Answering Questions We've NEVER Answered Before!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 มี.ค. 2021
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Sam: “coming home to my 3 Pomeranians and my sexy husband”
Ryan: terrified
ok!
Made me so sad to see his hesitancy, then her glowing smile turn into an apology 🥺
Like of course he is entitled to his own feelings, but it shouldn't be *that* shocking that she envisions her life with him. They are a wonderful pair, and I genuinely hope to see them get married down the line, provided they are both willing and ready.
@@megantotally1844 maybe they’ve like never talked about it before and ryan was caught off guard. i guarantee they’re getting married but not anytime soon. they’ve only been dating for 4 years which i feel like it’s a long time
@@saanvi8481lol
@@doki7242ooh that didn’t age well
Why do I have a feeling Sam and Ryan had a serious conversation about their expectations toward marriage after filming this video? lol
sam: “coming home to my three pomeranians and sexy husband.”
ryan: “hold on, we just skipped three steps. you’re being such a monica.”
sam: “calm down chandler.”
me: “OH MY GOD OH MY GOD OH MY GOD-“
what
@@cionm it's a friends reference
FRIENDS
They actually do have Monica and Chandler energy, at least a bit. Never noticed that before!
6:43 "boys, girls I can't help it baby" Rent quote, notice taken
i loved that you guys talked about the expectation that women have to have children. as the only girl in my family and extended family...aunts and even my mom always are saddened by the fact that i don’t want kids or say “maybe you’ll change your mind” i’m about turn 18 in a few days and i might be young but it should be okay if i don’t change my mind about having kids.
Yess it should be and it is okayy.. I'm only 16 and still have thoughts about this.. I don't see myself having kids in the future and for me to say that verbally means having to hear a lot of judgemental thoughts of various people.. And yes the sentence "u'll change ur mind" or u won't believe but I've also heard "well thats a waste of ur ability to reproduce".. Which is one of the reasons why I never say it anymore.. Like idk maybe I will change my mind but as u said it should be okay if if I don't because end of the day it's me who's gonna have to take care of that child not u and that gives me the right to choose if I want to or not.. Having kids is not something anyone should do out of peer pressure or if u have any kind of "oh I'm not sure if I'm ready but let's just do it what could go wrong" type of thoughts.. There's so much that goes into raising a child and I just know for a fact that it's not for me.. I don't wanna have kids and then have those kids go through half of the shit I'm going through coz of parenting issues.. Maybe if in the future somehow all of the things I'm paranoid about go away and I feel confident enough to know that I could raise a child well then maybe there's a chance I'll have a kid.. But I just don't see it and if that's how I choose to live life and it's hurting nobody then that's none of anyone's business.
Just felt like ranting so there I go.. 😂😂
@@devanshitanna I am 16 as well and while I see myself possibly adopting or fostering teenagers, I never see myself having children. I think a lot of people are disappointed in that because my family placed all of their hope for grandchildren and great-grandchildren on me, and ultimately, it is my choice.
As someone who is twice your age, I didn't want kids at your age and I still don't. I still get the comments about "maybe you'll change your mind" sometimes, but not nearly as much. And they aren't as patronizing usually. They just literally don't understand it, whether because they really wanted kids or they've been brainwashed into believing kids are necessary. It's a lot easier for me to ignore them regardless, as I've gotten older.
Now, some people do change their mind. Or they have a surprise that they chose to keep. That is valid, and does not mean they were wrong in the past, it just means they changed. Everyone changes, it's part of growing up. Some people change that way. And others don't. Don't worry about what others say or think, especially about something so important. Do what feels right to you.
The great thing is, if you somehow end up at sixty wishing you had children, there is always the opportunity to foster. There is no upper age limit to be a foster parent, and many continue to foster up into their seventies. A family does not have to expand in a traditional way, and a person should never feel pressured to have kids when it's not something they want.
The fact that people are even asking if you want kids when you're barely eighteen is deeply concerning to me. Not only because you might change your mind but also because eighteen is YOUNG! And of course no hate or shade to the people who DO have kids at eighteen, great for you, what I mean is, why are adults asking those questions when I'm pretty sure that if you told them that you're pregnant at this point in your life they would find you too young.
Sam: Whats the past tense of partake
Ryan: Partooketh
The word partaken: Am I a joke to you?
lmao i thought it was partook
Nobody:
No one at all:
Sam & Ryan: partookth
Sam: coming home to my sexy husband...
Ryan: 👀whomst? Wut? Oh Ok
On April Fools day can Y’all switch names for the intro?? Ryan says “hi I’m sam” and sam says “and I’m Ryan”
Or not greet us with "Hi Daddy". Imagine the chaos that would happen if Ryan doesn't greet us "Daddy" in a video.
