I was just thinking something yesterday: Brian needs to make this knowledge get to schools because humanity NEEDS Fearless content. Make it official and save us all my man! Send Kairu a hug for me.
The synergy is powerful with your content lately brother! It's like things come up in my journey and your next suggested video addresses just that! Even the way I found you was a wish for elevated teachings, and there you suddenly were. Respect. Btw, I just emailed you something that I'd be curious to see if you find interesting. Subject is attn. Brian. But no expectation, just excited to see if there's something there. 🤟🏽
"Attachment Styles" are meant more to be a framework than a fence. Don't let it be one of your self-limiting beliefs. The big key in this video, especially as it relates to your experiences here, is learn how to relax and ride the flow. Think of it like riding an inner tube down a gentle river in the warm sun. Feel it. You don't control the river; you enjoy it and each of the subtle turns it makes.
This video is really good, its a energy thing. There is a good technique called Natural grounding video meditation I did which made me aware of this femine energy
This guy gets it. He takes the same basic data as the other “men’s channel” guys, but sees it through eyes that are knowledgeable and caring as opposed to the anger and misogyny the “red pill” guys carry.
Thank you for the video, you just described my Current situation with girl that I just met... She behaved on our date exactly the way you described on the video, she said e. g. we should definitely repeat this, it was great fun.... So I have asked her to go out because she said at our date that it was really fun but it never happened again... However we were still chatting but now suddenly she doesn't respond anymore
Notice how you stopped at the point of describing the problem. That will keep you focused on the problem. What guidance will you take from the video to move forward with/without her? - Andrew, TFM Team
I’m gonna help y’all out here. Depending on the level of maturity, age and context of the connection you are trying to establish or maintain…there could be a lot of reasons for them to fade or flake. Typically they might be just as nervous (especially the young ones). Most people don’t know who they are and what they want until they’re in the 30’s. Before that it is experimenting and with various degrees of certainty on their path. That being said it’s important to not internalize anything people do and it’s always wise to reflect your beliefs about yourself and mitigate the childhood trauma and programming that isn’t essentially who you are. The big beliefs that mess us up are: “it’s not available to me” “I’m not going to be chosen/accepted” sometime it’s those beliefs that will color your interactions or how you show up in interpersonal life. Be solid in your self concept and remind yourself that you are “the best option” which allows you to show up not wanting to impress anyone. Only contact the ladies when you are fully in your solid self concept and when you think about them, you have to imagine the end state (y’all enjoying some time together laughing or doing fun things together) and ask about what she’s inspired by intellectually to get her into the logical frame of mind you’ll balance the masculine and feminine. Get them talking and take a few mental notes. They will give you a road map to connecting with them especially if they feel some chemistry. The guys who remember nuances get stuck in their mind and as long as you are open and flexible… you will have their attention and rank more favorably than your competitors. You’re welcome boys! Best of luck finding and enjoying someone you connect with well 😃
head fing yourself is classic female nonsense. A guy who cant get a date wont be able to convince himself that "hes her best option". Nothing ever got better by lying to yourself.
@@mariachiingles2348 conversations that make you really think are very memorable. it doesn't mean to bombard her with some pseudo intellectual narrative. read the room.
@@Holypikemanz people do it all the time in the worst way as children believing they are nothing because their alcoholic dad left and their stepdad beat them and constantly told them they would amount to anything. Our minds are so powerful that you can tell it you love certain kinds of pain (physical therapy or intense weight training) or choose it for a purpose and manage to perform near impossible feats or endure your arm being rebroken to set properly. You set up the conditions of the person not being able to get a date… no where did I assume these guys are inept or undesirable.
@@mariachiingles2348 women think which leads to webbing other experiences or feelings with the thought. Most chicks are tired of hearing about how they look and what guys want to do to and with them, so if you actually value or engage her mind you will get tons more leeway.
