THAPPAD | Taapsee Pannu | Anubhav Sinha | Bushan Kumar | Trailer Reaction | Jaby Koay
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2024
- Jamazing Patrons of January: Irfan Kasmani, Avijit Singh, Madhan, Bhavya Singh, Riju Mahna, and Arush Dayal!
Be a patron for Jaby and support more videos like this!
/ jabykoay
___________________________________________________
Trailer Link:
• THAPPAD TRAILER: Taaps...
___________________________________________________
SOCIAL MEDIA:
~ACHARA KIRK~
Twitter & Instagram: @AcharaKirk
/ achara
~JABY KOAY~
TH-cam, Twitter, Instagram: @jabykoay
Facebook: / followjaby
~VEERENDRA CHOWDARY~
Veerendra Chowdary created the opening animation.
Twitter: @NameisVeeru
~MOOSA RAZA~
Moosa Raza created additional background animation.
Instagram: @syedraza7
Twitter: @MoosaRaza27
___________________________________________________
Jaby WEST:
/ getjaby
Jaby ASIA:
/ jabytv
JABY KOAY'S SHORT FILMS PLAYLIST:
• JABY'S SHORT FILMS & F...
Click here to subscribe and know when the next video drops:
www.youtube.com...
Thanks for watching!!!
__________________________________________________
#Thappad #TaapseePannu #Reaction
Why didn't he slap his boss in anger? Because he can't. Not even 1 slap.
Best comment I've read
I wish more people read this particular comment...!!..Nails how that one slap is not just a slap.
That's what i m thinking too
See whenever one party is in hold of too much power,he is bound to suppress ,humiliate others
So in case of ladies
Like u see when a mother who was some decade ago a bahu and now when she has become mother in law ,now she us in power ,n she will do this things to her bahu.
Hope i m convey it rightly.
Exactly my thoughts!!
Abhi after seeing bigboss and sidnaaz ab muje pta chala thappad is also expression of love and fry pan also 😂
What makes it worse is he says ‘it happens’ and not a ‘I am sorry’
Exactly. Condition.
correct ... If I slap you or u slap me and suddenly feel sorry about it... its natural...should not have happened but not a serious concern...... but If I slap you or u slap me and feel its okay ...there whole problem lies....and most important man slap women or women slap man ... rules should be same
EXACTLY. That is a manipulative behaviour
my ex husband said after beating me up so badly that men have testosterone so its natural for a men to beat their wives...he too didn't regret it even for once😞
@@shrutiverma5631 shame on him
Achara's opinion is bang on. She gets the whole plot really well.
All the time. Her reference are so right always.
Abhi bigboss dekhe aaya waha to ulta chal raha h thapar & fry pan 😂
Aaj k promo m bhi shenaz to thappad mara
@@vvraj2617 kyun woh cancer dekhte ho?😂
@@vvraj2617 😂😂😂
This movie addresses almost everything which went against "Kabir Singh"
Wait, they weren't married. That wasnot the case of divorce.
Okay in Kabir sing.. he got slapped in the end as well. There slapping is not a sign of dominance. He completely accepted that he would get slapped if he’s done something bad.
I strongly support slapping there. I can’t say, same goes here,
@@saimithunkalvala9350 will you be ok ?if if you sister ,daughter cousin or any friend have an equation or relationship like Kabir and Preety.
Yeashmeen Rashid I would be okay even if it’s all of them. I might be angry but I would make peace with it If they are happy don’t feel dominated.
@@saimithunkalvala9350 lets talk about the "need" why was slapping even important or logical or why people act as if its super normal and not offensive
You or anyone else have a relation of love with your mother as well you love her, care for her, act crazy, be stubborn, act all childish (like in a romantic relationship) but can you slap your mother for anything if your answer is no its because of respect and your upbringing but when its gf or wife we are talking its debatable WHY, is she not worthy of respect
"India has the least divorce rate" some people think that its a good thing like our marriages last compared to other cultures aka its better but the reality is far from it "lowest divorce rate" means that the relationship is not amongst equals,it has unhealthy power dynamics,one is compromising and suppressing way more than other or both are extremely unhappy but are more worried about prejudice. This needs to change, the"divorcee" stigma should go away. This movie apart from domestic violence covers this too & i am glad
That is a point I have stated on several platforms.
Indians take pride in "successful marriages" but that is such a false image we chose to believe in. Only a woman knows.
So the divorce can make everything better. Lol
@@vaibhavlondhe1296 yes. Considering how indians enter into Blind marriages (also called Arranged marriages), without even knowing who they are marrying, divorce rate should be even higher than other countries.
Also, kindly tell me how many people are you friends with who have slapped you in public (not as joke) and even hit other times in private/public. How much effort do you put to KEEP the friendship alive with them even after getting beaten?
@@vaibhavlondhe1296 If by divorce making things better you mean that you don't have to live with someone who you don't want to live with.... Then YES divorce makes things exponentially better.... Staying married shouldn't be a challenge,which many indians consider it to be,that NO we'll change ourselves, sacrifice just so that we can stay in this unfulfilling legally bound relationship that we are unhappy in.... it's a eutopian thought that "Indian marriages" are different from other places,our marriages last so long solely because we consider killing ourselves from within better than killing the god forsaken relationship in front of society.
*Because* Jo Log Khud Ki Marzi Se Shadi Nahi Kar Paate Toh Divorce Kya *Karenge* 🙂
Achara is spot on.
The lead character was ignoring herself and focusing on her husband, household, family... sacrificing herself in the process. The slap made her realize, lack of love, and all the unfair treatment.
sacrifising isnt the right wurd
@@ArpitThakur-pw5lqshut up chigma
@@ArpitThakur-pw5lq wut is ?
In car she says she is tired and need to sleep but he replies am not sleepy it means even if a woman is tired she should offer him sex, these all the things she ignored before she got slapped
It's a slippery thing. If he says it in a laughing way it might sound like he's trying to tempt her but in hindsight it would be he isn't listening to her. It can sometimes take an accumulations of these small things before one becomes aware. For her the slap was an instant wake up call that this is what he thinks of me. I'm under him not with him. Words and actions a man does when things are most stressful is really his true self. The other is just his civilized facade he put on to walk out in the world.
@@lifetobelived9102 yeah it may be slippery but he also said that "learn how To make paratas first" when she asked him "mai bhi driving seekh lo "?
This movie is an amazing one.....
Only if u get it....
