away”…" i.e.: "You need to buy my game shit I'm selling" This was also the case even when I would choose each answer that a narcissist would answer e.g.: forgetting her birthday, being the first to hang up from a phone call etc. The test rated me 'too nice' even though I intentionally chose answers that a garden variety insensitive 'jerk' would choose. The test is a scam, as well as all the politically correct fantasies he's pushing. And all the good commenters are shills -- obviously paid to post 'generic' positive comments.
Can’t agree more. My philosophy is that if a girl is not interested in you, there is not much you can do to gain that interest. If a girl likes you very much, there is very little you can do to mess up. This video is trying to sell their course, so they put a lot of emphasis on what guys do that matters. In reality, whether a girl likes you or not is already predetermined based on our looks, personalities and the way we act and talk.
@@rayyoung1293There is a channel called "Wheat Waffles" that did an entire video effectively debunking guys like Bobby Rio and others selling advice on how to get women.
Bobby, you really know your stuff. I am a lot older than you and not in the dating market but the mistakes I have made are the ones you bring up in your videos.👍❤😂
I find that the longer I’m away from her.. the better we do. If we move back in.... it’s all going to go to hell! We can flirt, cut up, meet up every other weekend and have some fun and do family stuff but she’ll be going back home in another state. When shes all irritated and u happy... I’ve only got a couple days and I can rebuild again. Quite a task to emotionally detach but i think I’m getting the hang of it
I dated a girl once that, the relationship was awesome but she had to move away for a job so we had to breakup. She deliberately bought the calogne I wear and just had it by her nightstand.
The sad part is most women, this day and age, are broken, damaged and cold due to extremely poor choices in their life and they only want something they can't have and then don't want it when they do get it... like little kids... a man has to put himself in a place of being constantly distance
Thanks for that..I know it first hand unfortunately.. I've been a musician most of my life and although I've NEVER been a cheater, as long as they thought and feared I could, they were completely, totally mine and faithful... as soon as they were secure in my feelings they turned to crap.
@@txtamaman if every single woman has done that.... YOURE the common denominator. its not that youre a “good guy” because clearly you arent. you genuinely think its more plausible that EVERY SINGLE WOMAN ON EARTH is shitty and not.... that YOURE the shitty one
Girls are too difficult bruh Let’s live our lives, I guess this rewires us to be the way they’re attracted to us without us even knowing or doing it purposely
I have never had trouble meeting women and if I really put in effort can get beautiful women . The biggest issue I have goes like this - I get bored easily in the relationship and so I fall into bad habits. We then split up and I end up missing these women. My head is truly my biggest enemy that I will never conquer.
Hi friend I got my broken relationship fixed with the help of this great spiritualist who brought my partner Back in 48hours after many years of separation.💯❤🎯💤✅💯***
Bobby Rio I have never done anything like you mention,I just did the normal conversation,we bonded,we got married for 25yrs.If I tried ALL your views I would never get a woman to miss me.I'm 74yrs old and managed before you were born.I still have a young woman eyeing me up because I devorced my wife.
Just act like you are so over her and really couldn't care less but yeah, if she wants to "go out" i will give her a ring or at least a text when i get some free time because my life is just a bit complicated at present. Don't get me wrong, i mean i like you and everything buuut....
You don't make decisions with your front brain when it comes to attraction. It's a fact sorry girls are genetically predisposed to ditch dudes if they show weakness and be unattracted to them and you're genetically predisposed to be attracted to ones that don't show any sort of weakness how do you think we all got like this? us men hiding our emotions since the beginning of time ?go watch girls videos and stay off our turf no girls allowed here it's like a fort and you're not invited hahaha ! go on get with your kind I just gave you the White Fang , I bet you're so cute like my doggy. Wanna hang out ? :) ;)
That’s cool, but why would someone want to go back to a relationship that already failed, what’s stopping it from crashing and burning again and in the same way it did before. and guys shouldn’t change themselves for a girl, if she didn’t like you for who you are, it’s better just to move on.
Who the majority of us are is very flexible. I am not saying that you should become something you truly do not want to be. But, I know of no one who couldn't improve on at least one area of their lives.
Fellas: Be Mr. TRY-HARD at work, in life, & making money. NEVER be Mr. TRY-HARD when it comes to women & relationships, cuz you can going above & beyond doing errything a man should be doing, & she'll STILL be unhappy
Well said. We tend to carry over what made us successful to all areas, but relationships are one place where you need to use a different strategy. More specifically, you CAN be trying hard behind the scenes, but HOW that comes across must be regulated. In the ideal case, it comes out "naturally" and "smooth."
Grwat video! I have to say that when I date girls Im straight, serious and honest. If she shows that she pulls out then I do the same and not go back until she has to show she is serious. Otherwise I will leave. I never try to change her interest in me!
very helpful stuff really....though i would really like that you do a video on what exactly is chasing a girl is,coz a lot of times you say one cannot play hard early on and again you need to be a challenge.How do you draw the boundary between the two.??
My ex who I’m now dating hated me because I wasn’t a gentleman and I don’t blame her for leaving me back then because I had issues with my family and I’m only 17 and I’ve been in foster care and she just wanted to help but I had issues with trusting people cause my own family let me down but I turned into a bad person just like my dad and I let her down and I’m really happy to have her back but we’re taking it slowly and I love her so much and she loves me back and I wish everyone to manage to get there ex back or to even get a girlfriend 👍🙏🤝
I have a married boss chasing me, she sent me a card with her perfume smell. I think she's trying to turn me into a back up plan. I think I should keep distance and be sweet.
