Tus muam vim koj saib koj tus kheej tsis muaj nuj nqes xwb, yog koj coj li no xwb, koj txawm mus yuav lwm tus txiv los pauv tsis ntxiv, vim koj tsis muaj peev xwm mus ua dua lub neej tshiab nrog luag sib twv ua neej, yus thiaj li yog neeg, hos coj li koj xwb ces pab tsis tau, vim koj twb tsis pab koj tus kheej.
Why lament a loser and cheater? Your husband was never as good as you thought, because a truly good husband would never lie and cheat on you. Why continue to love someone who doesn't love you anymore? Reliving the happy past isn't going to help you deal with the broken present. When a marriage comes to an end, just be done with it---kick him out of your heart, head, and life! It's hard, but you need to do it for your own health and sanity!
Most failed marriages are caused by the husband having an affair when they are in their 50. It's heartbreaking and very painful. He doesn't deserve you. Just live with your kids.
Why is it make you depressed. She’s become stronger and smarter. She may reminiscent about the past but she’s smart enough to move on with her life. She knows who truly loves her too. Not every women burned want to find a new man.
Love yourself and live for the present by changing your life. You may cherish the sacrifices he made for you when you two were young, but if you were with a different person that person would have love you the same. He's not the person who loves you, he's just an experience. Hope you find happiness.
Koj tus txiv twb tsis khuvxim nej lub neej es ua cas yus pheej yuav khuvxim dabtsi. Tsis muaj txiaj ntsig lawm. Tu siab hlo, es txhob cia siab rau kiag li os. Kev hlub thaum ub yog kev dag xwb, hlub tsis kawg siab kawb ntsws, thiaj ua neej tsis kawg ntsis
Me Koj niam aw! Vim Koj niam Koj txiv twb foom2 neb lawm ne saib Koj niam Koj txiv foom ndd we b li cas ces kom nkawv thim nkawv cov lus ces zoo xwb mas
dev ces tsis sawm rog ho npua ces tsis sawm zoo, lub neej pluag ces sib hlub sib nco ho thaum lub neej zoo lub muaj, lub neej sib tshuav lub neej sib dhuav,
Tus niam laus cas pab koj tu siab thiab mob siab tiag. Txhob tas kev cia siab txiv neej zoo tsim nyog tau koj tseem muaj coob. Koj niag txiv kob huam no tsis sawm zoo thiaj rov pluag npaum thaum koj tsis tau nkag nws lub neej. Hlub koj tus kheej es muaj noj muaj zoo hnav los yeej meem noj yeej meem hnav kom tsim nyog rau koj los ua ib zaug neeg.
Tus me niam tsev aw ! Cas koj nem hais koj zaj dab neeg tu siab ua luaj , joo li txoj kev koj tseem ntaug tsis tau kawg , cia muab xa tias nws tsis yog yus tus txij nkawm tiag , thiaj muaj tej teeb meem tsis sib xeeb , yus tus tav tseem nyob twg mog.
Wow! Ua cas lub ntuj no yuav tsim peb neeg los nyob ntiaj teb no yuav tsis ncaj ncees li os yuav. Yuav ua rau kuv ntshaw nej tej poj niam siab zoo zoo no ua luaj li .
Your are an incredibly wonderful , loyal, and faithful women who came from a good home! So terribly sad that this is the ultimate betrayal anyone could ever received who has gone above and beyond for someone they love! If you are not looking for love anymore, I can almost understand why… Nrog koj tus siab heev os! 😢😢😢
Vim li ca peb cov poj niam txhua tu nim yuav raug txiv neej tsim lo rau thaum yu lau e yuav tuag lo tuag g tau yuav nyob lo g muaj nqi e tu siab ua luaj o peb ib tsoom me niam tsev
Sister, I just don’t understand why when he told you about the Laos girlfriend you were okay to go with him to visit her! You are allowing this to happen, women have to be firm about it’s not okay to do this. I’ve heard too many stories about wife’s allowing their husband to do this. It’s not okay, kick him to the curb if he even have thoughts about meeting another woman. I feel bad for you but you have to be strong and firm about your relationship, don’t ever give him a way, he will take advantage of it.
I was not going to comment but I guess I will. Your husband is God. So freakin godly. Men of all men, king of all kings, the Alpha the omega the beginning and the end. He don't die he just ascends. So godly.
@@monkeybanana9269 they just haven’t open their eyes to see that there are better men out there since they married so young and didn’t get a lot of experiences.
