There was a boy in our class when i was a kid, he used to make people join him into doing vandalism, throwing apples at people, stealing stuff from the gym at night. Making forest fires, he once or twice attacked another child with a stick and spit on him on the way home from school. I cant count all things i heard about him and that many times i witnessed. One time when i visited him he asked me if i was sexually attracted to animals and he tried to penetrate a cat in front of me. He said he had done it alot. And that he sometimes lost controll and just loved to scare the cats. He didnt hit them or make them bleed or anything. But im still sure trying to penetrate a cat, put it in bags and throw it around is considered animal cruelty? I always wondered how a kid could make himself do these things. And what the root of his actions is.
Children DONT have “ psychiatric disorders”. You have No right giving your child a life long label that they have to carry around like a badge of shame. A label that is only going to make their lives harder later on by restricting and severely limiting their job opportunities and other opportunities in life. I know this personally as my own mother FORCED a label on me. She took me to a psychiatrist at 9 YEARS OLD ( because she didn’t want to deal with my “ disruptive behavior” after being abused) The psychiatrist disgustingly misdiagnosed a young CHILD ( me) with a personality disorder. Parents aren’t going to like my answer, but it’s straight and to the point. Most people are simply not equipped to Properly raise children. It comes down to Respect, understanding, patience and LOVE. Most parents aren’t willing to do this or don’t have the time to check in with their child everyday and that’s the sad truth. What you’re assuming are “ disorders” are your children acting out of frustration due to external changes in their environment, bullying, lack of structure. Hunger, lack of love etc. instead of taking them to a psychiatrist for a “mental disorder” because they won’t listen, check in with them. “ Hey is everything ok?” “Is there a reason you don’t feel like eating, today?” “ what’s going on?” Also their brains are still growing. They are figuring things out and they don’t always know how to express themselves. Just INVEST in your kids and Let them BE KIDS!! Stop being lazy. Get off your phone and give your kid a snack, some cuddles, play ball or a board game, sign them up for some social activities. Be present
Great video! Thanks for spreading awareness on this topic!
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There was a boy in our class when i was a kid, he used to make people join him into doing vandalism, throwing apples at people, stealing stuff from the gym at night. Making forest fires, he once or twice attacked another child with a stick and spit on him on the way home from school. I cant count all things i heard about him and that many times i witnessed. One time when i visited him he asked me if i was sexually attracted to animals and he tried to penetrate a cat in front of me. He said he had done it alot. And that he sometimes lost controll and just loved to scare the cats. He didnt hit them or make them bleed or anything. But im still sure trying to penetrate a cat, put it in bags and throw it around is considered animal cruelty?
I always wondered how a kid could make himself do these things. And what the root of his actions is.
This was very informative, thank you!
Help parents realize that the majority of these illnesses are caused by the parents themselves.
Children DONT have “ psychiatric disorders”. You have No right giving your child a life long label that they have to carry around like a badge of shame. A label that is only going to make their lives harder later on by restricting and severely limiting their job opportunities and other opportunities in life. I know this personally as my own mother FORCED a label on me. She took me to a psychiatrist at 9 YEARS OLD ( because she didn’t want to deal with my “ disruptive behavior” after being abused) The psychiatrist disgustingly misdiagnosed a young CHILD ( me) with a personality disorder. Parents aren’t going to like my answer, but it’s straight and to the point. Most people are simply not equipped to Properly raise children. It comes down to Respect, understanding, patience and LOVE. Most parents aren’t willing to do this or don’t have the time to check in with their child everyday and that’s the sad truth. What you’re assuming are “ disorders” are your children acting out of frustration due to external changes in their environment, bullying, lack of structure. Hunger, lack of love etc. instead of taking them to a psychiatrist for a “mental disorder” because they won’t listen, check in with them. “ Hey is everything ok?” “Is there a reason you don’t feel like eating, today?” “ what’s going on?” Also their brains are still growing. They are figuring things out and they don’t always know how to express themselves. Just INVEST in your kids and Let them BE KIDS!! Stop being lazy. Get off your phone and give your kid a snack, some cuddles, play ball or a board game, sign them up for some social activities. Be present