In my 20’s I developed Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. It’s a hormone condition that causes you to gain weight and makes it hard to lose it. I’m six feet tall and busty, suddenly I found myself in foreign territory shopping in a well known plus size store. One of the sales ladies watched me trying on baggy outfit after baggy outfit. She approached me and gently told me I was choosing things that were way too big. She also pointed out that I had an hourglass figure and needed to show it off not hide it. Best advice I ever got. Wearing clothes that fit well are key to looking good in whatever you’re wearing. Thanks for a great video with tons of excellent advice!
I find it nearly impossible NOT to wear bigger clothes, because a size down reveals a spare tire & a pot belly. And to me, showing rolls and/or fat belly, looks SO MUCH WORSE, TACKY, LOW-CLASS, than wearing the next size up that "flows" over those bumps. It's very rare to find flattering clothes that make me look my "smallest", and do not reveal bulges. I'd wear a tent before I wear a lump-exposeing item. Any REALISTIC IDEAS? @StylewithSerena
I love oversized tops , mostly baggy jumpers, I’m now considering wearing more fitted tops too but I’ll still keep my baggy look for when I’m not going anywhere special, love your advice 🙏
Iam 82 and slim. Your videos have improved tremendously. You look so sure of yourself. At one point I unsubscribed from your channel. You looks so fabulous, your skin, your hair cut is so very nice. Good job. Keep the good work. I have learned a lot from you. God bless.
Good advice! Since following you and a few other influencers, I've gotten many compliments on my outfits and purses. I'm 64 and wanted to freshen my wardrobe. It worked!
Hi Serena, new viewer, enjoyed it! I'm almost 80 (can hardly believe it!) and recently cut my long hair to a bob. Wish I'd done it much earlier! On the clothes I like, they're mostly on the "not recommended" list. I live in central Florida. It gets hot. There are basically two seasons: a short winter and a very long summer. I find jeans too warm except in the very short winter and prefer lighter fabrics. I love sweaters and hardly ever get to wear them. I like sandals with a 1" heel when I go out, but flat shoes the rest of the time. I love boots - used to live up north - but I'd feel silly wearing boots when it's 90. Probably my worst fashion "sin" - LOL - is capris. I LOVE capris. Cooler than long pants on a hot day, longer than the shorts I wear most of the year around the house and yard. I value comfort over fashion as I have all my life, to be honest. My "uniform of the day" at home is shorts and a short-sleeved shirt for most of the year. I did buy a couple tunics - big mistake - I'm only 5'3", 140. Because my weight fluctuates a little up and down, I like pants/shorts with an elastic waist. Some look better than others and I look for those. I have some non-stretch bottoms and seldom wear them, to be truthful. I like knit shirts, mostly plain, but some with stripes or prints. They're comfortable. I like to layer a tank under a cotton shirt and this would probably be with capris unless it was cool enough for long pants. I like skirts because they're cool, but can't find any that look decent so never wear them. Haven't worn a dress in ages - have several I've never worn. I watched a few stylists yesterday and it seemed like most were dressing for New York. What about those of us who live out in the country? And who have budgets? I don't follow trends or even know what those trends are. I doubt any of my friends know either! I did appreciate the fact you go to Walmart and the other stores you mentioned. There are bargains when you hunt. It's just not knowing what to buy. I've been thinking about it today and my friends and I mostly all dress just as we did years ago. I have a couple favorite stores and since I don't like shopping (never have!) go to those stores mostly. I buy new things and still find myself wearing the same outfits over and over. So I'll keep watching your show. Just toss in a crumb here and there for those of us much older than 50 who still want to look good but aren't "fashionistas". Appreciate the tips! Thanks! Mary
I love this comment. I’m 45, 5’ 6” and about 145. Lately, I think I’m wearing sz. 12. Most of my life I’ve been very thin, so this new larger and flabbier bod is hard for me to feel comfortable in, and dress. Where I live in Texas, we have the same LONG hot summer, and short winter. So, shorts and a t-shirt would be most comfortable, but, like I said, I’m not feeling great about showing these flabby legs. So, I have found a solution! There are linen and cotton flowy pants. They feel thin, and airy, and cool, and they cover my older legs.
@@nattamused9074 Hi, I have a couple pairs of flowy pants and I like them as well. This is probably really pathetic, but I have a couple pairs of flowy capris also!!! When I was your age, I was also a 12. Then the years went by and I almost hit 170. Yikes!!! Wish I could say I lost the weight by careful dieting, but no. I lost my appetite and for several months didn't eat much. Eventually found out it was a kidney problem which is now much better, but did result in losing 30 lbs. so guess everything does have a silver lining! When I'm watching the stylists, I usually like the outfits but I'd mostly have no place to wear them! No one dresses up for anything, it seems. I used to enjoy dressing up for work in suits and dresses, but then it went to working remote. I had a co-worker who typically put on a decent top with her pj bottoms and that was her work outfit. I sometimes think I would have enjoyed wearing the beautiful dresses from long ago, but without the corset. I actually owned a corset when I was in my 20s and didn't need it at all, but did wear it sometimes. Fashion insanity...
