Dear co-wife: Am sorry i ruined your marriage. I brought a curse on myself, please bless my kids
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ต.ค. 2024
- This is my plea to my co-wife,
I came to your marriage and ruined it. I took your husband and lived with him for years. We even got children. From the day we started co-habiting, he stopped from coming to your home and to his children.
I thought i had won over you. Now look at me. I can’t even count the number of times my kids have been admitted to hospital. I know i brought a curse on myself…may God have mercy on me
But i plead with you, please bless my kids. Only you can free them. For it is God who says’whatever we bind on earth will be bound in heaven and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven
Please…
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My Dear viewer,
I know this story is very emotive. I know we would be tempted to call Victoria names and even rub it on her face that Karma is a b*****but please let's be respectful in our comments. Let's remember that we follow a God of second chance. Let's remember that some of the greatest saints like St Paul, St Mary Magdalene, St Augustine, were once great sinners. Let us bless Victoria with the same words of Jesus 'Go and do not sin again.'
Let us pray and hope that the woman whose this message is intended for will soften her heart. That the Holy Spirit may give her the resolve and the power to forgive her and bless Victoria's kids.
And for those of us who may be in such destructive relationships, may we; in this period of lent, call to mind our sins and change our ways. AMEN
This my plea to you my faithful follower.
Yours Monica
Amen
She's so mature,owning up to mistakes she did is the best thing ever.May she find peace.
May God see you thru,and heal your soul
Victoria don't worry..wanaume dio wabaya cos hawatocheki.
Women should stop blaming themselves
My beautiful neighbor ..happy to see you ..there's nothing nice like a sincere confessing heart God hears🙏
What a woman who humbles herself this much. Thank you Monica for asking questions and in a tone that is very compassionate... God bless you always make me come back for wonderful content.
This lady is bold enough and genuine. You are already forgiven and the man too is to blame because he had all the time to make her a second wife officially .
I like the way Monica ask questions, very effective and efficient. Monica,you are full of wisdom, may God help you always.
Monica your parting shot words are so beautiful and encouraging. Thanks for such educative interview
Waa i don't know even what to..the humbleness of this lady is in another level..even she didn't let it go far, only 7yrs and here she is asking for forgiveness..what a precious lady..u open my eyes in another way and thank you Victoria
, I'm man with his young family 👪 and I thank God but I vividly remember how my own mother suffered n the hands of ths core wives, I remember one day, side chick approached my mum and told her that she's surprised to know she's not dead since my dad told her mum died few year's ago, battle never ends there and I remember another side chick made my mother life miserable to an extent of running 🏃♀️ 😢 to every pastor's to seek for help which she couldn't get.
, instead they drained her financially, my mum had a lot of bitterness and it affected me so much being her last born, close friend and confidant.
Sadly my mum could not cope so well with grief and she died peacefully and my entire life wrecked 💔 😔 I have never recovered but it's well with my soul.
After the burial dad would bring different ladies at our matrimonial home 🏡 and it crashed my spirit, even during the burial any person could tell he was not there mentally only busy body when me, my brother and sister's overwhelmed by the grief which shook 💔 the entire village..to cut the story short my dad life has never be the same again after few year's and I hate him so much..I always confess to my wife even though I'm man things can happen, I will never let her go through what my lovely mum went through and may the lord help me I pray...may she continue resting peacefully n God hands and may dad pay the heavy price.
This is sad enough, 🥲🥲, I won’t say much, My mom has been and still is in those shoes though she’s still alive, but her health has deteriorated a lot
@@eunicedallas4508 very sad to hear that, through my own experience please advice your mama to run 🏃♀️ for her dear life, but mostly they don't want to go always justification that I'm here because of you as my children and I always wonder is it better to move on and enjoy the rest of your life with your children or u stay, die and your lovely children left struggling like I do?? I always blame my mum too bcz my agreement was when I left for greener pastures she will move away but she didn't now look how I struggle with her loss...anyways God knows better btw I wish you well together with your loved one's.
🙏🙏🙏🙏
Very heartbreaking Stevey. God be with you and your siblings
@@judymburu8898 Amen 🙏 🙌 👏
This lady is genuine. May God forgive her!
Very genuine,God has already forgiven her it’s my prayers.
If she has repented she is already forgiven
A broken spirit and a contrite heart, the Lord will not despise. The Lord has already forgiven her. This is the heart that David had, a repentant heart. May the Lord bless you Veronica.
