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Spaulding Decon SWFLA helps a man trying to move forward with his life after his ex-wife died and decomposed for over two weeks in the home they used to share.
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Crazy to think i might die in my apartment and all of you guys will watch them mop up my rot off ground while looking through my cabinets. Reality is strange
And then you wake up and say woah did you feel it 👀
I’m rolling 😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah me too I'm in Florida so.
@Donovan Weeks, Hang a big
sign in your house saying something like “Shoutout to the Spaulding Decon YT fans” and sign it with your username and give strict instructions that it shall not be removed and the camera MUST pan to it and hold so we’ll know it was you. If I don’t see you in the comments for awhile I’ll be waiting for your episode.
@@shelleymichelle4417 bruh
I can't imagine seeing your exes hair decomposing on your floor, being alone, knowing the mess has to be cleaned but not knowing how or where to begin just knowing what you're seeing used to be a living laughing creature you loved.
You sure she wasnt a piece of shlt and an evil in life ? I like how you’re immediately a good loving person once youre dead , yet nobody give a flying fk about you let alone to compliment you while youre alive. Maybe had it been reversed , we would all live in a truthful , honest and realistic life instead of being a bunch of coping “fit in” hypocrites
6:31 that explained my first question
I think he was far past the love thing by this point.
@@Iamyou36912 Just because she's his ex wife, doesn't mean it won't effect him. He loved her at one point, and see to see someone you once loved decomposing on the floor is tragic and heartbreaking.
mas just like i think i saw her face under the towel
For those saying he's on drugs, or there's something wrong with him...i challenge each of you to walk in on a scene such as this from the decomp of someone you had a long term relationship with and not be shattered and/or traumatized. I saw nothing alarming about his actions, but I did see a deeply traumatized human being who saw the liquified remains of his ex wife.
As someone who was an addict for 17 years .. he’s on stimulant drugs.. addicts can spot addicts from a mile away.
And wanting to move back into this house, with a new wife? He's got something wrong with him lol
Please st fu
@@chillaxbot1823 houses are expensive mate he probably has no other choice
@@LunaVicious999 ok anecdotal ashley
as someone whos been on adhd meds aka meth for 12 years who cares
the dudes traumatized he probably wanted something to take his mind off things
My ex committed suicide in the house we used to live in together. I cannot fathom what that would’ve taken to see…the aftermath. I would not have been able to handle this. I’m so sorry that he had to experience this, and I hope somehow he’s found a healthy way to handle it. Much love to this guy and everyone who does this work!
How did he do it was it messy?
Lies again? Cold Storage Cuckold Sessions
@@hardcorehunter9438 probably not an appropriate question to ask someone who lost someone they once and maybe still did love. It’s traumatic. Never ask someone who’s been through a trauma like that this question, please.
@@heatherbroski6900 It’s the internet and they decided to publicly share, insensitive comments are inescapable and this is a pointless comment
@@molotochnik.i exactly
It was nice to hear the ex husband compliment the deceased about how good she was at making Easter baskets (and bringing joy to children).
Agree; more of us should demonstrate empathy and class.
@@shrimpie69 amen to that Ms Beth!
@Bright day your brother is an exceptional person. Even during his ex wife’s darkest days, he tried to help her. May good fortune smile on him and your families
His mind and his mouth are racing ....
@@abocas And? A lot of people are like that 24/7. Doesn't mean anything.
You don’t think that you’ll have to deal with your ex spouse in this way. Poor guy. I mean, he had a lot of nice things to say about her, despite her crazy shooting and what happened with her. It broke my heart when he said he had to throw towels down because he thought he could see her face.
That's what made me kinda upset. He didn't hate her.
Ohhh clearly....The same kind of heartbreak when Hannibal Lecter ran out of napkins.
@@LareesieAlice 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@LareesieAlice what? I think I missed what you’re referring to or joking about..
I hear the man complimenting the deceased and then the owner talks about how the ex husband couldn’t do the cleanup himself because it was too emotional.
@@Bigbaymonstermare the horse on your channel is absolutely beautiful
You did more than a clean up you helped that man through the grieving process. He needed to talk 🥺
Absolutely they did❤
As a child with divorced parents, who went through a nasty divorce , its refreshing to see this. Even though their marriage didn't work out, he still cared alot about her.
wait, why are you watching this
@@johnniea7448 lmao
"She was all over the place..." - imagine looking around and finding pieces of someone, her hair, her "face", shame, he said he covered it with a sheet cos he couldn't look at it. This man needs some help dealing with what he saw. It's pure shock keeping him upright.
not everyone fucking needs help holy shit
@@littleone7262 but how do you know he doesn’t. Help doesn’t mean they’re fucked. It could be something small that just makes them overthink on their mind. Fucking chill bro. Help isn’t bad. Event if your good. Help us good. Fuck off.
@@juli-hannah3569 😂😂😂👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@@littleone7262 If anyone out there doesn't need to talk about something THAT horrific, there is definitely something wrong with them. You need to seek help if you think your comment was appropriate.
@@littleone7262 I agree not everyone is in shock it seems common but some people have a good support system or have been through things that have made them numb to death.
He is telling the truth about you having empathy. People really need that during times like that and you are very empathetic to all of your clients. Thats very important and that will always keep you busy because you care.
I wonder if the first meeting, when it was just the two of them, allowed dude to show such vulnerability. It must have been awful when he was alone in there, scrubbing away.
@@shrimpie69 I know your mind does play tricks on you Beth, that faulty light switch at night while he was sleeping outside flickering. Sad I just hope Her son is ok and the innocent cat's for they don't have a voice. Kindest thoughts to you and your family from Australia
Well said Lisa. Kindest thoughts to you and your family from Victoria Australia
@@Judy.LoveandLightAlways What a lovely and unexpected comment; thank you!
