3 UPDATES: Overconfident ExBF Says He Could Do Better Than Me As He Breaks Up With Me To Be With...
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- 3 UPDATES: Overconfident Ex Bf Says He Could Do Better Than Me As He Breaks Up With Me To Be With My BFF .. He Does So Much Better That He Ends Up On The News For Doing THIS
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Throwaway because all my friends are on this app. To get a full understanding of this situation, I'll give you all some background. So, Amelia and I have been best friends since middle school, completely inseparable, the kind which teachers, parents and everyone knew about and would ask if they saw one without the other. I thought, this was meant forever, our friendship and our strong bond would last for life.
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1st Op needs to learn to let go. Good people and good friends don't treat you like crap.
Ladies when guys do this laugh at them it throws them off and say thank god and walk out learn to flip the script be vindictive
I heavily recommend punctuation.
@@ichmeiner4531 😂😂😂😂😂
@@ichmeiner4531 well sorry was using text to speech sorry punctuation Nazi!
Nta to the lamp. The second they said “if you sold it, we deserve some of the money from it” was all I needed to hear. They only wanted the money imo
Op should move out. She’ll end up keeping more money and doing fewer chores
It’s not a cultural thing to talk bad about their kids. The aunt had no problem accepting praise for her children and making her own. The Dad is just being a jerk
That first commentator was pretty much looking for excuses for the father's behavior, doesn't excuse him being a jerk.
Yep, he is just an AH!
Story two . Move out and let the dad pay the bills himself. Screw him.
You are not Amelia's keeper. Crazy people
Business is business, fair game. Say it's a heirloom to get the return. Questionable about the item
Story 3: Fuck that. The lamp was bought and sold fair and square. Op and mom are under no obligation to share anything.
That depends under the jurisdiction. Idk about on law, but under civil law the fily would be entitled to every penny 😁
@@Vasilia4 how? they sold it already
Yes, it is their own fault for not doing their research before putting their belongings up for sale. That’s not on the purchaser. They owe them nothing.
Story 1. Welcome to teenagehood and Highschool. Relationships, friendships are journeys they are not destinations. I think OP was too emotionally invested in their friendship with Amelia.
I've been friends with my 9th grade friend since 1976, and my childhood neighbors. It's only shitty people who don't remain friends
I buy things to flip all the time. If people don’t bother to look up what they have before they sell it. I just bought a dress for 19.99 that I can flip for 250. I know clothes. Not so much as antiques. I bought an Oscar de la renta sliver turban that ended up being sold to a costumer in CA
And ladies if u break up tell ur god dam family and there so they don’t bull shit u
Story 1: OMG, how dare they blame you for Amelia’s actions! There are always two sides to a story but for your OWN parents to condemn you without speaking to you first and you are NOT Amelia’s watchdog …. just insane.
Story 2: NTA, sounds like you dads own self reflection! Would consider moving as soon as possible no need to endure belittling by Dad or anyone for that matter. Glad you Aunt acknowledged your hard work & spoke up for you!
Story 3: Well, since you were aware of the suppose mistake. You could have reached out and sold the lamp back for a minimal profit. If indeed the lamp was an heirloom they would have gladly accepted. Always remember if the shoe was on the other foot what would you hope for? How much did Mom pay for lamp?
"It's normal to talk bad about your children's accomplishments" What a dream man...
Story 1: Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Amelia and Mateo suck.
2nd story, OP nta, your father is a lazy parent, who basically does nothing. Hasn't had a job in 10 years? Come on, that's ridiculous.
You bought the lamp . It’s yours!
After she saw the news.. LAUGH her ass off
If you buy a storage unit or house anything left inside of it is yours if you buy at an auction or an estate sale or resale store it is yours you bought it so no you are not the asshole for keeping the lamp and making money off of it
If the lamp that had a Wallet with ID taped up under it then yeah I would return that and feel responsible to return that and the money that was in it even if it was 1000 2000 $3000 but they sold a lamp so you owe them nothing because you bought it
The Last Story. The woman bought a lamp in an estate sale. The Heirs of the estate realized the lamp was worth thousands of dollars. Voila magically it becomes a family heirloom. Send us some of the money! If it was a family heirloom they'd be wanting to find out who you sold it to so they can recover it. They just realized that they screwed up and gave away value and now they're trying to con you. NTA don't be a sucker. These might not even be there original sellers. Let's just pretend that your mother paid $200 for a $20 lamp. Would they be willing to give the money back? If they keep trying to contact you contact the police and complain about a scam artist trying to cheat you. Then let them go talk to the geniuses
EXACTLY. The family gets a great big "Bite me Aunt Betty."