You know something, men age just as we women do. The sad thing is that women deal with 100 times more than a man. Therefore, we grow old and age faster than men do. But nowadays, technology women can turn back the looks...our appearances can be fixed to look younger and make our body nice and tight and look beautiful as we did before, if not better. Man can not. They're limited to only so much.
Txhob ruam txog qhov ko mas me vivncaus luag tsis hlub yus ces laim hlo ua ib siab mas thiaj zoo kuv muaj same experience ibyam liko kiag paub mob tiag2 ua li koj ua tamsim no thiaj zoo rau koj
I am a Hmong woman born in the old country, but I have been here in the United States since I was 5 years old. I grew up here in the States. None of us sisters married into the Hmong culture or follow in it. Only 4 brothers married into the Hmong culture. Our families very diversities in marriages. Some good and some bad marriages. I absolutely refused to marry a Hmong man. I grew up watching my grandfather married to 4 wives and how he treated his wives and children. My grandfather is a narcissist, manipulative, controlling, abusive, a tyrant who beats and tortures his wives both verbally and physically. I watched my grandfather beat my grandmother to death, which didn't warrant the beating much less being killed. The carelessness, and he got away with it. He had absolutely no remorse, and then he remarried within a month to another wife. It forever changed my view on Hmong culture marriages and its people. Their rules and laws aren't written or made to protect women but only to catered to the hmong man. I've seen friends and cousins married into and how miserable their lives are and is. I've seen the abused and suffering done to them. All the while, their relatives and families force them to remain in that toxic relationship and abused. All them kid's, and they're so busy doing everything all the while their husband is busy running around town and eating out and the struggles the wive's suffered and sacrifices. Nope, there are more men's out there and many races. I'm not saying that all Hmong men are like this, but the percentage is high in all races. There are still good men's out there if you are lucky.
I agree with you that Hmong laws are ancient and have not changed throughout the time. Just look at those Hmong folks in Laos and Vietnam and throughout the globe. Those laws were probably written by criminals and cater to the rights of criminals. Surely they do not protect the innocents and those that are righteous. That's why I lost all my respect for Hmong rules and Hmong culture. But my father is Hmong and he is my hero. He is the greatest man I ever know and admire. Even as a man, he hates that shit. There are good Hmong men out there that do not support those kind of unethical practices. Sadly, there are still Hmong men and women that are in support of old practices and mental thinking. Probably explain why our people are so damn cursed. When any country or people do not change their laws to protect their innocents and righteous, they as a whole will suffer in poverty instead of receiving blessings.
i am sorry to hear about your bastard grandpa. hope karna served him well. i agreed not to marry a Hmong man. not all but majority of them follows their father anf grandfather footsteps and it's really shame.
I personally think there are as many bad men in other races as there are Hmong men. Those women who find loving husbands whether they are Hmong or not are very lucky.
Kuv tsis nkag siab tias cas peb cov txiv neej hmoob no mas pheej nyiam muab lub neej rhuav thaum muaj nyiaj tau meej mom zoo txhua tus li tiag! Nrog koj zoo siab os tus me niam tais aws yus nyob yus kj siab tshaj os! Thiaj tsis tau ua lawv qhev tu lawv os..
I just don’t get these Hmong women that continues to stay with their cheating husband and says they r so sad. U choose to be sad and not move on so just lay in ur bed and suck it up.
Tug viv ncaug kuv nim noog koj lub neej es nim ua rua kuv quaj nca dhawv txug cej daab os tug viv ncaug cas peb es nim taug ib txuj kev os viv ncaug aw kuv tug txiv es nim moog yuav ib tug tim Nplog lawm es muab kuv tso tseg lawm hab os
Women stop enabling, condoning these mentally sick behaviors and allowing these losers to disrespect and insult you. You're love and precious to your families.
Koj niag txiv dev nws xaiv txij xaiv nkawm mas nws saib neej saib tsav. Es koj ne vim koj twb tsis noj nceb taug cav ne. Koj thiaj tau 1 niag txiv dev liam xwb.
I hope that we can one day instead of these stories, May you are able to do actual documentaries on women suffering from these cheating husbands and be able to follow their actual lives from the wife to the husband and children and show these men and some women the effects on children and marriages that these kind of events play. This might be more of a reality check to these cheating spouses to see others suffering and rethink their lives. Most people only sympathize With others suffering rather than their own. They turn away from their wives, children, husbands and stay cheating. I hope we can advance to do this one day because it’s very heartbreaking to see the sufferings of these intelligent children that stunts their self development to one day be able to lead our future children. Fathers be good to your sons and mothers be good to your daughters and one day they will be good to you. Please look at it like that even if you don’t love your other half. If you do, you will not do anything to hurt your children. God bless Hmongs.
