+Olivia Giles Hopefully these ground rules were established LONG before you got married. So many of us expect certain things from others when they haven't got a clue what they are. :) Peace
I think the less restrictions wives impose on husbands, the more truthful and open their husbands will be to them in general. There are always exceptions on restrictions if things go beyond limit. But the best way to put the restriction is to peacefully put across and not order him to do or not to do something
Sad. But there is hope. My sisters second husband opens doors for women no matter what. I've learned to appreciate such niceties and expect it from other males of my acquaintance. Amazing how well it works over time.
On the subject regarding "how long a woman wants a man to last" well its varies from woman to woman, each woman is different of course, but what we as men must do is ask the woman what she wants in bed, communication is key to getting to know whats best for your partner.
If you've got to the stage where you've repeatedly attracted shitty men, you have to be prepared to take a look at the kind of messages you're sending out and the men that they're attracting.
He's dead wrong on the chivalry thing. If a guy is chivalrous at the start of the relationship and then stops, is because the girl is taking it for granted. If you stop thanking him for opening doors for you, he's not going to keep doors open. Also, women cry out for gender equality. The whole concept of chivalry was founded on the idea that women were frail, helpless creatures that needed our constant protection. So basically chivalry reinforces classic gender roles. Equality = No chivalry.
About time someone came forward and told it how it is with men and the way they really think. Quite brave really, because telling the truth about men could have made him a target with people calling him a chauvinistic pig etc, when in actual fact it's the truth for about 99.9% of men. I've tried to explain what men are really like to my partner and I've been called these types of names, so it's so validating for me to hear someone in his position to come out and speak the truth. I could go on and on about this topic so I'll just stop here, get a pen and paper, and write a book about it instead😊
@@nofybn7794 but that's nature for you...just the way men and women are wired...doesn't matter how much to try and conform to society, human nature is human nature, it can't be erased from within any living thing.🤦 Please tell me you've heard of the evolution theory?
A lot of it is Steve's perspective and good old common sense. Men can understand when the lady isnt interested and they do move on, women are not filing restraining orders the world over. He also makes it out that men always need sex and sexy to keep them so basically married women are like sex objects who cant dress warm and comfy to bed lest you want them to stray. I think this is some advice and guideline but not a sweeping generalisation of what men are like. That would be like a woman equivalent saying what all women are thinking and all women are not alike.
@@ChriseyApple @Chris A well, sweeping generalisation isn't the same as "all", so I it wouldn't be the same as saying all women thus and all women that. I'm saying the majority. And that is generalisation. And, as you say, it's good old common sense..meaning it is a generalisation . It's never 100% of men this and 100% women that. It's a best seller for a reason. It's also statically that the majority of men want sex on a regular basis...that doesn't mean they see their women only as objects. It just means they want sex alot.....but there are layers to a relationship and its not the only thing men want. That's the same as saying women who are stay at home moms just see men as ATMs or women who want a lot of babies with their partners, are seeing men as just donors
ohhh seruosly. because this guy is famous and talks about his experience when it comes to dating and such. people will automaticly hate him because.....?? because they disagree? seriuosly? and who made this guy a dating expert on relationships is not himself. he just knows how guys think. and this is the whole consept of what he is doing. he tells and learn others how guys think, and what girls like about that or not. hating him for that is being straight out childish.
K I'm a woman and I don't need my man to open my car door. I'm more than capable of opening my car door. But if it was like a store door or something, if the man is walking ahead of me or beside me than he should open the door for me.
Now now, we both know this is apples and oranges. When a man opens a door for a lady, she interprets it as a negative commentary on her culpability. When a man doesn't open a door for a lady, she interprets it as he is unchivalrous and as a negative commentary on his character. So really, men are f***ed either way without ever needing to take our chonies off.
you shouldn't if you are uncomfortable with it, but then understand that if it's a woman who expects you to do that, then the 2 of your are going to have more issues with expectations, And by the same token if you expect a woman to look nice for you, and be accomodating, why is it too much trouble to open a door, many times it makes a woman feel special, though there are women out there who are offended if you open a door, so know who you're with
The truth is after you get married some women use their mouths as a weapon against their men, that is why the men stop being nice and taking them out... it’s hard to love someone who is always bringing you down !!!