Finders Keepers..Losers Weepers! 3 Eggs..2 Bad!
They realized it was valuable and tried to get it back . So they could make the profit, not OP.
What I don't get from the first story are OP's parents...like, mine have known my bbf for 20 years but if she just said something like that, they would have ripped her a new one, berated her for trying to make me look bad and kick her out of the house and afterwards they would have called me asking "what did that lying bitch talk about sweetie? what happened, who hurt you?" XD
Even if you are not sure to know your kid so well or you aren't close, check with your kids first! like it would be the first and most logical thing right?
You have good parents, most boomers care more about their facade and "social status" and looking good in front of the community, it's complete bullshit, total "small town syndrome"...cherish your parents, they sound great
@@twiceshy9773 you are right, they don't have such mentality and I'm really lucky to have them 😊
@@twiceshy9773 Most Boomers?! Sheesh....
The story about the lamp: they could be lying because they found out the real price of the lamp. I’m sure before they had the sale they got to walk thru and make sure of everything they wanted to sell. I’m sure this sale isn’t just a last minute thing and probably takes some time to plan. If they really cared about the lamp that much I’m sure it would have been on the the first things they put to the side/ kept safe. NTA in my opinion. Sometimes you gotta take the L. 🤷🏾♀️
When they said if you sold it we would like some of the money. That was a NTA they weren’t worried about it being an heirloom they wanted the money. Plus before an estate sale happens the family goes through and remove anything that is not for sale
agreed like they only want it back so badly because they realized it was worth much more than what OP got it for so they're trying to back track and say it wasn't meant to be sold
i just made that observation i am glad to see someone else caught on.
*Idk about the US, but under the civil law system, the family would be entitled to the money. I hope they sue and get every penny back*
@@Vasilia4 here in the us they arent entitled once it is sold, the company only sold what they told them to and they had days or weeks to make sure they werent selling things not up for sale. the company would likely have paperwork signed proving said item was to be sold.
The lamp: NTA it’s their loss. Just like when people purchase from a garage sale and then find out their items are worth quite a lot more. It’s up to the seller to research. Furthermore, they can sue the person in charge of the estate sale. They have nothing on you and neither do you have any obligation towards them. To all the bleeding hearts, there is no excuse for these types of errors in this day and age where everything can easily be searched within seconds.
If it were so sentimental they wouldn't have asked for the money
yeah...and then the sellers double down and say "give us profits if you sold it!!" When they could have easily bought it back from who it was sold to and if it was that important then maybe it should have been packed somewhere to avoid confusion
It's one of those "I just found out it was worth a lot of money and I want it back" events. Lamps are about as sentimental as rocks, otherwise.
So the OP might not have had an obligation to return the lamp but I wouldn't trust or respect them. I suppose it's finders keepers for a lost wallet or ring too huh?
@@sugakookie7985 exactly
Bullet dodged
there is a chance that that lamp was not an heirloom but they found out what it was worth and wanted to get it back to sell it
There is a very good chance this is the case, esp when they said, “if you have already sold it on, we feel we are entitled to some of the profit you made on it.” If they had really treasured this so-called heirloom, then they would have said, “We understand if you have already sold it on, but we’d appreciate if you let us know where, so we may try to buy it back.”
Frenemies.....what's the point?
he is just an AH he is jealous that his sister is speaking well about his child he is an big AH OP hurry up and leave he will Undermind you no one speaks bad about their children `unless they hate them
OP held on to a friendship and relationship way too long. Hopefully a lesson learned for the future, most of these type of things are
Story 1:op parents are so stupid.. How can you blame your daughter for her friend bad behaviour... Hope op never forgive them.