Hmong women should stop thinking about being innocent for a man who doesn’t deserve you. Move on lady… he never loved you but only for the title and support. Listen to your parents once and children.
Hmong people tej neej niaj hnub sib ntaus sib tua sib nrauj etc ces cov txiv dev dim yog cov majority .men hmong tshob cuab 90% of women tshob cuab 10% .koj tus txiv old dev dim no nws lub siab tawv heev puag thaum khiav mus 4 hnub tseem muaj peev xwm rov loj coj kom tau koj ces hnub no los nws yuav tawv tib yam tab sis ho yog saib seem mob2 6 koj lawm .God bless you
Awb ca nej cov niam tsev sab tim koj e yuav raug tsim ua luaj li thiab o cov me niam tsev aw xav hai tia peb cov tim no thiaj raug tsim xwb o ca yuav mob siab ua luaj li o cov me niam tsev aw
He always resented the fact that you were better than him. He knew he would get even with you and your dad one day. He was heartless to begin with. Never deserved to be at the top with you. The problem wasn’t you, it was his insecurity all along. He was never on your level and knew it, the only way to hurt you was what he did. You are worth more than how he made you feel. Pick yourself up and love yourself
Cas koj es ib zaj koj piav mas koj yuam kev ib qho li na, ntshe koj pw tsis txaus pob. Thaum pib koj tham sawv ce tus hluas nkauj. Ib pliag koj ho sawv cev li koj yog tus hluas nraug haha. Li cas lo ok ok
Once you know he is no longer love you, just divorce him and go each other's separate ways is the best before something demonstrates happen! You should not allow him to go to Laos to see his second wife and you should have divorced him right away after knowing him being a CHEATER! I hear so many stories the wife go to Laos to see the husband's wife, that is already giving him permission to marry her. That is so wrong of you to do!!! We women have to letting that happen and learn to stand your ground and divorce him once he cheats!!! Should have divorce him right away!!!! Get rid off the disease that is going to kill you!!!!!
So many Hmong Americans' marriages end in divorce because of nkauj mos ab and so many Hmong Lao's marriages end in divorce because of the dollar and green card. I don't know why he couldn't get his nkauj mos ab into the US. If he can't get her into the US via a K-1 fiance visa, if he marries her, has a kid with her or apply for a K-2 marriage visa, there's a 99% he will be able to get her into the US. It'll take 1-2 years longer than the K-1 fiance visa but the chance of approval is much much higher. Maybe his niam mos ab just didn't want to come to be with him. Hmong Lao are starting to prefer staying in Laos now because they're not as poor as a decade ago. They're starting to prefer staying in Laos with someone young whom they like rather than with a Hmong American who's as old has their father and has 5-6 kids older than the Hmong Lao. They'll marry the Hmong American for the $5k - $10k bride price and land, house, mopeds, car, rice paddies, fish pond, rubber tree farm and financial support monthly but when they get all these, they're all set then they change their mind about coming to the US to be with an old man or woman. But then again, a lot of young Hmong Americans are now going to Laos to get a nkauj mos ab. In Laos if you have all these things like farmland, house, car, mopeds, cows, fish ponds, rice paddies, rubber trees, you're wealthy. In the US, you can work all your life and you still won't get all these things. Which Hmong in the US has hectares of farmland, rice paddies, cows, rubber trees, etc 100% paid for? None. Hmong Lao are wealthier than Hmong Americans but Hmong don't see it.
agreed. Hmong in lao are self sufficient but they have all the resources whereas in the states Hmong are slaves to the system barely making end meat. wake up we are living in the matrix here.
Tu siab kawg li os lub niag neej no qhov zoo tshaj ces yus yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej xwb
Tus muam vim koj saib koj tus kheej tsis muaj nuj nqes xwb, yog koj coj li no xwb, koj txawm mus yuav lwm tus txiv los pauv tsis ntxiv, vim koj tsis muaj peev xwm mus ua dua lub neej tshiab nrog luag sib twv ua neej, yus thiaj li yog neeg, hos coj li koj xwb ces pab tsis tau, vim koj twb tsis pab koj tus kheej.