Miss me😂😂 I just want one to care as much about others as themselves and that’s not happening social media has all women over 35 convinced they have body dysmorphia they act one way but are so scared of who they are they can’t reply to a real MAN whose trying to help them, make a good friend make sure they know… I don’t need the other advice I take care of myself I wear Drakkar or Amber/obsession.. I take plenty good care I spit truths… only woman I ever connected with I could do this with- ran from me and it shattered me. Once she opened up she became the most beautiful person I’d run into- idk if she’s even ok- been the pickiest good looking man ever I know why cuz I had a twin and would not settle. I just gotta hope she’s ok, I know she loved me, I didn’t get a chance to say anything just “call ya back in 15 love ya!” And ghost… that’s enough to kill ya. Wasn’t obsession it was love.. I never put pressure, if she felt that it wasn’t on me. Naw she didn’t say anything on my birthday i did but I wont bother her energy period and I’m stalked so much by 4-5 diff females and a page of 200+ I’m about to deactivate for good I don’t care about social media you wont learn anything about me. Only people I’d look at their page- I’d have to know. I don’t stalk. If they are predisposed to believe someone is a stalker they lose me that SECOND I drop and block🤷🏼♂️ I don’t know why I ain’t doin this I’m way smarter than you 10xs better looking and probably have a body count of 10- I don’t just smash anything that’s how ya lose yer lil buddy why would a MAN wanna make anyone jealous yer confusing men and boys- I get why😂 women stalk like crazy and make up total stories of what happened 😂 meanwhile you went and saw yer FRIENDS concert and a female cancelled 3xs in 12 hours & up I was front row it’s my friend she likes. No one is perfect if someone can’t take a few mistakes they believe they don’t make them😉 that’s TRUTH: she thought my friend Jessi who just had her 30th anniversary was next to me- pissed her off and I did NOTHING she went off and lost me quick jealous and name calling red flag 🚩 I’ll save yinz time- don’t play their games and you’ll be fine✌️don’t chase anyone cuz most females only want attention
How does one not "under stay their welcome"? I've been so mindful not to overstay my welcome, I tend to under stay which makes them not contact me either.
try to leave on a high note if possible. If you find that moment where you and her seem to be clicking, enjoy it for a few, just make sure that you choose that point to wrap things up.
I miss her so much we never agreed to no contact but i just wanted tobguve her space. I feel like my love and care for her is to much. She says she love me too and wants the same things i do but shes in the middle of a very toxic divorce and her emotions are all over the place. I understand but also upset we haven't talked in 4 days
Today's women are never going to be happy no matter what you do.. Just do your own thing. If they like you they do " if not someone else can deal with the headaches... in this day and age the last thing you need is more problems....
The problem is that women are the ones who are emotionally stunted. I've heard my whole life that men need to be more emotional and receptive and need to be the sensitive ones but plenty of men are and it's been women in my experience that have been the opposite of sensitive and compassionate. You need to leave and stop talking to her because she needs to be more sensitive to your needs not the other way around.
Women have gotten less traditional and more active at playing the dating game and they suck at it. They think they can be like men and pick their guy but they pick the cool guy who ends up being a jerk instead of waiting for a nice guy to approach them.
Hi Noah...i need some advice if can help me out.... Last nite I paid the dinner ..with my gf who broke up with me twice...while driving home I had a argument with her in the car over a picture of her with a man she said just a Yoga instructor..i told her if she has new bf and dont love me she can leave and I will Walk away and never look back if she want 3rd breakup is The Final ... I told her I have other women option...she got angry and open my car door want to leave and said since I have other women and she will never have sex with me if I have other women blaming me for this 3rd breakup..I grab her hand and tell her come back to the car that I dont have other women and I love her...she was agitated as I am ...we make love and she said she trust me this time and told me to trust her ....I told her the last 2 breakup she said she will never leave me but she left...I told her if she really love me then dont ever try to open door and leave ...she said she is Not jealous i have other women but she dont want me have sex with other women and then come to her...I could not walk away..what should i do and say...because she set boundaries to only meet me Once a week for sex ( last year we used to make love almost every day at least 4x a week )...she dont want to text me everyday and if she does text me she expect me to reply her asap...but she also say I can not text her unless she text ...her reason is she only want me to focus on my job...and not on her and told me to trust her and stop me goin to her gym to check on her and that Yoga instructor in her picture who she said she dont love anyone except me ??
Seems like a lot of work/analyzing the opposite sex. Just enjoy being you and improving at what you enjoy. If that doesn't work to attract the girl you want, you'll probably find not being you just to attract her isn't worth the work.
Bobby. I am 55 years old. The problem I have is I do not have a good time with women my age. I just don't. 10, 15, years younger seems to be more fun. I mean, what can I say? This is ththe way I feel. Can you give me 3 simple tips, suggestions, rules, or better yet, mindsets, to get passed this notion in my head "...she is to young for me..." Thx, JD
I keep thinking negatively that I may lose her but I don't want that to happen. We're still in early stage of almost breaking up but we have had a long time together dating
I've watched the video and read the comments, but I can't help myself thinking that there is something wrong with us nowadays. We keep drifting farther from reality. Guys! Why can't we talk to the woman we care about? If I miss her, I would go to her place when she is there, knocks on the door, and say something like, "My beautiful cheater, I miss you... I like how you hunt those gazelles... you move with style, and when you catch one, we eat it together. Then, we groom each other and watch over one another. BUT, after you left, I'm all alone, hunt and eat alone... it's not fun anymore. I want us to be together again. PS: I like the way you wag your tail too... it the sexiest and soft for the touch." Then shut the door, and go back home. If I don't hear from her in 24 hours, then I know it's over, and it's time to move on. Brothers, true love is no game. Why waste time pretending... If she has feelings for you, she will come back to you. If not, there is plenty of fish in the ocean.
I've had a few girls tell me I have an unforgettable smell lol. One says damn you smell good. I'm like ya thanks and she's like no you don't understand lol you smell so fuckin good lol. So her kid went and tried to find the scent bc he wanted to smell like me lol.
@Boulder Pathways she actually makes perfect sense. If a girl is not interested in you, there is not much you can do to gain that interest. If a girl likes you very much, there is very little you can do to mess up. This video is trying to sell their course, so they put a lot of emphasis on what we do that matters. In reality, whether a girl likes you or not is already predetermined based on our looks, personalities and the way we act and talk.
A relationship is about trust and respect and it should make you feel safe, not give you headaches. Do you realise your techniques can be used to hurt women, like it happened to me?
I always look at it that when a woman tells me she went somewhere with a "friend" that its either with a girlfriend or a guy that she's not that into at least not enough to say that he's her boyfriend.
The best thing to do to make any gurl miss you is to make her follow your lead and make her work for you because the truth is if she doesn't follow your lead she doesn't respect you and if she doesn't respect you as a man she'll never Love you because the lady's always follow orders from the right Guy I don't care what they say so if your not her celebrity then your her 🐕 Hope that helps and remember Guy the lady's Love a man that can take control and is that assertive that knows what he wants so remember it starts with you i mean how are you going to Lead the lady's and have a good time if you don't know what you want assertiveness is Key with the Lady's hope that helps again.just gave you guys mad Game and remember to keep it Simple with the Lady's because there already Complicated lol hope hope that mad you laugh.Lolz
What if you have kids with her and been with her for 7 years and you thought everything was going good so she flys outta state with kids to see her family then messages you she’s not coming back home…….. thanks.