She had a higher value or more stimulating option, either way I’m not putting on the clown shoes and joining the circus for a piece of p-sleeve from some D Juggler
Sometimes pressure from work family or other events in our lives cause us to completely disconnect from our social world so I wouldn’t necessarily make assumptions for the reason someone disconnects or isn’t quick to respond it just depends again on their age where they are in life and all this and that. Think this whole high value higher value stuff is creating a huge polarity and unless you’re trying to catch a wife or you’re kind of manipulating women to have a harem I wouldn’t worry too much about the whole high value low value thing it’s really just a matter of you being solid in your self-concept knowing who you are and the kind of chick you’re most compatible with sometimes people or just flaky and it’s nothing personal. I know it seem like every time I try to jump on a dating app my whole life will get crazy like I got Covid the last time in pneumonia and I got sick and I was talking to guys and they seem really wonderful and I definitely wanted to go on a date with them but then of course you know how is contagious and quarantining by then I’m sure those guys were not on the app anymore I kind of just fell off because I was worried about things like breathing and why food didn’t taste like anything etc. All I’m saying is there can always be a lot of other reasons and it’s important to not discount yourself take things personally or judge yourself in any of this because that can create a harmful thought pattern that creates more barriers between you and people you’re interested in.
Monkey branching and getting s3x is like drinking water to broads above a 6, I have no time to sit there and wonder why some broad ghosted or doesn’t like me, especially when she has 5 million options and she’s exercising them
brian i find that logical women stay on topic. we are more emotinal for sure but most of my convos with women have a logical thread. plus, non reliant people are just non reliant regardless of gender. i deal with these type of man every day ):
Yes, there is always an exception to the rule and we are dealing in generalizations for learning purposes. We need look at the energies of the ideas and learn from them but don’t make them hard facts. Love having women comment. Would like to get more women on the channel. Great to have you here.
@@TheFearlessMan i get you. loved your input. thought a lot about your content the last few days. had related convos with my male friends (we are israelies but male/female problems are the same). keep on realising your vision.
it is on of the best vidéo , that video was for me , when you taking flirting too seriously girls can feel that , it IS not attractive at all. sometime you have to play with life .go out just play for fun ,don't go to hard on yourself.
i am in danger then because i am dating a woman now for some time and i really like her but last weeks she meet another guy went on a date and they kissed but we are kind of in an open relationshop and kissing is allowed but i think he made a much bigger impression on her and is also more alpha
You're starting to feel jealousy. Poly relationships are not for jealous people. Be honest with yourself first, then with her. One of three things is likely to happen: 1) You have to work through your jealousy with her. It's extremely unlikely, but technically possible that she can make you and the other guy both feel secure about the relationship. Maybe worth a try, but usually fails in the end. 2) Admit you would prefer a monogamous relationship. She'll choose the person she wants to be with. 3) Let her go. Either you will find someone who is a better match for you or she will volunteer the monogamous relationship and you can decide if you think it can work. It's hard to see this working out if you try to hide your jealousy from her or deny it to yourself. Poly almost never works because very few people have the right personality for it. It sounds like you don't. The best case scenario you can hope for is option 2 where she chooses you, but given your self-consciousness and insecurity, I wouldn't hold my breath too long on that one. None of this is meant as any sort of put-down, by the way. I'm just trying to be real with you because I've done the poly thing, I've been with insecure partners, I've been with girls who thought they wanted poly and ended up preferring mono (sometimes with the other guy). It's just experience and observation talking. Corny as it sounds, honesty really is the best policy here. First with your true, inner self--then with her. Any other approach will likely be disastrous.
@@AlbinosaurusR3X thanks appreciate your input! yeah we already talked with each other but now she is on vacation with family and i am sitting on her dog haha. becuase we first meet each other i training her dog. but yeah she is definitely still texting with that guy. i guess that guy is still trying to win her over not only wanting a trhreesome but slo get her for himself
@@jaspergabriels8933 Hope it works out for you, but it sounds like you're not comfortable with the poly aspect of it. If your talk didn't include what you two both actually think/feel about being poly, you should definitely have that talk soon.
I guess you are not talking to me and most of my friends because we belong to another class. We have no time nor the ability to tolerate modern day dating. rules . If you are targeting upper class men for this content that’s good cause I can see where you are going.