With this kind of "sensitive" work, showing empathy is just good customer service
Florida's got a big problem with people dying all alone and decomposing all over their home. Yes, I agree the lady from this company is really kind. She has a soft warm way about her.
I’m thinking it’s because that people go there to retire there often. Also, it seems that there’s people with some serious issues there too.
@@Initium1000yes I think there are a few big recovery centers there.
Florida is dubbed God's Waiting Room for a reason.
My dad died in his house and decomposed on his couch for roughly two weeks. Neighbors called on him too.
I had no money. My dad had no money, no assets. Debt out the ass. I couldn't afford a lawyer. I couldn't have any if his stuff. Couldn't afford bio hazard cleaning. No family to help me.
Basically abandoned the house I had NO CHOICE. He owed too much money. The bank locked it. Almost two years now and it's still there, couch he was on is even still in there. Nothing ever got cleaned. This breaks my heart all over again
No way that’s possible
I can't believe it, why isn't the government doing anything about this? 😮
@@adazeobazee4145 There was a missing person's case a few years ago, a guy disappeared on a drive but they found his vehicle and his discarded clothes on the side of the road. The cops had his car towed and left all of his stuff there at the scene. The missing guy's father came upon his son's belongings. He heard they'd found his vehicle and went to the site to find all of this evidence strewn on the side of the highway. It is absolutely possible. People are eff-ups sometimes, and our government is just made of people. Plus a lot of banks these days know they're not getting anything out of the property because they overcharged for it, in an area where the real estate market wasn't great, so no one comes for the house or property.
When my mother self exited, she apparently climbed off her bed at some point so there were some fluids in the carpeting. My story is very similar to OP's, I was 22yo, and we were renting. My ex found her. Landlord asked us to clean it and never called someone, so we bought a ton of oxyclean and did our best. Then I shut the door and didn't go in there until we had to move. I took what I wanted and left everything else. I had nowhere to put her stuff, a very small moving truck, and very little help. Landlord had the place ready to rent the day after we moved out, never told the new tenants someone had died on that floor 8 months ago. My ex and I co-parented well for 17yrs, and we still do things together as a family even though the kid is grown, but almost 2 decades later he's still messed up from finding my mom like that. Only other thing I've ever seen him react like that to was a huge car pile-up he was involved in that he thankfully walked away from, but both incidents marked him deeply.
Holy crap
I’m so sorry, that is absolutely horrific to have to go through…
these videos don't usually make me sad but this one just hit hard. He's staying calm explaining everything but he's talking so fast it makes me think the shock is what's keeping him so calm. He talks about how her job was making kids easter baskets and idk it's just the idea of finding someone you are that close with and trying to clean up their decomp on your own it's heartbreaking
I was thinking the same thing, I feel like no one should have to do that in the end. I feel bad for the guy and her family.
I've got social anxiety disorder & the way he's talking reminds me of how I communicate when I'm anxious.
I feel very sad too
You can definitely tell his mind is going a mile a minute. Poor guy.
Exactly what I thought..I think finances is the issue. Why else would someone voluntarily try to clean up an ex's decomp themselves, live at the house ( sleeping on the porch ) for 2 weeks and move in once clean up is done? I hope he will seek therapy for what he's been going through. Imagine seeing your ex wife's decomp facial imprint and whole head of hair on the floor of your house. I genuinely hope he seeks therapy for all he's dealt with.
How horrendous, he could see her hair and possibly her face melted into the floor. I feel so sorry for both of them .
Yeah, broke my heart when he said he had to throw towels down so he didn't have to see the imprint of his dead ex wife. He's going through so much emotion while trying to remain composed. Poor man
Nature. more then likely if her body had not been removed yet, it was skin that had peeled/slipped off
That said they had taken the body but left the mess…
They said, she had a melting personality......
Yeah I get it but it's a natural part of life, one day that will be all of us getting scraped up off the floor, unless you perish in the hospital, but the majority go at home. I guess having lost loved ones close to me has made me more accepting of the inevitable
This is tough. I couldn't imagine scraping the remnants of someone I know never mind someone I had a relationship with in some way. This guys a gem. I hope he's doing ok ❤
Yeah, it's tough when it's someone you know. That's why we love doing what we do to offer this kind of service. That way we can clean everything up and take the burden away from the family.
@Collins Avenue one way i heard is that they dissociate and say it’s food or some sort ig
@@God_YeeterI have always disassociated into thoughts of flowers and paint when dealing with things of this nature personally
I had to clean up after my dad's murder/suicide and that wasn't fun in the least.
If my man said "hey, let's move into my ex wife's house, where she died and liquefied on the floor" I don't think I could do it. And I certainly couldn't stay there for 2 weeks with it LIKE THAT!
Yeah... haha That's a pretty hard ask for anyone
Some people aren’t bothered by stuff like that
Makes me raise an eyebrow.
I agree, my cousin was killed in her home. Her ex husband moved in with his new wife and the marriage didn't work. I mean the kept the same furniture in the home for years. After a while she finally moved on.
It's a nice home
This guy no matter how bad his ex wife got he didn’t say anything negative about her which is rare especially when it’s an ex and a lot of divorces cause a bunch of negativity towards each other.
Did you not listen to him? Lol
@@klocke9904 yes he was talking about what she did but he wasn’t being negative like a lot of divorcées would do to each other.
Do you know what a Narc is?????
This guy is an intrusive jerk. He absolutely doesn't need to be there and he shouldn't be. He's supervising because he thinks they can't do their job without him. It seems highly inappropriate to me that a dead woman's ex-husband should be going through her stuff making comments - positive or negative - for the cameras. I assume there are no family members to take care of things, but if there are kids, he should have kept his distance and just advised them, not stepped in. If there was no one else to take care of her things after death, I feel sorry for her but glad she didn't have to spend her last days with him.
