I'm so waiting for the day when "interracial" couples will not get stares in the shopping mall or public places. I usually wave with excitement at people staring at us, just to leave them confused 🤣🤣
This is just evil. People justifying racism as preferences. I’m glad I rejected the black man I truly love and I will keep rejecting and never go back to him. Singledom is true freedom in contrast to play racist partiality.
@@pamandade Hello, there. 👋Congrats on your relationship and having the courage to put up with any negativity of your union. If you have a few moments, I invite you to view my trip to my wife's homeland in Africa. th-cam.com/video/E1XNeg-7aYI/w-d-xo.html Thanks! ✌
Great Video! I'm an advocate for Interracial Relationships and Marriage! All that matters is they have God first, Being Equally Yoked, A good personality, Heart and Soul! Ignore what society has to say. It's your life and business. I'm happy for both of you!
@@pamandade Thank You so much! I got discouraged from people in my race since the early 90's off and on. They have a problem. Interracial Couples are everywhere. I'm happy God never stops answering my prayers about Interracial Relationships and Marriage! Anyone who takes your happiness away is wrong and should be ashamed.
Love you guys.... the part Ade spoke in Yoruba was really interesting, 😃👍🏽 , am also in an interracial marriage and understand everything you guys talked about👍🏽 keep the videos coming 😀
We have thought about making a video on this same topic before! We live in a small town in southern Texas and it is a very controversial subject down here. You guys are the cutest, wishing you lots of success here on youtube. ❤️
Firstly I would like to say congrats to you guys. Secondly, I would say you should not really care what other people think. As long as you make each other happy. But I'm happy that there are people who are open minded about interracial relationships.
I think starring does not only come from a space of being confused or disagreeing with what they see but it also comes from a space of being inspired and wishing that they could be in the same position as you in terms of being free to make any choice and be associated with whoever you want. As a society we all wish we could reach that level of being free to make decisions and choices of your own without any societal influences and customs. God bless ur relationship
I am African American and my husband is Puerto Rican. Being said, I am in an interracial relationship myself. But when I am out in public, (especially when I am not with my husband at the time) I always get dirty looks from other interracial couples towards me. And I think it is because, they think that I am going to have a problem with them. And I don't appreciate the treatment. It's usually when I am out minding my own business, doing day-to-day things. Just a side note, but I had an ex boyfriend who was Cuban (white Cuban). And we never had problems, issues while going out together in public. Neither did we go out Looking for it, just like what I am seeing when I go out alone in public. We never looked around to see who else was black in the grocery store, and start putting up a defense wall before I even realize there's an interracial couple nearby. I do not appreciate the treatment. I'm going to be leaving this comment on several posts. I am posting this because I did not have a good day at Costco today. I am married, pregnant, and was out price comparing the bulk items while my husband was at work. And I almost left crying. All because someone, (interracial couple) dirty look, because they thought I was going to have a problem with it, and I just out carrying on with myself.
Bro what???? I know for fact this is true today I had a Asian girl coworker that I work with and me and her really like each other when we walk around together and went out to eat together I experienced a lot of glances and stares . A lot of Hispanic people kept looking at us as if they feel I wasnt worth her or she should be with a white guy. But she’s not!!! We live in a world that people think just because a non black girl is not black she is automatically supposed to be attracted to white men is not always the case!!! People to need to accept that !!! Me and her actually went to lunch spent the whole day together exchanged numbers and social media and will see each other again. make a long story short people can’t accept it they have hate in their heart for no reason what makes me less than a white person people can’t even answer it. I just don’t understand it
Exacltly, The stares!!!. Only mixed couples know these typical "stares". Like the gentleman in the video stated: The stares are many times angry jealous ones, especially if its a black man with a pretty white women. I have noticed that people somehow "dont mind" if its a black man with a less attractive, maybe overweight white female. Then all of a sudden it all seems "ok".
So, he said he wants to eat, he is hungry..Ounje is food. I am Nigerian and i speak yoruba, which he just spoke..I learnt a lot from your video. No opinions matter except that of christ.. And, it is very clear both of you cherish the relationship, that is more important..
When I used to live in SA - I used to date this white girl and it would happen so often that other black people, mainly black men would approach me with the ‘you have made it’ line😂, what blew my mind is that it would be from all sort of people from different walks of life from fuel attendants to corporate people- it was so strange . However I only experienced it in SA, which I think was due the countries history.
