Class toppers do succeed all the time!!! They don’t get the attention they need because it is almost expected of them to succeed. The story of backbenchers succeeding on the other end is portrayed a lot since it is totally unexpected. People love the story of struggle but often times neglect the obvious brilliance around them.
On the other hand, the typical backbencher is also in most scenarios looked down upon, seen as hopeless and good for nothing, seen as someone who won’t have a very good future, etc. It is that academic underdog’s success outside of academics and in real life that makes it a thing to watch I guess.
That's the point! Like If a topper tops The exam,everyone is like "Yeah,It was bound to happen" But If a backbencher does it,The news will spread across the whole City
Suddenly i realized the fact that why i have started failing in my early 20s, i thought what went wrong every single time....but wrong was that i got used to success in my schools nd college and now learning to accept my failure ❤ as a part to life
as you were already a topper. I can say you already know how to get things done ... all you need now is to figure out...where to deploy your Topper Charm. You'll do good.. Just Keep Moving.
Just one failure in class became enterprenur doesnt mean that everyone who is topper in class wont be able to do anything in life! I have nwver seen any topper not doing good in life
Percentage of toppers that make it good is far bigger than percentage of non-toppers who make it good. Make it here is in money, success terms(fame is bs lesser people know N Chandra than Ranveer).@@AbhishekKumar-jm1tw
She spoke my heart..tears rolled down my eyes. I always thought that these were only my thoughts and controlled my emotions, consoling myself to adjust to the situations and crying my heart out when i am unable to..but now my perception towards myself has changed. Thanks!!
I think the title may be misleading OR it's too narrow to think that only entrepreneurs are the definition of success and others aren't. People who are good at academics may become IAS officers, Doctors, Professors or find their calling in other professions. Aren't these folks successful? And who are we to define the parameters of success for others. Success or failure is a highly individual aspect and generalized comments like these should be avoided
No, she is not wrong. Even the ones who go on to become docs or engineers etc, have this issue. Most toppers, who aren't really brainy and only crammer, face lot of rejection n issues during post grads and later in job market. They usually lack creativity that's important in job market. Many have degrees but EQ and creativity is missing. Maintaining consistency despite failures only comes when u have faced these beasts early in life. Even a few back to back failures at the age of 25 + can seriously demotivate a regular topper coz he isn't used to it! He has to maintain the image which is now beginning to shatter. Moreover, the toppers usually aren't jugadu also, that's also needed in life. Mostly, they never give time to pursue a good healthy/hobby, which is essential in navigating bad times. They are busy with books to get into good colleges, and then some job, where many times they are not able to cope the competition present there. In total, many people will relate to it, and hopefully learn something. I'm a doc, and I have many friends into engineering too, mostly my friends were not toppers, but good in class and are definitely faring better than toppers. Even my college topper is not quite happy or satisfied work wise. So, she hit the Bulls eye. P.s. nothing is 100% correct, but is important if it hits the major mark.
@@mge12statemeny that toppers dont face losses in life before 20 is also generalized statement. I am also a topper and have faced many losses , i have gone up and down in my marks . I have come out of most distracting thing for teenager. I also pursue hobby of chess , robotics ( i make robotic models) . And that jugaadu thing is not true , everyone does jugaad (even me).
true but fact is who is earning more will get IAS as their security guard. I am sorry to say that this world is now revolving around money and relations are in danger too. Cheating and lying are considered skills and Innocent people cant survive.
Why is the need to generalise the idea of integrating a topper with anxiety and phobia of failure? And hey ... Sudha Murthy mam was also on this show some time ago,and needles to say,how successful she is,by being a hardworking topper student of her college!!!
And if toppers had fear of failure, they won't go for exams like upsc, CA but they do, and i feel fear of failure is not bad and even necessary, it helps you to work harder to succeed, it's just one should not let that fear stop him from taking the right step.
Absolutely now days there are so many so called videos emphasizing that toppers didn't succeed but those who didn't study now earn more than toppers . These all things without fact are demotivating who want to do hardwork. And sometimes make you in self -doubt. Truth is hardwork is the only key required in every field even today .
Absolutely. See even she made it to iit. Shows she was working hard even in school. Suddenly kuch nahi hota hai. Everything needs hard work and discipline and self sacrifice. Completely misleading the masses. Especially parents. Who are ok with mediocrity. Kudos to parents of toppers.
I am so thankful for people like her...half of an ambitious woman's stress goes away knowing that there are such amazing and strong women having a talk about these issues.