Exactly 💯
David never sinned, he took a divorced wife🙏🏼
@@ruthkinyanjui4700 David killed Uriah in order to sleep with the wife isn't that sin to u?
@@tabbiemwas7478 the problem is that our society has normalised male infidelity.
@ruthkinyanjui read your Bible baby girl the book of Psalms is mostly David repenting and crying to God for forgiveness and partially him praising and honoring God.
@LucyKiiru I echo you 💯
One of the best show emotional and am looking forward to first wife respond
Me too coz am wondering wat will she say
Atii aroigireee endiee mbereeee🤭🤭🤭🤫🤫🤫🤔🙉🙊
A free woman she is..Whoever does not forgive her its on you….(including co-wife)Far as God is concerned she is free like a bird
How sure are you !? Mathew 16:19 …. whatever is loosed here on earth is loosed in heaven and what’s bound here on earth is bound in heaven . If the wife has bound her she is bound !
Amen,
@Blessed mama very true👍✅
I wonder what Gospel many Christians know or understand.
Forgiveness is from God.
No human being really forgives another.
Ask Forgiveness from God.
Then forgive yourself.
Forgive yourself.God forgave you 2000 Years ago.
Period.
@@jennifermcwhortet7934 Good backed up by a scripture or scriptures ….thats what “ Golpel” is ….
May God make all sidechicks leave married men we are suffering taking care the kids alone.
Amen and Amen
Amen
That is why is is key to stop engaging in premarital sex n wait till marriage....to avoid having kids outside wedlock,ladies should also stop day dreaming for a tall handsome rich man and give sailor a chance that avail themselves in their peak times,not waiting till 30s and then say there are no men...to marry. N start dating married men,wen maybe they rejected a man who would have bin a good husband all to herself
She is a woman with a sweet spirit. May the Lord bless her children. No one is to blame, the man could have been looking for peace and comfort though in a wrong way. May God forgive them both.
Amen
"if you've never sinned stone this lady"
Let's not judge. I believe the Lord has forgiven her,she has repented and requested for forgiven.
Bt yur not the first one to do so huyu mzee angeongea na first wife amwabie so take heart Victoria.....may GOD heal yur kids watapona tu.
I believe the same thing but people who don’t believe in forgiveness they can’t forgive.May God bless Victoria. She’s already forgiven
I wish you are the cheated wife then we shall accept your words. Otherwise ni moshi
God doesn't judge us but every choice we make in our life good or bad it has consequences
Only those in her shoes that can side with her ! A sincere forgiveness is asked to the person that one has offended period !
Monica I have gone through hell with my.girls bcoz of one woman who broke my home it hurts so much.bcoz watoto hawakufika kwenye walikua wafike kimasomo vitu mingi ziliharibika may they stop breaking marriages aki watoto wanaumia but machozi tumelia.Mungu atatulipishia
Very true mungu atakulipishia hio machozi na ya watoto wako pia
@erick ngenye Usipatikane. Hakuheshimu hata kidogo. Na watoto wako walikosa masomo.
Mimi nalea wangu watatu peke yangu na baba yao ana enjoy tu maisha na mwanamke mwingine na watoto wao but Mungu atatulipizia tu
Pole dia take heart vengeance belongs to God may their be bright in jesus name ..he got our backs whatsoever the hardship of traitors and dark moments in the name of marriage
It's very true
First wives pesa zote zinapelekewa slayqueens,but there is God in heaven ,what goes round comes round
That's a lie every man who respects his wife and kids will never do that
Madam Jesus....mwanaume mgani anaedeangwa kwake?
Who are we to judge this lady?! I love this lady. She's very genuine and God fearing and that's enough for me.
You will not like her if you know what happened after the demise of the man he is talking about. Ask her to come here again and explain some very serious and ugly scenarios upon his death. The wife is so born again and I think she's so mature.
I hope Betty wamaitha will listen to this coz Ruth wa mum has seen it all..
Na Tabby kamotho even after loosing her son and another epileptic hakuachana na bwana ya wenyewe
And Mary Lincoln. I guess the 1st wife of njogu wa Njoroge keeps crying.