Tunic length tops that fit well actually work for us very tall and long waisted gals. I cannot wear most "current" styles- they are all so short. Wear what works for your body and what makes you feel pretty. The confidence is just as important as your clothing.
Great video!!! Good grooming is always in style. Bad posture is aging too!!! Wear your best colors , it does make a difference !! The wrong color near your face can be aging.
I’m 72, and don’t care what other people think about my look! I’m very active, so I’m always in work out clothes…(different colors)… usually, I’m wearing a high ponytail…I’m single and after being married twice, this free-spirited woman is free ❤ and dress for me only.
I have always liked to dress casual and comfortable all my life with my hair up in a ponytail or a claw, etc. , same with shoes. I really don't like dressing up. When I retired all those corporate acceptable clothes went straight to Goodwill and the lavender hairdye box was bought. I understand everyone has their own way of dressing and should wear what makes them feel good and nothing less.
@@brooklynrocks2396 I’m the same, most of my jobs with uniforms. I just turned 72, married twice, two grown children, and live in Ca. beach area, where anyone is kinda that way, especially these days. Nice to hear, there’s a lot of us🤣ty
Great video and advice!! I see many older women with streaks of pink, blue, green, purple in their hair. The problem isn't the color, it's that the rest of their hair is grey and obviously uncared for. No style, needing a good cut. Often they are wearing frumpy clothes and no makeup. It's like the thought is the hair color will cancel out everything else. But it's such a mistake.
I enjoy fashion ideas and tips. I’m very petite built but now I’m also very overweight too. I know everyone says they used to weigh less and in my case, I actually did. I saved some of my clothes that I hope to wear again but now I’m approaching 73 very fast. You have helped me decide what to keep, what I can alter to fit a little better and what I should let go. Thank you 😊
I can say it! J. Jill; Soft Surroundings are two that cater to those that have something to hide. There I said it and you’re welcome ☺️ Great video! Thank you!
Hi to everyone! I am 75 and love dressing up not overly I attend an adult center and love it. I wear my hair in a bob but sometimes I do wear it curly. I still go to the gym. I love your videos ❤❤❤❤
I found that when I stopped coloring my roots and hi lighting my hair it got healthier! I now can wear my hair longer because it’s thicker and it’s a natural beautiful silver color. I’m 64 and my hair has improved so much! Just a thought for those whose hair is thinning due to chemical treatments. 🤷🏼♀
Totally agree Serena! I have been a stylist for many years and don’t believe in old fashioned blanket rules, we are all individuals that is the important rule! Really enjoy your videos! Thanks so much! Evie (68) from Australia
Enjoy your videos Serena and this info is so on point. By the way I think this haircut is even more flattering on you than the previous style! Poor posture is another "style" issue I see every time I go out anywhere, even young ladies now, it is truly aging!! Thanks for making your great videos!
I’m so glad you mentioned hair! The worst is too long hair when it’s thin so it’s see-through. If hair is thick and layered a little, soft around the face, it can be gorgeous! Advice from stylist should be a must as our face ages and a different style would be more fresh!
@@Dit1160I have thinning hair and I don't care what people say or think. I'm gonna wear it long. I think people like that are insecure and terrified of ageing. I feel sorry for them.
Oh..... If my hair isn't healthy and shiny none of my outfits are going to look good anyway. Well, I guess as someone with an autoimmune disorder that affects my hair, I guess I'm screwed unless I want to wear my wigs constantly. Might as well stop watching now.....😮💨
I’m so glad I found your channel. I’m in transition and losing weight. I gave up on trying to even to look like I’m among the living. Your videos are awesome and gave me back my confidence to look as good as possible at any weight.
I am tiny and I wear a size OOO Petite. Everything is too big because I am slim. J. Crew sometimes has my size. I was always tiny and slim. After vanity sizing, everything in what was once my size is huge. Always took care of my skin which was and is dry like my mother's. Very lucky to have a style which is classic and I tweek it to stay current. Clothing which fits well is flattering, no matter what your size. I am going to be 74 next month, and aging gracefully. My hair is in a bob below my face, above my shoulders. Short hair is terrible for me, long neck, hair frames my face. A smile always brightens every face. I love vintage shoes because they are my size 4B. You have given wonderful advice, for everyone.
I work at Chico’s part time and they are trying to appeal to a younger demographic.. I have some pieces from their that are awesome! A short waisted leather Moro jacket with puffed sleeves and even a long puffer vest! The clothes are getting better and not so frumpy! I complained that some of them look like Alfred Dunner from Belk and Pennys! That’s a very frumpy brand!
Love my Ziip but thank you for the discount so I could stock up on my favorite gels :) I buy and wear a lot of Loft's blouses with prints (I also buy their blouses in solid colors). Long sheer sleeves hide the parts of my arms that aren't my best feature at 60. I can wear them with jeans or under my business suits. My daughter's college age friends say I dress preppy. I would say the most youthful look is a HEALTHY one. My mom is 77 and rather enjoys telling everyone she's frail, elderly, etc. That's not a look I ever hope to wear. Doing weight training, Total Gym, getting my daily walks in, flexibility exercises: thats the most youthful look: strong, flexible and vibrant.... Taking care of yourself: mind, body, skin. Still caring about yourself and not "letting yourself go."
