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Pearl, you keep saying "Time to go to a therapist... A MALE therapist." I'm a psychotherapist, and sadly, I won't see female clients anymore. It's just too much... Too much risk, too much drama, too much work.
@@davep5161 Follow my advice: Forget about therapy Critique to Psychotherapy For everything solutions we sell Even though we’re not sure what to tell Life crushes you And we fool you You come in disoriented And comes out accommodated We don't teach that magic formula All we know is following the norma But just for now, We can be your friend somehow We therapists also go to therapy 'Cause we don't love ourselves either Isn’t that the dumbest irony? A thousand endless theories without end For just one thing to comprehend We don’t know the cause or its effect But if you pay enough, you won’t feel reject The idea’s convincing Although misleading To live immediately As if to live eternally Here we believe in everything Meaning we believe no thing We don’t give a damn thing We know we’re not the same If it wasn’t for that you’d never came From above, we know you’re inferior Because we’ve no idea of your interior I won’t even mention what’s holy ‘Cause you just want your glory You say you care for the patient But We are the ones who need to be patient I’d talk about divine But it’s just not fine Throwing bones to therapists And pearls to atheists Those who give only bad advice
@@davep5161 Here in Brazil Psychotherapy is so rude They set the worst example, They call me crazy And there's no one to judge them Ruining my life In this lost society here. Nobody cares, I'm nothing here And because of them I will never be!
They are not desperate for men to approach them in Public. They are desperate for men who are way out of their league to approach them in Public. People at their level will be treated with disdain and at best they will date them out of desperation and be bitter that they did not marry the man that they think that they deserve and will treat whoever that they are in a relationship with like crap.
Do men want to be approached by women? I thought men were supposed to be the hunters. The chase is half the fun 🥳 Then again, I don’t know what today’s dating world is like. Maybe times are just changing.
Make no mistake about it. If a woman sees you as being beneath her, and agrees to go on a date with you, she will see that as a "pity date" and you will be treated like garbage the entire time.
Yep you can tell also when a lady is looking around the room or would rather to be anywhere else but next to you. Doesn't take long maybe she was looking to make a former lover jealous or boost her own ego at your expense. I take a lot of dance classes and can tell within 5 seconds whether the girl i asked to dance is engaging and interested or she would rather be anywhere else. Then they can sit there asses down and wonder why no one asks them no matter how pretty they are.
I can't remember where I heard this, but there was a sketch of some guys talking about how you need to find a girl with hobbies or activities that she can do by herself. Not all the time, just every now and then to let off steam. If you meet someone who doesn't have this, YOU will be their hobby. As soon as they are sitting at home alone or bored, they will hit you up, mess with you, get angry your out. Once I heard this, things started falling into place for me. Avoid people who can't just exist for a few hours by themself.
When I first met my husband, he mentioned that I was the first lady he’d dated who had hobbies. I paint, write, sew, cook etc. He said the other women he’d dated said that shopping was their hobby. He’s a hunting fishing man, so we both stay occupied with our own hobbies and our shared interest, our children. We have 4 daughters and one son, and I will definitely encourage them to find spouses with hobbies as well ❤
Women's "hobbies" tend to be expensive leisure activities. I saw one hobby for wine tasting . My hobby ism making my own with wild fruit with a cost of $1-2 a bottle. Very drinakble and I serve it to company. . Other things I do with my time also just tend to save money. I do light duty plumbing, auto work , electrical etc . That is why men are less likely to need a sugar girl. I just don't need much . Even when I traveled a cheap hotel will do. I handled my own security. When they make more money in the relationship they take the financial lead , they use it for status chasing with designer clothes , make up, bags , car etc .
@@gwynedd1 technically that’s incorrect. Men outspend women significantly when it comes to hobbies. This is actually a subject spoken about a lot in women’s circles. “Single men spend more on leisure equipment According to the BLS, single men spent an average of $675 in 2021 on other entertainment supplies, equipment, and services, which includes indoor exercise equipment, athletic shoes, bicycles, trailers, motorized RV purchases or rentals, boats, camping, hunting, and fishing equipment, as well as fireworks, pinball, and electronic video games, among other leisure expenses. Single women spent an average of $141 in the same spending category. Source: Bureau of Labor Statistics”
@@Sunshineheart124 I don't buy it. Typical classification manipulation like the "best car in its class" , out of a class of 2. Women spend money on apparel make up, and dining out. . Also as I said men have activities that can save money which are a form of entertainment. When men have disposable income with little interest in family, yeah they do buy a lot of toys. However they often reign it in later. When it comes to savings men out save women.
Ladies, single men are not here to "entertain", we want to be in a partnership with you. We single men spend our time in our hobbies. We are improving our quality of life. We are at work, in the diner, at the grocery store, and at the gym, you either ignore us or look down at us because we don't fit in your "niche."
@@mafp22wAnd that's the problem. Ya'll got so many partners and dudes helping ya'll. Does it hurt to build a life with one person? Is it possible for you to drop all of the orbiting suitors waiting for you?
Not really partnership unless it’s gf bf but it should be duty and responsibilities if it’s marriage. You aren’t partner with your wife, you’re her husband.
You’re kind of deliberately misconstruing her words. Entertain doesn’t mean to be a dancing monkey. It’s to have meaningful conversations, have some (not all) shared interests, and quite frankly it means sexual compatibility. And be wary of the guys saying they want a “helpmate” or talking of “duties and responsibilities”. Women are often accused of showing more loyalty to an employer than their husband. Guys that talk like this are crappy employers posing as husbands. They get blindsided when their wives leave them. Really, their wives are quitting an underpaid job where they’re reporting to an underperforming boss.
