Power of Guilt | How to use your Regrets
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ส.ค. 2021
- Ashish Ranjan is an ex-ISRO, ex- BARC Scientist. He has spent the past 5 years writing a book on his experience of getting selected and working in India's Nuclear program and how he worked his way up into India's space program despite his poor academic background. Ashish had scored 53/100 in Mathematics and 61/100 in Physics on his 12th boards. He had even failed Physics in his 11th Standard. Ashish never got admitted to top universities for his B.Tech. like IITs or NITs. Yet, he made his way into India's two of the largest research organizations as a Scientist. He has recently published a Book, "The Boy Who Did Not Sign" which is a fictional story inspired by a true event in Ashish's life in BARC. The book is about pursuing a dream career despite our limitations and disadvantages, about relationship dynamics we all face, about doing the right thing, and much more. The Boy Who Did Not Sign is now published worldwide (Paperback + eBook).
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➡ Mechanical Engineer
➡ BARC 2017: Selected & Joined
➡ Degree in Nuclear Science & Engineering from BARC Training School
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➡ IIT Bombay RA AIR-10: Selected for Master in Mechanical Design
➡ Indian Space Research Organization 2018 AIR-4
➡ Former ISRO scientist
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I made a huge mistake by wasting 3 years of my life on phone. Addicted to social media.2020 to 2023 I wasted those years.I Can't do the same mistake again from today onwards I am back in my track and make my life worth living .
Completely agree with you. I have been living with guilt almost everyday for the last 2 because I couldn't get into a good college. Then comes a person like you who proves that this doesn't decide ur future. You can rise from any point in life. I really look upto you.
great man there are many like me as well
So true. Glad I could help 😊
you can rise from any point in life. that.
I had completed my 12 in 2021 ..my aim is becoming a good doctor ..i didn't gave my 100% in last 3 attempts. ...i have huge guilts for this my parents spend almost 5-6 lakhs only in coaching ..still i am preparing for neet ...this video is really helpful for me .. i will crack neet ug ....i will make my parents proud.... thanks bhaiya ❤
Kaisa gaya paper
Same here 2021 batch + Neet dropper
Same condition I also wasted 5-6 lakh
I am preparing for jEE 2024 but sadly I have wasted a huge amount of time doing useless stuff. Thank you Ashish Bhaiya for making this video. I Promise From Now On I will Do my best.
Me too bro n RN I've to give my 200% as a bill of my past enjoyment
Same
All the best bro!
All the best!!! How is ur preparation going on now?
I gave Jee mains exam on 29 jan shift 1. I got only 58%ile. Now I am very depressed.
I have to bills now that line got me goosebumps
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exactly.
Thank you buddy. My guilt was that I wasted my 11th and 12th JEE prep. But now I got the motivation that i am going to take a drop and achieve my target at any cost.
Mat Lena please
@@VIDHAYAK475 bhai me apni life ke 4 saal kisi private college me barbaad nhi karunga...isliye jaise hi meri 12th khtm hogi, me pw se apni drop year ke prep chalu kar dunga..
@@IITBOMBAY-km1hj No offence but Please stop using social media or any platform during this 1 year time phase for Preparation because time would pass very quickly. I myself cracked IIT bhu (CS) in 1 year time phase and you would do it too, don't respond to negativity and work extremely hard to the possible extent, You can get definitely get your dream iit. Start working now.
@@IITBOMBAY-km1hjonly if you're disciplined and focused .
@@IITBOMBAY-km1hjbhaii boards ki prep kr rkhi kya?
Hey man! Thanks a lot I found this video. I have wasted solid 1 year of my life in the name of studying CA full time at home leaving my job thinking that I would study well if I get full time. But instead of studying I addicted to TH-cam shorts and living in guilt. I got very good insights from your video and implement and improve and update later!
I needed this..I am also at the same situation...wasted my jee years badly....now ended up in a really bad college....I relate with every word u saying... Thanku so much...I am gonna thrive to be my best version!!
so true. sometimes you know things but you need to hear it from other person. because u have restricted and stop hearing your inner voice long back that you now feel directionless and feel the weight of regrets + guilt
I subscribed to this channel back in 2019 June when I was in 3 rd year graduation.
also attended the Mumbai seminar of Ashish and I had to say this
this is one of the best videos available on this channel
I don't know whether this video is going to get tonnes of views or not
but Now perfectly know what I should do
THANK YOU ASHISH!
you're most welcome😊
Thanks a lot for your trust and support😊🙏🏻
Yes great video but this video should be watched at school time to get easy life.
