My husband has applied for the divorce. I got the papers this week so you can image how I am feeling right now . We have been separated for two years but I had hope. I still hope. I don’t know where I am going but I know that God didn’t take me here to leave I am still praying and standing for my marriage and i know that god is still in control.
Hello.. I admire your strength and faith in God. My husband wants a divorce after 24 years and we are both followers of Christ. I have not been served papers yet but according to him he wants out. I am devastated..
Belinda Putnam it’s really good that both of you are Christ follower. I have suggestion for you, ask you husband if he can set up a time with you and pray together everyday about your guys’s marriage for a month or two. Let God give lead you guys to, and ask God for help to fix the problem of your marriage.
Fear that I'll never get my wife back, that I'll never live in my 🏠 again. Fear that the truth will never come out. I've been vilified to so many people. Fear you that my wife will move on with someone else. Fear that I'll die alone. Fear of being hurt, rejected again
Angry, hurt, disbelief and sick. So many emotions I cant even think of right now. It went from a separation to divorce within weeks. He refuses to talk over the phone. I feel so alone.
Oh, I felt hopeless to levels I've never experienced. Heartbreak beyond anything I've ever felt. Honestly, this feels worse than my father dying. I feel lost, confused, betrayed, sad, depressed, sprinkled off with a little anxiety. I'm sure I'm forgetting a few other emotions there too. I got served today at work. Financially, I'm done for. I'm about to lose everything I've ever worked for. Going to have to sell this house, which I'm going to take a loss on.
My spouse said he spoke with an attorney because this isn’t going to work. He filed last year but we reconciled. I’m without income now and I’m afraid of the financial problems
After my spouse filed for a divorce I acted like it was final and then was advised to buy her flowers and tell her I was sorry. She asked me to work on myself, which I did, but the more time passed, the worse things got. It was disheartening because I had changed for the better, but she changed for the worse. It is super painful and it feels like she’s choosing the worse path. It doesn’t make sense and I don’t know what to do. I keep praying and I am believing in a good outcome. I hate the feeling of loss and I’m grieving the death of our marriage.
This exactly where I am at. I have been working on myself to be a better person. we had issues during voir marriage and she also stepped out on me. I was willing to go look past it and rebuild. Or just seems like she is still going down this path I can't stop. This video hit home for me today. trying to be strong and positive.
@@ErichStaufferVlog my wife’s separation is my fault as well. She’s been away for 2.5 years now and in a few weeks it will be our 12th anniversary. She is going out of country by herself to avoid being here. She hasn’t filed, although she has paperwork. She has acknowledged my change and is glad I’ve taken steps to get better but has no hope in a future let alone a future together. “These are the consequences of your actions” she tells me. I want nothing more than to be her friend, regain her trust and have her see the man I’ve become in the last two years. She’s afraid it’s not real change. She is mad it took hurting her and everything to be taken from me in order to change. She isn’t happy, but she is comfortable living by herself and for herself. I hope you have come along ways since your comment was posted two years ago. Praying for you, your bride and your futures.
You are a sweetheart, thank you so much. As I’ve been listening to y’all since my separation April 3 2020, y’all been a big encouragement to me. And I’m still hoping and praying for my wife to give me another chance.
My wife filed for divorce. She doesn’t want to hear from me anymore. She told me she doesn’t want a relationship with me or any man. She wants to be alone. She taking out on me for what happened to her when she was younger. She thought I was heading there and I was not! So, I am out. Tried to talk rationally about it to her which did not work, tried to even show her, but she didn’t believe me. So I can’t win at this point. So I going to work again on myself until she changes
Yes! Live a life that proves her wrong. Even if she isn't currently talking to you, she will inevitably hear about you and how you are living your life. As she is out in the world alone and gets more perspective, she will see the truth over time. Waiting it out can be hard, but you can find the determination in yourself. Also, if you don't have God in the mix, go ahead and invite Him to be your partner.
I’m feeling upset. We always told each other we would never do this. We have something huge in common. We would both do anything for our children! Why not fight for our marriage for them to start? Our faith does not align with divorce and I can’t understand why he’s allowing this and making this choice. It’s filed. I spoke to my attorney today. I’m sad.
Hey Vanessa Aimee, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!
If someone walks out on you, let them go!!! More often than not they've plotted and schemed the exit. Do not beg them to come back. If they left in a disrespectful and disgusting way, karma will find them eventually!!!
