Carly Simon - Better Not Tell Her

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  • Music video by Carly Simon performing Better Not Tell Her. (C) 1990 Arista Records, Inc.

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  • @jsstar76
    @jsstar76 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    It’s 2024. This song is timeless.💕

  • @Clothahump1
    @Clothahump1 12 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    One of the greatest lost love songs ever written. Carly is such a talent!

  • @sambocus
    @sambocus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    A song that could strike a chord in many of us. Performed by someone who holds more talent, style, grace and Love for what she does. Thank-you Carly Simon.

    • @davevailmba
      @davevailmba ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do this in Karaoke

    • @tomrotolo1706
      @tomrotolo1706 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Unbelievable video

  • @magistrorm2
    @magistrorm2 12 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This song actually makes me cry every time I hear it. Ever since I first heard it on the radio way back in the 90's. It brings back some of the most beautiful memories of my life. God bless you Carly.

  • @MCrick-vb9qn
    @MCrick-vb9qn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Fell in love with this song the moment I put the CD on to listen. The guitar, the drums, the rhythm, the story. Twenty seven years later, I still love it.

    • @MrDaiseymay
      @MrDaiseymay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      precisely, you sum it up well, the complete package is superb.

    • @brandyl2183
      @brandyl2183 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

  • @michelleherrera9353
    @michelleherrera9353 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She had the prettiest hair in this video! Carly Simon is the BEST!

  • @robertbrittenham5475
    @robertbrittenham5475 10 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    So glad someone writes music for grown ups. You are the best Carly!

  • @pasadener
    @pasadener 11 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    so sensous and beautiful. carly is one of the rarest and best

  • @saleconomos473
    @saleconomos473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    In short....Carly does not get much better than this.

  • @jnwalsh3656
    @jnwalsh3656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    TIME THAT SHE WAS IN THE R & R HALL OF FAME!

  • @beeobee100
    @beeobee100 10 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    At 82 years old one might think that this "old guy" cannot experience the feedings that this song brings back to my memories. The "white nights" that me and a lovely young lady experienced in the 70's. I still feel the passion.

    • @beeobee100
      @beeobee100 10 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Dolores M
      It seems that those memories burn in my mind like embers from "the smoke from a different fire",

    • @beeobee100
      @beeobee100 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dolores M Sometimes I can be prolific

    • @beeobee100
      @beeobee100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I'm two more years older, and once in a while when envision those passions and images of my white nights in the 70's with that lovely woman who was 14 years my junior, the feelings will never go away. I am a true romantic and the wrinkles on my face do not stand in the way of memories. Thanks for your thoughts

    • @danawinsor1380
      @danawinsor1380 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow. You inspire me.

    • @ebnolan3856
      @ebnolan3856 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Music and memories transform and transcend us all @bob johnson.

  • @hopppy54
    @hopppy54 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I would play this album for hours...Saturday...
    cleaning house...love Carly Simon so much

    • @amosamaralmarao7846
      @amosamaralmarao7846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eu faria o mesmo!Adorei seu comentário!
      Abraços do Brasil!👍❤😉

  • @DebbieCostanzo
    @DebbieCostanzo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Carly Simon ❤ one of the most real, talented women of our time! ❤

  • @beeobee100
    @beeobee100 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The smoke may be gone but the warmth lingers after 43 years. Just hooked-up with her recently

  • @thomasallen7359
    @thomasallen7359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The "music" of today will NEVER hold a candle to this!

    • @anthonycosta6461
      @anthonycosta6461 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can say that again

    • @erobins8352
      @erobins8352 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ???? You must not be a swifty then 🤪🤪🤪🤪

    • @anthonycosta6461
      @anthonycosta6461 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thomasallen7359 😝😝😝😝😝😝

  • @Shaunbarcalow1
    @Shaunbarcalow1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    One of the greatest choruses to any song ever.