It looks like you completely missed the message here. He's not suggesting you act like robots--quite the opposite. It's also not aimed at "upper class" men. He has said many times that people who you would never think would meet the common expectations of "what women want" are swimming in dates by using his principles. I don't know if that's true or not, but it definitely implies that it's meant for everyone. It appears to me that your self-limiting beliefs (especially around money/class and maybe personal appearance) prevent you from approaching women with the proper confidence and relaxed energy that they respond to. However, this video is about reading the emotional, contextual flow of the circumstances, not taking it personally, and what you can do to both enjoy it and gently shape it in your favor. I recommend staying away from too much MGTOW/incel rhetoric. It will destroy your conception of women and your ability to attract them. Incels in particular have nothing of value to offer you and all you can learn from MGTOW are what potential dangers to be aware of--though they fall into the trap of letting fear guide their lives instead of just being a bit more cautious/aware.
This is probably the most important video you’ve made. And it’s very true, to many men take things women do too seriously.
I was just thinking something yesterday: Brian needs to make this knowledge get to schools because humanity NEEDS Fearless content. Make it official and save us all my man! Send Kairu a hug for me.
Who knows the moment when you ask yourself "Why couldnt somebody tell me this years ago" - it's a big piece of the puzzle - keep up the great work!
Zan Perrion is also good source guys. Fearless & himself have worked together on videos. Godspeed.
Nah..he is too theoretical, and also unrealistic in his teaching
@@HimmlicherDrecksSpion i disagree. his teachings are awesome and really helpful.
@@HimmlicherDrecksSpion his book is a game changer.
@@HimmlicherDrecksSpion you dont get it then
This was so helpful! Definitely had some "ah ha" moments! Thanks Brian!
The synergy is powerful with your content lately brother! It's like things come up in my journey and your next suggested video addresses just that! Even the way I found you was a wish for elevated teachings, and there you suddenly were. Respect.
Btw, I just emailed you something that I'd be curious to see if you find interesting. Subject is attn. Brian. But no expectation, just excited to see if there's something there. 🤟🏽
Awesome dude. So good!! 😁😁
Hot and cold (also push/pull) is EXTREMELY traumatizing to me because of my Anxious-Avoidant Attachment style
"Attachment Styles" are meant more to be a framework than a fence. Don't let it be one of your self-limiting beliefs. The big key in this video, especially as it relates to your experiences here, is learn how to relax and ride the flow. Think of it like riding an inner tube down a gentle river in the warm sun. Feel it. You don't control the river; you enjoy it and each of the subtle turns it makes.
Something to be aware of...........we all have fears and insecurities.
This answers the question I had thanks❤.....Thought I was the one with the problem
Hope you realize what the video is teaching; that there is no problem at all. You weren't the one with a problem, and neither was her.
We definitely need more videos on this!
I needed this. Thank you for going so in depth
These contents are really worthful, great job.
This video is really good, its a energy thing. There is a good technique called Natural grounding video meditation I did which made me aware of this femine energy
Really great video Brian, thank you.
She's loyal to the moment
I'm loyal to the facts and logic
If a girl doesn't text back immediately move on bruh
Depends.
Thanks Brian! This is gold!
Seems the channel is growing more!
This guy gets it. He takes the same basic data as the other “men’s channel” guys, but sees it through eyes that are knowledgeable and caring as opposed to the anger and misogyny the “red pill” guys carry.
Brilliant video!
thanks Brian, often i can not follow this emotions especially at work when i am focused on goals.
9:30 shout out to whoever did the experiment that's helpful knowledge
Thank you for the video, you just described my Current situation with girl that I just met... She behaved on our date exactly the way you described on the video, she said e. g. we should definitely repeat this, it was great fun.... So I have asked her to go out because she said at our date that it was really fun but it never happened again... However we were still chatting but now suddenly she doesn't respond anymore
Notice how you stopped at the point of describing the problem. That will keep you focused on the problem. What guidance will you take from the video to move forward with/without her? - Andrew, TFM Team
Perfect info!