This is something I can relate to myself as well I have wasted a lot of time and I have a guilty for that but the most part after knowing everything and realising I am still not improving those things... I do the same mistakes and promise to myself daily that from tomorrow I will change but that tomorrow never comes.
Great😎🙌🏻
Till today, I have been working because of my guilt. Every morning is a reminder of what a dreadful situation I will encounter in 2 to 3 years from now. Really I am so delighted to see a person who faced this much of pain and still worked hard to throw light on us. I am pleased that I your thought of guilt exactly as mine. This video made my day. Thank you bhaiyaa😊😊
you're most welcome😊
Guilt and Regrets always forced me to do something out of the box. Completely Agreed.
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Someone can waste their time not living in the moment and always striving for the next thing but also by doing nothing and letting these emotions consume you can leave you with more regret. It is a paradox and any person struggling with guilt right now, usually it’s because they feel like they have failed somehow or not good enough. Actually the universe paves a path and we get to decide with one to take at the fork. All too often people get caught up in which direction to take when actually the hardest path is usually the right path.
Its a rather rare realisation when one understands the power guilt can hold....thank you so much for this video.
Best video... Felt that u said my words for what I have been feeling for last 1-2 years..now is the best point to change the direction
This is something...I have regreted and shall always! You have said something very powerful! Thanks for inspiring many!
Damn the same thing what i went through after my graduation , parents spending money and me not even serious with the life i am about to live.
Much Informative .
Thank you sir.
you're most welcome😊
A single phrase from bhaiya's beautiful lecture...
Time and hard are directly proportional to probability of being success.
I have it because of the past 4 years , I have few more months to turn my life back . Thank you, this video reminds me it's possible to rebounce back .
an underdog who comes from the beneath of the failures, guilt regret and rises like a phoenix is far better than school toppers and achievers. This underdog turned achiever has more words of wisdom than boring one path goer school toppers and achievers. BIG FAN OF YOUR JOURNEY, FROM CLASS 11TH FAILURE, TO JEE FAILURE TO GATE AND ISRO TOPPER!!! BIG FAN !!!!
I agree 💯
Bapre you woke up at right time.. few yet sleep even after 25yrs old
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just when i thought am i the only one who is getting all these guilt thoughts......i thought that it is negative to have them...but thanks to you,now I know that it not negative it is the only powerful driving force which is going to make my dreams come true.
I think I am gonna change my life style.. thanks brother such a thoughtful conversation
Im literally thinking about this from about 4 years and today I got the right explanation but ofcourse I will think about it again but with a different perspective.
Glad I could help 😊
Thanks ashish sir you understand our hearts and situations . I have never done in my life and was numb .
Being a 26 year old upsc aspirant who just quit her job...this video hit me like a truck. All these years I did nothing..literally nothing useful..none of my goals got fulfilled but even today sometimes I do time-pass, get distracted, etc. This video just showed me my place. Thanks a lot! 🙏
When our inner self has that burning desire to achieve something anything can be achieved no external factors can influence it ..yes guilt is something that add fuel to that flame or it can be considered as a small spark from which that desire will originate ...very nice video sir❤️
thanks a lot 😊
you're most welcome😊
You are such an intellect.....better late than never !
At the right time, right place, came across this. entire video felt like it was what i needed to hear at this moment. Thanks for motivating.
thank you so much for making such a video, coming on the camera, and admitting the mistakes that you made rather than just talking about your achievements. This is a sign for me to give me hope that life doesnt end at 18 years. It ends when you choose to end it. This video does not just apply to academics but to other aspects too and I'm so glad that I can always come back to this video and be inspired. 😍🤩🥰
It's definitely time to change. Respect to you sir! I have one month left till my entrance exam and I'll waste time no more.
Recently followed you. I love your videos, especially this one. I liked your speaking style as well. Big fan ❤
I admire you a lot Ashish and I feel proud about the fact that how you have overcome from your problems and failures and hit back with the milestone thank you Ashish a lot ❤❤
thanks a lot 😊
Will come back at this comment and edit it to prove myself !!