That was a joke. He clearly wouldn't wake up and force her. You make it sound like it'd lead to Marital rape. It was him trying to convince a little, a trick to tempt.
that was just a joke kind of thing....lyk couples don't tease each other ??let's just focus on the msg of this movie
Jaby, the whole point is that the slap made her realise that there’s a lot more wrong and unbalanced in the relationship that came to the fore with the slap. The fact that he disrespected her physically meant that he disrespected her mentally and in the relationship already. We need to define our boundaries of respect before we enter a relationship so that it never has to come to physical violence. Hope this helps 😊
The story is not just about a slap, as stated in the trailers the slap reminded her of all the things that she ignored all this time and this can been seen that his husband was just dominant and there was an ego in play, he didn't let her go he filled under the law to forcefully get her back by hook or by crook, painting her that she is not in right mind giving proves like no one saw in the party any act of violence. So this topic not just white or black it's about man ego the society around men how he didn't really loved her and when he slapped her he only wants her back to correct his image in society.
Glad to see men understand women's perspective so well!! Definitely this points to something positive.
@H J yes he is an a* hole, because as i stated the society pressure is also in picture and if he is getting affected by that then he is more than an a* hole.
I am sitting on by bed and applauding your reply and totally being proud of a stranger's comment. 👏👏👏👏
its true and his brother is realize his mistake at end of the movie and her lady accept its thats nice but so late . It's probably in genes in upbringing you said you are not like that but some point of time you like that only its very few treated boy and girl equalised manner but actually not I love last seen when taapsee was taking with her mother-in-law its not that melodramatic but need that scene. few character undrestand but saying just move on in different way ,but protagonist in the movie taapsee was saying you had not console me or not came at the time of after that slapped scene at the party and everything over no one came at that night to talk to me thats your mistake and they accept thta nice.everything is good but raise question woman keep going patriarchy is some way push ahead blindly sometime .they dont want bad but men take pride as i control woman its wrong, its understanding and reading is important.our culture is good patriarchey is every country and religion also equality in men and women is hard in massive scale but we keep going and make equality its take time .movie is taking nice footsteps in deeep way.
This what a beta male simp will say
Sandeep Vanga: Slapping is love
Taapsee: NO.
And No means No!!!
Well it totally depends if a couple is happy slapping each other ( like kabir singh and preeti) who are we to judge ?
@@chromatron5230 that means they both need therapy
Bites are expression of love why dont a slap 😁😂😂😂
Sandeep Vanga: How many slaps do you want?
Taapsee: NO
This movie was long term coming and everyone needs to see this movie.
The point of showing the maid's incident is to bring the possibility of recurrence of domestic violence in a relationship in to light because if someone doesn't oppose a wrongdoing for first time, it just gives power to the oppressor to repeat it in worse forms
True....started once...n repeats then
The maid has a tight financial situation, like many lower middle class women, is heavily dependent on her husband and she knows her famiily will disown her as a "characterless unsaankari aaurat" if she said she left her husband because of a slap. There are still many parts of India especially lower class societies that consider "divorce worse than death" and unsaanskari and expect women to shamelessly accept and tolerate everything
I like how you said domestic violence and not man beating woman.
Well said
So true.
Light : I m the fastest
Jaby koay: hold my reaction⌚
Orher Times he's late
I swear, i see all new trailers right here on this channel
Ye
The thing is when a husband gets frustrated he can slap, misbehave, use filthy words with his wife and everyone says "it happens, you need to adjust."
But by any chance a wife gets frustrated and says something bad, she is a very bad girl and a woman who breaks the marriage!
I freaking hate this bloody mentality.
It's completely opposite here in the US.
@@MercuryGodz equality should not be compromised. Every gender has same human rights. 😔
Give as good as you get or better cope as good as you give!
@@ShriyaPujari All I'm saying is that Thankfully here in the States, People don't have that low mentality like lot of people do in India.
@@MercuryGodzi am not discussing country, coz everyone everywhere is not like that. I am discussing those few poor mentality. Generalizing is another poor mentality. Get well soon.
The moment you slap your partner, you just lost all the respect. And a relationship without respect is just dead meat. What is the point of two people living together if they don't respect anymore
Not just slap, any kind of physical abuse. And that includes both the genders....
bang on, can't agree more..
wrong , It is not slap thing. I know many friend involved in physical abuse but after that thing were resolved and they are more in love.
Physical abuse is dangerous when one person in already emotionally and mental weak in relation due to past incidents ,then slap act as catylist and medium to escape from negative environment.
@@manansharma4178 more in love?
Kon hai ye log, kahan se aate hai log😂
@@gethulked101 same thing. Physically abuse is a big No No.
I mean come on, if your wife slaps you, will you respect her?
The 'perfect' life initially Jaby is talking about is what the problem was. Achara saw it differently. That's the difference between a man's view and a woman's view. Often women realize after something big happens how unfairly they were treated. Even in their good moments, they were living for someone else. Probably that is what Tapsee's character wanted to say at the end. And yes, it's just about divorce I guess. Though it should domestic violence too.
Umm just a slap and domestic violence?
@@maneeshd3 a man who slaps a women isnt a man anyway. that man should get his hands chopped off
@@arundhar5791 Dude, It's not being a man or woman. It's just you can't hit someone.
@@CrazyMantriOfficial It is true, But you can hit men, whenever theirs fight you can. but you cant hit a women. and I have seen many people when fighting hitting a women also. shameless people are they. these are basic morals that you learn from your mother while growing up. I guess those people dont have a mother. probably thats why they were not taught about these things.
@the walking undead Its wrong, very wrong. shame on that women. but thats not a reason for a man to attack her back. stupid
Achara's opinions & points are just soo great. I mean she has that level of deep understanding. Hats off girl!!
I think the movie is delving into emotional abuse, which sometimes takes a turn towards physical abuse. In Indian society, emotional abuse is so normalised, that a slap sometimes is taken as an extension of that emotional abuse. Even a woman's family rarely supports her if she is vocal about any kind of emotional abuse.
For Tapsee's character the slap must have brought up a realisation of ongoing emotional abuse, which perhaps was ignored earlier by her. For ages since financial independence lay predominantly in the hands of the husband, wives have so very often given into a lot, due to a lack of financial security & family/societal support.
Someone gets it!!
"starting a relationship is easy , sustaining isn't"😔😔
But that's the truth. Why the sad emoji????