A story that is very close to home... without mentioning names and relationships am gonna briefly tell a story here ....so this one woman that got married as a second wife put the first wife through so much hell till she left, this second wife now settled there completely and got kids ...first child a bit disabled second child celebral palsy third child shida za akili so she thought ati ni karma or maybe she is paying for the hell she put the first wife but truly the first wife left na akawaachia Mungu and went on to raise her children....alikua mtu anajua Mungu na kumpenda so aliwaachia Mungu na kueka watoto wake na maisha ya watoto wake kwa mikono ya Mungu.....first forward to second wife's third child she started regretting and apologizing to the first wife...the husband left her akisema halei differently abled children till now huyo mama analia yet the first wife other than ile machungu ya what she went through before leaving hananga shida na wao...this is a message for anyone that wants to put another woman through such pain, any gachugwa intending to come destroy a family and such please think twice
She is so bold and deserve forgiveness and a second chance
This so so painful. I don't understand why woman want to be a source for sorrows for another woman. Monica sorry I don't wish to judge but have gone through this pain because of a woman/women and Christian women for that matter. But as the bible says, vengeance belongs to God.
Monica you have done a good job here! The first wife and children have lived with the pain of absence of a father and husband in their lives. I greatly commend the kind of restraint that the first wife and daughter show when around the second wife.
The first wife and her children must be given time to work through the process of forgiveness without being rushed, it will not be easy and it may never happen all the way. They do have very painful wounds.
Thumbsup Mrs Kagoni for a job well done, yu're such a darling may our almighty God bless you.
Victoria,kutenda kosa si kosa but kosa nikurudia, yu've known and repented your sins and hakuna dhambi ambayo our God hawezi samehe and we hope that your co-wife will also forgive you.
We are all sinners it's just that we sin differently,so i can't judge you.
All the best Victoria,it is well ❤️❤️❤️
It's good to seek forgiveness but you made somebody suffer alot
VICTORIA YOUR. For given be blessed
For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God..... Every Saint is a sinner who fell down and got up.... What Victoria did may be wrong but finding the courage to stand up and own her mistakes matters.... Our God is Mighty to save.... May you find peace and forgiveness.
Watu wa kusoma comments tuko wapi?
As Woman I will forgive her, her intention was not to break the family . The lord has forgiven her even before the co-wife forgive her. She is such a honest woman. Any child can be sick don’t believe in negatives , God will see you through. No one in this world hasn’t done mistake.🙏🏽🙏🏽
Please call a spade a spade,alikosea because even after knowing Yuko na family,she continued staying.,.woi muka mukoro ethagwo gwa thokana.... it's indeed painful... when you break a home,you start battles with God!!!! and that's a fact!
having kids with the man unafaa uelewe mtoto si mkate ataenda kuuza, kids come with responsibilities
You left him when he fell sick and money got scarce.
Your pastor never told you that having someone's husband is a sin?....
Victoria your my hero, God bless you for tough decision you made.
May God reward you abundantly with your kids and bless and heal them.
God will use you heal many families.
I salute you 👏
The man was wrong not the woman, he could have respected his marriage and be the mature person blaming women is not fair
So so true, well said with wisdom 👏
Very true!!
Oh yes!
That's exactly it. This is not just a matter for the two women. It's the man's doing too
Only Pharisees can blame her otherwise evn Jesus didn't condemn the very woman caught in the act of adultery. Bt instead He told her..WHERE ARE YOUR ACCUSERS., NEITHER DO I CONDEMN YO YOU. GO AND SIN NO MORE OTHERWISE SOMETHING WORSE THAN THIS MIGHTY COME UP YOU. The man was not accused and I think that is why they continue in adultery without conviction since the society it's like has normalized it for a man. All things happens for good though the devil the accuser means for evil bt God changes devil's evil plan to become our good . The woman received forgiveness and cancelling from Jesus bt the man maybe we dnt know continued sinning. I heard the late Man of God Reinhard bonnke preaching this sermon of the adulterous woman, the mercy and the grace of God. He said that The man who sinned with this woman was one of those Pharisees and that's why they could not accuse him😀🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅.. Be blessed guys 🙏
The GREATEST LESSON I HAVE LEARNT
1st wife carries partly blessings to a side-hen
This is the best show ever monica kagoni many marriages will heal God bless you and extend your territories
I pray that God may grant you peace, peace to the 1st wife and heal your children. You are a strong woman it's not easy to share such a story.
Realizing mistakes makes us human
Sababu dunia imemfunza akalazimika,👍
True!
@@Dee_the_blessed1 my dear the more una grow the more unajua what's wrong n right..ask corazon
What a story, worth listening, Victoria has a good heart, has known her mistake and ready to ask for forgiveness. May God intervene into her life. May the co wife forgive her people make mistake.