Class topper don't succeed Le : APJ Abdul Kalam,Bill gates , Elon musk etc who are good in studies 🙂 I am not topper but I feel that at the end of the day knowledge and hardwork which matters ✨. Exam ke pehle din padhai karke tum pass or cool jarur ban sakte ho lakin skilled nahi ho sakte 🙂✨
@@StRaNgEr_10035 But nowadays social media try to project that studying before 1 day of exam is making you soo cool and who works hard daily and maintain consistency in their life and make themself topper they are big bold fool 🙂,But the reality is something else 🙂,Can you say me how many backbenchers are successful in their life ? Bro at the end of day everyone have to do hardwork in their life but todays soo called modern media trying to ruin the hard work a topper does in their life. Disclaimer: At the end of the day your are a topper or backbencher it doesn't matter the only thing matters is vision and hardwork ✨,A Backbencher with high vision and hard worker will beat a topper with low vision,but they doesn't say you this thing,they only projecting that Toppers are fool and backbenchers are so cool , seriously it's so harsh 🙂
Woh log collage mai topper hote hai, fir college ke bad life unne harati hai batati hai ki tumse bhi bahut log aage hai, fir wahi topper faliure ko accept karke khud ko orro se or improve karta hai and aage badta hai....... Tab finally ja kar woh succeed hota hai
don't discourage class toppers, Narayana Murthy ,sudha Murthy, apj Abdul Kalam, super 30 Anand Kumar sir ,super 30 Anand Kumar sir students. If you don't want to excel in studies and want to go for acting dancing body building content creation, entrepreneurship, singing, if you don't need to study .. ok. You follow your passion. But don't discourage like this why do class toppers don't succeed. Poor students who don't have money, for them studying is only opportunity to go up in life. If your parents had money assets rich,middle class,higher middle class. Then studying not studying don't bother you. But poor students must study .so they study hard as a byproduct they get class first. Why discouraging class toppers. In one movie first rank Raju they discouraged class toppers. If you want to become Virat Kohli or shah rukh Khan . You go your way but don't discourage poor people who are dedicated to studies. They parents who don't have money to pay school fees. They do part time jobs and study don't discourage them please. Once upon a time I used to work hard in studies.i never become class topper. But seeing in my hard work in college people used to comment me citicise me I won't succeed i won't get campus placement. Please beer biceps i follow you I ate 9 eggs because you said. I follow vegetarian your podcasts . Please don't put tags like this why do toppers don't succeed
They're not discouraging the topper they are just trying to split the fact that to become a successful person failure is important because without failure you cannot become the person that you desired. And mostly failure is a part of your life journey and you have to embrace changes in your life because situations will be not same every time. And I agree, that there are very intelligent people in India but without the hardwork and failure they had gone through that failures and experiences make them a better person or a legendary person!!! right?❤
@Nandinii-mw8pn maybe yeah; I feel what matters when it comes to be successful is what is your own defination of success!❤ And success is actually worths whenever you are happy and grateful for achieving the goals of your life! They're just misleading us from the title and they're just trying to define success without even knowing what the true success is!
Kudos to Vineeta for her accomplishments!!! But, here she is wrong. Why does she think that class toppers don't succeed? What is her definition of success? Is it fame or a good TH-cam channel? Life has so many dimensions...A person could be accomplished in one field but not in others...and rightly so...
In general when you say topper it means - Rote learner Risk averse No creativity Cannot think impromptu Cannot see big picture Cannot connect dots Only academic, no hands-on Etc Hence they fail in business. Funny but Vinita is also a topper.
This is by far the most genuine and best video i have ever seen.. everything she said is 100% true and i think everyone and every woman can relate with it..
She is making a lot of sense !! Her every sentence is worth listening and she tried to cover every factor that matters. Worth giving time to this video.
If you know theory doesn't mean you will excel in practical as well as if you know practical only that doesn't mean you will do great in your life. To become best you must be good in theory as well as in practical.
Why such people have a generalised concept of success defined by money and fame? The exam question paper is same for all but life's question paper is not so everyone has to solve it accordingly. How can someone say that an average student who becomes an actor, businessperson or youtuber is more successful than an academically excellent student who becomes a scientist, doctor, bureaucrat, lawyer, engineer or CA. Or they are consoling themselves for not scoring well before. Knowledge gives you power but one should make sure to have knowledge and not just information.