@@nikitamohan3390 for those who think relationship is truly a joke😔
@@meenaragyor It's not a joke but sustaining a relationship isn't easy
@@nikitamohan3390 you are right😔
This is a modern world drawback as womens are going out & getting financially independent (totally I ain't against it) they are kind of reprogramming the natural phenomenon which female species are bound to do for thousands of years so it's getting *tougher* for them to maintaining relations and nurturing family
This movie is based on like one slap but the underlying problem here is that in our societies including india pakistan ... we are brainwashed... the husband was not at all apologetic the slight pleads to forgive him were when they were alone while he was not even considering this as a big deal second the moment she filed a petition he just showed his deeper mentality by bashing her and that is true flip this situation think about it if a wife has slapped his husband in public what would have happened...??? The problem here is not a slap but the mentality... the ugly black hole of patriarchy which is swallowing our whole societies.... SICCCCKKKKK
On point👌🏻
so true, the culture is the main problem. when i used to tell my mom and dad and even relatives or other people how i don't like when dad hits my mom, they used to say it happens in every family and so it's okayy, how does popularity of something make it right?!!! very ridiculous
Though "THAPPAD" generally symbolizes violence, here its more of a wake-up call to all those unfair things she was ignoring.
The only thing you guys ignored completely in your discussion is how the elders reacted to this situation . Forget about the trailer itself,in real issues too the relatives , the elders creates pressure for compromising things . The victims mostly stay calm for that reason . But yeah the reason may be different such as financial ,social etc as Achara addressed already. The only thing looks plastic to me in the trailer is slap in front of the public . Most of the domestic violence happens behind the close doors .....
She went to the lawyer in the beginning, because her husband was suing her for leaving without a cause. It's a part of the Hindu Marriage Act, restitution of conjugal rights by the husband. So then presumably she has to go to court to prove that he wronged her in a grave manner and why a slap is not just a slap. It looks like he is the one who got the lawyers involved, at least at first glance.
Why is that in HINDU LAWWW ?!!!?
Yes. Restitution of conjugal rights is issued in cases where one partner has left the marital home or withdrawn from the responsibility in a marriage. The decree is to ensure that the marital duties be followed again. In this case, filed by the guy so that Tapsee's character comes back home to him.
@@eeshairfann to ensure that one spouse cant just turn his or her back towards the other without a just cause
Thanks for that clarification. Very helpful in understanding the trailer. I didn't know what restitution of conjugal rights
@@eeshairfann Because there's this 7 vows thing when you marry under Hindu act and as much as it is peachy and beautiful it's a pain in the ass.
I think she was like so much in love with him and she thought he loves her too but that slap made her realise that other things are important to him(like that fight regarding that company stuff in that party) and all other things she ignored thinking like that's just normal n he loves her just as much n that slap just broke all those beliefs rather all those little things she ignored before came right before her eyes with a new point of view. So these things made her realise she doesn't love him anymore. So that thapad was not "bus itni si baat" for her (Yes that slap was not justified even though it was done in rage cuz then maybe , hypothetically, he would be then playing pubg next day n she does something to ruin it by mistake n he would slap her again in rage. It's just a joke guys😒) so rage should be justifible like someone dies or something.
Totally Agreed Bro U can't hit "Thappad"
have u ever slapped ur parents? then why slap wife? Theres a different between fun slap and anger slap. know that
@@msaruthra wife is not your parent first of all, your friend does hit you at times when he is frustrated, and also u do the same! This relationship is just a bond like friendship, ur partner should be your best friend first. When something goes wrong we discuss and sort it out! Not like "kg ka baccha" " katti" aj se no friendship!
Exactly like the divorce here
@@avishekdasgupta2918 I see your point. Respect and love (together and in that order) are the unwritten laws of a healthy relationship - be it friendship or marriage. When someone even unintentionally breaks the law, it calls for genuine repentance, tangible commitment to 'righting' the wrong and patient seeking of forgiveness by the perpetrator. The husband character in this trailer didn't do any. On the contrary, he goes on to further harm her through false accusations. Sad reflection of what many women in our part of the world go through. DV is a dominant issue across social strata in the subcontinent and many patriarchal cultures, not just India.
After seeing bigboss and sidnaaz ab muje pta chala thappad is also expression of love 😂
This film is a tight slap on Kabir singh filmmakers and its fans.
lmao yes, Kabir Singh fans in this very comment section are so triggered
I won't say it's a tight slap on the fans considering people can like movies without liking the main character, although I do feel that movie lacked plot depth and direction.
But you're right when you say it's a slap to the filmmakers mainly the director who gave a really regressive and controversial statement
True, but what I think is that why do 90% of the people only criticise Kabir for slapping and not Preeti for also doing it. Both shouldn't slap each other, period.
Man I came to know this trailer has released by your notification 😂😂😂😂
When someone u love slaps you it breaks something in u, it becomes so hard to forgive them and love them like before, I am 22 yrs old and my father slapped me last year and over a really petty issue, my mom was at my nani's house and accidentally spilled the milk on the stove I was doing something else side by side and got distracted. When he saw that started shouting at me , and after a point I talked back to him and we started arguing, one thing lead to another and he hit me two times so hard that i heard a keeee sound in my ear, thankfully my brother saved me otherwise he would have hit me more, I couldn't stay at my house after that and left for my nani house too, I cried all the way in that 6 hours journey and was just about faint when reached there,it's been 6 months since that day and I still haven't talked to him, and he never apologized to me, my mom was so angry that day and all he said was she is my daughter too I lost control and these things happen.
I never felt so worthless like felt that day it was like somebody punched a hole in my heart and stripped away my pride. It was also big shock because except few childhood handlings I have never been beaten since I grew up , and my father always loved and treated me on the same level as my brother.whenever I remember that day I feel so disgusted with my father that my whole heart gets filled with hatered and loathing. People just think that it is just a slap but it is always so much more.
@@shimab8898 I'm really sorry that you are having to go through this. I had episodes where I didn't talk to my father for a long time because I was so upset with him. It's hard. Hang in there and stay strong.
@@CineDesi sometimes I wonder whether I will be able talk to him again. It was so hard coming back home after that incident. My mom tries to persuade me to be kind and forgive him and there are times when I want to but then those moment replay in head and my heart fills up with so much bitterness and just can't.