@@jacquelinehowell1485 yeah. He’s a covert, soaking up that narc supply for sure. He’s loving the situation. ‘She tried to run the house or whatever’ (code for ‘see how I was the only thing keeping this together. . . I’m so right’) Agree with you, total narc.
My dad died in a camper trailer in a bed over the cab. My mom had to clean it. We had NO idea about these people that clean life's accidents...that would've been so much less PTSD
I'm so sorry.
How long was he there?
Jesus
We I’m so so sorry.
I would've just got rid of the RV no way I'm doing all that. Bless your mom
That poor guy. How he lived there for two weeks trying to clean it himself is astounding.
none of y’all think it sound suspicious?? idk he came off very iffy
That is just nasty. Wasn’t till he found a place to clean for free or a discount so they could film it. I realize they do something good for people, they have to make money as well so if they do it for free so they can film, but him pointing out her head of hair with no emotion is disturbing,
Did he murder her?this is odd.
He is disgusting the way he is talking about her as if she’s not litterally dead right on the floor. 😡 sick human being. He probably did it.
@@jocelyn.__. Showed very little emotion, kinda sus
She brought joy to children, but she also brought the heat. This man is truthful
I'm sorry, but I think if it were me, I'd fix the house up & sell it. I wouldn't want to live in or have my new spouse live in the house where the ex died & laid there for a couple of weeks dissolving on the floor. That would creep me out, big time.
@fiery but mostly peaceful Ex wife, he doesn't love her anymore.
Yes!!! Thank you!! Lol, I just read your comment after I posted mine!!
The fact is it was his home he let her stay there he was left with nothing. It appears she had difficulty 1 with mortgage 2 upkeep so maybe to sell it he would be left with no place to live still except I assume his apt. A larger mortgage and cost to make marketable. It was a practical choice. I don't think he showed disrespect to his x
@fiery but mostly peaceful I thought I was the only one that noticed that! It gives me weird vibes.
Nope no thank you.
To everyone saying, "how could he live somewhere knowing someone died there?!" I live in a 1 bedroom apartment where the tenant before me died of OD and wasn't found for a few days. I would NEVER KNOW if it weren't for neighbors. It isn't that deep. If you live in a house that you don't know the history of, someone probably died there.
I lived in an apartment who also had a former tenant that died from an OD and after a couple of months of living there all of sudden one night I felt extreme anxiety that I was not alone and started downloading ghost detectors on my phone and it showed colored orbs and one was close to me all of a sudden I seen a dark smoky entity walk down the hallway toward the living room. I was frozen from fright! I moved out of there real quick! I don't mess with housing when someone died in there
My dad died in 2011 in his bedroom in our house; my mom and I still stay here. Thankfully, his passing wasn't a case like this; my mom was home when he died of a heart attack. We did keep the door to the room closed for a little while after that. Eventually, you have to work yourself up to go through their belongings, take off the bed sheets that still smell like his cologne and deal with it all. But it's not scary, we don't expect to see his ghost or anything. Mainly, it was just a feeling of emptiness in that room afterwards. Nothing supernatural about it; one moment my dad was sleeping in that room, the next moment it was empty of him. That's the scariest thing about someone dying in your house; how empty it feels when they're gone.
@@mistressheather My Mom passed in our house. She had her bed in the lounge as she couldn't walk up the stairs and we had moved all the furniture out to have her there. You're right, in that there's nothing creepy about it. I'm just grateful she died at home with loved ones. Fell asleep and never woke up.
It's not the dying part that upsets people. It is the thought of another person liquifying litterally, with body absorbing into the woods, and smells and insects/bugs...aka maggots..etc that upsets people.
@@jacquelinehowell1485 You might be surprised about that. There are a lot of people who are squeamish about staying in a house where someone has died. The stains and bugs can be cleaned, and after a time, the smell of death will eventually lessen. Honestly, the thought of a person liquifying doesn't faze me; humans are basically sacks of meat swarming with bacteria. I would be more horrified if we didn't decompose like that, all things considering.
A guy died in the apartment above a friend of mine. He called it in because he started leaking through his ceiling. The smell would slightly return in hot weather. He had to move out in the end
Omfg I can’t imagine that….. imagine sleeping and something starts leaking on your face through an AC vent in the ceiling or something 🤢🤢🤢🤢 I say that cause my AC vent in my room is positioned right above my head where my bed is
A male neighbor died in the left of me and another male neighbor died in the right of me in their apartments. One died of AIDS and the other one died of a heart attack/fall he was a smoker.
My ex fiance died alone in a wooded area and was missing from May-November before he was found. His cause of death wasn't determined due to the level of decomposition. He died in 2017 and I still have nightmares about what he would have looked like decomposing in a forest 😔
Despite not being together, he was someone I loved and planned on spending the rest of my life with so it's truly traumatizing. Somehow watching these videos almost lessens the pain because it educates me and almost normalizes the process so it becomes less haunting.
Thank you guys so much for what you do
I'm so sorry dear. This existence is painful. Leaving and reuniting with the source is a kindness. It sucks for us left behind ♡
This is a very difficult process, I wish you to be patient. 😢
Bless this man's heart. He did all he could do. Sending prayers to him and his family. Spaulding did an excellent job with this. Empathy is a requirement in a profession like this.
Empathy is a requirement for the dealing with the customer side of the job - doesn't mean all operators have it, but it can make a big difference, absolutely.
Absolutely empathy is needed.
I see right through him. You all are naive. He was extremely sketchy and creepy being there casually talking about her body. Wtf he’s a psycho path! The fact that grown adults don’t know the definition of a psycho pathological person is crazy. Look it up. He lacks emotion and goes on and on about himself. Weird.
the fact that her job was making easter baskets for kids... This one actually made me feel sad :/
I felt that sadness too. I was thinking of the children & their baskets.
