The Nurses Did WHAT At Hannah's IVF Procedure?
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- Recharge your Junkyard Mayhem battery with us this week as we reveal the story behind our matching tattoos. This one is very near to our hearts and while very Mahemey, made a huge impact on our relationship. Can you guess the tattoo before the story is over?
Junkyard Mayhem: Episode 4
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00:00 - Intro
01:40 - Hannah's IVF Procedure
09:48 - The Story of Our Tattoos
31:47 - Relationship Advice
41:12 - Outro
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Shane, thank you for so openly discussing the burden complex and all its real and perceived concerns. I struggle with that feeling and it's so comforting to hear Hannah genuinely respond with love and understanding.
This!
I think many people can relate regardless of disability or not. I dont have caretakers but ive felt that way many many times in my life. Its definitely a relatable topic so i appreciate when they both talk about it so openly too
Absolutely. She listens respectfully and doesn’t try to quieten him, which people often do, even if their intention is to make you try to stop feeling that way.
The way Hannah looks at Shane is just heart warming. Love watching you.
I can’t tell you how much I am enjoying this format. Thanks so much for trusting us with your life experiences!
Me to! I never expected to, but I actually enjoy these podcasts even more than the usual videos.
Both my boys were conceived with IVF. It’s a tough road…..but worth every minute. Hang in there.
I absolutely love how open they are. There is nothing fake about these 2. Most youtubers try to put on this fake persona or come across larger then life. These 2 are humble, always themselves and don't care how silly or embarrassing it may/can be. I hope all their wishes and dreams come true!!!
Ok Hannah's response to you breaking down and saying you are the furthest thing from a burden to her made me CRY. Why can't more people be like her?
I teared up when Shane told us Hannah’s response to his complex. what a beautiful love you two share 🥹
I did too, but I had *just* put lotion on my hands, so I couldn't wipe my eyes!
Sameee
I did as well Denise.
I love your podcasts and TH-cam videos. You make me smile, laugh out loud, and brighten my days. The love the two of you have for each other is absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us.
I also teared up. That there and still is true love
Thank you both for being willing to talk about this. My sister has done for me over the years some of what you did, Hannah; I’ve been a wheelchair user since age 2-3 or so and had a strong burden complex experience throughout that time. It’s so hard, moving through life trying not to be “that disabled kid”/masking the difficulties of your disability as much as possible so the people you love and respect see *you* and not a problem. Her therapist told her a story he heard once that reminded him of us: Someone ridiculed a man for carrying his sibling on his back (when his wheelchair broke I think it was), saying how hard his sibling made his life, and the man said “He’s not a burden, he’s my brother.” Made me cry then just like this story makes me choke up now. I have friends I believe love me like this, but to think I might could find romance someday where a person could see me as anything but burdensome is incredibly moving. Y’all provide hope with your example. Thank you for being willing to talk about such vulnerable stuff. I respect and appreciate you both a ton ❤❤
We have a similar battery story: My wife’s chair was dying at EPCOT in WDW. A very helpful cast member showed us to the nearest hidden outlet, and we plugged in her charger in the Mexico area. I left to find a bathroom, and when I came back, she was surrounded by a mariachi band! After about an hour of charging, we realized that the outlet she had been plugged in to was turned off! We barely made it to guest services and had to plug in there for a while.
