In story 2 that husband's delusional AF. If it's your idea to go out and you invite people either you pay or everyone pays for their own meals, to think someone else entirely would pay for everyone especially without even asking them is freakin' ridiculous.
Not to mention he said he would MAYBE THINK on paying her back- aka not gonna pay you back at all just pay for the meals my family and I had cuz your my wife- I’ve had this happen to many people who owe me back when I did them big favors but they never did anything more pay me back- they just said maybe or think they will
Story #3: Yes... OP is the jerk. It's not like the shy girl was reading the notes out loud and passing them around. The notes were for her. - Hopefully the OP learns from this and does better in the future.
Story 4 The irony when the sister says "you left my kids with strangers". Now imagine if the op wasn't home and had already left for college or really never came back home. The sister literally drove off and went no contact for hours. Imagine if the op didn't come home that day at all these poor kids would be totally abandoned with nowhere to go and no one to contact. (Assuming the father is not in the picture.) I honestly feel bad for these kids and op who have to deal with a mum who priorities is a party over her kids. About op if I were her I would be pissed at the request of retake. Where I live if we miss tests we get a zero and later have to take the whole subject again, we have to pay for the subject and the tests and exams in the future. I feel op should stop helping this sister and maybe reduce talking to her parents too. These people not only disrespect her but also don't care about ops personal life and space.
Story 3. I can kinda understand thinking that it’s a weird thing for a nanny to do. Having notes in the lunchbox is a nice gesture and it clearly made the girl feel happy. Saying it out loud that you think it’s weird is rude
For the story about the girl and her lunch box the op is a jerk. It didn’t matter if no one told you she had a bad house life, you saw her reading those made her happy, but you still made that comment. You totally remind me of those popular types in movies that don’t try to think that much of non-social people.
That's actually common etiquette. The exception is stating - at the time of the original invitation - that they cannot pay your way. And the offer of an apology to go along with it.
@@suet.r.4815 Depends on where you're going. And who you're going with. When I go hang out with my friends to go like watch a movie we pay separate. And I never assume anybody's going to pay for me unless I'm told otherwise. Unless I'm invited or I invite somebody somewhere fancy/expensive or it's a date or some other celebration I don't think there is an expectation or should be an expectation that you will get paid for. Because if I had to pay for my friends every time I went to hang out with my friends I would never be able to hang out with my friends.
@@SuperRandomNinja1 Exactly. We're not talking about group gatherings... this was a special occasion. - - This was an event, it was presented to her as an event when he invited her. He chose where they were going... and who was coming along He apparently didn't tell anyone that they should pay their own way... he just handed the bill off to his wife. He took her for granted.
The last story: dropping off the kids after OP said they weren't available and had an exam at school is just a jerk move. Yeoile can't just suddenly be free whenever you want and OP did the right things.
The presumptuousness of families will never cease to amaze me. The sister just dropping her kids on the younger sister's doorstep is crazy enough, but that the family would support this action... 🤯🤯🤯🤯
The parents showed favoritism to her sister because she popped grandkids out her vag. They can care less if OP has more important things to do. OP should threaten to call the cops next time she abandons her kids on her.
The girl in story 3 is definitely the jerk, I don't think it's ok to try to make someone feel embarrassed in that way just because they get notes from their granny
I was gonna comment that, in all honesty it's insensitive from my perspective and she's the one who's embarrassed for having a friend that has notes in her lunchbox. For me when I see someone with a note in their lunch box I get envious cuz that's proof someone cares. Edit: Doesn't matter if she knew or not that's a question u should never ask or let alone make someone embarrassed for all we know it's coping mechanism I mean she smiles everytime she reads it so I wouldn't judge it regardless of how old or know the reason and if it was me, I would be proud someone cares for me.
The OP was Def the jerk, maybe not meaning to but she was. She implied that she should feel embarrassed when who cares, if it makes them happy let them be happy. I get asking if it’s embarrassing but when you see how happy they are support them and tell them how happy you are for them. Not get judgy cuz they don’t get embarrassed over something the other would
This guy had more amount of patience in just a flight than I have had my entire life! You see when it comes to Karen's, I just can't help but lose patience.
Definitely not the jerk for dropping her sister's kids at the daycare. She told her sister that she could not babysit and her sister completely ignored that and dropped her kids off anyway, and she knew she was doing something wrong by the fact that she didn't even stick around till the kids were inside. Her sister is lucky that she cared enough about her kids to put them into daycare. She is a bad mother. It wasn't even an emergency, it was so she could hang out with her friends which if OP was free that day to watch them would be fine but she already said she wasn't and that she had something important (much more important than an escape room with friends) to do. Her sister is lucky she put them into daycare when she could have called CPS for Gross Negligence.
I agree when she couldn't find a sitter she should have canceled her plans. The entitlement she had by just dropping them off when she was told no is astounding. She was told no bc her sister had an exam, school should always come before parties.
@@kay.moonvale1482 Yeah the sister basically flipped op off and went to the party anyway, even though it's not op's job, it's a favor. Sister doesn't get to decide when op can do it or not.
In story 2, the OP isn’t obligated to pay for the meal. The husband plans it so he has to pay. They don’t have shared finances, so either the OP had to give consent to pay, or the husband pays for it himself. But now it seems like if this is how their relationship is, then divorce isn’t that far down the road.