  • @2010metsfan
    @2010metsfan 12 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of the most talented singers/songwriters ever! Compared to today's so-called "stars (Lady Gaga, 50- Cent, etc.) she is light years ahead. Carly's music is still being played 25- 35 years later. Think most of today's "artists" will have their stuff played decades later?

  • @shelaghsmith4045
    @shelaghsmith4045 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When i met my to be husband, he was involved with someone else and this was our song. We were together, in the end, for 30 years, married for only 4.5 years. Lost him in 2019. Miss you so, bunny.

  • @tyrearn9235
    @tyrearn9235 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This woman is incredible. God bless you Carly Simon and thank you for your wonderful music.❤

  • @DaniellePrice-w7e
    @DaniellePrice-w7e 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How nice it would be if they still made music like this 🤔

  • @lillianvandenberg3698
    @lillianvandenberg3698 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This song held so much significance to me over 30 years ago. But still one of the most meaningful.

  • @philthomas8351
    @philthomas8351 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lovely song by Carly.

  • @rclamb04
    @rclamb04 12 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So beautiful and talented

  • @triciabolster8235
    @triciabolster8235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I always resonated to this song...never saw the video until now...awesome. Carly Simon, you are a beautiful genius of a siren.

  • @tonyridlen
    @tonyridlen 12 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Carly has a great voice for singing songs just like this one!!!!!

  • @fredkurzweil4327
    @fredkurzweil4327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this song it's sad I still meet people who have never heard it.

  • @IngerAnna
    @IngerAnna 12 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is such a lovely song about lost love! One of my Carly favourites.

  • @danielr4640
    @danielr4640 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    One of my favorite songs from the 90’s

  • @sojournergjo6436
    @sojournergjo6436 8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    It has been over 25 years since I first heard this song, and I love it as much now as I did back then. Carly, you are the best! And yes, nobody does it better!

  • @chrisschultz8598
    @chrisschultz8598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of the purest voices ever.

  • @naomielou4946
    @naomielou4946 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I can't express how much I love this song. This is one of those songs that has so much emotions attached to it based on memories. Specifically the summer nights in Cape Cod.

  • @nazaholicable
    @nazaholicable 12 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Wonderful sensuous song. Wonderful sensuous video. Wonderful sensuous Carly.

  • @dampergoldenrod4156
    @dampergoldenrod4156 9 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Great song from late 1990-1991. Can't believe it is already 25 years since I first heard this.

    • @lisad7788
      @lisad7788 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Almost 30 now (2019).

    • @dampergoldenrod4156
      @dampergoldenrod4156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lisad7788 30 years now this was heard 1991.

  • @brandyl2183
    @brandyl2183 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Holy shit. I’ve loved this song since it was first played on the radio back in the day. Not until today did I know there was a video. Very fantastic and underrated song by one of the greats.

  • @lindapoplin4473
    @lindapoplin4473 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I LOVE Carly. Bought 2 of these cds. I have all of her albums ❤

  • @shoulderlift
    @shoulderlift 10 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have always loved Carly Simon the singer but also the person she is. Authentic, humble, talented, beautiful inside and outside! Her lyrics are never sexist....never putting down the opposite sex like most female singers do nowadays. Thank you Carly for respecting people and their differences, no matter what gender they are. You are one terrific person Mrs. Simon!

  • @brendakrieger7000
    @brendakrieger7000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy 76th Birthday🎂🥳

  • @kathryncleary2897
    @kathryncleary2897 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She's just brilliant

  • @SteveEcksteinDouglasDrive
    @SteveEcksteinDouglasDrive 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    just hold on to your "precious memories" for as long as possible, for they r the only things that matter in this crazed world. Ms. Simon was from a prior world, so different, much kinder in many ways, especially in the art world. i give myself this " advice" each day, especially when i "slip & fall" music, my refuge, always " rescues & uplifts " me>

  • @sheilawest684
    @sheilawest684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this song. Carly Simon is one of the greatest!

