STAY THE NIGHT..BEN ORR '98

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  • @laurelwood791
    @laurelwood791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    As you watched the audience dwindle to such small numbers, I hope you know now Benjamin that it didn't mean your fans weren't still out here by the thousands and thousands.... we're still out here Benjamin Orr. Almost a quarter of a century after your passing..... we're all still hear, watching, listening, singing along,. Mesmerized, entranced. You were it Ben. So dedicated. So humble. So underrated. I hope you see now, were still all here for you Mr. Orr.

    • @hailtotheking8865
      @hailtotheking8865 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Correcto

    • @seraphale
      @seraphale ปีที่แล้ว

      🖤🖤🖤

    • @notgivinup
      @notgivinup ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Couldn’t have said it better! My eyes are teary just watching this. I’m from Ohio, not to far from where he’s laid to rest, it’s my plan the next time I go back home to pay my respects. His, and the Cars, music is the playlist of my life pretty much. 😢 🕊️ 🌹 🙏🏻 💟

    • @hectoraguirre2938
      @hectoraguirre2938 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hermosas palabras para un grande de la música como benjamin orr, jamás lo olvidaremos!!!

    • @mierezsaturday1452
      @mierezsaturday1452 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Deep deep facts.

  • @notgivinup
    @notgivinup ปีที่แล้ว +20

    There’s the man himself! Absolutely ADORE Mr! Orr. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @robert_sovitsky
    @robert_sovitsky 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    He was always a beautiful person inside and out!!!!

  • @Rose-Rae
    @Rose-Rae 6 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    He looks so tired. Poor guy. Still a "dreamboat" for that person who made the rude comment. It's not all about looks. He's still beautiful in my eyes. His gorgeous voice and fantastic talent. He might look unwell or unhappy but he still had the guts to keep singing, playing and writing music til the end. His sweet soul and spirit is what draws us in. There are so many good things written about this man. If the package is pretty and the inside is ugly no girl in her right mind would stay with that for long. Any woman would have been lucky to be with him. We all get old. Gray hair, wrinkles, gut, hair loss, health issues etc. None of us will look like our 20's or 30's or in our teens again.

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      What you said is true. I think ppl can be beautiful at any age, even after 70, but I'd take Benjamin Orr, here, even with weight gain, over all those pretty boys I see today on the t v, flexing their hard abs and muscles around. I hate vain show offs and Benjamin was never like that. He seemed so sweet. He would've aged well had he not become sick.

    • @jorgeandresarango3803
      @jorgeandresarango3803 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I prefer to see him with extra weight than skinny and weak like in his last interview with The Cars, where he was like saying goodbye to his old pals.

    • @helenanovais5311
      @helenanovais5311 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Beautiful voice until the end... Very talented and special!

    • @truckerkevthepaidtourist
      @truckerkevthepaidtourist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      he would be dead a little over a year later as his battle with pancreatic cancer would come to an end..
      this was almost like during a remission when he went out and tried the tour but he wasn't able to keep in shape his body was riddled by cancer but he gave it all he had one last time

    • @sharynrennie4726
      @sharynrennie4726 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Definitely. It was so hard seeing him that way. My heart hurt for him.

  • @scotsbimbo
    @scotsbimbo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "I had a solo album once, still have. They can't take that away from me" Heart-breaking. Your at peace now dearest Benjamin RIP

  • @rondiannadams
    @rondiannadams ปีที่แล้ว +21

    A gorgeous man. Seemed so sweet in interviews I’ve seen. Loved his voice. If he had more time on earth, he would have given us more great music. 💔

  • @Annanardi-pb3zo
    @Annanardi-pb3zo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Ben really allowed his personality to come through at this stage-he was dry and cutting, maybe a little more cynical…. He still sounds incredible smooth and resonant-his voice is like warm brandy with honey. By this age, he’s less concerned with cutting a sexy pose, but his beauty nonetheless shines. This man really carried the Light. 🙏🏾❤️

  • @michellebeadle176
    @michellebeadle176 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have loved this man and his voice for so long. Taken from this world way too soon. ❤❤❤