There are some women that stop appreciating chivalry and kind thoughfulness. That is when I have changed, ok a woman can expect it but when she no longer appreciates it it makes it pointless.
Very true. It does go both ways. Any person regardless of what sex they are when they stop being thankful and appreciative of what someone else does for them they kill the love in that relationship.
loool opening a door is not the only standard someone can have ... these silly games are annoying genuine love is not required or forced all this think like a man annoys me Women already have a beautiful way of thinking
Are you struggling in your relationships? Do you want better peace and harmony in your marriage? Are you looking for general relationship advice? Then ask a sleazy misogynistic guy who has been married 3 times, thinks lying is ok, cheats on his wives, and probably has been gaslighting them.
IS GOOD TO LET THE MAN ACT LIKE HE REALLY IS WITHOUT COVER HIMSELF LIKE HE IS WELL EDUCATED. WELL,I DON'T ASK FOR ANYTHING BUT I LET YOU MAKE THE DECITION TO OFFER....THE TIME PASS AND HE IS STILL LIKE HE THINK I AM A FREE SERVICE THEN I SHOW HIM HOW I REACT TO THAT. NEVER PRETEND THAT YOU HAVE ME SECURE BECAUSE I WILL SHOW DIFFERENT. WHY A MAN THINK HE CAN CONTROL A WOMAN THAT YOU NEVER SUPPORT AND NEVER ASK WHAT DOES SHE NEED. !! IF I NEVER ASK YOU FOR ANYTHING TO YOU, THAT IS THE WAY TO TELL HIM YOU ARE NOT THE ONE I AM LOOKING AND YOU CAN NOT BE INCLUDED IN MY FUTURE ....THEN I START LEAVING YOU LITTLE BY LITTLE TILL NOTHING IS BETWEEN YOU AND ME...NO PAIN NO HURT, NOW I LEAVE YOU...THE BALLON EXPLODED AND THE PASION DISAPEARED....NOW YOU CAN GO AWAY !
Many things are cool, but...men change because women stop requiring or expecting less” theory that’s totally wrong. Men get comfortable with being in the relationship and feel they can behave less. That’s it.
it's very hard to find the right partner, the older you are, the tougher the project--if you are successful, educated, 30 plus, single, and still dating--the dating pool is not too inviting, online dating is risky and full of fakes
I don't need my parent's approval but I know my mom's always right and if it had to come down to choosing you or my parents, I would always choose them. Sorry. However I'm not talking about going against my beliefs if I think something is wrong because I would be the first to comment and laugh. Now the difficult part starts when it comes between your mom and your kids and the type of upbringing you wish to give them (we all would love to do something different with our own kids and the fact that 'they're my kids so I can do what I want' doesn't always work because then you can't expect your parents to help you then). However I don't think that would ever come up because my parents live their own lives, I have a massive family and they don't really give a damn. Now if my parents were useless and mean things would be very different and I wouldn't post this. (BTW I'm a guy).
having a man like barack who obviously adores and respects her would probably get that to happen. but a lot of you guys don't understand what you're seeing apparently.
I always knew that Robin was homosexual. When a Black woman has a MAN in her life, she let's the whole world know! A woman? They keep hidden. To me that speaks volumes.
Honestly I'm tired of the word chivalry being thrown around. That's not what it was ever supposed to be about. It was a list of 12 things a knight was supposed to do in order to live honorably, and one, ONE, of those things was to respect women. How about we just start using the word respect? Is that too much to ask?
Let me tell you why the atmosphere is set for me and my husband to prevail, besides the fact that all our kids, are his. Because he and I can look each other in the eye. One washes the other. Now his sons, by his other wives, they different. They make me sick.
"How do I change him?" That triggered me big time. Arrogant women thinking it is up to them to change the men in their lives. Straight out the door. Steve Harvey gives a mixture of very good advice and cringey, simpy stuff. All I know is that whenever he has these women on, asking their questions, I always thank God I dodged that bullet. And they think they are such catches. The delusion is strong for sure.
He's recently come around to man advice. One he asked about is why don't women ever want to hear the "truth". Harvey explained that women want to hear the "truth" from her perception of things. So if the actual truth is outside of this she will be offended. I have no idea why these people are built in a way that being "wrong" from time to time is not to be allowed....
