Txhob Khuv Xim Qub Hluas Nraug. 1/19/2023
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- Txhob Khuv Xim Qub Hluas Nraug.
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Woohoo! Another Dr drama! So impressed. Feels like 90% of Hmong carry Dr titles now. Moral of the story...don't live with a guy before marrying him. Men don't wanna pay for the cow when the milk is free.
Her ex is just an asshole. Better to learn how he is before marriage. She dodged a bullet. Some men are like this even if you don’t live together prior to marriage and they carry on their disgusting habits even through marriage.
@Todayistheday yeah...what's shocking to me is that the Dr, despite her decades of educ, put up with his sh*t like so many uneducated Hmong women we hear about here. This is evidence of how constraining Hmong culture is on women. Wome are even scared of their own liberation and would wallow in suffering for years. Sad. I would've kicked his A to the curb yrs ago, esp right after the first time she asked him to marry her and he said no. Why stay after that?
The DR boyfriend is desperate too. Many dumb guys are still wanting someone’s ex or pretty much like their wife already.
Good for you. I know it's very difficult but you made the right choice.
They always say don’t let your boyfriend hold you back from finding your husband.
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Proud of you. He thought he could treat you however, he wanted and you would stay. Happy that you valued yourself...and love yourself and left that lose*. You deserved better.
Me ntxhais. Ua yog kawg lawm nawb. Kuv lub neej coj yog kiag li koj thiab. Thaum kawg nws thiaj tau quaj thiab vwm. Zoo siab rau koj hais koj zaj dab neeg.
.....tus txiv neej no cwj pwm thiab siab coj kiag li txiv neej hmoob kiag ntag.
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Zoo heev O ❤❤❤tab tom mloog tau txau ❤ heev O kuv zaj phem li no kiag lau ua tsaug nw g yuav kuv😅😅
Good for you sister you finally moved on and focus on yourself. Yes, always have self-respect for yourself and this goes to all women and men out there.
Good job, Dr. You are awesome and too good for him.
Men like the boyfriend in this story are beyond pathetic. If you have the audacity to cheat on your significant other, then at least have the "balls" to accept your loss when she kicks you out of her life. After all, it was your actions of infidelity that brought about the end of your relationship. Ladies, remember that any man who is okay with cheating while dating you, will continue that behavior once he marries you, so please DON'T ever fall for the false sweet promises he makes.
You are right sis! He doesn't love you he only love your degree. Let him suffer the damage he's done.
My husband once said to me, "It doesn't take a lifetime to realize that you are the person I'd want to spend the rest of my life with"
Apparently your ex only wanted to play, he has no life to offer you sister!
Dang lady, you allowed him to treat you like crap for so many years. He made it so clear that he didn’t love you at all. You only get respect if you demand it and give it. You didn’t even have any standards or expectations in your previous relationship, which is why your ex treated you so bad. Remember ladies, in order for a man to respect you, you must have self-respect! Don’t need a DR degree to know that!
Couldn’t agree more!!!
Love this story! Ur weakness in the beginning taught & was preparing u for wgats to come & gave u strength to do better in life. Something evryone needs to learn that at times a blessing is in disguise we go thru a painful heartbreak.
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Any guy who date you for a long time and don't want to marry you means he dont love you. Plus don't live together. Value yourself girls!
Amen
I agree with the first part, not the last. Living together shows your true colors. Better to know them sooner than later.
@jalynnkat I say it's not good to live together because when you live together you sleep together as a married couple but not married. Which I feel a girl need to value her body and not give her body to a guy who's not married to you. In the end, you may not be married to him.
Not true. Lived together for 13 years now. No papers. Doesn't mean we don't love each other
I agree with you. It's okay to live with the man who truly loves you and respects you as his only lady. But this selfish boy is a whole different story! He wants to keep her around and use her as a sex roommate (aka fwb). He goes on his way to meet other women but expects her to stay loyal to just him. This boy has zero respect for her! He didn't want to marry her until he knew she was worth more than just a booty-call.
All you listeners out there, if you encounter a love relationship like this story walk away don't waste your time.