100% I agree with you about taking care of yourself! My 82 yr old aunt has always stayed active and no one can believe her age. Even though she has dementia, her body is strong, she isn't all hunched over, doesn't use a walker, and has a youthful demeanor. How long have you used the ZIIP? What do you think? I'm New to it but love it so far!
I love it! I used Nuface for years and really kind of dreaded using it (I was still consistent though). Only had the Ziip since July and I love using it every single time. Love the different treatments. Can adapt depending on my time schedule (like doing microcurrent during busy work week and on weekends I always add in the nano current treatments too). I'm not most observant but I know that it just helps my skin stay hydrated, plumped and firmer...@@StylewithSerena
Thank you for calling out the "rules" about what we can wear dependent on age. I'm 5' 5'' but have a long body and short legs so longer skirts/dresses make me look frumpy. I've always preferred my skirts/dresses to fall on or above the knee, except where I've had longer dresses/skirts that had a long slit. Sadly now I'm 63 my mother constantly comments/disapproves about how short my clothes are (at the shortest they are just above the knee, tbh thinking back she did this when I was younger too). I ignore her, but it has made me question if I am dressing inappropriately. My husband tells me to ignore her and that I look better in a shorter length. It is really good to have that confirmed by another woman xx.
Hi! I had to go back and look at your hair and YES! This new look is so chic! I lost my hair and from bald to growing in, the compliments were constant. My hair is just above my shoulders now and I go back and forth whether to let it grow or not.
Great video! Very good points for us to think about. One of my biggest pet peeves that i notice in older women…they do not wear the proper bra size or even the proper bra for certain clothing. There are also “sister sizes” of bras where we can go up or down in size, for a better fit. So many women do not understand why bras use to be called “foundation” garments!! Because you need a good foundation (proper fit) to have your clothes fit your body. Too often women wear sports bras that do NOTHING for them except make them look FRUMPIER!!
Amen!!!! I mentioned this in a previous video of mine. I get that people like comfort, but not wearing proper support just makes the girls saggier! Yes, it's an epidemic!
@@StylewithSerena I do need to add..your haircut is just fab, and that pink sweater is a great color on you. My fav outfit so far..was the black pants and tiger jacket…million bucks look for sure!
I’m new to your channel and loved everything you said today. I’m “older” (77) but feel younger. Lol! I’m 5’2 and am self-conscious of my tummy. I live in Florida so we don’t layer very much most of the year. I’m learning to not dress frumpy. I bought the ZIIP Halo about a month ago and have used it every day. I agree, it’s easy and fun to use. Results show up immediately and I’m hoping for the long term effect also. I still wear short skirts as midi-length looks frumpy on me unless it’s very straight. I’m grandmother to the bride soon and need a floor length black gown for her wedding. I feel it will overpower me and would like to have suggestions on what to look for. Thanks, Serena.
Thank you for your comment about this skirt and dress length because I was cleaning out my closet getting rid of things that was a little bit above my knee but I am a thin woman and I have many skirts and dresses that come right above the knee and maybe just a little bit shorter that looked just fine. I was going to get rid of those but now I am not because I can still look like a lady in them. Thank you so so much, have a blessed day you’re the best
I'm so glad I found your channel, Serena. You are "right on" in your style selections, and since you are the same colouring as I am, it is more helpful to me to see what you are choosing. The tunic tops will be a giveaway, and I do like the trendier looks.😄😄😄
I avoid floral patterns on fabrics. A muted colour palette is classy and stylish on any age group. I style with long thin chains or handbag statement .
Hi Serena, i really appreciate your ideas for stylish dressing. I feel a lot more confident when i go out now. You have done that for me by creating these videos. Thanks so much.
13:32 I’m so glad red is in, because red is definitely my color. I get compliments every time I wear this color. I have a stomach, but I know I look better with a sinched waste
I use loose clothes BUT only in monochrome. Black top and bottom long thin chain around neck or colourful scarf. I do the same with white outfit. Actually an off white is more flattering. I’m taller so maybe that’s why it works.
Dirty shoes. I see people who seem to not notice their shoes need a at least a wipe down. A beautiful heel with crusted mud on the sole, or white tennis shoes with dirty sides. It just spoils the look. The worse is a nice outfit with old raggedy flip flops😊 just a few things I notice.😊
I totally agree about footwear!!! I don’t even own a pair of flip flops, just buy and wear a pair of cute sandals instead, they don’t have to be expensive🌟
I have a very difficult time finding tops/sweaters that fit my arm length & I hate having to turn the cuff up. It doesn't have a good look to me so I will purchase 3/4 length tops when possible.
Thank you for saying that about not wearing certain things when you are a certain age because I was in the process of cleaning out my closet because I thought I was too old to wear certain things, but I have the body and the figure to wear them and they still look good on methey’re really nice and beautiful things. Thank you so much. I’m going to keep them and put them back. I love you. Thank you so much wow wow Kathy from North Carolina.