Fear. Shocked. Was supposed to be a legal separation. Completely side swiped. Calm now. Super emotional after the paperwork. Called her to talk. And explain why us.
Fear of his behavior. He’s so calm, he says he will always be there for me. How? Fear that he seems to be so distant that he will come to me with the divorce documents at any time. Fear that the people he’s hanging with have so much influence on him. Divorced/separated men’s who have said they separated for their own health. Word he repeated to me
So much to discuss here ... my husband is taking a break and needs space for the week because he needs time to think if this marriage is worth continuing....he has mentioned filing for divorce. I am in such a depression and I’m so scared to lose him. My anxiety is out the roof when I think he will make his ultimate decision to let us go. It already feels like I have lost him.
Kim thank you so much now my spouse already filed , and i can not cry even tho i want after watch this im crying a lot about my griev, i want to talk to someone but i really feel lonely and mental really break
I am so worried that my wife’s first request to meet me in the seven months since she ordered me out of our home after 32 years of marriage is to tell me that she has asked her attorney to go ahead with filing for divorce. I am so worried about the effect this choice is going to have on our three adult daughters and our children’s children. I have a vision of what God could do in our “second” marriage and how it could be a blessing to our children’s children and not the curse that could result from our permanent failure to uphold our sacred marriage covenant. Any outcome other than the restoration of our relationship would be such a devastating disappointment to me. Please please God, help us. Make me an instrument of your love.
My fears are that he will never come back to me, our family will remain broken and separated, our kids will grow up with divorced parents, I won’t grow old with the love of my life....
My wife filed for divorce about 2 months ago . There is a no contact order. She has a lawyer I do not. All communication goes threw her lawyer. I asked to speak with her face to face. She won't do it because she is trying to run from our marriage and when she told me at first she had tears in her eyes. She is just trying to stay away long enough to were she can just forget about me. She said are marriage is toxic and all we do is argue. Since then I've gotten closer to God found some mentores and lost weight . If I can't talk with her how can we ever talk about our differences. I wanted to go to joint counseling. She didn't want to because she said it would just be tit for tat. She said we need to work on ourselves.
My wife just said she wants a divorce because I wanted her to give me a chance and have done everything to push her away. It is so hard because I just look at my family and want to keep that together. I have been working on me through counseling & hypnosis. I have the PIES workbook & trying Smart contact. You are correct be positive.
In my situation my wife asked for a divorce. She refused to file so I did instead. Because I couldn’t allow the delay of the process. At this junction I’ve told her that if we get divorced today and married tomorrow I’m fine but we cannot drag it out. I did this after a month of waiting to be served. As far as emotion I’ve been/going through them all. She seems to not care but what can we do.
My wife hasn't filed yet. She has told me she is moving out as soon as possible. Doesn't want to talk about "us" as a married couple or being in a relationship. I feel completely lost, hopeless and have a strong feeling of resentment from her. I feel like she completely hates me
My husband applied for divorce we are still living together we did activities as a family, now he says we are separated since July last year, we slept separate rooms but other things we did as a family.
My wife is filing for divorce because she is convinced it will give her closure from my past infidelities. I’ve come clean entirely but I still understand and respect her will to divorce but I strongly feel she is making life changing decisions in a very dangerous state. She refuses therapy or couples mediation. I’m concerned not that she is divorcing me (I don’t want it but I can’t convince her) I’m concerned she will be destroyer by the reality once it hits. Please any advice?
@@KatyaM78 im sorry to hear that.. with me i knew it was the right thing since we we've some issues for years and felt i couldn't come back from it.. but surely love wasn't a problem.. i still care about her and eventually after going through our phases, we feel we can talk to eachother again. . we jjst couldn't live together anymore.. thank for your response though
@@jorgeromero7532 Do you think that will ever change? How is your friendship? Do you still have a desire to be with each other? What are the issues that keep you from being able to live together?
My wife, once divorced, takes great pride that she never took her last husband back. I am scared that there is no chance for us if she files against me.
I know I’ll NEVER trust enough again to wanna ever marry again. I was more the reason why we’re separated, but recently I worked hella hard on myself to be a better me. I strongly feel she doesn’t see the same for herself, which is why I doubt this separation will end without divorce.
Great advice, Kimberly! I wish I would’ve had this info when my wife had me served. It’s been about 10 months now and I’m standing strong from a marriage. I’ve learned to incorporate many of the things that you’re talking about now, which really helps. I’m not gonna say that the pain in the fear Doesn’t creep in, but I know what I’m doing is right and God will restore my marriage!