@RealSigmaQueen I don't believe that I was misconstruing her words. Her context was that of my ex. I was working 80 + hrs a week. She didn't work. She got her nails done regularly. Rarely cleaned the house. Never had any meals prepared when I arrived home. Then she started cheating on me, citing that I was never around to do anything fun. The kicker was she was angry that I wanted her to get out of my house once I caught her cheating. This female displays the same attitude.
@@RunToEternity Unless you are hot enough that women approach you in public, probably not.. but sometimes you just have to touch a hot stove to understand why not to.
I've had a few female associations that exhibited the "entertain me" vibe. Trying to be friends with them was very tiresome. Eventually you reach a limit where their cuteness is just not worth the effort.
Once, the philosopher Diogenes was seen begging a statue for coins. When asked why he was doing this, he replied "I'm getting practice in being refused."
Men vs women happy alone? How many of hermits are women? All I know of are men. I know many women living "alone" but they all have extensive female groups, always out with this one or that. I don't know many men who are "alone" who are engaged in so many male-only groups. I conclude: men are much more comfortable in their own skin, alone, than women. Women don't find their own company adequate.
"No respect No Relationship" this is why nowadays a lot of men are done with dating or not approach modern women anymore and go overseas become the passport bros
At basic level, what Pearl says about the differences between women and men is true. Women have a built in craving for an established social circle, which provides them with constant encouragement and validation. Most men don't need or seek that, and are happy operating either as Lone Wolves (a wolf that hunts without the assistance of a pack) or as a Ronin (an indie Samurai) 🐺 ⚔️
This is incorrect. Humans are a social animal and we operate best in groups, like most social animals. Ronin and lone wolves are the exception, not the rule.
Women, you are going to have to convince me that you want me at this point. It's been 7 years since I've so much as been on a date, and I'm done. I'm done working, trying, caring, I'm going Galt. You will have to make it known to me you want society to continue.
at tbis point,...idk. i've the im.pression you'd want to be hog tied like one of those hefers at rodeos and carted off.... tho by these women good luck.....💀💀💀😆
@@stephanc6138 might as well because that’s pretty much what it’s going too take unless you’re not from western culture, it’s been 4 years of not dating for me and I’ve made 30k more a year since no stress
I believe women need to be content with a normal relatively boring life. Realistically, life isn't a fantasy. Life is going to pass you by if your waiting for a knight in shining armor. The honeymoon phase of most relationships is relatively short and things tend to get very normal and average. Be content with that and anything above and beyond that is a bonus.
I've never really needed a woman in my life, so treated my three long term marriages like long dates, I knew, would eventually end one day, probably, at my relief!
Then why you 'd get married ? Three failed marriages ? Sir you never ask yourself why it did not work with three different women ? A marriage involves Two persons and you sir you failed three of them . My guess you were the unbearable one .😂🎉 Don't marry again of you consider marriage a long date Marriage is a commitment if you can't commit live women alone.
I'm taking this one step further, I'm able to predict in advance how long these relationships are gonna last. Maybe you can do this, too. And also since you know you gonna break up, why marry?
@@nightmareTomek They may not break up. I'm on my fourth now, 17yrs, still going strong. My mindset, hope for the best, plan for the worst. Don't take anything as a certainty.
@@nivaeva2411 I was always into the marriage for long term, they weren't. I sense that early on. So yes, a long date. After the first one, 8yrs, she decided to leave. I never had much faith in any other ever going long term, as all the other males around me, were, or already had been dumped by their wife. My three ex's admitted to me or others they were in the wrong. They all wanted a man they could change, fully control, that wasn't me.
I think you miss the point. As a man we can't have a choice to stay single forever we have to have the urges or sense a women that need us to make her dreams come true. That's why in a certain age a man just randomly gets married to a women cause it just happens and man have been trained since school days to be ready for it to and even after it when the young man gets a job and want to do more.@@nivaeva2411
You don't have to approach (maybe the poor guy/girl above has to) Learn to read gestures like I have. It tells everything, weather the effort is worth it or not.
I refuse to take another chance on women. Not even young ones are worth it. I'm currently making arrangements to move to Alaska by myself. This is ridiculous!
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I love being alone! I thrive ion solitude. especially if I I am on my purpose. I think men do get lonely once in a while, but its not the same for us, it lasts until, we see some dude arguing with a woman or going through heartbreak then we are grateful we are single. at which point I go back to my Cello, who never lies, cheats, backtalks, shit tests or causes me heartbreak. If I need female "companionship". I can always pay for an hour of some escorts time, and I have no shame about doing that given our current state of dating. I am older, and it was easy to get a woman to climb into bed. Now things have changed for men and younger women are lost in social medias fake world and they can't cope.
Got asked out by a woman at work. My coworker got asked also out by another woman at same job same floor same company. We rejected them both. Felt good. Plenty of fish out there. Women so thirsty its sad.
I finally ran into one of the Home Depot trollers. She was hot ... with 3 small kids in tow. But I knew why she was there. She may as well have had it tattooed across her face. We made eye contact when she looked again for a second glance and smiled. And I continued looking for what I was looking for. And she wasn't it.