That dude is just a leech and his family is no better. He's jealous of her for making more money than him and tried to slight her for no reason. I agree that divorce is the only solution, but he's the one who's going to regret starting crap with OP when he can't pay the bills by himself.
story 1: nah, that's some chad move story 2: nope, it's definitely the guy's fault, if in the end the op have to pay,it should have to be considered before and not after the party. story 3: yes, THAT'S A PROOF THAT HER NANNY LOVES HER,and saying that's embarrassing, like the op had someone who loves them,that one is a reckless,unmatured,fatherless behavior
The OP only *asked* if it was embarrassing because it wasn't as normal to get small notes for lunch for 16 year olds than younger kids. The OP never really stated that it was and just asked a question because they were curious. (Not saying getting notes for lunch in highschool is something you SHOULD get embarrassed about, its something unique and I kinda wish I got notes- Though I don't take a lunchbox to school, so.)
story #2 I could understand the wife paying for dinner if it was just the two of them out celebrating but to expect for her to pay for the entire family without her offering is asking and expecting a bit much. A lot of times everyone out for the celebration would pay for themselves and split the person they are celebrating.
To the person who told the girl she should be embarrassed by the notes in her lunchbox: YES, YATA! That was mean spirited. Your words were certainly not meant to make her feel better. And you already knew she had emotional problems with feeling a part of the kids. Not nice!
@@KaityKat117 'its that brat's fault you are cursed' Now that im hearing it it sounds ridiculou, and i wonder if the Karen would ever actually tell that incident to others lol
she could trip over a rock & blame her husband for not watching out for her. sounds like they deserved each other though, maybe that relationshit was karma taking play.
I can't stop laughing OP has the greatest chaotic energy and i love it. "cursing" her baby was just the greatest thing XD I do worry tho how that mother will treat her child thinking they're cursed.
The fact that he said that she should pay the bill and that he MIGHT consider paying her back is the kicker for me. It sounds like a really weird relationship to me. Sounds very petty.
In the first story the lady is definitely the jerk, constantly bugging the poor 17 year Old, throwing a bag and not knowing what is inside the bag? And then finally taking that poor guys seat. I would have already lost it by that point, not only because they were treating the guy like a dog but also basically abusing him that would be the last string for me.
Story 3...The OP is a jerk. If that girl has had a traumatic past and now has a nanny that writes her little notes to read at school, it may be to help her cope with anxiety or something. You're right. It does no harm to the OP, and it's actually really sweet IMO.
Story #4: its very hard to get an exam rescheduled in college and you have to have a valid reason to even get that consideration and baby sitting your sister's kids is not one of them. I know a friend who didn't write an exam with us and the lecturer refused to reschedule the exam for her even though she had a valid reason for it, she ended up failing the course.
Story4#: the sad part about this story is where the op’s sister just drop off her kids and leave after the op said she couldn’t babysit why can’t she find someone else to babysit like a uncle or aunt and the op should make her pay for babysitting for a week
Story 2: No the OP is absolutely not the jerk, everywhere in the world from my experience and from what I've seen/heard/read/whatever the one who made the arrangement or set up any kind of meeting is the one who is going to pay the final bill. If he isn't the one to pay, that is only an act of good will from the other person, even though most of the time if I invited someone and they insisted on paying for everything I would never let them pay. Why, you may ask? BECAUSE THATS HOW IT WORKS(or at least should work)
Yh man I was thinking along the lines of saying “your baby will wither in your womb”. Gotta live the “I don’t know magic” line though, that’s some great stuff right there.
The airline story is something else. It seemed that couple had no problem not only grabbing the posters personal property but moving it to take the seat away, and had no problem with manhandlling the poster, but couldn't handle having the poster placing his /her hands near them. Loved the way the intimidated one handled it. Brilliant!
Story #3, OP is a jerk. I know the feeling of making new friends then one of them questions your decisions or your personal life, it’s intruding and really makes you doubt what you’re doing.
At first I thought that the first story would be some crazy story about someone who thought they could do magic but it was probably the best story I’ve heard from this channel.
In the first story. Because of my personality, I would have said “When your child dies, you, your husband and the baby will go to hell. And I’ll be waiting there for your arrival.”
Don’t know man, back when I was 16 I’d have been embarrassed by getting daily notes, but I think I would have just ignored it if someone told me they were getting them. Op really didn’t do much in the story except give an opinion, so assuming they aren’t leaving something out like teasing the person then I don’t think they were an AH. That said they should probably just apologise and see it they can just both move on, it’s kind of a nothing situation tbh.
Last story, I would have looked out the window or the peephole before opening the door and just not answered. She can't leave her kids on a doorstep of an empty house. So she would be forced to take them somewhere else. If OP was asked why they didn't answer the door, just hit them with "I was on campus taking an exam. I said I wasn't able to."
Honestly, with the 19 yr old babysitting story i get it. I’m in a program where even in finals it makes close to no exceptions unless there’s a huge emergency and even then they’re kind of like “your problem, not mine” in the situation. The 25 yr old sister should have known better because at that point she’s just trying to put the op on the spot instead of understanding the situation.