2:00 I'm doing theology in uni and we just went through this topic.I'll answer it for y'all.. NO. Unequally yolked has always referred to non-believers (OT: it always refers to nations where YHWH the God of Israel is not worshiped, and Idols are instead elevated and worshiped. NT: Jesus outright says "do not be unequally yolked with UNBELIEVERS".) Race is never even mentioned in the Bible per se. People were usually Identified by their nation. E.g. There would not be black, white, coloured or Indian South Africans, but just SOUTH AFRICANS. Israel itself was mixed after they moved to Canaan (was considered and extension of Africa and connected with Egypt and Ethiopia -- do you research and read Bible commentaries) and even when they got conquered by other nations or they conquered other nations. A notion called hybridity would come into play and it wouldn't be a big deal as long as people worshiped the God of Israel. Race (skin colour) was not really a thing but if you must know, Moses and his Cushite wife were most probably not the same race and look at how God used him, Boaz married Ruth (Moabitess woman) who became David's great grandmother. And as you can imagine, that "mixing" probably didn't start and stop there. As long as people were both believers then it was and is cool under the Lord's eyes. (Disclaimer the Israelites were middle Eastern and that is neither black nor white exclusively so.. .do with that what you will.) And lastly Acts 17:26, 1 Peter 2:9 and many more in the NT. Also the Dutch Reformed Church used (keyword:USED) to have the believe that interracial marriages or relationships were bad and impure and what not, which became the foundation of the apartheid government. The World Council of Churches (WCC) REFUTED THAT THEOLOGY because it had no scriptural foundation. For more info on this, please google the Cottesloe Declaration. Peace be upon you. Go forth into the world and do what the Lord asks of you : Love Him, love your neighbour freely and as potently as you love yourself knowing you are all equal under the watchful eye of the Lord and make disciples of the nations. Much love. Daughter of the Most High.
Great Video , my husband and I get “the stares” all the time. Sometimes it’s friendly sometimes not so much lol. Either way we are very happy when we are together.✨ we hope to share our stories on our channel too . I’m wishing you both more joy and happiness!!! XO from Toronto
Well being well educated and coming from a successful parents will be a great boost as Ade an accountant his dad a doctor that will put him in a great place to get a beautiful woman like pam weather black or white
I think you guys are a cute couple and I wish you nothing but happiness. I might not agree with the idea of interacial relationships but to each his own.
Why you think it's weird that people can be attracted to someone of a different race or something? Like it's just something that can't happen. It's fine if you don't but many people have that mindset, trust me.
Funny how people make a big deal out of dating out of one's race 🤦🏽♂️😆 we get the same questions and reactions, when all you want is just to be... loving this. Keep on fam. Check our channel out too when you got a sec
Some people still have a 1950s racial mindset. This isn't Loving vs Virginia(look up that case) anymore. But some people's mindset is still in that worldview.
I rejected the black guy I loved and I finally removed the racial partiality glasses. Since then, the Lord lead me to meet a new wise man who is my rock and my beloved. While he isn't black, I'm blessed to be married to him and I never will leave my husband.
Moses' wife was white and God gave his sister leprosy because she gossiped about Moses wife being black. Christians be Christlike do not give Jesus a bad name because He made us black pink purple and blue like the rainbow because He is into diversity. Get with it Peeples. Love, embrace and be joyful as we celebrate our diversity in the people and our kids around us. Our identity is indeed in Christ. These questions are a bit outdated in these days but we understand where they are coming from and we are patient with them because we love them. We just want to be. Ourselves in Christ. Amen!!! God bless you two and your kids one day.
The bible def doesn't speak against interracial dating. Moses wife was an Egyptian. There were many interracial relationships in the bible. God didn't want Israelites marrying ppl of other faiths / beliefs, because there would be problems raising your kids on different spiritual beliefs
Hey, just a random dude who stumbled on your channel. 2 things, firstly Christianity and interracial marriage. We have one prominent account of interracial marriage in the bible. That was between Moses and an Ethiopian (black) woman. You can read this lovely article on that: www.desiringgod.org/interviews/can-a-white-woman-marry-a-black-man Secondly on the language spoken by Ade. Its yoruba. "I am hungry." x 2 "I want food." "food" "please please" "did you not hear me" x2
Love the video,I'm new to the channel🔥, the unequally yoked in the bible refers to believers marrying unbelievers not between races. The are accounts in the bible of interracial relationships, such as Moses marrying a woman of a different race(cushite=Ethiopian), after his sister and brother criticized him, they were punished by God.We are brothers and sisters in union with Christ.
