How to Stop Being Obsessed With a Celebrity : Lifelong Learning
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Stopping an obsession with a celebrity requires you to examine why you're obsessed in the first place. Learn how to stop being obsessed with a celebrity with help from an educational consultant in this free video clip.
Expert: Kevin Roberts
Filmmaker: Jerome Sawyer
Series Description: Learning doesn't have to stop the moment you graduate from high school. Get tips on various topics that you'll continue to learn about all throughout your life with help from an educational consultant in this free video series. - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
Ugh it’s so annoying having a crush on someone who doesn’t know you exist.
xD true! so true
@Lucia Siller oh that's possibly even worse ....fictional characters are the most unattainable
It’s a pain
(me with every crush ive had)
So frustrating
The fact that I needed to even look this up- 💀
I am obsessed with a celebrity and i get so sad and heartbroken whenever I hear even a rumour about him dating someone. I keep on making fake scenarios in my head which I know will never come true. I hate it so freaking much😣😣
Same!!
Same here and it hurts🥺
Same here and it hurt so much 😢 i must resist these temptations lol
@@thaninadjoudi6025 yeah its like a cactus the more you hold on to it the more it hurts. Damn i cant get her from my head its been a month lol 🤣 btw who is your celebrity crush?
I'm exactly the same
Dang I didn’t realize being obsessed with a celebrity could get this bad after reading these comments I’m like daaang
*cough* jacquees *cough*
we need to put our energy into ourselves not our obsessions
EXACTLY 🙄
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it..
@@mysticblood212 hello, how is it going? you stopped having a crush on her?
@@cetta7838 Yup, I manage to stop it now, instead I had a crush on someone else
@Mystic Blood ye same😂
Remember the fact that they are not giving anything to us
Instead luv ur parents who cares and luv us
So many people in the comments because of BTS
Raji how did you know🧐
Yes ofcourse💜
Yass
Ayy how do you know
You dont bave to attac us like this😭
but its becuase i dont have any good relationships i feel like i belong with celebrity
mood
That’s how I feel a lot
Same feelings
Katy Perry obsession IK me too.
Why what's wrong u are scared of getting rejected? U are afraid of failures on life? Life is a test we mistake we learn we growth focus on your goals the right person will come into your life true love will discover your heart simple logic rejection breeds obsession if u reject failure in relationships then it will lead you to obsession and make u toxic just take the positive vibe from the celebrities never imagine sh*t as you're gonna date them or marry them they have their own life someone precious in my life left me for a celebrity so I just wanted to share my thoughts!
Ok when you said 'treatment' , it gave me chills .
Lesson to myself: better stop watching bts or else you'll waste your life , they worked hard for their life now you should work harder to overcome them. Do you want to be called a failure? You have one life just one!!!
"Treatment" is just therapy bro no need to get chills over that. A lot of people could use therapy to better their lives.
Thanks but i was already failure or a failure then how to be successful tell me??? 🙏
These celebrities are successful because they are fully focused on themselves. At least while climbing the fame ladder. I’m obsessed by one, I had to stop and think (after reading everything I could on him) that he was so driven and focused to achieve his goal. He didn’t give up after knock backs etc. They get in the best shape of their lives, eat well and generally take care of themselves. We need to be more like them, not only to get over them but also imagine the enormous benefits we would personally get if we put a fraction of our energy into ourselves that we willingly give away to them.
I have been struggling with this problem for a long time. Even now, I say that I am going to stop, but it is difficult.
Josephine Mattia same babe😭 I got stress to get rid of it😭😭😭😭
Mine is like sooo attractive on a sextual leave as well!!!
It’s sad af to obsess over some random dudes who don’t know you exist, quite funny too.
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it..
@@mysticblood212 same but another actress. Are u still obsessed with ith her?
Honestly to get over a celebrity is to just not watch them everyday. And just keep yourslf busy with things in your life. Get a job if you dont have one. If you have studies do that. Just keep yourself busy on bettering your life and doing things that make you happy. And believe me you will not care. You are going to forget about it, and then you are going to look back and think, omg i was wasting my time.
After reading so many comments, I realized that majority of the people are here for bts. Like I think this bts addiction is a serious problem for armies all over the world. We know that we obviously cannot blame them for this. They might not even know that so many people have unhealthy obsessions over them. And not like all the kpop bands, it's a different thing with bts. I really recommend everyone that IF you are a person who gets obsessed with people or things very quickly and you don't know who bts are...please avoid knowing them. Rest it's your choice I am just recommending. And the armies who are obsessed and want to get over the obsession...just remember one thing...nothing is more important than your goals.
Edit: Something needs to be done about this addiction thing with them.
Exact
Y
Do you have any solutions
@@tufailabbas1337 i've been obsessed with bts for a while but i figured out how to stop. the secret and to me, the only way to stop, is to obsess yourself with the only one who will not let you down, who will not hurt you, who will always be there for you, will never ignore you. and that is God. islam will help you and if you have doubts then read the Quran. that is my solution and it wouldnt hurt to give it a shot
I am addicted to j hope 😭😭😭..
Yea avoid
I am here because I know the motivations of the entertainment industry to make money off me using my anxiety and obsessions, and this is disgusting. I am currently studying psychology. I am an army. BTS members can be good people, but I realize they are all actors and the company takes advantage of our weaknesses. I obsess and feel sorry for a lot of things for them. this is ridiculous and I feel in a weird circle. I hated being a teenager in this generation.
