This is almost always how it goes in these stories where a woman demands an open relationship. Once the man starts getting laid with another person they go surprised pikachu and demands to close the relationship again. It usually takes a lot longer for the man to start getting into his groove, but once it happens she will soon want to stop it. She couldn't have cared less as long as she was the only one getting laid outside of the marriage, but once he started getting laid she demanded to change the rules.
Yup. There's no coming back once a partner asks you for an open marriage. Even if you say no and your partner accepts and respects that no, the relationship is already over. Simply asking that question tells you all you need to know: your partner considers you inadequate. You're not enough to make them happy, they want more than you can provide. What self-respecting person would be ok with being considered inadequate by their own partner, the person that is supposed to love you more than anyone else? F that.
She blackmailed OP from the get-go just so she can't be called out as a cheater. She was unemployed and getting laid while op worked 72 hours a week to pay for his kids' future. He never dated until his kids were safe to go, and sounds like someone just wanting to spend any kind of time with his partner and he found this in Jane while his wife gave him the cold shoulder. Despite everything mentioned, she still thinks she has ground to make demands and expects OP to fund her lifestyle. And since family court is horse shit, OP will have to pay alimony and give him a share of his assets. And y'all bitches are out there saying men have it easy.
Nah, the more Non-Monogamous partner gets turbo screwed in family court whenever Consensual Non-Monogamy related cases come up. It's actually one of the rare cases where courts will behave exactly how Boomers think they should in grandparents' rights suits, because why let a happy child stay with their three loving parents when two bitter old retirees from Arizona want to drag them back to their church to be SAd by the youth paster before they drive up to Idaho to force a marriage to said child pastor, because these Christians know what a marriage is SUPPOSED to be!
She wants to feel desirable, while good old dependable OP keeps the home fires burning and works 70 hrs. a week. As soon as OP starts looking good and gets a woman, she's not happy with that. Waaah. Stand your ground, OP. Hope you got a real good lawyer. Your wife has absolutely nothing left to offer you.
The marriage was already over when she wanted an “open marriage”, she sensed that with OP seemed to be serious with jane she decided to add “her” rules, uhm no, this will lead to divorce anyway so no point in keeping the marriage
When they ask for an open marriage, they never say it, but they want it to be one sided. Even if he was just hooking up and not going on dates, she'd have a problem.
Guys like this are so pathetic and easy for girls like his wife to just use them for money and nothing more. It's so sad, but luckily, I guess this guy found his backbone in the end. It says a lot that it took him getting another woman to finally make him stand up for himself and end his sham marriage. These guys need some self-respect
OP was working 14-15 hours a day, doing chores and spending time with the kids and available on the weekends. Was he working with 2 hours of sleep a day? Story sounds sus.
She knew exactly what she was doing. When OP found someone serious, she realised she was going to be replaced.
This is almost always how it goes in these stories where a woman demands an open relationship. Once the man starts getting laid with another person they go surprised pikachu and demands to close the relationship again. It usually takes a lot longer for the man to start getting into his groove, but once it happens she will soon want to stop it. She couldn't have cared less as long as she was the only one getting laid outside of the marriage, but once he started getting laid she demanded to change the rules.
Divorce. Op, your marriage was over when she asked for the open marriage. She just wants you as an atm.
Yup. There's no coming back once a partner asks you for an open marriage. Even if you say no and your partner accepts and respects that no, the relationship is already over. Simply asking that question tells you all you need to know: your partner considers you inadequate. You're not enough to make them happy, they want more than you can provide. What self-respecting person would be ok with being considered inadequate by their own partner, the person that is supposed to love you more than anyone else? F that.
She blackmailed OP from the get-go just so she can't be called out as a cheater. She was unemployed and getting laid while op worked 72 hours a week to pay for his kids' future. He never dated until his kids were safe to go, and sounds like someone just wanting to spend any kind of time with his partner and he found this in Jane while his wife gave him the cold shoulder. Despite everything mentioned, she still thinks she has ground to make demands and expects OP to fund her lifestyle.
And since family court is horse shit, OP will have to pay alimony and give him a share of his assets. And y'all bitches are out there saying men have it easy.
Nah, the more Non-Monogamous partner gets turbo screwed in family court whenever Consensual Non-Monogamy related cases come up. It's actually one of the rare cases where courts will behave exactly how Boomers think they should in grandparents' rights suits, because why let a happy child stay with their three loving parents when two bitter old retirees from Arizona want to drag them back to their church to be SAd by the youth paster before they drive up to Idaho to force a marriage to said child pastor, because these Christians know what a marriage is SUPPOSED to be!
She wants to feel desirable, while good old dependable OP keeps the home fires burning and works 70 hrs. a week. As soon as OP starts looking good and gets a woman, she's not happy with that. Waaah. Stand your ground, OP. Hope you got a real good lawyer. Your wife has absolutely nothing left to offer you.
Standard syndrome - she doesn't want you, but no one else can have you.
The marriage was already over when she wanted an “open marriage”, she sensed that with OP seemed to be serious with jane she decided to add “her” rules, uhm no, this will lead to divorce anyway so no point in keeping the marriage
When they ask for an open marriage, they never say it, but they want it to be one sided. Even if he was just hooking up and not going on dates, she'd have a problem.
The girl f around and found out.
Should’ve taken the divorce. She’s a 304.
None of the guys sleep sleeps with want to spend any more time with her than they have to, lol
Open relationship = A bad relationship
Guy has no spine . She basically got whatever she wanted threw the whole marriage
Open marriage = Adultry. Period. To each his own, but play stupid games, win stupid prizes. 😮
whats the background track called it sounds amazing.
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Symphocat - Long Whale Song
Guys like this are so pathetic and easy for girls like his wife to just use them for money and nothing more. It's so sad, but luckily, I guess this guy found his backbone in the end. It says a lot that it took him getting another woman to finally make him stand up for himself and end his sham marriage. These guys need some self-respect
Lacking substance
OP was working 14-15 hours a day, doing chores and spending time with the kids and available on the weekends. Was he working with 2 hours of sleep a day? Story sounds sus.
@ctdevil If you're available weekends, it's because you're not working those days. So 5 days a week.
Another woman moment