The intro really got me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂🙌🏽 Thanks for watching!
"Our identity should first and foremost be found in Christ." 👏
There she nailed it 👏🏾👏🏾
Dating a white person doesn’t mean you’ve made it
Dating a black person doesn’t mean you’ve made it
But dating Pam... 😎
You guys are killing it with the content!! I love how you guys laugh together, so easily😂
She could get a tv role .
Bullshit
"For those of us who don't know us I'm white and I'm black" 😆
Hahaha the opening ... you guys look cute :) wishing you the best guys!
I'm so waiting for the day when "interracial" couples will not get stares in the shopping mall or public places. I usually wave with excitement at people staring at us, just to leave them confused 🤣🤣
That’s such a good response! 😂👏🏽
This is just evil. People justifying racism as preferences. I’m glad I rejected the black man I truly love and I will keep rejecting and never go back to him. Singledom is true freedom in contrast to play racist partiality.
@@pamandade Hello, there. 👋Congrats on your relationship and having the courage to put up with any negativity of your union. If you have a few moments, I invite you to view my trip to my wife's homeland in Africa. th-cam.com/video/E1XNeg-7aYI/w-d-xo.html Thanks! ✌
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 why did you reject him(just asking), what's racist partiality?
So true
Dating Pam on the other hand 🖐... VERY smooth Ade 👌
I try 😉😉
The realness in this video amazing!!👌
#staynicely
Absolutely loved this guys!! Keep them coming 💯💯💯
Thank you Simba!🙏🏽
Wise & appropriate answer there my brother! "I am into Pam!" Blessings!
Great Video! I'm an advocate for Interracial Relationships and Marriage! All that matters is they have God first, Being Equally Yoked, A good personality, Heart and Soul! Ignore what society has to say. It's your life and business. I'm happy for both of you!
We agree, that’s all that matters! Thanks so much for your comment and for watching! 😄
@@pamandade Thank You so much! I got discouraged from people in my race since the early 90's off and on. They have a problem. Interracial Couples are everywhere. I'm happy God never stops answering my prayers about Interracial Relationships and Marriage! Anyone who takes your happiness away is wrong and should be ashamed.
Love you guys.... the part Ade spoke in Yoruba was really interesting, 😃👍🏽 , am also in an interracial marriage and understand everything you guys talked about👍🏽 keep the videos coming 😀
Thank you so much for the wonderful comment! ❤
Am excited coming accros your TH-cam,nice bro keep it up
We have thought about making a video on this same topic before! We live in a small town in southern Texas and it is a very controversial subject down here. You guys are the cutest, wishing you lots of success here on youtube. ❤️
We’d love to hear your experiences, especially coming from a small town in the US. 🌸 Thank you for your support! Can’t wait to see more from you guys!
This is awesome Ade. Blessings
Thank you Bro Jarvis 😀
Firstly I would like to say congrats to you guys. Secondly, I would say you should not really care what other people think. As long as you make each other happy. But I'm happy that there are people who are open minded about interracial relationships.
Ya’ll are funny! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Just found out that you’re Christians as well, definitely earned my sub!!
Amazing video guys! 💫
Love This❤️❤️❤️
Interracial couples are gonna have the most beautiful babies in the world 💓 You guys look good together!
Thank you so much! ♥️
Pam and Ade you’re welcome!
@@honeymanrique9075 So sticking to your own race doesn't give you beautiful babies?
My love is black too I adore him
god bless u both, amazing couple😍😍😍😍😍😍
You guys are too cute.
Thank you so much!
Intro was unnecessarily funny😂😂
I think starring does not only come from a space of being confused or disagreeing with what they see but it also comes from a space of being inspired and wishing that they could be in the same position as you in terms of being free to make any choice and be associated with whoever you want. As a society we all wish we could reach that level of being free to make decisions and choices of your own without any societal influences and customs. God bless ur relationship
M here n subscribed before I even watched for 30seconds ... ur lady is beautiful man! !!!
Welcome to the fam 🥳
I think Ade said he is tired of take-aways and Pam must make lasagne 🤣 lol - Love ya
Lovely!
You guys are beautiful together!