I have a friend whom is has obsession over them (I didn't even knew them before, and I also do not know them now), but my friend called me desperated saying that she is staring to literaly make fake scenarios with them, and she said she needs help, so if you could explain it more clearly I would be really glad, anyway hope that you are better now
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it..
I am an Army too and this is 100% true
It’s also a form of limerence, look that up if you need more information and help on this topic. It’s a form of escapism through infatuation with the fantasy of someone. Sometimes making up fake scenarios can help you get through traumatizing times and serves a purpose, but in the long-term it can hurt you as obsessing over someone else can keep you from taking the action needed to make your own life feel fulfilling to a point where you don’t need to fill the emptiness with fake scenarios that will probably never come true. Plus living so much in fantasy can make real love and connections seem pale in comparison.
I didn't realise how deep I'm in until today.. I cried literally n thought how pathetic I can be that I love someone I can never get.. even tho I know I'm not "in love" with him but it still hurts so bad.. I've had basically built my own world with him.. I was heartbroken when I get know that Tom Hiddleston is dating.. I want best for him n want him to be happy that's exactly how I feel , I do not feel any kind of resentment towards Zawe to be honest tho.. I feel nothing towards her , she's a beautiful girl.. but it still hurts knowing that I will never be able to know that amazing man
Edit : in my 18 years I've never been in a relationship , there was a guy I liked but that's it.. it was never mutual
OMG that's how I feel rn 😭
i like someone who is a fictional character:/ like i’m sad asf cuz Draco Malfoy isn’t even real 😫
Uff that hit home I feel you ❤
@@itssunflower3522 who's yours may I ask ?
@@sylviemaximoff2688 Well..it's James Phelps 🧡 who played Fred Weasley in Harry Potter. Rn he is in my country but still too far away from my town. It's like having a crush on yout classmate you know you can't be together with haha 😆
NCT and kpop itself has ruined my life. I'm addicted to everything about it but still hate some parts of it. Every. Single. Day. If you are not a kpop stan, I suggest that you don't even look that way. I may have it way worse then others as I have no social life as i'm homeschooled. I haven't even done any work this school year and got into a technical high school in the US. I have no work to give to them and I hate it. I use to be at the top of my class respected by everyone I knew and did so much but I don't know what to do about this anymore. Please don't become like me.
i want to talk you the same age the same obsession k pop
did you manage to get through it? :o
I was a top student in my school, now I am obsessed with jimin, I wasn't happy child at home, now I don't have social life, how should I get over this obsession 😭😭😭
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it..
I'm obsessed with BTS and it hurts me, like I cry because I always think stuff like "I'll never meet them" or "they'll die one day" it emotionally makes me sob like right now I'm crying so much. Heeeeeelp 😭
Lustrousjimin omg me too :(
I don't know but many ARMYs are suffering from the same thing. Well just understand that they are normal human beings,thats it. Hope it helps.
I want to break from Kpop(my faves not BTS)..can you guys help me?
Maybe u shud stop watching them it helps trust me. Korean TV can so addictive
Mee to😭
I literally cried for 15 minutes bc I missed Shawn Mendes live performance on tv. I need help.
I felt that 🤣
I’m obsessed obsessed obsessed with Harry Styles and if I even think about any guy, I feel like I’m cheating on him. I cannot disconnect because that’s the first thing I do and the last thing , I text him. 😭😭😭❤️💔
sis same
idk if its only me but being a kpop fan actually destroyed my self esteem.
they always made it seem like they were a lot higher than me and that im nothing compared to them.
even if they show love to their fans, still their lyrics and acts just send another perspective.
and everytime they mentioned who their ideal type is, i wanted to change my appearance to look like that and lose weight, etc. which caused a lot of anxiety and sadness.
if anyone relates please write in the comments.
It's so sad but I can absolutely relate to you ... .
I thought everything was still normal, but when I read what the ideal girlfriend of my idol looks like, I just started thinking in my head how I could change my look, like wtf
It's kind of scary and makes you feel uncomfortable once you understand how far it has come...
I can relate to you as well...
@@nadinerenee1158 yeah idk if its just me but i also got this feeling that i really envy many of the female kpop idols' body type, i always wished to be so skinny even tho thats not my body type 😞 i just wanted to look like the ideal type for the kpop artist i was obsessed with.
Same my friend 🥺I am feeling depressed
@@welovebts7 wanna talk?
“If you feel like your mood and wellbeing are linked to what goes on in the life of a celebrity you do have a problem” wow this really hit me. being a kpop fan in general is hard bc when your faves don’t chart well, are attacked by other fans/knetz, disband, or have someone outsell or outchart them you get affected. competition with other groups gets so exhausting. i feel like their success is my success and their failure is my failure which is so wrong in so many ways especially when i’ve been sad for months over something that happened to one of the groups i’m a fan of. i never realized until today how big of an influence they have on my life and my mental health, and i really do think it’s time to do some distancing and reflecting of my own.
did it goes well
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it..