If U can I can , thank u for knocking some sense in me at the right time ❤
Bruhh‼️ and how he talked so much sense in just a vid was really. appreciating. This HELPED ME SO SO MUCH , KEEP doing what you're doing ✨
Appreciate that
Life changing video ,Thank you❤
I completely agree with you sir. i have never seen a topper student talking truth about their journey. but you are different from others. thank you for realizing where i stand in my journey. thank you so much. wish you a happy journey too.
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I'm a jee aspirant bhayya.. It helped to boost myself up and run 🔥
Is this vdo help us to come back on track ?
I am not comparing still , He's guiding us the same way Aman Bhai is Doing ❤️
Probably the best video of this channel in my opinion. 😊😊
Glad you liked😊
What a transformation 🔥🔥
thank you so much! glad to find out your channel .
Was literally thinking about it last night....great video and I agree about guilt being a very strong motivational force.
Glad I could help 😊
Heyyy!! Where are you currently in your life?
Is it better?
Guilt and regret, direct it positive way !! 👍great topic to discuss
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i really want to say you ashish bhaiya .. i am following you since 3 year ago..even i am not from technical background .. i found you most inspiring person of my life.. thanks to TH-cam that i found you 3 year ago when i was just going to enter in my college..since then i never look back i work hard and i really feel that there is lot to do more from my side but thanks to you for being with us... p.s this is my final year and my last chance also
Glad I could help 😊
As usual best !!!!
I have the intuition that I am going to get wedded to this man.
Sir Really you are one of the best communicator and orator who knows how to express your thoughts in best way
thanks a lot 😊
What will guilt bring to us? A fire???
Most of the cases, it leads to insomnia.
When people realise they aren't capable to heal the damage they did to themselves, they tend to run away from it , search for dopamine in social media and intoxicants and finally fell into a trap which bends reality in their eyes especially when they are alone. The longer they are in the trap the dumber they turn into. After that , every motivational video works only for the duration of the video.
Knowing our capabilities without comparing anyone and applying them through govt. exams, competitions, off campus placements or anywhere they are required may help to know us better.
And those who used guilt for motivation without falling into trap, they must be really admirable persons.
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Loved every second of this video! Can't be more relatable, tysm sir!
you're most welcome😊
I was really stuck in a vicious loop of feeling guilty for wasting time then numbing that pain by indulging myself in distractions and just making fake promises to myself that I will change from "tomorrow".Now as I am at my all time low , I know what to do and what would after all get me going.Thanks for making this video.I will probably edit this comment once when I feel that I don't carry any more guilt around.
Glad I could help 😊
Really relatable video brother 👍
Wow! So Deep and So Helpful!
This Mic & Sitting Setup is Really Really Good! It's Calm and Peaceful and the best for Deep Talks!
thanks a lot 😊
Thank you for this.
This was one of the most relatable video on youtube so far...
Glad you liked😊
One the most interesting topic . love watching it.
thanks a lot 😊
I like how this concept took a positive turn despite the negative emotion linked in it, good job haha
thanks a lot 😊
As a person with LOTS of regrets, this is perhaps the most useful video I've seen in a while. 🥰🥰🥰
Glad it was helpful!
This is what i am looking for. Tysm
4-5 days ago youtube have recommended me your channel 🥰🥰🥰🥰your life story is mind blowing I love you bhaiya ❣️❣️❣️❣️😍😍😍
you're most welcome😊
thanks a lot 😊
Most realistic session on youtube i had seen ever !!! Thanks brother
I appreciate that!
Thank you so much sir for sharing this, at this point of time your words are so inspiring for me😊
I, m very grateful to you whatever things u said in this video was too relevant to our day to day life where most of the people just neglect the reality or that point u said," hiding from reality", "being optimistic in happiness",it's more important or hard to be optimistic in hard times your video meant allot & helped thank u very much for making us realise the circumstances..
you're most welcome😊
Most repeatable story 😢. This video really give me hope and my next move in life . And I just wanna thank u .uhh love from Nepal 🇳🇵 2
This video was needed👍👍👍👍
It really did knock a great sense into me Ashish!!!Truly grateful to listen this of turning one's guilt into a positive emotion, never able to give it a thought this way . THANKYOU so much ❤😁🙌
you're most welcome😊
@@ashishtorq ❤️🤗
5:45 that touched my 💜
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New perspective of using guilt.