Anyways thanks for your kind words it means a lot. You and achara are awesome, I love you a lot. 😊
I'm sorry what you had to go through. I understand the situation and stand by the unfairness of it all. However, as a part of you already know, it is also important that you mend the relationship with your dad.
Our elders, especially in Asia, can be very ego-centric and there are some things they just cannot let go of despite realising their fault. Perhaps we need to take the first step in some cases and I'm sure they'll join in to forgive each other and more importantly, forgive yourselves. With family, it's okay if you lose a point or two for the greater good.
In your case, you could speak or even write to him, revisiting the day but not accusing him of wrongdoing as he already knows that and blaming himself and feeling guilty in his mind but it may just be his ego holding him back from expressing it. This may sound unfair but I suggest that you apologise for 'talking back' as a first step and then lay out how it was a silly matter that shouldn't have escalated to where it has and how you would love to have your relationship restored. Forgive me if I'm oversimplifying things here but the joy you feel when you fix broken things can overpower everything else.
I've been through similar experience in my family. That person never apologized and I never talked to him after that. Its been years now.
He hits you once, he will do it again. If you take that in silence, that's not love. That's abuse.
All the women out here please have respect and dignity in who you are. No man can ever raise a finger at you. Angry, drunk doesn't matter. Never. Ever. A lot of people don't realise when a relationship becomes toxic. Love doesn't mean enduring pain.
@@yc-hi8ou and you seem like the people she is talking about.
Amirah Dixit is that suppose to mean something? Why don’t try and make some bloody sense. People like who is talking about? Stupid! Maybe someone needs to slap you!
@@dobbyssmellysocks7327 - Well said Amirah.
@@yc-hi8ou well guess what even you didn't make any sense when you labeled her as a 'home wrecker' just by reading her comment....maybe you are one of those men she is talking about..that's why you got so triggered. Lol
@@meswets thanks
I have seen so many domestic abuse victims as patients and when they are asked why didn't they defend and how it started, they will say it all started with a slap, or some verbal abuse or some insult. But it really starts with not having the right to make your own decision or taking away your choice.
People saying it's just a slap,why divorce, forget that when you let someone talk over you in a conversation, you are telling them, that yes you can talk over me, you can decide for me, you can verbally abuse me in front of friends and family, yes you can hit me. It also takes away your own confidence to stand up for yourself. You get used to the abuse just as much as your abuser because you are scared to stand up for yourself, because you didn't stand up for yourself when it started. The victim is as much responsible for the continuation of abuse as much as the abuser because they let the abuser hit them.
Beside would you let a tumor grow or nip it out when it is really really small.
I have seen many domestic abuse victims as a doctor and you see pain in their eyes because they weren't listened to by their closest family members. Fathers who put 'ghar ki izzat' over their daughter's life.
And yes domestic abuse can be dangerous, seen a patient with an abrasion covering her entire upper back because her husband dragged her on floor with her hair, seen a woman with fractures in both her forearm.
What if a woman slaps a man? Well then that is wrong. Can a man seek divorce,he definitely should. Violence of any kind is wrong no matter what the gender of the person. And it is not about hitting, it's about power. You tell the person you can't hit me like that, if you did there will be consequences, you are taking the power they have over you away from them and that is the right way to go forward.
Such wise words.
Someone should make a movie about parents who control every moment of their children's lives and choose a career path for them that they loathe. Something that shows how emotionally exhausted children get when parents don't make an effort to see things from their perspective.
We have seen a bunch of movies about parents getting ridiculed and abandoned by their children and it is indeed a pressing issue. But, I am yet to watch a bollywood movie addressing children's issues after Taaare Zameen Par.
Btw, Thappad was great. It unveiled the unsaid things in a relationship. The only thing that felt wrong was, it focused too much on some unnecessary stuff, which took the attention away from the issues that the film intended to address.
3 idiots touches on that to some extend
udaan is one such movie
The Dead Poets Society does explore a part of that. Do watch it.
@@anandisinghania7330 udaan is more based on the fact of masculinity. I don't think the father would have had a problem if the child had chosen football, cricket or been a doctor. What the father thought was that being an poet is not masculine enough. Which was actually a great topic, your masculinity or femininity doesn't depend on your gender. Men can also embrace femininity and women can embrace masculinity. And being masculine doesn't mean that you can't show emotions, emotions are genderless. So I lived that movie.
One thing I noticed that neither in the comments nor in the reaction did anyone seem to allude to is during their so called peachy/idyllic moment in the car she congratulates him on his success with a kiss and he tells her to wait until after they're home. She says she's sleepy but he says he isn't. So is he forcing her to be intimate when she isn't ready for it? I believe so.
NK KN yes she would think it’s not martial rape but after the slap she will realise that it was martial rape
Woow hold on. They never showed he was forcing himself on her. Looked they were just having some fun. Also that was placed in a part of the trailer where the point was "there were so good to each other and loved each other. Nothing that indicates any marital rape.
Woah woah it's called joking around. It's not the same at all had this escalated to him forcing himself on her then i get it but they are just messing around.
@@rashmisajjan7234 its not funny at all.
I think we'll get to know that after watching the film....it could be marital rape or maybe not
I never knew that it's the issue in middle class families too until once it slipped from my cousin sister's mouth that she got slapped by her husband and there were other people too there but everyone pretended as if they didn't heard anything....shocking!!!
Also my maid comes with a blue face every third day usually. Her drunk husband beats her badly. We've asked her to think about it and it's wrong but she says "she still love him" and can't leave him bcoz of financial issues too. That's so messed up!
Taapsee is always impressively perfect playing versatile roles 🤩😘😍🤗😃😎 ossum actress love taapsee.
Naam Shabana ,Baby, Saand ki aankh,Pink are really versatile roles played by taapsee for women empowerment I think some people who don't even know how to judge 🙄🙄🤨🤔 the best roles played by actresses or actors their dedication, and that's why people really loved her in this roles specially womens worldwide ,haters BS will always comment negative 😜😜😜 I can hear🙉🙉 their jealousy🤣🤣🤣.
@Ronnie Jacob she's not a director she's actress she's doing what she's told by director, or what the roles come to her and as per my point of view every success takes some time in life to be achieved, if you really want to judge an actor or actress don't think like director see the role she or he is playing that's called perfect judgement that's my point of view, in future she will acheive awards my best wishes with her.
@Ronnie Jacob I respect your thinking and view hope she gets totally different kind aa roles in future from which she would be Highlighted world wide hope so..!