What my loving husband did NOT tell you was that I was sitting under a roofed covering in an outdoor area, and I was SO grateful to be out of the sun. There’s not a lot of shade at EPCOT. While the chair is charging, of course MOVING becomes impossible. So I was basically stuck sitting where I was, but there wasn’t much going on in that spot, until this Mariachi band comes out of the little building connected to this awning that I’m sitting under, and right where I am is their outdoor stage. It’s time for their concert, and I’m in the middle of it. They were puzzled at first about why I didn’t leave my spot but I showed them the charger and they were good sports. A few minutes later my husband comes back from the bathroom and sees my predicament. I figured he’d come over and unplug my chair and help me move out of the way, but NO. He stood away from me in the rest of the audience that had gathered, and started taking PICTURES with his phone. I’m dying of embarrassment and he’s recording it for posterity. :) After the muscians’ set was over he did finally come help me and that’s when we realized the chair wasn’t actually charging at all. Fun times. :)
Memories lol 😆
My husband and I had a long distance relationship, we talked on the phone before we ever met in person. I'm not normally "shy" or "silent", but with him I was. He stuck with me and tried like heck to get me to talk more, it worked. We were together 28 wonderful years, until his recent passing. I miss him everyday. We knew very early on there was an attraction, I fell in love with him before I ever met him in person
💞 This has to be my favorite Junkyard Mayhem podcast episode so far! I loved hearing the story about your trip to NYC. My cheeks hurt from laughing so much. Hannah's response to Shane when he was having his "burden complex" was beautiful! Your love for each other is so evident. I love being a part of your journey... thanks for bringing us with u. xoxo
Shane, you married quite a wonderful woman! Your personalities are quite a pleasure to see. I can tell there is nothing but love between you two. I have been married 52 years and laughter is what has helped us a lot. Love you two. If you need another Grandma in your life I’m all in!😊
U guys need to make a Squirmy & Grubs t-shirt that says, "Nope." I LOVE when Hannah says that when Shane starts to tell his "embellished" or "fabricated" stories. Lol!!
***Edited to add that they should also make a Squirmy & Grubs "YUP" t-shirt. 😂😂 It's so funny when Hannah says that too.
So true, good idea!
Hannah wears a Nope t-shirt
I haven't looked at the merch. Shane definitely needs one that says Nailed it.
@@harpermartin6806 😂 Lol, yes I thought I saw that in one of the videos. It would be so cute on a S & G t-shirt (or hoodie) with the word NOPE written under the S &G.
And my personal favourite *hannah eye roll* 🤣
That is such a sweet story ❤ I find myself thinking that if things don’t go perfect then everything is ruined but the best memories come from unperfect days and events. Thanks for the reminder!
Well said ❤️
I have that burden complex too. I have to be pushed in a wheelchair by my hubby who is in his seventies. He has to do all the housework and the shopping. I feel like I'm useless sometimes. It's really difficult to deal with. Thanks for opening up about that. I loved your New York story! My hubs and I have a few stories like that and they make us laugh so much after all these years.
Yo Clark. Hire a lady that does groceries shopping and house cleaning let her help twice a month hes going to ware down. Praying
About the new harness vs the old harness (previous post) ... any seamstress, doesnt even have to be super experienced, could take the old harness and make a pattern of it and sew a new one using that pattern. Easy-peasy! Make 2 so can easily wash it! Make 3. One at home. One in the ready-to-go packed suitcase and one for washing.
I’m not normally into podcasts but I’ve been following your channel for years and I think what you have to say is interesting and hilarious. This podcast is a welcome addition and I’m really enjoying it.
I was so touched by your battery love story - I could feel Shane’s emotion in his fear of being a burden - I have always believed in your true love story but it was still so meaningful to hear the experience that brought you closer together
It really warmed my heart
Bless you both ❤️💖
Thanks Shane for talking about the burden complex. I'm the caregiver for my mom and brother and sometimes I have to deal with this. My brother had a stroke and is paralyzed on his right side and my mom is 92 years old. He won't ask for help or do certain things because he doesn't want to be a burden. My mom is spry but has a little dementia. She's probably doing better than I am. You think I was an only child but I am one of eight. Everyone is married with families except for me. They don't think taking care of family is a big deal and never offer relief. I don't think my family is a burden but burnout is in my future. They all go on vacations to relax and recharge but I'm expected to take them with me when I go. When do I relax and recharge?
I know how you feel. I'm the youngest and the only one that takes care of my mom.
Your really in a tough and emotionally draining situation ...."draining " being used when "abusive" would also apply! I feel for you....I know what it feels like to have your EVERYTHING be taken as a right, and not even have that fact really acknowledged or appreciated....more like EXPECTED!!
