What divorced women Go Through In Uswazi - Mombasa,Kenya

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  • @fantqsie4579
    @fantqsie4579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Wallahi everything you said ni true.. hii video nnacheka na nna huzunika at the same time. Alhamdullilah I have found love after divorce. The double standards are crushing us swahili women.. the worst enemies at this point after a divorce ni wanawake kwa family yako mwenyewe. Keep up the good work dear. May Allah bless you.

  • @bakedbymiha654
    @bakedbymiha654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really admire your honesty, Alhamdulilah I’m happily married never been divorced but I appreciate your lesson on divorce . May Allah grant all of us happy marriages .

  • @restitutamutuku894
    @restitutamutuku894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very bad to judge someone and thinking she is not worthy. And divorce woman should not be under looked. She knows why she walked out. Support them.

  • @hajjihadhrajeee1523
    @hajjihadhrajeee1523 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dah sister mimi ni mwanaume ila maneno unayo ongea ni hundred percent ukweli kabisa tuna wachukulia wanawake walio achwa kama toys na Jamiii nayo inazidi kuwa let down na maneno watching from Sweden 🇸🇪

  • @mrsawadh5716
    @mrsawadh5716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kweli maneno yako .. Nawaombea wote wanaopitia wakati mgumu ..mungu awafanyie wepesi na mupate waume wenye kheri na nyinyi🤲🏻

  • @didamuhammad9944
    @didamuhammad9944 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Man! Just discovered your videos but my sister.....you talking alot of sense.

  • @timamuhamad9391
    @timamuhamad9391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I know what you mean dear it's so sad how people judge other women.

  • @shushu-3788
    @shushu-3788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hiyo stori ya kustiriwa.... that touched me. Kwani who are we? Used good tustiriwe? Girl, that hit a nerve.
    Good info, we need to hear this.

  • @muniraawadh2982
    @muniraawadh2982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Umegonga ndipo mwanangu..keep on good work..love you princess 👸 😘 💖

  • @marshaly8473
    @marshaly8473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kweli kabisa i like your videos are motivation big hugs 🤗 from Madrid Spain 🇪🇦

  • @gogwa
    @gogwa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh you're for real? No filters! Respect

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I pray every parent to empower their girls,young women get it hard in the male dominated world ,who even want to take advantage of them.

  • @edithoketch2235
    @edithoketch2235 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sadly we talk of divorce when we watch on tv that couple commiting murder suicide.
    But not when one walks out before it gets to that.

  • @salhajumaan7580
    @salhajumaan7580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Not every divorce is a disaster sometimes a divorce is a blessing

    • @shadyaahmed9580
      @shadyaahmed9580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Indeed

    • @oyay2821
      @oyay2821 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats a good way of lying to yourselves

    • @hawk_bouy78
      @hawk_bouy78 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looking good without lens

  • @aliabdallah2888
    @aliabdallah2888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A.Aleikum honey dis is umufarida may Allah akulinde akuhifadhi mpaka kiyama very true am here darling i know

  • @bammboomm7763
    @bammboomm7763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    MashaAllah nice talk dear it will help alot of people who are going through divorce and tough times in their marriages.

  • @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ
    @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When one door is shut..onother blessing door is open for U..24/7 ..(blessed door)

  • @jamal21ma
    @jamal21ma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    AAWW Mashallah, Tabarakallah you nailed it Sis...❤❤❤👍

  • @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ
    @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Surely it's is a blessing when U believe in Ur self..and beige in allaah..I'm now working and have my own flow of money..thnx Allaah..

  • @kenstudios
    @kenstudios ปีที่แล้ว

    It takes a lot of courage to talk about this topic and I applaud you for talking about it. You're helping a lot of people who fear talking about this. Thank you for your openness

  • @ilhamm1606
    @ilhamm1606 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said. You have highlighted a lot of our fears especially as a woman,now i understand why i always felt the need to work harder. Good advise

  • @fahimaramadhan9348
    @fahimaramadhan9348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very very true. These are are the real assumptions about divorced women by coastal people. It really hurts

  • @fatmarashidkassim7849
    @fatmarashidkassim7849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mashallah nice topic u nailed it...