Your response is all kinds of wrong. If you want to analyze what a person is saying, don't make ridiculous assumptions. Nowhere did I say or even imply in the slightest that I think women are just here for pleasing men. But please, in our modern day it's women who are privileged not men From the day we are born we are thought to swallow all our emotions, and that the woman's needs always come before ours. While women have the chance for ruining our lives with the power of divorce and children.
Im annoyed because Robyn asked him if men really want the truth abd he said yes but then he said to make something up that he did good in bed. Thats not the truth. What really annoys me is that neither of the interviewers caught it and if they did they didnt call him on it
Chivalry wasn't founded on the idea of women being frail. Did you do your homework? Chivalry was based on a true respect and regard for the feminine. Mindlessness is NOT sexy...
Chivalry was founded, my dear, based on how we 'cherish'. You will not cast down a gold bar the same way you would a candy wrapper. You cherish women, then be chivalrous. Equality does not mean the death of chivalry, women deserve everything you get in life too, and you know it. We're human beings who, despite what you believe in, do not exist on God's green earth, solely for the purpose of pleasing men. We raise men, from babies. Stew on that for a little bit, hmm?
lol I thought the same thing when I saw him. I thought to Myself man look, when times were simpler and he wasn’t being a compulsive liar. How times have changed
My x loser boyfriend just never got it never had a job lived homeless and is still homeless I wish I could have asked steve back when I met this fool in 2012
LOVING WHAT STEVE SAID ABOUT CHIVALRY....WOMEN WE MUST NOT STOP EXPECTING OUR MEN TO BE GOOD TO US....
Steve Harvey...always crisp and sharp.
27yrs and 4 kids later my husband still open doors for me 😊
Keeper!! ♡
Steve is the best natural and gifted
expect more and you will get more...I expect my husband to open the door and he expects me to listen to him talk about his work when he has a problem
+Olivia Giles Hopefully these ground rules were established LONG before you got married. So many of us expect certain things from others when they haven't got a clue what they are. :) Peace
Thank you Steve 😘 I'm learning so many things from u 😊 Im a citizen of South Africa 🇿🇦✊❤️
I think the less restrictions wives impose on husbands, the more truthful and open their husbands will be to them in general. There are always exceptions on restrictions if things go beyond limit. But the best way to put the restriction is to peacefully put across and not order him to do or not to do something
I disagree he sat on his ass everyday unless he was golfing or doing another woman. But he brought me unexpected gifts. STD's.
Steve is who I go to for advice on being a man.
Ur fucked son
Great response from Steve Harvey....! Peace...
Sad. But there is hope. My sisters second husband opens doors for women no matter what. I've learned to appreciate such niceties and expect it from other males of my acquaintance. Amazing how well it works over time.
He's right, classic men think like this.
WHEN WE GET TO KNOW SOMEONE ELSE WE MUST KNOW THEIR PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE TO DO A FAIR ASSESSMENT OF THEIR BEHAVIOR PATTERNS!!❤❤
On the subject regarding "how long a woman wants a man to last" well its varies from woman to woman, each woman is different of course, but what we as men must do is ask the woman what she wants in bed, communication is key to getting to know whats best for your partner.
I notice how men never get asked what they want. Sex is important for both people. Men aren't just fucksticks with timers attached to their dicks.
5 minutes is plenty.
The first question he answered! Omg 😂😂😂😂😂
If you've got to the stage where you've repeatedly attracted shitty men, you have to be prepared to take a look at the kind of messages you're sending out and the men that they're attracting.
1:00 mama boys, it's basically: "are you marrying me or your mama?"
He's dead wrong on the chivalry thing.
If a guy is chivalrous at the start of the relationship and then stops, is because the girl is taking it for granted. If you stop thanking him for opening doors for you, he's not going to keep doors open.
Also, women cry out for gender equality. The whole concept of chivalry was founded on the idea that women were frail, helpless creatures that needed our constant protection.
So basically chivalry reinforces classic gender roles. Equality = No chivalry.
About time someone came forward and told it how it is with men and the way they really think. Quite brave really, because telling the truth about men could have made him a target with people calling him a chauvinistic pig etc, when in actual fact it's the truth for about 99.9% of men. I've tried to explain what men are really like to my partner and I've been called these types of names, so it's so validating for me to hear someone in his position to come out and speak the truth. I could go on and on about this topic so I'll just stop here, get a pen and paper, and write a book about it instead😊
Um so it is okay because it is the truth? No, it does make them a chauvinistic pic!