Agree! Cuz he is using you dude. Why stay with someone who use and still f around and come and put it inside of you. Gross! 🤮
Glad that you finally picked up all your belongings, courages, self worth, so on and walk out. A boy like him will never know when to grow up. He only stops you from leaving because he saw that you found someone better than him. He doesn't want you to have anyone or be happy! If you did give him another chance, he would do it again! Nothing good about him is worth you thinking twice! Smh
It seems like you love him more than he loves you
Love this story - you did the right thing. I would do the same too.
Agreed!
You are so smart girl, so proud of you and your triumph.
I’m glad you made the right choice. Your ex just want to marry you now because of your MD/OD degree not because he love you. Even if you marry him, he will continue to cheat and mess with other girls using the excuse that you don’t spend enough time with him because you’re always out working. It’s not your fault that he don’t have a stable marriage. It’s his own fault for wanting more then 1 women.
I would too, she got nothing, but degree.
Besides the “stay in school” part, this story is not a good lesson for the younger generations. You let it drag out too long and played with yor ex’s emotions for your own amusement which could have ended a lot worse than how it turned out. And after everything…you’re still not done. You’re still keeping in touch with him and his fam…good luck.
Totally agree. As soon as she hardened her heart in order to stay sane so she could continue studying, she should have moved out. If she needed to, she could have found a new roommate. Also, by not cutting all contact with him, she IS playing her own sadistic game of emotionally torturing him for vengeance---this makes her as bad as he was. I feel badly for her husband because he's the one she's using (even if she does love him) to get back at her ex.
Gosh, I'm so happy for you. So glad you are not married to your ex.
raug siab kawg li o
It's his lost! He is not loyal n faithful that is why he lost a good n hard working Dr to be his wife. He doesn't deserve you. If he loved you he would support you n be there for you and make you happy n support you n your education. I am so glad you made the right decision. you are a Doctor and your husband is a Doctor that is awesome.! Love n wish you well only..
Reality, he didn’t loose anything. He didn’t plan on being with her in the long run anyways. He was just a little agitated for not having the free milk that he used to drink, that’s all.
Thank you for sharing your story and life experiences. God bless.
Glad you found happiness. Thank you for sharing your story.
Great story of an independent wise woman. So proud of you sister!!
M.V . Koj hais tau zoo thiab ntxim nloog heev Kuv nyiam thiab xav koom nrog koj Chanel.
Some guys are just ungrateful. Like they say, you don't know what you have till it is gone! Give you no right to hold her accountable for your own fault, all the while you were out messing with other girls..... SHAME! Prop to her for obtaining her DR & moving on.
He had so many times to change and lived with you for so long. Sister...people say "Why did you stay so long?!" Sometimes its better to wait until youre ready to move on so you dont have any regrets. Its true what u say people dont know until theyve been in your shoes. You should be glad he didnt propose earlier. You would have had more heartbreaks.
Tu siab kawg li thiab
M.V: Koj hais tau zoo,thiab koj cov duab photo covered zoo tau ntxim nyiam kawg li os.
kev sib hlub ua neej nyob ua theem ntu zus, tsis txhob sib sim siab thaum mus txog theem uv tsis taus ces yuav tsis tig rov los lawm mog
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Yog kawg, yoojyim ne. Tsi taag yuav los tau las mas.
Dr. I'm surprised too, why you kept, somewhat personal contacts for so long. It seems that at some point in growth, if relations become meaningless, then it's time to let go. But, who knows the bleeding heart. Confidence is critical in that it can tip the favor when things are murky. Culture, experience, and uncertainty, sometimes cause indirections and deadlocks. It's being human. Plus you were in the mid of heavy concentration. However, you got to find time for self-perspective and reflection. It couldn't have been easy, but I'm glad you decided, and I'm sure it's the right one. A jerk is a Jerk. In trials of acceptance, it's all you need to know. Good luck and thanks for sharing.
Love story ❤
To the person of this story, I don’t feel bad for you. According to you, there were many warning signs through out your relationship from the guy and you still stick with him. I thought educated people like yourself no better than that. Life is about your happiness not the other person.