People who have just cleared their school exams are judging her and giving their opinions , I am sure her academia , entrepreneurship as well as age must have given her more exposure and understanding . Coming from iim myself I can very well relate with her . Management , Business , Entrepreneurship these are the areas where the person deals with the factors that are not taught anywhere , I repeat ANYWHERE and so does life . In my own college I have seen companies coming and recruiting an average mediocre person and DML’S ( majority are getting placed at the end) Reason being they just studied and crammed books all the two years . Where are as some of us participated in b school case competitions, formed groups with different people and learnt new skills every single time with them , many times took risks , failed miserably . When these scenarios clashed with end term exams , we had to decide and take some risks . At the end of the day when I look back I see holistic learning . On the other hand I have seen toppers when coming for GD / PI for job interview end up sweating , not speaking at all , and being nervous . Job interviews at IIMs in 2nd year is kind of very unique they might end up giving anything , be a huge case or many more things depending upon the profile. People pick smart people ( mostly street smart ) The toppers have unidimensional development and approach which kind of works well sometimes ( they are huge resistant to change) because school and college exams give you pre determined syllabus , portion and whatnot . Risk taking ability of these people is nil. Life is uncertain and they get anxious . People who take everything with a pinch of salt where they work but not being overly ambitious and are little flexible go a long way. Because they are not fixated on a particular thing . They keep in innovating , inventing new methods and ideas and at particular point whatever seemed best they move in that direction .Kids in schools and colleges can have the opinion they want to have . Reaching mid 30’s will give slight idea that too only if you look back and observe .
Topic itself is wrong. If a person can't Concentrate on education on his earlier life, how can he be Responsible on bigger things. This topic itself giving wrong directions to students. A person can succeed in both education and Business. Yes, different Fields. But showing Top rankers as Comedians or Villains in movie, social Media should be avoided. It demotivate students
😂😂! MAIN EK TOPPER HUN AUR AAJ MAIN EK BAAT KAHANE JA RAHA HU 🤣! Aaj Mere school ke backbencher welding kar rahe hai aur mai vakai mein unse 1000 Guna acchi condition mein hun Bhagwan ki kripa se 🙏🙏 DUNIYA 3 IDIOTSMOVIE KI TARAH NAHIN Chalti. Han lekin main is baat Ko manta Hun ki kisi se Jalna nahin chahie agar koi humse aage a Gaya hai to koi baat nahin vah uska bhagya hai ! JAI RAAM🙏
I can completely relate to her. My parents are always very competitive when it comes to studying. I was a topper in school. I was working hard and it was rewarding for me. When I get the hit of failure in my life in my undergrads it is still like a trauma to me. Now I get so discouraged that I believe 90% of the time I'll not be able to succeed in whatever I'm doing or want.
17:36 - I teared up hearing this... I completely agree and thank you for saying it out loud. I have been struggling ever since I got married... and it only had a compounding effect after a kid and work stress. I feel like I am failing in every single area of my life spectacularly
Among everything else said a very important message for women who are mothers of young kids, doing job especially living overseas without any sort of help from parents, look after yourself then only then you can take care of your family and run the show.
wow. You spoke my words. I never paid attention to these things at my young age and paid huge amount for it. You are very sensible person and I now regret as I have full responsibilities', young kids and staying overseas and no support from others even I asked others. Now I am just fed-up
Indian household ki kaali sachai she brought out in to the spotlight! Thats why we are behind and will always be behind if they don't change there attitude! Well spoken!
Vineeta's Shark Tank presence is different from her actual personality. She sounds more matured, learned and experienced person in the podcast. Thanks for sharing valuable learnings.
Vinita jee aapka face mere ek girl se milti hai jo pahle mere nearby me rahti thi. Issiliye aapka videos dekha krta tha shark tank pe .... I love ur appearance ❤❤
What she meant by topper not able to do too much is, that it's your ability to handle failure that derive your success, which is seen less in toppers, who are used to success.
There are limited people who are class toppers. So if you see the success number, you may get non-toppers. This does not mean class toppers cannot succeed. This title shows that Ranveer is jealous of class toppers. Success does not mean earning more money to everyone. Success is subjective, so you should not keep this title. These kinds of topics discourage growing children from hardworking. I have seen so many kids nowadays don't value studying because of these bullshits over the internet. So many non-toppers are motivating to not become toppers. I am commenting on this because you have a lot of subscribers and you should not misguide viewers. Be responsible.
I am completely agree with her. Me vahi person hu jise Ma'am be describe Kiya. Matlab poin to point vahi hu me. Or unfortunately me us topper ke sabse difficult and horrible tutn pe khada hu. Bachpan se muje 2nd aaneka bhi dar lagta tha. I cleared my 12th science with decent marks. But I can't clear NEET. Now I retrying for GUJCET exam for admission in bvsc college. Abhi Jo time chal raha he vo muje bohot Dara Raha he. Kabhi kabhi me ghanto Tak sochta hu ki mene esa kya kiya ki me is mod pe khda hu. Infact me jitna Achha student tha usse kai jyada achaa insan hu is acha dost hu. Mere dosto ne hamesha mera use Kiya apna hw me , paper me and many more things. I knew about that but I don't like say no to anyone. Me kabhi kabhi sochta hu ki ek acha inshan banna bura hota he kya? But muje apne Madhav par bharosha he ki vo jo karenge achha hi karenge. Unki marji he ki me Or jyada ghishu so I will. But Aaj ye video dekh kar muje meri situation ka firse khyal aa gaya. And I am sure me ise bahar niklunga.