@@lu9877 that would be scary
Omg they must do this
@@uploxy5341 It is it is
15:44 Veronica's reaction when JD says "When mom was alive"
PFTTT-
more like 11:58
You know her name isn’t really Veronica right
@@jessibearvlogs7749 vat do u mean
@@lilyt6075 Ryan was making a joke because it was a typical things that a Veronica might do. Her real name is Samantha
Sam and Ryan is what I strive for in my love life, thank you for coming to my TED talk.
I feel the same wya they're relationship just seems so chill and really healthy it honestly blows my mind a little
@@froggy7274 and It's refreshing to see, specially with the kind of iNFluEnCeRs we have today. They really set the standard.
@@lu9877 definitely, it really is refreshing to see such a good relationship between two people who are both so present in the media
My parents are 6 years apart and they’ve “made it work” for almost 20 years
Same
My parents were 13 years apart and it worked until 5 years ago wen they split
My grandparents are 10 years apart and they are still happy
Hmmm what does that have to do with the vid
@@tristaseiffert411 there was a question about how to make an age gap relationship work
Whenever you talk about jd I always want to say that as someone who was in a mass shooting, I think heathers is extremely close to home . And I am so grateful that you are willing to talk about the hard truth that is the character and his actions in school and mass murder . So thank you for recognizing this and not ignoring it .
Agree! It's not wrong for a musical, show, movie, ect to have things like terrorism in it, but don't ignore that there is a message there about it. Since yes, school shootings do happen and it fine to be put into a musical, but acknowledge it and talk about it.
@@ekohw yes! People can't be afraid to talk about it and the truth behind it . I'm glad Ryan talks about the psychological aspects of jds mind . It is something that I've always struggled with coming to terms with after my shooting, is what caused that , mentally . And the fact that Ryan goes into that is unbelievable. I hope Ryan never stops having those hard conversations and that people hear him. You never think it could happen until it does and it is important to stop the person in there tracks . Movie and musicals like heathers can bring awareness in the weirdest of ways , and sometimes people say , no its not about school shootings or mass shootings, but you look at the big picture and it is . You just have to use that to then teach . So thank you 😊
Totally agree, Sam! I really wish people would think a little harder about having children in general and exude more sensitivity when discussing matters with women--especially ones that they don't know. There's a million reasons to not have children and it's no one else's business which reason is yours!
At 15:44, the way Sam quietly said "oh my god/gosh" (I can't tell if that's exactly what she said, but it was something similar) with her hand in front if her mouth was so cute and funny that I couldn't help but laugh. 😅😅😅
Am I the only one who's wondering if they play the arcade behind them? I need an answer
It’s apart of Hi5 studios, so I assume they’re allowed to play, but I don’t think they played RIGHT after filming a video. They probably play those arcade machines during parties they used to have at Hi5, but given the current circumstances, I assume no one has played those arcade machines in a while.
@@kylajin it looks so fun, I wanna see them have a little contest vlog playing the arcade machines.
I play pac man every time we go... I’m still not on the leaderboard... xR
@@samandryan We will be unpatiently waiting for the Pac-Man tournament, thank you so much. jkjk
It’s where Sam works
6:42 YES! What a true theatre nerd to take that perfect opportunity for a Rent reference!!
Sam: Here we are 3 1/2 years later
Ryan: ..threatening marriage
Me: DYING LAUGHING 🤣
To the point of "when do you want to have children" - i think its also important to note that ITS OKAY to chnage your mind about these things too. Someone can go from "I never wanna have kids" to "wow... i want 3 kids" or vice versa. And you dont have the right to say "but you said...." like no, opinions change overtime and you qre not living their experience of life.
As a young woman in her 20s I see the pressure of society all the time like yes, when I was younger I was avid about having kids but not anymore... and that should be okay without people being like whats wrong with you?
Well I don't want someone to be raising kids when they don't want kids. Like don't have them if you don't want them. And don't just shive them in the system because that's not any better.
About the age difference, I had no idea your ages before watching this and I actually thought that Sam was the older partner--not because of her looks but because of her mature vibe (and because she has a management job, which usually takes a while to grow into). .Just thought I'd share because it's interesting given what was said about 'you have to meet her."
Ik there’s an age gap obviously but just the wisdom and maturity you both have doesn’t make it seem like it. It’s not like Sam is a immature person you guys mesh so well
Ryan’s life flashed before his eyes when Sam said the M word lmao
Ryan quoting Rent so casually LMAO that's how my mind also works on the daily
I have to rewatch the whole video because on the half of it I watched the arcade behind them
Why did you tell me this, you have permanently distracted me
I'm sorry lmao they be jumping jumping in the back 😭
BAHAHA
Rampage is my fave arcade game
15:14 “cutting that out”
Why do I feel like he would be the college professor everyone wants
Since the next one is about illegal question, here's one, do you take soul(s) in exchange for that Ryan as J.D Heathers slime tutorial? willing to sell mine.