I agree they found out it was valuable and wanted it back to cash in on it . i have seen others clean out a relative house after they passed and sell off things that are so valuable for next to nothing ok it happens all the time the family just want the money a man i knew his kids sold his house and the buyer brag about what a steal so i am not surprised to hear this op
Second story : he’s had TEN years to get a job!
Story 1 is just too damn long.
12:30 When you ignore red flags. When you value Quantity (number) of friends more than Quality of friendships. Then you may end up like this OP!
pitty life demands you eat a shit sandwich to figure out who'd kiss you afterwards and still say they love you. then again if to be fair if parents trusted the evil one totally and she told them something it could be 1% believed they jumped without thought first. forgiveness for loss trust however is a false claim never will broken trust be repaired.
Last Story:
The lamp was for sale, the lamp was LEGALLY purchased.
OP and Mother are under neither legal nor moral obligation to return the lamp.
Note they ONLY have the word of the seller that the lamp had sentimental value, it's equally likely they discovered through posts that it was more valuable then they originally sold it for, and they wish to have a "Do-Over".
It's an old principle of law.
You buy a plot of worthless land for X-Dollars.
The sellers discover later the land has a valuable resource on it [gold mine] worth X times 50, and tell the buyer the sale price was unfair, and want to buy the land back for X+1 dollars.
The buyer refuse, and sells the land and/or mines it for the X times 50 value, and become rich.
All very legal, and very proper.
The original vendors forfeit ALL rights, legal, ethical AND moral to the item once the original sale is concluded.
Some time ago, I and others bought on Amazon, some memorabilia that originated from a storage locker that had been forfeited for non-payment and auctioned off.
The original owner started trolling the Amazon buyers with demands and threats for the return of the items.
I was one of the few who responded, and I responded by quoting a standard contract form a locker storage facility regarding non-payment and forfeiture.
I told the person IF they felt their locker had been wrongfully seized then they should seek legal redress from the locker facility through the courts.
The original owner confessed that they had, and they had lost the case because they had clearly not paid for the locker.
By now others were commenting as well.
I simply told him that All sales were legal and final, and he had neither legal nor moral right to demand return of his former property regardless of it's value Vs. the amount owed to the locker facility, and that his own communications to me had provided all the evidence I needed so if he did not back off, I'd be responding with a legal filing of my own.
He backed off with many grouses and grumblings.
Once an item is legally sold it becomes the sole property of the purchaser to dispose of as they see fit REGARDLESS of the circumstances of the original owner.
They would only be so IF the lamp were stolen property.
LEARN THE LAW.
Heirloom lamp story. I think this is a significant ethical issue. There are several possible variations in the circumstances that might affect it. First is the previous owner's claim that it was a family heirloom sold by mistake. In this case I would conclude that the right thing to do would be to return the item and accept the reward as compensation for your trouble, although a charitable person might decline the reward. Second is if the original owner offered it for sale at a price that made you suspect that they were unaware of the true value. There was a story in the news recently about someone who had found, at a yard sale, what he had good reason to suspect was a very valuable ($millions) painting being offered for $50 or so. The value of the painting was confirmed and the buyer arranged a sale and shared the proceeds with the previous owner. In my in my opinion this was the ethical thing to do. Some might say that it is a legitimate practice to seek out such deals and profit by them, that buying cheap and selling dear is the foundation of business. However many people, myself included, believe that there should be limits on such practices. An example is the case of pharmaceutical companies with patents on important drugs such as insulin jacking up the prices to levels that make them unobtainable by those who need them. In a just society, as in private exchanges, there should be restraints on business practices.
You have keys but you normally ring the doorbell first? If it was your BF's idea, isn't that not a red flag?
I had a so called best friend like this. Must best friends were never friends with you at All.
Last story: TFB. They should take it up with the estate sale planners.
I love cheap stories like this 😂❤❤
cheap?
@@ivorynk752 I'm waiting for a link to an expensive story because I wanna see what it looks like
Jerry Springer show on TH-cam
Nope! Nope! Nope! The lamp was sold by a liquidator at an estate sale, your mom bought it and the family can pound sand. If the company running the sale sold it in error then that company can compensate the family. When I buy something at an estate sale it is not my job or responsibility to tell the seller what I intend to do with the object. Both myself and my boss do this kind of resale and sometimes we score big and make several hundred dollars and more often we make zero money or even sometimes lose money. When you are at a sale you have very little time to decide whether or not you are going to buy an item and I've never had a seller offer to split my loss with me if I make a bum decision. Share who you sold the lamp to and the family can buy or not buy it from them. Anything else gets a great big "Go fuh yourself."