Lady, you speak as you know all about love relationship. You got lucky because you met someone else who did not care about living with a man over 10 years. You cannot give advice that everyone will have a good ending as yours. If you did not have another boyfriend, you probably crawl back to him and he begged you to come back. As an educated person as you claim you are, such advices on lovers are stupid, because each person has different situation and people in their lives. Loves affected all level of human beings, no matter how rich, educated, or smart you are. Love is very complicated and personal. No 2 person's situation have the same love result. I am sure your doctoral degree classes were not about love relationship to prepare you to be such an expert on love. You also don't know your own future yet.
True
😔zoo ib yam kuv tu hluas nraug
Kj ua yog lawm
Yes Love me a strong independent HMONG women!
Some man very arrogant and he thinks himself very awesome guys might able find a better girl and the end he got nothing.
Kj mas xaiv tau txoj hau kev Yog kawg li lawm g tau ua poj nrauj nws lub siab lim hiam cia nws mob
Kuv zoo sab heev rua koj qho koj txav txim sab tau zoo heev hab ua tau qho yog kawg lawm ov thov qhua koj hab ua koj tsaug kws koj tseem muab tuab has rua sau fuab cua rua peb ib tsoom moob tau nov hab tau kawm ua kev paub moog lawm yaav tom ntej yog ib qho tseem ceeb hab zoo heev le ov ua tsaug ntau nawb mag tug miv txhais moob Doctor
Tus txiv neej zoo li ko koj thiaj muaj nws Xwb NWS yeej tsis muaj koj os, yog tseem yog koj tus txiv thiab NWS haj yam muaj attached os 😭😭
Girl….it’s like their old saying, “why would you buy the cow when you can get the milk for free”. Guys like that, run fast. He’s not worth your time and does not deserve you. Better to get rid of him now than after you married him.
Yam khoom nyob ntawm yus tsi muaj nqis poob mus rau lwm tus lawm ces ho vwm txivneej mas Liam tiag tiag
I’m glad u find happiness and left that x that didn’t seem to care.
Koj hais yog kawg li.lawm os niam hluas tus neeg li ko yeej tsis hlub yus tiag cia nws khuv xim koj mus tag tiam no pauj tau tag nrho tej kev mob siab uas nws muab rau koj yav tag los xwb mog
Hais zoo heev li tsis tag li nkauj hmoob koj ntxim hlub tiag tiag li
I can not believe you stayed and remained living with him and putting up with his behavior. Love and respect yourself. You deserve better. I'm glad your ending is good for you. You did right. He didn't support you. He only used you as a footstool. I loved that upon completion of your doctorate degree, you dumped him and left him high and dried. You moved on and got married and started a new life and a great career. Now, he wants to take credit for your degree. He only has himself to blame for. Best wishes. Change your phone number and blocked him
I feel like she only lived with him but it was convenient. She was still in school. They were basically roommates.
Wow I rather live free country life like here in USA live with a boyfriend 4 more than 10 years no marriage but still feel like a good girl .
I hurt my heart. My lung too.
I'm glad you made the right decision. He only wants you because you have another guy. There are more than a few cases like yours. Thanks for sharing your story.
Thank you for achieving your Doctorate degree. I am glad you are married to another Hmong doctor, just makes me that much more proud of you. There are countless White American doctors and we are just like a speck of dust among them. Hopefully one day, through all odds, even with our tiny population, majority of our ethnic group will be known for being doctors or lawyers. That's the day, we can really make an impact, no matter how tiny we are. Thanks for sharing your life story.
Thaum neb tseem yog hluas nkauj thiab hluas nraug es neb twb sib ua rog li no lawm ces neb tsuas muaj ua rog ntxiv mus xwb yog neb sib tau. Raws li mloog koj piav neb txoj kev nkauj nraug ces koj nyiam nws ntau npaug tshaj li nws nyiam koj lawm vim koj tau taij thov kom nws yuav koj a few times lawm. Kev taij thoj sib yuav yog poob rau nws no ces nws thiaj hlub koj. Kev txiav txim siab sib yuav mas cia nyias txiav txim rau nyias tus keej xwb.