The Karen saying “it’s proper etiquette to talk to ppl you are sitting next to.” If I was in this situation I probably would’ve responded saying “You know what else is proper etiquette not taking someone else’s seat”. Why did she want the window seats when either the middle seat or aisle seat would likely be better for her bc she doesn’t have to walk as much and it would be easier for her to get to the bathroom. Being able to get to to the bathroom easier is better for a pregnant lady
the 3rd story he is both a jerk and not the jerk because he didn’t know her home life but he saw and described how she treated the note smiling taking it out a couple time to read it again so he should have known that she enjoyed the notes and didn’t think it was embarrassing so he should have kept it to himself
@@plantainsame2049 oh sure, but even if they are nice to the kids, they still set a bad example. And that itself could lead to a lot of misery for them.
I could understand if the sister needed to drop off the kids for an emergency, but she dropped the kids off because she wanted to f**k around with her friends? I'm sorry, but she's a terrible mother and the OP's mother is terrible for siding against the OP.
Oh my god🤣 I remember being 17, and a crazy lady damanded for money. My teen smartass told her to get a job or collect from the goverment the child support. She started to curse me out by "God will punish you", "you will be sent to hell" yada yada. Back than I was a huge Charmed and hardrock fan. I had a necklace with the symbol on the book, dark clothes, bracelet with spikes, dark make up, and boots. I pull out my necklace and tell her with a smug: "I am a satanist."
My mum had to go to work at 5am so she left me little notes telling me good morning and things like not to forget my umrella, to take my lunch out the fridge, when she’s going to be home and that she loves me - every single day. I was so happy to see them when I couldn’t see my mum. I collected them in a small wooden box and still have them to this day
You would need to speak Ancient Hebrew or Latin or Althochdeutsch or sum shit like this. I genuenly dont believe in supernatural powers but if some dude startet to chant something in a 1000 years dead language at my child id totally lose my shit
i can just say that when you said, "i just put a curse your baby" was absolutely hilarious! I would tota,ly love to say something like that just for fun with friends, but with a different situation lmao
#4 not just a jerk, but an irresponsible parent. she obviously cares so much more about herself & her fun than those kids. if you can't take care of your kids find someone else who wont abandon them the moment fun arises...she needs counseling.
Honestly, if someone does that on a plane, once we're on the air, i would start to punch the person in the face for every yell until i make her or him "sleep".
story 4 - that was a HORRIBLY irresponsible thing to do by the sibling. and the fact that the parents were on HER side just enables her to abandon the kids again whenever she feels like it. what would she have done if OP wasn't actually at home and the door was locked? yell at op for not being home when she was the horrible mother and abandoned the kids?
ok the plane story was great. if I thought of something like this I would so do it otherwise if there was a way to ask the attendant to give him another seat being he was a kid and those people were noticeably hostile to him I bet that would give him a seat somewhere. the nanny is amazing. putting positive notes in her lunch is great . I also don't think it would be embracing I in fact think it would be a cute little conversation starter with her friends. as for the day care story. the sister is lucky op decided to drop the kids off at day care because op had no obligation to the kids and had the legal right to just call the cops and report the kid's as abandoned and that as some would likely guess could get CPS involved and that would cause more problems for the mom . she may have been mad but doing such an action she should realize it could have gotten worse in so many ways
With the last story the mother of the kids was lucky her sister didn't call the police for child abandonment which would have had a worse outcome that would have involved CPS than just paying for a childcare centre which she was very lucky to be able to get at such short notice.
I feel like the 16 year old who told the other 16 year it was embarrassing was the only jerk in the story, all the other ones are justifiable in my opinion
For the last story, my mom had the same kind of problem and her mom (my grandma) would leave her siblings with her with out warning and no pay. She is the oldest of 8 and she hated doing this and one time she was older (I don’t remember how old) she was going to a new year party with her friends and she heard her parents talking about a party that they were gonna go to and asked who was going to babysit her younger siblings, and her mom said that that thought that she would which made her mad so she said no she can’t. “ But you have to.”Her mom said. My mom responded with “if you can’t pay me to babysit and pay me back for the car rental I am not baby siting.” Immediately her parents plans changed. And that is the story.
1.not the jerk at all your amazing 2.not at all- he should’ve paid he wanted to celebrate 3. Jerk alll the way not a single chance at pity 4.not a jerk op said they couldn’t baby sit and she still leaves the kid and the mom said to “help out when you CAN” and the coudlnt at the moment due to exams
Story #4: OP is not a jerk at all! -She handled it very responsibly, putting the children in the hands of a professional childcare giver, giving the daycare all contact info (for herself as well as the mother), picking up the kids as soon as she could, and feeding and taking care of them after her own obligation was met. The women's parents couldn't or wouldn't do it that day... So why, just because OP's young and still in school should she have to do it when she said she, herself had something important to do already? Just because the sister can't think to call a daycare? Hopefully the sister will learn not to take the OP for granted from now on and listen to the actual answer to her requests. Also, it would be really, really appropriate for the sister and their parents to acknowledge how well OP dealt with the situation, given that she wasn't given any choice at all.