Why lament a loser and cheater? Your husband was never as good as you thought, because a truly good husband would never lie and cheat on you. Why continue to love someone who doesn't love you anymore? Reliving the happy past isn't going to help you deal with the broken present. When a marriage comes to an end, just be done with it---kick him out of your heart, head, and life! It's hard, but you need to do it for your own health and sanity!
Such a sad story. Love yourself and enjoy your time left with your children and grand kids.
Most failed marriages are caused by the husband having an affair when they are in their 50. It's heartbreaking and very painful. He doesn't deserve you. Just live with your kids.
These type of women make me feel depressed.
Exactly…😂😂
Why is it make you depressed. She’s become stronger and smarter. She may reminiscent about the past but she’s smart enough to move on with her life. She knows who truly loves her too. Not every women burned want to find a new man.
Until you're in their shoes.
R4
kuvcaum koj lawm
Tus pojniam no siab zoo tiag tiag!!!
Txhob hais tias koj muab koj lub siab hlub ib tug xwb koj yuav tsum tias koj dhuav txiv neej txaus lawm no pob
I don’t understand this type of woman. You enable your husband to treat you with no dignity, yet bitch about it 🤔.
For real. Why bitch when they continue to stay. Pfff
For real!
😡 these women that enjoy the physical abuse and mental abuse and still doesn't want to move on, I don't understand either.
Xyov ua cas peb cov txiv neej hmoob feem ntau pheej tsis txawj hlub peb cov pojniam. Tu siab kawg. Also thank you May. You are very good story teller.
Love yourself and live for the present by changing your life. You may cherish the sacrifices he made for you when you two were young, but if you were with a different person that person would have love you the same. He's not the person who loves you, he's just an experience. Hope you find happiness.
Txiv neej hmoob tsis muaj tus zoo lawm ..txhua leej yeej tshob cuab ...txhob khuv xim tus neeg siab lim xyiam o lawv e
Ua cas tsis nrauj es pheej tseem nyob. Luag twb tsis hlub yus thiab yus twb nyob li ib tug neeg tsis muaj txiv. Ruam tshaj plaws tseem niaj hnub nyob tos.
Koj tus txiv twb tsis khuvxim nej lub neej es ua cas yus pheej yuav khuvxim dabtsi. Tsis muaj txiaj ntsig lawm. Tu siab hlo, es txhob cia siab rau kiag li os. Kev hlub thaum ub yog kev dag xwb, hlub tsis kawg siab kawb ntsws, thiaj ua neej tsis kawg ntsis
Hardships teaches us to become a stronger person… wishing you all the best ❤
Me Koj niam aw! Vim Koj niam Koj txiv twb foom2 neb lawm ne saib Koj niam Koj txiv foom ndd we b li cas ces kom nkawv thim nkawv cov lus ces zoo xwb mas
Yeej yog kawg tab sis peb cov ntxhais hmoob ces nrauj txiv lo ces lonyob tau tu tu siab li os lawv
Yuav txiv los tu tu siab, nrauj txiv los tu tu tu siab?
Aub, poj hmoob kus kes mas ntxim khauj tsiav xwb
Yog txiv neej hmoob sab pheem dhuas lawm os
dev ces tsis sawm rog ho npua ces tsis sawm zoo, lub neej pluag ces sib hlub sib nco ho thaum lub neej zoo lub muaj, lub neej sib tshuav lub neej sib dhuav,
Thov qhuas tus poj niam no txoj kev hlub. Faithful til the end, even when the man is undeserving.
Koj tus txiv twb tsis hlub koj lawm os niam laus. Yog tus neeg hlub koj tiag2 nws yeej tsis ua rau koj mob siab. Koj txoj kev hlub thiab kev ua zoo uas koj muab ua rau tus txiv neej yuam kev ntawm ko, yog koj coj los ua rau koj tus kheej ntshe yuav zoo dua.
Tos koj tus Txiv ua rau koj los, vim koj twb tsis muaj siab ntsws li es yog zoo koj ko ces kuv yeej ua ib yam thiab.
Tej no g yog gmuaj siab ntsw yog ib tug neeg ua hlub yu tu txiv kawg siab kawg ntsw xwb
Es ua li cas thiaj yog muaj siab ntsws na. Ntshe koj kuj yog cov neeg liam li tus txiv tsev ntawv thiab
Cov dab neeg 75 no mas mloog tau npau taws tiag2!!!