First wife is always blessed as the founder of home
Hapo kwa "founder" pana key
She is a very wise lady. Knowing you are wrong and admitting it, n asking for forgiveness is wisdom from above
GOD will bless you my sister
Asking for forgiveness when the first wife and kids were crying alikua ana Raha tu..weee reke nemwo
@@wairimusimiyu7899 So far I feel like most people are disregarding the feelings of the first wife. She is entitled to her feelings too and while the guest is remorseful, the first wife should not be forced or rushed into forgiving. Also, why is the husband being let off the hook here? He was as much in the wrong as she was.
No she is not
@@betty541 a wise person will just forgive without being forced that's why many of us are not really bothered whether she will forgive or not. If she is human, and also makes mistakes,she will forgive. Bcoz she can't receive forgiveness from GOD if she doesn't forgive others
We are just rejoicing n celebrating this woman whose eyes,GOD HIMSELF has opened.
That's all
Keziah, I hear you..but let's agree to disagree here. I am uncomfortable with people telling the aggrieved party how to feel and what to do and yet she alone is in those shoes. There is nothing unwise about taking things at her own pace and doing what she pleases...it is her life we are talking about here..not anyone else's. Plus not all of us are necessarily religious, so the whole God won't forgive you if you don't forgive others does not fly. Shw should do as she sees fit..let's allow her the grace to do so. Thank you.
Wow this is one lady in a million
She's so brave to come out coz some women will start dropping comments n they r sidechiqs n have the audacity to point fingers. As the Bible says, confess ua sins and you will be forgiven.....
True
it seems your mpango wenu is here too au
Baby gal, don't be too hard on yourself, children do get sick, even those that belong to the goat wives get admitted over and over ....pray for your children,God is a loving and compassionate,full of mercy and a million more chances.... complete healing to your babies,Amen
I agree polygamy has been there since kitambo
Never make someone cry coz of selfishness...put yourself in the shoes of that woman umepata kwa hiyo nyumba.
It is because of people like you that my family is never stable to date 40 years of tears in marriage. May the Lord have mercy on our homes and the tears that we shed everyday.If you have truly left that family.May the Lord forgive you to even give you eternal life coz He died to save us all.
@@ruthwangari3403 ,my comment got nothing to do with families, cheating partners or what nots, it's about her and her children...the pain of a mother seeing her kids suffer,Point is, she should dedicate her children to God ,He is a God of mercy and full of second chances
I'm sorry about your 40 years of tears,my comment was just about the sickly kids,God hears and heals...after all this woman has already left the man and the goatwife already forgave her and they met
Oooh,,,this girl has eternity,her humility is on another level.
Kiumbani ni kiumbani, I had a relationship with an married man but alikua njangiri, I caught him with other younger girls than me. Don't beat yourself so much, mistakes are there to be made. Gods Grace is unlimited.
That is the man. What about you. The lady is not referring to the man but herself.
Victoria God will heal your heart. Thankyou for being soo courageous and inspiring young ladies to live right.
To be honest, i don't blame this lady. She went in as a second wife, and there is nothing wrong with that. If the blame was to come, then am blaming the MAN
Tru
Seems like everyone overlooks the role of the man in creating such messes.
And it is the man who pursued Victoria.
True
Yes and muigai wa njoroge and de john demethew are examples
I just love this woman..atleast shès open her burweins and eyes na akajua alikosea kuharibu boma ya mwanamke mwingine...forgiven she is since ame accept her mistake and trust me u God will bless her & her kids...this gives me hope that the woman whom also ruined my marriage of 13yrs will soon apologise also though siwezi rudiana na huyo mtu but if she comes for apology am gonna forgive her
Metagwo nyaciamburi ni kwambura.... if you have never been betrayed by your partner, you cannot understand the pain. The pain/heartache is unbearable. Trust me
The only reason why she is remorseful is because things didn't work out and the guy changed. The guy stopped pretending and showed her who he really was. If things worked out smoothly we would not have known about her.
everything happens with a reason. God will use her to make others know and understand the agony the first wife and children went through though that is not the reason to judge. Jesus forgave us all
very true
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂u have a point here ata mi nilifikiria hivo
💯💯 true Mzee aliamka akaludi Kwa boma lake Kwa sababu hapa ilikuwa ya part time tu hiyo mda wotee saa hii ndio akili simeamka akwende na huko nonsense ile uchungu Huwa wanaleteya first wife ni mungu tu anayeajua 🏃🏃🏃🏃
Very true
This lady is one of of a kind, she is great indeed God is always merciful 🙏
God has no problem forgiving, but we live with the consequences of our actions.
