What divorced women Go Through In Uswazi - Mombasa,Kenya

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  • @fantqsie4579
    @fantqsie4579 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Wallahi everything you said ni true.. hii video nnacheka na nna huzunika at the same time. Alhamdullilah I have found love after divorce. The double standards are crushing us swahili women.. the worst enemies at this point after a divorce ni wanawake kwa family yako mwenyewe. Keep up the good work dear. May Allah bless you.

  • @bakedbymiha654
    @bakedbymiha654 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really admire your honesty, Alhamdulilah I’m happily married never been divorced but I appreciate your lesson on divorce . May Allah grant all of us happy marriages .

  • @restitutamutuku894
    @restitutamutuku894 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very bad to judge someone and thinking she is not worthy. And divorce woman should not be under looked. She knows why she walked out. Support them.

  • @didamuhammad9944
    @didamuhammad9944 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Man! Just discovered your videos but my sister.....you talking alot of sense.

  • @timamuhamad9391
    @timamuhamad9391 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I know what you mean dear it's so sad how people judge other women.

  • @mrsawadh5716
    @mrsawadh5716 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kweli maneno yako .. Nawaombea wote wanaopitia wakati mgumu ..mungu awafanyie wepesi na mupate waume wenye kheri na nyinyi🤲🏻

  • @shushu-3788
    @shushu-3788 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hiyo stori ya kustiriwa.... that touched me. Kwani who are we? Used good tustiriwe? Girl, that hit a nerve.
    Good info, we need to hear this.

  • @hajjihadhrajeee1523
    @hajjihadhrajeee1523 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dah sister mimi ni mwanaume ila maneno unayo ongea ni hundred percent ukweli kabisa tuna wachukulia wanawake walio achwa kama toys na Jamiii nayo inazidi kuwa let down na maneno watching from Sweden 🇸🇪

  • @user-us6ze8bz3u
    @user-us6ze8bz3u ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When one door is shut..onother blessing door is open for U..24/7 ..(blessed door)

  • @gogwa
    @gogwa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh you're for real? No filters! Respect

  • @salhajumaan7580
    @salhajumaan7580 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Not every divorce is a disaster sometimes a divorce is a blessing

    • @shadyaahmed9580
      @shadyaahmed9580 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Indeed

    • @oyay2821
      @oyay2821 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats a good way of lying to yourselves

    • @hawk_bouy78
      @hawk_bouy78 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looking good without lens

  • @ShabanaLokhandwala-xv7ui
    @ShabanaLokhandwala-xv7ui 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very good mee too divorced

  • @muniraawadh2982
    @muniraawadh2982 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Umegonga ndipo mwanangu..keep on good work..love you princess 👸 😘 💖

  • @bammboomm7763
    @bammboomm7763 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    MashaAllah nice talk dear it will help alot of people who are going through divorce and tough times in their marriages.

  • @aliabdallah2888
    @aliabdallah2888 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A.Aleikum honey dis is umufarida may Allah akulinde akuhifadhi mpaka kiyama very true am here darling i know

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I pray every parent to empower their girls,young women get it hard in the male dominated world ,who even want to take advantage of them.

  • @marshaly8473
    @marshaly8473 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kweli kabisa i like your videos are motivation big hugs 🤗 from Madrid Spain 🇪🇦

  • @zserlim4715
    @zserlim4715 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yani Nuru Nuru Nuru @afrolanka👏👏 walai dis video is educative sanaaaaa kwa alot of divorce woman..... jazakAllah khyr 😘 thou am not divorce but wat dis divorce woman go thru in our Swahili community is traumatizing na many get into depression bila kujijua...... we nid more of these educative lyf experience vlogs

  • @zahramohamed5095
    @zahramohamed5095 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow you have been through a lot which makes you stronger. May Allah make it easy for you. Good for you women need to be independent.

  • @user-us6ze8bz3u
    @user-us6ze8bz3u ปีที่แล้ว

    Surely it's is a blessing when U believe in Ur self..and beige in allaah..I'm now working and have my own flow of money..thnx Allaah..