I thought my obsession with BTS was good for me until I realised that what they do is now linked to my happiness AND sadness…I need to change 😢
I took a break from obsessing over them all. It's helped alot, you feel free finally and lighter. You start to think differently everyday and outgrow bad habits. It takes time though, so be patient with yourself and learn to love yourself. One of the hobbies that helped me was spending quality time with non toxic family members and reading interesting books in my spare time. What also helped is journaling my thoughts and feelings every time I felt low.
I'm here because my best friend is obsessed with a member of a band from the 80s who is an old man now.
😂😂
😂😂😂
This comment section really needed this comment 🤣
No me
Not best friend but say directly you 😁😁😄😄
a die hard kpop fan from the last 4 years. since the age of 15 I'm trying to make myself perfect like them as they show us. before 4 years my whole class was crazy for kpop I was tge only one who kept myself away from that. but I was not to confident about myself pr my appearance and then one of my friend told me to start watching bts and she told me that they help people to love myself and listening to I tried them and TILL DATE IT'S MY BIGGEST REGRET. I wish I had the power to change things. 4 years in completely low self confidence. they made my self esteem so low and I'm so obsessed that at this point I don't know when I start sobbing thinking what will I do when they will reveal their partner. I tried so hard to stay from them but it didn't worked. amd tbh the only one who I'm obsessed is Jungkook and Taehyung. they both ruined my self esteem. they visually and virtually appeared to be so perfect that at a point I started doubting on my existence. yes my dressing sense improved but my mental health. it's not healthy anymore. anyone if you can please help this girl.
I cant help you, but know that you're not alone, I'm in the same boat. They seem so perfect and unreal but the truth is they're not. You will never reach their beauty unless you get surgery, because thats what they got, surgery. You'll never have the body idols have beacuse it's not realistic, they edit their photos and go on harmful diets, and even doing that, their body is still not the way they put it on camera. It's not worth it comparing yourself to idols, its so unrealistic, and who knows... they might aswell br faking their personality just to please us.
I’m crying because I’m obsessed with Taeyhung from BTS 😩
Carly Fox same case just with jimin !
I'm obsessed with all 7 BTS members
scottboy02 what are you talking about?
Omg that’s the exact reason I came here
That’s the main reason why I’m here😭 not just Taetae but all members 😭
To whoever is reading this.
I am not really attached to any celebrity. But recently as i discovered BTS I started following them watching their videos and kinda found myself a little obsessed so I just wanted to know why the heck we get obsessed with celebrities or any characters of a movie or anything like that. There can be so many reasons.
Keeping my experience in view I think that For the majority of us one of the main reason could be seeing in the celebrity what we don't have. It could be anything particularly we see success , things they have achieved, their popularity, their physical appearance and all those things that we all want to have in this era
And this happens coz we don't know what we want we feel a sense of standing nowhere in comparison to those celebrities Making us not loveable to our own self. we wont see how cute we act at times instead we will watch how cute some celebrity is merely feeding some random cat out there.
that means somewhere the self love is lacking and if u hate urself for any thing u will see that in some celebrity and want to have it since u can't have it cause u are not doing anything about it u will binge watch that celebrity feel good about how perfect that person is. You need to work on self love my dear. Coz the day u will become obsessed about urself (don't take it negatively) you will start working on yourself u will realize how less of a life is with u how life is so uncertain and as u live only once(skip the spiritual part of being eternal please that's different ) you gotta make the best of the time that u have got.
And if u like some celebrity read about their past get inspired by them and follow what they did that is they worked on themselves to stand at a position which we from far away see as perfect.
We see them and we feel oh gosh I just wanna marry this guy (referring to those who take these things seriously not the once who are just being flirty once in a while)
Why dear u wanna marry him ?
Just coz he is handsome or he is popular. U can't be that shallow . See the reality. They worked day in day out to be what they are now. Are you ready to work like that (the day u will start doing that u will get people who will like and want u to have) as a human we are attracted to people who do great things like a person waking up daily ,at 4 am will get respect and attention from others and then they will ask that person for his secrets to be so disciplined. We won't like some douchebag sitting all the time near Tv binge watching friends. We will like someone who is talented who is fit or who is best at what they do right ?
Why not be that person.?
I mean I feel we waste a lot of time on celebrities that we forget the celebrity inside of us. I don't know if I am making sense to you but trust me self love ( u can call it positive self obsession where u care about urself) is all that will help u out from getting attached to any celebrity . You will give urself and ur work prioty over watching some shit. I am calling it shit cause if any celebrity makes u waste ur time well he can never be ur inspiration then.
If u wanna get rid of these things and develop self love just follow few simple things
1. Start journaling - this will help you to know yourself. It might sound stupid but I just want u to follow it for 2 weeks u will see changes automatically.
Once you start thinking about yourself you see places where u can work to improve yourself like if it's studying. You will find out through journaling how you are not giving time to studying then u will look for reasons why u do that and hence u can start habit of fixing morning and night shifts of study sessions and this way ur improved performance and grades would give u confidence and u will feel good about urself
If it's about learning a new thing like playing a guitar write it in your journal why u wanna learn it how much time it will take trace that in your journal.
2- improve ur personalty and be the person you will fall in love with.
If u feel ur health is not good start improving read about it write about it . Change ur habits and imbibe healthy habits.