But the person hurt feels it the same and to pick on a shy person who has struggled socially to point of eating lunch in her car is a jerk move. As Hermione says he shows the emotional range of a teaspoon
In the first story when i heard the husband say "Have it your way Walt. So here's how the rest of this is gonna play out. You're gonna sit down in that chair, and listen to me talk" I immediately thought "Wtf, is the husband Mike Ehrmantraut from breaking bad or something" 🤣🤣
1st story: Not a jerk, the Karen is a jerk. 2nd story: Husband's the jerk, simple. 3rd story: The OP isn't necessarily a jerk, but that was very rude of them to assume. 4th story: The sister is a jerk.
I always put slime so whenever someone steals ANY seat of mine I just say " Uhh.. Ma'am / Sir.. Do you know what you're sitting on?" They look at the seat and alot have screamed/cried [The slime is mushy and brown] I usually have nothing on the seat also and the slime usually STICKS TO THEIR PANTS [only a little of it] so they have to run away to change to make it look like they DIDNT sh!t themselves. Happend on multipul occasions. Rlly funny
That young man was definitely NOT the jerk. He was instead, incredibly cunning and quick witted. Now that is a true magical skill. 😎
PREACH
No , young man you are NOT a jerk. You are incredible. 😂
No, He was, Eating at Burger King. Vile Monster...
Its not magic. Its a Karen testing your patience
In story 2 that husband's delusional AF. If it's your idea to go out and you invite people either you pay or everyone pays for their own meals, to think someone else entirely would pay for everyone especially without even asking them is freakin' ridiculous.
Not to mention he said he would MAYBE THINK on paying her back- aka not gonna pay you back at all just pay for the meals my family and I had cuz your my wife- I’ve had this happen to many people who owe me back when I did them big favors but they never did anything more pay me back- they just said maybe or think they will
He is delusional, when is a white woman ever going to support anyone other than herself?
She should just divorce the husband, I know that may seem extreme but he sounds exhausting and like a man child.
She not a jerk, and definitely did the right thing by not paying for him AND his family. I'm sorry, but I think this marriage is doomed.
He can press charges as a minor that is literally why the security guard asked if he wanted to press charges
Well I understand why they said u couldn't press charges because he put a curse on a baby
@@MrbritishVr he didn’t do anything wrong
@@jesseclark203 I'm aware I mean if this karen was crying and blabbing about this minor cursing her child XD
Imagine the Karen after her baby is born in the child starts acting up and she thinks back to the time when he cursed the baby
@@nonthaphobpisanpattarakid3011 lmao
Story #3: Yes... OP is the jerk. It's not like the shy girl was reading the notes out loud and passing them around. The notes were for her. - Hopefully the OP learns from this and does better in the future.
"Did you put a curse on her baby?" "I don't know magic" what a legend
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@@sireatsbabiesalot nutz
@@minhnguyenquoc8509 will get punched
@@TheOfficialHattyHattington by the bunch
@@holeinthewallproductions while I take a munch
Story 4 The irony when the sister says "you left my kids with strangers". Now imagine if the op wasn't home and had already left for college or really never came back home. The sister literally drove off and went no contact for hours. Imagine if the op didn't come home that day at all these poor kids would be totally abandoned with nowhere to go and no one to contact. (Assuming the father is not in the picture.) I honestly feel bad for these kids and op who have to deal with a mum who priorities is a party over her kids. About op if I were her I would be pissed at the request of retake. Where I live if we miss tests we get a zero and later have to take the whole subject again, we have to pay for the subject and the tests and exams in the future. I feel op should stop helping this sister and maybe reduce talking to her parents too. These people not only disrespect her but also don't care about ops personal life and space.
I would droped off children in the Police starion. That is child abondenmet.
the first story was probably the best one on this channel so far, it was funny as hell
@@BasmatiRice96 Hello.
thanks for the good spoiler, now i know to listen to this story!
@Jack Russelle Lewis in a good way right?
Oh yeah!
@@EDEmma Its so unbelievable that he could use “magic” that she will look crazy.
Story 3. I can kinda understand thinking that it’s a weird thing for a nanny to do. Having notes in the lunchbox is a nice gesture and it clearly made the girl feel happy. Saying it out loud that you think it’s weird is rude
That baby’s gonna hit the terrible 2s and the mom is gonna think it’s possessed by a demon. The never ending prank. Well played
what are the terrible 2s?
@@CocoLocoToco when kids are 2 they are usually crazy and cause a lot of trouble so many refer to it as the terrible 2’s
Lol
Yep lol
More like the baby is gonna have a tantrum TwT
For the story about the girl and her lunch box the op is a jerk. It didn’t matter if no one told you she had a bad house life, you saw her reading those made her happy, but you still made that comment. You totally remind me of those popular types in movies that don’t try to think that much of non-social people.
He asked if it was embarrassing not bullying
For story #2, I always say that the person who invites you should be the one who pays.
Yea that's a true and rightful rule
Depends on the scenario but in this situation absolutely yes.
That's actually common etiquette. The exception is stating - at the time of the original invitation - that they cannot pay your way. And the offer of an apology to go along with it.