This man never accepted you as his wife; he introduced you to his family as Victoria, not as his wife.
True the man should have atleast introduced her as his wife
Aki first wife mungu awape nguvu,mtu akikamuuuua akimaliza anarudishia first wife 😭
Weeee
Na Ana apologize with crocodile tears🤣🤣
@@graxekary9847 akwende huko jangili
Monica you are the best and you are so wise and humble ❤️
These are what we call genuine mistakes....She never knew anakosea mtu.The good thing about her story is that she is apologetic..I hope the 1st wife will forgive her.
I think she knew exactly what she was doing. She says as much in her confession and apology.
She has repeatedly repented so whether the first wife has forgiven her or not before God she has confessed her sins . Am am a victim of this my husband married a second wife took him to our matrimonial home slept on my bed and was left confused 13 years now .The wife is so proud she abused me with the support of the family and my husband .But I hold no bitterness on them have sincerely forgiven them and moved on with my kids all are grown up now and I thank God .
I am not judging Victoria and I really sympathize with her predicament but why do I keep getting the feeling that Victoria will have a hard time convincing many of us that she didn't leave the man because he got unwell and the money taps shut?
I am positive that if the man's money kept flowing, Victoria's conscience that she was in an 'adulterous relationship' and all that crap about caring for the first wife and her children would not have bothered her...
it never did until the man got sick.
Guys, don't be cheated. Let's stick to our wives. This will be your fate with that Gacungwa.
All things work together for good the circumstance may have come to release her from bondage
Am guessing the sickness brought forth the urge to escape. All the talk didn’t express why she is now leaving cos the supposed awakening caught up with her conscious.
Mr Ndichu can i tell you something? I know you are wrong for this reason. Me i got married after my divorce to a divorced man. I was not in the picture when they divorced with his wife. But after staying with him for 8 years, i started feeling guilty cos of being a second wife. I knew the wife moved on and lives in America, so its not that i was making her cry but all the same i felt guilty. I talked to him about it, he was really surprised and told me there was no way we could separate. He is ok financially and he asked me if i lacked anything. I insisted and told him i was ready to suffer without him than live with the guilt. We do not have a kid together but he love my kids alot. So i know its not about money this lady is doing this. Its her love and fear for God and so you are wrong to judge her. I even know another lady who fellowship with cff church huko kwa Bishop Harrison, she was married as second wife to a former mayor of Nairobi who is super rich. But when she got saved, she had 3 kids but she chose to leave that marriage and apologised to the first wife. So, its not about money brother.
I hadn't even thought of this interesting perspective! Something to consider🤔
@@sonyia7521 You women move on when there is no love.. so had the man continued to pour his love on you, you'd still be there. So, no real repentance. Ni taps run dry
My sister thank you for your confession and accepting your mistake! God has already forgiven you! Am Sure the goat 🐐 wife will forgive you, then you don't have to take the blame alone even the man made a mistake I hope he comes to the show too! Victoria God will see you through because of the decision you have made but don't deny the father of your children an opportunity to take responsibility of his kids they have a right 👍 to be with their dad! Otherwise I wish you well!
Victoria l thank God for His grace upon your life.
I am a victim of the other woman but no matter how painful it is God honour those who turn around and realize and accept their wrong doing. May the family you are seeking forgiveness from find it in their heart to forgive you and release you. Remember this there is another woman in my life right now.
We fall down but we get up. A saint is just a sinner who fell down but got right up. God loves you Victoria
Amen,it is well Victoria.God loves you with an everlasting love.hugs mummy
This woman deserves forgiveness from God and the cowife.She is one in a million.Victoria may God intervine and wipe your tears
Bold woman may God give u peace and heal your kids
Avery rear apology..may God intervene...please make afollow up after this..
Me and my children we have gone through hell since 2007 he has never help even a penny but I blame my ex husband because I don’t know what he told her, but those who do it knowingly may God punish them because I can’t be able to explain the pain I have gone through and still going through May God vindicate us, I know you are God of vengeance
Very true may they never now peace those who do it intentionally
@Essie M Official hugs dear that pain cannot be compared with anything karma will be served them well
Gal pray n God will judge those who pass you through pain
The way my son has broke his marrige due to these so called gals aaaa no way.But i stand with my dota inlaw.