  • @thegrandmasabrina
    @thegrandmasabrina 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don't know how I missed this one back in 1990! Happy I found it in 2018. Have always liked Carly Simon. Music for grown-up people!

    • @MrDaiseymay
      @MrDaiseymay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      mature people, of all ages

  • @MaribethPriore
    @MaribethPriore 9 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    An amazing voice, lyric and music. Nobody does it better.

  • @BigBobber19
    @BigBobber19 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just leave out the white lies, the moon in your window...great line!

  • @patrickwalsh467
    @patrickwalsh467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    It's April; 7, 2019, and I still love this song and the outstanding musicianship. I will always come back for a drink of this....

    • @franniebanani6532
      @franniebanani6532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I broke up with a guy and played this song over n over. Beautiful. Especially over glass of good wine

  • @marieblue
    @marieblue ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “Better Not Tell Her” (1992) is about a woman who is giving advice to an ex-boyfriend about his current flame, telling him to acknowledge some of the truth about them, but not all of it :
    “But if you slip and my name comes up
    Don’t deny that you knew me
    Just leave out the white nights”
    Secretly, the narrator hopes that the ex will come around and rekindle their romance… 💚💘💙

    • @erobins8352
      @erobins8352 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Carly

  • @rosieasmrwhispererzephier7021
    @rosieasmrwhispererzephier7021 9 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love Carly Simon's music

  • @Laureltree61
    @Laureltree61 10 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Awww Carly you make me melancholy. Take me back. Lost loves and sad goodbyes. Such a beautiful song.

    • @hughkurpierz1172
      @hughkurpierz1172 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      LOVE CARLY VERY MUCH I DO

    • @flonk2355
      @flonk2355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And there are the ones you had no chance to say good-bye to..

    • @patkennedy2861
      @patkennedy2861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And I cried when he left me...and I think of you still....I have to say how these words haunt me. And Spanish Guitar music. Spain 1977. So long ago, and yet, just the other day.....

  • @Zurround
    @Zurround 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this song but my absolute favorite song from this musician is GIVE ME ALL NIGHT.

  • @leostamm8537
    @leostamm8537 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don't worry Carly I'll never tell her.Well I better fire my semi up get out of Arizona and get to Atlanta.I'll be gear jamming and listening to your music all the way to the east coast like I do every week for the last 30 years.Love you Carly.AND I AM STILL YOUR BIGGEST FAN.ADIOS

  • @armandotavizon8482
    @armandotavizon8482 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Such a beautiful voice,song,lady

  • @debbresser4908
    @debbresser4908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Honestly this is one song I have to sing and dance to. The CD is wonderful/////

  • @johnjackson7310
    @johnjackson7310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a beautiful lady with just the greatest voice.

  • @magistrorm2
    @magistrorm2 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The most beautiful song I ever heard. I still love you M.A.A.

  • @wannababrit
    @wannababrit 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This should have won Best Video of the Year, the song topping the charts. (I never heard it till last year. Another great statement on the music industry.) The pain caused by an affair - to everyone; but in this video, the least to the man. The pearls dropping towards the end, her white chair ... they speak volumes only Carly can sing. Thank you for posting something so poignant and perfectly done. (P.S. To paraphrase one rock icon, "Give the guitar player some." Superb playing by Mr. Jay Berliner.)

    • @fionam3554
      @fionam3554 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm not so sure it was an affair. She might be an ex, saying this to her former boyfriend, and still her love. They broke up, and she still loves him. They may run in some of the same circles, and she does not want trouble with his current, possibly in fear of losing all contact with the man. I would HOPE the man is smart enough to not put initials of an affair in his diary... but a then-gf, yes.

  • @wintergemma
    @wintergemma 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    And I still love you beautiful Carly! ❤

  • @terezashadden9397
    @terezashadden9397 9 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Always loved Carly s music. Comforting, and she is very talented.