Look up Heathers OOBC Slime Tutorial
I would 100% agree with your comments about JD, a British person the context of the show is very different for us because it's not something that we fear or even have to think about in our everyday life. It's still a hard-hitting show of course, but I think maybe less so on the west end because of that.
Commenting on Ryans' last question response, My grandparents when they were younger puts my Grandfather as a senior in HS and my Grandmother in kindergarten. I completely agree with Ryans' deep philosophical responses and this one was no different. The expectation of age differences and a big one I came to understand is the man is always older than the women, your reminiscing on these prompts is incredible.
Thank you so much for your discussion of the children question. It’s really aggravating that people tend to just assume that all women want children.
I just want to say that I admire both of you so incredibly much. Ive looked up to Ryan ever since he was on Disney and then now I found this channel and its helping me so much during a time when I'm going through a lot and when the pandemic is really hard on me mentally but this is really making me happy. and sam I just want to be like you I think you are so cool and inspiring
"Threatening marriage" is my new favorite take on discussing putting on the world's smallest pair of handcuffs.
(If people want wedding rings, great, do you, but I just don't see the point.)
Thank you guys for being so honest and open about your life and experiences! It’s very refreshing to see that in people on TH-cam/social media.
My parents are almost 8 years apart and have been married for 30 years. “Making it work” is such an awfully worded phrase. If it’s meant to be it’s meant to be. No extra work is put into the relationship because of an age gap.
I love that you guys are so communicative and mature. That’s what makes a good relationship!
Thank you for talking about not wanting to have kids. I always say that and everyone just says to me you'll change your mind. I love how you worded how it is to feel this way because you hit the nail on the head. Women shouldn't be expected to have kids or expected to want them.
i really love how you guys dont just answer the questions but start a discussion and talk for a bit
I relate to the age gap question. My boyfriend is 10 years older than me and the amount of questions and judgments I got was ridiculous and they knew literally nothing about him. While we have a decent gap, he is literally the best thing that has ever happened to me and makes me so happy. Age is just a number, and you shouldn' t let it control your life. Just don't be a creep. :)
I love that Sam brought up the importance of having children because you want to and have stability (financially and mentally) not just because your body is able to do so. I’m 19years old in my second year of university, n my family (Greek n Venezuelan) always ask me when I’m going to get married and have kids. It surprises me that it still shocks them every time I say I want to establish myself in this world before I commit to a serious relationship and raiding a human being.
I love how you answered the children question, Sam. I love children like you do. That's why I became a primary school teacher. But I don't want to have children of my own and I think many people don't understand it. So thank you for answering like you did. Love from Switzerland.
It makes me happy to know I'm not alone in this and someone whom is a good role model with alot of fans is the same way
I CAN’T WAIT!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳
The pregnancy question is awesome! Because as much as I like kids, I could never have a kid as I dont feel comfortable raising them. That question was so beautifully answered!
I had to pause the video because I was laughing so hard at Ryan's expression at 'husband'. lol Also my parents are 7 years apart and will be married for 29 years this year. I agree that age doesn't matter (as long as it's legal), it matters about mentality, where the two are in their lives, and how well they communicate with each other.
I really identified with your age difference, and starting your relationship at 18. I also dealt with the fact that my now husband was from Argentina. (me being from North Dakota) A lot of conversations of having to explain how we met and finding it necessary to always give the back story.
I don’t want to wait 😢I wish I could watch it now
Thank you guys for teaching me so many things about how messed up the world.
Heathers is seen as fine on the West End. The last school shooting the UK had was Dunblane in 1996. Also thank you for setting the path for Heathers West End we wouldn't have it without you.
Love this! And love the assumption idea!
You guys are such a beautiful couple ❤️
Hi guys, I am a huge fan. U guys are my idols and I love all ur vids. U guys inspire me every day. Love u guys so much 💖💖💖
I LOVE SAMS SHIRT!!!!
Great questions guys! I enjoyed that a lot!
15:35 - 15:41
Cue Ryan hastily proposing to Sam out of sheer terror
Sam mouthing OMG is everything 😂
I’m living for the subtle rent reference (boys girls I can’t help it baby) 😂
Ryan in this vid really said "marriage? im only 27 what am i a child bride??"
I’m glad Sam said what she said about having children cause I’m in the same boat but for some other reasons 💜
And Ryan. So thank you both
I LOVE THE FRIENDS REFERENCE
This is a literal textbook Monica and Chandler relationship
Wow i fund ur channel this week and i love it u guys are so interesting!
boys, girls, I can’t help it baby. LOVE the rent reference 😉😉😉
love you both sm!