Pearl, this is a topic that never gets enough attention. The U.S. economy could have allowed a large increase of women participation in the workforce, from 1950 to 2024, without sacrificing men participation rate. This data tells me, that the U.S.A. cares very little about male workforce participation, as working is the core component as what it means to be a man. Not 100% zero sums game, but pretty close. This society should have always put men first in job placement, promotion, and scholarships. 1950, 32% women workforce participation up to 57.5 % in 2024, for a total gain of 25.5% participation increase over 50 years. 1950, 86.7% men workforce participation down to 67.9% in 2024, for a total loss of 18.8 % participation decrease over 50 years. So, in simplistic economic terms that are not exact, you could have potentially increased women workforce participation by 6.7% workforce participation, potentially without displacing many or any males. Failing marriage rates is largely due to displacing men in the workforce. This is highly unreported. Naturally failing birth rates occur as well.
@@Sunshineheart124 she is definitely not independent. She explains the necessity for suggestions and advice that comes from her dad. She wants a family for sure, unlike most girls in their 20s.
@@Sunshineheart124 The women depicted here are certainly not strong, they lack introspection. Pearl is different in having a more realistic view on what women need, understanding herself. Which makes her stronger. She is financially independent, but self aware of wanting to ultimately build a nest as a woman. Of course everyone will keep attacking her if she is unlucky. She may not find the right guy. But she won't make the horrible mistakes many women make. Use her knowledge to your advantage or learn her lessons the hard way.
Ive been going to the beach often while on my Vacation; i'm used to women at the gym hovering and taking more clothes off, but at the beach, they are already down to their bikinis and resort to the silliest tactics 😂
The truth is women no longer know how to be in a committed relationship, casual relationships are easy even flies know how to do that so I guess if she doesn't have the skill set than casual is all she's good for.
Love isn't earned its paid for...by rich guys, or those who have enough money to be able to afford to keep their fancy women ...and afford to lose them..us normal decent guys get lost in the wealth of others...I gave up. Older now with grand kids, they are my focus. Some have said, there's a quality of woman, who isn't for you, but for the wealthy. Obviously, those would never be on my to do list anyway. If I can't afford to pay for a Mercedes, I definitely won't be driving one either 😂😂😂
Sounds like you have never known love. You are doing it wrong if you are not attracting people because of the person you are. "Rich guys" are looking for a real woman who is interested in them, not their wealth, assets, fancy cars, yachts, investment portfolio, multiple homes, or business ventures. You may need to work on yourself and figure out what you want.
I’m so sorry, that genuinely sucks. I consider myself a lot more supportive of men’s issues than most women and even I could never date someone under 5’6”. And that’s because I’m 5’4”. However, there are plenty of women out there that are 5’ and just below so hopefully you can find a decent one of them
@@Emily-eq2fyThank you for the kind words Emily but am good and not on dating apps. When was found that out of 20 heartfelt messages about 1 would even reply back often with a rejection. Ladies however, (even the so so to average ones) post a profile and immediately receive 50 or so messages all the while complaining there are no good men out there. You do hold all the power in those situations.
Like most things preparing food, it's not the recipe, it's the technique. Personally, I don't get why anybody doesn't learn how to cook. They can definitely follow a recipe but, they still fail.
Pearl, you're better than average. It's good that you say you're average though because then nobody can come at you (and there's no shortage of people who want to come at you, buncha idiots!)
Quality men in church are snapped up very early. Those that wait are the most pious and waiting for a woman on their level spiritually and only the godliest women have a hope, excluding the class of women in question.
Here's how men think - if you want a guy to ask you out, act openly interested in him and act at least a little submissive. If he finds you remotely attractive and if life hasn't completely broken his spirit, that will work. I promise you that this will work on a male mind. I once had a woman tell me that she thought men "liked the hunt." That's nonsense. Men just want to know that they're not going to be rejected.
I think everyone needs those classes/skills, not just girls. I homeschool my children, and they all have those basic skills. On the flip side, I think woodworking/shop classes should be encouraged for boy and girls as well. I fix as much as I can around the house, so that I won’t have to ask my husband for help, and he is grateful for it.
@@Sunshineheart124 No. People are confused enough. People need to go back to their gender roles. The set up in this world today isn't working. Ik it seems backwards from some modern viewpoint, but 90% of the people that ik in anything resembling a traditional relationship are far happier than the opposite. As a guy who works in a metal shop. Stay the hell in your lane. I don't want to baby sit you. Stay out of our male only spheres. We stay out of yours and you can do the same.
@@daytonaofcv6856 and by the way, you don’t “stay out of our” realm. You guys are dressing up as women and joining 13 year old girls’ swim teams. So hush, David.
learning is great, many of us are at home learning how to home brew, mead is fun to make and good to drink and makes great gifts. as far as relationships; gents you must know; the winning move it not to play
Don't waste those riches on a pair of legs. Women want high status men. So if you just got rich with crypto like the Dogecoin millionare, they're not interested. Except in the money of course.
"It's winter time what are you doing right now?" Years ago I used to work with some guys from North Dakota. So brutal winters. Where were they in their off times? Playing hockey and bowling. :-D
No human being ever has actually experienced "low self esteem." In fact, we all love ourselves so supremely that God commanded us to love other people the way we love ourselves. No man (male or female) has ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it. Does anyone else see the glaring contradiction when a narcissist says she has low self esteem?
I noticed the effect of tenacity applied to my reviewing what I’ve done in dating etcetera and it’s sticking with me. Being American determination and where I apply it made sense. It was a new quality. Thanks Pearl. I’ve liked the narcissist girls, I write songs, I perform, it makes sense.