Niam laus as ca kj tham tau tu siab ua luaj li o niam laus kj tham raug kv lub neej ua luaj li o yu tu txiv tsim yu ma thiaj li txawj mob tiag2 li o
Cas yuav tsis tsim nyog li os....
Paub ris siab liko thiaj tsis raug tsim lawm os koj hais yog lawm nyob li ko zoo dua
Vuag cas koj zaj neej neeg tu siab ua luaj lios
Tus txiv ko yog neeg pluag. Cov neeg pluag muaj me ntsis ces siab dev jej muag dev yuav tawm
May, I’m enjoying listening to your story you doing very well.And plus your are a good looking woman.
Woman in this story, love yourself first. Forget your husband. You only lives once this lifetime. Enjoy your life with your childrens.
Good n honest men already under earth. Good ones r bab u es
...Good decision not to remarry
....but should have friends who to talk
Tus niam laus cas pab koj tu siab thiab mob siab tiag. Txhob tas kev cia siab txiv neej zoo tsim nyog tau koj tseem muaj coob. Koj niag txiv kob huam no tsis sawm zoo thiaj rov pluag npaum thaum koj tsis tau nkag nws lub neej. Hlub koj tus kheej es muaj noj muaj zoo hnav los yeej meem noj yeej meem hnav kom tsim nyog rau koj los ua ib zaug neeg.
Tus me niam tsev aw ! Cas koj nem hais koj zaj dab neeg tu siab ua luaj , joo li txoj kev koj tseem ntaug tsis tau kawg , cia muab xa tias nws tsis yog yus tus txij nkawm tiag , thiaj muaj tej teeb meem tsis sib xeeb , yus tus tav tseem nyob twg mog.
Yus tus txij nkawm yeej mob siab. Kuv tsis totaub peb cov niam tsev ib txhia es yus twb paub tias mus tim plog es yog tus txiv mus saib hluas nkauj los tseem nrog lawv mus thiab. Thov saib taus yus tus kheej thiab mog.
Kuv xav li koj thiab cas lawv pheej kam nrog lawv cov txiv mus es tus txiv ua li ntawd rau nws nria kuv li ntshe kuv yuav tsis kam mus li os
Wow! Ua cas lub ntuj no yuav tsim peb neeg los nyob ntiaj teb no yuav tsis ncaj ncees li os yuav. Yuav ua rau kuv ntshaw nej tej poj niam siab zoo zoo no ua luaj li .
Tsis yog lub ntuj tsim os. Neeg rov tsim neeg xwb.
Kv yeej tsi tau raug os tiam si kv hlub peb cov poj niam tsi tag li os
Tham tau zoo kawg li
Sister, you are a good person. May my heavenly father bless you.
Your are an incredibly wonderful , loyal, and faithful women who came from a good home! So terribly sad that this is the ultimate betrayal anyone could ever received who has gone above and beyond for someone they love! If you are not looking for love anymore, I can almost understand why… Nrog koj tus siab heev os! 😢😢😢
Cas pheej hais li cov muaj nyob nplog teb tuaj txog teb chaws no thiaj yog cov muaj xwb ne. Muaj ib txhia tsis pluag pluag thiab hos muaj ib txhia pluag nyob Nplog teb kuj tuaj ua neej muaj rau teb chaws no thiab
Nws siab phem limhiam dhau ces kev npam khaum yeej tsis tso nws tseg, tseem yuav txomnyem ntxiv.
This is a high blood pressure story!
20 mins and I'm livid. About to have a stroke here lol jk
Vim li ca peb cov poj niam txhua tu nim yuav raug txiv neej tsim lo rau thaum yu lau e yuav tuag lo tuag g tau yuav nyob lo g muaj nqi e tu siab ua luaj o peb ib tsoom me niam tsev
Sister, I just don’t understand why when he told you about the Laos girlfriend you were okay to go with him to visit her! You are allowing this to happen, women have to be firm about it’s not okay to do this. I’ve heard too many stories about wife’s allowing their husband to do this. It’s not okay, kick him to the curb if he even have thoughts about meeting another woman. I feel bad for you but you have to be strong and firm about your relationship, don’t ever give him a way, he will take advantage of it.
Qqqq
Forreals! Gotta be firm..set boundaries. That's the problem. She allow it to happen.
I was not going to comment but I guess I will. Your husband is God. So freakin godly. Men of all men, king of all kings, the Alpha the omega the beginning and the end. He don't die he just ascends. So godly.
