I find it annoying when someone has zero reason to interrupt or complain, they just think I'm acting weird and don't like it They say why are you doing it like that , And then they get annoyed when i start gently listing off the dozens of reasons i am doing it that way, usually in part out of consideration and to help them and those around me And they accuse me like I'm the selfish jerk for not capitulating and folding right away at their baseless objection (Though, come to think of it, my mom does this and it drives me crazy, because she doesn't listen to what i actually say, she assumes what I'm saying so much that she literally doesn't hear a word i say, and then she panics and avoids, distracts, makes up random stuff put words in my mouth and then argue and put on a show panicking about what she assumed or made up what i said (sometimes i can see her consciously make up stuff and misunderstand on purpose, other times i think she honestly doesn't realize that she literally deludes herself), ) But that being said First i worry about becoming like that Second, she often does assume i am coming from selfish reasons and she often frames her actions as noble righteous causes, and avoids any talk of flaws or problems That sounds s lot like me, It's tricky cause she has all these trauma and triggers, it's like walking through land mines, but i literally can't address anything important without setting her off, I've tried being patient and calming her down, making her food, music, relaxed etc, and letting her talk for hours while we keep busy with a slight distraction like folding laundry or preparing dinner, i get her calm, and get her talking about something, but then she starts spiraling in her self fulfilling rhetoric, and i can't wait any longer and i try to snap her out of it and get her to see that things aren't so set in stone or bleak, and that we family don't hate her, etc And we might have 5 minutes of calm discussion, that quickly devolves into chaos and shouting, and her repeating messages, rhetoric, broken record, etc We've begged her to take care of herself, but i think she's so afraid of digging through her past that she makes up grand fears for herself, she thinks she'll have to practically be a monk when she goes through therapy, like she thinks she will have to isolate herself from her kids and grandkids for years or until she dies, and that it will take tons of money, etc etc etc, But there's free support groups, and she could take things a little here and there, and in the meantime, her life is falling apart, and all her kids have PTSD around her
This is SO HELPFUL!!! I will be using Magic todo and Chef on a daily basis now. Thank you so much!
Update: I completely forgot about this site existing and haven't used it since writing this comment lol. But it's still very cool, highly recommend!
It is unbelievable, especially Judge and Magic ToDo. Thank you so much for telling about this stuff
my pleasure
Wow this is much cooler than I initially thought it would be. I can see how this would be v useful. Kudos! And thank you for making it.
Magic ToDo is so crazy good!
yeah it's a really useful tool
I don't know how I wound up on this video today but I'm glad I did, this looks like a great tool!
Thank you so much. This is very helpful
no problem!
This is amazing! Thank you so much for sharing
no problem!
So, is this just an interface for chatgpt or something? I'd want to double check the accuracy of things like recipes if that is the case!
2 eggs, 1 cup of flowers, some raised Ns, 1/2 a stick of butt hair ... first assemble the flowers .....
yeah - there's an Ai backend. You could do similar with prompts in ChatGPT I'm sure. I'd still probably want to double check the recipes!
awesome stuff!!’
I find it annoying when someone has zero reason to interrupt or complain, they just think I'm acting weird and don't like it
They say why are you doing it like that
,
And then they get annoyed when i start gently listing off the dozens of reasons i am doing it that way, usually in part out of consideration and to help them and those around me
And they accuse me like I'm the selfish jerk for not capitulating and folding right away at their baseless objection
(Though, come to think of it, my mom does this and it drives me crazy, because she doesn't listen to what i actually say, she assumes what I'm saying so much that she literally doesn't hear a word i say,
and then she panics and avoids, distracts, makes up random stuff put words in my mouth and then argue and put on a show panicking about what she assumed or made up what i said (sometimes i can see her consciously make up stuff and misunderstand on purpose, other times i think she honestly doesn't realize that she literally deludes herself),
)
But that being said
First i worry about becoming like that
Second, she often does assume i am coming from selfish reasons and she often frames her actions as noble righteous causes, and avoids any talk of flaws or problems
That sounds s lot like me,
It's tricky cause she has all these trauma and triggers, it's like walking through land mines, but i literally can't address anything important without setting her off, I've tried being patient and calming her down, making her food, music, relaxed etc, and letting her talk for hours while we keep busy with a slight distraction like folding laundry or preparing dinner, i get her calm, and get her talking about something, but then she starts spiraling in her self fulfilling rhetoric, and i can't wait any longer and i try to snap her out of it and get her to see that things aren't so set in stone or bleak, and that we family don't hate her, etc
And we might have 5 minutes of calm discussion, that quickly devolves into chaos and shouting, and her repeating messages, rhetoric, broken record, etc
We've begged her to take care of herself, but i think she's so afraid of digging through her past that she makes up grand fears for herself, she thinks she'll have to practically be a monk when she goes through therapy, like she thinks she will have to isolate herself from her kids and grandkids for years or until she dies, and that it will take tons of money, etc etc etc,
But there's free support groups, and she could take things a little here and there, and in the meantime, her life is falling apart, and all her kids have PTSD around her
How do I start a new magic to do list ?
Click on the three dots at the right hand side of a to do list item and you can remove it or clear any subtasks.