I fkn love Pearl.. I'm not speaking as a fan of hers, I just think she's a rly good human being, smart, good looking, takes good care of herself & we need more women like her, but 1 thing always rings in the back of my head.. why haven't she found her Mr yet?
I've dated some very attractive women, women that are physically much more attractive than Pearl. However, I find Pearl much more attracting than 98-99% of the women I've ever met because she's sane. She thinks in reasoned logic, she can relate to reality and the reality of life and attraction and interacting with other human beings. She has a great sense of humor, she's not pampered and she's absolutely nowhere as needy as the average woman. I'll take a woman like Pearl, and I've dated several more logical and reasoned women like Pearl, but I'd take pearl over 98-99% of the women I've met and dated. Also, pearl is not manipulative and a liar like almost all the women I've dated, & fortunately for me there's been a lot
10:00; "Time to go to therapy". That's exactly what she should be doing. She has a bad object in her mind preventing her from relationships. She needs to work on herself.
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women are thirstin....like Thirsten Howell III
I'm sure we can support a better cause. We can quit but never surrender
Pearl, you keep saying "Time to go to a therapist... A MALE therapist." I'm a psychotherapist, and sadly, I won't see female clients anymore. It's just too much... Too much risk, too much drama, too much work.
@@davep5161 Follow my advice: Forget about therapy
Critique to Psychotherapy
For everything solutions we sell
Even though we’re not sure what to tell
Life crushes you
And we fool you
You come in disoriented
And comes out accommodated
We don't teach that magic formula
All we know is following the norma
But just for now,
We can be your friend somehow
We therapists also go to therapy
'Cause we don't love ourselves either
Isn’t that the dumbest irony?
A thousand endless theories without end
For just one thing to comprehend
We don’t know the cause or its effect
But if you pay enough, you won’t feel reject
The idea’s convincing
Although misleading
To live immediately
As if to live eternally
Here we believe in everything
Meaning we believe no thing
We don’t give a damn thing
We know we’re not the same
If it wasn’t for that you’d never came
From above, we know you’re inferior
Because we’ve no idea of your interior
I won’t even mention what’s holy
‘Cause you just want your glory
You say you care for the patient
But We are the ones who need to be patient
I’d talk about divine
But it’s just not fine
Throwing bones to therapists
And pearls to atheists
Those who give only bad advice
@@davep5161
Here in Brazil
Psychotherapy is so rude
They set the worst example,
They call me crazy
And there's no one to judge them
Ruining my life
In this lost society here.
Nobody cares,
I'm nothing here
And because of them
I will never be!
They are not desperate for men to approach them in Public. They are desperate for men who are way out of their league to approach them in Public. People at their level will be treated with disdain and at best they will date them out of desperation and be bitter that they did not marry the man that they think that they deserve and will treat whoever that they are in a relationship with like crap.
This is very true, desperate women will pine over Chads while having contempt for average guys who give them love and respect.
and will cheat without any guilt and blame him if caught
I totally agree... I'm willing to bet that the average woman wouldn't be happy if the only men who approach her were short, bald and poor.
Truth spoken
Basic logic you would think that's why I always approach above my lane it pisses them off .
Since you like things equal, equally approach men then...
Ohhh wait...you can't handle rejection! 😂
There's something wrong with their fear of rejection excuse. Women actually know how little rejection they are gonna receive.
Do men want to be approached by women? I thought men were supposed to be the hunters. The chase is half the fun 🥳 Then again, I don’t know what today’s dating world is like. Maybe times are just changing.
Make no mistake about it. If a woman sees you as being beneath her, and agrees to go on a date with you, she will see that as a "pity date" and you will be treated like garbage the entire time.
Yep you can tell also when a lady is looking around the room or would rather to be anywhere else but next to you. Doesn't take long maybe she was looking to make a former lover jealous or boost her own ego at your expense. I take a lot of dance classes and can tell within 5 seconds whether the girl i asked to dance is engaging and interested or she would rather be anywhere else. Then they can sit there asses down and wonder why no one asks them no matter how pretty they are.
"men don't want to deal with this shit"..... word 😂. not interested in being a therapist for free after a work day.
Don't expect any man to just 'entertain' you, girls.
Its just lazy. The same applies to when someone holds you responsible for their happiness
Lazy
Those types of people need to grow up
My first wife screamed at me "You're responsible for my happiness!"
I divorced her a few months later.
@@dreamingmusic3299 I take the fire services advice, but apply it to relationships. When you sense danger, get out and stay out
I can't remember where I heard this, but there was a sketch of some guys talking about how you need to find a girl with hobbies or activities that she can do by herself. Not all the time, just every now and then to let off steam. If you meet someone who doesn't have this, YOU will be their hobby. As soon as they are sitting at home alone or bored, they will hit you up, mess with you, get angry your out. Once I heard this, things started falling into place for me. Avoid people who can't just exist for a few hours by themself.
When I first met my husband, he mentioned that I was the first lady he’d dated who had hobbies. I paint, write, sew, cook etc. He said the other women he’d dated said that shopping was their hobby. He’s a hunting fishing man, so we both stay occupied with our own hobbies and our shared interest, our children. We have 4 daughters and one son, and I will definitely encourage them to find spouses with hobbies as well ❤
"Can keep myself busy for days" or something parallel to that are definitely things people should put in their dating profiles.