@@mimiluvs3538 she was selling them not donating. If the child was in need where would they get the money from to buy one of her baskets?
Me too :(, my mom made easter baskets to earn money sometimes when we were kids, she is still with us thank god but she has always been caring and hardworking
Yes well she definitely had some issues . Shooting up the neighbors house? They were literally scared to death of her.
Easter is evil stop letting your kids do this nonsense
If there’s anyone out there that needs a daily check in, I would be glad to be that for you! I can’t imagine someone not finding me or anyone I know for that long. 9-14 days dead is crazy before anyone knew
No way in hell would I move in there like the “new wife” is. That’s insane. I can’t believe that the ex husband was staying in that house for 2 weeks with her bodily fluids and hair everywhere. Uh that’s another hell no.
Yeah to me I am just stunned by this guys behaviour. He is so blasé when describing everything to her hair and face on the floor, to hear he's also Been living in the house with it, now moving the new Mrs in the house? I'm so freaked TF out by this guy?!
Me either
He's in shock, be nice.
Ever sleep in a motel?
You aren’t even supposed to live in a house or place or even breath where someone has died and decomposed somebody should’ve checked this guys mental health
It’s unfortunate to realize that a lot of mentally ill people, disabled people and the elderly sometimes go out like this. A lot of people are alone and sad in this world, and I hate that. I’d hate for anyone to be forgotten and left to rot for any amount of time.
it breaks my heart to think about.
Humbled to think we all rot anyway.
@@joemammyt6046 Well, if you acknowledge God - on the day of the Final Judgement, everyone will be resurrected - but the difference is that those who loved, feared, believed on, trusted, respected, and obeyed God, and all of His commandments will be resurrected to an eternal blissful life in the new Earth under the New Heavens... while sadly, and horrificially, those who did not and who die unrepentant and wicked - will be thrown into the Lake of Fire alive and they will suffer beyond horrifically ALIVE forever and ever and their worm won't die as they are burned, melted, pelted, starved, eaten, tongues cut out, cut in two, torn apart, thirsty, all while STILL alive and the worst part of all that, they will never love the Lord nor will the Lord help them ever again - even if they were to try to find Him. They will just face his just wrath forever and ever, even though He Himself takes no pleasure in their fate. Don't end up like the wicked .. there is no hope if you end up unrepentant in Hades and eventually the Lake of Fire. :(
Lamenting in comment section does not help.
it’s really sad, it’s in moments like this we should be grateful for having loved ones - either family or friends - who love us and care for us.
Decades ago, one of my cousins was murdered. Her ex stalked her, came to her parents house and shot her in the head as she ran from him right in front of her family. My Aunt spent days cleaning her daughter's brain matter and blood from the house. She then paid someone to reconstruct her face so she could have an open casket. She never spoke of what she witnessed after my cousin was buried. Up until her own passing, she never said one word about those events.
Weird, right? I’ve known two people, no three, who’ve had to clean up their parent’s and one sibling’s post suicide brain matter. They all happened in the 60s - 70s when I guess there were no Spauldings.
@@kmeganellis I guess no one thought about it or how traumatizing it was for family to handle.
@@waitwhat6056 I didn’t mean to be a smart ass, I guess when one is really, really suicidally depressed, anything beyond what they feel the need to do is not part of the equation. And if they think it through, they’d lose their nerve. Speaking from experience.
@@waitwhat6056 I'm so so sorry your aunt and cousin went through this! May they rest in peace.
I pray the coward was caught and sent down for life or murdered
The ex-husband is a very special man! He has a heart,which is rare these days. God bless him on his journey and hopefully everything goes up from here.
I don't trust him.
It was hard enough to clean up after my former neighbor shot himself, while it was still fresh, I can't imagine cleaning all of that bio up months after the occurrence. You guys are pretty amazing!
This channel has the most weirdly wholesome community. It’s really bizarre to me, but a welcome sight for sure.
Wow that man is straight up so damn cool. Even though they were getting divorced he still provided for her by letting her stay at the house. This is such a sad sad story. I hope that this mans new wife knows that she got one of the good ones. I wish him and his wife nothing but happiness and good times ahead.
Go Tigers!!!
and also, let's give his new wife props as well for her patience and understanding about his caring even though she was an ex.. that is very nice
Dear Lisa what a lovely comment to make and Bright Day please look after your Brother xx 🇬🇧💞
@@caroljohnston1240 thank you but he is not my brother. The person with the name Bright Day stated that he was their brother. Havve a blessed day !
@@lisazdankiewicz8846 Carol is saying your comment was lovely saying how nice the man is she even says bright day to look after your brother
My ex partner died in May and because we were still friends and I was his EPOA, I was contacted first. It's now mid October and I'm still a bit in shock that I saw and said goodbye to his dead body. I don't think I would have managed his decomp. This man is amazing, realistic, but respectful.
"She was all over the place..." Whom in hell would move their new wife in to a house with this history...
Maybe he did it. They found a big blood spot. And at 24:40 looks like blood splatter.
He seems like a standup guy, raising her son, letting her stay in his house even after she went off on the neighbors. I hope he finds peace and moves on from this.
‘Went off’ is an understatement. She was clearly nuts.
@@kjane6000 because it was a sudden extreme shift and she died id natural causes at 50, its possible she had a brain tumor unfortunately
Considering she’s been in jail… she died early… and the husband has two little scabs on the inside of his elbow…. I’m thinking drugs may have played a part.
@@rmeredithm I’m sure they would have found evidence of drugs if that had been the issue . Signs more lead to her having a brain tumor . Her flipping out , buying a gun and making her husband leave . My uncle just died of 4 massive brain tumors . Similar scenario . So sad
Yeah 'seems'
Wow hes moving his new wife in...i could not live there after seeing that.