I used a stylist for a second and everything she suggested was SO unflattering.....her suggestions just emphasized my problem areas and made me look 12 months pregnant
I just found you and love your videos. You are exactly my size with the exception of, I am 5’3” tall and wear a size 8 shoe . The videos I have seen of yours, so far , have answered a lot of questions I have had about sizing for myself . Since we are somewhat busty, for example, we can look frumpy with certain tops . You have helped me so much and I know what you are saying are the answers to many of my thoughts I’ve had about clothing for my size especially. Thanks so much and I’m gonna enjoy past and future videos you have .
They do. And if you have thick, healthy hair then by all means wear it long, but too often I see frizzy, dry thin hair that's too long and that's unbecoming.
@@StylewithSerena you’re right of course. I didn’t mean to make a blanket comment. My mom told me when I was very young that my head wad too small to wear long hair. 😂
I appreciate your clothing tips. I am guilty of trying to hide my protruding stomach with oversize tops. No more! Point taken! I am off to purge my closet of my frumpy pieces. Thank you for the inspiration.
What do I think? I think you are fabulous. I saw myself in a couple 'frump-fits' you showed in this video...truly not a 'pretty color' on me. Thank you your honesty and suggestions. I feel like I just made a true friend!
I so appreciate this video!! The struggle has been real with trying to stay current but also comfy in my own skin. These are great, encouraging tips! Thank you 😊
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Can you do a video on hair. I see so many older women with too short, too curly or too coloured hair or fluorescent hair. They look 10 or more years older.
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I would like to see a video where you show outfits that are not quite right and how to fix them.
Great idea!
Ditto!
Yes, I would like to see a video like this also!
Well, I have learned if the top or the pants look frumpy your whole outfit looks off!
In my 20’s I developed Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. It’s a hormone condition that causes you to gain weight and makes it hard to lose it. I’m six feet tall and busty, suddenly I found myself in foreign territory shopping in a well known plus size store. One of the sales ladies watched me trying on baggy outfit after baggy outfit. She approached me and gently told me I was choosing things that were way too big. She also pointed out that I had an hourglass figure and needed to show it off not hide it. Best advice I ever got. Wearing clothes that fit well are key to looking good in whatever you’re wearing. Thanks for a great video with tons of excellent advice!
Absolutely right, Andrea!
My best friend told me. I always appreciate her input. We’ve been friends since 5 th grade and we are now 70. I love her like a sister!
I find it nearly impossible NOT to wear bigger clothes, because a size down reveals a spare tire & a pot belly. And to me, showing rolls and/or fat belly, looks SO MUCH WORSE, TACKY, LOW-CLASS, than wearing the next size up that "flows" over those bumps. It's very rare to find flattering clothes that make me look my "smallest", and do not reveal bulges.
I'd wear a tent before I wear a lump-exposeing item.
Any REALISTIC IDEAS?
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Oh my...I'm going to donate all of my printed tunic tops! 😊
I love oversized tops , mostly baggy jumpers, I’m now considering wearing more fitted tops too but I’ll still keep my baggy look for when I’m not going anywhere special, love your advice 🙏
Iam 82 and slim. Your videos have improved tremendously. You look so sure of yourself. At one point I unsubscribed from your channel. You looks so fabulous, your skin, your hair cut is so very nice. Good job. Keep the good work. I have learned a lot from you. God bless.
Good advice! Since following you and a few other influencers, I've gotten many compliments on my outfits and purses. I'm 64 and wanted to freshen my wardrobe. It worked!
Great!
@@StylewithSerena😊😊
Great video Serena with very good tips for not looking frumpy as we age 🤩🤩🤩❤️❤️❤️ Thanks for posting 🥰🥰🥰
Hi Serena, new viewer, enjoyed it! I'm almost 80 (can hardly believe it!) and recently cut my long hair to a bob. Wish I'd done it much earlier! On the clothes I like, they're mostly on the "not recommended" list. I live in central Florida. It gets hot. There are basically two seasons: a short winter and a very long summer.
I find jeans too warm except in the very short winter and prefer lighter fabrics. I love sweaters and hardly ever get to wear them. I like sandals with a 1" heel when I go out, but flat shoes the rest of the time. I love boots - used to live up north - but I'd feel silly wearing boots when it's 90.
Probably my worst fashion "sin" - LOL - is capris. I LOVE capris. Cooler than long pants on a hot day, longer than the shorts I wear most of the year around the house and yard. I value comfort over fashion as I have all my life, to be honest. My "uniform of the day" at home is shorts and a short-sleeved shirt for most of the year.
I did buy a couple tunics - big mistake - I'm only 5'3", 140. Because my weight fluctuates a little up and down, I like pants/shorts with an elastic waist. Some look better than others and I look for those. I have some non-stretch bottoms and seldom wear them, to be truthful.
I like knit shirts, mostly plain, but some with stripes or prints. They're comfortable. I like to layer a tank under a cotton shirt and this would probably be with capris unless it was cool enough for long pants. I like skirts because they're cool, but can't find any that look decent so never wear them. Haven't worn a dress in ages - have several I've never worn.