  • @hajbibee1886
    @hajbibee1886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    JazakAllah Khair dear sister. It is so sad and draining. Thank you so much for the encouraging words of wisdom 💕

  • @husnaahmed4404
    @husnaahmed4404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Walahi you are hilarious 😀😀

  • @MohamedAli-ly7jo
    @MohamedAli-ly7jo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in North America but love everything about you am msa BOY

  • @wahidamohamed6641
    @wahidamohamed6641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U nailed it gal!!!

  • @swabrinahussein4491
    @swabrinahussein4491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Maa shaa Allah ❤ so emotional
    I really like your content habbty 🥰

  • @zserlim4715
    @zserlim4715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yani Nuru Nuru Nuru @afrolanka👏👏 walai dis video is educative sanaaaaa kwa alot of divorce woman..... jazakAllah khyr 😘 thou am not divorce but wat dis divorce woman go thru in our Swahili community is traumatizing na many get into depression bila kujijua...... we nid more of these educative lyf experience vlogs

  • @ummyazizkimaro6378
    @ummyazizkimaro6378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I must say you are so strong and thank you for opening our minds

  • @Shamsjivanji
    @Shamsjivanji 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mashallah u nailed it.nice content.

  • @zahramohamed5095
    @zahramohamed5095 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow you have been through a lot which makes you stronger. May Allah make it easy for you. Good for you women need to be independent.

  • @hamisisalmah8764
    @hamisisalmah8764 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ihv subscribed ilove how you talk ma Sha Allah weeh ilike the way utalk and how fluent uko kwa both languages 😮ni ukweli huo wa unmarried women kukuwa abit choosy iam 35 mimi neva married na bado stigma ni io io katka huo uswazi

  • @aminafauz1643
    @aminafauz1643 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My dear
    Umesema kweli kabisaa
    Am a victim too just like you

  • @drfyoungesq1190
    @drfyoungesq1190 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asalaamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaktuhu. Beautifully Brilliant presentation spoke from a Woman that has and understands Deen. Bless you and you have blessings for this truly Islamic message that embodies the reality of our Deen, our way of life! Bless you. Your message will touch and soothe the hearts of many and awaken all to the reality of a Woman and the wisdom and strength of a Woman. Paradise truly lays at the foot of a Woman. Peace.

  • @sarahmbayire8332
    @sarahmbayire8332 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asalam alaikum sister, many thanks for opening up, alhamudillah am happy you got another chance. I would really like to see you in camera in Kampala.

  • @officially_youngmammy
    @officially_youngmammy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wallai i feel you keep your standard

  • @Atemij
    @Atemij ปีที่แล้ว

    wish you had subtitles for the Swahili parts.

  • @mohamedsidi5097
    @mohamedsidi5097 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    first marriage arranged...second marriage lack of proper decision making and life experience....

  • @suek4616
    @suek4616 ปีที่แล้ว

    This talk helped me alot!!!! you have no idea. Thank you so much!

  • @abakadionks
    @abakadionks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mashaallah your so beautiful. Thanks for this video. I really needed to hear this and thanks again for tonight live. It was amazing talking about what women go through during and after pregnancy

  • @thiyahmohammed7836
    @thiyahmohammed7836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's sad hii culture yetu ya uswahilini it's vry toxic kwa kila kona iwe hujaolewa ukiachwa pande zote

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The purpose of this conversations is to create that understanding and change the narrative.Marriage is not a life and death thing.

  • @husnas.7772
    @husnas.7772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The long awaited video aaahh channy thanks for this video!! Niko na kahwa yangu na keki I'm ready!!