My daughter went thru the IVF procedures.. shots, meds, dr. Visits and the outcome of it all, a beautiful baby boy arrived this spring. Be patient. The outcome is well worth the struggle. Stay positive. Love to you both
I am french, I don't really like podcasts, yet it is 3 PM here and since I woke up I found myself waiting impatiently for this podcast ! I love it, thank you so much for making us laugh, informe us...
I hope there will be a lot more junkyard mayhem podcasts ! 🙂
That's funny, me too. Their bait in the title is always so fun.
Same. I dont really care for podcasts. I think i enjoy them more when they are video recorded and uploaded to TH-cam. I can watch their podcast all day tho. Its like watching their youtube videos. The only difference is they are longer and i dont mind that one bit either.
Do they not have podcasts in France ?
Vive Le Roi.
SAME! Not big on them- here i am 😂
I am a relatively new subscriber and I am enjoying your videos and podcasts. I especially enjoyed this one and your New York story. I cried at the end over Hannah's words and I thought I love this woman. Your channel is educating and teaching me a lot about the difficulties people with wheelchairs face but most of all it is helping me advance in my own journey of trying to learn to love and accept myself in spite of my lifelong mental health disabilities and now increasing physical limitations due to age and weight and the severe burden complex that I have. I am very happy to have discovered you and really appreciate the message you are giving the world. I am so sorry that you have to endure so much crap from the human garbage out there. I hope that those of us who love you are enough to counterbalance putting up with them. Thank you both of you for sharing yourselves with us. I find you so delightful and uplifting.
As a motorized wheelchair user, your story of your chair's battery draining quickly makes ME sooooo nervous!! Oh the anxiety I'm feeling as I listen! lol
I completely can sympathize. I've been in the situation as well, not in a big city, PTL but it's one of my biggest fears regarding my chair.
Shane I completely relate about the burden complex. It's something I struggle with daily. I find it hard friends or loved ones could ever be accepting of my medical and physical limitations. It must have something to do with societal and internal abelism. Congratulations for overcoming it! Much happiness to you both and great luck with your IVF journey!!
I swear this podcast just keeps getting better and better. This is definitely my favorite episode thus far 😂😂🤣
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Good title Shane! “Take it With A Grain of Salt” for relationship advice.
Aww, my heart. That is the sweetest story. Got me all teared up. Your story is proof that positivity matters more than you realize. Had you both fussed all day it would not have been the best day ever. You fix what you can and let go of what you cannot
Me reí a carcajadas en este episodio!! Todo fue genial, el episodio de Nueva York, cómo Shane insinua que Hanna lo descuida. Eso es realmente tener sentido del humor. Todos somos débiles y fuertes a partes iguales, encontrar a quien valore esto le sirva es la clave de una pareja. Tan sencillo y tan complejo. Muchísimas gracias por su sinceridad y su mente abierta! 😊
You two are so cute!! I don’t know how anyone can say you’re relationship is fake. You genuinely show your love for each other. Especially in this podcast. Almost made tear up Shane saying how much it meant to not feel like a burden. We all saw the love in eyes he has for you. And obviously Hannah the love you have for Shane. I can’t wait to see more of your adventures. Love you guys!!! ❤
I’m literally getting this procedure done tomorrow so I’m so glad you guys are talking about it!
***** Absolutely appreciate your honesty, humor and willingness to share your real-life relationship adventures with us. Five stars for sure!
The secondhand cringe of your buying just a lip balm 😂
You both have such a talent for storytelling and evoking emotions. ❤
What a lovely story! I am an person who has accquired disability but I too use an electric wheelchair and am dependant on others to do the most everyday tasks. While i had not thought of the term "burden syndrome" i can relate as for much of my life I was an RN caring for others. I deal with my difficulties by using humor- it can be a little twisted at times finding laughter in the wierdest situations. It was something that helped during nursing and i used the skills i could i guess. But i thank you both for sharing so much, especially the sweet way Shane described what Hannah said. I love watching you both on you tube. Thank you
I'm so excited for you guys! I was planning on doing IVF next year, but luckily I got pregnant with my 3rd IUI, and I'm 10 weeks currently!
Enjoy every moment of your pregnancy & CONGRATS!!!
Thank you so much!
