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Flirting is the absolute key, since time is so short. Give it your all because even for dates not so promising it is good practice and will keep you in a great smiling mood and shape for the next date, that could be the ONE.
Thank you for including the conversation prompt and other ideas to make it easier for men too! This is a win-win idea. It takes the pressure off the man which help them relax and feel more comfortable. If they feel more relaxed, they'll open up more, and the woman will get a better insight into the 'real' them.
I think the challenge is that most women don't quite understand the challenges men are facing and vice versa. So instead of thinking of go to questions, how can we look for better ways to connect on the human level to be open with each other even if it's just a speed dating event. Thank you for watching 😊
Wow I watched your video and it was very great and insping! I was sure you'd have a bunch of likes. I gave you the 17th like. Carry on, this was fantastic :)
@@IevaKambarovaite The editing is nice, the tips are helpful. For example, I'd never had the idea to make new girlfriends there. Tomorrow I'll have my first speed dating ever and I will see too use your tips. Overall, I like your positive attitude. :)
I got 2 out of 16 matches. I asked two unique questions, gave a compliment and tried humour. Hm, I was expecting more matches....maybe I was too eager?
I think two matches is very very good. It's almost unseen to find two people you fancy or connect with at a speed dating event. I think it's definitely a success. Well done! Did you have fun?
@@IevaKambarovaite I did indeed. Wanted to ask you, do you think flirting and/or giving compliments on speed dating works? As I got the impression it may have been creepy/too forward for some women.
@@mrwazo I think flirting and giving compliments at a speed dating event is definitely not creepy, but you have to read the room and the person in front of you. What works with one woman, may be a complete failure with another. And it has to be original and not a rehearsed cookie cutter phrase 😊
If I’m liking you as well, “too eager” is not a thing. So keep being you❤️. What sane person would say “they’re really attractive and funny and we have alot in common and the convo flowed easily but they showed to much interest, so i said no”?!
How to exchange numbers straight away? Like after the short conservation or after the whole event? Or maybe during a break (they told me there is gonna be one), never been to such an event, it'll be my first time...
There are no particular rules when you can ask someone for their number. It's like chatting to someone at the bar. You can ask their number. If they say no, that's ok. But at least you know you've tried. Good luck and have fun 😊
@@wiktorlipina4315 you're right. You both have to tick ✅ that you'd like to match with this person. However, I think if you like someone you can just approach them, so you don't rely on that tick.
@@IevaKambarovaite I would afterwards it if it wasn't such a huge event!! 😂 I'll probably be tired after talking to 40 women... but I'll try in the break time to approach if I really have a good connection with someone!! It's tomorrow! 😁
@@IevaKambarovaite Actually, no. The first time I went, I was a lot younger and it was a bad experience because everyone was 30 and I was 20 plus they had us double up with a wingman/wingwoman and introverts didn’t talk. Second time was a lot better. Second time women were somewhat younger and I got no matches but it was a lot better. This time was best because they sub-divided everyone into 3 age groups so it was 3 separate sessions with guaranteed close age. I’m excitedly waiting to see if I got any matches. I said yes to all.
@@engineer4god470 how interesting. Usually those events are for certain age groups, but I get if it's 35-45, so it could be a massive difference for you. Saying yes to all is not something I'd recommend, but I can see the logic behind it 😊
@@michaeljohnson5365 of course we're picky. Why wouldn't we? I think you can feel sad about it or you can actually find ways to get yourself to the front line
Take life into your own hands and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Pity is the opposite of lust. Go to the gym and get some interesting hobbies, talk to people more (also in friendship settings). You'll gather confidence slowly (or quickly!). There are way too many amazing women out there for you to be giving up.
There is only ONE rule: IMPRESS WHIT YOUR LOOKING. The questions and topics are absolutely indifferent. In the 21th Century dating industry the only one important factor is: how do you look like? Are you trendy or not? Do you have enough money or not? Your makeup or outfit are expensive or not? The nowadays dating industry offer ONS or short therm relationships, bacause promises fast success for your money.
I think that may get you through the door initially. Like a good pick up line. You may be able to catch someone's attention, but you'll need something with more substance if you want to attract someone with more substance.