Class toppers do get Success Im from state board My class topper right now doing his Post Doc from a premier institute in US Even I know few of my seniors from my school All of them succeed in their life Some of them Are Doctors doing their MBBS even post Grad from premier institutes Some of them studied engineering from premier institutes and doing great in their career Non of them fall into "can't succeed" catagory Even I know one Guy He is Brilliant throughout his school later in college he was into alcohol and stuff But later he bounce back and now He is a Civil servent(state pcs) So if you are a brilliant student and you have talent differently you get Success in your life
i always say this parents ko baccho ko kaise jitana hai isase pehle kaise fail hone k baad attitude hona chahiye i.e failure ko sportily leke firse try karna sikhana chahiye . suicides nhi hongi iske wajeh se.
I think success is more importantly based upon how well someone leads their lives and how much they reflect upon their mistakes. Getting good and bad grades is not a metric
Class toppers do succeed all the time!!! They don’t get the attention they need because it is almost expected of them to succeed. The story of backbenchers succeeding on the other end is portrayed a lot since it is totally unexpected. People love the story of struggle but often times neglect the obvious brilliance around them.
Exactly!
Got the point!
I agree
On the other hand, the typical backbencher is also in most scenarios looked down upon, seen as hopeless and good for nothing, seen as someone who won’t have a very good future, etc. It is that academic underdog’s success outside of academics and in real life that makes it a thing to watch I guess.
That's the point! Like If a topper tops The exam,everyone is like "Yeah,It was bound to happen"
But If a backbencher does it,The news will spread across the whole City
Suddenly i realized the fact that why i have started failing in my early 20s, i thought what went wrong every single time....but wrong was that i got used to success in my schools nd college and now learning to accept my failure ❤ as a part to life
Same bro I was a topper in school and cllg in engineering first time I failed
Agreed. I got used to getting more than 95% everytime on everything. I started getting worse grades and got used to it.
as you were already a topper. I can say you already know how to get things done ... all you need now is to figure out...where to deploy your Topper Charm. You'll do good.. Just Keep Moving.
Just one failure in class became enterprenur doesnt mean that everyone who is topper in class wont be able to do anything in life! I have nwver seen any topper not doing good in life
Exactly
Not all toppers become officers as well
Percentage of toppers that make it good is far bigger than percentage of non-toppers who make it good. Make it here is in money, success terms(fame is bs lesser people know N Chandra than Ranveer).@@AbhishekKumar-jm1tw
But most of the lazy back benchers become thele waala
Maine dekha hai topper ko Bagal mein BSc karte
She is the only one.. jo ranveer ko bolne nahi diya..
She's a women afterall 😂
😂😂
Sigma female
This is the only video you have watched
@@Thehollowbankai858 I have seen ..that's y I understand this.. think u haven't seen
She spoke my heart..tears rolled down my eyes. I always thought that these were only my thoughts and controlled my emotions, consoling myself to adjust to the situations and crying my heart out when i am unable to..but now my perception towards myself has changed.
Thanks!!
Roww mat...roww mat...Hausla Rakho.!!😂
Great
I think the title may be misleading OR it's too narrow to think that only entrepreneurs are the definition of success and others aren't. People who are good at academics may become IAS officers, Doctors, Professors or find their calling in other professions. Aren't these folks successful? And who are we to define the parameters of success for others. Success or failure is a highly individual aspect and generalized comments like these should be avoided
No, she is not wrong. Even the ones who go on to become docs or engineers etc, have this issue. Most toppers, who aren't really brainy and only crammer, face lot of rejection n issues during post grads and later in job market. They usually lack creativity that's important in job market. Many have degrees but EQ and creativity is missing.
Maintaining consistency despite failures only comes when u have faced these beasts early in life.
Even a few back to back failures at the age of 25 + can seriously demotivate a regular topper coz he isn't used to it!
He has to maintain the image which is now beginning to shatter.
Moreover, the toppers usually aren't jugadu also, that's also needed in life.
Mostly, they never give time to pursue a good healthy/hobby, which is essential in navigating bad times. They are busy with books to get into good colleges, and then some job, where many times they are not able to cope the competition present there.
In total, many people will relate to it, and hopefully learn something.