Thank you so much!
Beautiful video watching from London. 🇬🇧
I am African American and my husband is Puerto Rican. Being said, I am in an interracial relationship myself. But when I am out in public, (especially when I am not with my husband at the time) I always get dirty looks from other interracial couples towards me. And I think it is because, they think that I am going to have a problem with them. And I don't appreciate the treatment. It's usually when I am out minding my own business, doing day-to-day things. Just a side note, but I had an ex boyfriend who was Cuban (white Cuban). And we never had problems, issues while going out together in public. Neither did we go out Looking for it, just like what I am seeing when I go out alone in public. We never looked around to see who else was black in the grocery store, and start putting up a defense wall before I even realize there's an interracial couple nearby. I do not appreciate the treatment. I'm going to be leaving this comment on several posts. I am posting this because I did not have a good day at Costco today. I am married, pregnant, and was out price comparing the bulk items while my husband was at work. And I almost left crying. All because someone, (interracial couple) dirty look, because they thought I was going to have a problem with it, and I just out carrying on with myself.
I love this 😁❤️
Thank you so much!!
Bro what???? I know for fact this is true today I had a Asian girl coworker that I work with and me and her really like each other when we walk around together and went out to eat together I experienced a lot of glances and stares . A lot of Hispanic people kept looking at us as if they feel I wasnt worth her or she should be with a white guy. But she’s not!!! We live in a world that people think just because a non black girl is not black she is automatically supposed to be attracted to white men is not always the case!!! People to need to accept that !!! Me and her actually went to lunch spent the whole day together exchanged numbers and social media and will see each other again. make a long story short people can’t accept it they have hate in their heart for no reason what makes me less than a white person people can’t even answer it. I just don’t understand it
😂😂If I saw you two together in public I'd definitely stare. You're so cute😍😍😍
😊 thank you
Exacltly, The stares!!!.
Only mixed couples know these typical "stares". Like the gentleman in the video stated: The stares are many times angry jealous ones, especially if its a black man with a pretty white women. I have noticed that people somehow "dont mind" if its a black man with a less attractive, maybe overweight white female. Then all of a sudden it all seems "ok".
Can anyone guess what Ade said? Let us know! 😎
Sound like "unje, eh joh". Which I think means "Just like that?" 🤣🤣
So, he said he wants to eat, he is hungry..Ounje is food.
I am Nigerian and i speak yoruba, which he just spoke..I learnt a lot from your video. No opinions matter except that of christ.. And, it is very clear both of you cherish the relationship, that is more important..
Love y'all 💓🤗💓🤗🤗💓💓
♥️
When I used to live in SA - I used to date this white girl and it would happen so often that other black people, mainly black men would approach me with the ‘you have made it’ line😂, what blew my mind is that it would be from all sort of people from different walks of life from fuel attendants to corporate people- it was so strange . However I only experienced it in SA, which I think was due the countries history.
100% your kids are gonna be cute how could they not be look at you guys😂❤
Aw! 😂♥️ Thank you Yaslin! ♥️
Awwww 😍🥰😍🥰
the language is Yoruba!
Great video!
Thank you!🙏🏽
2:00 I'm doing theology in uni and we just went through this topic.I'll answer it for y'all.. NO. Unequally yolked has always referred to non-believers (OT: it always refers to nations where YHWH the God of Israel is not worshiped, and Idols are instead elevated and worshiped. NT: Jesus outright says "do not be unequally yolked with UNBELIEVERS".) Race is never even mentioned in the Bible per se. People were usually Identified by their nation. E.g. There would not be black, white, coloured or Indian South Africans, but just SOUTH AFRICANS. Israel itself was mixed after they moved to Canaan (was considered and extension of Africa and connected with Egypt and Ethiopia -- do you research and read Bible commentaries) and even when they got conquered by other nations or they conquered other nations. A notion called hybridity would come into play and it wouldn't be a big deal as long as people worshiped the God of Israel. Race (skin colour) was not really a thing but if you must know, Moses and his Cushite wife were most probably not the same race and look at how God used him, Boaz married Ruth (Moabitess woman) who became David's great grandmother. And as you can imagine, that "mixing" probably didn't start and stop there. As long as people were both believers then it was and is cool under the Lord's eyes. (Disclaimer the Israelites were middle Eastern and that is neither black nor white exclusively so.. .do with that what you will.) And lastly Acts 17:26, 1 Peter 2:9 and many more in the NT. Also the Dutch Reformed Church used (keyword:USED) to have the believe that interracial marriages or relationships were bad and impure and what not, which became the foundation of the apartheid government. The World Council of Churches (WCC) REFUTED THAT THEOLOGY because it had no scriptural foundation. For more info on this, please google the Cottesloe Declaration. Peace be upon you. Go forth into the world and do what the Lord asks of you : Love Him, love your neighbour freely and as potently as you love yourself knowing you are all equal under the watchful eye of the Lord and make disciples of the nations. Much love. Daughter of the Most High.