@Apeman Commeth i don't know what's wrong about that... It's not like you can afford to risk nobody buying that house when it is basically already yours... It probably has good memories.... We constantly move into our parents or grandpas houses when they pass away in their bed, is this sooo terribly different? I dont think so.
She want even murdered or anything she just passed away and decomposed... Moving there to me is a way of showing love.
It’s all a bit sick isn’t it?! Imagine having a team video your ex wife’s leftovers & be ready to move into the house once the cleanings over? Oh & new wife’s a trooper? Nope she’s cray cray I could never! Bless them all I can’t relate 😳
@@lyvsix Great memories of her in n out of jail, shooting neighbours & not being able to scrape her hair & face off the floor?? What on earth?! Nope!
@@lyvsix yeah when parents die in there bed they arent left to decompose that long most the time bc the kids check up on them. Its not about just casually dying there its the fact her body decomposed there so long and hed constantly be reminded of her face scraped off the floor in that room. Also when ur parents die u dont bring a set of new parent in the home right. Hes literally brining her replacement in hes sick. Thats not love
Everyone giving this man props for moving back in. He seems like a sociopath to me
This one made me sad cause it kinda reminded me of my mom. my mom was a normal lady worked doing mortgages and for the bank and after her parents died she spiralled downhill and got into trouble and acting crazy. It's so sad that what people will look at as a crazy person was just so normal a little while ago. Rip to this lady and my mom.
Damn! My hat is off to anyone who does this work! You deserve a raise!
My dad had a stroke and I found him 2days after I saw him last. He was alive and I didn't think to contact him the next day he was going to be gone. But when I saw his mail box full my heart sank. That was bad enough.
I’m so sorry to hear. I hope you’re doing okay these days.
I'm sorry
Aww..I’m so sorry 😢
💜u poor thing.i hope you are doing ok xx
@@ash5241 Doing great. That was quite a while ago, 30 yrs. Thanks for the empathy.
I broke into tears withing a minute of watching this. Imagine staying by yourself for 2 weeks like that. He said something about what goes through your head during that time and I can only imagine. Poor guy he seems nice. RIP lady. You really can go at any time. God bless the team and everyone involved.
Your a sensitive soul like me❤
Damn, how can you handle watching any of these? There's this been some really horrific deaths they've cleaned up. I don't think I could continue to watch them if something like that bothered me
@@stephanieann6622 exactly… none of this has made me even bat an eye..
@@kylie1182 I've become numb to it. Some still bother me like that veteran suicide by I believe they said an AR-15. That got to me, especially from the writing he wrote all over the walls. It shows how shitty the VA treats vets. But they don't make me cry. Probably due to all the death I've seen. Too many videos of accidents, cartel videos (I never searched for the shit, it always popped up on the gore and accidents group I was in) and that took a huge toll on me since you're seeing someone die. So something like this is just meh. But jm not dumb enough to think that if I can handle it others can go. Death is a tragic inevitable thing and everyone reacts different to it. If does make me feel bad sometimes. I've Not showed really any emotions from the 4 deaths we've had in the family this yr and I've only shown emotion with my grandma's passing. It's just one of those emotions and situations where everyone is different. Not everyone is gonna ball their eyes out and not all is gonna be stone RBF lol. Also sorry this is too long!
@@geniasmith5791 thank you!
I appreciate having such a detailed back story on these cleanups, it makes the story and the clean up make more sense as it is so hard to tell what went on by just viewing the debris. Excellent video.
He couldn’t stand seeing or cleaning the remains. Yet, he stands over everybody giving an explanation about every detail of bio in that house…
Dudes sketch af!
They wanted him to shut up and move out of the way. 🤣
wow almost like different people deal with death differently! 🙄
"she must have been drinking a pepsi and then fell and hit her head or something" yeahhh thats sketchy. sounds like he wanted his house back and got it....
@@megsley right!
I bet this guy had a long hard cry after this. I couldn't imagine having to deal with something like this
You'd be surprised how your mind decompartmentalises when dealing through all of this. It hits a few days after. 😪
My heart goes out to this guy, but.... his current wife will be moving into this home, his ex wife not only passed away in, but wasn't found for weeks AND then the decomp sat there for MONTHS?!! That would be a HARD NOOOPE for me.
aaaand just got to the part where she said the bodily fluids had been there for NINE MONTHS!!! Yikes. His wife is a saint.
@@Itsjustash04 yeah I couldn't do it. It's bad enough moving into a place where you know someone died, but to be someone you know? And it being the dudes ex? Couldn't do that shit. They better hope her spirit ain't gonna kick some ass once they move in lol
@@stephanieann6622 Spirit? Be rational. Also unless you've built a house theres a decent chance someones died in it and you never know the extent of decomp that they were found in.
@@TheSkytherMod dude fuck off. I don't tell you what to believe or not believe. I've experienced shit that can't be explained besides spirits. Nobody needs a dick going around telling people their experiences and beliefs are invalid because they don't the way you do. And that doesn't mean I like it, if it's someone I don't know it's still hard but not anything like if it was a loved one. That's like saying I shouldn't mind seeing dead dogs or a dead animal because all animals die. Just because it happens doesn't mean I have to like it or be okay with it
Yeap. Also it rub wrong with me that he was sleeping in the back room with a woman friend that FLIGH over but had to hubber out... Is it ok for men to do that?
This takes special people to do the work that y’all do. Y’all do an amazing job, thank you and God bless y’all.
That was nice of you, Kathy.
This guy seems... ODD.
She laid there decomposing for two weeks only because a neighbor called and reported the door being partially open. No one even cared or gave a crap about her enough to say “man she hasn’t answered the phone or stopped by in a while maybe somebody should go and check on her.” That’s the sad part about it.
With social media it takes things like visiting someone off the table anymore. When I was a kid if someone didn’t answer after two days you drove to their house.