I watched a few stylists yesterday and it seemed like most were dressing for New York. What about those of us who live out in the country? And who have budgets? I don't follow trends or even know what those trends are. I doubt any of my friends know either!
I did appreciate the fact you go to Walmart and the other stores you mentioned. There are bargains when you hunt. It's just not knowing what to buy. I've been thinking about it today and my friends and I mostly all dress just as we did years ago. I have a couple favorite stores and since I don't like shopping (never have!) go to those stores mostly. I buy new things and still find myself wearing the same outfits over and over.
So I'll keep watching your show. Just toss in a crumb here and there for those of us much older than 50 who still want to look good but aren't "fashionistas". Appreciate the tips! Thanks! Mary
I love this comment. I’m 45, 5’ 6” and about 145. Lately, I think I’m wearing sz. 12.
Most of my life I’ve been very thin, so this new larger and flabbier bod is hard for me to feel comfortable in, and dress.
Where I live in Texas, we have the same LONG hot summer, and short winter. So, shorts and a t-shirt would be most comfortable, but, like I said, I’m not feeling great about showing these flabby legs.
So, I have found a solution! There are linen and cotton flowy pants. They feel thin, and airy, and cool, and they cover my older legs.
@@nattamused9074 Hi, I have a couple pairs of flowy pants and I like them as well. This is probably really pathetic, but I have a couple pairs of flowy capris also!!!
When I was your age, I was also a 12. Then the years went by and I almost hit 170. Yikes!!! Wish I could say I lost the weight by careful dieting, but no. I lost my appetite and for several months didn't eat much. Eventually found out it was a kidney problem which is now much better, but did result in losing 30 lbs. so guess everything does have a silver lining!
When I'm watching the stylists, I usually like the outfits but I'd mostly have no place to wear them! No one dresses up for anything, it seems. I used to enjoy dressing up for work in suits and dresses, but then it went to working remote. I had a co-worker who typically put on a decent top with her pj bottoms and that was her work outfit.
I sometimes think I would have enjoyed wearing the beautiful dresses from long ago, but without the corset. I actually owned a corset when I was in my 20s and didn't need it at all, but did wear it sometimes. Fashion insanity...
Tunic length tops that fit well actually work for us very tall and long waisted gals. I cannot wear most "current" styles- they are all so short. Wear what works for your body and what makes you feel pretty. The confidence is just as important as your clothing.
Of course, you have to adapt style tips to your own needs.
I'm 4'11 and I love to wear a thin cotton tunic blouse with shorts. Long sleeves , but light as a feather beachy look.
Great video!!! Good grooming is always in style. Bad posture is aging too!!! Wear your best colors , it does make a difference !! The wrong color near your face can be aging.
So true!
I’m 72, and don’t care what other people think about my look! I’m very active, so I’m always in work out clothes…(different colors)… usually, I’m wearing a high ponytail…I’m single and after being married twice, this free-spirited woman is free ❤ and dress for me only.
Exactly 💯❤
Th same is my story.
I have always liked to dress casual and comfortable all my life with my hair up in a ponytail or a claw, etc. , same with shoes. I really don't like dressing up. When I retired all those corporate acceptable clothes went straight to Goodwill and the lavender hairdye box was bought. I understand everyone has their own way of dressing and should wear what makes them feel good and nothing less.
@@brooklynrocks2396 I’m the same, most of my jobs with uniforms. I just turned 72, married twice, two grown children, and live in Ca. beach area, where anyone is kinda that way, especially these days. Nice to hear, there’s a lot of us🤣ty
There is casual, comfortable, and flattering. Then there is frumpy and dumpy.
That’s a great uniform. I embrace that!
Great video and advice!! I see many older women with streaks of pink, blue, green, purple in their hair. The problem isn't the color, it's that the rest of their hair is grey and obviously uncared for. No style, needing a good cut. Often they are wearing frumpy clothes and no makeup. It's like the thought is the hair color will cancel out everything else. But it's such a mistake.
Say it louder for those in these rural counties!
I think that is more of a political statement than a fashion statement.
I love your make and hair, nothing over the top, just natural beauty
Thank you!
I enjoy fashion ideas and tips. I’m very petite built but now I’m also very overweight too. I know everyone says they used to weigh less and in my case, I actually did. I saved some of my clothes that I hope to wear again but now I’m approaching 73 very fast. You have helped me decide what to keep, what I can alter to fit a little better and what I should let go. Thank you 😊
U have the perfect face for this short hairdo! Love it!
Thanks!
I can say it! J. Jill; Soft Surroundings are two that cater to those that have something to hide. There I said it and you’re welcome ☺️ Great video! Thank you!