  • @AlHarrington-lp6se
    @AlHarrington-lp6se 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🎶 🎵
    Spent my summers on Cape Cod and Martha's Vineyard, so Carly is summertime with a sailboat on the ocean.
    Worked for a radio station one summer and I had to work the board early on Sundays to broadcast the church service.
    I'd get everything prepared, then crank BETTER NOT TELL ME on the program speakers in the studio- just me at 6am.
    It was my blood pumping jam.
    And yeah, I've briefly met Carly on the vineyard - it's hard not to, she's a local...and tall 😊
    Say your hi and move on.
    Miss the Boogies at the AC on Thursday nights in ob.
    Miss the Taylor parties in Lamberts cove after the show 😅
    TPD saw fit that they didn't last long 😢

  • @riverviewvineyard1143
    @riverviewvineyard1143 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I keep coming back to listen again , again, I'm becoming a fan of Carly ,this is a good thing

  • @petemason59
    @petemason59 11 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    carly simon, james taylor, carol King.
    They wrote most of the good stuff for the past 30 years.
    Not that Fluff that hits the charts, I'm talking about the stuff you remember.

    • @dsofnj5933
      @dsofnj5933 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      need to add Gerry Goffin

    • @brendakrieger7000
      @brendakrieger7000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes and I'm forever grateful

  • @scrumpyjj
    @scrumpyjj 9 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Just fantastic and Carly is so beautiful she can do no wrong for me.

  • @robertaastrologia
    @robertaastrologia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love that she always sings with a big smile....

  • @RosePetal17
    @RosePetal17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Her words and melodies are gorgeous I just rediscovered this song, along with many of her other beautiful songs

  • @cwcricket
    @cwcricket 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My favorite song from a CD that's 22 years old.

  • @thomasallen7359
    @thomasallen7359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was for my ex lover.
    I'd still die for your love.
    That I still...love...you

  • @petemason3336
    @petemason3336 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Face of a Lioness, voice of an angel.
    Cancer survivor.
    sound of my life.
    The new hildegaard.

  • @nicolenebaard8776
    @nicolenebaard8776 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i agree i am a grandmother already but better not tell her is in my memory box forever..

    • @MrDaiseymay
      @MrDaiseymay 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      why not

    • @patkennedy2861
      @patkennedy2861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sometimes memories are our own private escape.

  • @MrDaiseymay
    @MrDaiseymay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    By JOVE---that's one hell of a performance, of a very descriptive story, so familiar to many , and beautifully arranged too. One of Carly's very best. SMOKIN !!

  • @carolewimmer7389
    @carolewimmer7389 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Gorgeous, and one of my favorite of your songs.

  • @bluestar9000
    @bluestar9000 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First heard this on an in-flight music channel in 1991. Loved it ever since. Great song pity it is not well known

  • @louisprofeta3992
    @louisprofeta3992 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Carly, like no other, unique, particular is her style all day that Simon girl, does it windy or rained on, no matter, then good!

  • @tomjohnson7529
    @tomjohnson7529 11 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Wow, no need for meat dresses, personal xrated videos, just talent and oozing sexiness and she can sing too. This has always been my second favorite Carly song.

    • @shihcheChen168
      @shihcheChen168 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the first?

    • @tomjohnson7529
      @tomjohnson7529 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      shih che Chen You're so vain. Love those stories in a song.

    • @tulioalfonsi
      @tulioalfonsi 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Poor James...hehehe
      My first is this one and 2nd one is Coming ARound again and 3rd, Let THe RIver Run

    • @danawinsor1380
      @danawinsor1380 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Great comment. "Meat dresses," lol.

    • @achirichello1208
      @achirichello1208 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Meat Dress? Haha damn

  • @michaelhaydn3493
    @michaelhaydn3493 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i'm ' brave enough' to listen to this, late at night. it works! it's a great track! Carly Simon!