@@nofybn7794I didn't say it was ok
@@nofybn7794 but that's nature for you...just the way men and women are wired...doesn't matter how much to try and conform to society, human nature is human nature, it can't be erased from within any living thing.🤦 Please tell me you've heard of the evolution theory?
A lot of it is Steve's perspective and good old common sense. Men can understand when the lady isnt interested and they do move on, women are not filing restraining orders the world over. He also makes it out that men always need sex and sexy to keep them so basically married women are like sex objects who cant dress warm and comfy to bed lest you want them to stray. I think this is some advice and guideline but not a sweeping generalisation of what men are like. That would be like a woman equivalent saying what all women are thinking and all women are not alike.
@@ChriseyApple @Chris A well, sweeping generalisation isn't the same as "all", so I it wouldn't be the same as saying all women thus and all women that. I'm saying the majority. And that is generalisation. And, as you say, it's good old common sense..meaning it is a generalisation . It's never 100% of men this and 100% women that. It's a best seller for a reason. It's also statically that the majority of men want sex on a regular basis...that doesn't mean they see their women only as objects. It just means they want sex alot.....but there are layers to a relationship and its not the only thing men want. That's the same as saying women who are stay at home moms just see men as ATMs or women who want a lot of babies with their partners, are seeing men as just donors
Apparently he knows more than you do! Go head Mr. Harvey.
Men and women, if you are out of school, out of work and not retired, straighten that out first before dating.
Never tell a man the truth his manhood is small.
1:29 that lady is savage. LOL
The last part was very funny, he dramatised it well
This book will keep a lot of women single 😂
Better than being married to a jerk, imo.
No, you mean, better skeeping with a jerk only, and he is not interested at all.
& with Katz. 😅
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Because Steve is telling us all yall secrets?
Pancake Lover no it’s not secrets it’s trash. It’s not science based and what women do you know that it actually worked for?
ohhh seruosly. because this guy is famous and talks about his experience when it comes to dating and such. people will automaticly hate him because.....?? because they disagree? seriuosly? and who made this guy a dating expert on relationships is not himself. he just knows how guys think. and this is the whole consept of what he is doing. he tells and learn others how guys think, and what girls like about that or not. hating him for that is being straight out childish.
Right!!!!! I so agree with this, just because you don’t like what he’s saying doesn’t make it not true.
omg that one lady that looks like that nurse from Scrubs
+Tori Richards at 3:15
Loooool "Take your chances baby, take your chances"
K I'm a woman and I don't need my man to open my car door. I'm more than capable of opening my car door. But if it was like a store door or something, if the man is walking ahead of me or beside me than he should open the door for me.
Now now, we both know this is apples and oranges.
When a man opens a door for a lady, she interprets it as a negative commentary on her culpability.
When a man doesn't open a door for a lady, she interprets it as he is unchivalrous and as a negative commentary on his character.
So really, men are f***ed either way without ever needing to take our chonies off.
You cant open a door yourself?
Would love to see more shows like this!
Love Steve Harvey !
you shouldn't if you are uncomfortable with it, but then understand that if it's a woman who expects you to do that, then the 2 of your are going to have more issues with expectations, And by the same token if you expect a woman to look nice for you, and be accomodating, why is it too much trouble to open a door, many times it makes a woman feel special, though there are women out there who are offended if you open a door, so know who you're with
Astute, humorous, observations of human behavior.
The truth is after you get married some women use their mouths as a weapon against their men, that is why the men stop being nice and taking them out... it’s hard to love someone who is always bringing you down !!!
Logical 😏
delicate ego...........
Soooooo true!!!
so wise
There are some women that stop appreciating chivalry and kind thoughfulness. That is when I have changed, ok a woman can expect it but when she no longer appreciates it it makes it pointless.
Very true. It does go both ways. Any person regardless of what sex they are when they stop being thankful and appreciative of what someone else does for them they kill the love in that relationship.
Great Show I love it
I dont agree with Steve on everything, but on most things i I do, and this is one.
Thats my girl preaching in the orange jacket..