  • @mohammadalibhose968
    @mohammadalibhose968 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha'Allah.... I am proud of you .. ONE of our own, I like your expresion & language. You look like inteligent , Underdtanding full of "FIQHI" & Wisdom.....
    Hio kwako KUSAFIRI bila shaka unao exposure.... Elimu yako muhimu IWAFAE na wengine......
    Masha'Allah keep it up TOTOO ( mjukuu wangu).

  • @fatmahamesa2449
    @fatmahamesa2449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    dadang miezi Sita mimeng mimi miwili na ni mtoto WA mjombang

  • @MohamedAli-ly7jo
    @MohamedAli-ly7jo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    some of us we wish to find a woman like you

  • @shlmhd7386
    @shlmhd7386 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u for sharong with us ur history

  • @swalhaomar9723
    @swalhaomar9723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    MashAllah
    You nailed it habibty...
    Thank you so much...

  • @aishaabdalla4254
    @aishaabdalla4254 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subhanallah kila kitu unacho sema ni kweli kabisa. Blah blah blah lakini ikiwa una pesa hata ukaachwa mara 20 watu kimya na kila mtu ataka uolewe na mwanae. Thank you for this toppic

  • @fatmabashamakh554
    @fatmabashamakh554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you cuzo you so strong n m so proud of yooou like i really look up to you chanu

  • @mesaidiali5649
    @mesaidiali5649 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashAllah MashAllah dadaa you have nailed it Allah akibariki utupe nice contents..♥️♥️🥰🥰🥰

  • @ShabanaLokhandwala-xv7ui
    @ShabanaLokhandwala-xv7ui 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very good mee too divorced

  • @cellobeauty6567
    @cellobeauty6567 ปีที่แล้ว

    ..u r a strong human

  • @muznarashid8181
    @muznarashid8181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wallah uko bright mno huniy

  • @mrsawadh5716
    @mrsawadh5716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mwanamke jitho mashAllah

  • @mariamtumwebaze389
    @mariamtumwebaze389 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ohhhhh sorry darling nakuelewa vizuli ❤❤❤❤

  • @jacquelinekavita7289
    @jacquelinekavita7289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So much sense. Thanks dear sister for such informative video mashaAllah may Allah bless you.

  • @maimunaomar7774
    @maimunaomar7774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    MashaAllah,,nice content for uswazi girls like us...nimelearn alot

  • @shushu-3788
    @shushu-3788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cant wait for part 2. Cheers to you and your found happiness. May you continue to flourish

  • @aishasuleiman6146
    @aishasuleiman6146 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kweli maneno yako 👌🏻

  • @a.856
    @a.856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks alot dear👏

  • @hubuumohamed3524
    @hubuumohamed3524 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are very honest

  • @rozina2161
    @rozina2161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am new subscriber nipeni likes

  • @rukiyamohammed2092
    @rukiyamohammed2092 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video... Is everything,

  • @SaidaBukheit
    @SaidaBukheit ปีที่แล้ว

    Channy lee hapo pa ushuzi waaah 21:54

  • @ruu6592
    @ruu6592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wengine we are widow but is just the same

  • @ashaiswana3534
    @ashaiswana3534 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohh thanks for encouraging words,I almost commit suicide,me and my son because of those hatred words

  • @danyahjudahisrael4608
    @danyahjudahisrael4608 ปีที่แล้ว

    People always say take your time find yourself. Why should you have to do all this stuff if you know who you are and you know what you want you don't have to change yourself musical change the person that you're being with let them do to change it.