As always great Brian ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I’m gonna help y’all out here. Depending on the level of maturity, age and context of the connection you are trying to establish or maintain…there could be a lot of reasons for them to fade or flake. Typically they might be just as nervous (especially the young ones). Most people don’t know who they are and what they want until they’re in the 30’s. Before that it is experimenting and with various degrees of certainty on their path. That being said it’s important to not internalize anything people do and it’s always wise to reflect your beliefs about yourself and mitigate the childhood trauma and programming that isn’t essentially who you are. The big beliefs that mess us up are: “it’s not available to me” “I’m not going to be chosen/accepted” sometime it’s those beliefs that will color your interactions or how you show up in interpersonal life. Be solid in your self concept and remind yourself that you are “the best option” which allows you to show up not wanting to impress anyone. Only contact the ladies when you are fully in your solid self concept and when you think about them, you have to imagine the end state (y’all enjoying some time together laughing or doing fun things together) and ask about what she’s inspired by intellectually to get her into the logical frame of mind you’ll balance the masculine and feminine. Get them talking and take a few mental notes. They will give you a road map to connecting with them especially if they feel some chemistry. The guys who remember nuances get stuck in their mind and as long as you are open and flexible… you will have their attention and rank more favorably than your competitors.
You’re welcome boys! Best of luck finding and enjoying someone you connect with well 😃
Getting her into a logical frame of mind is a fantastic way to not get a second date.
head fing yourself is classic female nonsense. A guy who cant get a date wont be able to convince himself that "hes her best option". Nothing ever got better by lying to yourself.
@@mariachiingles2348 conversations that make you really think are very memorable. it doesn't mean to bombard her with some pseudo intellectual narrative. read the room.
@@Holypikemanz people do it all the time in the worst way as children believing they are nothing because their alcoholic dad left and their stepdad beat them and constantly told them they would amount to anything.
Our minds are so powerful that you can tell it you love certain kinds of pain (physical therapy or intense weight training) or choose it for a purpose and manage to perform near impossible feats or endure your arm being rebroken to set properly.
You set up the conditions of the person not being able to get a date… no where did I assume these guys are inept or undesirable.
@@mariachiingles2348 women think which leads to webbing other experiences or feelings with the thought. Most chicks are tired of hearing about how they look and what guys want to do to and with them, so if you actually value or engage her mind you will get tons more leeway.
She had a higher value or more stimulating option, either way I’m not putting on the clown shoes and joining the circus for a piece of p-sleeve from some D Juggler
Sometimes pressure from work family or other events in our lives cause us to completely disconnect from our social world so I wouldn’t necessarily make assumptions for the reason someone disconnects or isn’t quick to respond it just depends again on their age where they are in life and all this and that. Think this whole high value higher value stuff is creating a huge polarity and unless you’re trying to catch a wife or you’re kind of manipulating women to have a harem I wouldn’t worry too much about the whole high value low value thing it’s really just a matter of you being solid in your self-concept knowing who you are and the kind of chick you’re most compatible with sometimes people or just flaky and it’s nothing personal.
I know it seem like every time I try to jump on a dating app my whole life will get crazy like I got Covid the last time in pneumonia and I got sick and I was talking to guys and they seem really wonderful and I definitely wanted to go on a date with them but then of course you know how is contagious and quarantining by then I’m sure those guys were not on the app anymore I kind of just fell off because I was worried about things like breathing and why food didn’t taste like anything etc. All I’m saying is there can always be a lot of other reasons and it’s important to not discount yourself take things personally or judge yourself in any of this because that can create a harmful thought pattern that creates more barriers between you and people you’re interested in.
Monkey branching and getting s3x is like drinking water to broads above a 6, I have no time to sit there and wonder why some broad ghosted or doesn’t like me, especially when she has 5 million options and she’s exercising them
brian i find that logical women stay on topic. we are more emotinal for sure but most of my convos with women have a logical thread. plus, non reliant people are just non reliant regardless of gender. i deal with these type of man every day ):
Yes, there is always an exception to the rule and we are dealing in generalizations for learning purposes. We need look at the energies of the ideas and learn from them but don’t make them hard facts. Love having women comment. Would like to get more women on the channel. Great to have you here.