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It's always good to come back to these videos as a refresher. Nothing will make you forget the foundational rules like a long relationship.
I just wanted to say thanks. Because of your videos I am now dating a beautiful woman. I am 63 and was recently 'dumped' by my 60 year old girlfriend. I took to heart what you say about acting and believing that I am the prize. Now I am dating a beautiful 35 year old women who is completely infatuated with me. I can't believe how changing my mindset has increased my attractiveness to women. It is truly is amazing! Thanks again.
awesome to hear! Enjoy!
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If a woman does not wanna be around me I don’t even try to go after her. If someone is not interested move on and forget about her
On me
He IS talking about people who are interested. He's not talking about misleading girls or making fake peronalities to make a girl like you bc it is about girls who already have some kind of interest in you. He is just giving advice to boys who act really needy and can't be theirselves around girls they like bc they are afraid to ruin it, this scares girls away and has nothing to do if she feels attracted to you or something. Furthermore in the video they say to NOT go after her if you watch the video, especially with the "no stalking" rule. He gives advice how to fucus on yourself and NOT CHASING her and in that way getting the girl (back) you really like.
@@guenthersteiner9252 thanks.
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@@guenthersteiner9252 no MAN wants a GIRL
5 WAYS TO MAKE HER MISS YOU:
1. Pre-Emptive - Time Capsules: Wear distinctive cologne, or have an inside joke, or conversation that she only has with you.
2. Leave on a high note: Have her associating good vibes and high notes with you. Don't stay too long, leave when it is good, on a high note. Stop putting her under pressure. Time your stays. Be
the one to end it. Leave her wanting more.
3. NO Stalking - No social media stalking; you will come across things that will set you off. Less in better to keep you less jaded and reactionary about what she is doing.
4. How to use social media to make her miss you. No heavy handedness. Don't try to make her jealous. She has you and she knows it, if you are trying to make her jealous.
4a. Mystery & Jealousy - Make them wonder, don't reveal too many details. Don't tell them who, say just as friend. Add Mystery, Beer and an Apple Tini take photo put on social media.
5. Competing - try to show her that she doesn't have any power over you. If she calls, maybe you need to be busy and not available to you. Introduce new interests, like snow skiing, adventures.
you post online.
6. Bonus * Be Different - when a woman has power over you - she expects you to work a certain way around her, how fast you text her back; Power dynamic for your following her rules, you have to bust up her rules, that favor her. Change your looks, grow a beard, dress different, than what she was used to when you were with her. Eliminate subtle mistakes. Change it up, be unpredictable.
Perfect summary...
You just quoted everything bobby SAID..why?. That's alot of wrighting for nothing
@@scottstone1475 Writing* by the way. Maybe you should read more and listen LESS. Upgrades your vocabulary :)
David g. Cool man.. Live close..lets have lunch on me I'm sure you can't afford it
@@Davidgoldd never met a cool David in my LIFE...met alot of David's I took there girl from and not a one had the man in him to take her back...you caught me on a good day so let's bury the hatchet
In your head..
Always leave them wanting more
Never tell them too much
Always leave them wondering
Never give it all away because if they know everything about you then the intrigue is over
Dont even give a moment notice
That may seem a little bit savage but it's really necessary.
True bro.
Agreed
One tip for long term relationship:
As a woman I don´t say I understand all women´s motifs but I understand the best one.
You love yourself
not for what you say
but for what you feel in present moment
its spontaneity and happiness
woman loves you for the same reason
not for things you say
but for things you feel at the moment, but dont say them
(the things the guy thinks in head subconsciously and unknowingly, without preparation)
with spontaneity and happiness
because if she is a normal nice woman
her only dream is to have a guy who is spontaneous and happy
happy men easily fall in love
Preparation is good, but at the same time its annoying.
Preparation is opposite of spontaneity and happiness.
I mean when you go to buy an ice cream
you feel spontaneous and happy,,
you dont prepare long speech to get the ice cream
you just buy it because you feel spontaneous and happy at the moment
and every woman who dreams about falling in love
also dreams about this one moment
of happiness with the guy, the feeling that he is happy to see her and meet her.
because she cares of his happiness, other wise she wouldn´t fall in love with him if the happiness doesn´t go both ways.
if you buy a car and you start to prepare in your head all the reasons
about why you need car and for what reason and start to analyze everything for two hours
your level of happiness drops down and you feel no joy from buying the car
because of analyzis - paralyzis
the same is about women
they want you to feel happy at the moment, so she may get closer to you, and feel the moment of happiness
because it makes her happy that you can not hide the happiness
because you were not prepared for falling in love with her
no protocol prepared you for falling in love
therefore starts to be spontaneous, because love can not be prepared
starts to have unexpected feelings
but I am not talking about some sex on first date, or flirt,
I am talking about long term relationships.
this moment of happiness and spontaneity
women dream about
she dreams about guy who dreams about her with a happy thoughts
she doesn´t want a man who is unhappy who doesn´t understand what happiness means etc
The only problem is a chemistry
but even chemistry may come later
if both are humble and nice
I personally think that sometimes true love can end by such a trivial moment. That's the hardest thing to deal with if you realize it. I am not old but old enough to know when you really become true to yourself you will either find reconciliation, the answers, or start your new life. I hope the best for everyone.
A man's love is forever. He will die for those he loves.
A woman's love is fleeting. She is designed to seduce the man who invades and kills you.
Very sound advice
1/cologne, make your own world, 2/ leave on high note, 3/no stalking 4/mystery & jealousy, 5/be diff, 6/eliminate subtle mistakes
"No stalking."
Very true. I unfollowed her on FB and muted her on IG. Crisis averted; I'm staying busy, as well. Makes it much easier not to see anything from her pop up on your timeline. I also end up not unfriending/unfollowing her, which raises a red flag with her.
I could always just click on her profile, but for me, that's something I can resist doing very easily.