  • @jamal21ma
    @jamal21ma ปีที่แล้ว +3

    AAWW Mashallah, Tabarakallah you nailed it Sis...❤❤❤👍

  • @swabrinahussein4491
    @swabrinahussein4491 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Maa shaa Allah ❤ so emotional
    I really like your content habbty 🥰

  • @officially_youngmammy
    @officially_youngmammy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wallai i feel you keep your standard

  • @kenstudios
    @kenstudios ปีที่แล้ว

    It takes a lot of courage to talk about this topic and I applaud you for talking about it. You're helping a lot of people who fear talking about this. Thank you for your openness

  • @jacquelinekavita7289
    @jacquelinekavita7289 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So much sense. Thanks dear sister for such informative video mashaAllah may Allah bless you.

  • @husnaahmed4404
    @husnaahmed4404 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Walahi you are hilarious 😀😀

  • @rukiyamohammed2092
    @rukiyamohammed2092 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video... Is everything,

  • @fahimaramadhan9348
    @fahimaramadhan9348 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very very true. These are are the real assumptions about divorced women by coastal people. It really hurts

  • @saeedaabeid9139
    @saeedaabeid9139 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice topic MashaAllah...it really touched ❤me

  • @aboudal-nabahany5338
    @aboudal-nabahany5338 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashaAllah nice story 👌

  • @mohamedsidi5097
    @mohamedsidi5097 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    first marriage arranged...second marriage lack of proper decision making and life experience....

  • @suek4616
    @suek4616 ปีที่แล้ว

    This talk helped me alot!!!! you have no idea. Thank you so much!

  • @ilhamm1606
    @ilhamm1606 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said. You have highlighted a lot of our fears especially as a woman,now i understand why i always felt the need to work harder. Good advise

  • @mariamtumwebaze389
    @mariamtumwebaze389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ohhhhh sorry darling nakuelewa vizuli ❤❤❤❤

  • @wahidamohamed6641
    @wahidamohamed6641 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U nailed it gal!!!

  • @sarahmbayire8332
    @sarahmbayire8332 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asalam alaikum sister, many thanks for opening up, alhamudillah am happy you got another chance. I would really like to see you in camera in Kampala.

  • @MohamedAli-ly7jo
    @MohamedAli-ly7jo ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in North America but love everything about you am msa BOY

  • @ummyazizkimaro6378
    @ummyazizkimaro6378 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I must say you are so strong and thank you for opening our minds

  • @hajbibee1886
    @hajbibee1886 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    JazakAllah Khair dear sister. It is so sad and draining. Thank you so much for the encouraging words of wisdom 💕

  • @husnas.7772
    @husnas.7772 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The long awaited video aaahh channy thanks for this video!! Niko na kahwa yangu na keki I'm ready!!

  • @fatmarashidkassim7849
    @fatmarashidkassim7849 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mashallah nice topic u nailed it...

  • @jivanjishams8580
    @jivanjishams8580 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mashallah u nailed it.nice content.

  • @abakadionks
    @abakadionks ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mashaallah your so beautiful. Thanks for this video. I really needed to hear this and thanks again for tonight live. It was amazing talking about what women go through during and after pregnancy

  • @shlmhd7386
    @shlmhd7386 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u for sharong with us ur history

  • @mohammadalibhose968
    @mohammadalibhose968 ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha'Allah.... I am proud of you .. ONE of our own, I like your expresion & language. You look like inteligent , Underdtanding full of "FIQHI" & Wisdom.....
    Hio kwako KUSAFIRI bila shaka unao exposure.... Elimu yako muhimu IWAFAE na wengine......
    Masha'Allah keep it up TOTOO ( mjukuu wangu).

  • @mesaidiali5649
    @mesaidiali5649 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashAllah MashAllah dadaa you have nailed it Allah akibariki utupe nice contents..♥️♥️🥰🥰🥰

  • @drfyoungesq1190
    @drfyoungesq1190 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asalaamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaktuhu. Beautifully Brilliant presentation spoke from a Woman that has and understands Deen. Bless you and you have blessings for this truly Islamic message that embodies the reality of our Deen, our way of life! Bless you. Your message will touch and soothe the hearts of many and awaken all to the reality of a Woman and the wisdom and strength of a Woman. Paradise truly lays at the foot of a Woman. Peace.