  • @benjaminorrelectricangelro5493
    @benjaminorrelectricangelro5493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    One of the most underrated musicians , his voice was incredible, he could make it sound like honey was poured into a microphone and how amazing did he sound performing this. I find when watching this I feel so many emotions, Benjamin should have been performing at huge venues and how I wish he did not have to pass away with pancreatic cancer just as he and his band Big People were getting to be successful, his life and future was looking so bright, filled with so much to come. He had a loving partner , a young son to watch over and his musical career finally taking off again. It seems so unfair that all this was taken away from him. Damn cancer. But Benjamin's legacy lives on and fans all over the world still watch his videos, his performances , we still hear what you are playin' . It's an orangy sky, #NSOGBF Never Some Other Guy, Benjamin Forever

    • @naaralima5182
      @naaralima5182 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's alive in my parallel reality.

    • @victorbarreto4070
      @victorbarreto4070 ปีที่แล้ว

      Estamos aqui todos escuchando su hermosa voz

  • @laurelwood791
    @laurelwood791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So wish you were still here growing old with all of us. You were so much a part of out tern, adult and into our mid life Benjamin. Sorely missed.

  • @selenadiaz2665
    @selenadiaz2665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    So gracious...I hope he knew just how many people still adore him and always will.

    • @soundsolutions4264
      @soundsolutions4264 ปีที่แล้ว

      so sad to find a video from 1998 as the last ....but a legendary singer like a few....love you selene ...i believe in miracles write to my inz tah grm aleandroite

  • @cherylb5680
    @cherylb5680 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This man at any age was perfection. I never tire of listening to his music, he was a true rocker great looks and endless talent. Ben left this world too soon❣️

    • @izabelvieira3860
      @izabelvieira3860 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tão lindo que era .❤❤parecia um sonho de lindeza. 😢😢saudade 😢😢

  • @danielmarquis5258
    @danielmarquis5258 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I miss this guy. I was fortunate to meet this man in 1999 when he fronted The Cars. Benjamin was a gentleman. He even signed an autograph for a 3 year old girl....such a cute moment. I remember Benjamin said, "What's your name sweety."

    • @pammyla66
      @pammyla66 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Daniel Marquis the cars broke up in 1988 in 1999 he was in the band big people

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maybe Mr Marquis meant to say 1988? Might be a typo.

    • @gpdude22
      @gpdude22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@desertrose1226 Or maybe he's full of shite and made the whole thing up like 99.9% of other 'tubers.

    • @MissJensk1
      @MissJensk1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for sharing that story. I read somewhere he loved children, he didn't have a child till very late in life, & then he was gone while his son was still only a toddler.

  • @anonymoustexan4656
    @anonymoustexan4656 7 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Most beautiful man God ever created. And to bless us with his voice is even better. This man Benjamin Orr was a beautiful soul. God bless you Ben.

    • @evemancil2482
      @evemancil2482 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      agreed

    • @donnaschulcz1669
      @donnaschulcz1669 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He is forever young.. I miss him so much ... ❤️💗

    • @purplesunflower8242
      @purplesunflower8242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I guess Benjamin, preformed at all the big stadiums was a teen star, then a massive Rock Star he may not mind playing smaller gigs.....in middle age....

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Benjamin was I guess, middle aged when he passed but so? He was way too young to go. It hurts to think he's no longer here.

    • @bmelvin1234
      @bmelvin1234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Don’t be fooled by the smaller venue. He was a superstar!

  • @nourlauper3361
    @nourlauper3361 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    R.i.p Benjamin you'll be forever missed!!

    • @bonniecamacho7963
      @bonniecamacho7963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Gone way too soon !!! Love him always !!!

  • @ritaalmeida3391
    @ritaalmeida3391 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I love Ben Orr..his passion for his craft, his talents and his exceptional good looks.

    • @TheIrishmaniac55
      @TheIrishmaniac55 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So true on his passion 1 week before he passed he played music , I miss him

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He was gorgeous, I really miss him as all the fans do.

  • @LoveMyBoys3
    @LoveMyBoys3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Benjamin will always be the voice of The Cars.