@Ronnie Jacob Go and watch BADLA. Thats not women empowerment I guess.
I hate when Jaby does this. I HATE it. Jesus. Just because the topic is one where women are the victims, doesn't mean you shouldn't voice your opinion or that the opinion doesn't matter. These are societal problems. We all exist in society. We ALL are part of the problem. Women can oppress women. Men can help emancipate women. There are all permutations and combinations.
There's no point of movies like these if one whole gender chooses to not participate in the conversation.
But us men as a gender are now too scared to be vocal against females bcoz then we're branded as misogynists, chauvinists, sexists, flag-bearers of patriarchy & what not
The whole conversation goes down the drain & no-one sees what's the point one was trying to make
This isn't as common in India yet but it has started here as well & is on a rapid rise
U can see it in most media platforms, entertainment industry, metro cities & among educated, middle class sections of the society
In countries like US, UK, Australia etc. this culture has been in existence for almost a decade now, so most people have just grown accustomed to it where they can't be vocal against anything that just seems like it's pro-women
The one person who might get totally offended is sandeep Reddy vanga( director of Arjun Reddy)!! Let's c wat the audience do to this movie..
th-cam.com/video/mGHu8ntVrIw/w-d-xo.html
💖💋💖💋💖💋💖💋💖💋
There's surprisingly a lot of bozos who are offended by this. They're saying that it's pseudo feminist since it pushes the narrative that a man shouldn't slap a woman and not the other way around. I swear these people are the same people who like Kabir Singh and Arjun Reddy and think that THAT MOVIE is feminist.
Parents love their children, then why do they beat them at times and regret later?
Same is the problem with "Relationships".
Parents should teach their children that violence and love are two different things. Only then these children would learn not to beat their spouse in the name of love.
Parents hitting a child is not the same as marital violence. Are you serious???
If someone's parent hitting them after the age of 18, then they already did very bad job at parenting. How and why would a grown person learn from violence?
Though we need to understand, in marriage, couples are partner, means equal power holder, partners don't try to teach each others. They respect.
@@nikitamohan3390 its the same.
Even in some relationships they use this shitty logic to justify violence as a part of pure love.
@@nikitamohan3390 the logic that you are using to justify violence(slap) against children by their parents is the same logic that misogynists use against their wives.
Intense love they say...
Hahah brother I don’t know if you are right or wrong but i am sure you will get a lot of flak from the females
7:00 When Jaby talked about freedom of choosing her partner , sometimes in indian marriage from girl's side it's not there
I think in this movie...she was happy and she loved him...
1. You can’t lay hand on anyone,
A N Y O N E!
2. She said she has invested everything in the relationship which means it’s a huge and bold decision for her to get rid of the marriage. She knows how the world will fall on her after this, yet she is strict on her point and that proves one thing- the most important of everything - never compromise your self respect for any one.
3. She said something which was the boldest thing I have heard in a long time with such conviction - “I don’t love you”. Even if she isn’t divorced, she will never have a relationship with her husband which is what she thought to be ideal (on her terms)
4. The last dialogue - after the slap, I got to see those things which I always ignored - oh hell, absolutely! Sometimes that jerk is needed in life !
5. People (irrespective of gender) should ever take anyone/anything for granted!
Because in that case, it can be that either of the people might have to pay ! The person who has taken things for granted or the person who was taken for granted!
What a trailer this is, blown away
i think the thing here about her saying "juz made me rethink about the things i been ignoring & moving on" ..... is kinda everyday common circumstance in Indian married life, like he insulted me, it's ok he has the right to do so coz he's my husband ...but .if the same things the women does it's considered as a Big Sin & both family will come together the husband would want to leave her then the family's will conduct a meeting discussion then finally letting him have his unfair-nonsense conditions he's gonna agree to stay married to the lady..... but rest of her life will be like been taunted by the husband,family,relatives etc she's ll have no right to be even have a say in anything happens with her .........but if a women says "am leaving him "then it is considered as Arrogance , why's she making a big deal out of this, it's juz one time, and she's a women she's the one supposed to have patience & let go of things &move on .... and it's not like some stranger did it it's her husband for god sake blah blah blah etc ............
Yeah! Very sad.
Also the fact that if an innocent kid witnesses domestic violence in home, it might be normalized in his/her perspective. Hopefully the younger generation needs to be taught that even behaving in such a way with siblings is not acceptable.
I think you don't know much about world if you believe women are the only victims in domestic violence. There are same no. of cases of women abusing and then take advantage of law for protection of women to keep the dude silence.
Its called DOMESTIC VIOLENCE and not violence against women.
@@GAURAV_RANA_ are you kidding me??
@@GAURAV_RANA_ yes true....but that's not because gender inequality but because of situations....there's a difference
Me after watching the trailer of THAPPAD
You glorify "Kabir Singh",
I glorify "Thappad"!
We're not same 🙂
Hijabi feminist ?
Isn't that supposed to be an oxymoron ?
@@islamislam-zw3il Do you know anything about Feminism?? I doubt.... Hijaab is my choice. Hijaab is my freedom. What is so Oxymoronic about it?
@@islamislam-zw3il Feminism is about equal chance and choices. If hijab is her choice, then no one has the right to tell her otherwise. Get your facts right about Feminism.
@@triptishahi8138 It's no use telling these people. They think Feminism is only about women and also that wearing hijaab is a sign of oppression. Little knowledge is dangerous, rightly said!
Syeda Kahkashan if I brainwash my daughter since young that God doesn’t mind if a husband slaps the wife.. and she is ok with it.. is it also freedom of choice?
Guys this is good movie and voice for female. India,Nepal, Pakistan and Bangladesh. This places people don't take seriously if husband slapped and bitt wife. This is normal in family life.so people don't take it seriously. So good story from my view. This is 21st century. We have to think once for our family. This kind of story have to say now days.its my thinking. That's all.