In the end if u are attached and negatively obsessed to some celebrity just coz they are beautiful or handsome . I am sorry Friend but you are being too shallow you got to change it and only journaling could help u so.
Please start journaling.
I love you.
Take care.
Wow girl.Thank you so much 💜 You're right ......
Same army I have made 2 times a conversation with my self like
I may never even meet them and if they date someone I should be happy about them and not jealous.You are so right
I've experienced the same thing. I was completely obsessed with BTS and it's for the reasons mentioned in this video BUT I've got a whole different take on the situation.
BTS is a product thus maybe a more accurate description of my situation is that I was addicted to them but I'm not anymore. I cut them off after a
discovering what they truly are. K-pop is a product. BTS is a product that's designed to be incredibly addictive esp. to people who like thus are susceptible to products that are cute, clean/sanitized, light, fun. They're also a Lifestyle Brand. This means they understand exactly what their consumers/fans want and sell you a specific way of living. They sell beliefs and values that coincide with your own.
If you add that up with their talent, skill, appearance and the intense marketing you get BTS - K-pop sensation, K-pop phenomenon, BoyBand of the decade and Mega Super Group.
i've been obsessed with bts for a while but i figured out how to stop. the secret and to me, the only way to stop, is to obsess yourself with the only one who will not let you down, who will not hurt you, who will always be there for you, will never ignore you. and that is God. islam will help you and if you have doubts then read the Quran.
You're right!
That's my problem too.
Inshallah we will overcome BTS and any group
Everyone in the comments celeb crushes are kpop idols meanwhile I’m obsessing over basic white men like Evan peters and Robert Pattinson
SAMEEE
U r not alone... I love joe jonas...
Benedict Cumberbatch. I spent $200 on shoes that looked like his and bought a $100 poster. And I bought a fragrance that he's rumored to like. Argh. It's quite ugh.
Dude leo dicaprio, its annoying i always find myself watching all of his interviews instead of stydying
@@joycesantos1516 Safe to say we have it bad. :)
Obsession is hell of a drug
No doubt!! Our brain feed it like a morphine and without it intense disphoric feeling
Do I have satisfying relationships in my life? This hit me hard😭😭
I am a little obsessed with some TH-camrs... Its not a sexual way or romantic way, I just want to be friends and hang out with them. They seem so cool to me, and i have a real problem...
I am obsessed with KIM TAEHYUNG and BTS in general . I have a big exam coming and I really need to get myself together and do well. I have serious trust issues and haven't risked being in any romantic relationship before cuz I feel like my heart will be broken. And I distract myself by fangirling and now that's become a problem to me. I don't know I can't smile over the fact that Taehyung will get married one day . I mean I just want him to be happy but it also saddens me. And with the current rate of my internet usage over BTS , I need to stop and get some help .
I'm not over him yet (guess I never will) but I think I've started to feel a lilllll bit less infatuated. Trust me I've been there, I also have anxiety and severe depression before falling for him so it killed me a lot with this obsession, I suffered and devastated for months. I feel you like 200%. My friends here they're not BTS fan so I'm like the only wierd one 😩 I wished I had found an Army girl at that time to talk to and share my feelings with, like encourage and motivate each other to study whenever one losing control, or get super melted about Tae together, etc... It'll be easier cuz the fandom can be toxic sometimes
Trang Minh Exactly same burning feeling bcoz of Kim Taehyung
Went far to marry him 😭
I even want to get rid of myself to end this
I feel the pain as like being in your place , ofcourse it will be better if i too get a friend like you guys
@@Nivetha..... omg you sound exactly like my inner self . I love you and can 100% feel you. We will get through this .
@@sonakshi9181 What's this , seems like contact info !?! Am not in insta 😕
To the 4 of us here..
Can we like, create a WhatsApp group real quick!?
if you are here because of BTS you re welcome u re not the only one :)
Hello
Here because of Jaemin! He bewitched me badly!😖
Omg hahahaha
😭😭
I'm here becuz of tae😭😭😭
Its 5am in the morning and I’m crying over the fact that I’ll never be with JUNGKOOK.. help
i've been obsessed with bts for a while but i figured out how to stop. the secret and to me, the only way to stop, is to obsess yourself with the only one who will not let you down, who will not hurt you, who will always be there for you, will never ignore you. and that is God. islam will help you and if you have doubts then read the Quran.
YO I WAS JUST CRYING AN HOUR AGO
LETS BE FRIENDS LMAO WE ARE SAMEEE
AND I WAS CRYING OVER JUNGKOOK TOO WHEN I SEE HIM TALKING ABOUT IU
@@welovebts7why are crying bruh stop don't u love his choice ???
Well am here for JK from bts , man this guy drives me crazy and I just can't stop thinking about him. I guess am getting mad or something else whatever but I need to come out from this .