*The key tips here really show how it's not about playing games but about creating genuine emotional space. Sometimes giving her time to miss you is more powerful than constant contact!*
Thanks for taking the time to make content. Enjoyed the Scrambler material. I never had a dad so I never learned any of these things. All the shit my mom taught me about how a man should be towards women is 100% the reason I always got taken advantage of, taken for granted, or left for the first grass-is-greener opportunity she found. Since applying your material, I noticed and immediate change in the way women I'm pursuing act towards me without feeling like I'm being manipulative or playing games. My ex, whom I sobbed over for YEARS and never thought I'd get with again, is blowing me up now. We just got back from an amazing camping date last weekend. And now I'm not even sure if I want her back. Her best friend even started hitting me up! Thank you, thank you, thank you! I can't say it enough! Thank you!
Hi J Timberpate...i need some Scrambler advice if can help me out.... Last nite I paid the dinner ..with my gf who broke up with me twice...while driving home
I had a argument with her in the car over a picture of her with a man she said just a Yoga instructor..i told her if she has new bf and dont love me she can leave and I will Walk away and never look back if she want 3rd breakup is The Final ...
I told her I have other women option...she got angry and open my car door want to leave and said since I have other women and she will never have sex with me if I have other women blaming me for this 3rd breakup..I grab her hand and tell her come back to the car that I dont have other women and I love her...she was agitated as I am ...we make love and she said she trust me this time and told me to trust her ....I told her the last 2 breakup she said she will never leave me but she left...I told her if she really love me then dont ever try to open door and leave ...she said she is Not jealous i have other women but she dont want me have sex with other women and then come to her...I could not walk away..what should i do and say...because she set boundaries to only meet me Once a week for sex ( last year we used to make love almost every day at least 4x a week )...she dont want to text me everyday and if she does text me she expect me to reply her asap...but she also say I can not text her unless she text ...her reason is she only want me to focus on my job...and not on her and told me to trust her and stop me goin to her gym to check on her and that Yoga instructor in her picture who she said she dont love anyone except me ??
Bobby Rio despite the content, the most important thing I got from the scrambler was getting my mindset right and focusing on my improvement. I really appreciate you and robs teachings.
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Have you personally purchased the scrambler and does it work as he says it does?
I love how he explains everything.
You are so right about wearing the same cologne to remind her of you.I remember a girl i went out with and she used to wear Este lauder youth dew every time i smell that i instantly think of her and that was forty years ago.
If you have to "make" someone miss you then they're not for you, just move on and stop being a creep.
Agreed.
I’ve just read this post I agree with it wholeheartedly you have got a sound mind and a good way of thinking. A good handle on the prospective
Oh please
what if she’s your gf you can’t just leave her like that
Absolutely agree...
Quite simple.
Don't give a toss.
Even if you do.
I don't mean go to extreme lengths.
But do not be all over her.
Guys need to get out of the way.
Don't need her.
That's her job....for her to NEED you.
Don't reply instantly to her texts. Do other things.
Finally...if she dumps you...if she goes on other dates....don't care!
Don't fight it.
Just let it go. No contact.
Zip....nadda.
It is not a woman’s job to need anybody. Sorry to break it to you, but woman can be independent too. If my partner ever told me this, I seriously would break up with them. This is how you end up alone, sure you could some desperate enough person to sleep with you, (if you’re lucky enough and he/she/or whoever is mentally deranged enough) but you will never really be in a relationship with this kind of attitude, plus it’s borderline passively aggressively sexist.
BAM.. Good (playa) advice..
Cologne/ fragrance;; woman use that fragrance on me effectively,;however must be right kind; words men say to woman :
This guy’s got it all wrong. Just look her in the eyes and tell her your from the future and if she doesn’t sleep with you, everyone will die.... by fire. You got to mean it though, really connect with her.
😂😂😂
Tried this 2/10. I have trial for a misdemeanor and disturbing the peace in 3 weeks.
@@dickburrows7819 you didn’t connect...
Lmao
Sounds like something a SIMP would say bro😂
They should teach this stuff about relationship at school that the biggest problem today with marriages divorces better than learning how many stars are in galaxy haha
Teaching this in a school is not needed. Just go on the internet or learn from experience,plus I don't think to many parents will be happy with there sons learning about how to get a girlfriend instead of academics.
@@ibrahimalowonle9106 lol, my mother would be the first one to make a complaint!
@@ibrahimalowonle9106 z-☆
@@johnmoreira6008 ?
True man😀
Heart connections are way more important that control tricks...Love doesn't control..
Love is being what they need..YOU WONT HAVE TO CONTROL A WOMAN IF ITS THE RIGHT ONE!😀
I just want to say thank you to you and Rob Judge. Just listening to the Scrambler I realized my perspective was totally skewed, and the biggest thing holding me back was actually some codependency and emotional immaturity I had blinded myself to. These tips are great, too, and it turns out I instinctively did 2 of them lol. As far as what you could do next, I think a little something on being autonomous would greatly help a lot of people. Most who I see trying just end up playing more complicated roles rather than being themselves, and to be honest, I don't think most people know how to be themselves.
And you saw that we don’t need people to show us what we see that most just don’t know how to be themselves and if you are your gonna get hurt cuz “No one can keep that up”🙄 if that’s just me I don’t know how to change or be someone else, refuse to wear masks. That’s our problem add social media and no one really interacts it’s just words. I don’t want words I don’t spew em and not show the Actions behind the words🤷🏼♂️ most just cannot do the same
Bobby, man you are genius.I watch this video today and my ex used to just send me message during her bed time.Today she sent me message while her dinner, I just gave her a like without saying nothing.She again sent me some kind of quotes that am silent.I didn't replied her back While her routine bed time message she tried to be smarter by asking me about what I have done today and she concluded her message with am tired ,feeling sleepy so goodnight and bye.I read it without replied.After 15 mins she message me back asking me about my plan for tomorrow.I replied her in a very short sentence that I need to wake up early to go somewhere . After 5 mins she send me a song saying those evening in the past was something and this evening is something else.lol...I even didn't replied.Your advise is an instant magic.
Hi Richie I need advice if can help me out.. How to make her earn me back.. I try not to show anymore love to her as she put little effort saying we already a couple she dont need to proof and sex once a week is a Proof
So I didnt want to invest on her on reply to her text and this love become fake when I want to lead by telling her what to do she say no ..she say she feel stress doing what I want her to she feel force i felt she no longer love me as much and does not respect me enough to listen like before
How to not be her Text Buddy only... as she dont want to see me more than once a week
For past 2 month she text me everyday Goodnite kiss and Good morning kiss without any message on what she doing everyday I have no clue what she doing..