I'm a doc, and I have many friends into engineering too, mostly my friends were not toppers, but good in class and are definitely faring better than toppers.
Even my college topper is not quite happy or satisfied work wise. So, she hit the Bulls eye.
P.s. nothing is 100% correct, but is important if it hits the major mark.
@@mge12statemeny that toppers dont face losses in life before 20 is also generalized statement. I am also a topper and have faced many losses , i have gone up and down in my marks . I have come out of most distracting thing for teenager. I also pursue hobby of chess , robotics ( i make robotic models) . And that jugaadu thing is not true , everyone does jugaad (even me).
Absolutely!!!
Most toppers aren't really brainy. 😊Noice.
true but fact is who is earning more will get IAS as their security guard. I am sorry to say that this world is now revolving around money and relations are in danger too. Cheating and lying are considered skills and Innocent people cant survive.
I dont care for the sharktank and its judges but today veneeta has touched my heart by her honest words. Thank you for bringing her.
Very few people understand this side of the business world, I’m glad we are discussing this here today
Why is the need to generalise the idea of integrating a topper with anxiety and phobia of failure?
And hey ...
Sudha Murthy mam was also on this show some time ago,and needles to say,how successful she is,by being a hardworking topper student of her college!!!
Absolutely....let's not berate toppers
And if toppers had fear of failure, they won't go for exams like upsc, CA but they do, and i feel fear of failure is not bad and even necessary, it helps you to work harder to succeed, it's just one should not let that fear stop him from taking the right step.
Absolutely now days there are so many so called videos emphasizing that toppers didn't succeed but those who didn't study now earn more than toppers . These all things without fact are demotivating who want to do hardwork. And sometimes make you in self -doubt. Truth is hardwork is the only key required in every field even today .
Absolutely. See even she made it to iit. Shows she was working hard even in school. Suddenly kuch nahi hota hai. Everything needs hard work and discipline and self sacrifice.
Completely misleading the masses. Especially parents. Who are ok with mediocrity. Kudos to parents of toppers.
This just shows your skepticism regarding you traversing the same path
Endure and Persevere is the best I could churn out for you
Loved what she said. I wish every girl listens to this amazing snippet. Thankyou soo much Ranveer for inviting her to the show❤
I am so thankful for people like her...half of an ambitious woman's stress goes away knowing that there are such amazing and strong women having a talk about these issues.
As a woman i find her repulsive
Her words touched my heart!! Thank you so much for bringing her
Class topper don't succeed
Le : APJ Abdul Kalam,Bill gates , Elon musk etc who are good in studies 🙂
I am not topper but I feel that at the end of the day knowledge and hardwork which matters ✨.
Exam ke pehle din padhai karke tum pass or cool jarur ban sakte ho lakin skilled nahi ho sakte 🙂✨
It's. An type of skill , how your mind works in an critical situation..
@@StRaNgEr_10035 But nowadays social media try to project that studying before 1 day of exam is making you soo cool and who works hard daily and maintain consistency in their life and make themself topper they are big bold fool 🙂,But the reality is something else 🙂,Can you say me how many backbenchers are successful in their life ? Bro at the end of day everyone have to do hardwork in their life but todays soo called modern media trying to ruin the hard work a topper does in their life.
Disclaimer: At the end of the day your are a topper or backbencher it doesn't matter the only thing matters is vision and hardwork ✨,A Backbencher with high vision and hard worker will beat a topper with low vision,but they doesn't say you this thing,they only projecting that Toppers are fool and backbenchers are so cool , seriously it's so harsh 🙂
Success is different for everyone
Too good.. Too good... She has covered almost all the problems n solution of a woman... Thank you for bringing her in this platform.
Iit iim pdhne waali keh rhi h toppers succeed ni krte🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 hypocrisy at its best
Exactly
Woh log collage mai topper hote hai,
fir college ke bad life unne harati hai batati hai ki tumse bhi bahut log aage hai, fir wahi topper faliure ko accept karke khud ko orro se or improve karta hai and aage badta hai....... Tab finally ja kar woh succeed hota hai
There are things which we only felt inside_ and those feelings sometimes remain unexpressed__at certain points she literally gave words to my feelings
She is a damn intelligent and reasonable person.....
Every answer is right and fully justified...
It's highly practical....