Hi to everyone! I am 75 and love dressing up not overly I attend an adult center and love it. I wear my hair in a bob but sometimes I do wear it curly. I still go to the gym. I love your videos ❤❤❤❤
I found that when I stopped coloring my roots and hi lighting my hair it got healthier! I now can wear my hair longer because it’s thicker and it’s a natural beautiful silver color. I’m 64 and my hair has improved so much! Just a thought for those whose hair is thinning due to chemical treatments. 🤷🏼♀
Me too. Stopped colouring in the pandemic, loving my healthy grey locks☺️
Thank you for the tips! I am 56 and was concerned about wearing items that would be considered too young. In going to keep doing what in doing. ❤
Love the cream & white together. Very classy combo.
I love to look current and stylish! I take an interest in myself. ❤ Thank you for your support!
You are so welcome!
Totally agree Serena! I have been a stylist for many years and don’t believe in old fashioned blanket rules, we are all individuals that is the important rule! Really enjoy your videos! Thanks so much! Evie (68) from Australia
Thanks so much!
Don’t let people tell you you’re too old to wear something. AMEN to that. You look fabulous in those mini skirts!
Enjoy your videos Serena and this info is so on point. By the way I think this haircut is even more flattering on you than the previous style! Poor posture is another "style" issue I see every time I go out anywhere, even young ladies now, it is truly aging!! Thanks for making your great videos!
You're right about that!
I’m so glad you mentioned hair! The worst is too long hair when it’s thin so it’s see-through. If hair is thick and layered a little, soft around the face, it can be gorgeous! Advice from stylist should be a must as our face ages and a different style would be more fresh!
So let’s tell all woman that have thin hair to stay inside…we shouldn’t have to look at them
@@Dit1160I have thinning hair and I don't care what people say or think. I'm gonna wear it long. I think people like that are insecure and terrified of ageing. I feel sorry for them.
It's hard when we want long hair but it doesn't work out! I agree though my fine hair looks neater shorter
I know my hair is a little long but I still like it, as do my stylists..I change stylists a lot!🙄
Oh..... If my hair isn't healthy and shiny none of my outfits are going to look good anyway. Well, I guess as someone with an autoimmune disorder that affects my hair, I guess I'm screwed unless I want to wear my wigs constantly. Might as well stop watching now.....😮💨
Just love your southern accent!!❤
I love the blue flowered shirt and white pants in the Walmart video. That was my favorite look today.
Love the practical way to incorporate trends to my style and not be grumpy!
I’m so glad I found your channel. I’m in transition and losing weight. I gave up on trying to even to look like I’m among the living.
Your videos are awesome and gave me back my confidence to look as good as possible at any weight.
I am tiny and I wear a size OOO Petite. Everything is too big because I am slim. J. Crew sometimes has my size. I was always tiny and slim. After vanity sizing, everything in what was once my size is huge. Always took care of my skin which was and is dry like my mother's. Very lucky to have a style which is classic and I tweek it to stay current. Clothing which fits well is flattering, no matter what your size. I am going to be 74 next month, and aging gracefully. My hair is in a bob below my face, above my shoulders. Short hair is terrible for me, long neck, hair frames my face. A smile always brightens every face. I love vintage shoes because they are my size 4B. You have given wonderful advice, for everyone.
I work at Chico’s part time and they are trying to appeal to a younger demographic.. I have some pieces from their that are awesome! A short waisted leather Moro jacket with puffed sleeves and even a long puffer vest! The clothes are getting better and not so frumpy! I complained that some of them look like Alfred Dunner from Belk and Pennys! That’s a very frumpy brand!
My grandma wore Alfred Dunner "sets" in the 1980's & 90's. LOL..
Glad Chico's is trying to update their look.
I love your outfits so classy and trendy
The white pant outfut and skirt outfits look so good on you!! One thing I can't stand is crocs. Like why? They're just hideous!
Serena you are very pretty, and are aging well. Just found your channel yesterday and have been binge watching. ❤
Thank you & welcome!
Love my Ziip but thank you for the discount so I could stock up on my favorite gels :) I buy and wear a lot of Loft's blouses with prints (I also buy their blouses in solid colors). Long sheer sleeves hide the parts of my arms that aren't my best feature at 60. I can wear them with jeans or under my business suits. My daughter's college age friends say I dress preppy. I would say the most youthful look is a HEALTHY one. My mom is 77 and rather enjoys telling everyone she's frail, elderly, etc. That's not a look I ever hope to wear. Doing weight training, Total Gym, getting my daily walks in, flexibility exercises: thats the most youthful look: strong, flexible and vibrant.... Taking care of yourself: mind, body, skin. Still caring about yourself and not "letting yourself go."
100% I agree with you about taking care of yourself! My 82 yr old aunt has always stayed active and no one can believe her age. Even though she has dementia, her body is strong, she isn't all hunched over, doesn't use a walker, and has a youthful demeanor.
How long have you used the ZIIP? What do you think? I'm
New to it but love it so far!