Me too 😭 And when he doesnt post or is inactive like it physically pains me. I know this isnt healthy
Sameeee help Mee
I think we need a threapy sessions for people who are obsessed with celebirties it's like a drug habit or drinking where once you drink it will be hard to stop
SAMEEE ITS MAKING ME SUICIDAL TOO
I’m obsessed with Shawn Mendes because just just LOOK AT HIM LOOK HOW NICE HE ACTS WITH EVERYONE 😭😭😭
Reminds me of myself
I am here because i am obsessed with Harry styles 💔😭
Even me😭😭😭😭😭😭
I’m obsessed with young Niall horan 😭
Seriously for me this obsession over BTS is really hard...I always want to get rid of that obsession and im slowly wasting my life and losing my carrier which i desperately wanted someday..even I didn't get good score on my exams..but still my mind wants to get over their obsession but heart of army never leaves them...I do need help to get over them plzzzzzz😭😭😭
actually if you watch the fake love preformance 2018 MAMA'S fans choice, at the part they dance like puppets there is a face of satan above them. as if it controls them. as if they worship it. worshipping satan is called satanism. its like making a pact with the devil and selling your soul to him.
@@alexplain8848 😶😶😶! I also think there is satanism involved
Same help me 😭💔🙏
@@alexplain8848bruh I knew that it's called dajjal in our Islamic world where musician sell their soul to him
Imam mehdi will kill him
People who recite surah kahf will be safe from shaytan and dajjal they can take us to helll
I stopped stanning kpop a while ago because I had a lot of things going on in real life, now that it's quarantine I'm starting to obsess over people, I just cried because niachu, this twitch streamer was cute today.. I'm taking a looooong break from social media to undo this mess, it's genuinely so sick and twisted and I refuse to be like this
so... it's been a year, how was your social media detox?
Yeah. My life is now hell after getting addicted to kpop. I'm struggling to come out .
LIFE BEFORE KNOWING K POP WAS DEDICATED TOWARD MY GOAL BUT AFTER KNOWING THEM I ALWAYS GET CURIOUS ABOUT THER LIFE & THAT IS KILLING MY TIME
I am very obsessed with a serial actor , and I think it's affecting my grades also😔...there has been not a single moment where I haven't thought about him... My most strongest wish is to meet him one day and tell him how much I love him and he is my role model...but there r many other fan girls feeling the same way. Moreover, he such an epitome of perfectness, that he can get the girl of his dream, then why should he even want to know my existence? But still, my stubborn heart cannot accept the real fact and still wants him like crazy!
Somebody please help me to stop fangirling with BTS😭😭 their videos always attract me to watch😭😭 I have a real big examination and I want to get straight A😭😭 how can I get A if I'm not study😭😭😭😭 I hate being in this position😢
anis mohd yesss the same wid me!....bt now wht i hve just started doing is.....i keep a certain restriction that i hve to learn these much chps n practise these much sums....then i will watch bts....so its helping a bit....n it will but we will hve to tame ourselves cuz our career is one of the most imp things.....all my frnds were like "u will hve to stop watching them" n m like.....bt i wanna live!....so i thought tht i should balance both of them.
Same with me...😭😭😭
Listen, just understand that they are not important more than you, take care of yourself.
OMG , same sis 😭 I love v so much . I have a big exam. I'm dying
Mee too😭
Just to avoid some personal problems, difficulties, hard tasks in my life I got obsessed to a celebrity. while watching him I was feeling happiness but this short term happiness became my addiction! I'm gonna work on myself and try to stay busy in me! Thanks sir 🙏 ☺
Edit: I successfully did what i said above
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it.
@@mysticblood212 1) don't watch any stuff related to her like videos, pics, news etc.
2) give your time to the things you like for example if you have any hobby then try to do it
3) this is important, as much you will keep your conversation with people around you that much your brain won't show you her thoughts or memories related to her.
4) If you feel like your mind is showing you thoughts related to her then immediately try to observe the objects infront of you for example if you are at home and you are remembering about her then immediately try to observe the furniture or sofa which is infront of you. Try to find different shapes in the design of sofa, check if the sofa has any scratch or not, if it is clean or not. Point is that try to observe whatever thing which is infront of you so your brain will get distracted
5) I know thinking about our crush give us a good feeling which keeps us away from our reality, but tell your mind "the person I am thinking about doesn't even know I exist." Train your mind with this sentence
It took me more than 1 month to get along with these habits and these habits also helps me to keep myself away from overthinking ( specifically that 4th one helped me alot)
I became able to spend my whole time on my mobile without even having a glance of the celebrity I was addicted with. I hope it will help you
@@skylarnext7914 Thanks for the advice
100 % relatable
@@seee5u I was so much addicted to this celebrity (I will not say his name).
But when I overcame my addiction I never did overthinking about him even while watching stuffs related to him, I even saw a pic of him being topless on beach still I only 'liked' that pic and scrolled it down, I still listens
to his songs but I never imagined myself in the MV with him.
I know why I got obsessed with them but those problems don't have an answer like I tried getting support but there's none. These ideal people that maybe I created in my mind are the only support I got
kim taehyung, this one's for you.
May allah send him on right path ameen
Obsessed with BTS... specially jimin..I feel like they're a part of my life!!!!!👄
U are not alone tho
Same bro wtfff
im too obsessed with jungkook😭
Same here girl...