My husband has been having an affair with his high school sweetheart for three years now and said when he can afford it he wants a divorce but I know that I don't. I know he's not happy but he's so stubborn he will say he is. What should I do.
Recognize he is breaking one of the Ten Commandments and suffering follows that. God won’t bless that union- just have confidence in continuing to be strong and wait it out- or move on yourself with the legal means to move on. Divorce if you want someone else. Don’t cheat.
Everyone tells me to start dating as well since my ex-husband already has a gf. I'm trying but it's hard to fully commit since I get extremely emotional. I get more depressed than if I were alone. I've been pushing myself but maybe I need to give myself time to grief instead.
My husband filed for divorce we were together 33 years now he said he is in love with a high school sweetheart he moved out 4 months ago to live with her l fear that he is moving on he shows no love for our daughters he acts like a different man . I pray for restoration of my marriage but to be honest I am loosing hope he treats me like if I am his enemy because He is mad at me for asking for half of his retirement pension I don’t want to divorce him but at the same time I have to protect my self and my daughters financially I am hurt , confused, I need help
I messed up my marriage. I am filled with regret with what I wish I changed. My wife and I are Christians and I didn’t walk the walk. I failed her and my family and myself most of all. I did everything wrong. I begged, was spiteful. I dated someone during the separation. I’ve changed but it may be too late. I miss my Kids more than I can believe. Please pray for Me. I need the prayers so bad.
Michael Goodlin Why did you get that bullshit custody deal? Is that what the judge ordered? Why are you getting so little time? Were you the breadwinner working all the time and she stayed home?
My husband said he met with an attorney to file for divorce, I am heartbroken and Hurt. However, he told me he would maybe reconsider after space. I’m giving him his space as hard as it is. He told his family and friends and his family has alienated me. It’s so hurtful… I’m hoping after space he will reconsider. I’ve lost so much weight and can’t focus but I’m trying to take care of myself
Hey Stephanie E, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!
I was completely drained that my husband field for divorce. I was worried about my son future. I felt that ,I am not good enough for my husband , I felt very low from my side , i lost my confidence.
My wife filed for divorce, and 2 months later after our separation, she already started seeing someone... 10 months after our separation she tells me that she is happily dating her new boyfriend. It still hurts really bad even after 10 months. I gave her back all the letters she ever wrote me...
Fear that I will miss out on things with her and my kids, fear of after 18 years see her with someone else, fear of not being able to hug her and have her on my bed, afraid of everything that could happen if we do get divorced.
My wife moved back with her mom in July which is 2 States away (8 hours far), stated that we need to separate. Since we have had communication. Some conversations were good others not so good. More recently we had a stupid argument a week ago and she said she's done with the marriage. She says that she's coming home to pick up the rest of her things that she left. Because of my arrogance and impatience I pushed her away. I'm at a loss, I don't know what to do, I just want her back so we can mend our marriage 😭.
I was shocked and blown away that she filed. I got into bad argument with wife and I asked if she was wanting to leave me or divorce me, took a picture of ring asking if I'd be taking it off cause I screwed up so badly
My situation sucks because spouse doesn’t want to play nice with marital debt so I have to protect myself but my state doesn’t do legal separation and you can only go the divorce route. I don’t want a divorce and it’s a really bad situation too but I believe in us.
So my wife filed for divorce a year ago, but it didn't officially show as filed until January of this year. I just got served a week before my birthday which is 8 months from that date. My whole world feels like it's crumbling all around me
It has not happened yet. I expect it to. She will not talk to me at all. She has said that she is done. I maintain hope. I have been working on my emotions. She has alienated herself from her kids and grands. I do not understand what she is doing.
I’m KIND OF in same boat, just not as far down the river. My wife just moved out, is totally committed to (and threatened) divorce. I want to save marriage. First: you need an attorney. Protect yourself. That’s what I’ve done.... just in case
If they file for divorce. Let them go. Move on with your life and trust the process. The divine closes doors for a reason. Be grateful for the life experiences and soul lessons.
My husband went to a lawyer to ask to have the paper work to file for divorce completed. I do not want the divorce because I see what skills we Both can do. I am willing and husband is not open or will he talk about anything. He is putting all blame on me. 25 years, our house is all paid for and it could just be he and I loving life. Husband does not feel I trust him and he want to limit me with my work and my finances. I’ll take your courses yet being in limbo is so hard.