I feel like this is what is going to happen to me. I’m going to die and rot in a rental because my friends live out of state and have their own lives.
Makes friends or at least be cordial with neighbors or delivery people. Talk to your out of state friends on a regular basis so they notice if they dont hear from you. There are things you can do, beautiful. You'll be ok. Make adjustments while you still have time. Much love and many blessings to you! 💜🙏💜
because she was known to put a gun on people.. she caused her own death..
It sounds like an illness had caused Mental chaos for this lady. I would say something was causing her decline. An episode of psychosis perhaps.
Give me your number and I'll text you and make sure you're not rotting every 2 days
@@SaraSavingSpirits
What a beautiful and caring thing to say
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These folks have a stronger stomach than I do
Facts I couldn't
I could do it as long as I didnt have to smell it. I am sensitive to tastes and smells. They are bad a$$es for sure.
Seriously I'd just burn the place down 🔥🔥🔥
@@Durwo0d You poop, don't you?
@@zythr9999 what does that have to do with anything and why are singling me out? But to answer your question, no I dont. I have always been told I was full of sh!t....
You guys are super professional and compassionate. I dont know why this came up on my homepage, but a little reminder to all of us to be kind to people because you never know what what they are going through that we can’t see.
Dude sounds legit happy with his ex being dead/decomp.
I’m going thru a divorce at the moment, so I get where he’s coming from.
You know when the coroner or whom ever picks up the body they should be required or trained to bring all the body parts with them. That's horrible. He had to see all that
I think it was because the bile was solidified and the hair was glued to the floor because of it in which the clean up team needed to intervene and 'rehydrate' the bile so to speak.
They probably only need to bring the parts that may be important or helpful for identifying cause of death. That was just hair and fluids left behind.
@@stankapusheaux4810 LMAO your name is effin hilarious! 🤣😂🤣😂
@Still Sidda He said he thought he saw part of her face but they never confirmed it. I think it was really just her hair and maybe a bit of scalp flesh.
Hair, bodily fluids after 2 weeks were likely solidified. He said he say her face, it was likely where she laid and her features were in the dried fluids.
I LOVE how Carissa made it seem like no big deal and they would take care of it all. She was so caring and judge-free. ♥️
Bless you and compassionate people like you to help people like this man during something like this. You can tell he really was at his wits’ end, and I can tell you held his hand the rest of the way.
This guy is a trip! He sounded like he was kinda relieved that she’s gone but says she was really nice lady 😳🤷🏻♂️
I find it hard to understand how a woman in her fifties, with a violent nature, passed away of "natural causes." So sad it took so long to discover the body, and no one thought to notify the ex--especially if it's his house.
now i’m not exactly sure about the details in her case, but i feel like she could’ve been suicidal. struggling with anger issues, keeping up with the bills, going to jail, and more can really leave an impact on a person, especially since she was struggling with depression already. maybe it’s a stretch but i feel like it could be a possibility that she committed.
She had a drinking problem apparently so maybe that helped the cause of death sad but true
@@caroljohnston1240 I'm just thinking out loud--too many crime shows, maybe? Maybe it's because I'M 55, and don't feel as if I'll be kicking off due to natural causes anytime soon--without help. If she was found after days, it might be easy to miss foul play signs. But yeah, it does happen, especially with drinking.
I've seen people her age pass away of natural causes. It's very possible... especially if the person does not check their health well.
I was thinking the same thing....especially with the open door?!
He’s still going thru issues of having found this in his house-a bit of PTSD
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@@star_gazer2967 ??
I know people are saying he is a nice guy, but if it was me that had to take care of this and this was someone that I loved once I wouldn't be able to be in there without bawling.
Right he's talking fast like he's on something and he's able to stay there for weeks with her hair and decomp. And moving his wife in, maybe he wanted her gone, maybe the neighbor enough, it don't make sense why she would leave the door open with a cat and then she dropped dead with the door open and the neighbor noticed weeks later🤔 I think it should have been investigated a little more to find the cause of death not just write it off as "natural causes" but because the standoff with the police they prob didn't care either and just wanted to go with what it "looked like" and not spend any money on resources to see if their was more to the story. Unfortunately most deaths are not treated the same way as we watch them on crime shows cuz it would be too expensive so they just go with "natural causes"... Something ain't right in my opinion🤷🏻♀️
@@indica_nail_artist_6363 People deal with trauma and shock and loss in all different ways. Many people go into the mode he's in when they're experiencing something traumatic, I do. Sometimes the reality hits later, in the moment(s) your brain goes into survival mode to protect itself. This can be seen as being oddly calm or hyper, non chalant, etc. Death and trauma are not the same for everybody and accusing anyone of being fishy just because they don't respond how you think you would is kind of rude. You don't know how you would ACTUALLY react to anything until it ACTUALLY happens. I've been accused many times of being cold because of how I react to trauma, it's quite the opposite.
This was his EX WIFE. He had remarried before she died. He probably loved her but he wasn't in love with her.
Wow what a stand-up and caring guy. I wish him nothing but happiness going forward.
I work for aftermath. And I cleanup up the same way this crew cleans up. I do this for a living and this job is psychological hard physically hard as well. But we do it to help family’s and people. We care about our job. We want to help. Not everyone can do this and the hardest part about it for me, is throwing all thier belongings away that they worked so hard for in life. Or that they had no one around while they past. Everyone needs love or help. That’s why we do what we do. Helping others and family.
Your company did a biohazard cleanup for one of my family members in Georgia.
In my point of view it's 100% psychological than the physical labor and strong stomach. One thing is watching this on TH-cam but you work doing this. My respect to you sir.
@@isaiasatitegustaelwinnie666 did it to help individuals and family’s in a time of hurt. I always have wanted to help and I found the source to help as much as I can.
I'm trying to say this as tactfully as possible, but how did she get all over the place?