Story 3
Your mother is finding a wonderful hobby and you should encourage her to continue and you should not trust that they made a mistake, because they found out only it was sold and you should not give them anything the where told after the sold it ,and they found out afterwards it was valuable they thought it was worthless the sold it ,so I don't think they did not do research to afterwards they found out and that's a case of sellers remorse it's like buying something in a charity shop they think is worthless and cleaning it and find it's a original,I used to work in a area famous for jewellery and used to buy junk from a old lady giving her more than it's worth broken jewellery and she brought in a piece with large stones clearly Asian in origin I gave her money it was set in cheap metal so I gave her £50 and thought I make up the loss in a few days and nobody would be the wiser
Well I started to have a nagging feeling I didn't tell my boss but decided to check the stone cut as oval stones I did a couple of tests they where real I took them to a friend and he broke them out of the metal settings weighed them and checked them for flaws after allowing for waste he gave me a thick wad of notes and I had over £2000 so I took the fifty I paid put it back in petty cash and kept my mouth shut,and waited she shuffled in again and I asked to meet me across the road in the coffee shop I knew she was selling things because she was broke so I didn't tell my boss and gave her the envelope of money,I don't regret my actions because I knew they wealthy people I worked for would not care and she needed the money they did not but that was not because of any great morals it was a case of extremely wealthy versus having not enough to survive with out having to sell her items and what made me feel I done the right thing was when we went to the coffee shop she was trying to sell me her very worn wedding ring of her hand to pay her electric bill and my boss lived in Mayfair and would think £2000 plus as pin money I know I am know saint if she had been wealthy I would have said nothing and donated the money after replacing the fifty pounds to the homeless they would complain about living in the car park washing in the public toilet and would have been pure spite on my part as they did not know I used to leave sandwiches secreted in a spot for a particular person,and if weather was dreadful let them get warm in the basement where I was working I never regretted it it's easy to be nasty when you are living in luxury and have never had to go with out, because you come from wealth ,and talking about people like vermin
So I think your mother and you where right the wanted to dispose of a relative's estate quickly and get the money quick
Story 3, AH
Story 1
You are not responsible for her or his behaviour the wanted to get a ring for that cheating rat I would not take any responsibility for them cheating and he stole the ring for her nothing to do with you,and her and your parents can not blame you for the cheating rats and if they go to jail you can laugh at both of them, your parents should have known better
Story 2
You want to save you work hard and you should not give them money because that's what they want , your father has not worked for a decade and he looks down on you and your father should respect you and you should move out and leave your father to have to find employment and his a miserable man and lazy you can find work I hope you move out and live your best life
I hate the YTA's 9/10 they're wrong
So badly written. My favorite mannerism that gets repeated through these stories, (which are plainly written by the same person) is the use of "Hell, I..." Plus, "wif"..? Please learn to pronounce the TH sound.
Just disgusting to sell something that you knew was a family heirloom to someone. Would have been different if they were asked for it back before they sold it. I hope Karma comes to op.
I don't think it was actually an 'heirloom' they wanted back to keep in the family. Something 'space age' is too new to have been passed along more than once, if at all, yet - so is not really an heirloom. If it actually did have sentimental value of some kind they'd have asked for the details of the buyer with the hope of recovering it, 'if it had been sold' - the fact they wanted a share of the profits indicates they realised too late that they'd sold something too cheap and regretted missing out on the payday. They definitely seem to be aware it's worth more than it was sold for by saying about wanting a share of the profits - so if they actually just wanted it back would have offered the actual value as a 'reward' in the first place.
1st story: So OP is up here whining because she was a dumba@# and a follower. That's what happens when you are weak I don't feel sorry for her . I just hope she isn't stupid anymore.
I love this narrator.. however when she repeats what she just read makes me question if she is actually human.... 🤔