God bless you
God bless u
@@salomewangeci2389 thenx but not easy dia.
@kimen Njeri if only vile some of has wicked mom in loves? U would take those blessings kindly. U r one of a kind.
God bless you....akuongezee baraka and hope all shall be well
God loves a repentant heart. may others be touched to do the same. Thanks Victoria for comming out. God has a good plan on you and other people
Ngai amaruturure oothe aria mathukitie micii yene nginya uria waiyire wakwa tondu nindamukanitie ngimwira muthuri ucio ena mutumia na ndaiguire may God deal with her and others good job monica kagoni im praying for families because hii mipango ya kando needs to go God made Eve for Adam only mariage is for one man one wife
Aki kube akuna mwanaume hana side chick mungu akubuke wa mama
😅😅wangu nilimwambia siku Mungu atashuka kunilipishia hataamini,Sasa pia yeye amejua hajui
Waah pia mm nilipigia co wife wangu then akaambia my ex ati nilimtusi 🙆good thing my ex knew matusi haiezi toka kwa mdomo yangu 🤔this mipango aki
Might you were not his wife.If you keep holding that bitterness God will never come through for you.
I'm not judging,but I will say this,when you're consciously sinning,accept punishment yako kama umefurahi😐.God forgives but Jehova renders justice properly 🤷
Very true💯
Nobody can be happy when under punishment
What we call conscious sinning, may not be conscious at all
When demons blonde someone's eyes,they never realize how evil their actions are
Let's thank GOD that finally, her spiritual eyes have opened n she has repented
This thing of blaming demons and the devil I just don't buy. She is sane, she is an adult and so that means she knew what she was doing. She has taken responsibility and that is good, but tuache kuwekelea shetani tukikosea.
Well said
@@betty541 do you know the power of sin....do you know the devil is very subtle,,,how did he manage to convince Eve to eat the fruit....if you knew the power of sin..haungeongea hivo....I don't blame you though...but just ask yourself why did it cost Jesus's life for pardon of sin...just meditate it.... kindly
You are forgiven live in peace Victoria
Metha ya kagoni great interview madam, you have done it perfectly, giving her the best time to speak, good questions, you are good in interviewing
I love that lady to realize her mastake may God remember her through
Vicky God bless you !!!!
You and your children are in my prayers!!!!
Deliverance and confession are 2 different things
Victoria you are a courageous woman, May you find the forgiveness you are seeking
Athuri makamaguo mbeca ciathira agatiguo acoke kwa mutumia wake Atari kindu kana ee muruaru
Thanks Monica for your good job Victoria your soo beautiful and humble may the Lord forgive and heal your children's future your blessed
Well done Victoria for coming out clean and owning your mistakes. You've opened many our hearts and eyes. It's time to do the right thing before kids suffers. No one is perfect in the eyes of the Lord and he has surely forgiven you. Lots of love girl
Thanks Victoria for your apology to the first wife.May God forgive and bless you
Power of prayer.may she be forgiven and become a lesson to other destroyers
Your confession has reached the heavens am crying becox of a woman who does not have my husbands kids but she and her mother have made my life and kids a living hell may the lord restore you for what you have done
Wise lady and that the Start of healing,God is God of mercies and they start after knowing your mistake.
I have pitied her. Forward ever backward never. Let's wait and see what is about to happen. God is the final judge. Ngorp hehenjeku Ngai ndangiaga kumuigwa.
Men (someone's husband is a no go zone)
Ati this is my wife and this is so so (her name without any title hehe)
I have cried as a woman because of the same thing worst still mine spread lies and even cyber bullied me, made many people question my integrity and created a drift in the family but all in all I know of God who avenges for all. I left it to God. Victoria your seeking for forgiveness is not in vain. You shall find peace. Shalom
she is a beautiful girl in heart. There is not sin that is unforgivable. God will never reject the prodigal son
Huyu ni wife material
May God forgive her for she has humbled herself and asked for forgiveness. But there is something to learn avoid married men by all means.
Ndacokera njira nguthiaga gutuika second wife
Coka pls😂
🏃♀️🏃♀️
Coka pls maithori ma first wife matikoragwo mari mega, no maguturie na thina.