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You mean Speed Rejection?, yes I attended two Speed Rejection functions back in late 2005, and it sucked.
We need to ban all speed dating and all dating apps.
I find this content quite a lot more mature than others in terms of psychology and tactics.
Thank you so much. Glad you like it. I'm not much into tricks and ways to manipulate people 😊
Have you seen my other videos on speed dating?
Flirting is the absolute key, since time is so short. Give it your all because even for dates not so promising it is good practice and will keep you in a great smiling mood and shape for the next date, that could be the ONE.
That's so true. You get what you bring. If you bring fun, this is what your experience is very likely to be like
😊😊😊@@IevaKambarovaite
Thank you for including the conversation prompt and other ideas to make it easier for men too! This is a win-win idea. It takes the pressure off the man which help them relax and feel more comfortable. If they feel more relaxed, they'll open up more, and the woman will get a better insight into the 'real' them.
I think the challenge is that most women don't quite understand the challenges men are facing and vice versa. So instead of thinking of go to questions, how can we look for better ways to connect on the human level to be open with each other even if it's just a speed dating event. Thank you for watching 😊
You're so charming and funny, thanks for the tips! As a guy, I'm working hard on getting out of my comfort zone
Thank you very much Richard. Have you tried speed dating yet?
"You all ready have the mascara on, so why not make the most of it" 😂👌🏻
I swear it makes sense to girls 😁
Even though I have never been to a speed dating event, I think it’s such a solid advice! ❤
Thank you 🤗 I can't believe you've never tried speed dating..
@@IevaKambarovaite nope!
This is another intelligent and very kind video on dating!
Thank you so much darling 🤗💕
Wow I watched your video and it was very great and insping! I was sure you'd have a bunch of likes. I gave you the 17th like. Carry on, this was fantastic :)
Thank you so so much Lisi :) This means more than you think. What did you like about the video? Please share it with your girlfriends x
@@IevaKambarovaite The editing is nice, the tips are helpful. For example, I'd never had the idea to make new girlfriends there. Tomorrow I'll have my first speed dating ever and I will see too use your tips. Overall, I like your positive attitude. :)
@@lisie2853 how did the speed dating event go? Have you met anyone? Did you have fun? 😊 And thank you for your kind comment 🤗
Great video! Love the editing. Any advice on editing for my first TH-cam video?
Thank you. Just get it out there. You can improve with every video. Don't overthink it. Just do your best and move to the next video 😉 have fun
I got 2 out of 16 matches. I asked two unique questions, gave a compliment and tried humour. Hm, I was expecting more matches....maybe I was too eager?
I think two matches is very very good. It's almost unseen to find two people you fancy or connect with at a speed dating event. I think it's definitely a success. Well done! Did you have fun?
@@IevaKambarovaite I did indeed. Wanted to ask you, do you think flirting and/or giving compliments on speed dating works? As I got the impression it may have been creepy/too forward for some women.
@@mrwazo I think flirting and giving compliments at a speed dating event is definitely not creepy, but you have to read the room and the person in front of you. What works with one woman, may be a complete failure with another. And it has to be original and not a rehearsed cookie cutter phrase 😊
If I’m liking you as well, “too eager” is not a thing. So keep being you❤️. What sane person would say “they’re really attractive and funny and we have alot in common and the convo flowed easily but they showed to much interest, so i said no”?!
How about slow dating events 😆
How to exchange numbers straight away? Like after the short conservation or after the whole event? Or maybe during a break (they told me there is gonna be one), never been to such an event, it'll be my first time...
There are no particular rules when you can ask someone for their number. It's like chatting to someone at the bar. You can ask their number. If they say no, that's ok. But at least you know you've tried. Good luck and have fun 😊
@@IevaKambarovaite I thought there's a rule that we should both tick each other on the sheet honestly 😂 And not take it into our own hands...
@@wiktorlipina4315 you're right. You both have to tick ✅ that you'd like to match with this person. However, I think if you like someone you can just approach them, so you don't rely on that tick.