I love it! I used Nuface for years and really kind of dreaded using it (I was still consistent though). Only had the Ziip since July and I love using it every single time. Love the different treatments. Can adapt depending on my time schedule (like doing microcurrent during busy work week and on weekends I always add in the nano current treatments too). I'm not most observant but I know that it just helps my skin stay hydrated, plumped and firmer...@@StylewithSerena
Loving the red
Thank you for calling out the "rules" about what we can wear dependent on age. I'm 5' 5'' but have a long body and short legs so longer skirts/dresses make me look frumpy. I've always preferred my skirts/dresses to fall on or above the knee, except where I've had longer dresses/skirts that had a long slit. Sadly now I'm 63 my mother constantly comments/disapproves about how short my clothes are (at the shortest they are just above the knee, tbh thinking back she did this when I was younger too). I ignore her, but it has made me question if I am dressing inappropriately. My husband tells me to ignore her and that I look better in a shorter length. It is really good to have that confirmed by another woman xx.
Absolutely! It depends on our body type/shape, not an age!
I love your style, and you direct nature
Love your expertise ❤
I love your idea of bringing in colors and textures...throw in something unexpected.❤
I hate seeing a chipped polish. I guess this isn’t necessarily frumpy, but it looks sloppy.
Ugh, agree! Also toenail polish that's so grown out it's halfway down the nails!
Loved this I’m classy Talbots but also trendy too
Hi! I had to go back and look at your hair and YES! This new look is so chic! I lost my hair and from bald to growing in, the compliments were constant. My hair is just above my shoulders now and I go back and forth whether to let it grow or not.
I've heard no to navy blue with chocolate brown.conversation pieces are fun and makes you stand out
Love your observations and tips! For the people that don’t agree, my advise is ~ You do you 🙂
Serena, thanks for sharing!!
Great video! Very good points for us to think about. One of my biggest pet peeves that i notice in older women…they do not wear the proper bra size or even the proper bra for certain clothing. There are also “sister sizes” of bras where we can go up or down in size, for a better fit. So many women do not understand why bras use to be called “foundation” garments!! Because you need a good foundation (proper fit) to have your clothes fit your body. Too often women wear sports bras that do NOTHING for them except make them look FRUMPIER!!
Amen!!!! I mentioned this in a previous video of mine. I get that people like comfort, but not wearing proper support just makes the girls saggier! Yes, it's an epidemic!
@@StylewithSerena I do need to add..your haircut is just fab, and that pink sweater is a great color on you. My fav outfit so far..was the black pants and tiger jacket…million bucks look for sure!
Great style tips! I love your hair. It looks great on your pretty face. 😁
The white sneakers with the striped beige/cream sweater looks amazing!!!
Serena, your hair color and cut look beautiful in this video, and your soft pink makeup is very flattering.
Thank you so much!
Wow I love your advice
Serena, first time I see you without make-up. OMG what a beauty you are even without any make-up!
Oh thank you!
I’m new to your channel and loved everything you said today. I’m “older” (77) but feel younger. Lol! I’m 5’2 and am self-conscious of my tummy. I live in Florida so we don’t layer very much most of the year. I’m learning to not dress frumpy. I bought the ZIIP Halo about a month ago and have used it every day. I agree, it’s easy and fun to use. Results show up immediately and I’m hoping for the long term effect also. I still wear short skirts as midi-length looks frumpy on me unless it’s very straight. I’m grandmother to the bride soon and need a floor length black gown for her wedding. I feel it will overpower me and would like to have suggestions on what to look for. Thanks, Serena.
Thank you for your comment about this skirt and dress length because I was cleaning out my closet getting rid of things that was a little bit above my knee but I am a thin woman and I have many skirts and dresses that come right above the knee and maybe just a little bit shorter that looked just fine. I was going to get rid of those but now I am not because I can still look like a lady in them. Thank you so so much, have a blessed day you’re the best
I love the color Red
I'm so glad I found your channel, Serena. You are "right on" in your style selections, and since you are the same colouring as I am, it is more helpful to me to see what you are choosing. The tunic tops will be a giveaway, and I do like the trendier looks.😄😄😄
Welcome!
I avoid floral patterns on fabrics. A muted colour palette is classy and stylish on any age group. I style with long thin chains or handbag statement .
Hi Serena, i really appreciate your ideas for stylish dressing. I feel a lot more confident when i go out now. You have done that for me by creating these videos. Thanks so much.
@@janetmurphy9378 you're so welcome!
I love the look of mixed patterns, same colors, but different patterns! 😊
Amazing !)
13:32 I’m so glad red is in, because red is definitely my color. I get compliments every time I wear this color. I have a stomach, but I know I look better with a sinched waste
Thank you for saying wearing bigger clothes make you look bigger. You're right. ❤️
I use loose clothes BUT only in monochrome. Black top and bottom long thin chain around neck or colourful scarf. I do the same with white outfit. Actually an off white is more flattering. I’m taller so maybe that’s why it works.
Cute earrings today.. thank you for the good advice.
The white and tan outfit looks so chic! I love it!
Oh, my gosh!😮 I have a mature, round friend who wears that zebra print crazy quilt stretch polyester tunic all of the time!😅
I love red! ❤It’s my color!!!!
Dirty shoes. I see people who seem to not notice their shoes need a at least a wipe down. A beautiful heel with crusted mud on the sole, or white tennis shoes with dirty sides. It just spoils the look. The worse is a nice outfit with old raggedy flip flops😊 just a few things I notice.😊
Very true!
sneakers and trainers are often so dirty. looks nasty and pretty trashy
Check out Golden Goose tennis shoes !