OMG I love you guys! You just have to laugh at yourself to keep from going nuts! I’m in my 70s and often have trouble getting around. When ever I get myself into a difficult situation, my daughter and a I laugh like two hyenas. Can’t read a sign? Misunderstand a server? Almost fall down so my daughter has to catch me? No problem! We laugh at the ridiculous situation! I love your podcast!
LMAO that would have been epically hilarious if Shane had yelled out across the waiting room...
"IM OVER HERE!!! IM SHANE!!! IS HANNAH OKAY? I NEED SOME ASSISTANCE GETTING OVER THERE!"😂😂😂
I can just imagine the entire waiting room getting silent and every head in the place turned to look at Shane, when all of a sudden the "REAL" Shane stands up to head into her appointment!
Poor Shane would have turned beet red, just mortified!
LOL😂❤️
Y’all are the sweetest couple and the BEST storytellers🤩 I smiled the whole time 🥰esp about the chapstick 😂
Hannah’s response made me tear up and I totally get it…I’m disabled as well, and my husband has touched me as well with his responses to my feeling like a burden. Y’all are so made for each other…when you can laugh through trials that is the ultimate test for a relationship. God bless you both. 💕
I'm disabled and this story has truly touched me in my soul!! Shane I truly understood how you felt and I wish my husband would be sweet as Hannah!!
The $3 chapstick purchase as an ode to thanks for ody Wotks employee’s helpful battery charge was so funny Hannah! 😂😂😂
I have never understood the whole podcast thing and never enjoyed them, but I find myself looking forward to yours because it is the perfect lunch break during my work day. :-) I work from home full time and I have a rule, I refuse to do any work during my lunch hour. Your podcast has become my favorite lunchtime activity. It gets my mind completely off of work and reduces my anxiety. I love it!
Great Podcast! I have two adult kids with mostly high functioning Autism. I feel sorry for myself and see my children as a burden all the time (mostly the younger one). I was in tears listening to your NYC story and it was very eye opening. I hope I start seeing them less like a burden and more as a joy and that someday they find joy in a relationship and not see themselves as burdens. Not the same really, but somehow touch a nerve about me.
So sorry 😞
It is ok to feel burdened, mom guilt won't serve you or them
I also experience this caring for my autistic adult son..
Question: How is living with the parents going? What are some things that you thought would be easier but took a little more adjusting to and what are some things you worried would be hard but actually just naturally fell into place?
P.S. I love your new podcast. Especially the look of absolute joy on Hannah's face when she gets to do the deep dives and educate Shane...lol!
Literally made me cry when you started talking about the burden complex and how you thought she would abandon you due to your disability.
Shane. I love your sense of humour. It reminds me so much of my husband. He had MS for many years. He was basically a quadriplegic for over 22 years but kept his sense of humour throughout. He always apologized all the time for us not being able to do things. I lost my husband in June of this year and miss him so much. We would have celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary this September. I send so many good wishes in your journey towards having a family. Life is so short. Enjoy every minute of it.
Sending you love
From one widow to another; hang in there & don’t ever listen to other’s well-meaning advice telling you that you need to move on. You dwell in your memories & celebrate your love, your laughter & even the tears. You lived & loved. Treasure it.
I was laughing, crying (in a good way), this episode really touched me. The way you both express your experience is beautiful. Thank you for opening your world to the podcast venue.
What a story you will tell your kids one day. What a beautiful soul you have Hannah and a blessing you are to each other. The part about shedding your burden complex really had me needing some tissues Shane. One day I’m going to find a love like you two have one day and hope to find someone to look at me the way you two look at each other. It’s so easy to tell someone you love them but to go through your life you truly show someone you love them is a whole other thing. Actions speak louder than words.
I love how you relate to each other. You already have a lot more going for you than many much older couples.
I think that being able to genuinely enjoy yourselves together even though everything is going wrong is a true sign of a good and compatible love. 💕🔋
I rate this and all your programs 100%.