Women's "hobbies" tend to be expensive leisure activities. I saw one hobby for wine tasting . My hobby ism making my own with wild fruit with a cost of $1-2 a bottle. Very drinakble and I serve it to company. . Other things I do with my time also just tend to save money. I do light duty plumbing, auto work , electrical etc . That is why men are less likely to need a sugar girl. I just don't need much . Even when I traveled a cheap hotel will do. I handled my own security. When they make more money in the relationship they take the financial lead , they use it for status chasing with designer clothes , make up, bags , car etc .
@@gwynedd1 technically that’s incorrect. Men outspend women significantly when it comes to hobbies. This is actually a subject spoken about a lot in women’s circles.
“Single men spend more on leisure equipment
According to the BLS, single men spent an average of $675 in 2021 on other entertainment supplies, equipment, and services, which includes indoor exercise equipment, athletic shoes, bicycles, trailers, motorized RV purchases or rentals, boats, camping, hunting, and fishing equipment, as well as fireworks, pinball, and electronic video games, among other leisure expenses.
Single women spent an average of $141 in the same spending category.
Source: Bureau of Labor Statistics”
@@Sunshineheart124
I don't buy it. Typical classification manipulation like the "best car in its class" , out of a class of 2. Women spend money on apparel make up, and dining out. . Also as I said men have activities that can save money which are a form of entertainment.
When men have disposable income with little interest in family, yeah they do buy a lot of toys. However they often reign it in later. When it comes to savings men out save women.
Ladies, single men are not here to "entertain", we want to be in a partnership with you. We single men spend our time in our hobbies. We are improving our quality of life. We are at work, in the diner, at the grocery store, and at the gym, you either ignore us or look down at us because we don't fit in your "niche."
You may want a partner, but I never did. I have a helpmate that helps me. I’ve got enough partners.
@@mafp22wAnd that's the problem. Ya'll got so many partners and dudes helping ya'll. Does it hurt to build a life with one person? Is it possible for you to drop all of the orbiting suitors waiting for you?
Not really partnership unless it’s gf bf but it should be duty and responsibilities if it’s marriage. You aren’t partner with your wife, you’re her husband.
You’re kind of deliberately misconstruing her words. Entertain doesn’t mean to be a dancing monkey. It’s to have meaningful conversations, have some (not all) shared interests, and quite frankly it means sexual compatibility.
And be wary of the guys saying they want a “helpmate” or talking of “duties and responsibilities”. Women are often accused of showing more loyalty to an employer than their husband. Guys that talk like this are crappy employers posing as husbands. They get blindsided when their wives leave them. Really, their wives are quitting an underpaid job where they’re reporting to an underperforming boss.
@RealSigmaQueen I don't believe that I was misconstruing her words. Her context was that of my ex. I was working 80 + hrs a week. She didn't work. She got her nails done regularly. Rarely cleaned the house. Never had any meals prepared when I arrived home. Then she started cheating on me, citing that I was never around to do anything fun. The kicker was she was angry that I wanted her to get out of my house once I caught her cheating. This female displays the same attitude.
Hard working single men are at the local hardware store getting what they need to finish a project at their nice quiet, drama less home!
Or they're at a Bible believing church and they are snapped up fast.
Woman: Why can't I find love!?
Average man: Hi
Woman: Not you
Average man: Okay, bye
Woman: Why can't I find love!?
Lather,rinse,repeat.Forever.
My youth, summed up perfectly.
Exactly
Single guy, hey I think I'm ready to date now after xovid
should I do a dating site?
@@RunToEternity
Unless you are hot enough that women approach you in public, probably not.. but sometimes you just have to touch a hot stove to understand why not to.
Myself can not stand a woman with tattoos and swearing big turn offs
couldn't agree with you more.
Yeah, Tats, you just kinda get an ‘inkling’.
Also nose rings.
@romeorozeta6122 absolutely is that supposed to make you more attractive or rebel I don't see the point
Pearl the nose ring is always the give away ;-)
Yep, the nose ring and accompanying tats do it for me !!
no its the long hoop earings is what makes it a red flag
@@mysticstrikeforce5957it’s both
I've had a few female associations that exhibited the "entertain me" vibe. Trying to be friends with them was very tiresome. Eventually you reach a limit where their cuteness is just not worth the effort.
Once, the philosopher Diogenes was seen begging a statue for coins. When asked why he was doing this, he replied "I'm getting practice in being refused."
even then.
And when Alexander asked him what he desired, he merely asked him to stop blocking his sunlight. Legend.
Men vs women happy alone?
How many of hermits are women? All I know of are men. I know many women living "alone" but they all have extensive female groups, always out with this one or that. I don't know many men who are "alone" who are engaged in so many male-only groups.
I conclude: men are much more comfortable in their own skin, alone, than women. Women don't find their own company adequate.
They are superficial and hormonal.
Woman complain
1) Men approach me.
2) Men don't approach me.
I live completely alone in the forest for 5 months every year, just to get away from people, let alone women.
"No respect No Relationship" this is why nowadays a lot of men are done with dating or not approach modern women anymore and go overseas become the passport bros
dating now is just basically being friends that's it. Like now we have to learn what it means to be in a relationship.
I want to meet someone in person! Oh, what a great idea.
They forgot or never know, how hard to meet someone IRL.
At basic level, what Pearl says about the differences between women and men is true. Women have a built in craving for an established social circle, which provides them with constant encouragement and validation. Most men don't need or seek that, and are happy operating either as Lone Wolves (a wolf that hunts without the assistance of a pack) or as a Ronin (an indie Samurai) 🐺 ⚔️
bobcat. mountain lion
don't understand why lo e wolves are usually used tho.