    • @truckerkevthepaidtourist
      @truckerkevthepaidtourist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes indeed he will be one of the greatest voices of the cars which you also must remember Ric ocasek wrote almost every single cars song;
      but what's interesting was he saw the magic and Ben's voice and he knew which songs he should sing.

    • @GizziesGirl2
      @GizziesGirl2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@truckerkevthepaidtourist He didn't let him sing enough of them. There are lots of bands where the main songwriter isn't the main singer, Benjamin had the best voice, he should have been given more songs to sing. As it is he only got about 30 percent of them. And the quality of the songs he was given to sing, aside from a couple of notable exceptions(Drive, and I personally think Everything You Say is excellent), noticeably dipped after the first couple of the albums.

    • @truckerkevthepaidtourist
      @truckerkevthepaidtourist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@GizziesGirl2 🙄🤔🙃 ok.. you're entitled to your opinion he sang quite a few songs none the less.
      🛑I don't think I'm going to go any further than that just leave it right there🚫

    • @yeahright302
      @yeahright302 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GizziesGirl2 nope your wrong if you watch any of the interviews the band gave,rik and ben knew what songs they should sing and who would do better at them.rik wrote most of them and if was (that )guyhe would never give any away...

    • @kkwok9
      @kkwok9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@GizziesGirl2
      I noticed that too.
      I was around when their first album came out and slowly but surely the quality of songs where Ben sang on became less catchy.
      Ric wrote their songs but Ben was indeed the 'true' voice of the Cars for alot of oldtime fans
      May they both Rest In Peace. The world misses them both

  • @jester99sch
    @jester99sch ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Upon Ben's passing, he and the wonderful light that emanated from him was gone and the world became a darker place!

  • @April-pw5ub
    @April-pw5ub 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m intrigued by the way he closes his eyes and appears to have to hug himself during the song. It’s like it still stirs emotion and memories.

  • @kimberelydavis379
    @kimberelydavis379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    He sounds just as good live as his recordings! ❤️

  • @mariaspindley948
    @mariaspindley948 7 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    It makes me feel very sad watching this

  • @Tammysworld15
    @Tammysworld15 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Always loved his voice and talent. I'll always be a fan, Benjamin.

  • @ghosttgirlghosttspook5478
    @ghosttgirlghosttspook5478 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    there's no words that I could say how much I feel for this sweet angel...I only can wish you could have been mine...

  • @selenadiaz2665
    @selenadiaz2665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Awww...that comment he made " I had a solo album once, still do. Cant take that away from me atleast. " Breaks my damn heart.

    • @laurenmccullough8838
      @laurenmccullough8838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same. I just adore him.

    • @MissJensk1
      @MissJensk1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      God that's so sad. He recorded material for a 2nd album too. brad Delp sang backing vocals on it !!!! There are efforts being made to get it released. Let's hope eh?

    • @kimberlyholzerland4599
      @kimberlyholzerland4599 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Broke my heart as well. I don't think Ben knew just how talented and awesome he was. 😢 It's a shame he died feeling the way he did.

  • @strafe777
    @strafe777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Even with that piss poor audio quality you could hear his great voice.
    Stay the Night is an amazing song.

  • @paulcarr5918
    @paulcarr5918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I'm torn on this video. On one hand it's good to see he still sang so beautifully that close to the end of his life, already probably not in great health even though he didn't know he had cancer yet. On the other had he looks so tired and sad, like he doesn't want to be there. No knock on Springfield, I enjoyed my school trips there every year growing up in Chicago, but in front of 20 people in a bar in rural Illinois is not where that man belonged. He was so talented, a rock legend, and it's a shame his solo career never took off like his career with the Cars, or that he couldn't be around for the induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame that would have been too late even if they were recognized when they should have been. At least Ric Ocasek got that chance....barely. It's mind blowing to me that it took until 2018 to get The Cars, The Moody Blues, and Dire Straits in there with some of the others that made it quicker.

    • @paulcarr5918
      @paulcarr5918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Cece Rider yeah, hence the statement "would have been too late even if they were recognized when they should have been." Which was 14 years later. Not sure which of your comments you wanted to leave, because neither have any relevance to my comment.

    • @doloreslott7135
      @doloreslott7135 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree

    • @naaralima5182
      @naaralima5182 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is also due to the addiction to smoking that caused the cancer.