Fr Same ☹️😭😭😭
Omg yea it’s becoming a problem now 😭
I feel you 😔 but like it’s so hard to stop being obsessed like I need to move on
Me too and when he doesnt post or someone says fake rumor about him, like it physically, emotionally hurts me alot. But this attachment isnt healthy at all. Nothing about it
I was introduced to the fangirl's lifestyle first when I became a "huge" fan of this one boyband. During those years, I was active on twitter, reading other fangirls' tweets and relating to them. There were ships involved in my fangirling. I believed it all. But then, the band broke up and I came out of it, felt lied to, as I realised that so much of what the fans were shown, was just that, a show. And I realised that there is so much we don't really know that goes on. And now years later, I'm again a fan of BTS. A cautious fan, though. I admire and love their hardwork and songs and the movement they're bringing out. And watching compilation of their funny moments on youtube by fans is always a mood lifter. But then I came across some "serious ships analysis" videos and it was like a slap to my face. I watched some before and almost got invested into it at a personally emotional level before I realised that once upon a time, I wouldn't have hesitated to believe them. And I remembered all the emotional rides I had gone through because of SOMEONE ELSE'S life that I didn't even personally knew any of. This time, I was, thank god, able to realise the spiral I was about to go on. This video put some things into words that I've been realising but not quite able to verbalize into words. Thank you!
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it..
Thanks so much for sharing! Ships has been the thing that has most upset me about KPOP. One minute your loving following them and next minute it all seems like a lie…
U are saved girl u are lucky therer is no going back once you come into fandom
I'm here because of J-hope. I cant stop i really need help. It feels like sin to try and stop my obsession over him uwuuuuuu
Same but it's too hard 😭😭😭
Sis,same..
its crazy how many bts stans are here, even tho I can relate yall gotta understand that what you see on the media is not always accurate with real life. I know its hard to see or understand, especially with amazing figures and quirky idols like bts, but your life if more important then somebody else’s so focus on urself and dont feel bad for taking a break they would probably understand :)
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it.
Obsessed with Rihanna, literally eats at my soul
I read some comments here and I'm happy to see that alot of ppl here have finally started to see the toxicity of the kpop fan culture which is created by the companies themselves. I too am into kpop but since day one i had an opened mind so i didn't fall prey as hard as many ppl have and criticizedwhat was obviously wrong. I have one group that I like, they are not the best group in the industry but i fell in love with them because of their honesty and genuinity, they hardly ever act like some other kpop celebs I've seen and that made me like them so much and they truly are inspirational to me nevertheless I'm well aware of the fact that they are formed by a strategically planned team.
We all just have to realise that celebs are just people and we should if we do, look up to celebrities who are at least genuine. You'll get nothing from being obsessed over famous people who portray themselves as unattainable. Also be aware of those scammers who try to win their fans' hearts by showing their vulnerability "true" self. There was this one kpop idol who only got recognized after talking about his depression and alot of ppl started following him and the team because anyone can relate to the stressful life and struggles. This ain't all bad but it was a great marketing strategy.
The most important idea that you have to live by is that you only have yourself. So always look after your mental health, get to know yourself better through spending more time with yourself and mostly love yourself. Divert the energy and love you direct to a celebrity to yourself and you'll thank yourself for that one day.
I’m crying because of Kim Tae-hyung from BTS and I just can’t get over him. Everything about him seems so perfect and adorable to me.. I just... I can’t.. he seems to be the only person to make me happy and smile on some days..
I probably do need help lmao :p
Same here!! 😭
So am i
I became fan 1 month ago and now i'm getting badly obsessed
Hey are u over taehyung???
My big problem is, I put my obsessions over my friends and now I have no friends. My obsessions being Kpop mainly...
as a Kpop Stan I’ve been infatuated with many different celebs/idols and I just have to say just find new people and your brain will do its thing ig. But if you are still obsessed with that same old celeb it probably means you rlly love them a lot or you’re still infatuated with them (which will usually fade away within 2 months)
did you come across it??
I am in love with a celebrity too, its so hard to deal with. Im not naming mine but he is married and when I hear him talk about her my heart physically hurts and I like her two! I love that she makes him happy I just wish I could be there. you know? And I make these fake scenes in my head and even talk to myself! It just hurts and I wanted to share my story!
Dude ,it happens to me too,there's this celebrity I am obsessed with I imagine that I'm kissing and cuddling him but when I see I literally am kissing my own hand and thinking that is him ....bro what is up with me but now I have stopped
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it.
My crush isa lesbian
@@mysticblood212
Shut tf up spamming everywhere 💢🤬😤
@@thegovtdoesntcareaboutyou
Gross 🤢🤮💩 and shut tf up spamming everywhere!? 💢🤬😤
I came here because I'm soo obsessed with BTS
But didn't listen a word what he was saying instead read all the comments
Glad to know I'm not alone😁
Who's here because they are obsessed with BTS??????? Because I cannot stop binge watching TH-cam videos based on them. Like why?! Ugh. I love them too much that they are stuck in my head all the time!!!
Watch ur boring life sit with ur boring ideas listen to ur parents do bicycle and exercise
Amazing Fact : You searched for it, this video, not recommended.
Okay, so I feel low key crazy cause I'm watching this and this is relevant as hell lol and more than likely true.
Everyone’s here because of BTS...
But I’m here because of darn Timothèe Chalamet 😂
Sammmme 🤣
SAME its an actual problem
It’s actually not funny anymore 😭
hello im here because of taehyung from bts 😔😭
Ok everyone listen! I'm here for BTS. I was literally obsessed in 2017 and the obsession became too serious so I took a long break, a very long one and after 2 years here I am again obsessed with the same guy i.e. TAEHYUNG. I can't help myself. I don't know what to do. I have tried everything, ignoring them for 2 years, imagine and here I am again.