My wife of 14 yrs just got an apartment. Threatened divorce, is VERY distant. I’ve been advised to file for legal separation to protect myself & our son (who is with me) as SHE is the breadwinner. But I DO NOT want a divorce. Maybe legal separation will give her “space”, give us time to work on things, “call her bluff”?
My husband filed and I was served January 2020 I'm heart broken hurt angry there is a younger female involved he is 49 and she is 37 she cheated on her husband 2 times with a minor and is a sex offender and divorced I love my husband and fear that we will not be able to save our marriage he won't even have communicate with me
After 18 yrs of marriage and 23 yrs together... 3 months ago she sent me a message that she moved out. Said she doesn't love me anymore. Says she's hurt and angry. Said she needs space and to find herself. Three weeks ago she said again that she doesn't love me and she wants a divorce. She has contacted me twice in the last three weeks about our 19yr old and our 16yr old sons who live with me. There is no other contact. I don't know what to do. I'm not texting or calling her.
I have been working on my pies for more than a year now while he has moved out and in with her filed for divorce and had a child...I don’t think there is hope for us.
I'm so sorry that hurts so bad ughh this is hard my husband and I separated this yr 2020 and never got back together he dont want the marriage i found out he has a girlfriend he still denying it and now that i found out he wants a divorce
Sometimes the get-a-man baby that these women who have thrown themselves at married men end up to be a blessing. It’s never hard to love a baby, always remember it’s not his/her fault for how they came about. You disliking the other woman and the baby simply because of what your husband did won’t bring him back. Shock them all and show love. It can’t hurt. Try to see your husband as God sees him. He messed up. Maybe he will continue to mess up for years... but you won’t feel better by being bitter about it.
I have a question: divorce happened 2 months ago and she has moved out. She calls me and texts me half about our kids and if she’s having trouble with something. She gives me hugs that last but she is quick to tell me to move on. I won’t give up on her and us. What is she saying when she says move on.
My husband served me.after difference be cause he cohabitated with another woman I feel we nevet gave our marriage the best my spouse never wanted us to talk and reconcile but rushed for divorce pettition. I feel bad for my children and my dream for my marriage
my wife is a loner because of what happened in her life she has a hard time in loveing someone and now she is gone im trying to keep it togther but it is over after 25 years sad then is that i still love her
I have something kind of different but in away same. I want to know about couples who divorced because of the other woman. I was married for 30 yrs and for a year he was having an affair until I started finding out some strange things of course. He befriended a guy that worked with hims wife. I had told him to leave her alone if she needed some one to talk to... l will talk to her. Well after months of him helping her out she got a divorce. He was focused on her I became nothing. I tried everything! Our sons were devastated that he chose her. They were senior in high school and the other in college. He said he got his kids raised he was done. So I talked counsel ing he said no. The other woman was always saying come to me I’m worth it. How can you fight that 12 yrs younger and thought she was all that. She had kids still in grade school. Now an ex she had to deal with. I finally took a time out by myself and decided to divorce him. He couldn’t make a decision me or her so I did it for him. Been divorced for 9 years now he wants to talk and visit with me. I have always loved him. He says he feels sorry for me that’s why it took 30 yrs to leave lol. He is still with the other woman and she has tried to be friends with me but that’s not happening lol. What should I do. I have moved on to two relationships that didn’t work out. Now I am single he wants to talk a little more should I? How
My husband served me.after difference be cause he cohabitated with another woman I feel we nevet gave our marriage the best my spouse never wanted us to talk and reconcile but rushed for divorce pettition. I feel bad for my children and my dream for my marriage
My husband has applied for the divorce. I got the papers this week so you can image how I am feeling right now . We have been separated for two years but I had hope. I still hope. I don’t know where I am going but I know that God didn’t take me here to leave I am still praying and standing for my marriage and i know that god is still in control.
Hello.. I admire your strength and faith in God. My husband wants a divorce after 24 years and we are both followers of Christ. I have not been served papers yet but according to him he wants out. I am devastated..
Belinda Putnam it’s really good that both of you are Christ follower. I have suggestion for you, ask you husband if he can set up a time with you and pray together everyday about your guys’s marriage for a month or two. Let God give lead you guys to, and ask God for help to fix the problem of your marriage.