  • @MrParisienWalkways
    @MrParisienWalkways 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Great singer, great bassist and a wonderful human being.

  • @OCTOBERBABY7901
    @OCTOBERBABY7901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He wasn't sick when this was recorded. But he was a beautiful man with a sweet melodic voice.

    • @peterbilt-bo1vy
      @peterbilt-bo1vy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The cancer could very well already have been attacking his body. That's why most people aren't diagnosed with pancreatic cancer until it's too late.
      RIP BENJAMIN ORR. WE ALL LOVE YOU JUST AS MUCH AS EVER BEFORE AND WILL NEVER STOP LOVING YOU AND MISSING YOU!! ❤.

  • @kelseymariel2127
    @kelseymariel2127 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Only guy I’ve ever seen who could smoke like a chimney for decades and still sound like that. Amazing voice. Love ya Benjamin. Hope you are still singing in Heaven.

  • @kimberelydavis379
    @kimberelydavis379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God, I simply adore him! What a voice and such talent. I would follow that voice anywhere and just look at him forever. I’m so glad I grew up in a time when The Cars were a thing, not just a band of the past. Ben & Ric playing some bitchen concerts in the great hereafter! ❤️❤️

  • @babebuzz5101
    @babebuzz5101 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    His whole life was music, he had to of been proud of that. He looks happy doing what he loved, even with a small crowd. Gorgeous man! Ordered his bio coming out in Nov '18. He was definitely loved by all.

    • @saraheart2804
      @saraheart2804 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ric played to small crowds too.

  • @justina249
    @justina249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    sucks the hall of fame couldnt have inducted them when he was still with us

    • @justina249
      @justina249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      wildcatter63 i understand but still wish he could be here to celebrate it

  • @ЮлияВасильева-б6ю
    @ЮлияВасильева-б6ю ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Лучшая песня 80- х годов )) покойся с миром ❤️

  • @donnaschulcz1669
    @donnaschulcz1669 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    He was so beautiful..

  • @Hellbent7069
    @Hellbent7069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He lived in lakewood here in ohio the next city over from me here in Cleveland. Great guy and an amazing talent. Gone too soon. RIP Ben.

  • @roberttaylor1275
    @roberttaylor1275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Still love this song!!!!

  • @connie5474
    @connie5474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ohh my God! He was unbelievable gorgeous.!!!!and sounds like an angel.

  • @shorthandable
    @shorthandable 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I am noticing quite a bit of commentary regarding Benjamin’s lifestyle contributing to his illness. Although one can certainly make that argument, cancer is a non-discriminatory killer. Perhaps this commentary is dangerously close to victim-blaming. This is probably hurtful to those who survive him. Let’s just be mindful and respectful.

  • @ЛорОРР
    @ЛорОРР ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Божественный голос Бена будут слушать веками! Талант Легенда! Великолепный музыкант! Недооценили Бена! 🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹😪😪

  • @bajasol564
    @bajasol564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    still an amazing person and musician and vocalist - I would give anything to be there that night to tell him

  • @ElisaG.-fx4ir
    @ElisaG.-fx4ir หลายเดือนก่อน

    Como era lindo o Ben Orr.Com certeza esta na memória do Senhor em breve muito em breve se levantará na ressurreição 🕊🤲

  • @monialcid3144
    @monialcid3144 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re forever a cool guy to me !!! Love you up there, Ben ❤️

  • @andrewcross8244
    @andrewcross8244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Benny-you are the coolest cat who ever lived.

  • @jorgeaguiar5279
    @jorgeaguiar5279 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Sucks watching this knowing in two yrs he would be gone.

    • @nourlauper3361
      @nourlauper3361 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And yesterday was his 70th birthday 😢 I really miss this angel.

    • @beauxgy
      @beauxgy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The change from 1995 is dramatic and so sad,however, I can't stop watching and he was so strong until the end.

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I hate watching Benjamin at the last interview...it breaks my heart. I don't watch it now, I prefer watching healthy Benjamin- how I want to remember him.

    • @jradebaugh1596
      @jradebaugh1596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@desertrose1226 I just watched it, yeah, he didnt say much.