Very very reasonable
don't discourage class toppers, Narayana Murthy ,sudha Murthy, apj Abdul Kalam, super 30 Anand Kumar sir ,super 30 Anand Kumar sir students. If you don't want to excel in studies and want to go for acting dancing body building content creation, entrepreneurship, singing, if you don't need to study .. ok. You follow your passion. But don't discourage like this why do class toppers don't succeed. Poor students who don't have money, for them studying is only opportunity to go up in life. If your parents had money assets rich,middle class,higher middle class. Then studying not studying don't bother you. But poor students must study .so they study hard as a byproduct they get class first. Why discouraging class toppers. In one movie first rank Raju they discouraged class toppers. If you want to become Virat Kohli or shah rukh Khan . You go your way but don't discourage poor people who are dedicated to studies. They parents who don't have money to pay school fees. They do part time jobs and study don't discourage them please. Once upon a time I used to work hard in studies.i never become class topper. But seeing in my hard work in college people used to comment me citicise me I won't succeed i won't get campus placement. Please beer biceps i follow you I ate 9 eggs because you said. I follow vegetarian your podcasts . Please don't put tags like this why do toppers don't succeed
They're not discouraging the topper they are just trying to split the fact that to become a successful person failure is important because without failure you cannot become the person that you desired.
And mostly failure is a part of your life journey and you have to embrace changes in your life because situations will be not same every time.
And I agree, that there are very intelligent people in India but without the hardwork and failure they had gone through that failures and experiences make them a better person or a legendary person!!! right?❤
@Nandinii-mw8pn maybe yeah; I feel what matters when it comes to be successful is what is your own defination of success!❤
And success is actually worths whenever you are happy and grateful for achieving the goals of your life!
They're just misleading us from the title and they're just trying to define success without even knowing what the true success is!
I am so glad to hear this. Thank you for this wonderful video!!
Give up the perfection is the perfect line too live life happily 😊
Beautifully said!! I wish every woman heard this.
Kudos to Vineeta for her accomplishments!!! But, here she is wrong. Why does she think that class toppers don't succeed? What is her definition of success? Is it fame or a good TH-cam channel? Life has so many dimensions...A person could be accomplished in one field but not in others...and rightly so...
I think you have not seen whole conversation . She has said many more things its just a catchy thumbnail.
In general when you say topper it means -
Rote learner
Risk averse
No creativity
Cannot think impromptu
Cannot see big picture
Cannot connect dots
Only academic, no hands-on
Etc
Hence they fail in business.
Funny but Vinita is also a topper.
@@kdhd100idk about school toppers, but most of the toppers i know don't fit in that description
Not the correct definition of a topper I believe.
She herself was a topper...😂😂
This is by far the most genuine and best video i have ever seen.. everything she said is 100% true and i think everyone and every woman can relate with it..
She is a topper so she was in iit and iim 😂 but she took a lot effort to build sugar...she was always topper n successful now 😅
She done electrical engineering
Beautiful conversation. Thank you .
She talks about the reality . @trs and Ranveer please bring such realistic people in the show. No more highlighting Bollywood only.
Fabulous takeaways from this interview, Loads of business knowledge. Thanks Vinita for sharing all this candidly..
Loved her clear thoughts..
"" Didi ek backbancher bhi kbhi n kbhi topper bnne k baad hi successful hota h ""
This lady is exceptional. What she said about entrepreneurship & women are gems of truth no one is talking about.
She is making a lot of sense !! Her every sentence is worth listening and she tried to cover every factor that matters. Worth giving time to this video.
Very insightful conversation. Thanks for this, and good luck to both of you
Great and impactful video with real and pratical talks which every middle class human being things
I was a class topper and I have done well better than my entire class of 200 students, stop spreading misinformation
Because of placement kachra
If you know theory doesn't mean you will excel in practical as well as if you know practical only that doesn't mean you will do great in your life. To become best you must be good in theory as well as in practical.
Why such people have a generalised concept of success defined by money and fame? The exam question paper is same for all but life's question paper is not so everyone has to solve it accordingly. How can someone say that an average student who becomes an actor, businessperson or youtuber is more successful than an academically excellent student who becomes a scientist, doctor, bureaucrat, lawyer, engineer or CA. Or they are consoling themselves for not scoring well before. Knowledge gives you power but one should make sure to have knowledge and not just information.
totally
Yup clickbait title
Just because it happened with one doesn't mean will happen to everyone .
Vineeta respect to u !! for bringing out the nitti gritties of the facts of a woman's condition so clearly out in public ❤
Fear kills more dream than ever failure can . thankyou so much . I really needed it at this point.
As a class topper.... this offends me.
Why there's a picture of chatur on thumbnail ....rancho was the topper na!