@@suet.r.4815 Depends on where you're going. And who you're going with. When I go hang out with my friends to go like watch a movie we pay separate. And I never assume anybody's going to pay for me unless I'm told otherwise. Unless I'm invited or I invite somebody somewhere fancy/expensive or it's a date or some other celebration I don't think there is an expectation or should be an expectation that you will get paid for. Because if I had to pay for my friends every time I went to hang out with my friends I would never be able to hang out with my friends.
@@SuperRandomNinja1 Exactly. We're not talking about group gatherings... this was a special occasion. - - This was an event, it was presented to her as an event when he invited her. He chose where they were going... and who was coming along He apparently didn't tell anyone that they should pay their own way... he just handed the bill off to his wife. He took her for granted.
The last story: dropping off the kids after OP said they weren't available and had an exam at school is just a jerk move. Yeoile can't just suddenly be free whenever you want and OP did the right things.
That lady in Story #1 was lucky; she could have picked a fight with an actual mage of some sort that could really heap the curses on her.
The only way to know one is a wizard is to have the wizard die of 1d4 damage
@@forgotmyself9205 my was being tossed is around a lot. Seems like he never invested into any physical stats tbh
She doesn’t even deserve a curse it’s just this jerk is mad she stole his trash seat
Luckily he only knew one, phew 💀
@@timgil7830 I got a bunch of high rolls on my sheet and I am lvl 10 give me your cash or I will curse you with pregnancy
The presumptuousness of families will never cease to amaze me. The sister just dropping her kids on the younger sister's doorstep is crazy enough, but that the family would support this action... 🤯🤯🤯🤯
The parents showed favoritism to her sister because she popped grandkids out her vag. They can care less if OP has more important things to do. OP should threaten to call the cops next time she abandons her kids on her.
The girl in story 3 is definitely the jerk, I don't think it's ok to try to make someone feel embarrassed in that way just because they get notes from their granny
I was gonna comment that, in all honesty it's insensitive from my perspective and she's the one who's embarrassed for having a friend that has notes in her lunchbox. For me when I see someone with a note in their lunch box I get envious cuz that's proof someone cares.
Edit: Doesn't matter if she knew or not that's a question u should never ask or let alone make someone embarrassed for all we know it's coping mechanism I mean she smiles everytime she reads it so I wouldn't judge it regardless of how old or know the reason and if it was me, I would be proud someone cares for me.
@SteampunkMood that doesn't mean you can make fun of someone
Yep the op is a jerk
@@death229 was she really making fun of her though? She just asked her a very legitimate question
The OP was Def the jerk, maybe not meaning to but she was. She implied that she should feel embarrassed when who cares, if it makes them happy let them be happy. I get asking if it’s embarrassing but when you see how happy they are support them and tell them how happy you are for them. Not get judgy cuz they don’t get embarrassed over something the other would
That first story was SO awesome!! I only wish I was that witty, I never fail to have a brain fart during moments like those lol.
You know magic?
"i just cursed your baby" that is so ridiculous that its impossible not to giggle at
This guy had more amount of patience in just a flight than I have had my entire life! You see when it comes to Karen's, I just can't help but lose patience.
Definitely not the jerk for dropping her sister's kids at the daycare. She told her sister that she could not babysit and her sister completely ignored that and dropped her kids off anyway, and she knew she was doing something wrong by the fact that she didn't even stick around till the kids were inside. Her sister is lucky that she cared enough about her kids to put them into daycare. She is a bad mother. It wasn't even an emergency, it was so she could hang out with her friends which if OP was free that day to watch them would be fine but she already said she wasn't and that she had something important (much more important than an escape room with friends) to do. Her sister is lucky she put them into daycare when she could have called CPS for Gross Negligence.
Meanwhile their parents think sister has too much on her plate already. What a wonderful family.
I agree when she couldn't find a sitter she should have canceled her plans. The entitlement she had by just dropping them off when she was told no is astounding. She was told no bc her sister had an exam, school should always come before parties.
@@kay.moonvale1482 Yeah the sister basically flipped op off and went to the party anyway, even though it's not op's job, it's a favor. Sister doesn't get to decide when op can do it or not.
I would have dropped the kids off at the party
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In story 2, the OP isn’t obligated to pay for the meal. The husband plans it so he has to pay. They don’t have shared finances, so either the OP had to give consent to pay, or the husband pays for it himself. But now it seems like if this is how their relationship is, then divorce isn’t that far down the road.
That dude is just a leech and his family is no better. He's jealous of her for making more money than him and tried to slight her for no reason. I agree that divorce is the only solution, but he's the one who's going to regret starting crap with OP when he can't pay the bills by himself.
story 1: nah, that's some chad move
story 2: nope, it's definitely the guy's fault, if in the end the op have to pay,it should have to be considered before and not after the party.
story 3: yes, THAT'S A PROOF THAT HER NANNY LOVES HER,and saying that's embarrassing, like the op had someone who loves them,that one is a reckless,unmatured,fatherless behavior
The OP only *asked* if it was embarrassing because it wasn't as normal to get small notes for lunch for 16 year olds than younger kids. The OP never really stated that it was and just asked a question because they were curious.
(Not saying getting notes for lunch in highschool is something you SHOULD get embarrassed about, its something unique and I kinda wish I got notes- Though I don't take a lunchbox to school, so.)
story #2 I could understand the wife paying for dinner if it was just the two of them out celebrating but to expect for her to pay for the entire family without her offering is asking and expecting a bit much. A lot of times everyone out for the celebration would pay for themselves and split the person they are celebrating.