Yall are some strong people that aren't recognized as much as you should be. Thank you❤
Can’t imagine how he is dealing with this. He does seem to be a talkative person. Maybe that is his way of dealing with this. Sad situation all around. Can’t imagine being dead for weeks and no one know.
Yeah, he seems to be trying to distract himself.
Very sad Nature's Cruel sometimes
Now he’ll really have something to talk about for years to come.
@@shelleymichelle4417 wtf
@@caroljohnston1240 it's just death
Oh my goodness. I couldn’t even fathom doing this kind of work. God Bless you all for doing what most people can not 🙏
Feel so bad for kitty who passed while the woman was in my jail and the one who is basically missing. How awful.
As a funeral director I very much appreciate what you all do for the families of the deceased.
I was about to comment on this. My goodness, like this couldn’t get any worse, I’m thinking the poor cat died in the house while she was in jail for 6-8 months. Ugh, now he’s moving back in there with his new family. This is crazy.
@@catherinestinson4080I agree with the you. Why doesn’t he sell the house and move his family into the new one? He’s a strange character who gives off bad vibes.
Brings back memories of the night my Mumma passed on. She and Dad got divorced in 2000, after 36 years of a very unhappy marriage. Mumma got sick with Myeloid Leukemia when she had just turned 65 years old, and 18 months later, at age 66, she was in a persistent vegetative state. We decided to let her soul go free, per her wishes. It was Halloween night in 2010. I called Dad, who was in a different city, to tell him Mumma had passed away. He began hysterically sobbing and crying, and my father was not a crier. They were still in love, despite their decision to get divorced. I can understand how the ex husband of the deceased feels. It's hard to lose someone, especially if you still loved and cared about them, after things didn't work out.😪
That's so sad , same with my parents they seperated but we're still in love, shared custody of my little brother. He passed away a year ago today 👼🙏🏼 she's been broken ever since
Rest In Peace, Mumma ❤️
My parents were never in love and had a toxic relationship... But my dad went to bits when mum had a severe stroke, he helps me to look after almost every day (4.5 years now) and has bankrolled us so I can be her carer. Relationships are incredibly weird, complex, and diverse.
35 years is a huge chunk of his lifetime, def would make him cry regardless of their outcome
My condolences to you and your family
Poor guy. He's trying to keep it together and is going through a lot of emotions.
He seemed curious and excited to me kinda like a rubbernecker at at the scene of an accident
@@stankapusheaux4810 more like distraught and anxious. 😐 very much doubt he was "excited" to show and explain where his ex wife died.
Thank u for not blurring out the true facts of death.
Man that is some hard work. My hats off to you all.
He called peeps peps lol bless his heart.
That's what I'll be callin' 'em from now on.
Marshmallow “Peps” it is. Bless her heart ❤️ making those for the children 🥰🕊
i was confused because i thought he said pepsi at first
Well the sugar does make us peppy. lol
If I was the new wife there's no way I would move into that house. No no no.
I feel bad for the ex husband. Poor guy tried to take care of things himself but couldn't.
Right! And didn't he say he had other kids? I wonder how old they are? And if or they told them about this house
I hope I’m never faced with the reality and work of cleaning up after a loved one has passed but, if I do, I already know I’ll ONLY call on Spaulding Decon, because, although I could tell how much they care about their work after watching several videos, hearing this testimony about how empathetic they are, versus being cold and robotic and treating the situation and the mourning family members as just another job in the ledgers, would give me the comfort and compassion that is desperately needed. Keep up the good work; you’re doing SO much more than just cleaning a space.
God bless y'all. My brother had passed in 2012 and was estimated to have passed away for around 6 weeks before being discovered in his apartment in downtown Dallas. My parents were notified of his passing on their 45th anniversary. The apartment building had to gut his unit, the one under his, and the two on each side. It was really bad. Dallas Biohazard managed to salvage some of his things and they cleaned them up well enough to where I could pick them up. So on behalf of my family, thank y'all for what y'all do.
Carrisa, you truly have the right touch for your profession. The way you approach with such empathy to help people going through such tragedy is beautiful. The difference in the home owner from day 1 to day 2 is because of the care you put into your work. May the good you put out to the world be returned to you 10 times over.
She is absolutely the most perfect person for the job isn't she. Bless her for her empathy and her hard work and professionalism helping people in some of thier hardest times. ❤
Her voice is just so calming and caring. She seems like a really sweet woman.
“She was all about making kids happy and helping them in any way to make them happy”
“ *she tried shooting her neighbor* ”
how bad where the neighbors then lol
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@@larpology5282 lol
Because she has something going on in her mind it had nothing to do with the children. Something was happening to her never judge.
I love kids and can deal with them all day. Dealing with another adult for 5 minutes always ruins the day though. People "grow up" and turn into something else.
I feel like it's so weird that the ex husband is all up in their business, and even doing the work right along with them! I know we all grieve in our own way, but still weird. Then I think of my father, who just has to get involved whenever he hires someone to do work for him, he's allllllllll up in their grills!
There is absolutely nothing anyone on this earth could say to convince me to keep that laminate flooring in that house if I had to live there.
I don't know if I'd want to live in a house where my husband's ex wife died and she literally decomposed within it.
Me either
You are right , that’s doesn’t sound appealing . Nightmares for sure . I couldn’t imagine building happy memories there ....
He seems to be very caring. May God bless him and his family.
On top of all his caring and virtues, I like his bright orange shirt.
he seems strangely calm considering the circumstances.
He is a great person. I am sorry for your loss. This guy just focused on the good, and never happens with ex's. Good for you sir.
Carissa is seriously one of my favourite humans, and I've never ever met her. Such a kind, sweet and calm demeanour. Her employees are blessed.