Love each and every vlog you have put out there. I wish you happiness and success in all your endeavors. Your children will learn so much from the two of you. Your patience, love, humor will leave a mark on me and all your subscribers. Thank you for sharing some of your life with me. Now, GO FORTH AND MULTIPLY!!! LOL
My favorite Podcast to date! I too am disabled and can relate to your problems. Your wit and Hannah’s charm make this so enjoyable to watch and to listen to. You two are so compatible! I hope that you continue to have experiences together and memories to fill your lives. Thanks for sharing your story with us!
😢 That burden complex explanation was so good and and so sad at the same time.
I also want to point out that the elderly also get a burden complex. My ageing dad has it now as he’s used to being the one who can fix and do anything to needing help with many things. It’s sad. I feel bad for him. I don’t want him to ever feel like a burden.
Thank you so much for a much more inclusive experience, the camera changes and thanks for looking at the camera when addressing “us”. Previously I felt it was more like behind the scene at a radio broadcast. Thank you again🙏🏻
"She's in!" Shane, you're killing me! Lol😂😂 Love you guys. 💞💞
Don't want this podcast to end. So relatable and realistic. Not to mention hilarious.
It’s official….IM HOOKED ON THIS PODCAST! I’m currently cleaning and binge listening/watching. It’s hard to just listen because there is so much love and adoration in your expressions! You two are so refreshing!
I've heard this story before (must have been in a previous video?), but I really appreciate this retelling. Shane, your emotional intelligence is off the charts and so impressive, as is your willingness to be vulnerable with your viewers!
You guys are the best. Sitting here waiting for roadside assistance, drinking my coffee, and watching you both makes for a better day!
I’m old, wrinkled, with the attention span of gnat and i watched/listened to the entire thing
I love youse guys
oh my goodness … so many times in life I have had situations where all signs are screaming to change my plans (for any number of reasons); I think it’s a universal condition … we get the whispers but become more entrenched the harder it becomes. You guys tell stories so beautifully and I love how much you respect and love each other. Much peace and love to you. I haven’t watched or listened to much about the IVF process - but you’ll be amazing parents and I am sending you so much peace and support.
The NY trip story is so wonderful. An example of a loving relationship shining through.
I am LOVING this JUNKYARD MAYHEM format...Thank you for sharing your lives...you both are very brave..
Thank you for sharing your stories I can understand where you’re coming from being disabled myself. You guys are an awesome couple.
Thank you for the story. We struggle with burden complex with our son so what you both shared is helpful to hear from both sides. What I love is how Hannah advocates for making life better for people with disabilities.
I love you Shane. I’ve never heard you be so funny as you were today. I appreciate your humor, it’s wonderful. Listen to you tell the story of you and Hannah in NYC was the best. Thank you.
I think you are very qualified to give relationship advice.
Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories! I think you are both qualified to give relationship advice! Even just telling your stories is helpful, like your New York story. A lot of people feel that relationships and dating have to be 'perfect' for them to be successful and that's not reality. The reality is that what makes a relationship successful is being able to problem solve together, face challenges together, and grow together. It's something that not a lot of people think about when it comes to dating and I think it's important to remember that not all dates have to be perfect and romantic. It's the little everyday challenges that make you learn about each other and your compatibility. Please keep sharing your stories! Love you guys!
I went thru all of this a few years ago, and I had to do it 4 times! I know what you’re going thru and I pray that your results will be successful.
Absolutely love your yunkyard mayhem! You two are so funny and was meant for each other! I don't usually comment but you two ROCK!!!!
Junkyard Mayhem is so awesome. I really look forward to watching after a brutal day at work. Thank you 😊
❤❤❤ your podcast. I have been following you two for the last year or two and always enjoy your videos, but I must say that so far this relaxed banter between you two in Junkyard Mayhem has been exceptionally good. I love that you face each other and talk to each other and let us be a part of it. You guys are so funny together. I just ❤❤❤ you!
You too are actually very good at giving relationship advice. Love the halarious bad advices too. Whoever came up with that idea is a comedic genious😂😃😃
Thanks for telling your NY visit story. I cried tears of happiness for you both ❤️❤️❤️
You guys are an amazing match. All relationships need deep conversation and the ability to listen fully to each other. You seem to have that with humor which is fantastic. Love your podcast
Omg this story (and when you talk about your burden complex) always reminds me of my favourite story from your relationship when Hannah took an edible and you had to take care of her! It is such a sweet story and I love how it helped you see how caring for someone you love doesn't have to be a burden! 😊❤️
You should tell that one on the podcast sometime! I know people would love to hear it.