Chivalry is Dead... And women Killed it.
loool opening a door is not the only standard someone can have ... these silly games are annoying genuine love is not required or forced all this think like a man annoys me Women already have a beautiful way of thinking
Are you struggling in your relationships? Do you want better peace and harmony in your marriage? Are you looking for general relationship advice?
Then ask a sleazy misogynistic guy who has been married 3 times, thinks lying is ok, cheats on his wives, and probably has been gaslighting them.
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Nogoodjerk
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love the video
I am Jacinta. Except! I actually ask questions to ''understand''. Loool
Not all of us :D
show men how it done you been and done it all, Steve you are a teacher to many.
I like to work in the Steve Harvey show. I might want my son to be trained in the Steve Harvey show
He's right! It's what you expect...
Steve, you are so funny!
Sex is more than just intercourse.
IS GOOD TO LET THE MAN ACT LIKE HE REALLY IS WITHOUT COVER HIMSELF LIKE HE IS WELL EDUCATED. WELL,I DON'T ASK FOR ANYTHING BUT I LET YOU MAKE THE DECITION TO OFFER....THE TIME PASS AND HE IS STILL LIKE HE THINK I AM A FREE SERVICE THEN I SHOW HIM HOW I REACT TO THAT. NEVER PRETEND THAT YOU HAVE ME SECURE BECAUSE I WILL SHOW DIFFERENT. WHY A MAN THINK HE CAN CONTROL A WOMAN THAT YOU NEVER SUPPORT AND NEVER ASK WHAT DOES SHE NEED. !! IF I NEVER ASK YOU FOR ANYTHING TO YOU, THAT IS THE WAY TO TELL HIM YOU ARE NOT THE ONE I AM LOOKING AND YOU CAN NOT BE INCLUDED IN MY FUTURE ....THEN I START LEAVING YOU LITTLE BY LITTLE TILL NOTHING IS BETWEEN YOU AND ME...NO PAIN NO HURT, NOW I LEAVE YOU...THE BALLON EXPLODED AND THE PASION DISAPEARED....NOW YOU CAN GO AWAY !
Mr Harvey’s wisdom??? Hasn’t he been divorced about 3 times?
I think these women must stop blaming barren men.
Many things are cool, but...men change because women stop requiring or expecting less” theory that’s totally wrong. Men get comfortable with being in the relationship and feel they can behave less. That’s it.
I think I’m going to continue to listen to the man’s advice from a man’s perspective not a woman’s
I think both sexes test each other even if they don't realize they are doing it. They test to see what they can get away with.
chivalry dies because women stop appreciating it.
I am asking how where when we can talk
Fredo!
it's very hard to find the right partner, the older you are, the tougher the project--if you are successful, educated, 30 plus, single, and still dating--the dating pool is not too inviting, online dating is risky and full of fakes
This is hilarious 😂 over 30 yr olds women complaining lol
I don't need my parent's approval but I know my mom's always right and if it had to come down to choosing you or my parents, I would always choose them. Sorry. However I'm not talking about going against my beliefs if I think something is wrong because I would be the first to comment and laugh. Now the difficult part starts when it comes between your mom and your kids and the type of upbringing you wish to give them (we all would love to do something different with our own kids and the fact that 'they're my kids so I can do what I want' doesn't always work because then you can't expect your parents to help you then). However I don't think that would ever come up because my parents live their own lives, I have a massive family and they don't really give a damn. Now if my parents were useless and mean things would be very different and I wouldn't post this. (BTW I'm a guy).
You're a Mommas Boy 🤣
Connie
oh pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeZ
How is he part of the problem?
He was just saying the truth, you on the other hand are arrogant for no damn reason.
wow chris cuomo looks so young and handsome. love steve he is the best
having a man like barack who obviously adores and respects her would probably get that to happen. but a lot of you guys don't understand what you're seeing apparently.
I always knew that Robin was homosexual. When a Black woman has a MAN in her life, she let's the whole world know! A woman? They keep hidden. To me that speaks volumes.
Honestly I'm tired of the word chivalry being thrown around. That's not what it was ever supposed to be about. It was a list of 12 things a knight was supposed to do in order to live honorably, and one, ONE, of those things was to respect women.
How about we just start using the word respect? Is that too much to ask?