I just don’t get some men these days even if they are old they think they don’t age. How would the men think if they story was reverse.
Why ask why when some people are enablers supporting their spouse's bad behavior?
@@monkeybanana9269 they just haven’t open their eyes to see that there are better men out there since they married so young and didn’t get a lot of experiences.
You know something, men age just as we women do. The sad thing is that women deal with 100 times more than a man. Therefore, we grow old and age faster than men do. But nowadays, technology women can turn back the looks...our appearances can be fixed to look younger and make our body nice and tight and look beautiful as we did before, if not better. Man can not. They're limited to only so much.
Simple. They don't think.
@@myprecious6751 yes I agree.
Txhob ruam txog qhov ko mas me vivncaus luag tsis hlub yus ces laim hlo ua ib siab mas thiaj zoo kuv muaj same experience ibyam liko kiag paub mob tiag2 ua li koj ua tamsim no thiaj zoo rau koj
Tus me viv ncau nws yeej yuav thawj laus xwb hnub ntawd koj mas tsim os mog tus me viv ncau yeej tu siab heev nawb mog.
Grandma, I’m right behind you.
Kuv nrog koj zoo siab thiab koj txiv hlub koj heev
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Glad you did what you did. Karma got him good!!
I am so sorry your husband cheated on you. You love him so much. May you find happiness in your life again
“Karma” should be the last thing you want to talk about lady! Look at your life and what happened to you! You’re literally saying you deserve it
I am a Hmong woman born in the old country, but I have been here in the United States since I was 5 years old. I grew up here in the States. None of us sisters married into the Hmong culture or follow in it. Only 4 brothers married into the Hmong culture. Our families very diversities in marriages. Some good and some bad marriages. I absolutely refused to marry a Hmong man. I grew up watching my grandfather married to 4 wives and how he treated his wives and children. My grandfather is a narcissist, manipulative, controlling, abusive, a tyrant who beats and tortures his wives both verbally and physically. I watched my grandfather beat my grandmother to death, which didn't warrant the beating much less being killed. The carelessness, and he got away with it. He had absolutely no remorse, and then he remarried within a month to another wife. It forever changed my view on Hmong culture marriages and its people. Their rules and laws aren't written or made to protect women but only to catered to the hmong man. I've seen friends and cousins married into and how miserable their lives are and is. I've seen the abused and suffering done to them. All the while, their relatives and families force them to remain in that toxic relationship and abused. All them kid's, and they're so busy doing everything all the while their husband is busy running around town and eating out and the struggles the wive's suffered and sacrifices. Nope, there are more men's out there and many races. I'm not saying that all Hmong men are like this, but the percentage is high in all races. There are still good men's out there if you are lucky.
I agree with you that Hmong laws are ancient and have not changed throughout the time. Just look at those Hmong folks in Laos and Vietnam and throughout the globe. Those laws were probably written by criminals and cater to the rights of criminals. Surely they do not protect the innocents and those that are righteous. That's why I lost all my respect for Hmong rules and Hmong culture. But my father is Hmong and he is my hero. He is the greatest man I ever know and admire. Even as a man, he hates that shit. There are good Hmong men out there that do not support those kind of unethical practices. Sadly, there are still Hmong men and women that are in support of old practices and mental thinking. Probably explain why our people are so damn cursed. When any country or people do not change their laws to protect their innocents and righteous, they as a whole will suffer in poverty instead of receiving blessings.
Men in general are like that. Be with a woman. They're better lovers than men.
Have you try to be a lesbian? You'll never know until you try it. 😆
i am sorry to hear about your bastard grandpa. hope karna served him well. i agreed not to marry a Hmong man. not all but majority of them follows their father anf grandfather footsteps and it's really shame.
I personally think there are as many bad men in other races as there are Hmong men. Those women who find loving husbands whether they are Hmong or not are very lucky.
Niag ntsej muag ruam mom txiaj mom ntsig tsis xav txog niam tais yawm txiv txoj hlub kev pab ais nws thiaj tsim txiaj ,cov neeg rov taw tuam ntuj yuav tsis tau zoo tuag thaum kawg , ntsej myag aub tsis paub txaj muag
Txiv neej ces zoo cia kom txom nyem xwb thiaj hlub pojniam.
If this is your situation you don't need your husband. Just draw the line and leave. It's so painful! I can feel your pain.