Great faith , keep it up
How did everything workout?
I got the papers this week, too. My wife says there's no hope and is not a Christian.
Fear that I'll never get my wife back, that I'll never live in my 🏠 again. Fear that the truth will never come out. I've been vilified to so many people. Fear you that my wife will move on with someone else. Fear that I'll die alone. Fear of being hurt, rejected again
My wife separated 7 years ago then suddenly divorced me :(
John, I feel you. I’m in the same spot and I have the same fears. It’s horrible.
Me too, as my wife separated from me about 2 months a ago
You’re not alone John. I’m in the same boat. Stay strong mate and get through this. Love from New Zealand
John Shaw
You hear you’ll never live in your 🏠 again, did you lose it in divorce?
Angry, hurt, disbelief and sick. So many emotions I cant even think of right now. It went from a separation to divorce within weeks. He refuses to talk over the phone. I feel so alone.
It is very hard what you are going through..
Oh, I felt hopeless to levels I've never experienced. Heartbreak beyond anything I've ever felt. Honestly, this feels worse than my father dying. I feel lost, confused, betrayed, sad, depressed, sprinkled off with a little anxiety. I'm sure I'm forgetting a few other emotions there too. I got served today at work. Financially, I'm done for. I'm about to lose everything I've ever worked for. Going to have to sell this house, which I'm going to take a loss on.
My spouse said he spoke with an attorney because this isn’t going to work. He filed last year but we reconciled. I’m without income now and I’m afraid of the financial problems
This is for John.. You are not alone and will not die alone. God is with you John.. He is with you always.. I am praying for you.
This is true. God is with you. I am praying for you too
After my spouse filed for a divorce I acted like it was final and then was advised to buy her flowers and tell her I was sorry. She asked me to work on myself, which I did, but the more time passed, the worse things got. It was disheartening because I had changed for the better, but she changed for the worse. It is super painful and it feels like she’s choosing the worse path. It doesn’t make sense and I don’t know what to do. I keep praying and I am believing in a good outcome. I hate the feeling of loss and I’m grieving the death of our marriage.
I’m sorry Erich. I am in the same boat. You are not alone going through this. It is painful.
Erich Stauffer
Have you ever noticed it’s apparently always the man’s fault, men like you are just white knight?
@@kevindunne4271 In this case it was my fault. I took responsibility for my mistakes and changed, but the damage had already been done.
This exactly where I am at. I have been working on myself to be a better person. we had issues during voir marriage and she also stepped out on me. I was willing to go look past it and rebuild. Or just seems like she is still going down this path I can't stop. This video hit home for me today. trying to be strong and positive.
@@ErichStaufferVlog my wife’s separation is my fault as well. She’s been away for 2.5 years now and in a few weeks it will be our 12th anniversary. She is going out of country by herself to avoid being here.
She hasn’t filed, although she has paperwork. She has acknowledged my change and is glad I’ve taken steps to get better but has no hope in a future let alone a future together.
“These are the consequences of your actions” she tells me. I want nothing more than to be her friend, regain her trust and have her see the man I’ve become in the last two years.
She’s afraid it’s not real change. She is mad it took hurting her and everything to be taken from me in order to change.
She isn’t happy, but she is comfortable living by herself and for herself.
I hope you have come along ways since your comment was posted two years ago. Praying for you, your bride and your futures.
What should we do than?
You are a sweetheart, thank you so much. As I’ve been listening to y’all since my separation April 3 2020, y’all been a big encouragement to me. And I’m still hoping and praying for my wife to give me another chance.
We're you able to turn the seperation around?
@@connecticut730 yes we did. Better than any other time by Gods grace.
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My wife filed for divorce. She doesn’t want to hear from me anymore. She told me she doesn’t want a relationship with me or any man. She wants to be alone. She taking out on me for what happened to her when she was younger. She thought I was heading there and I was not! So, I am out. Tried to talk rationally about it to her which did not work, tried to even show her, but she didn’t believe me. So I can’t win at this point. So I going to work again on myself until she changes
Any update?
Yes! Live a life that proves her wrong. Even if she isn't currently talking to you, she will inevitably hear about you and how you are living your life. As she is out in the world alone and gets more perspective, she will see the truth over time. Waiting it out can be hard, but you can find the determination in yourself. Also, if you don't have God in the mix, go ahead and invite Him to be your partner.