Yeah man tried to trick her
Story #3 this is the first time, so far, where I think the OP WAS a jerk
Like, what does it matter if it makes her happy and smile?
OP is just jealous.
I 💯 agree like seriously just let her be happy and smile
@@Azulakayes yup
Imagine thinking affection has an age limit
@@NiaJustNia Right?! That's what I'm saying. Like why does that matter to that Op unless they've been picked on for something similar in the past.
To the person who told the girl she should be embarrassed by the notes in her lunchbox: YES, YATA! That was mean spirited. Your words were certainly not meant to make her feel better. And you already knew she had emotional problems with feeling a part of the kids. Not nice!
The story about the curse on the baby. Comically perfect.
Anytime that Karen's kid has a serious problem in life she's going to ask herself if it's her fault for getting him cursed 🤣
nah you know she won't ever blame herself. everything forever will be OPs fault
@@KaityKat117 'its that brat's fault you are cursed'
Now that im hearing it it sounds ridiculou, and i wonder if the Karen would ever actually tell that incident to others lol
no, people like that never blame themselves their incapable. she'll blame both kids.
she could trip over a rock & blame her husband for not watching out for her. sounds like they deserved each other though, maybe that relationshit was karma taking play.
Karen: refuses to let the op have seat
The Op I'm about to do what's called a pro gamer move
I can't stop laughing
OP has the greatest chaotic energy and i love it. "cursing" her baby was just the greatest thing XD
I do worry tho how that mother will treat her child thinking they're cursed.
The last story she wants her sister to not go to her exam so she can go party ? You see how inconsiderate people are
totaly agree and she knew upfront that she wasn't available, so your are a mom you only can go out went all the stars are aligned.
agreed
The fact that he said that she should pay the bill and that he MIGHT consider paying her back is the kicker for me. It sounds like a really weird relationship to me. Sounds very petty.
In the first story the lady is definitely the jerk, constantly bugging the poor 17 year Old, throwing a bag and not knowing what is inside the bag? And then finally taking that poor guys seat. I would have already lost it by that point, not only because they were treating the guy like a dog but also basically abusing him that would be the last string for me.
Story 3...The OP is a jerk. If that girl has had a traumatic past and now has a nanny that writes her little notes to read at school, it may be to help her cope with anxiety or something. You're right. It does no harm to the OP, and it's actually really sweet IMO.
my friend got jumped and pressed charges, she’s 13💀 he definitely could press charges
Story #4: its very hard to get an exam rescheduled in college and you have to have a valid reason to even get that consideration and baby sitting your sister's kids is not one of them. I know a friend who didn't write an exam with us and the lecturer refused to reschedule the exam for her even though she had a valid reason for it, she ended up failing the course.
"Did you curse a baby?" I'm sorry, that has to be the weirdest question I've ever seen anyone ask.
That kid was using the only, and best, tool in his toolbox against two adult bullies. His brain.
Story4#: the sad part about this story is where the op’s sister just drop off her kids and leave after the op said she couldn’t babysit why can’t she find someone else to babysit like a uncle or aunt and the op should make her pay for babysitting for a week
I love how you express Karen's voice like that was sweet man.
Story 2: No the OP is absolutely not the jerk, everywhere in the world from my experience and from what I've seen/heard/read/whatever the one who made the arrangement or set up any kind of meeting is the one who is going to pay the final bill. If he isn't the one to pay, that is only an act of good will from the other person, even though most of the time if I invited someone and they insisted on paying for everything I would never let them pay. Why, you may ask? BECAUSE THATS HOW IT WORKS(or at least should work)
The dude was like “hey, let’s out to eat! I invite, you pay!” 😂😂😂
The day care one. You could have called the police for her abandoning her children
For the first one NTA , I'd have done worse and said she'd have a miscarriage. It may seem too far but 🤷🏿
Now that’s just mean
@@Really_black_guy ik but people bothering people who don't bother people gets on my nerves and makes my blood boil, bc i am one of those people.
Yh man I was thinking along the lines of saying “your baby will wither in your womb”.
Gotta live the “I don’t know magic” line though, that’s some great stuff right there.
@@wolfengod8277 Yes yes it is.
I would have throw them out of the plane 💀
The airline story is something else. It seemed that couple had no problem not only grabbing the posters personal property but moving it to take the seat away, and had no problem with manhandlling the poster, but couldn't handle having the poster placing his /her hands near them. Loved the way the intimidated one handled it. Brilliant!
Story #3, OP is a jerk. I know the feeling of making new friends then one of them questions your decisions or your personal life, it’s intruding and really makes you doubt what you’re doing.
At first I thought that the first story would be some crazy story about someone who thought they could do magic but it was probably the best story I’ve heard from this channel.
The nanny one is sooo wholesome I'd honestly smile if somebody told me that
I've listen to this one episode 27 times, I counted, it never gets old lmao 🤣🤣🤣
It’s crazy how Reddit stories are so interesting
Yeah it is
they got talent to be a story writter lmao
In the first story. Because of my personality, I would have said “When your child dies, you, your husband and the baby will go to hell. And I’ll be waiting there for your arrival.”