  • @a.856
    @a.856 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks alot dear👏

  • @cellobeauty6567
    @cellobeauty6567 ปีที่แล้ว

    ..u r a strong human

  • @hubuumohamed3524
    @hubuumohamed3524 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are very honest

  • @nyashgerald3585
    @nyashgerald3585 ปีที่แล้ว

    We ❤️ u too ma'am nice topic and quet interesting 🙏

  • @hamisisalmah8764
    @hamisisalmah8764 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ihv subscribed ilove how you talk ma Sha Allah weeh ilike the way utalk and how fluent uko kwa both languages 😮ni ukweli huo wa unmarried women kukuwa abit choosy iam 35 mimi neva married na bado stigma ni io io katka huo uswazi

  • @mrsawadh5716
    @mrsawadh5716 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mwanamke jitho mashAllah

  • @fatmabashamakh554
    @fatmabashamakh554 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you cuzo you so strong n m so proud of yooou like i really look up to you chanu

  • @muznarashid8181
    @muznarashid8181 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wallah uko bright mno huniy

  • @thiyahmohammed7836
    @thiyahmohammed7836 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's sad hii culture yetu ya uswahilini it's vry toxic kwa kila kona iwe hujaolewa ukiachwa pande zote

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 ปีที่แล้ว

      The purpose of this conversations is to create that understanding and change the narrative.Marriage is not a life and death thing.

  • @mohamedshee4297
    @mohamedshee4297 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice

  • @fatmahamesa2449
    @fatmahamesa2449 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    dadang miezi Sita mimeng mimi miwili na ni mtoto WA mjombang

  • @shamsabakthir8011
    @shamsabakthir8011 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ukweli kabisa👍

  • @yudahwa-ta-seti6075
    @yudahwa-ta-seti6075 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New subscriber 😏

  • @aishasuleiman6146
    @aishasuleiman6146 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kweli maneno yako 👌🏻

  • @cutecute5269
    @cutecute5269 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sah lisanik Habibty

  • @fatmaabbas902
    @fatmaabbas902 ปีที่แล้ว

    Emotional story. 😞

  • @maimunaomar7774
    @maimunaomar7774 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    MashaAllah,,nice content for uswazi girls like us...nimelearn alot

  • @rozina2161
    @rozina2161 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am new subscriber nipeni likes

  • @aishaabdalla4254
    @aishaabdalla4254 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subhanallah kila kitu unacho sema ni kweli kabisa. Blah blah blah lakini ikiwa una pesa hata ukaachwa mara 20 watu kimya na kila mtu ataka uolewe na mwanae. Thank you for this toppic

  • @swalhaomar9723
    @swalhaomar9723 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    MashAllah
    You nailed it habibty...
    Thank you so much...

  • @haniamohammed6890
    @haniamohammed6890 ปีที่แล้ว

    True

  • @mailtony5958
    @mailtony5958 ปีที่แล้ว

    hizo lens buana !! 😝

  • @MohamedAli-ly7jo
    @MohamedAli-ly7jo ปีที่แล้ว

    some of us we wish to find a woman like you

  • @ruu6592
    @ruu6592 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wengine we are widow but is just the same

  • @recipeesbyzee3454
    @recipeesbyzee3454 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 hapo Kwa kazi sasaa

  • @user-us6ze8bz3u
    @user-us6ze8bz3u ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can assure u..by the name of God..85% of women who are independent are divorced women..they know how to hurdle for their life..divorce is not a crime..ists a Golden prime
    To move on with next level of life..Blv in Ur self

  • @a.856
    @a.856 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U r ✅️

  • @shushu-3788
    @shushu-3788 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cant wait for part 2. Cheers to you and your found happiness. May you continue to flourish

  • @user-li4ep6ir9z
    @user-li4ep6ir9z ปีที่แล้ว

    Channy lee hapo pa ushuzi waaah 21:54

  • @Simply-mariah2
    @Simply-mariah2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hio macho weuh

  • @danyahjudahisrael4608
    @danyahjudahisrael4608 ปีที่แล้ว

    People always say take your time find yourself. Why should you have to do all this stuff if you know who you are and you know what you want you don't have to change yourself musical change the person that you're being with let them do to change it.

  • @Atemij
    @Atemij 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wish you had subtitles for the Swahili parts.