  • @SilverStarEyes
    @SilverStarEyes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He had a gorgeous voice and charisma ,he looks like he was closing his eyes as he sung it,must of brought back memories for him,we all age it really sucks

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Benjamin didn't really age. 53 is no age to go.

  • @wendyhamm9722
    @wendyhamm9722 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nice Laconia Bike Week tee-shirt he's got on!😊

  • @misspaula7542
    @misspaula7542 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Rest easy Rockstar. You are so loved.❤

  • @richardcook585
    @richardcook585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Did what he enjoyed, playing music for his fans until the end...show must go on...a real legend....

  • @RosaC9999
    @RosaC9999 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    still the same sweetness in his voice, but smoking like crazy. Smoking kills.

    • @MegaSmurf1212
      @MegaSmurf1212 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      RosaC9999 that shocked me. Never knew he smoked. To be honest, not very professional of him. Sad. Maybe he was sick then?

    • @bluevictory1010
      @bluevictory1010 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@MegaSmurf1212 Most candid photos of Orr show him smoking throughout the years. He wasn't sick at this point, he died of Pancreatic cancer in the year 2000.

    • @bellestarre8589
      @bellestarre8589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@MegaSmurf1212 To my knowlege, all The Cars smoked except Greg. Smoking was a huge part of the 50s, 60s & 70s generation. My mother smoked bc the tobacco companies marketed it in the 50s as GOOD for you, isnt that crazy? She quit in 1965 when she was pregnant with me. Nicotine is such a powerful drug, so hard to quit. Now the vape crowd is getting the negative hype.

    • @bellestarre8589
      @bellestarre8589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@bluevictory1010 Most likely he was in the beginnings of pancreatic cancer here. The pancreas is unable to filter toxins & causes swelling/weight gain usually 2 to 3 years before diagnosis. God rest Benjamin's sweet soul.

    • @sharynrennie4726
      @sharynrennie4726 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes cigarette smoking, and he was apparently a heavy smoker, increases the chances of developing pancreatic cancer. Yes he may have had the beginning of the cancer. He wasn’t diagnosed until April of 2000 but it was Stage IV by then so he had it developing and spreading for some time. How sad. Cancer sucks.

  • @johnye8215
    @johnye8215 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel sad watching this... I love you Ben, RIP....

  • @R.POWELL
    @R.POWELL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You will always be BEAUTIFUL to me, BEN !!! Miss u so much- my favorite song from u. Hard to be believe that in 2 years u would leave this 🌎. GOD bless u, BEN 😓

  • @GennyMarchy
    @GennyMarchy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    sou fã hj sinto muito não ter mais Benjamin Orr , mas ouço suas canções fecho os olhos e imagino ele em seus melhores momentos🇧🇷🇧🇷

  • @UberLummox
    @UberLummox 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    All guys up front. At least you now they're there for the musicality and not for shallow "dreamboat" reasons. One can tell his voice was still in good form in '98. Thanks for the vid!!!

  • @desertrose1226
    @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just want to hug him he looked like such a sweetheart...he looks so like my big crush Rutger Hauer, but something scares me about Hauer, Benjamin isn't scary at all just sweet as a lolly pop! Miss you Benjamin Orr. Rest easy now...

  • @allexkoficial
    @allexkoficial 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lindo de ver - saudadessss amazing

  • @lala5732
    @lala5732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sad wish he was alive to know he was not forgotten!! April the CARS inducted into the RRHOF hope his spirit will be with us that nigh!!! RIP sweet Ben!

  • @denisem270
    @denisem270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm crying!!! So beautiful!!! Stay the night!!! I miss you Benjamin rip 💔💔💔

  • @robintaylor4249
    @robintaylor4249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That’s incredible look how small of crowd that is do you know how special of a gig that is? That’s almost sad all the people that were there you could tell were the diehard fans that really wanted to be there rest in peace Benjamin Orr

  • @ghosttgirlghosttspook5478
    @ghosttgirlghosttspook5478 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    you have a place in my heart forever!🎸🥀

  • @purplesunflower8242
    @purplesunflower8242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Benjamin so un flashy ! he is missed what a Handsome Man !!!!! RIP bet he feels sad about Diane she helped him write this........