Some women choose to let their husband to treat them like this.. why go with him…
Keeb zoo yeej zoo tus niam tsev koj yuav muaj hmoo lawm tom ntej tseeb
Kuv tsis nkag siab tias cas peb cov txiv neej hmoob no mas pheej nyiam muab lub neej rhuav thaum muaj nyiaj tau meej mom zoo txhua tus li tiag! Nrog koj zoo siab os tus me niam tais aws yus nyob yus kj siab tshaj os! Thiaj tsis tau ua lawv qhev tu lawv os..
This guy is gangsta.
You're wrong...Not all Men are heartless like your 1st husband. We are all entitled to have a 2nd chance for love.
I just don’t get these Hmong women that continues to stay with their cheating husband and says they r so sad. U choose to be sad and not move on so just lay in ur bed and suck it up.
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Tug viv ncaug kuv nim noog koj lub neej es nim ua rua kuv quaj nca dhawv txug cej daab os tug viv ncaug cas peb es nim taug ib txuj kev os viv ncaug aw kuv tug txiv es nim moog yuav ib tug tim Nplog lawm es muab kuv tso tseg lawm hab os
kj hais dab neeg es lawv muab lawv puas tau them nyiaj lo yog kj puas muab nyiaj rau lawv thiab kv xav kom kj hais na tu niam laus lo yog niam hluas
Tu me dev zoo lis ntawm kob es koj tseem yuav thiab ruam tíag tíag lis tíag me koj niam aws ...
Kuv ces nyoo li koj lawm os
Women stop enabling, condoning these mentally sick behaviors and allowing these losers to disrespect and insult you. You're love and precious to your families.
Koj niag txiv dev nws xaiv txij xaiv nkawm mas nws saib neej saib tsav. Es koj ne vim koj twb tsis noj nceb taug cav ne. Koj thiaj tau 1 niag txiv dev liam xwb.
I hope that we can one day instead of these stories, May you are able to do actual documentaries on women suffering from these cheating husbands and be able to follow their actual lives from the wife to the husband and children and show these men and some women the effects on children and marriages that these kind of events play. This might be more of a reality check to these cheating spouses to see others suffering and rethink their lives. Most people only sympathize With others suffering rather than their own. They turn away from their wives, children, husbands and stay cheating. I hope we can advance to do this one day because it’s very heartbreaking to see the sufferings of these intelligent children that stunts their self development to one day be able to lead our future children. Fathers be good to your sons and mothers be good to your daughters and one day they will be good to you. Please look at it like that even if you don’t love your other half. If you do, you will not do anything to hurt your children. God bless Hmongs.
Hmong women should stop thinking about being innocent for a man who doesn’t deserve you. Move on lady… he never loved you but only for the title and support. Listen to your parents once and children.
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Kuv tsis totaub hais tias cov poj niam hmoob nyob Meskas teb no es lawv cov txiv twb hais meej 2 rau lawv hais tias lawv cov txiv yuav mus tham hluas nkauj rau nplog teb no es lawv tseem raws lawv cov txiv mus thiab
Lawv twb paub hais tias txog tid ces lawv plawv yuav nres lawv yuav mob siab no es lawv tseem caum mus thiab, nej tsis Txhob ruam 2 mas, thaum nej cov txiv tsis hlub nej lawm ces yuav tsum paub tu siab es tsis Txhob muab nej qhau qis 2 thiab os….
Tus vivncaus aw…cas koj xav li kuv niam thiab os…, txoj kevhlub ntawm ib khub txijnkawm yog peb tsis xav txog thawm peb tseem yog hluas nkauj hluas nraug ces tag lawm os…
Hmong people tej neej niaj hnub sib ntaus sib tua sib nrauj etc ces cov txiv dev dim yog cov majority .men hmong tshob cuab 90% of women tshob cuab 10% .koj tus txiv old dev dim no nws lub siab tawv heev puag thaum khiav mus 4 hnub tseem muaj peev xwm rov loj coj kom tau koj ces hnub no los nws yuav tawv tib yam tab sis ho yog saib seem mob2 6 koj lawm .God bless you
Awb ca nej cov niam tsev sab tim koj e yuav raug tsim ua luaj li thiab o cov me niam tsev aw xav hai tia peb cov tim no thiaj raug tsim xwb o ca yuav mob siab ua luaj li o cov me niam tsev aw
Neeg siab phem Liam hiam ces npam ntag lau
He always resented the fact that you were better than him. He knew he would get even with you and your dad one day. He was heartless to begin with. Never deserved to be at the top with you. The problem wasn’t you, it was his insecurity all along. He was never on your level and knew it, the only way to hurt you was what he did. You are worth more than how he made you feel. Pick yourself up and love yourself
Cas tej niag txiv dev liam no muaj plhus ua luaj li , phem tiag tiag
Poj niam mas ruam tshaj tos poj niam mob tshsj txiv neej los vim muaj cov ruam zoo li ne..