*You know that the entire point of the movie lies in the "moment he slapped her"*
*Imagine that if it's anyone else other than your wife who would dare to vent their anger on someone else ? "Just because she is my wife" . That one single thought let the men justify everything that they do. And that is exactly what she said. If he slaps me now and I'm approving, then it will mean that I approve to get slaps and all your abuses in the future too.*
*First of all its unfair to vent your anger on someone else. That's the ugly thing most of us hate. But unfortunately human beings including me and you , we all have done that at least once. In a smaller way at least. We always vent our anger on our loved ones cuz we don't have rights on anyone else. But GOING TO THE EXTENT OF SLAPPING A PERSON Literally makes this whole thing ugly. Just because you're angry you can never slap her who did nothing. And just how could you resort to violence all of a sudden. Would you do that if there was someone else ? So is she a lowly character to get that embarassment in front of all ?*
*This is a very first movie that educates about this particular type of abuse, that is slap. If you see any past Indian movies, old and new, there are always scenes of a husband venting his anger on his wife or slaps her out of anger on her. In modern day only Indian women came to know that nobody has any right to hit anybody. But ever since history they're the major victims of everyday abuse. I swear women in India would have gone thru the most physical abuses ever, because they were all "just like that, just because she's my wife, it's a part of relationship, there's nothing wrong with it"*
Hitting someone out of anger is expression of love ?? How can anyone justify that.
Now now now....you will have the whole arjun reddy/ kabir singh squad going crazy explaining how love=abuse😏😆🤷
1AB23C that is straight from Sandeep Reddt interview 😂 Bollywood is trash
One slap can't say that that person doesn't love her it was just a heated moment
The trailer:- Indian husband thought,wife is the one who realise their stress by slaping(or any kind of domestic violence) them......It's not that he slap her in public....he slapped..what shows your love to your wife mr.husband😶....she is not a thing...she have feelings😓
Jaby is online always and stalks Bollywood 😂😂
But missed HACKED!
@@thiscommetwastyped8695 well hacked looks like a Ekta Kapoor serial , so there you go. Vikram Bhatt lost his touch
@@hht6676 But the trailer offers great room for Jaby's discussions.
@@thiscommetwastyped8695 I didnt' miss Hacked. The film company wouldn't release their claim on the video. I think it's on Patreon.
@@CineDesi u think 😆
Arranged marriages are quite prevalent amongst the upper middle class. I feel like the story will be about that too.
Also, the last line should be noted:
It was just one slap, but that made me see all the unfair things that I was ignoring so far.
It’s so interesting to see the two perspectives of a man and a woman watching this trailer. Achara really got it spot on, the story and the emotion behind it. I think Jaby was trying his best to understand and even said he needs to see more of the story because the trailer makes it look like their marriage was great until the slap. But I think what he failed to see was exactly what they showed in the trailer regarding the marriage. The wife waking up before the husband to make him tea, making sure he has breakfast before leaving for work, taking care of his moms health, there’s even a scene where she says she’s tired but the husband says he isn’t, this hints at the fact that she does a lot of things around the home even though she doesn’t work. In other words, she was the “perfect wife” and then she gets slapped.
That 'Suno' short film was great, great, great.
But it didn't had so many perspectives... This movie has. Also, at the end of the film we all would be having some serious thoughts about a lot of things that happen in our life.
It's first time that i disagree with Jabby, it's not female centric, it's human centric, be it man or woman, no one, by that i mean NO ONE should even for once slap or hit his/her spouse..... violence is violence, be it once, twice, thrice, or many more......for that moment you were not loving.....when you love someone, you care everything about that person, no one can hurt that person, not even you.....
But its female centric... Why man is not included in this movie?.. Because women empowering is on its peak that y this type of movie is coming up and tapshee is doing it
@@ashura9386 that's totally upto the viewers, how they relate with the character, that Tapsee played in this movie, that's the whole point, for once if people can see each gender as a human being and not the gender only, it's upto each one of us, who do we choose to be, the abuser or victim or a fighter like the character of Tapsee, i am here totally treating the character, if it would have been a boy's character, i would have related to it as a human, the movie here is showing a lady being the victim here, because of whatever reason, it's upto us how to perceive it, EACH ONE OF US, irrespective of male or female.
@@shahanasaberin1186 very well said... But u know the way our world work... Trending thing are always work.. In current audience
@@ashura9386 definitely, from movie maker's view, showbiz is a business..... everything needs to be for the masses.....so for the movie to work......they will follow the trend and serve to the masses' likes and dislikes....but here, we as audience, rather rational audience should understand the depth of such an issue, which the makers are trying to portray....
Toxic feminity is bursting by this movie.
Some men are like - oh I love this.
This is a slap on Kabir singh...👍
No yeh movie banake makers ne khud Apne muh par thappad mara hai n u talk about Kabir singh apko thappad dikha uska pyaar nhi dikha madam? khud ko barbaad kr liya usne ek ladki ki vajah se
Flop hogi yeh chutipaya
@@prashant2144 bhai..pyaar binaa violence ke bhi kiya jaa sakta hai..hum apne parents se pyaar karte hai..toh thappad maarke thodi na jataate hai
@@vickyb7802 are toh usne Jaan buj ke nhi mara tha thappad khi bar situation asi ho jaati hai ke insaan out of control ho jaata h kbi kbi or parents se Mt compare kro isko
@@prashant2144 Toh situation aise hai karke justify karoge kya? One should not get away from a crime by saying it was situational! Galat galat hota hai. Sirf yehi bata rahe hai
T Series - How many slaps you want in the movie?
Kabir Singh - Yes
Taapsee - NO
React to "Ritviz- Sage"
Or
React to "Ritviz-Liggi"
PLease
Yes these songs re amazing
That's pure definition of a song
I think there will be Three broad story
1. Tapsee (Lead charecter)
2. Lawyer ( Flawed relation)
3. Maid ( underprivileged)
4. And 5. Other such charecter one lost her husband and may be one from Men.
The answer for Jaby's question is.. Men.💁🏻♀️
They don't need any reason. At any given point of time, they'll think they can & it's okay to slap a woman, specially his wife. We're that conditioned.
I think more than the thappad... is thinking that you need to evaluate.. .A man who slap and suddenly realized his mistake and the man slaps and I think it's okay to do it without any regret ....The difference lies here.
Jaby just because it's a female based movie that doesn't mean that u won't talk about it.... It's stupid how ure hesitant.... UNEXPECTED.
No offense.
You know caus if he says anything so called feminist will be triggered.
This actress is badass.I love the films she chooses. They are the best!
This thappad/slap is on #KabirSingh.
India is changing. This movie will change thousands of minds.
Should not
KabirSingh is itself a parody... Drunkard doctor suffering from mental illness, can't control his anger.
i think this movie is just made for the feminist people specially those who were prooved wrong during kabir singh's release
Jaby tell Achara to go first while he figures out what to say.
friday boi well this is ironic.
Was being respectful.