I didn’t reply I love u when she did and I didnt say I miss u she was confront me why I dont love her anymore i told her because it was her fault she broke up with me twice..
Our conversation mainly become text but
I only set dates with her without any pet name..though she called me as Honey
She is upset and she will not text me if I dont reply
I told her it was her who took me for granted
This become a fight
I don't know what should I do
@@fj4731 My friend just keep in mind as long as you chase her,she gonna away from you.Never say sorry to her.Give her the space in meanwhile do not text her anymore .Chile out with friends and make new friends to keep your mind busy.I am even not yet settle completely but she agree to meet me.Please do not send any goodnight, good morning or any sorts of quotes.If really she loves you, definitely she will make the first move.All the best my friend.
@@richiesubron5003Thank u very much ... I still confuse what is the right course of action getting my gf back from breakup
I had tried 2 month to be fun and playful but the Honeymoon soon became she having too much ..I dont understand what I do next …give space let her come back and then repeat the fun and playful then Hot and cold again…will this become mentally unhealthy for her and me ?
Is spending good dinner and good lunch with her putting her on Pedestal?
Is holding her hand and the one to ask for a kiss become a Beta Needy..
How do I make her have a Crush and be submissive instead of her sitting there waiting for me to lead
@@fj4731 If you 2 broke up then take your attention elsewhere. You aren't together anymore, so you need to focus on yourself and accept that it's over just now. It doesn't mean it will always be over, but for now it is the way it is and you need to start moving on. Stop trying to get her back, just leave her alone completely and go cold because if you keep trying to get her back you'll only keep pushing her away. If she really cares, she'll start to feel your absence and will get back into contact with you, but you NEED to make her feel that absence. Meanwhile, you need to let go of her and rebuild yourself. Start working out, hang out with friends, get back into your hobbies or find new ones, take your focus off of her. If things were complicated then maybe it just wasn't meant to work between you 2. Time will make that clearer to you. It will be hard to start with but it will get easier, bad times pass.
Everything you say is so true I'm guilty of everything you mention ...sometimes it's best to cut certain women off completely they're not worth the trouble ....great video and I'm sure if people take in what you say and don't forget then in many cases you'll save alot of people heart ache ...
It is true - you go all the way around even tearing your psycho apart just for that pussy? Not worthwhile
I just pull up in my donkey Kong go kart and say " you coulda had this " and drive off
Save some for us, Chad.
Damn, bro. I think you just turned my bi. What you doing tonight?
🤣
What a fucking champ.
Honestly, as a female, that would probably work-
Step one: move on. It’s hard but she doesn’t want you king you both deserve better
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He’s saying introduce new interests into your life.
I advocate consistently having new interests .
I rock climb, lift, play piano and ride my motorcycle ~ standards that will always be there.
But I also take weekend trips to Tahoe, Yosemite, SF, go to concerts, do the art walk in town (and loads of towns have them).
But I find new shit to do constantly ~ even bowling is a change of pace.
It doesn’t have to be glorious, just a new thing.
Gonna add parachuting to my list.
But that’s my list.
You do you and do something more than watch TV.
For me, I did these things unintentionally…until I really liked some girl(barely happens) and things became sour. Now I’m seeing “oh snap, that’s what I did wrong, let me just take it back to the basics”
This is gonna work…whether she pulled away, lost interest etc. it always works. 😌
Thank you so much Bobby. You've lifted a huge from me. God bless you for impacting in many like me.
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He’s right! I never take the guy that touched base seriously- even if I really like him. Just make fun plans with me and we’ll grow to like each other. That’s it
Good advice. If she then turns down plans to do something fun, then it’s time to move on.
Dating shouldn't be complicated. If you have to watch videos and use different tactics to get a girls attention then she's not the one. Just invite a girl out to do something fun and see how you vibe with each other. It's as simple as that.
I dont know man. We might be naturally inclined with women skills. I just call it common since. But there are some guys I coach that dont have the ability and naturally come across as creepy in some situations with female but then are good in other areas. They need people like this guys to break things down to them. This video is more basic then advanced level but some guys aren't ready for the advanced stuff. They need to here the basics to understand what they are doing wrong and usually helps them not only get better with females but actually better in approaching life period, work, social life etc.
Not agreed. He's talking about someone who already is interested in you. Not about misleading tricks to trick a girl into liking you, or give you fake peronalities to get a girl or something. He's giving advice to boys who act needy and kinda ruin it when they have a girl they like, simply bc they don't know how to act, and because of that, push her away. Furthermore it's not that easy just to make a connection and "just have fun with a girl" like you said. Because some people are so fucused in hoping she likes him, they can't be theirselves and act uncontrolably needy and too nice, just because they are so nervous with her around and that can scare ppl away. This has nothing to do with if she is interested in you or not
@@guenthersteiner9252 Agreed. Women are never as simple as some men make them out to be.
She will see you as a SIMP and ghost you on the spot. We all know this now, from personal experience. How many intimate relationships have you ever had with a female?
Great video. Pretty accurate. Its wild that some people are just naturally inclined and know and understand all said in this video. There are people out there that really dont know and understand this stuff that to some people is just common sense. That's great they have videos for people that dont know at all how a women think and what is appropriate behavior etc with female. In a nut shell dont be creepy and behave highly valuable (work on yourself). Lots of respect for this guy in the video doing a good deed for guys that really need the help.
Bobby - thanks so much for all the great videos. Your work is so spot on.
Bobby since i invested in the scrambler my confidence has sky rocketed and everything else like this video just adds so much value bro keep it up man.
Hi Jordon Smith ...i need some Scramble advice if can help me out .... Last nite I paid the dinner ..with my gf who broke up with me twice...while driving home
I had a argument with her in the car over a picture of her with a man she said just a Yoga instructor..i told her if she has new bf and dont love me she can leave and I will Walk away and never look back if she want 3rd breakup is The Final ...
I told her I have other women option...she got angry and open my car door want to leave and said since I have other women and she will never have sex with me if I have other women blaming me for this 3rd breakup..I grab her hand and tell her come back to the car that I dont have other women and I love her...she was agitated as I am ...we make love and she said she trust me this time and told me to trust her ....I told her the last 2 breakup she said she will never leave me but she left...I told her if she really love me then dont ever try to open door and leave ...she said she is Not jealous i have other women but she dont want me have sex with other women and then come to her...I could not walk away..what should i do and say...because she set boundaries to only meet me Once a week for sex ( last year we used to make love almost every day at least 4x a week )...she dont want to text me everyday and if she does text me she expect me to reply her asap...but she also say I can not text her unless she text ...her reason is she only want me to focus on my job...and not on her and told me to trust her and stop me goin to her gym to check on her and that Yoga instructor in her picture who she said she dont love anyone except me ??