    • @debkski6084
      @debkski6084 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I don't know about feeling sad about Diane... I heard SHE dumped him 😢. Poor guy. Any woman would be blessed to have him. I think she took advantage of him and moved on... 😡

    • @purplesunflower8242
      @purplesunflower8242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No if you read the biography Diane states what happen between them, and she was successful in her own right Benjamin said, she was the love of his life....She got to meet him before he passed. he was sick at the time.

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sad...I think Diane was beautiful and good for Benjamin while it lasted...

    • @catmip
      @catmip 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Purple Sunflower if in fact he said that she should have kept it to herself because Ben was so private. And very disrespectful to Julie the woman he was with when he died and who took care of him when he was so sick and after all the glamour was over. D had her own agenda I feel

    • @debann825
      @debann825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's a year later, and I've learned a few things. He had periods where he'd go silent and shut down to his significant other(s). I identify this as depression, and it most likely had something to do with his women leaving him. You're right--Diane was successful in her own right and highly educated. She co-created his album The Lace and wrote lyrics. He had stated that lyric writing was his weak spot.

  • @derickgoes1856
    @derickgoes1856 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Grande Benjamin Orr! 😔🙏♥️

  • @marial.rapaglia4041
    @marial.rapaglia4041 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    STÀY TONITE /WE MISS U BEN !!!

  • @soniavidal2881
    @soniavidal2881 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Saudades de Benjamin Orr
    Que voz

  • @ghosttgirlghosttspook5478
    @ghosttgirlghosttspook5478 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    he looked sad and unhappy! so sorry to not to have known you! l love you.

    • @pammyla66
      @pammyla66 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ghostt girl ghostt spook I see you post a lot on videos of Ben you are a die hard Benjamin Orr fan for sure

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel that way about Rutger Hauer but at least Rutger had a great life...seems with Benjamin not so much ...

  • @laurenmccullough8838
    @laurenmccullough8838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this song. 💯❤

  • @radsandrems1734
    @radsandrems1734 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Screw most if you.. He is fifty years old here and looks great.

  • @marcelobatista6517
    @marcelobatista6517 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Essa música é muito boa. Esse cara era muito afinado. Infelizmente não está entre nós.🙏🙏🙏

  • @donnaschulcz1669
    @donnaschulcz1669 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I miss you Ben Orr .. terribly

  • @eastkingstonnh
    @eastkingstonnh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow, he has a Laconia Bike Week shirt on :) I saw him in Peabody Ma, which was a similar venue.

    • @selenadiaz2665
      @selenadiaz2665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know! I couldn't believe he had a Laconia Bike Week shirt, near my hometown! He lived in Vermont for a while and a road a Harley

  • @Enzo2560
    @Enzo2560 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish I could have been there that night!!

  • @jct300m
    @jct300m 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a Voice.........

  • @actionimagesphotography
    @actionimagesphotography 7 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This is sad to watch, there is like 30 people in the audience and Ben looks like he would like to be anywhere but there.

    • @MegaSmurf1212
      @MegaSmurf1212 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      globalimage yes. Sad. You can see from his body language and him smoking that he couldn't be bothered. Was he sick then?

    • @pammyla66
      @pammyla66 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Siobhan Murphy yes but he probably wasn’t aware yet this concert was 26 months before he died

    • @purplesunflower8242
      @purplesunflower8242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      No don t think he was sick then.....He is so unflashy and he Gigged at the big stadiums during his rock career......New generations poss not know who he is...WE STILL LOVE YOU BENJAMIN .....

    • @christinescott5853
      @christinescott5853 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I don't see that.. He actually looks like he's having a good time with the audience

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Purple Sunflower I know who he is I'm 33 though but my daughter is a kid and she knows who he is because I've shown her all eighties stuff she loves it she doesn't like today's music.

  • @richardcook585
    @richardcook585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a talent...

  • @rocsamariacavalcanti7637
    @rocsamariacavalcanti7637 ปีที่แล้ว

    Este homem com o passar dos tempos ficou cada vez mais
    Lindo ate a hora de partir no ultimo VIDEO que nao sei qual foi ❤❤❤😢😢
    🌹 ROSA M.C.