People who have just cleared their school exams are judging her and giving their opinions , I am sure her academia , entrepreneurship as well as age must have given her more exposure and understanding . Coming from iim myself I can very well relate with her . Management , Business , Entrepreneurship these are the areas where the person deals with the factors that are not taught anywhere , I repeat ANYWHERE and so does life . In my own college I have seen companies coming and recruiting an average mediocre person and DML’S ( majority are getting placed at the end) Reason being they just studied and crammed books all the two years . Where are as some of us participated in b school case competitions, formed groups with different people and learnt new skills every single time with them , many times took risks , failed miserably . When these scenarios clashed with end term exams , we had to decide and take some risks . At the end of the day when I look back I see holistic learning . On the other hand I have seen toppers when coming for GD / PI for job interview end up sweating , not speaking at all , and being nervous . Job interviews at IIMs in 2nd year is kind of very unique they might end up giving anything , be a huge case or many more things depending upon the profile. People pick smart people ( mostly street smart ) The toppers have unidimensional development and approach which kind of works well sometimes ( they are huge resistant to change) because school and college exams give you pre determined syllabus , portion and whatnot . Risk taking ability of these people is nil. Life is uncertain and they get anxious . People who take everything with a pinch of salt where they work but not being overly ambitious and are little flexible go a long way. Because they are not fixated on a particular thing . They keep in innovating , inventing new methods and ideas and at particular point whatever seemed best they move in that direction .Kids in schools and colleges can have the opinion they want to have . Reaching mid 30’s will give slight idea that too only if you look back and observe .
She is telling
But I am feeling same.
I am IT working mother
But who says that toppers usually don't do well in their careers?
Topic itself is wrong. If a person can't Concentrate on education on his earlier life, how can he be Responsible on bigger things. This topic itself giving wrong directions to students. A person can succeed in both education and Business. Yes, different Fields. But showing Top rankers as Comedians or Villains in movie, social Media should be avoided. It demotivate students
Personality types hote hai and success is different for everyone
She is so intelligent
To be good in theory doesn't mean you gonna excel in practical also. Most indian students try to excel in theory coz education system is as such.
13:01 💯 , ghar ke bhoj se , ladkiya jo karna chathi hai wo nahi kar pati , maam you told absolutely right 👍🏻
😂😂! MAIN EK TOPPER HUN AUR AAJ MAIN EK BAAT KAHANE JA RAHA HU 🤣! Aaj Mere school ke backbencher welding kar rahe hai aur mai vakai mein unse 1000 Guna acchi condition mein hun Bhagwan ki kripa se 🙏🙏 DUNIYA 3 IDIOTSMOVIE KI TARAH NAHIN Chalti.
Han lekin main is baat Ko manta Hun ki kisi se Jalna nahin chahie agar koi humse aage a Gaya hai to koi baat nahin vah uska bhagya hai ! JAI RAAM🙏
Don't mislead people from title. Toppers are mostly successful. Bas self motivation hona chahiye.
The fear of fail kills more dream than failure.
Thanku veeneeta ji ❤
I wish I had someone like her in my life guide me. She is really inteligent
Appreciated you vineeta!
Wow what a sensible woman
Her words ❤
I can completely relate to her. My parents are always very competitive when it comes to studying. I was a topper in school. I was working hard and it was rewarding for me. When I get the hit of failure in my life in my undergrads it is still like a trauma to me. Now I get so discouraged that I believe 90% of the time I'll not be able to succeed in whatever I'm doing or want.
I had just now scored 29/30 in physics test and 40/40 in maths test and I read the title 🙂😭
bhay wo ladki jo bolri hai wo khud iit iim se hai
Bhai padhle class toppers hi duniya chalate hai. Ias, IPS,IIT Wale log hi top log hote hai
@@vaishnavivishnoi2278at last he became topper only in results
@@vaishnavivishnoi2278ha toh usne bhi is baat ko smjha ki topper Banna jaruri h ...vo topper bna isliye select hua 😂na ki backbencher tha isliye
Woww huge respect
So true 💯
Irrespective of that, I loved topping or close to topping the class!!
I can relate to d answer of 3rd question of Vineeta. So TRUE..
Best ever TRS ❤ Vinita ma'am ❤❤❤
17:36 - I teared up hearing this... I completely agree and thank you for saying it out loud.
I have been struggling ever since I got married... and it only had a compounding effect after a kid and work stress. I feel like I am failing in every single area of my life spectacularly
I wish vineeta again starts the fab bag like she used to..,.
I have gone through this entrepreneurship, it broke me terribly mentally, financially and physically.
She was damn candid
I just love her..she is so clear
Kind of the best ever TRS clips❤💥....vineeta mam👏
Among everything else said a very important message for women who are mothers of young kids, doing job especially living overseas without any sort of help from parents, look after yourself then only then you can take care of your family and run the show.
Vineeta
What a thoughtful person for women.
Family must help women
Kuch nahi bas karmonka khel hota hai sab😂. Just think positive and give your 100%👍 That's it.