This is incorrect. Humans are a social animal and we operate best in groups, like most social animals. Ronin and lone wolves are the exception, not the rule.
@@Shakor77yes when it comes too the hunt it’s better in a team, but after work is different
Women, you are going to have to convince me that you want me at this point. It's been 7 years since I've so much as been on a date, and I'm done. I'm done working, trying, caring, I'm going Galt. You will have to make it known to me you want society to continue.
at tbis point,...idk. i've the im.pression you'd want to be hog tied like one of those hefers at rodeos and carted off....
tho by these women
good luck.....💀💀💀😆
Don’t worry, society will continue. Just without your lineage.
@@stephanc6138 might as well because that’s pretty much what it’s going too take unless you’re not from western culture, it’s been 4 years of not dating for me and I’ve made 30k more a year since no stress
@@leosunaquamoonya because I’m worried about who’s going too take my throne as king peasant of the United States
@@finlaygilmour7492 wtf? I can HANDLE dates no women WANT to date me. God, KNOW the difference
An honest assessment of Pearl...... basic looks 7, tasteful presentation - 8, intelligence 8.5, sanity 9, interesting9. OVERALL 8. WIFE PROSPECT 9
Hey women, we know what you want!
What do YOU bring to the table?
A ship can only have one captain. Women today want to be the captain. This is something real men inherently will not tolerate.
I believe women need to be content with a normal relatively boring life. Realistically, life isn't a fantasy. Life is going to pass you by if your waiting for a knight in shining armor. The honeymoon phase of most relationships is relatively short and things tend to get very normal and average. Be content with that and anything above and beyond that is a bonus.
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Pearl you are far away from average. You are STUNNING
Sorry after ME TOO, no bloke is going to risk going to jail, for approaching a woman. Risk reward ratio makes the whole venture a total loss.
Congrats on 2 million Pearl!!
I've never really needed a woman in my life, so treated my three long term marriages like long dates, I knew, would eventually end one day, probably, at my relief!
Then why you 'd get married ? Three failed marriages ? Sir you never ask yourself why it did not work with three different women ? A marriage involves Two persons and you sir you failed three of them .
My guess you were the unbearable one .😂🎉
Don't marry again of you consider marriage a long date
Marriage is a commitment if you can't commit live women alone.
I'm taking this one step further, I'm able to predict in advance how long these relationships are gonna last. Maybe you can do this, too.
And also since you know you gonna break up, why marry?
@@nightmareTomek They may not break up. I'm on my fourth now, 17yrs, still going strong. My mindset, hope for the best, plan for the worst. Don't take anything as a certainty.
@@nivaeva2411 I was always into the marriage for long term, they weren't. I sense that early on. So yes, a long date. After the first one, 8yrs, she decided to leave. I never had much faith in any other ever going long term, as all the other males around me, were, or already had been dumped by their wife. My three ex's admitted to me or others they were in the wrong. They all wanted a man they could change, fully control, that wasn't me.
I think you miss the point. As a man we can't have a choice to stay single forever we have to have the urges or sense a women that need us to make her dreams come true. That's why in a certain age a man just randomly gets married to a women cause it just happens and man have been trained since school days to be ready for it to and even after it when the young man gets a job and want to do more.@@nivaeva2411
I'd sure like to meet Pearl's father and brothers!
i think we already did we'll the father i think
like, like,like....men dont like women, who cant complete a sentence without 12 likes inside it
Pearl is right normal men hardly dare to approach the risks are just to great so it’s up to the girls to make the first move.
You don't have to approach (maybe the poor guy/girl above has to) Learn to read gestures like I have. It tells everything, weather the effort is worth it or not.
I refuse to take another chance on women. Not even young ones are worth it. I'm currently making arrangements to move to Alaska by myself. This is ridiculous!
Great job on the Fresh and Fit podcast 👍👍 As soon as someone disagrees with the feminist narrative, sisterhood flys right out the door!! Keep putting those 304s in their place!!!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I love being alone! I thrive ion solitude. especially if I I am on my purpose. I think men do get lonely once in a while, but its not the same for us, it lasts until, we see some dude arguing with a woman or going through heartbreak then we are grateful we are single. at which point I go back to my Cello, who never lies, cheats, backtalks, shit tests or causes me heartbreak. If I need female "companionship". I can always pay for an hour of some escorts time, and I have no shame about doing that given our current state of dating. I am older, and it was easy to get a woman to climb into bed. Now things have changed for men and younger women are lost in social medias fake world and they can't cope.
It’s nice reading comments like yours knowing people still have morals & aren’t using their hurt to hurt others. Good job!
Got asked out by a woman at work. My coworker got asked also out by another woman at same job same floor same company. We rejected them both. Felt good. Plenty of fish out there. Women so thirsty its sad.
I finally ran into one of the Home Depot trollers. She was hot ... with 3 small kids in tow. But I knew why she was there. She may as well have had it tattooed across her face. We made eye contact when she looked again for a second glance and smiled. And I continued looking for what I was looking for. And she wasn't it.
Uh oh..... Pearl's uping her cooking game. Guys are sitting up and taking notice. Watch out!
Pearl, this is a topic that never gets enough attention. The U.S. economy could have allowed a large increase of women participation in the workforce, from 1950 to 2024, without sacrificing men participation rate. This data tells me, that the U.S.A. cares very little about male workforce participation, as working is the core component as what it means to be a man.