Omg if you ever get a solution please inform me .
@Nicole Nascimento girl, I honestly didn't want to reply to you coz you are trying your best to ignore them, but please pardon, because I wanna know did you really follow what you preached? I am curious coz it's been a week since u posted this and btw, thanks for your suggestions, I will try doing what u told 👍
LITERALLY ME 😭 that guy…
I'm here cuz I'm obsessed with Hrithik Roshan, I love him so much
Omg finally someone for an indian celebrity 😭🥺
Literally everyone is here because of BTS while I'm here bcs of Bambam & Got7
I'm here because of SWS, i have posters all over my room, i watch stuff about them for hours and just crying over the fact that they will never come to israel😭
Nope not me
I AM WAY OBSESSED WITH TAEHYUNG! GOOD GOD, HELP ME! I'M drowning
You need to get closer to real people as well as watch positive videos on youtube .
Whenever there comes a BTS video just ignore!
Everyone here obsessed with bts and I'm here sitting and trying to ignore tom felton( draco malfoy) when he was young
Omg thank you finally someone else who has a a obsession with draco malfoy / young Tom Felton
Me too!
I’m obsessed with young niall horan 😭
I'm here bcuz of RM from BTS... I can't stop liking him... I got no jams!!!!! He's so perfect!!!!
Felt that😅
I'm here for Jimin y'all. Damnnn
I'm here for J-Hope ☹️
@@amandatralis4445 it's okay, you'll move on soon. Just like how I moved on from Jimin and Tae.😊💜
I’m kinda here for like most of them but like it’s so hard to stop the obsession
I am sorry to say, but this didnt work. I'm still obsessed with Tom Holland and Why Don't We
I'm obsessed with zendaya
i’m obsessed with someone y’all wouldn’t know i wouldn’t think
Lucia Siller SANS WTHHHH
@Lucia Siller BRUH IM OBSESSED WITH CARL FROM TWD (CHANDLER RIGGS)
*I literally shifted to my bts obsession Twice now😔,park jimin the most this days,obsessing over twice the most and bts too*
I’m obsessed with jimin like everytime i close my eyes i see him and im in the point of crying before i sleep cause i cant sleep since all i can think about is him when i close my eyes 😭😭
Yesterday I couldn't sleep cuz I was singing their songs in my head. Armys need help😭💀
@@Yourfavmelinaahereee we do be down bad tho
I have started loving BTS for literally like 3 days but I know what path I'm leading on ....that's why I'm here coz I know what will exactly happen in the end coz I was a 1- D-irectioner and ooooh boy that ship sank deep and hard💔💔
SAMEEE! 😥
U are doomed u need stop giving them attention
I'm thankful for being a straight guy after reading all these comments about BTS...
I'm really obsessed with Mishkat Varma (Indian) 💓💓💓I just can't stop thinking about him 😞😞
lmao i'm really watching this today huh i really need to love myself more
this is actually so helpful, thank you!
I'm old school & my celebrity crushes were 80's tv stars & movie actors (i.e. Hunter von Leer, Gary Sandy, Reb Brown, etc.)....I had it for years! Thanks for this video! I had no idea this was real. I thought it was normal, but obviously it wasn't. It's a learning process, but it CAN be done.
I've been wasting almost all my time watching bts videos... I know it's not good for my health both mentally and physically. Now I need help
I'm an OT7 of BTS (all of them my bias), and is hard because I'm obsessed with all of them. Everyday I try to face reality but it's so hard I can't stop watching and I wish I could be their wife but I know I never will. I have an essay to do but I literally don't even care I spent my whole day watching BTS. I want to get out of this rabbit hole before I get too deep, I'm starting to find it unhealthy now as I can't go about my day until I watch BTS.
Same 😔
What's your age
no one:
literally no one:
not even a soul:
my brain while watching this video: remembers Jungkook after reading junkie written on that book at his back----------
save me God!
I don’t think I can’t stop being obsessed with Harry Styles 😭✋
Or niall horan 😭😭😭😭
Or Louis Tomlinson 😭
You can!!
I've hit the bts hole too hard. I need professional help...
Same
Same its making me depressed and suicidal
Exactly ur therepist will play a games with u
Im addicted to TS 😭 and it affecting my study and work. Just this morning instead of reviewing for an exam Im on my phone the whole morning to check if she gets an award in the VMAs that resulted to my failed exam...i hate this, this is so sad 😢
I had obsessed with dua lipa for 1 year can't stop thinking about her so i stop listen to her music unfollow fan page and i only use social media for 30 min and focus on my goal.A few months later i stop thinking about but i still care about her new music and her update.6 months later i don't care about her update i find new artist and listen to them Now i don't really care about her but sometime i listen to her music.She doesn't know my existence but for me she's like ex girlfriend to me I know it's hard but you need to stop obsessed with celebrities it can ruin your life.Focus on your dream.Btw sorry for my bad english.
I'm in love with channie from stray kids IDK what to do it's been only 4 months since I became a stay(stray kids Fandom name) but this obsession is just getting worse day by day.
I'm 17 year old and this is the first ever time I've fallen in love with someone and the someone is a celebrity. I have no one to talk about this.