One of the best episode of trs
my MATH is godjillaa type and still i choose to arts and convince my father for my interest in geography and lucky to get him as my father
huge respect for vineeta. She is role model for so many woman, so many man also.
my respect for vineeta 📈📈📈😍😍
😂😂 Ludo
wow. You spoke my words. I never paid attention to these things at my young age and paid huge amount for it. You are very sensible person and I now regret as I have full responsibilities', young kids and staying overseas and no support from others even I asked others. Now I am just fed-up
Majority of people thinking that having a multi million business is the only definition of success 😂😂😂
Indian household ki kaali sachai she brought out in to the spotlight! Thats why we are behind and will always be behind if they don't change there attitude! Well spoken!
Vineeta's Shark Tank presence is different from her actual personality. She sounds more matured, learned and experienced person in the podcast.
Thanks for sharing valuable learnings.
Vinita jee aapka face mere ek girl se milti hai jo pahle mere nearby me rahti thi. Issiliye aapka videos dekha krta tha shark tank pe .... I love ur appearance ❤❤
What she meant by topper not able to do too much is, that it's your ability to handle failure that derive your success, which is seen less in toppers, who are used to success.
this is so amazing , special related to women's career , I could feel that
Having challenges in life is what makes life, I believe.
She is topper
Respect for you ma'am. Knowledgeable as well heart touching
Loved the talk
Hn shi kha.. Dream tut jne ke dr se log dream hi nhi dkhte
Vineeta mam ki baaton mein dum hai
True lifegoodhusband🎉
There are limited people who are class toppers. So if you see the success number, you may get non-toppers. This does not mean class toppers cannot succeed. This title shows that Ranveer is jealous of class toppers. Success does not mean earning more money to everyone. Success is subjective, so you should not keep this title. These kinds of topics discourage growing children from hardworking. I have seen so many kids nowadays don't value studying because of these bullshits over the internet. So many non-toppers are motivating to not become toppers. I am commenting on this because you have a lot of subscribers and you should not misguide viewers. Be responsible.
I am completely agree with her.
Me vahi person hu jise Ma'am be describe Kiya.
Matlab poin to point vahi hu me.
Or unfortunately me us topper ke sabse difficult and horrible tutn pe khada hu.
Bachpan se muje 2nd aaneka bhi dar lagta tha.
I cleared my 12th science with decent marks.
But I can't clear NEET.
Now I retrying for GUJCET exam for admission in bvsc college.
Abhi Jo time chal raha he vo muje bohot Dara Raha he.
Kabhi kabhi me ghanto Tak sochta hu ki mene esa kya kiya ki me is mod pe khda hu.
Infact me jitna Achha student tha usse kai jyada achaa insan hu is acha dost hu.
Mere dosto ne hamesha mera use Kiya apna hw me , paper me and many more things. I knew about that but I don't like say no to anyone.
Me kabhi kabhi sochta hu ki ek acha inshan banna bura hota he kya?
But muje apne Madhav par bharosha he ki vo jo karenge achha hi karenge.
Unki marji he ki me Or jyada ghishu so I will.
But Aaj ye video dekh kar muje meri situation ka firse khyal aa gaya.
And I am sure me ise bahar niklunga.
Class toppers do get Success
Im from state board
My class topper right now doing his Post Doc from a premier institute in US
Even I know few of my seniors from my school
All of them succeed in their life
Some of them Are Doctors doing their MBBS even post Grad from premier institutes
Some of them studied engineering from premier institutes and doing great in their career
Non of them fall into "can't succeed" catagory
Even I know one Guy He is Brilliant throughout his school later in college he was into alcohol and stuff
But later he bounce back and now
He is a Civil servent(state pcs)
So if you are a brilliant student and you have talent differently you get Success in your life
I have seen many toppers succeed very well in life !
Very miniscule but they do succeed. However I have never seen a topper who has been crorepati
@@spoderman69169kya bakwaas kar raha non IIT IIM ko job bhi na milta entry
i always say this parents ko baccho ko kaise jitana hai isase pehle kaise fail hone k baad attitude hona chahiye i.e failure ko sportily leke firse try karna sikhana chahiye . suicides nhi hongi iske wajeh se.
I think success is more importantly based upon how well someone leads their lives and how much they reflect upon their mistakes. Getting good and bad grades is not a metric
Probably one of the best videos on you tube. ♥️
Never compare, build your life, surrender to hard work and still find time to take care of yourself with Yoga, rest breaks.❤
It's About Entrepreneur, Not Specifically About Men Or Women..
Who said class topper don't succeed bro through competitive exams they are rising
Love you ma'am 😮 Seriously Best Motivational statement ❤ I've ever Heard