I’m loving your channel! Informative and hysterical! So good together.
I love this NYC trip story! I lived in NYC for 20 years, the hot and humid days were so unpleasant. If anybody can still have fun in that situation, they are definitely with the love of their lives! 😂 I got tearing hearing Hannah’s response at the time. It’s so amazing that a partner can make you feel ok, even in a tough situation. It’s such a comforting feeling. Thank you guys for sharing that.❤
You guys crack me up! Hannah’s reaction to Shane’s ‘ramped up version’ of a story is hilarious. He knows the ‘nope’ is coming. He is so funny! Thank you for showing everyone you just have a pretty normal life. Love y’all! (Texan here)
Another awesome podcast from you guys! I love that you've decided to do these. Keep up the good work! 👍
You two are legitimately my favorite people on the entire internet. I love you guys so much 🥰
LIstening to this video and the stories, makes me think about all the times you've both taken these moments of "burden" that Shane feels and turn them into these eductional, funny, sweet moments that fill many of the videos and that you've put out. You two are truly amazing!
This show is SO entertaining and FUN❣ Jolly fun and at the same time deeply informative, illuminating, touching and helpful. Love to you both from San Diego, California.
My favorite video of your beautiful relationship so far. I laughed, I cried hard and now I am wondering why I can't stop crying. I love you two.
What a great story. Loved this ❤ Thank you for sharing ❤️ battery was my guess before you said it Shane!
Thank you both for this podcast. Especially this episode. I really enjoyed the New Yord day trip story. Your love is beautiful to watch. Thanks for sharing it with us. ❤
You guys are inspiring!! I love your relationship and the simplicity of it! Both of you have adventures related to disability and you make it sound like it really is but also with a hint of humour which is completely perfect in my mind! I am truly hoping that your journey to have a baby will be amazing and full of surprises. You both are inspiring and you'll be amazing parents! Continue your great work ❤️
Such a loving and respectful relationship. You guys are making me think of ways of freshing up my marriage. Found you guys about a month ago and so happy I did. You always cheer me up thank you.
I LOVE YOU GUYS! I LOVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOUR SMILES, YOUR LAUGHTER, and WATCHING YOUR LOVE BLOOM MORE AND MORE!!! YOU TWO ARE SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO SO MANY!!! MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU THROUGH THIS JOURNEY CALLED LIFE!❤️
I think you guys should make the Junkyard Mayhem as a fresh new channel so that you can have 2 successful channels not just 1 successful. Everyone would still go over and follow you on both channels
I just had a 12 hour layover in New York after a 5 hour red eye flight literally last week and listening to your story is giving serious flashbacks hahaha. I was so convinced we could strut around NYC Elf movie style on basically 0 sleep! Imagining having to also deal with looking for outlets is sending me into hysterics! Thank you for sharing this story lol.
I love the way you two take about each other you can see just how much you love one another ❤
What a fun junkyard mayhem episode. Thank you so much for making me smile all morning
Love your chat. It's just nice to listen to. Like hanging with friends. Thank you.
This was such a beautiful episode….had me all teary-eyed. You guys are perfect for each other ❤
I so love hearing the stories that you all tell no matter what it is you both can joke about it, and I bet that bus driver will never forget this, either .I love it you both are match made in heaven.❤️🙏🏼
What a great format ! You guys chive so well! You have great podcast chemistry!
This whole NY story…BEAUTIFUL! I just love the two of you together!! ❤️
I really enjoy watching your podcast/TH-cam channel because you both are so real and you talk about deeper things in your life. It’s amazing ❤❤
What a beautiful story! Thank you for sharing.
Another GREAT Junkyard Mayhem! Thoroughly enjoying the series! The 2 of you are awesome. I laughed alot! Great story telling, you can tell Shane is a writer! The NY story was so magical!
Love watching you two. You're so much fun!