They're a really cute, cool couple. Good for them. Love samantha, & ryan seems like a smart, good guy too. Bummed to hear about cj & hannah tho! I didn't know that...
I love how you film some vids at Hi5 ❤️
I need more videos like this. Like style of videos like this is cool.
I was hoping there was a question about their opinion on weed, thinking I’d never get one, and was very pleasantly surprised by the first question. ☺️💨🌱🌱
The answer Sam gave to the last question, YES GIRL. I hate when people ask me that exact same question.
Sam will have kids with 4 legs and fur just like me
I have family that don't want children but still love kids including her step kids and step grandchild and supporting there wishes is the best thing. Age gaps mean nothing if you don't have an issue in your relationship with the age gap.
Sam letting her deepest thoughts slip😂
“Threatening marriage” 😂
Did Ryan's reaction to being called her husband make anyone else sad? 😥 Like, is that not what you want?
I think it's probably just not something they're ready for so her saying it probably just took him by huge surprise.
there’s no expectation to get married ! it’s not a requirement and it doesn’t validate a relationship.
Thank you both (Sam especially) for being so eloquent in your explanation why you don’t personally want kids, I feel the exact same way!! As a 24-yr old woman the pressure is so real. (Especially when I have a “bubbly”/caring personality, and love my younger cousins/babies/etc which is misconstrued as me wanting any of my own). I think it’s very mature to know what we’re capable and acknowledging the massive responsibility becoming a parent is, it isn’t something to be taken lightly!!
“in montana” 👐🏼 👐🏼 i loled
im having soup for dinner rn and thought of y’all LOL
“Calm down chandler” 😂😂
My parents are seven years apart, and they’ve been “making it work” for over twenty one years.🙃
Same
I really don't understand the issue of an age gap. My boyfriend and I have a 5-year age gap and we've been together for over 3 years. There's nothing to "make work" because it just does work. Though we started dating when I was 23 and he was 28. Yes, he was older and had "more experience" but so did I in other aspects at a young age compared to him at his point of his life. On another note, Ryan's reaction to the husband comment was hilarious. They've talked about the importance of having the marriage conversation before so it was extra funny to me.
sam is such a Monica lol...we love it though
Also I love the last question sam answered about WHEN bc that is such an expectation of uterus owners. I myself am one and ppl have once expected me to want kids or have them. But as a person. I don’t want em. I don’t want to birth kids or even adopt them. Kids are fine. Just like in small doses. I agree with sam there.
Also while I don’t have a huge age gap w my husband. I am 6 months older than him. People always find it hilarious bc I am way way shorter than he is. I’m 4’11 and he is 6’2 ish. Lolol. I’ll pop in like HAHA I HAVE SENIORITY I WIN sometimes and he just laughs. It’s so funny.
i went back to some old videos and i just realized the Matthias and the gramma from sponge-bob drawing in the back and i’ve been dying for five minutes
Are we just ignoring the backward high five at 0:46 seconds ? 🤣 idk why but now I wanna high-five like that forever
“ Threatening marriage” 😂😂
The way Ryan FREAKED OUT about Sam saying husband, even though they live together and have been together for a while hahaa! (I get they aren’t ready, no pressure, but just funny that it scared him!)
Please show us your puppies! They have to be so cuteee! I have a pomeranian at home too and she's the most adorable thing ever
What is your favorite type of flooring??
I didnt even realize sam worked for Hi5, I watch dope or nope all the time, and team edge lol! Also with the kids thing I'm the same way, my plans are college, move to Orlando, get a job and then literally vlog at disney and universal in my time, I'm not going to deal with kids at theme parks 😂
*posts it early just to tease us*🙄✋
Sam, how about Babysitting? I think you && Ryan would be amazing with that! ^_^
LMAO NOT ME WONDERING WHO THE COOL ONES ON DISNEY CHANNEL WERE
Idk why but when I have your videos on the background while I take test I get much better scores
I think Samantha would or is an amazing aunt 😁
i was gonna go listen to defying gravity but then i saw this 💖💖
TEA but so true
First, when did the hair change? I missed that somehow. Also, as far as age goes, the older you get, the more okay large age gaps become. For example, at 41, it would not be terribly crazy that I'm dating a 28yo. It's all about how you vibe, and if it works, that's all that matters. There will always be people who don't agree with your life choices, and all you need to do is ignore them because it's your life, not theirs.
Sams face at 15:43 has me rolling
I totally agree with your statement about kids. I personally really want kids in the future but my own mother actually never wanted children. I was an accidental pregnancy and faced some not-so-nice parenting because she never wanted children in the first place. Do👏not👏have👏children👏if👏you👏don’t👏want👏them👏
Yes.
My eyes watered so much from the sexy husband comment
HI DADDY!!!!!!!!!!!!