  • @cameronbenson7344
    @cameronbenson7344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadly I was born in 97 never got a chance to see the legend himself But sure enough He is being remember by Millennials and we live on R.I.P Sir

  • @MegaSmurf1212
    @MegaSmurf1212 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    So sad. Barely two years later he was gone. (Never knew he was a smoker?)

    • @NESherv
      @NESherv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah, unfortunately he was a frequent smoker. It's probably what caused the cancer more than anything else. Such a shame.

    • @bellestarre8589
      @bellestarre8589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@NESherv Causes of pancreatic cancer are not known. Sometimes it runs in families. The nicotine & drinking probably did not help, though. I have knowledge about this bc my father & uncle both passed from cancer. (Colon & Liver), so I am a high risk for the disease. I've read a lot about various cancers & my sister, a registered nurse for 35 years has a wealth of knowledge about cancers. Please people get screened if you notice sudden weight changes, mole discoloration, or blood in urine/stool. Get yearly gynecology checkups (women), bc ovarian & breast cancer can be treated in early stages. Men get yearly prostate & colon check ups. Men can get breast cancer also. There have been a lot of improvements in treatment since Benjamin passed in 2000. Cancer touches all of us, its scary, but preventative care extends lives ! RIP sweet Benjamin. 🕊💕🎸🎶

    • @sharynrennie4726
      @sharynrennie4726 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      In many of his candid photos, he has a cigarette. It is believed that cigarette smoking increases the odds of developing pancreatic cancer according to the American Cancer Society. Cancer sucks. So sad it got him. He was a treasure.

    • @johnlafferty512
      @johnlafferty512 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      A mate of mine passed from it..never smoked or drank..a Buddhist 💖

    • @MissJensk1
      @MissJensk1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@NESherv It is. People think it only causes lung cancer, but its often pancreatic that kills smokers, including my Dad.

  • @bustinclouds2007
    @bustinclouds2007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless This Wonderful Talent......and Bless is strealth and Values....RIP You Wonderfuld man and Talent...........Tim n Tina..xoxo

  • @klausphx
    @klausphx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Been Re Capping on the Cars lately learning more about Guys in the band. I bought my first Cars Cassette I was jr in High School 79-80 had so many good songs on it and didnt know that there was 2 singers in the band up till few weeks ago Ive been watching a lot of Cars and Ben Orr Videos here on the Tube one of my Favorites Cars at Live Aid 85 Ben sang Drive man he looked good and Voice was perfect Band sounded really good you can tell he was on top of the World that day at age of 38 he and the Band payed their Dues of Decades of Hard Work

  • @cynthiacardenas7122
    @cynthiacardenas7122 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Tracey, a couple of days ago I was looking at another video you posted from this show, and I was thinking about asking you if others would be posted. You must of been reading my mind. Thanks for doing this! Happy New Year!

    • @TraceyL.ByeByeLvTheCars
      @TraceyL.ByeByeLvTheCars  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi Cynthia, you're so welcome.. Thank you and Happy New Year to you..

    • @pammyla66
      @pammyla66 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A you tube channel called sweetpurplejune has the whole concert

    • @beauxgy
      @beauxgy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      pammyla66 great site!

  • @brandx3061
    @brandx3061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just two years after this, he would be gone ... Rest easy Benjamin.

  • @senegalsvea
    @senegalsvea ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is he crying?😢
    Best voice and so beautiful, RIP Benjamin ❤

  • @Aguz25
    @Aguz25 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He smoked and was a social heavy drinker all his life. Sadly, I think that caused pancreatic cancer diagnosed one year later in 99. Missed guy.

  • @jivenjingle6655
    @jivenjingle6655 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "...I had a solo album once... still have it, can't take *that* away from me."
    Breaks my heart to hear him say this. Why would he say such a thing. Who took what away from him? I don't know whether to feel sad or angry. But he looks incredibly unhappy here. He looks apathetic, like someone else said, like he'd rather be anywhere else. I hope we're wrong, that he had found some joy that night.