Am I the only one who saw an orb at 6:07. To the right side of the lady after the bang. Goes from the ceiling to the floor. Poor lady. Feel bad for him. 🙏😔
@@arcyguillen3112 ..I saw it 😳. It took a couple times. I had to rewind it back to around 5:50.. or before the soft ‘bang’ happened.. and there it glowed / moved! It was a circle of light.. but I saw it disappear halfway down the wall. As it quickly disappeared it had sort of a little tail (sort of like a comet). Maybe it’s my screen. I’m on my ipad and there’s reflections so I may not be seeing it clear enough.. because when I paused at 6:07, I saw a very dim circle of light.. and now I don’t anymore 🤷🏼♀️
It’s probably a reflection.. but either way.. good eye!!! I can’t believe you noticed that!
Once you see it while the video is playing, you see it every time 👻💫✨
My aunt was left to decompose for a while to. My cousin went to check on her and saw her sleeping on the couch so he left her alone. He came back a few weeks later and she was in the same position and he thought she had a blanket on her but it was a bunch of maggots. She had a bunch of mental issues. I felt so bad for my cousin cause he thinks it’s his fault because she was probably dead when he checked on her.
That must be alot if trama for them to deal with hope they get help
He THOUGHT she was just sleeping on the couch? SMH...why didn't anybody try to call her?
@@springmoon5616 she wasn’t very popular with anyone. She had schizophrenia and was not medicated, her son my cousin had a rough up bringing in her house. She once tried to burn their house down. I only met her once and i immediately realized why her family didn’t want to be around her. I mean we loved her but it was hard to be around her. I wish someone forced her to go to a hospital or gotten help.
@@LadyBoyToby ohhh my bad im sorry 😞
@@springmoon5616 no it’s totally fine. I understand where you where coming from.
What a great man. The world needs more men like him.
This is hard to do when it’s a loved one. My brother-in-law shot him self and it was me and my mom who cleaned up. Very hard and heart breaking.
This is the most caring team. If I was in a situation like this, they are the ones I'd want.♥️
Minus the ex husband who is crazy!
I can't comprehend how he stayed there with that bio for two weeks!
He seemed oddly fascinated with the whole thing. He probably got off on it like people who sleep in the cemetery or haunted houses for a thrill.
@Snyide Snyide Regardless of whether he chose to sleep on the porch or lie a pallet on the living room floor he still has an odd fascination with the whole thing, following the cleaners all over the house and pointing out all of the different attractions. He actually almost seems giddy.
@Mu*Shu TeeVee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤪
Tom Hanks???🤔
I personally thought from the min I began watching it was him that did it. It's the way he talks and his lack of eye contact. Like who would attempt something like this themselves unless they were a sociopath.
The part that got me is when the ex-Husband said, " where her hair was laying it looked like he could see her face so he covered it up." WOW!
What a good strong man. Always trying to do the moral thing and following his heart. I feel for him, and I have a lot of respect for this man.
Poor guy. He’s trying so hard to help. 💗
He still loves her. You could tell.
Loan is his name and he just can't ignore it all or his credit gets ruined.
wow very crazy that he wasn’t notified of her death, I know they were separated but her family wouldn’t reach out to him and let him know? couldn’t imagine not doing that, he seems very kind and i hope he recovers well from this
Some ppl dont have much family 🤷♂️
They were divorced. If my ex died, his immediate family would be contacted, not me.
Recon where her son is
@@sarcasticallyrearranged I don’t know…my Ex that is broken up with nearly 20 years ago died and I was within 3 hours of them finding out because they knew we still talked a few times a year.
Honestly not surprised anymore. My aunt passed away about a week ago now and we werent even told she was sick. We knew she had health problems by essentially everyone but us including my dad which that was his sister, didn't know they all knew she wasn't going to live much longer. I love them that they called us immediately before she even fully passed (they were still doing CPR) But, would've been nice to know before hand she was that sick so we could have went and at least see her one last time even if we weren't close
This ex husband is an outstanding character. Rip. And thank you for all the information.
The ex husband is a real trooper for going through this. I hope he can move forward ok.
I worked in Ophthalmology for many years so I’m cringing hard over the fact that they’re scraping up/disrupting decomped body fluids mixed in with insecticide power WITHOUT EYE PROTECTION.🤢
Yes. That is strange and hazardous. I've seen other clean up and people where safety glasses
That's very weird yes
Yep...
I thought the same thing... especially when she was using the steam.
I think it's ridiculous anyway to spend all that time cleaning a floor that will just be removed.
@@MsObsidianReloaded i like to think of idubbbz. man is a testament to how strong the human immune system is lol
I also thought so!
This poor man. Hope the best for him and his family.
You guys are corageous doing this type of work ❤
A good friend of mine died suddenly last month alone in her home. She was in her 60s but was in good health. When I hadn't heard from her in a week or so, I began sending her texts. She was always so good at responding but when I didn't get a response, I called her phone. Her half-brother answered and told me she'd died. He lives in another state but when she hadn't responded to his texts, he contacted the police to do a wellness check and they found her. She'd evidently been there for about as long as the woman in this story. I couldn't imagine how this was and her half-brother didn't want to tell me more than "it was awful!" She was on the floor and evidently died during the night of a heart attack. Although it may seem gruesome for me to learn more here, it gives me closure. When someone tells me "it was awful," I have no way of knowing what this means otherwise.
It’s strange having a member of the decedent’s family there while they clean.
Why?
I agree
In listening further, he really IS a good man. We need more people like this--such compassion! I want to give him a hug!
Does it not seem sus that he is able to walk around in there and point and parts of someone he used to love and talking about it so callously.
Callously? He's in shock, with that rapid talking and reminiscing on everything.
Based on my medical degree from TH-cam Younniversity, she died from an undiagnosed brain tumor. You don’t go from making Easter baskets to swat dragging you out of your house after attempting to shoot your neighbor to dying suddenly without some brain shenanigans