@@islandgirl21131 yes, the broken in look is popular. My P448 sneakers have the same look.
I totally agree about footwear!!! I don’t even own a pair of flip flops, just buy and wear a pair of cute sandals instead, they don’t have to be expensive🌟
I don’t see your lipstick on the list?
Sorry, I don't remember what lipstick I wore in this video. This was posted last fall.
Fantastic advice Serena. I particularly enjoyed your Myth Busting segment. Thanks!
I have a very difficult time finding tops/sweaters that fit my arm length & I hate having to turn the cuff up. It doesn't have a good look to me so I will purchase 3/4 length tops when possible.
Petites.
Thank you for saying that about not wearing certain things when you are a certain age because I was in the process of cleaning out my closet because I thought I was too old to wear certain things, but I have the body and the figure to wear them and they still look good on methey’re really nice and beautiful things. Thank you so much. I’m going to keep them and put them back. I love you. Thank you so much wow wow Kathy from North Carolina.
Thank you 😊
Thank you Serena...lovely helpful ideas!!!xxx
I used a stylist for a second and everything she suggested was SO unflattering.....her suggestions just emphasized my problem areas and made me look 12 months pregnant
I just found you and love your videos. You are exactly my size with the exception of, I am 5’3” tall and wear a size 8 shoe . The videos I have seen of yours, so far , have answered a lot of questions I have had about sizing for myself . Since we are somewhat busty, for example, we can look frumpy with certain tops . You have helped me so much and I know what you are saying are the answers to many of my thoughts I’ve had about clothing for my size especially. Thanks so much and I’m gonna enjoy past and future videos you have .
Welcome! Glad to have you!
Love your eye shadow! Would you mind sharing?
@@cathyhans6995 I use a palette very similar to this one rstyle.me/+W-USTkqVLV5dcK29FQoIfA
Serena please provide a link to the gold ballet flats. Thanks!
rstyle.me/+8GWDKOZf1seuACtdeJNaFQ
Hi Serena, you're hair cut is adorable❤I like it shorter too❤
Thank you! 🤗
Scarves help add texture and additional color.
Thank you for starting with hair! Too many woman cling to longer hair.
They do. And if you have thick, healthy hair then by all means wear it long, but too often I see frizzy, dry thin hair that's too long and that's unbecoming.
@@StylewithSerena you’re right of course. I didn’t mean to make a blanket comment. My mom told me when I was very young that my head wad too small to wear long hair. 😂
My long hair is one of my best features at 71. I’m keeping it.
I agree just find your most flattering look on you
I appreciate your clothing tips. I am guilty of trying to hide my protruding stomach with oversize tops. No more! Point taken! I am off to purge my closet of my frumpy pieces. Thank you for the inspiration.
The camel and white combo was beautiful.
I have been looking at your eye browse and now I am going to do my eye browse like yours not so low at the end thank you
This is just the way mine grow. I don't "do" my eyebrows.
Another wonderful video, Serena. You have been wearing the cutest clothes and love so many of your outfits in this video. Thanks for the great ideas.
Thank you so much!
Your video on styles that make u look old i 100% agree with all of it I'm 60
I really appreciate you including all the links! And it’s so nice that the products you show are affordable.
Love the eyeshadow you’re wearing ❤
You are so welcome!
You look great in all the trendy fashions! I love your hair style.
Oh thank you!
What do I think? I think you are fabulous. I saw myself in a couple 'frump-fits' you showed in this video...truly not a 'pretty color' on me. Thank you your honesty and suggestions. I feel like I just made a true friend!
Aw, thank you!!!
Thank you for all these simple tips! You always look great
You are so welcome!
Thank you. Your makeup look is so pretty in your videos. You have shared your skin care here. Is there somewhere that you share your makeup?
Yes, here you go: Makeup Mistakes That Make You Look Older! And How To Fix Them
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I so appreciate this video!! The struggle has been real with trying to stay current but also comfy in my own skin. These are great, encouraging tips! Thank you 😊
You are so welcome!
Love your ideas. Awsome.
Love to see you wearing your examples. Thank you for sharing.
Your makeup looks really fresh and nice in this video! Can you share, especially eyes and lip colors?
this lipliner in Totally Toffee rstyle.me/+uk9FlcCm3mGuOyCuXRp40g
this lipstick in Sazan Nude rstyle.me/+uyKfInOG55xFrdMWIaFPew
this lip gloss in Free Spirit rstyle.me/+4OCOE8jNItES6te1JU5GhQ
My eyeshadow palette is sold out, but this one is similar:rstyle.me/+u12oyIqDtLhcvPqves2B0w
Great ideas!!!
Glad you think so!
Great ideas!
Very sound advice!
Can you do a video on hair. I see so many older women with too short, too curly or too coloured hair or fluorescent hair. They look 10 or more years older.
Hair is not my area of expertise, plus it's a very personal thing.
Thank you for this video. I just ordered the Halo bundle, with 35% discount! Wow! Merry Christmas to ME ❤😂