I’m feeling upset. We always told each other we would never do this. We have something huge in common. We would both do anything for our children! Why not fight for our marriage for them to start? Our faith does not align with divorce and I can’t understand why he’s allowing this and making this choice. It’s filed. I spoke to my attorney today. I’m sad.
Hey Vanessa Aimee, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
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Any update?
What happens after SMART contact? On which point does it transition to getting back together? Do you wait for your spouse to take the first move?
Thank you so much for sharing this video. I loved your advices 👍👍❤🤗you make me strong .
If someone walks out on you, let them go!!! More often than not they've plotted and schemed the exit. Do not beg them to come back.
If they left in a disrespectful and disgusting way, karma will find them eventually!!!
I’m going through this right now
Fear. Shocked. Was supposed to be a legal separation. Completely side swiped.
Calm now. Super emotional after the paperwork.
Called her to talk. And explain why us.
Fear of his behavior. He’s so calm, he says he will always be there for me. How?
Fear that he seems to be so distant that he will come to me with the divorce documents at any time. Fear that the people he’s hanging with have so much influence on him. Divorced/separated men’s who have said they separated for their own health. Word he repeated to me
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I am so worried that my wife’s first request to meet me in the seven months since she ordered me out of our home after 32 years of marriage is to tell me that she has asked her attorney to go ahead with filing for divorce. I am so worried about the effect this choice is going to have on our three adult daughters and our children’s children. I have a vision of what God could do in our “second” marriage and how it could be a blessing to our children’s children and not the curse that could result from our permanent failure to uphold our sacred marriage covenant. Any outcome other than the restoration of our relationship would be such a devastating disappointment to me. Please please God, help us. Make me an instrument of your love.
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My wife filed for divorce about 2 months ago . There is a no contact order. She has a lawyer I do not. All communication goes threw her lawyer. I asked to speak with her face to face. She won't do it because she is trying to run from our marriage and when she told me at first she had tears in her eyes. She is just trying to stay away long enough to were she can just forget about me. She said are marriage is toxic and all we do is argue. Since then I've gotten closer to God found some mentores and lost weight . If I can't talk with her how can we ever talk about our differences. I wanted to go to joint counseling. She didn't want to because she said it would just be tit for tat. She said we need to work on ourselves.
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My wife just said she wants a divorce because I wanted her to give me a chance and have done everything to push her away. It is so hard because I just look at my family and want to keep that together. I have been working on me through counseling & hypnosis. I have the PIES workbook & trying Smart contact. You are correct be positive.
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In my situation my wife asked for a divorce. She refused to file so I did instead. Because I couldn’t allow the delay of the process. At this junction I’ve told her that if we get divorced today and married tomorrow I’m fine but we cannot drag it out. I did this after a month of waiting to be served. As far as emotion I’ve been/going through them all. She seems to not care but what can we do.
We're only 2 months into separation but I know its coming at the 1 year. Fear i'll never get the answers I wanted.
My husband not just filed the divorce but we had signed the paper 10 days a ago. I fought against but at end I was obligated to sign it.Unfornately...
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My wife hasn't filed yet. She has told me she is moving out as soon as possible. Doesn't want to talk about "us" as a married couple or being in a relationship. I feel completely lost, hopeless and have a strong feeling of resentment from her. I feel like she completely hates me
I’m in the same position. Except I filled because she hadn’t and was making excuses. I don’t want a divorce but I wasn’t going to stagnate the process
My husband applied for divorce we are still living together we did activities as a family, now he says we are separated since July last year, we slept separate rooms but other things we did as a family.
My wife is filing for divorce because she is convinced it will give her closure from my past infidelities. I’ve come clean entirely but I still understand and respect her will to divorce but I strongly feel she is making life changing decisions in a very dangerous state. She refuses therapy or couples mediation. I’m concerned not that she is divorcing me (I don’t want it but I can’t convince her) I’m concerned she will be destroyer by the reality once it hits. Please any advice?
What if its me who decided to leave?? Is it normal to miss my spouse?? I am very confused about my own thoughts
Missing them is normal. My husband left me yet still says he misses me.
@@KatyaM78 im sorry to hear that.. with me i knew it was the right thing since we we've some issues for years and felt i couldn't come back from it.. but surely love wasn't a problem.. i still care about her and eventually after going through our phases, we feel we can talk to eachother again. . we jjst couldn't live together anymore.. thank for your response though
@@jorgeromero7532 Do you think that will ever change? How is your friendship? Do you still have a desire to be with each other? What are the issues that keep you from being able to live together?