Hi Jordan I need advice if can help me out.. How to make her earn me back.. I try not to show anymore love to her as she put little effort saying we already a couple she dont need to proof and sex once a week is a Proof
So I didnt want to invest on her on reply to her text and this love become fake when I want to lead by telling her what to do she say no ..she say she feel stress doing what I want her to she feel force i felt she no longer love me as much and does not respect me enough to listen like before
How to not be her Text Buddy only... as she dont want to see me more than once a week
For past 2 month she text me everyday Goodnite kiss and Good morning kiss without any message on what she doing everyday I have no clue what she doing..
I didn’t reply I love u when she did and I didnt say I miss u she was confront me why I dont love her anymore i told her because it was her fault she broke up with me twice..
Our conversation mainly become text but
I only set dates with her without any pet name..though she called me as Honey
She is upset and she will not text me if I dont reply
I told her it was her who took me for granted
This become a fight
I don't know what should I do
Just disappear. Ghost her. Ignore her messages, don't like any picture of her, don't watch her stories. If she's meant to come back, she will, il not, move on.
Don’t waste time on an ex it’s that simple. Don’t go back to your vomit 🤮!!!
Proverbs
True that Dog ⚡
I agree
Even if you go back, this video is about getting that someone’s attention, which means they broke up with you, in which both of you should move on and not insult eachother.
You get that right. Remember some women love games. And try to convince you your the bad guy. Never beg
Ha! just FYI: I took the 'free' quiz, three times and answered each differently, and each 'conclusion' from the test stated the same answer: "You have certain habits that might be causing women to “pull away”…" i.e.: "You need to buy my game shit I'm selling"
This was also the case even when I would choose each answer that a narcissist would answer e.g.: forgetting her birthday, being the first to hang up from a phone call etc. The test rated me 'too nice' even though I intentionally chose answers that a garden variety insensitive 'jerk' would choose.
The test is a scam, as well as all the politically correct fantasies he's pushing.
And all the good commenters are shills -- obviously paid to post 'generic' positive comments.
Can’t agree more. My philosophy is that if a girl is not interested in you, there is not much you can do to gain that interest. If a girl likes you very much, there is very little you can do to mess up. This video is trying to sell their course, so they put a lot of emphasis on what guys do that matters. In reality, whether a girl likes you or not is already predetermined based on our looks, personalities and the way we act and talk.
@@rayyoung1293There is a channel called "Wheat Waffles" that did an entire video effectively debunking guys like Bobby Rio and others selling advice on how to get women.
There are almost 4 billion women in the world. If one doesn’t love you madly, find one that does. Games suck.
And there are thousands of basketball players in the world, but I'd still rather have LeBron on my team. I refuse to settle for less than I deserve.
Yeah there's 4 billion and their a the same... learn the game
Bobby, good solid, sound advice as usual. Thanks, David.
you were supposed to destroy the sith, not join them
Your videos are awesome packed with information on dating.! Great job!
Bobby, you really know your stuff. I am a lot older than you and not in the dating market but the mistakes I have made are the ones you bring up in your videos.👍❤😂
I find that the longer I’m away from her.. the better we do. If we move back in.... it’s all going to go to hell!
We can flirt, cut up, meet up every other weekend and have some fun and do family stuff but she’ll be going back home in another state. When shes all irritated and u happy... I’ve only got a couple days and I can rebuild again. Quite a task to emotionally detach but i think I’m getting the hang of it
working on a girl to make her like you isnt necessary unless you did something wrong, if she loves you then she cant leave you
Very true
I dated a girl once that, the relationship was awesome but she had to move away for a job so we had to breakup. She deliberately bought the calogne I wear and just had it by her nightstand.
The sad part is most women, this day and age, are broken, damaged and cold due to extremely poor choices in their life and they only want something they can't have and then don't want it when they do get it... like little kids... a man has to put himself in a place of being constantly distance
Perfect comment to represent nowadays
Thanks for that..I know it first hand unfortunately.. I've been a musician most of my life and although I've NEVER been a cheater, as long as they thought and feared I could, they were completely, totally mine and faithful... as soon as they were secure in my feelings they turned to crap.
@@txtamaman if every single woman has done that.... YOURE the common denominator. its not that youre a “good guy” because clearly you arent. you genuinely think its more plausible that EVERY SINGLE WOMAN ON EARTH is shitty and not.... that YOURE the shitty one
spot on man
Absolutely correct
Excellent material Bobby! Thank you
Girls are too difficult bruh
Let’s live our lives, I guess this rewires us to be the way they’re attracted to us without us even knowing or doing it purposely
It's how TV and movies program them from birth
I have never had trouble meeting women and if I really put in effort can get beautiful women . The biggest issue I have goes like this - I get bored easily in the relationship and so I fall into bad habits. We then split up and I end up missing these women. My head is truly my biggest enemy that I will never conquer.
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I wish I had the benefit of videos like this many many years ago.
After watching this video I now miss myself.
YOU IGNORE THEM. There. Saved 10 minutes.
I'm an over stepper , Ha Thank you for these very important Tips
Bobby Rio I have never done anything like you mention,I just did the normal conversation,we bonded,we got married for 25yrs.If I tried ALL your views I would never get a woman to miss me.I'm 74yrs old and managed before you were born.I still have a young woman eyeing me up because I devorced my wife.
Ok Boomer, times were different in the 1970s...
If you came to this video genuinely wanting information like this I hope life gets better for you eventually
5 ways to mentally manipulate someone into thinking they miss u when u could just give them space lmao xdd rawr
Did you just “rawr” unironically
LOL
I completely agreed with you until you said rawr
The other jokes are funny, you made it too over dramatic and cringe
Just act like you are so over her and really couldn't care less but yeah, if she wants to "go out" i will give her a ring or at least a text when i get some free time because my life is just a bit complicated at present. Don't get me wrong, i mean i like you and everything buuut....
Woman speaking here. Be yourself! No games. If she doesn't like or appreciate you, .move on.