Not 100% zero sums game, but pretty close. This society should have always put men first in job placement, promotion, and scholarships.
1950, 32% women workforce participation up to 57.5 % in 2024, for a total gain of 25.5% participation increase over 50 years.
1950, 86.7% men workforce participation down to 67.9% in 2024, for a total loss of 18.8 % participation decrease over 50 years.
So, in simplistic economic terms that are not exact, you could have potentially increased women workforce participation by 6.7% workforce participation, potentially without displacing many or any males.
Failing marriage rates is largely due to displacing men in the workforce. This is highly unreported. Naturally failing birth rates occur as well.
This trend will continue to accelerate and the end result will be demographic collapse and failing nations. The wages of sin is death.
Women treat social media as therapy. How have I just now noticed it.
Logic and common (not so common now) sense.
In 48 years I got 1 date by asking. I got sick of jumping through hoops.
I think that a lot of women would be better off in a relationship with another woman. They need to leave men alone.
WE WANT MORE PEARLS!!!!!.......but of course.....pearls are a rare finding nowadays.
Isn’t Pearl a strong independent, single working woman though? Is that a good thing now?
@@Sunshineheart124 she is definitely not independent. She explains the necessity for suggestions and advice that comes from her dad. She wants a family for sure, unlike most girls in their 20s.
@@Sunshineheart124 The women depicted here are certainly not strong, they lack introspection. Pearl is different in having a more realistic view on what women need, understanding herself. Which makes her stronger. She is financially independent, but self aware of wanting to ultimately build a nest as a woman. Of course everyone will keep attacking her if she is unlucky. She may not find the right guy. But she won't make the horrible mistakes many women make. Use her knowledge to your advantage or learn her lessons the hard way.
Pearl is a Keeper no cap 😂😂
Glad to see you got a sponsor
Ive been going to the beach often while on my Vacation; i'm used to women at the gym hovering and taking more clothes off, but at the beach, they are already down to their bikinis and resort to the silliest tactics 😂
The truth is women no longer know how to be in a committed relationship, casual relationships are easy even flies know how to do that so I guess if she doesn't have the skill set than casual is all she's good for.
304 with more drivers than a rental car.
Humble, accountable, cares about physical health, and peaceful, would be perfect in a women.
In the western world that is a pipe dream.
Pear - “I learned to make orange juice”
I don’t think this is the flex you think it is 😂
Love isn't earned its paid for...by rich guys, or those who have enough money to be able to afford to keep their fancy women ...and afford to lose them..us normal decent guys get lost in the wealth of others...I gave up. Older now with grand kids, they are my focus. Some have said, there's a quality of woman, who isn't for you, but for the wealthy. Obviously, those would never be on my to do list anyway. If I can't afford to pay for a Mercedes, I definitely won't be driving one either 😂😂😂
Sounds like you have never known love.
You are doing it wrong if you are not attracting people because of the person you are.
"Rich guys" are looking for a real woman who is interested in them, not their wealth, assets, fancy cars, yachts, investment portfolio, multiple homes, or business ventures.
You may need to work on yourself and figure out what you want.
@@cabot100I have a pretty good humor about it all.... Pretty happy at this point with my choices.😊
We're not partners, them, people, we're men, don't emasculate us.
@Pearl Gorgeous !!!!!!
Wah, Wah Wah. Dating apps are so hard for 27year old Ladies. Try being a 5'2" man.
I’m so sorry, that genuinely sucks. I consider myself a lot more supportive of men’s issues than most women and even I could never date someone under 5’6”. And that’s because I’m 5’4”. However, there are plenty of women out there that are 5’ and just below so hopefully you can find a decent one of them
@@Emily-eq2fyThank you for the kind words Emily but am good and not on dating apps. When was found that out of 20 heartfelt messages about 1 would even reply back often with a rejection. Ladies however, (even the so so to average ones) post a profile and immediately receive 50 or so messages all the while complaining there are no good men out there. You do hold all the power in those situations.
Fill the void by giving NOT receiving !
I only date Flat Earther women
They are on the other side.
well at least they're not standing upside down on a spinning water ball. @@semibiotic
He doesn't just want a Proverbs 31 woman, he also wants a Psalms 104:5 woman, too!
You cant try to not expect something while not expecting it at the same time.
@pearl You learned how to make orange juice?! Was the recipe complex? 😂
We know it's not, but its a task that takes effort and i think that's the point. 🙂
Like most things preparing food, it's not the recipe, it's the technique. Personally, I don't get why anybody doesn't learn how to cook. They can definitely follow a recipe but, they still fail.
Pearl, you're better than average. It's good that you say you're average though because then nobody can come at you (and there's no shortage of people who want to come at you, buncha idiots!)
Want to find a man?
There are plenty of single men in church.
Plenty of places to meet men in real life but red flag if they are single and at church
Quality men in church are snapped up very early. Those that wait are the most pious and waiting for a woman on their level spiritually and only the godliest women have a hope, excluding the class of women in question.
I would consider this a good thing. If a man has an expectation of the woman he wants to marry is a good thing. @@Tom-yo7zf
So smart, Pearl!!!
4:30 More like women "Sunk that ship!"
Here's how men think - if you want a guy to ask you out, act openly interested in him and act at least a little submissive. If he finds you remotely attractive and if life hasn't completely broken his spirit, that will work. I promise you that this will work on a male mind. I once had a woman tell me that she thought men "liked the hunt." That's nonsense. Men just want to know that they're not going to be rejected.
It's not just low self esteem, It is lack of morals.