Was being respectful.
@@CineDesi you were being 'two' respectful.
Get it?
Okay I will show myself out.
I guess jaby has some different perspective on this issue but he is not sure if he should talk about it honestly
Yesss
Because this film is totally illogical..
@@hemendrasinghtanwar592 ohh is it so may i ask why????
@@ananya7845 experience
Experience of the last movies of Mr. Anubhav sinha.
Wo social issues ko lete h apni film me, solve karne ke liye nahi, Fake propaganda chalane ke liye.
@@ananya7845 Anyone wont bear to slap his/her female relative.
@@hemendrasinghtanwar592 ohh please which world you live in??women are slapped and kicked and beaten everyday in our country (especially the wives) l dont know about the director or his motives are but the theme of the movie is something men should think about
Trailer minimum 2 minutes ka aur reviews 15 minutes ka 😂😂😂
Correct....y foreign country k logon ka yhi funda bnta Jara h...views chahiye...to India or Indian chizon s related vd bnao....
@@User_123_abc45 👍👍
When you are truly in love no matter what how angry and frustrated you are,you can't slap in front of so many peoples at least one time it would hit your mind that what you're doing
True
I think the title is suggestive enough. Bas itni si baat(no big deal). It is not about an abusive relationship, it is not about any rebellion, it is not about justice either. When does one seek a counselor? When there's a realization of abnormality. The mother says, it just a slap, the maid says, what if he locks me out and the lawyer justifies it as an expression of love. Nobody sees the damage it sends across lives. My grandmother was slapped by my grandfather, and they didn't speak to each other for a big amount of their marriage. People saw the discomfort, but they didn't realize the damage, cuz it was petty for them. I think it is a condition, for one to understand, in the first place. Only then, does the question arise of whether you want to stay in the relationship, whether you want to seek a counselor or whether it is even ok or not for that matter. It's about the social obligation. If standing by your partner in a marriage is a social obligation, to question it's virtue a social obligation equally
Husband can slap & wife should move on so what if wife slaps? Will husband be ready to move on?
Obviously if he wants
Just realised you deleted your reaction video to the movie. Please reupload it. @jabykoay
This movie is Perfect! I'm 20 and I believe that if we are giving importance to equality, it includes pretty much everything, hitting women even a slap that is wrong, doesn't matter if it's a public place or private, it's just not right. I also don't understand why two people are required to agree to divorce, if one person wants divorce they should get it. It feels like prison. does anyone else agree with me on divorce?
Looks like today's film writers sits in either hospital or court. ☺️
I'm glad issues like these are being addressed. Our country and what we call "Indian culture" is so toxic so, movies like these are a great way to address issues which are generally ignored among people. :)
@@radii2624 yeah like in american culture or western culture domestic violence doesn't happen . Get out of your bubble every culture is flawed don't disrespect Indian culture by calling it toxic just because some people are bad.
@Sam almost every culture is patriarchal.. So what's that gotta do with "Indian Culture" Also i agree that women can't get out of marriage as easily as western culture but also that almost every law favours women more than men.
This is a "thappad" for all Kabir Singh fans
You do realise that this movie will not make a fraction of what KS made because as good as she is, she does not have the star power to pull in people to theatres, hell even Kangana's movie Panga is flopping hard, so I don't know what impact you think it's going to have, they should have probably cast Deepika Padukone.
People really need to chill out... Anyone can like any film... They are all a work of fiction... Attacking people for liking a film is really going overboard...
@@atuldhiman132 Bro totally agree with you, I'm just replying to the misconception that this movie is some kind of grand statement to a different movie, people have crazy ideas what can you say
These film makers are making money by fooling us...
The scene in the car, she says i am sleepy, he says he can't sleep, it looks it was alluding that sometimes they had relations even though she didn't want it at that time.
No. U completely missed the point. She kissed him at first to which he kinda became offensive. It's like, if women initiates love then men have this tendency to think that it's not a decent behaviour by a women. After that when they talked about going home it was just teasing each other.
Dude instead of saying relations just say the word sex. Akshay's chatacter made a very accurate joke on this reluctance to even say the word sex in Good Newwz
@@nikitamohan3390i used the f word and i think it got flagged, so i changed it to relations..because semantics isn't the point here...the point is if the wife changes her mind , but the husband keeps going , she is being an unwilling participant , what do you call that...
When I saw the car scene I thought it was normal among people but when she said that dialogue at the end about all the wrong things she ignored
I immediately remembered that scene and it sounds so wrong. That's ignoring too. She must have been ignoring a lot of things happening to her and around her too which are very normal for other women in our country.
I don't want to disclose who but I watched this movie with a man and what they had to say about it was that she turned this simple situation into an issue when it was an easy thing to resolve .. I couldn't react the way I wanted to as this was an older man and it would definitely lead to an argument but some people feel it's thr woman's fault almost always..
I love jaby's channel. It's not just a silly reaction channel..watching their reaction really adds value to the viewer.. And Achara's a big part of making this magic happen!
agr ldki ne ldke ko thppd mara to case bnega kya
Legally nhi bn skta under Domestic Violence law
The director of Arjun Reddy has never told that physical aggression is an expression of love but instead he said that being physical should not be the barrier for someone to love someone. If you think that you don't love someone because they hit you then that's not love except when the person is hitting his/her loved one for no reason and only he is in charge for hitting on that situation it is not love and they should separate...
Who decides that? You?
@@brascoperryjoe6425 that's how it is but feminists like you would never understand this with the level of ignorance you all Carry...
The most interesting fact about this movie is the reality of every person's thought process.
Men are oblivious to the convenience of having the equation unbalanced to their advantage. But the dilemma is clear in her Dad and brother who want to protect their girl / sister in their own ways.. while they are confused about their partners views too.
The storyline is so real. None of the characters are loud or dark. In a seemingly content ,well off marriage..a husband chooses to publically slap his wife. He is drunk,disappointed and is ruining his career by having a confrontation with his boss. Here the wife intervenes only to protect him. But he chooses to silence or slap her because he doesn't expect a slap or consequence to his act.So it's not provocation but a matter of convenient / safer choice of venting his anger.She is there like a sofa..kicked about
Moreover the onlookers are silent.All expect her to move on . Then the husband justifies his violence but doesn't apologise.
That's where we realise this incident will repeat whenever he experiences stress, failure or losses.. irrespective of all her support and care.