Yog ma ca yu nim ntsib tu phem2 ma ntshai dha
Feem coob cov poj niam puas xav ib yam li hais no ne yom? Kev niam txiv tsis sib hlub thiab sib ntshai ces 1 yog hais lus tsis sib yoog 2 yog tus ntxhiab tsis tsw sib xws puas yog mas? Dhau 2 nqe no kev sib sau los ua txij nkawm yeej sib hlub tau sib zam tau xwb xwb yom puas yog? Thov ua tsaug koj ua muam tuaj hais txog tej tus neeg txoj kev lwj siab no nawb?
Cas koj es ib zaj koj piav mas koj yuam kev ib qho li na, ntshe koj pw tsis txaus pob. Thaum pib koj tham sawv ce tus hluas nkauj. Ib pliag koj ho sawv cev li koj yog tus hluas nraug haha. Li cas lo ok ok
Tus no yog niam tsev Panasonic 100% peb cov txiv tse Vizio no pen nrhiav cov poj niam zoo li no xwb tiag.
Once you know he is no longer love you, just divorce him and go each other's separate ways is the best before something demonstrates happen! You should not allow him to go to Laos to see his second wife and you should have divorced him right away after knowing him being a CHEATER! I hear so many stories the wife go to Laos to see the husband's wife, that is already giving him permission to marry her. That is so wrong of you to do!!! We women have to letting that happen and learn to stand your ground and divorce him once he cheats!!! Should have divorce him right away!!!! Get rid off the disease that is going to kill you!!!!!
Sorry os sister nyob twb ywm li ko zoo tshaj os mog
I don't understand those hmong lao girls. What make you think you can just steal anyone's husband?
forget about someone's husband its about coming to America, land of slaves. i rather live freely in the mountain off grid and self sufficient.
Its not the Hmong Laos girls fault, its all the crazy SOB Hmong OGs who let it all happen.
Why not; it’s free money they are willing to pay them to she their 3 inches land and chest hills?
Arrgh! I heard this one before. Another pathetic, powerless woman story. This is why Hmong men treat their women like crap. .
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😔🥲so sad!!!
So many Hmong Americans' marriages end in divorce because of nkauj mos ab and so many Hmong Lao's marriages end in divorce because of the dollar and green card. I don't know why he couldn't get his nkauj mos ab into the US. If he can't get her into the US via a K-1 fiance visa, if he marries her, has a kid with her or apply for a K-2 marriage visa, there's a 99% he will be able to get her into the US. It'll take 1-2 years longer than the K-1 fiance visa but the chance of approval is much much higher. Maybe his niam mos ab just didn't want to come to be with him. Hmong Lao are starting to prefer staying in Laos now because they're not as poor as a decade ago. They're starting to prefer staying in Laos with someone young whom they like rather than with a Hmong American who's as old has their father and has 5-6 kids older than the Hmong Lao. They'll marry the Hmong American for the $5k - $10k bride price and land, house, mopeds, car, rice paddies, fish pond, rubber tree farm and financial support monthly but when they get all these, they're all set then they change their mind about coming to the US to be with an old man or woman. But then again, a lot of young Hmong Americans are now going to Laos to get a nkauj mos ab. In Laos if you have all these things like farmland, house, car, mopeds, cows, fish ponds, rice paddies, rubber trees, you're wealthy. In the US, you can work all your life and you still won't get all these things. Which Hmong in the US has hectares of farmland, rice paddies, cows, rubber trees, etc 100% paid for? None. Hmong Lao are wealthier than Hmong Americans but Hmong don't see it.
agreed. Hmong in lao are self sufficient but they have all the resources whereas in the states Hmong are slaves to the system barely making end meat. wake up we are living in the matrix here.
This is why now hmong women don't put up with hmong men. For too long we have been mistreated and walk over.
What is the moral of this story?
Moral of the story is to not be stupid like some people who allowed themself to be another's rug.
It is just a neej neeg to me, no moral, no lesson to learn
I think she's just venting her life.