Too many men are just downright stupid acting. Therein lies the frustration for women.
Let me tell you why the atmosphere is set for me and my husband to prevail, besides the fact that all our kids, are his. Because he and I can look each other in the eye. One washes the other. Now his sons, by his other wives, they different. They make me sick.
God i just wanna shave that mustache. >.<
Agape Love yuck why? Sorry men look good with facial hair to some 😉
"How do I change him?" That triggered me big time. Arrogant women thinking it is up to them to change the men in their lives. Straight out the door.
Steve Harvey gives a mixture of very good advice and cringey, simpy stuff. All I know is that whenever he has these women on, asking their questions, I always thank God I dodged that bullet. And they think they are such catches. The delusion is strong for sure.
He's recently come around to man advice. One he asked about is why don't women ever want to hear the "truth". Harvey explained that women want to hear the "truth" from her perception of things. So if the actual truth is outside of this she will be offended. I have no idea why these people are built in a way that being "wrong" from time to time is not to be allowed....
Your response is all kinds of wrong. If you want to analyze what a person is saying, don't make ridiculous assumptions. Nowhere did I say or even imply in the slightest that I think women are just here for pleasing men.
But please, in our modern day it's women who are privileged not men From the day we are born we are thought to swallow all our emotions, and that the woman's needs always come before ours.
While women have the chance for ruining our lives with the power of divorce and children.
This is Deep...I Agree 🙌🏽💯
all the women's questions were basically....how do I change the man into what I want.
Kids being sexualised at a younger & younger age are a sign of the times - shall we adjust to those too?
arrogance? you agree with his OPINION and claim it's the truth.. did you even think before you pressed post?
no... it's DEAD because they don't need it. It's a new day, friend, I suggest you adjust with the times.
Im annoyed because Robyn asked him if men really want the truth abd he said yes but then he said to make something up that he did good in bed. Thats not the truth.
What really annoys me is that neither of the interviewers caught it and if they did they didnt call him on it
she wasnts 53
Well I will tell you what I am thinking. My stomach hurts. Your friends, are making me sick, talking behind my back.
Open a car's door? Yeah right.
King GG maybe they not strong enough for that
What did Cuomo say at 9:00? Sometimes it changes your reaction to chances?
+OriginalRipndip aaSometimes change is a reaction to change
When did they ever NEED chivalry? Oh what you actually think Chivalry is oppressive, allow me to HA HA HA HA HA.
Chivalry wasn't founded on the idea of women being frail. Did you do your homework? Chivalry was based on a true respect and regard for the feminine. Mindlessness is NOT sexy...
Chivalry was founded, my dear, based on how we 'cherish'. You will not cast down a gold bar the same way you would a candy wrapper. You cherish women, then be chivalrous.
Equality does not mean the death of chivalry, women deserve everything you get in life too, and you know it. We're human beings who, despite what you believe in, do not exist on God's green earth, solely for the purpose of pleasing men. We raise men, from babies. Stew on that for a little bit, hmm?
Im embarrassed that I agree so much with this black lady & she seems so pissed. Lmao.
Steve has stalker friends, it's not true that men cant get the message that the lady is not interested.
Nagging is my forte 😡😡😡😡😡
Is it wrong to abort a child if you in the child's father isn't getting along and there's life threatening situations occurring
funny!:)
That black lady in mama boys issues she looks angry asf god bless whoever with her....
why should she go anywhere with you if you can't do the basic courtesies? maybe you should be dating dudes....
If she doesn't get in the car when I unlock the door, I'll leave her ass. Why should I open the door for a chick?
and moustache.
Hey looks it’s Fredo Fake News
😂😂😂🤣
lol I thought the same thing when I saw him. I thought to Myself man look, when times were simpler and he wasn’t being a compulsive liar. How times have changed
Oh so he has an advantage because he has six kids with his WIFE?
maybe Steve Harvey sold out , just saying that's a lot of books sold
My x loser boyfriend just never got it never had a job lived homeless and is still homeless I wish I could have asked steve back when I met this fool in 2012
Steve is a cheat and a player who is faithful in his old age. He talks for men who think like himself.
I'm not into dudes, I only like women. If you ever said that to me in person, you'd be picking up your teeth right now. Don't be a youtube toughguy.
He’s full of crap.