  • @aboudal-nabahany5338
    @aboudal-nabahany5338 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashaAllah nice story 👌

  • @nyashgerald3585
    @nyashgerald3585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We ❤️ u too ma'am nice topic and quet interesting 🙏

  • @pharoah-ahmose6075
    @pharoah-ahmose6075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New subscriber 😏

  • @saeedaabeid9139
    @saeedaabeid9139 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice topic MashaAllah...it really touched ❤me

  • @mohamedshee4297
    @mohamedshee4297 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice

  • @recipeesbyzee3454
    @recipeesbyzee3454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 hapo Kwa kazi sasaa

  • @smoothc2422
    @smoothc2422 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello sister I enjoy your show you are beautiful and very smart with that be said. I have request if you can help me. I just moved to Mombasa a year ago. I'm a young men looking to meet my soulmate. I live alone and I am tried being alone. I'm looking for beautiful girl to build a family with. Can you help me found my match please....thank you

  • @umarbinalhassan9727
    @umarbinalhassan9727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashaallah! May Allah gives you long life insha'Allah! ... Natamani Sana kukuona live ukiwa Mombasa .. natamani Sana. Good content.

  • @fatmaabbas902
    @fatmaabbas902 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Emotional story. 😞

  • @shamsabakthir8011
    @shamsabakthir8011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ukweli kabisa👍

  • @cutecute5269
    @cutecute5269 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sah lisanik Habibty

  • @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ
    @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can assure u..by the name of God..85% of women who are independent are divorced women..they know how to hurdle for their life..divorce is not a crime..ists a Golden prime
    To move on with next level of life..Blv in Ur self

  • @mosmart4718
    @mosmart4718 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s why Allah says and stresses on the people of the book. It’s always difficult to deal with people who don’t believe in a creator. Most of the conflicts come from the differences in faith plus cultural differences.

  • @emmanuelayata9301
    @emmanuelayata9301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But your eyes today are very scary

  • @amirmohamed2729
    @amirmohamed2729 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hio shida yako

  • @ashamohamedbandal4137
    @ashamohamedbandal4137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why not telling the parents to teach there daughters to be obedient to their husbands. Cause wanawake skuizi kiguu na njia

  • @mohamedtaib5614
    @mohamedtaib5614 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How u date and ending wanting to marry a Buddhist. Ur lucky .wako wengi hawana bahati. Good luck.

  • @sambaclub1
    @sambaclub1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    AA. R u still divorced

  • @mailtony5958
    @mailtony5958 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    hizo lens buana !! 😝

  • @fatmalali1874
    @fatmalali1874 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    nikwe sana

  • @fatmahamesa2449
    @fatmahamesa2449 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    same year same problem 🤣🤣🤣bt alhamdulillah

  • @a.856
    @a.856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U r ✅️

  • @ekasasimba7106
    @ekasasimba7106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Halo Nuru MISHI MEMSAP HAPA..if it ain't serious let it go.relationship is two not one...one is only ALLAH

    • @afrolanka
      @afrolanka  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Mishi. Thank u. I miss u girl. Gv me ur Instagram username

    • @ekasasimba7106
      @ekasasimba7106 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@afrolanka you really inspire me girl.will just Whatsapp...am so antisocial...Thank God you passed your storms..

  • @haniamohammed6890
    @haniamohammed6890 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    True

  • @bint3asal597
    @bint3asal597 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wat if the husband does fulfill all ur needs physically at all and financially

    • @bint3asal597
      @bint3asal597 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@afrolanka I haven't get a divorce

  • @Simply-mariah2
    @Simply-mariah2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hio macho weuh

  • @bint3asal597
    @bint3asal597 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dts does count agd amarriage

  • @danyahjudahisrael4608
    @danyahjudahisrael4608 ปีที่แล้ว

    I I accept that she's a divorced woman. Because I am a divorced man.

  • @maslahcade6118
    @maslahcade6118 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ilove you beady waye

  • @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ
    @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What I can tell divorce women..get out of ur shelter..look for a work..never give up.."what a man can do..a woman can do" be a woman of ur own power..

  • @khalidmbarak3242
    @khalidmbarak3242 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    halo

  • @SheedLordBear
    @SheedLordBear ปีที่แล้ว

    You are married but wearing your hair out. And you seem to have alot of sass with you. Like these ladies from the west.