Interestingly as a society we are so obviously unaware of such regressive toxic masculinity which we encourage .
I am intrigued ... I so want to watch this movie ... I am a well read and educated guy who believes gender equality just like all of us ... but the last dialogue that tapasi says about being unfair ... I have started questioning myself ... am I actually practicing gender equality ?... unknowingly are there things that I am doing which are unfair ... l so wanna see this movie to know more
He could have slapped anyone, but he chose to slap his wife, a woman. Cos he thought he can.
Violence is always wrong.
She doesn't need to look for retribution Jaby. She is just looking for justice & honor.
Exactly. He could have hit his boss as he was the one in the argument. But he didn't because he couldn't. He chose his wife instead. That should never be an option. You simply never hit anyone to vent out anger.
This movie seems to be a huge response to Sandeep Reddy Vanga.
P.S. - Based on how he justified his thoughts on domestic violence during his interview.
Ok everyone jaby just delted his thappad review bcz he had his sick thoughts on it and almost everyone hated him for what he had to say .
Jaby why not learn hindi this quarantine ?
8:53 This is where Achara starts to get the plot perfectly. She is awesome.
Females and males don't exist in vaccum. What affects one affects the other too. Female centric or male centric is just a myopic view.
Funny you say that cause it results in the opposite, given that the movie is done properly and fairly. It makes the picture more whole, cause you get inclusion of both sides.
What's wrong with making a movie that is based on one gender's view, especially if it's one people dismiss easily or dont try to understand the full extent to? It's films like this that points out scenarios for the ordinary people to rethink what they think they knew. Wouldnt it be embarassing to not know what the other half of the population is going through ? Like we are not talking about an animal species but humans.
Achara is spot-on. In a marriage, especially Indian marriages, there is tremendous pressure to “show a united front” so that you ignore all the micro aggressions and disrespect that men are raised to believe is okay.
That slap would have been the one thing that made her realise that she couldn’t continue to live like this.
People who think it’s just one slap don’t realize how degrading and dehumanizing it is. It’s not just physically painful, it hurts your emotions, your soul. And for people who think that it’s okay to stay with a man (or woman) who will resort to physical violence, is insane. If you don’t put an end to the relationship when the physical abuse first happens, it gives the individual more power to do that again because they’ve gotten away with it.
I take it you don't believe in therapy or seeking help for that behavior? You're right, unchecked that behavior is statistically likely to repeat itself. Even checked and enrolling oneself in counseling, things like that CAN happen again but I think it dramatically increases the odds of improvement and if the partner you love is taking measures to correct themselves, I don't think it's wrong for the spouse of the abuser to hold out hope that it will improve. You CAN just leave, man or woman, after being abused like that. But I think for society as a whole, it's better that we teach each other to voice opposition to such behavior and introduce methods to correct it. Obviously, it's better that we shape our children into adults that don't resort to such action at all, I'm saying once you find yourself in a situation like that, man or woman. You have options. You can leave, you can stay and take it, or you can take a chance and demand change.
jaby koay actually I’m a psychologist so I’ve dealt with therapy and testing both. I’m currently a psychology professor who talks about the same. And yes, therapy can do wonders to adjust behavior and thought processes, but that’s IF the person involved wants to.
My comment was directly in response to some comments that talked about the upswing of feminism and/or this movie coming just as a response to Kabir Singh. Additionally, my comment was more indicative of conservative societies who make excuses for such behavior. The problem with some societies/cultures is the inherent patriarchy paves the way for a lot of men to go unchecked and/or feel that they have the “right” to treat the women in as they wish. This (Indian) society is also one which puts the burden of relationships on women and their potential failure also on women. In these societies girls grow up following what their fathers and brothers tell them, then what their boyfriends/husbands tell them...they don’t necessarily get the self confidence to choose themselves. I’m not saying a person can’t change, I’m also not saying that breaking the relationship is the only way when slapped (this trailer) but it’s very important to notice the toxicity and not allow anyone to condone it.
The sad reality is that Tapsee's character could leave her husband after he slapped her but if she had children with him I can guarantee you she wouldn't have left him. So many woman stay in respect devoid marriages for the sake of their children and this is the sad reality.
no she would in the movie she got to know she got pregnant during the process of divorce and she still went ahead with it
Stupid movie.Violence is wrong but why drag court in it. There are so many cases already pending of murder,rape etc.He said sorry to her ,he regrets it. What more can he posssibly do? .if she had so many problems in past then she should have already told him.A couple lives so many years together ,there can be fights .If someone regrets it so badly then their partner should forgive.
Both men and women face the same "emotional trauma" after being slapped on the face.
Violence is wrong!
At 4:38 instead of Tapsee panu i thought she said Top secret news lol
No 1 reaction channel I am following ur channel from 3yrs
I immediately got disconnected when she said "I don't Love you" , but in the end she said she remembers all the wrong things happened to her, i am on her side, atleast based on trailer
Idk about her but once you start becoming scared of or stop trusting your spouse because of their actions you can't love them.
it is clear that she was already out of connect and had many negative thoughts that come to surface . I is ok , It is human nature , The main pointvis not slap main point is her self exist .
Some people will make it women right issue ,but is not.
3:30 first time my hindi is worse than yours
Movie is a masterpiece , who else agree?
Please React on Hacked movie Trailer
I am quite interested in this movie.. And yes, slap can never be expression of love. Even if a womenslap a man in her self defense, he will not call it love but insult of his manhood . So why for women definition changes
th-cam.com/video/mGHu8ntVrIw/w-d-xo.html
💋💖💋💖💋💖💋💖💋
Taapsee deserve respect for her acting
Does Jaby Koay watch movies or just trailers ? Please check the reviews given by girls and women coming out of cinemas.
Now divorce lawyers in India are promoting this film saying one slap one divorce. Section 498a is non bail law where only men gets persecuted. 80% above cases are false.
React on Hacked movie trailer
Geez Jabby. Yes you can have an opinion. So what if it’s female centric. Stop acting like you’re scared of what feminists might think of what you have to say just because you’re a man. I’m a woman by the way. And this movie was directed by a man, so...
React on Hacked movie Trailer
People are dumb enough to compare Kabir Singh and thappad . In Kabir Singh hero slaps the girl and gets slapped in the end , everything in Kabir Singh happened out of intense and unconditional love ... In thappad the guy slapped his wife out of arrogance ...these two movies are different in nature and I am not sure why people are bringing both the movies in comparison !!