  • @ashaiswana3534
    @ashaiswana3534 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohh thanks for encouraging words,I almost commit suicide,me and my son because of those hatred words

  • @umarbinalhassan9727
    @umarbinalhassan9727 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashaallah! May Allah gives you long life insha'Allah! ... Natamani Sana kukuona live ukiwa Mombasa .. natamani Sana. Good content.

  • @maslahcade6118
    @maslahcade6118 ปีที่แล้ว

    ilove you beady waye

  • @khalidmbarak3242
    @khalidmbarak3242 ปีที่แล้ว

    halo

  • @emmanuelayata9301
    @emmanuelayata9301 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But your eyes today are very scary

  • @smoothc2422
    @smoothc2422 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello sister I enjoy your show you are beautiful and very smart with that be said. I have request if you can help me. I just moved to Mombasa a year ago. I'm a young men looking to meet my soulmate. I live alone and I am tried being alone. I'm looking for beautiful girl to build a family with. Can you help me found my match please....thank you

  • @amirmohamed2729
    @amirmohamed2729 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hio shida yako

  • @fatmahamesa2449
    @fatmahamesa2449 ปีที่แล้ว

    same year same problem 🤣🤣🤣bt alhamdulillah

  • @mosmart4718
    @mosmart4718 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s why Allah says and stresses on the people of the book. It’s always difficult to deal with people who don’t believe in a creator. Most of the conflicts come from the differences in faith plus cultural differences.

  • @bint3asal597
    @bint3asal597 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dts does count agd amarriage

  • @ashamohamedbandal4137
    @ashamohamedbandal4137 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why not telling the parents to teach there daughters to be obedient to their husbands. Cause wanawake skuizi kiguu na njia

  • @mohamedtaib5614
    @mohamedtaib5614 ปีที่แล้ว

    How u date and ending wanting to marry a Buddhist. Ur lucky .wako wengi hawana bahati. Good luck.

  • @sambaclub1
    @sambaclub1 ปีที่แล้ว

    AA. R u still divorced

  • @danyahjudahisrael4608
    @danyahjudahisrael4608 ปีที่แล้ว

    I I accept that she's a divorced woman. Because I am a divorced man.

  • @ekasasimba7106
    @ekasasimba7106 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Halo Nuru MISHI MEMSAP HAPA..if it ain't serious let it go.relationship is two not one...one is only ALLAH

    • @afrolanka
      @afrolanka  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Mishi. Thank u. I miss u girl. Gv me ur Instagram username

    • @ekasasimba7106
      @ekasasimba7106 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@afrolanka you really inspire me girl.will just Whatsapp...am so antisocial...Thank God you passed your storms..

  • @bint3asal597
    @bint3asal597 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wat if the husband does fulfill all ur needs physically at all and financially

    • @bint3asal597
      @bint3asal597 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@afrolanka I haven't get a divorce

  • @SheedLordBear
    @SheedLordBear ปีที่แล้ว

    You are married but wearing your hair out. And you seem to have alot of sass with you. Like these ladies from the west.

  • @user-us6ze8bz3u
    @user-us6ze8bz3u ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What I can tell divorce women..get out of ur shelter..look for a work..never give up.."what a man can do..a woman can do" be a woman of ur own power..

  • @fridahiminza8659
    @fridahiminza8659 ปีที่แล้ว

    A question, y is it that when your first marriage fails, 2 3 and others will fail?av seen that, then children raised from failed marriages/broken families, they're marriages also dont work, is it not what we call generation curses?looking lovely

  • @SheedLordBear
    @SheedLordBear ปีที่แล้ว

    So basically you are on here trashing men. Why don’t you take accountability for marrying a dude 30 yrs older than you, then after him marrying a Buddhist. Stop it sis!

  • @bryankibet1587
    @bryankibet1587 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    is it possible for a christian man to marry a muslim woman and they both have to keep their faith and religion culture etc, and later the kids will decide where to go cz i once dated a muslim lady and i loved her and her religion and even Ramadhan time i also fasted with her in a christian way while her in a muslim way ,s is it possible

    • @hajbibee1886
      @hajbibee1886 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As far as I know you have to convert to Islam willingly understand the beauty of Islam and then get married to your love. It is not allowed in Islam to practice different religions in marriage. It will even confuse the children as well. Thank you so much for asking. May Allah bless you and show you the right path dear