  • @georgeskevis360
    @georgeskevis360 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    still brings back the best memories , thank you Carly

  • @unselfcontrol
    @unselfcontrol 12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Same gorgeaus singer Carly Simon. Beautiful song.

  • @dcsheehan7149
    @dcsheehan7149 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Superb song - always especially loved that flourish of guitar after "why you love Spanish dancing".

  • @magistrorm2
    @magistrorm2 11 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hey Carly your song is a dream come true. Too bad there's so many stupid and evil people in this world. I really love you and your music. Those musicians of yours are tremendously good and like you highly inspirational. I love you dear and happiest of holidays to you and all of yours.

    • @Hippie-i8g
      @Hippie-i8g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Who doesn't love this lady? She is the greatest confessional singer/songwriter of all time. ❤❤💯

  • @brendakrieger7000
    @brendakrieger7000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Her best song..so seductive

  • @guyharvey2133
    @guyharvey2133 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Carly loved her rhythmic percussion

  • @patricemarie2960
    @patricemarie2960 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    .... Wow! .... Beautiful! .... "Fantasia ...... Red Dress Music!"

  • @MikeSmith-cn6ub
    @MikeSmith-cn6ub 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely stunning just like fine wine she just got better with age. I can't imagine how sweet she's gotten now. Mmmmm that's all I can say I still believe in love.

  • @sallysullivan3712
    @sallysullivan3712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love her music!

  • @luisalvarez5973
    @luisalvarez5973 11 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Amazing song!!! It brings back great memories for me. Great video by the way. Amazing voice.

    • @lisad7788
      @lisad7788 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, great memories for me too. :)

  • @julietade1
    @julietade1 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Boy, this brings back memories!

  • @dianevolinski461
    @dianevolinski461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    2019....and I still cant get enough of these songs. Im getting older, 69, but Bob Johnson is sooo right. they fill you with passion. "All that I want is yo" should have been the theme song for Fifty Shades. Wish I had the opportunity to see her in person.

  • @johanschoeman8732
    @johanschoeman8732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful song by a beautiful lady.

  • @lisad7788
    @lisad7788 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the guitar solo!

  • @ms.j...withsomethintsay3995
    @ms.j...withsomethintsay3995 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a great video!!

  • @johanschoeman8732
    @johanschoeman8732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stunning song...!

  • @suzismith9681
    @suzismith9681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anyone here in 2020?
    Shes amazing as always. Carly always brings the goods

  • @annemariesimard1994
    @annemariesimard1994 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you re thé Best ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Julymag123
    @Julymag123 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's new to me, congratulations, Carly Simon. It's wonderful.

  • @juanpsolf
    @juanpsolf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lovely song, Carly! Greetings from Madrid (Spain) where, as you said in lyrics, "the summer is hot"...

  • @geralyne9042
    @geralyne9042 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome video!

  • @bsimon3325
    @bsimon3325 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have the most incredible Smile's I've ever seen.

  • @sibkiss2009
    @sibkiss2009 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Loved this

  • @MrChrissy1r
    @MrChrissy1r 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love her to bits, and yes I am an oldie,,,, just loving the Latin American slant on this version. xxx

    • @MrDaiseymay
      @MrDaiseymay 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Soooo bloody sexy

  • @goodnamesareallgone1
    @goodnamesareallgone1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    an incredible human being

  • @geroaldoconceicao5803
    @geroaldoconceicao5803 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Uma voz espetacular , refinada e cativante obrigado Carly.

  • @kennethmelnychuk9737
    @kennethmelnychuk9737 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is as talented as she is beautiful

  • @SusanAStevens
    @SusanAStevens 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Carly I lost track of you catching up on the years your incredible , everyone tries to find out my originality in music myself, an you and I have similarities yet i have my own originality. Glad I knew your music funny everyone could not pin who influenced myself you are definitely were one. Thank you for your giving heart. Susan