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My wife, once divorced, takes great pride that she never took her last husband back. I am scared that there is no chance for us if she files against me.
I know I’ll NEVER trust enough again to wanna ever marry again. I was more the reason why we’re separated, but recently I worked hella hard on myself to be a better me. I strongly feel she doesn’t see the same for herself, which is why I doubt this separation will end without divorce.
And now I found out she’s with a dude
Great advice, Kimberly! I wish I would’ve had this info when my wife had me served. It’s been about 10 months now and I’m standing strong from a marriage. I’ve learned to incorporate many of the things that you’re talking about now, which really helps. I’m not gonna say that the pain in the fear Doesn’t creep in, but I know what I’m doing is right and God will restore my marriage!
Celebrate yourself. Wonderful.
The movie Groundhog Day reflects how we should work on the PIEs.
Every emotion that you just described, thats it.
My husband has been having an affair with his high school sweetheart for three years now and said when he can afford it he wants a divorce but I know that I don't. I know he's not happy but he's so stubborn he will say he is. What should I do.
Let him loose.
Recognize he is breaking one of the Ten Commandments and suffering follows that. God won’t bless that union- just have confidence in continuing to be strong and wait it out- or move on yourself with the legal means to move on. Divorce if you want someone else. Don’t cheat.
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Everyone tells me to start dating as well since my ex-husband already has a gf. I'm trying but it's hard to fully commit since I get extremely emotional. I get more depressed than if I were alone. I've been pushing myself but maybe I need to give myself time to grief instead.
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My husband attempted tinserve me yesterday. We've been separated since November. He left me for someone else.
My husband filed for divorce we were together 33 years now he said he is in love with a high school sweetheart he moved out 4 months ago to live with her l fear that he is moving on he shows no love for our daughters he acts like a different man . I pray for restoration of my marriage but to be honest I am loosing hope he treats me like if I am his enemy because He is mad at me for asking for half of his retirement pension I don’t want to divorce him but at the same time I have to protect my self and my daughters financially I am hurt , confused, I need help
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I messed up my marriage. I am filled with regret with what I wish I changed. My wife and I are Christians and I didn’t walk the walk. I failed her and my family and myself most of all. I did everything wrong. I begged, was spiteful. I dated someone during the separation. I’ve changed but it may be too late. I miss my
Kids more than I can believe. Please pray for
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You said you miss your kids, so I suppose you lost them in divorce?
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What, you only see them once every two weeks?
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Is that what the judge ordered?
Why are you getting so little time?
Were you the breadwinner working all the time and she stayed home?
My husband said he met with an attorney to file for divorce, I am heartbroken and Hurt. However, he told me he would maybe reconsider after space. I’m giving him his space as hard as it is. He told his family and friends and his family has alienated me. It’s so hurtful… I’m hoping after space he will reconsider. I’ve lost so much weight and can’t focus but I’m trying to take care of myself
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I was completely drained that my husband field for divorce. I was worried about my son future.
I felt that ,I am not good enough for my husband , I felt very low from my side , i lost my confidence.
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Fear that I will miss out on things with her and my kids, fear of after 18 years see her with someone else, fear of not being able to hug her and have her on my bed, afraid of everything that could happen if we do get divorced.
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My wife moved back with her mom in July which is 2 States away (8 hours far), stated that we need to separate. Since we have had communication. Some conversations were good others not so good. More recently we had a stupid argument a week ago and she said she's done with the marriage. She says that she's coming home to pick up the rest of her things that she left. Because of my arrogance and impatience I pushed her away.
I'm at a loss, I don't know what to do, I just want her back so we can mend our marriage 😭.
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My situation sucks because spouse doesn’t want to play nice with marital debt so I have to protect myself but my state doesn’t do legal separation and you can only go the divorce route. I don’t want a divorce and it’s a really bad situation too but I believe in us.
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So my wife filed for divorce a year ago, but it didn't officially show as filed until January of this year. I just got served a week before my birthday which is 8 months from that date. My whole world feels like it's crumbling all around me
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It has not happened yet. I expect it to. She will not talk to me at all. She has said that she is done. I maintain hope. I have been working on my emotions. She has alienated herself from her kids and grands. I do not understand what she is doing.
When your spouse files for divorce what is next? What steps need to be taken. I’m completely lost on what to do.