I want to get over him. Help me.
I hate how a celebrity impact my life so much.
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it.
heyy i j wanted to ask, did u get over bang chan?
can I ask you.. did you get over them cuz im in the exact situation right now ..
fuck I can't keep this to myself so I'm commenting here. I'm inlove with Hoseok, and I want to stop please helppp :(( I want to be normal back when I'm only a normal fan, not that I'm obsessed but I want to change myself before I get toxic
Yea same, lately I haven't been listening or watching their content or fanfiction because healthy fans were saying that's the best approach. But still now every time I see them somewhere I get this anxious feeling remembering that they'll never know who I am.
but overall have you gotten any better??
@@iilgmelo6634 plss same, even just seeing them on my timeline I always skip cause I get anxious for no reason. I commented this last year and I can say it got better and I spent less of my time on the and on him. I can still feel some type of sadness I can't explain but it just slips of my head fast
What to do when ur heart rebells? Your mind lose consciousness? You start to feel like your soul is no longer yours,all u care all u think all u live for all u love all u love to die for willingly is centralized around one person who seems to be an entire universe to you !! The person which is no where to be seen around you physically u start to see it every where!🤐
Bruh ur heart will choose dopamine rush over going away and doing low dopamine work
It's not only about celebrity but it also helped to detach myself from my toxic BF
I feel so humiliated at myself. Mine is a romantic celebrity obsession, like I actually felt like I loved him and like we had a lot in common....and then this interview came out were that celebrity talks about all his kinks and they were so gross and saddening to me and then I was saddened at myself for caring since it doesn't pertain to my life what they do or what they are interested in ...but it's still depressed me, since clearly I had this elaborate fantasy what they would be like romantically
I am so obsessed with Hailee Steinfeld. I mean I just love her, she has such an amazing personality and cute looks and it makes me extremely jelouse when I see her kiss someone or get close to other dude now she is in a relationship and it's ever worse, it horrifies me when I picture her do that stuff with her boyfriend. I wish I get over this asap but everytime I try I fail. It's so fucking frustrating.
Mahikdeep Kaur OMFG SAME
I have the exact same problem with Hailee, I have loved celebrities in the past but with hailee it’s fucking deporesing.
LMFAO finally I found someone. I’m literally dealing with this now man. How do I stop it. I’m still a fan of her acting and stuff she does but I’m super annoyed of this obsession
She is dating again
I'm here just for kookie(jungkook)..I feel like crazy for him..
Mee too!!!
Cant get over him ...and i even don't want to get over bts...as they are my only source of happiness!!
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it.
very nice !! Was very useful for my research
Thank you
I have an obsession over the life that multiple TH-camrs live. And their habits and cool life they live, it’s stuck in my head 24/7
I had a severe obsession with youtubers when I was a teenager. Now that I’m in my twenties, I just don’t give a shit about them anymore. You’ll overcome this obsession too.
IM OBSESSED WITH JIMIN JHOPE AND RM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am addicted to sf9 (kpop) kang chan hee. But not anymore because now I realize that God have given all of us such a beautiful life to enjoy it with our family and friends.
And not to waste our precious time on something that is useless.
So, everyone try to make beautiful memories with your family make new friends.
plz how do you overcome it? i am obsessed with Samuel Kim k pop
i only watch him for 2 days i think i can over come it easily
@@helinadaniel7768 great then you can 👍🏻😊🌻
@@rajshreepurohit988 ya i can thankyou
so sorry I was taking a break for 3 weeks i don't even use for a second it's because of this I don't see your replays 10q I journal all my feelings now i know its weirdly false
I've begun to accept that I won't date them but I still want to be within their social circle, they've helped me through the deepest darkest times of my life and I'm so grateful to them. I don't want to go on and live a seperate life from theirs. I still want to meet them and build at least an acquaintance like relationship. They've helped me through so much and I want to pay them back for it. I can't imagine a life without them, they bring me so much happiness but now that I'm aware of how unhealthy this is all I feel when I think about them is sadness. I can't let go, they mean so much to me and I'm so sad
I'm obsessed with Taylor Swift in the past one year especially during covid days. Can't just stop thinking about her all the time 😭😭 it may sound funny. But I'm not able to concentrate on anything else.
Anyone else here because a celebrety you stanned turned out to be an abusive asshole but your heart can't let them go? Just me?
Plz help, I had a crush on this girl actress named Genevieve Hannelius, she's just too beautiful that it makes me unable to stop thinking about her and unable to stop liking her. I can't get over it.
Not just you, mine turned out to be stealing money from deceased members of the band she was in, instead of giving it to the affected members family and didn’t tell the other members she did this.
mind you she was younger when all this happened but still was old enough to realise not to do that (25 or so) even though it happened like 30 years ago it stuck with me because what a unethically cruel thing to do it should’ve been going towards a mother and her children but instead this singer took it and ran under everyone’s noses. But there’s just something about this singer that just keeps me stuck.
@@mysticblood212 I know how you feel :/
@@solisglam Yeah, it's basically a habit
Im obsessed with harry styles its so hard i always think about how my life wold like when l was even a friend to him but no i cant even see him
I’m here because of Zac Efron I get a weird vibe whenever I hear or see something to do with him and I get rlly upset
And I am obssed with Mr bean ☺️😅