    • @selenadiaz2665
      @selenadiaz2665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I thought the same thing. So sad for that comment. I think he may have been a bit depressed at this time & he was partying a lot then according to friends...coming to terms that the glory days of thousands of adoring fand & arena tours were over and he is playing in bars, aging & looks fading, partying heavily to forget, fill the void. & dull the pain. This was in 1998 so around the time he was seperating from a 4 yr relationship with his sons mother. He would meet his fiance a year later in 1999, a year before we lost him so we can hope that finding that love brought peace and happiness to him.

    • @msm7809
      @msm7809 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think he might have been referring to the Car's management and/or record company taking away his rights to sing Cars songs and giving him a hard time about it. In the last few years he seemed to only sing the same very few Cars songs all the time. I hope someday the whole story is told, but I guess that's not likely at all.

    • @s2seltaeb
      @s2seltaeb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Monica Wall there’s an article about this very performance wherein he explains he only had permission to do certain Cars songs...

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Selena Diaz so sad, I bet had he not smoked he wouldn't have aged much at all, kept his looks and not gotten sick. I am totally anti smoking now because my mother died in April from smoking related cancer.

    • @April-pw5ub
      @April-pw5ub ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe his guard was down. It was a small crowd, he was probably tired ,had a few beers and didn’t really care who heard.

  • @claudeteluziabarth7524
    @claudeteluziabarth7524 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ESTA MÚSICA É LINDA E QUE VOZ TEM ESTE CANTOR BENJAMIN, PENA QUE NÃO ESTÁ MAIS PERTO DE NÓS, DESCANSE EM PAZ.

  • @lindatsang5905
    @lindatsang5905 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a wonderful singer and great 🎸 ist. What an inspiration. 💕💕💕

  • @ireneoliveira2651
    @ireneoliveira2651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sempre amei essa música a pouco tempo que fiquei sabendo que ele já havia falecido que pena.

    • @burgolina
      @burgolina 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Isso prova o tanto que você gosta. Falecido há quase trinta anos e você nunca quis saber quer era o cantor e sua história.

    • @ireneoliveira2651
      @ireneoliveira2651 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@burgolina porque eu não tinha celular quando comprei fui pesquisar no TH-cam .

  • @arthurcamasi6274
    @arthurcamasi6274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ric & Ben, together again this time in heaven

  • @paolapinto867
    @paolapinto867 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eres y serás leyenda mi hermoso bejamin orr 😍😘

  • @luckystaramourangel9345
    @luckystaramourangel9345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When a heart cries out to the wilderness long enough another heart answers

  • @JavelinSST
    @JavelinSST ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rest in peace Ben. What you gave the world in music does not compare to what you received in the presence of the Lord. You now have a choir of angels to back you up and shoot the breeze with Rick Ocasek on how simple and silly life was compared to the after life.

  • @prettyboybrandonidle8936
    @prettyboybrandonidle8936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this song.

    • @eu4490
      @eu4490 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eu também😍

  • @felipealmeida2740
    @felipealmeida2740 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amado eternamente pelo Brasil e mundo

  • @paulbrandano3477
    @paulbrandano3477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I see Ben fiening for a smoke and sipping a beer and WEARING tattoo and I'm thinking, He may be a kind sweet pretty boy but He's actually cooler than I thought. as well. R.I.P. BO

    • @rapman5791
      @rapman5791 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah really cool. That lifestyle led him to an early grave.

  • @PrincipeFernando
    @PrincipeFernando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tracey gracias por subir esta joya.
    Ben hizo muy buena musica.

  • @MovingBlanketStudio
    @MovingBlanketStudio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He missed the second verse in this performance, but he and this song are awesome.

  • @byfrozen7314
    @byfrozen7314 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Maravilloso

  • @sergiooconitrillo5082
    @sergiooconitrillo5082 ปีที่แล้ว

    This theme and drive were his best songs 🎵

  • @FloridaRaider
    @FloridaRaider 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    miss you Ben ...kids - don't smoke

  • @soniavidal2881
    @soniavidal2881 ปีที่แล้ว

    Belíssima essa música

  • @VUrban-yr5ch
    @VUrban-yr5ch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He was sick already. In early stages of the cancer. He might have not known it yet.