@@TheFearlessMan i get you. loved your input. thought a lot about your content the last few days. had related convos with my male friends (we are israelies but male/female problems are the same). keep on realising your vision.
And please keep commenting. This discussion needs both women and men.
@@TheFearlessMan i will. women have many platforms to process this info, and i hope men will have more support like yours. ill keep watching.
it is on of the best vidéo , that video was for me , when you taking flirting too seriously girls can feel that , it IS not attractive at all. sometime you have to play with life .go out just play for fun ,don't go to hard on yourself.
but is their a way to get that emotion back
Next time they contact you, generate it. If they aren't responding to you, let the birds fly. Some of them will come back, most of them won't.
All the time
i am in danger then because i am dating a woman now for some time and i really like her but last weeks she meet another guy went on a date and they kissed but we are kind of in an open relationshop and kissing is allowed but i think he made a much bigger impression on her and is also more alpha
You're starting to feel jealousy. Poly relationships are not for jealous people. Be honest with yourself first, then with her. One of three things is likely to happen:
1) You have to work through your jealousy with her. It's extremely unlikely, but technically possible that she can make you and the other guy both feel secure about the relationship. Maybe worth a try, but usually fails in the end.
2) Admit you would prefer a monogamous relationship. She'll choose the person she wants to be with.
3) Let her go. Either you will find someone who is a better match for you or she will volunteer the monogamous relationship and you can decide if you think it can work.
It's hard to see this working out if you try to hide your jealousy from her or deny it to yourself. Poly almost never works because very few people have the right personality for it. It sounds like you don't. The best case scenario you can hope for is option 2 where she chooses you, but given your self-consciousness and insecurity, I wouldn't hold my breath too long on that one.
None of this is meant as any sort of put-down, by the way. I'm just trying to be real with you because I've done the poly thing, I've been with insecure partners, I've been with girls who thought they wanted poly and ended up preferring mono (sometimes with the other guy). It's just experience and observation talking.
Corny as it sounds, honesty really is the best policy here. First with your true, inner self--then with her. Any other approach will likely be disastrous.
@@AlbinosaurusR3X thanks appreciate your input! yeah we already talked with each other but now she is on vacation with family and i am sitting on her dog haha. becuase we first meet each other i training her dog. but yeah she is definitely still texting with that guy. i guess that guy is still trying to win her over not only wanting a trhreesome but slo get her for himself
@@jaspergabriels8933
Hope it works out for you, but it sounds like you're not comfortable with the poly aspect of it. If your talk didn't include what you two both actually think/feel about being poly, you should definitely have that talk soon.
move on dude. And "Open Relationship" is not a respectful. My breaks for those who would tolerate such bs.
You are just a number on her list that's all from top to bottom depending on what number you are on she will react facts
Brother, you have to let go of your anger toward women. It's only going to cause worse and worse problems in your life. - Andrew, TFM Team
I guess you are not talking to me and most of my friends because we belong to another class. We have no time nor the ability to tolerate modern day dating. rules . If you are targeting upper class men for this content that’s good cause I can see where you are going.
It looks like you completely missed the message here. He's not suggesting you act like robots--quite the opposite. It's also not aimed at "upper class" men. He has said many times that people who you would never think would meet the common expectations of "what women want" are swimming in dates by using his principles. I don't know if that's true or not, but it definitely implies that it's meant for everyone.
It appears to me that your self-limiting beliefs (especially around money/class and maybe personal appearance) prevent you from approaching women with the proper confidence and relaxed energy that they respond to. However, this video is about reading the emotional, contextual flow of the circumstances, not taking it personally, and what you can do to both enjoy it and gently shape it in your favor.
I recommend staying away from too much MGTOW/incel rhetoric. It will destroy your conception of women and your ability to attract them. Incels in particular have nothing of value to offer you and all you can learn from MGTOW are what potential dangers to be aware of--though they fall into the trap of letting fear guide their lives instead of just being a bit more cautious/aware.
What do you mean by "act like robots"? - Andrew, TFM Team
@@TheFearlessMan
I am looking for another word.
Keeeeeeeeey