Don’t do anything she says. Never ask a fish how to catch a fish. Your advice is a free fare to the beta/friend zone.
Bs advice
There’s nothing Bob has said here that’s about playing games but starting off on the right note
You don't make decisions with your front brain when it comes to attraction. It's a fact sorry girls are genetically predisposed to ditch dudes if they show weakness and be unattracted to them and you're genetically predisposed to be attracted to ones that don't show any sort of weakness how do you think we all got like this? us men hiding our emotions since the beginning of time ?go watch girls videos and stay off our turf no girls allowed here it's like a fort and you're not invited hahaha ! go on get with your kind I just gave you the White Fang , I bet you're so cute like my doggy. Wanna hang out ?
:) ;)
100% 👍👍
That’s cool, but why would someone want to go back to a relationship that already failed, what’s stopping it from crashing and burning again and in the same way it did before.
and guys shouldn’t change themselves for a girl, if she didn’t like you for who you are, it’s better just to move on.
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@@karenkopittke1555 ok Karen
Who the majority of us are is very flexible.
I am not saying that you should become something you truly do not want to be.
But, I know of no one who couldn't improve on at least one area of their lives.
How to make girls miss you:
Step 1: stop watching this video
Step 2: profit
Know how to entertain woman, know how to do stuff,
Fellas: Be Mr. TRY-HARD at work, in life, & making money. NEVER be Mr. TRY-HARD when it comes to women & relationships, cuz you can going above & beyond doing errything a man should be doing, & she'll STILL be unhappy
Well said. We tend to carry over what made us successful to all areas, but relationships are one place where you need to use a different strategy. More specifically, you CAN be trying hard behind the scenes, but HOW that comes across must be regulated. In the ideal case, it comes out "naturally" and "smooth."
The comments are funny as hell, but Bobby is spot on!
Grwat video!
I have to say that when I date girls Im straight, serious and honest. If she shows that she pulls out then I do the same and not go back until she has to show she is serious. Otherwise I will leave.
I never try to change her interest in me!
Demonstrate value
Engage physically
Nurture dependence
Neglect emotionally
Inspire hope
Separate entirely
Many seem to say forget the girl and move on, but no-one wants to better their character so the same mistakes don't happen again.. wake up guys 👍
Provided there were genuine issues that the guy had to sort that’s a fair comment. If not for her , for the next one...
Good advice!
very helpful stuff really....though i would really like that you do a video on what exactly is chasing a girl is,coz a lot of times you say one cannot play hard early on and again you need to be a challenge.How do you draw the boundary between the two.??
...or you can just be happier than her and that will attract her. Happy people attract.
On point
My ex who I’m now dating hated me because I wasn’t a gentleman and I don’t blame her for leaving me back then because I had issues with my family and I’m only 17 and I’ve been in foster care and she just wanted to help but I had issues with trusting people cause my own family let me down but I turned into a bad person just like my dad and I let her down and I’m really happy to have her back but we’re taking it slowly and I love her so much and she loves me back and I wish everyone to manage to get there ex back or to even get a girlfriend 👍🙏🤝
Don't be a prick but dont over love her. You'll thank me later. Still be a man not someone who makes her feel its an honor to be with her
jesus god dont get into “manipulate women” videos. youre 17. you have time to change
How would one create jealousy and mystery if one does not use Facebook?
Good question!
don't answer her calls (call back later), never text her first
Have a busy life no need to re create things
@@n3wt best answer so far!
You know those smoke bomb things that ninjas have. Ok get one of those and when you are leaving or going to the car throw one of those and disappear.
I have a married boss chasing me, she sent me a card with her perfume smell. I think she's trying to turn me into a back up plan. I think I should keep distance and be sweet.
dropped a like on this one! Great tips brother
Miss me😂😂 I just want one to care as much about others as themselves and that’s not happening social media has all women over 35 convinced they have body dysmorphia they act one way but are so scared of who they are they can’t reply to a real MAN whose trying to help them, make a good friend make sure they know… I don’t need the other advice I take care of myself I wear Drakkar or Amber/obsession.. I take plenty good care I spit truths… only woman I ever connected with I could do this with- ran from me and it shattered me. Once she opened up she became the most beautiful person I’d run into- idk if she’s even ok- been the pickiest good looking man ever I know why cuz I had a twin and would not settle. I just gotta hope she’s ok, I know she loved me, I didn’t get a chance to say anything just “call ya back in 15 love ya!” And ghost… that’s enough to kill ya. Wasn’t obsession it was love.. I never put pressure, if she felt that it wasn’t on me. Naw she didn’t say anything on my birthday i did but I wont bother her energy period and I’m stalked so much by 4-5 diff females and a page of 200+ I’m about to deactivate for good I don’t care about social media you wont learn anything about me. Only people I’d look at their page- I’d have to know. I don’t stalk. If they are predisposed to believe someone is a stalker they lose me that SECOND I drop and block🤷🏼♂️
I don’t know why I ain’t doin this I’m way smarter than you 10xs better looking and probably have a body count of 10- I don’t just smash anything that’s how ya lose yer lil buddy why would a MAN wanna make anyone jealous yer confusing men and boys- I get why😂 women stalk like crazy and make up total stories of what happened 😂 meanwhile you went and saw yer FRIENDS concert and a female cancelled 3xs in 12 hours & up I was front row it’s my friend she likes. No one is perfect if someone can’t take a few mistakes they believe they don’t make them😉 that’s TRUTH: she thought my friend Jessi who just had her 30th anniversary was next to me- pissed her off and I did NOTHING she went off and lost me quick jealous and name calling red flag 🚩
I’ll save yinz time- don’t play their games and you’ll be fine✌️don’t chase anyone cuz most females only want attention
How does one not "under stay their welcome"?
I've been so mindful not to overstay my welcome, I tend to under stay which makes them not contact me either.
try to leave on a high note if possible. If you find that moment where you and her seem to be clicking, enjoy it for a few, just make sure that you choose that point to wrap things up.
@@BobbyRio Thank you.
Try thinking of old nuns or dead kittens this has always helped me to not “understay my welcome”
I miss her so much we never agreed to no contact but i just wanted tobguve her space. I feel like my love and care for her is to much. She says she love me too and wants the same things i do but shes in the middle of a very toxic divorce and her emotions are all over the place. I understand but also upset we haven't talked in 4 days
Pretty sure this guy's some kind of brilliant genius at psychology.