Blue hair, tats all over, weird piercings n nose rings…just do not help the look.
Any girl with any one of those is a sign to stay away!
They are thirsty for attention and mainly for attention from men they like.
Wants to be constantly entertained and refers to the relationship as a plot.... ain't nobody got time for that
Hon, ditch that NOSE RING it’s UGH!
Nose rings, or overt face piercings, are such a turn off for me, a small stud in the side of the nose is ok, but that's it really.
@@tannagra I was at a party and the most beautiful woman there wore a nose ring with black stones at each end, looked like boogers
Respect you man
Nothing wrong with women saying “thanks, but no thanks”, it’s roasting the poor SOB as he asks you out.
And then ask why men don't approach them anymore.
Bring back homemec classes for girls in high-school, (cooking, sewing and taking care of babies)
I think everyone needs those classes/skills, not just girls. I homeschool my children, and they all have those basic skills. On the flip side, I think woodworking/shop classes should be encouraged for boy and girls as well. I fix as much as I can around the house, so that I won’t have to ask my husband for help, and he is grateful for it.
@@Sunshineheart124 No. People are confused enough. People need to go back to their gender roles. The set up in this world today isn't working. Ik it seems backwards from some modern viewpoint, but 90% of the people that ik in anything resembling a traditional relationship are far happier than the opposite. As a guy who works in a metal shop. Stay the hell in your lane. I don't want to baby sit you. Stay out of our male only spheres. We stay out of yours and you can do the same.
@@daytonaofcv6856 and by the way, you don’t “stay out of our” realm. You guys are dressing up as women and joining 13 year old girls’ swim teams. So hush, David.
@@daytonaofcv6856Who are you to tell me what to do?
How about HS education dealing with money management of a household, i.e. knowing how to set a budget and balancing a checkbook?!
noone wants to take a girl with a nose ring seriously.
as someone who has a sister with a nose ring
I can confirm
Empty people have nothing to pour into another person.
None of these women will say a single word. They’re wasting everyone’s time
They will have to settle for a glass of water
Yes Pearl, I roll up in my Pick up for a date. I find out from her friend she wasn't impressed and mentioned my truck. She drove a Honda LOL
learning is great, many of us are at home learning how to home brew, mead is fun to make and good to drink and makes great gifts.
as far as relationships; gents you must know;
the winning move it not to play
@Pearl 😘
im a 66 year old millionaire, never married. had a couple girl friends. girls dont like single millionaires from my personal expirience.
she can make fried chicken, wowsers
I have a hard time believing this is true
Don't waste those riches on a pair of legs. Women want high status men. So if you just got rich with crypto like the Dogecoin millionare, they're not interested. Except in the money of course.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Women never share their money
"It's winter time what are you doing right now?"
Years ago I used to work with some guys from North Dakota. So brutal winters. Where were they in their off times? Playing hockey and bowling. :-D
I think there are some wild feral men in that forest. I hear they were running away from something.
Women really never get humbled
No human being ever has actually experienced "low self esteem." In fact, we all love ourselves so supremely that God commanded us to love other people the way we love ourselves. No man (male or female) has ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it. Does anyone else see the glaring contradiction when a narcissist says she has low self esteem?
Good video. Thank you
I noticed the effect of tenacity applied to my reviewing what I’ve done in dating etcetera and it’s sticking with me. Being American determination and where I apply it made sense. It was a new quality. Thanks Pearl. I’ve liked the narcissist girls, I write songs, I perform, it makes sense.
dangit, this is for tomorrow, I was sitting here in chat thinking, Man, am I the only one who wants to listen to this???
Just go look at all her other videos they are basically all the same.
"...I get the "ick", if you're into me." How deep, subconsciously, does THAT go?!? HOLY SHIT!!!
Don’t know why, but I really wanna wrestle Pearl
I don’t know why but this made me lol
She was a heavy weight lifter competitor. True.
@@Emily-eq2fy If Pearl got me in a headscissor I’d be completely powerless ..
@@Emily-eq2fy Wish I was able to set up a wrestling match with pearl
@@Emily-eq2fy Bet I can out wrestle you
Song lyrics that made the biggest impression on me growing up "If you're bored, then you're boring."
I fkn love Pearl.. I'm not speaking as a fan of hers, I just think she's a rly good human being, smart, good looking, takes good care of herself & we need more women like her, but 1 thing always rings in the back of my head.. why haven't she found her Mr yet?
Hello Pearl
Woman are the ones who choose, man cant choose. If the game is broken, its on the person who has the choice, not the one hoping
I can’t attract anyone who doesn’t need me, people suck. You will never know if they love you if they need you. 🤨
I think you're a lil above average Pearl.
Dating for men is like paying for a job interview.
U always make my day!!
I've dated some very attractive women, women that are physically much more attractive than Pearl. However, I find Pearl much more attracting than 98-99% of the women I've ever met because she's sane. She thinks in reasoned logic, she can relate to reality and the reality of life and attraction and interacting with other human beings. She has a great sense of humor, she's not pampered and she's absolutely nowhere as needy as the average woman. I'll take a woman like Pearl, and I've dated several more logical and reasoned women like Pearl, but I'd take pearl over 98-99% of the women I've met and dated. Also, pearl is not manipulative and a liar like almost all the women I've dated, & fortunately for me there's been a lot
👍100% , love you Pearl
10:00; "Time to go to therapy". That's exactly what she should be doing. She has a bad object in her mind preventing her from relationships. She needs to work on herself.