Great Video , my husband and I get “the stares” all the time. Sometimes it’s friendly sometimes not so much lol. Either way we are very happy when we are together.✨ we hope to share our stories on our channel too . I’m wishing you both more joy and happiness!!! XO from Toronto
Thank you! Ahh the stares... At the end of the day, being happy together is the goal!👏🏽 Hope you share your stories too! 💫 ♥️
Do u guys have a tiktok...and if u do what is it?
Well being well educated and coming from a successful parents will be a great boost as Ade an accountant his dad a doctor that will put him in a great place to get a beautiful woman like pam weather black or white
I think you guys are a cute couple and I wish you nothing but happiness. I might not agree with the idea of interacial relationships but to each his own.
Why you think it's weird that people can be attracted to someone of a different race or something? Like it's just something that can't happen. It's fine if you don't but many people have that mindset, trust me.
😀😀😀😀😀
The language is yoruba and he said he is hungry and he need food.🤣😂
Correct! ❤️
Funny how people make a big deal out of dating out of one's race 🤦🏽♂️😆 we get the same questions and reactions, when all you want is just to be... loving this. Keep on fam. Check our channel out too when you got a sec
Some people still have a 1950s racial mindset. This isn't Loving vs Virginia(look up that case) anymore. But some people's mindset is still in that worldview.
Yes that’s what I’m getting too, all of a sudden we got all these other Nigerians asking if we can help them get a white girl
I rejected the black guy I loved and I finally removed the racial partiality glasses. Since then, the Lord lead me to meet a new wise man
who is my rock and my beloved. While he isn't black, I'm blessed to be married to him and I never will leave my husband.
Racial partiality glasses?
Moses' wife was white and God gave his sister leprosy because she gossiped about Moses wife being black. Christians be Christlike do not give Jesus a bad name because He made us black pink purple and blue like the rainbow because He is into diversity. Get with it Peeples. Love, embrace and be joyful as we celebrate our diversity in the people and our kids around us. Our identity is indeed in Christ. These questions are a bit outdated in these days but we understand where they are coming from and we are patient with them because we love them. We just want to be. Ourselves in Christ. Amen!!! God bless you two and your kids one day.
The bible def doesn't speak against interracial dating. Moses wife was an Egyptian. There were many interracial relationships in the bible.
God didn't want Israelites marrying ppl of other faiths / beliefs, because there would be problems raising your kids on different spiritual beliefs
Hey, just a random dude who stumbled on your channel.
2 things, firstly Christianity and interracial marriage. We have one prominent account of interracial marriage in the bible. That was between Moses and an Ethiopian (black) woman. You can read this lovely article on that:
www.desiringgod.org/interviews/can-a-white-woman-marry-a-black-man
Secondly on the language spoken by Ade. Its yoruba.
"I am hungry." x 2
"I want food."
"food"
"please please"
"did you not hear me" x2
Yup! The language is Yoruba!! You are spot on. Thank you for the comment ❤
Interracial couples have been around for thousands years, what’s the issue
SERIOUSLY!!!
Love the video,I'm new to the channel🔥, the unequally yoked in the bible refers to believers marrying unbelievers not between races. The are accounts in the bible of interracial relationships, such as Moses marrying a woman of a different race(cushite=Ethiopian), after his sister and brother criticized him, they were punished by God.We are brothers and sisters in union with Christ.
Yoruba And it means
You didn't hear me??
All gods are not the same. God didn’t want his people marrying other nations because those nation will turn him people to worshiping other gods!
Where da white women at?
Yoruba I guess
That's correct!
There are many ethnicities but only ONE race, HUMAN!! Yes, Christian first and foremost!!
I want a white girlfriend
He is hungry
She's going to start to know her worth look somewhere else lol