@@IevaKambarovaite I would afterwards it if it wasn't such a huge event!! 😂 I'll probably be tired after talking to 40 women... but I'll try in the break time to approach if I really have a good connection with someone!! It's tomorrow! 😁
@@wiktorlipina4315 how did it go? 😊 Have you met anyone you fancied?
You speak very similar to a girl from Russia that I met a few months ago, her name was Alesia. Where are you from?
I'm originally from Lithuania, but been living in the UK for the last decade.
Good advice about the phone, but my speed dating event uses scanning QR codes for yes or no. So I’m bringing it but not scrolling
Glad you've found it useful. Is it your first time attending a speed dating event?
@@IevaKambarovaite Actually, no. The first time I went, I was a lot younger and it was a bad experience because everyone was 30 and I was 20 plus they had us double up with a wingman/wingwoman and introverts didn’t talk. Second time was a lot better. Second time women were somewhat younger and I got no matches but it was a lot better. This time was best because they sub-divided everyone into 3 age groups so it was 3 separate sessions with guaranteed close age. I’m excitedly waiting to see if I got any matches. I said yes to all.
@@engineer4god470 how interesting. Usually those events are for certain age groups, but I get if it's 35-45, so it could be a massive difference for you.
Saying yes to all is not something I'd recommend, but I can see the logic behind it 😊
@@IevaKambarovaite Actually, the age groups were 18-25, 25-28, and 28-35. There was no group older than 35. Luckily I'm 31.
I went to one of these events and encountered 17 women. Too much ! These events need to be smaller.
did you meet anyone you were interested in?
@@IevaKambarovaite no I didn’t , btw
And the men to women ratio needs to be controlled. Are these not paid events with caps on how many can attend?
Ačiū Ieva už patarimus, kaip tik ruošiuosi į pirmąjį greitųjų pasimatymų renginį😅...O tu tikra šaunuolė 😊
Labas, Gabija. Kaip smagu😊 sėkmės!!
Where are you from Ieva?
@@tamasszenasi2320 born and raised in Lithuania, living in the UK
Oh Ieva! The editing! I can’t…
Which part? 😊
@@IevaKambarovaite the rain and the dark and the altered voice mocking…🙈
@@WhenAphroditeSpeaks there's something incredibly special about seeing the person you care about get your sense of humour 🥰 💕
@@IevaKambarovaite )))) yes, dear! I get it! For sure!
@@WhenAphroditeSpeaks 🤗🤗
How do I attract the ladies
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Be tall and good looking, don’t be ugly.
@@SVR1968 and rich, don't forget rich🙄
@@SVR1968😆 Yup!! I agree with you 100%, that is reality for women and men!!
@2010camaro you better have a house 2 cars and be a 6 figure man
40 year old virgin here i think i might die a virgin
Hi Michael. Sadly, this is more common these days than you think. I'm sure you're not going to die a virgin. But what are you going to do about it?
@@IevaKambarovaite i think 99 percent of women are very picky and choosy about men they choose or they want a man with lots and lots of money
@@michaeljohnson5365 of course we're picky. Why wouldn't we? I think you can feel sad about it or you can actually find ways to get yourself to the front line
Take life into your own hands and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Pity is the opposite of lust. Go to the gym and get some interesting hobbies, talk to people more (also in friendship settings). You'll gather confidence slowly (or quickly!). There are way too many amazing women out there for you to be giving up.
@@kurisuisaway i have tried all of these bu women are very picky and choosy who they want as a boyfriend so i think i will never find love
I can't be the only guy that dislikes red
Interesting.. Why do you think is that? What makes red so unattractive to you?
Why?
Danger ahead, a woman in red!
There is only ONE rule: IMPRESS WHIT YOUR LOOKING. The questions and topics are absolutely indifferent. In the 21th Century dating industry the only one important factor is: how do you look like? Are you trendy or not? Do you have enough money or not? Your makeup or outfit are expensive or not? The nowadays dating industry offer ONS or short therm relationships, bacause promises fast success for your money.
I think that may get you through the door initially. Like a good pick up line. You may be able to catch someone's attention, but you'll need something with more substance if you want to attract someone with more substance.
You just prove that you either have no real substance to offer or you're not looking for something geniune. You think like a 15yo boy.
You’re a sore loser