That first story was a Epic Pro Revenge and no OP WASN’T A JERK
On story 3 I feel for the girl who gets messages in her lunch, I’m in middle school and I still love handwritten notes in my lunch.
With the nanny one yes you’re the ah it’s nice not embarrassing I would love it if someone packed my lunch and wrote me nice notes
I agree because when I was in elementary school my mom used to make my lunch and leave a little note inside before she leaves for work
SAME
Don’t know man, back when I was 16 I’d have been embarrassed by getting daily notes, but I think I would have just ignored it if someone told me they were getting them.
Op really didn’t do much in the story except give an opinion, so assuming they aren’t leaving something out like teasing the person then I don’t think they were an AH. That said they should probably just apologise and see it they can just both move on, it’s kind of a nothing situation tbh.
Last story, I would have looked out the window or the peephole before opening the door and just not answered. She can't leave her kids on a doorstep of an empty house. So she would be forced to take them somewhere else. If OP was asked why they didn't answer the door, just hit them with "I was on campus taking an exam. I said I wasn't able to."
Honestly, with the 19 yr old babysitting story i get it. I’m in a program where even in finals it makes close to no exceptions unless there’s a huge emergency and even then they’re kind of like “your problem, not mine” in the situation. The 25 yr old sister should have known better because at that point she’s just trying to put the op on the spot instead of understanding the situation.
That baby is cursed. It’s cursed by having insane entitled parents.
With the guy one it seems like he’s wildly insecure about how much money he’s making
The Karen saying “it’s proper etiquette to talk to ppl you are sitting next to.” If I was in this situation I probably would’ve responded saying “You know what else is proper etiquette not taking someone else’s seat”.
Why did she want the window seats when either the middle seat or aisle seat would likely be better for her bc she doesn’t have to walk as much and it would be easier for her to get to the bathroom. Being able to get to to the bathroom easier is better for a pregnant lady
the 3rd story he is both a jerk and not the jerk because he didn’t know her home life but he saw and described how she treated the note smiling taking it out a couple time to read it again so he should have known that she enjoyed the notes and didn’t think it was embarrassing so he should have kept it to himself
but still: bad home life or not it’s extremely rude to tell someone that it’s embarrassing to have someone write notes for you
@@sierra54566 how is it embarrassing
@@atifmehmood3744 i didn't say it was embarrassing. i meant that what o/p said was extremely rude
Nobody should be shamed for being loved
@@sierra54566 sorry thought you were saying that
That was by far the most satisfying ending I've seen for a karen story so far
The first story was so funny it made me fall off my seat. That woman really believed him like the guy got magic lol
The op in the story was a beast. I don’t believe in cursing kids, especially unborn kids but that Karen deserved it. So good job dude or dudet
8:19 so basically he really did cursed them instead of the baby 🤣
LoL
Poor baby was already cursed with a Karen for a mother.
@@830927mjki Not necessarily there are multiple breeds of Karen some who are horrible to everyone But some of them are actually good parents probably
@@plantainsame2049 oh sure, but even if they are nice to the kids, they still set a bad example.
And that itself could lead to a lot of misery for them.
I could understand if the sister needed to drop off the kids for an emergency, but she dropped the kids off because she wanted to f**k around with her friends?
I'm sorry, but she's a terrible mother and the OP's mother is terrible for siding against the OP.
Husband in the first story really thought he was in some movie huh “so here’s how this is gonna play out” ☠️☠️☠️
Oh my god🤣
I remember being 17, and a crazy lady damanded for money. My teen smartass told her to get a job or collect from the goverment the child support. She started to curse me out by "God will punish you", "you will be sent to hell" yada yada.
Back than I was a huge Charmed and hardrock fan. I had a necklace with the symbol on the book, dark clothes, bracelet with spikes, dark make up, and boots.
I pull out my necklace and tell her with a smug: "I am a satanist."
That dude who put a curse on the baby was at LEVEL 100000 Speech/ Illusion! XD
My mum had to go to work at 5am so she left me little notes telling me good morning and things like not to forget my umrella, to take my lunch out the fridge, when she’s going to be home and that she loves me - every single day. I was so happy to see them when I couldn’t see my mum. I collected them in a small wooden box and still have them to this day
Story 1: I really liked the “magic” the OP did, if I would be him I would start speaking a different language so it would like magic even more.
You would need to speak Ancient Hebrew or Latin or Althochdeutsch or sum shit like this. I genuenly dont believe in supernatural powers but if some dude startet to chant something in a 1000 years dead language at my child id totally lose my shit
i can just say that when you said, "i just put a curse your baby" was absolutely hilarious! I would tota,ly love to say something like that just for fun with friends, but with a different situation lmao
when i hears "step on my laptop" i could feel like someone was taking my spinak cord off
#4 not just a jerk, but an irresponsible parent. she obviously cares so much more about herself & her fun than those kids. if you can't take care of your kids find someone else who wont abandon them the moment fun arises...she needs counseling.
Honestly, if someone does that on a plane, once we're on the air, i would start to punch the person in the face for every yell until i make her or him "sleep".