I’m KIND OF in same boat, just not as far down the river. My wife just moved out, is totally committed to (and threatened) divorce. I want to save marriage. First: you need an attorney. Protect yourself. That’s what I’ve done.... just in case
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If they file for divorce.
Let them go.
Move on with your life and trust the process.
The divine closes doors for a reason.
Be grateful for the life experiences and soul lessons.
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Both can do. I am willing and husband is not open or will he talk about anything. He is putting all blame on me. 25 years, our house is all paid for and it could just be he and I loving life. Husband does not feel I trust him and he want to limit me with my work and my finances. I’ll take your courses yet being in limbo is so hard.
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After I found out he filed, I felt defeated, sad, numb and hurt
My wife of 14 yrs just got an apartment. Threatened divorce, is VERY distant. I’ve been advised to file for legal separation to protect myself & our son (who is with me) as SHE is the breadwinner. But I DO NOT want a divorce. Maybe legal separation will give her “space”, give us time to work on things, “call her bluff”?
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My husband filed and I was served January 2020 I'm heart broken hurt angry there is a younger female involved he is 49 and she is 37 she cheated on her husband 2 times with a minor and is a sex offender and divorced I love my husband and fear that we will not be able to save our marriage he won't even have communicate with me
Ex wrote all kinds of lies in the declaration, would those lies be given any weight?
After 18 yrs of marriage and 23 yrs together... 3 months ago she sent me a message that she moved out. Said she doesn't love me anymore. Says she's hurt and angry. Said she needs space and to find herself. Three weeks ago she said again that she doesn't love me and she wants a divorce. She has contacted me twice in the last three weeks about our 19yr old and our 16yr old sons who live with me. There is no other contact. I don't know what to do. I'm not texting or calling her.
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......feeling sorry for a spouse and thinking you can help them be a better person ....is why most people need a divorce ... I'm not xonvinced
I have been working on my pies for more than a year now while he has moved out and in with her filed for divorce and had a child...I don’t think there is hope for us.
I'm so sorry that hurts so bad ughh this is hard my husband and I separated this yr 2020 and never got back together he dont want the marriage i found out he has a girlfriend he still denying it and now that i found out he wants a divorce
Sometimes the get-a-man baby that these women who have thrown themselves at married men end up to be a blessing. It’s never hard to love a baby, always remember it’s not his/her fault for how they came about. You disliking the other woman and the baby simply because of what your husband did won’t bring him back. Shock them all and show love. It can’t hurt. Try to see your husband as God sees him. He messed up. Maybe he will continue to mess up for years... but you won’t feel better by being bitter about it.
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And I'm running against time..matter of days before he leaves
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I have a question: divorce happened 2 months ago and she has moved out. She calls me and texts me half about our kids and if she’s having trouble with something. She gives me hugs that last but she is quick to tell me to move on. I won’t give up on her and us. What is she saying when she says move on.
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I need help my wife filed today for divorce
My husband served me.after difference be cause he cohabitated with another woman
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I feel bad for my children and my dream for my marriage
my wife is a loner because of what happened in her life she has a hard time in loveing someone and now she is gone im trying to keep it togther but it is over after 25 years sad then is that i still love her
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I have something kind of different but in away same. I want to know about couples who divorced because of the other woman. I was married for 30 yrs and for a year he was having an affair until I started finding out some strange things of course. He befriended a guy that worked with hims wife. I had told him to leave her alone if she needed some one to talk to... l will talk to her. Well after months of him helping her out she got a divorce. He was focused on her I became nothing. I tried everything! Our sons were devastated that he chose her. They were senior in high school and the other in college. He said he got his kids raised he was done. So I talked counsel ing he said no. The other woman was always saying come to me I’m worth it. How can you fight that 12 yrs younger and thought she was all that. She had kids still in grade school. Now an ex she had to deal with.
I finally took a time out by myself and decided to divorce him. He couldn’t make a decision me or her so I did it for him. Been divorced for 9 years now he wants to talk and visit with me. I have always loved him. He says he feels sorry for me that’s why it took 30 yrs to leave lol. He is still with the other woman and she has tried to be friends with me but that’s not happening lol. What should I do. I have moved on to two relationships that didn’t work out. Now I am single he wants to talk a little more should I? How
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I fear that my wife never loved me... I am afraid that I will never be good enough to get her back!! the fear of what i have done will do to me kids.
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