Last emergency moment.
Being honest this is the video I truly enjoyed watching
Most of us can relate m prty sure
Thanks for the vid man
Appriciate it
My pleasure
Sir apki video bahut motivate karte h 🙏
Thanks for uploading this video Ashish. Going through the same situation due to 1 mistake in past which cost me 1.5 years of my life. And now i am working hard leaving everything behind just to get a thing which i could have achieved in those 1.5 years. After listening it felt good that i am doing right thing now. The thought of getting behind of the time is very irritating. Then we need to work hard each and everyday, every minute to chase the wasted time and compansate with something which we could have done earlier.
yeah same situation that i am now in brother....What happpened then, did you turn your life around??
"i have seen what happens after ,i have wasted a lot of time", every student feels that when they know they could have done better if they started studying earlier
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I am "one of those people" who just got in 11th grade and I just don't know what to do, although I was sure about opting for PCM because that's what I founded interesting in 10th. I already have realised that only I will be responsible for whatever I do in upcoming 2 year and they might or might not decide my career. My father passed away when I was 10 and my mother is working very hard looking at her sometimes gives me a reality check that every wasted day is going to cost something . I am not sure but sometimes I think I can get a good rank in jee if i work hard and sometimes it gives me thoughts like what if my preparation will not be enough or what if I start lying to myself . I do surely have a lot of questions but 3 weeks ago I had a lot more and I got the answers from this page I don't know when and how I will find stability in my mind about a career but I will try to take my steps everyday . Thank you for all of this ,your guidance is making my mind more and more clearly day by day and somehow distractions are getting less too
Absolutely the same feeling is going through my mind
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Inspiring vdo... Thanks bhaiya fr such vdo...!!!!!
you're most welcome😊
You realised it when you were 18 , i realised it when I was 23 . I think I can change my life .
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Thank you for making such a video and realizing the thing going for Soo long..
I will utilize my every minute for improving my self...
you're most welcome😊
Yeah sir, this one be most most Adorable and inspiration video for me.
Glad to hear that
Thank your for this wonderful video ❤️
you're most welcome😊
Really Thank you for the video.
Most relatable video on TH-cam. I was thinking about it an hour ago and the notification came (power of Bell icon. Press it guys 😃).
I got a good branch(not that good in terms of placements, but I like it the most) in a govt. College, in my hometown, which is like a tier 3 college. No placements. I feel like I wasn't able to enjoy my college life at all as I was at home for 4 years. Wanted to go to a hostel badly. Most friends left the town for engineering colleges in metro cities. So now after BE, I am preparing for GATE so that I can specialize and also enjoy college life.
Thanks for the video Ashish bhaiyaa. I admire you a lot and look upto you as an elder brother. Thanks.
you're most welcome😊
All the best😊
Thank you so much Sir... Your wording are therapy to my mind... I have wasted my time , I won't do the same & will change the story of my life
You’re most welcome 😁
i am going though this everyday.....................thanks for talk on these things nobody talks on this before you
you're most welcome😊
The way you explain the things is so understandable . I can focus on your words or sentences easily . And thanks for sharing your experiences .💝
you're most welcome😊
Thanks for such a wonderful guidance.
So nice of you
ALL....THESE...THINGS....I..CAN.... RELATE....TO....SELF.....
thank you so much brother
you're most welcome😊
Amazing thoughts very useful every youth should watch it.
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All of them thing about it ......and leave the situation as like it before ......cause they think it's overthing but it's not ......but now u stamp on that feeling .......thanks alot i really think if my hard work is not pay ....cause i have last chance but u give me strength to face on the situation......again thanks alot
Much needed video for me, thanks a lot sir 🙏
you're most welcome😊
Ashish sir vision is always motivating, the biggest advantage is to converting your own disadvantage into an advantage is an advantage
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This is probably one of your best videos.💛
thanks a lot 😊
I do my best
Give my all effort to get my dream
Great
Most awaited topic
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perfect timing
Thankyou so much Sir. Please continue making such videos. It really really is helpful. :)
Thank you, I will
Thank u Aashish Bhai for the video. God bless u. 😀
My pleasure 😊
great video sir👏 at some point of time we all feel guilt about wasting our time and have gone through many taugh time.. this turned me to get an oppurtunity to do m.tech in nit warrangal..thank you so much..
you're most welcome😊