Today's women are never going to be happy no matter what you do..
Just do your own thing. If they like you they do " if not someone else can deal with the headaches...
in this day and age the last thing you need is more problems....
The problem is that women are the ones who are emotionally stunted. I've heard my whole life that men need to be more emotional and receptive and need to be the sensitive ones but plenty of men are and it's been women in my experience that have been the opposite of sensitive and compassionate. You need to leave and stop talking to her because she needs to be more sensitive to your needs not the other way around.
Women have gotten less traditional and more active at playing the dating game and they suck at it. They think they can be like men and pick their guy but they pick the cool guy who ends up being a jerk instead of waiting for a nice guy to approach them.
Hi Noah...i need some advice if can help me out.... Last nite I paid the dinner ..with my gf who broke up with me twice...while driving home
I had a argument with her in the car over a picture of her with a man she said just a Yoga instructor..i told her if she has new bf and dont love me she can leave and I will Walk away and never look back if she want 3rd breakup is The Final ...
I told her I have other women option...she got angry and open my car door want to leave and said since I have other women and she will never have sex with me if I have other women blaming me for this 3rd breakup..I grab her hand and tell her come back to the car that I dont have other women and I love her...she was agitated as I am ...we make love and she said she trust me this time and told me to trust her ....I told her the last 2 breakup she said she will never leave me but she left...I told her if she really love me then dont ever try to open door and leave ...she said she is Not jealous i have other women but she dont want me have sex with other women and then come to her...I could not walk away..what should i do and say...because she set boundaries to only meet me Once a week for sex ( last year we used to make love almost every day at least 4x a week )...she dont want to text me everyday and if she does text me she expect me to reply her asap...but she also say I can not text her unless she text ...her reason is she only want me to focus on my job...and not on her and told me to trust her and stop me goin to her gym to check on her and that Yoga instructor in her picture who she said she dont love anyone except me ??
Amazing tips great work keep it up bro 😎
Where can I watch the full scrambler video
Seems like a lot of work/analyzing the opposite sex. Just enjoy being you and improving at what you enjoy. If that doesn't work to attract the girl you want, you'll probably find not being you just to attract her isn't worth the work.
Great video!
Glad you enjoyed it
Bobby. I am 55 years old. The problem I have is I do not have a good time with women my age. I just don't. 10, 15, years younger seems to be more fun. I mean, what can I say? This is ththe way I feel. Can you give me 3 simple tips, suggestions, rules, or better yet, mindsets, to get passed this notion in my head "...she is to young for me..." Thx, JD
It's tough when you're friends on Instagram and every time you open it her story is the first one there
In the next video could you pls cover some techniques that would apply and work positively in Asian culture ?
😊
I keep thinking negatively that I may lose her but I don't want that to happen. We're still in early stage of almost breaking up but we have had a long time together dating
I've watched the video and read the comments, but I can't help myself thinking that there is something wrong with us nowadays. We keep drifting farther from reality. Guys! Why can't we talk to the woman we care about? If I miss her, I would go to her place when she is there, knocks on the door, and say something like, "My beautiful cheater, I miss you... I like how you hunt those gazelles... you move with style, and when you catch one, we eat it together. Then, we groom each other and watch over one another. BUT, after you left, I'm all alone, hunt and eat alone... it's not fun anymore. I want us to be together again. PS: I like the way you wag your tail too... it the sexiest and soft for the touch." Then shut the door, and go back home. If I don't hear from her in 24 hours, then I know it's over, and it's time to move on. Brothers, true love is no game. Why waste time pretending... If she has feelings for you, she will come back to you. If not, there is plenty of fish in the ocean.
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Don't have social media. Whoops
I've had a few girls tell me I have an unforgettable smell lol. One says damn you smell good. I'm like ya thanks and she's like no you don't understand lol you smell so fuckin good lol. So her kid went and tried to find the scent bc he wanted to smell like me lol.
Amazing. 🤣🥴 all the things I've forgotten after I got married. This guy knows his stuff.
@Aulugh Moses I don't want my x back
As a woman it’s just a fine line if she’s into you you won’t go far wrong
You care to elaborate???
Go back back to school CAROL
@Boulder Pathways she actually makes perfect sense. If a girl is not interested in you, there is not much you can do to gain that interest. If a girl likes you very much, there is very little you can do to mess up. This video is trying to sell their course, so they put a lot of emphasis on what we do that matters. In reality, whether a girl likes you or not is already predetermined based on our looks, personalities and the way we act and talk.
@@rayyoung1293 well said
Did you ride the short bus?
Great video !!!
A relationship is about trust and respect and it should make you feel safe, not give you headaches. Do you realise your techniques can be used to hurt women, like it happened to me?
they know. the whole point is to hurt women so they like the man. its awful
@@imperialguard451 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
HAHAHA
How does this technique hurt women pls?
😂😂😂😂😂
Hi, the scrambler doesn't appear to be available on clickbank anymore. Anyway I can still get it?
Great information
This guy is hilarious!!
thank you 🙏🙏🙏
Simply put, show genuine interest when she's with you.
But don't chase
I always look at it that when a woman tells me she went somewhere with a "friend" that its either with a girlfriend or a guy that she's not that into at least not enough to say that he's her boyfriend.
"my friend" - girl
"a friend" - guy
The best thing to do to make any gurl miss you is to make her follow your lead and make her work for you because the truth is if she doesn't follow your lead she doesn't respect you and if she doesn't respect you as a man she'll never Love you because the lady's always follow orders from the right Guy I don't care what they say so if your not her celebrity then your her 🐕 Hope that helps and remember Guy the lady's Love a man that can take control and is that assertive that knows what he wants so remember it starts with you i mean how are you going to Lead the lady's and have a good time if you don't know what you want assertiveness is Key with the Lady's hope that helps again.just gave you guys mad Game and remember to keep it Simple with the Lady's because there already Complicated lol hope hope that mad you laugh.Lolz
Good one ✅
So how to make her work for me? You said that but no actual ideas. Any help?
@james2774 Good thoughts, thank you! Obvious stuff, but I needed this. If you have any thoughts, please share
Complete insanity!!
What if you have kids with her and been with her for 7 years and you thought everything was going good so she flys outta state with kids to see her family then messages you she’s not coming back home…….. thanks.
Damn bro, are you doing ok?
If she has a new guy there’s no way you’re getting her back Simples
Thank Bobby!
Great advice‼‼
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