Good for you it’s bad for him.
I love hearing stories about all these successful Hmong doctors, but where are the Hmong doctors practicing? I’m jw cuz I have lots of elderly relatives who go to the dr all the time and always ask me to translate, and it’s also for a wide variety of reasons: different surgeries, common colds, ear infection, back injuries, etc.
They practice at home
Too much lecturing, then again, most Dr. love to lecture. Lol I agree with most of the lecturing except the part where you claim not to care anymore, but you still stay in the same house and sleep in the same bed with the man who doesn’t love/respect you. What a shame!! Congratulations on getting your doctor!
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So why didn’t you just break up with him and why waste your time? So confusing how you would just stick around even though you know how he is! Could’ve moved out of the house.
You made the right decision not to marry your boyfriend. He cheated on you while you both were just boyfriend and girlfriend. He will cheat on you even after you two are married. Qub neeg qub siab os mog. Correct, if he truly love you, he will never hurt you.
Ua zoo tsam koj rov qab mag nws rooj ntxiab dua nawb yog koj pheej tseem nyiag ntsib nws!!! Girls don't be so easy to guys!!! Lawv thiaj saib yus muaj nuj nqis!!! Zoo qhov koj tsis k nws es koj kawm tag koj daim doctor lawm mas!!! Cia nws khuv xim koj mus kom tag tiam zoo dua!!!
A guy will know whether to wife you up or not after a good year or two… I’m just surprise you wasted 10 years with him but if it wasn’t for him, you wouldn’t have met your future husband too… not every loss is a loss ❤
😢😢me viv ncaus mpoog kj zaj nej neeg no ma ua kv kho siab zim xwb xav kom kv teb chaws mekas ko xwb thiaj li hloov tau lub homphiaj no vim teb chaw mekas pab tau cov txom nyem kom mj kev kawm raws li txoj kev ntshaw thb lub peev xwm ua yu muaj yog kv nyob teb chaws ko ma ntshe yv tsi nkim yug los tiam no li o.
Txob tu siab vim tsis mloog tej laus
Ib txhia poj niam thiab ib txhia txiv tsis sawm hlub li tej laus ib txwm hais ces yog koj zaj dab neeg lawm laus yus hlub nws heev ces nws tig ntxeev siab rau tus ces yog li no tiag.
Me ntxhais tus neeg zoo li ntawv nws yeej tsis hlub koj yog nws hlub koj nws yeej tsis mus tham lwm tus li tau koj tus txij nkawm lawm sib sib hlub kom nws khib khib tuag kiag
If you married him he’ll be a cheater is always a cheater.. good that you make a right choice.. he already shown you is true form from the beginning.
When a guy told you he does not want to marry or just stay boyfriend and girlfriend meaning he does love you enough to be with you. Leave him and find someone and if someone really love you, you should not have to beg him to marry you. Love, respect, and take care of yourself, sister! Move away from a guy who does not respect and love you!!!
Kj tu hluas nraug yog khuv xim kj ca tsi uas neej chib kj
Sister aw twb yog koj Tsi txawj xav kiag li koj thiaj tseem pub nws siv koj laus tag li ko os, twb yog koj Tsi paub tu siab
I'm glad you left him. He never loved you the way you loved him. Thank you for your advice.
Neej neeg mas tus twg los kawm DR thiab tas DR xwb DR coob kawg yom
I'm so proud of you for not marrying him. While dating, he cheats... once you marry him, he will continue to cheat.
You shouldn't give him time at the restaurant.he doesn't deserve your love.
Nrog koj zoo siab koj tau koj daim doctor degree os.. kav liam tus neeg ntawv nws yeej tsis hlub koj lawm es zoo siab koj tsis kam yuav nws tsis li ces koj lub neej yuav muaj kev kwj siab thiab tseem tau lub npe phem yog sib nrauj os..
When you act too desperate for a guy, he will not respect you because he's already showing you red flags that he's not husband material.
Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
Dr.Tom 😂 never live together before marriage
I saw lot of comments saying that you stupid for staying so long but i know it hard to move on when you're with that person for your whole life and been living together like a husband and wife. I'm glad he didn't marry him so it made you focus on your education instead because if you would to marry then your life will with heartache and headaches.. Congratulations 🎊 ! Please do not look back to someone like him. He does not deserve your love! And stop all contacts with him because he does not deserve any of your time!
Nws twb tau paum ua dawb2 xwb es nws yuav maj yuav koj na vim nws qau tawv nws twb tau tsij rau koj lub......cia nws qau tawv2 nqi2 txhob pub paum rau nws ua
u need to leave the second one too...cause what u did, that new guy is going to do the same to u..he going to have an excuse n say that u did that to ur first boyfriend what makes me different from him.....and ur going to get play too...find someone with a fresh start of everything.....
Who does this narcissistic cheater think he is? The damn nerve of him to try to ask your hand in marriage in the end when it’s too late. No need to waste your time and breath on someone like him anymore. He did you wrong and prove it over and over again what a cheater he is. Move on with your life.
Kuv xav sau ntawv rau koj Cov channel twg tuaj yeem tiv tauj?
Sounds like he was just using you because you were available no expectations.
Txiv neej hmoob siab phem phem li nawb. Luag tsuas hlub Koj thaum hluas xwb . Koj twb tau nrog Koj tus qub hluas nyob tau 10 lub xyoo lawm. Peb txiv neej hmoob ces tib lub siab xwb os, txawm Koj mus yuav koj tus hluas nraug tshiab los luag tsuas hlub Koj ib ntus xwb ib hnub twg ces luag yuav muab txoj kev xu siab uas Koj twb tau muab koj lub cev luag ua lav pua tau ntev npaum ntawd ces luag yuav mus nrhiav dua tus tshiab ces Koj yuav rov qab tau txoj kev mob siab dua
Tus niam tsev yog muaj tseeb li koj hais, nej cov ntxhais thiab cov tub nyob rau lub zwj ceeb no tsis paub xu siab kiag li, koj nrog koj niag hluas nraug liam ntawv nyob tau 10 tawm lub xyoo, aub cas yuav tsis paub xu siab li lauj...
Two things: 1). The boyfriend is absolutely a looser besides having a psychiatric disorder. 2) let this story be a lesson for our hmong girls to not rooming with a boy friend. Man will use a woman if situation like that
Tim koj xwb os thaub aw.. tau ntsuag kub tsis khaws zoo tsis zov zoo ces tubsab tuaj khawb tau nyiag tau lawm ces plam mus ib sim os nawb.
Don’t live with us before marriage. All we’re doing is wiping our feet on a rug.
I want to hear the boyfriends side of the story
Good job girl💪👊👏👏👏🫶
Toxic couple. Seems like they used each other.
Sister, don't know why you stayed with this kind of boyfriend. Make some smart and wise choices.
Thov kj tu fb o niam lau
I don't understand why you stayed in that relationship for 10 years???? You guys aren't even married?! What a waste....you could have just moved out!!!!
twb tsis tau sib yuav es nws twb ua npaum ko rau koj es cas koj tseem ntshaw nws ua dab tsi na pog aw...tus neeg phem li nws yuav tau los yeej tsis txog twg li os.
Tiag tiag ces thawjzaug nej tustxiv los tus hluasnaug tham kiag lwmtus lawm, nej cov ntxhais yuavtsum muab nws tso kiag lawm. Txhob ruam ruam ma. Nej cov ntxhais Hmoob nov tejthaum muab ruam dhau lawm. Tos mag txivneej siv txivneej muab tsuj. Zoo kawg qhov koj ua tau siabloj muab tus DEV ntawv ncaws tawm lawm. Kuv tsis totaub haistias uacas txivneej Hmoob es nws twb mus deev deev lawm tus los los nws pheej kom yuv zamtxim rau nws no na? Ruam tiag.
May, there's too much preaching. Is it really by the individual?
Best story I heard so far. Good, strong woman.
Strong?
Being free whole for years is call strong?
That we call free hoo !! That is good he is right hahah