With story 4 I would called the police for child abandonment
The first story he was not a jerk he chose to be a legend
story 3 was super cute though someone being happy with something so small is adorable nothing sweet that makes you feel happy is embarrassing
story 4 - that was a HORRIBLY irresponsible thing to do by the sibling. and the fact that the parents were on HER side just enables her to abandon the kids again whenever she feels like it. what would she have done if OP wasn't actually at home and the door was locked? yell at op for not being home when she was the horrible mother and abandoned the kids?
ok the plane story was great.
if I thought of something like this I would so do it otherwise if there was a way to ask the attendant to give him another seat being he was a kid and those people were noticeably hostile to him I bet that would give him a seat somewhere.
the nanny is amazing.
putting positive notes in her lunch is great .
I also don't think it would be embracing I in fact think it would be a cute little conversation starter with her friends.
as for the day care story.
the sister is lucky op decided to drop the kids off at day care because op had no obligation to the kids and had the legal right to just call the cops and report the kid's as abandoned and that as some would likely guess could get CPS involved and that would cause more problems for the mom .
she may have been mad but doing such an action she should realize it could have gotten worse in so many ways
The revenge in the first story made me so happy
"Would you like to oress charges since you are a minor?"
"Sorry you couldnt press charges because you are a minor"
Great
What if i hit them with the “Ok so can I press charges when I am an adult and have evidence he assulted me?”
With the last story the mother of the kids was lucky her sister didn't call the police for child abandonment which would have had a worse outcome that would have involved CPS than just paying for a childcare centre which she was very lucky to be able to get at such short notice.
I'd pay for my husband and myself! But, I'd never pay for his family!!!!
The OP after "putting a curse on the Karen's baby": You just got VECTORED!
You can’t just skip college exams and retake them… Definitely don’t think the sister ever went to college.
4:52: "Ooo. Your second "This one's on me." moment. Kinda rare for these... 😂
I feel like the 16 year old who told the other 16 year it was embarrassing was the only jerk in the story, all the other ones are justifiable in my opinion
For the last story, my mom had the same kind of problem and her mom (my grandma) would leave her siblings with her with out warning and no pay. She is the oldest of 8 and she hated doing this and one time she was older (I don’t remember how old) she was going to a new year party with her friends and she heard her parents talking about a party that they were gonna go to and asked who was going to babysit her younger siblings, and her mom said that that thought that she would which made her mad so she said no she can’t. “ But you have to.”Her mom said. My mom responded with “if you can’t pay me to babysit and pay me back for the car rental I am not baby siting.” Immediately her parents plans changed. And that is the story.
1.not the jerk at all your amazing
2.not at all- he should’ve paid he wanted to celebrate
3. Jerk alll the way not a single chance at pity
4.not a jerk op said they couldn’t baby sit and she still leaves the kid and the mom said to “help out when you CAN” and the coudlnt at the moment due to exams
Story #4: OP is not a jerk at all! -She handled it very responsibly, putting the children in the hands of a professional childcare giver, giving the daycare all contact info (for herself as well as the mother), picking up the kids as soon as she could, and feeding and taking care of them after her own obligation was met.
The women's parents couldn't or wouldn't do it that day... So why, just because OP's young and still in school should she have to do it when she said she, herself had something important to do already?
Just because the sister can't think to call a daycare?
Hopefully the sister will learn not to take the OP for granted from now on and listen to the actual answer to her requests. Also, it would be really, really appropriate for the sister and their parents to acknowledge how well OP dealt with the situation, given that she wasn't given any choice at all.
I genuinely want to hug Nicole 😭
Story 3 is the only one that I might think OP is the jerk, but even then OP didn’t seem to intentionally try to hurt anyone so
But the person hurt feels it the same and to pick on a shy person who has struggled socially to point of eating lunch in her car is a jerk move. As Hermione says he shows the emotional range of a teaspoon
In the first story when i heard the husband say "Have it your way Walt. So here's how the rest of this is gonna play out. You're gonna sit down in that chair, and listen to me talk" I immediately thought "Wtf, is the husband Mike Ehrmantraut from breaking bad or something" 🤣🤣
It's Morbin time!
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Not the jerk
1st story: Not a jerk, the Karen is a jerk.
2nd story: Husband's the jerk, simple.
3rd story: The OP isn't necessarily a jerk, but that was very rude of them to assume.
4th story: The sister is a jerk.
I always put slime so whenever someone steals ANY seat of mine I just say " Uhh.. Ma'am / Sir.. Do you know what you're sitting on?"
They look at the seat and alot have screamed/cried [The slime is mushy and brown] I usually have nothing on the seat also and the slime usually STICKS TO THEIR PANTS [only a little of it] so they have to run away to change to make it look like they DIDNT sh!t themselves. Happend on multipul occasions. Rlly funny
"I just cursed your baby" i can't lol
If the husband makes more money then why couldn’t he pay for them
The wife was the one making more money, the husband was the one that got the bonus
@@signal770 oh my bad
The baby does have a curse = that mother and father.
I’d have been kicked off that plane for beating up that woman, pregnant or not no one is an asshole to me for no reason
Story #1: Genius! Story #2: These two are made for each other!
the amount of satisfaction i got from the first story is just😆😆