Such brave & beautiful woman... God bless you Victoria...as Monica said God has already forgiven you.... Your co-wife will forgive you as well
Mungu nifunze kunyamaza.. though ya dunia utalipia hapa Hapa..wiyumie gacungwa
She's genuine...May the lord forgive her... it's good she realized the mistake and repented...
Monicah tuletee first wife pls.
I love monica ,u r soo mature 👏, I love ur shows ,mungu akuogoze unapo fanya interviews zako na familia yako
Nasty as my comment may sound, men should learn from this particular video, the sidechicks will "eat"all you have, spoil your relationship with your wife and kids and when you have wasted all your productive years and energy on them or fall sick; they'll leave you at their own pleasure like a joke! I'm not judging Victoria but I don't rule her as innocent as well. The man is also wicked🚮
I think your comment is quite fair.
True
Victoria is not the problem ata kama angekataa mwanaume angeendea mwingine
Victoria is not the problem ata kama angekataa the man would have pursued another woman....If you've ever been pursued by a married man as a woman you know.... You can push them away na watapata mwingine...
@@ParisGermaine so is your point that she did well kukubali married man simply because atapata mwingine if not her ama? That's being mediocre!
We serve a God of many chances, as long as she has repented God has already heard her and forgiven her already,may God give both women peace that surpasses all,
To be honest it never be easy for the first wife because I was in the some things I was first wife and it will hard for me but don't see anything wrong with this lady because she respect other woman and it's fine to have 2 wife anyway
You r so brave Victoria. May our good lord forgive u n may u find peace.
I salute her for this, I wish my mother confessed like this woman after ruining a home making the first wife to be driven out of her home.They said she was insane but i am sure she was suffering from depression.
Being her firstborn I've really paid for their sins but I thank God He recently delivered me after repenting on their behalf when I realised it could be the reason i was leading a miserable life.I was a bright student but I never advanced my education to my desired level and ended up doing odd jobs for survival.I thank the neighbours and certain aunties who dared to tell me the truth after observing my predicaments, God bless them.
Our God is Faithful,I am in a better position now and i swore never to wreck anyone's home either by marriage or being a side chick.
I am in my tenth year since i divorced and I am happily single.
Can someone advise me whether there is something else i am supposed to do kindly.
Thank you for making a good decision
You never did anything wrong stop beating yourself you are fine. Shida zako ni fate
@@salomenewsome4188 Really, I may not be sure but the Bible says that God shall apply vengeance for your sins up to the fourth generation.
@@janetshiku186 please relax utakuwa na blood pressure Old Testament was written to suite those old days. We are going with the New Testament you are forgiven because of the blood spilled at the Calvary. Period. Ma shida zako saa hii ni fate na poverty.
@@salomenewsome4188 I am at peace now, thanks for ua advice
I really admire her repentant heart. God is a God of mercy. He forgives us when we repent earnestly. Victoria, may the Lord redeem you and restore you back to His glory for His name's sake.
I hear you vicky, my mom went through this, my friend also took away my husb. I cried, it hurts my heart, but God has been my strength.
May God bless you, it's only the truth that will set you free
Those men who cheats on their wife may God punish them too, and to the side chicks don't be so happy when another woman is crying herself to sleep those tears are not in vain, I have gone through it I know what it means to survive it,
Amen
GOD'S GRACE to go thru it.
God is faithful. You break another woman's family.... Her tears are never in vain. God answers her.
Still don't curse them but ask them to be true coz even our forefathers marry 3or4wives and God bless them
True dear u have said it even me am single upto date for same thing my God fight for us.we are strong woman.
Thanks vicky you have taught me darling because I have a man who wants to leave his family for me....nimekataa ujinga yawababa wawenyewe
Thanks for the decision you're about to make, u will never regrets.
@@steveykimson3158 yeah liwe liwalo
Kosa sio kosa, kosa ni kurudia kosa.....by the way she is beautiful
That lady has been set free and if the man were not there she would not have entered into that sin. God is using the situation to help many women and men.
Sister you are forgiven just take it that way.
I don't know why Victoria is apologising she was married as second wife ...feel free mamaa kids being sick it's normal mahe dawa nimekuhona
Her conscience is alive unlike many home breakers.. that is the reason she is apologizing
Na aache dhambi
Esther wi co wife handu.haaa
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@@faithwamwara3409 ona dingirota
Wow, this is a God-fearing woman. A broken n contrite spirit that God seeks