My husband: "You've filed for divorce?!" Me: "I'm afraid so." Him: "You filed in Minnesota???" Me: "Hear me out. Y'know that TH-cam lawyer lady who we both love?"
Seek out your public law library! They're not just for attorneys. Law librarians can show you local lawyer directories and can refer you to pro bono options.
Also check your state bar association’s website for legal referral, client match and/or legal aid programs. For some matters a legal aid clinic associated with a law school or a community legal service might be in your area. Some enployers also offer a legal benefit that goves you access to discounted legal services.
It depends on what kind of case it is. If it's criminal (especially if it's a first time offense) you need a heavy weight. The people who work in the court houses (clerks, bailiffs) know which lawyer is good and who's a flak, so you should go there and ask them which one you should take with your particular circumstances. All of the people that work there are decent people so you can approach them. Ask one for which lawyer you should take for your particular circumstances. Come back later when the shift has changed and ask 2 or 3 people if the lawyer that was recommended to you is any good. You might have to come up with 20 to 30 thousand, but a really good lawyer can have it so that, you get off scott free and it will not go down in any files. If it's recorded it's stay's in a file for quite a while and can cause problems for work or if you apply for a city job. If it's a minor question about taxes or something like that, again you should check at the court and ask who's a good guy. If you get a lawyer who's decent he or she will charge a minor fee of 50. If that happens pay in cash and tell them you don't need a receipt. It can be when you ask how much, he or she may say "Fuggedaboutit." If that happens, write out a note, telling him or her how much you appreciate it and leave thirty to fifty in an envelope and put it in the lawyer's mail box. Even if it's pro bono. That means a lot to any lawyer because sometimes they work a miracles for someone and the person never even bothered to thank them and that annoys them. Also you might in future have a question for a lawyer and you can call the lawyer that you asked before. In other words, "It's the thought that counts." Believe me, he or she is not going to forget you because you did a courtesy and a lawyer who did not charge anything is gold. Reason being you left a note with a little bit of cash so the guy or gal can have a dinner in Joe's Steak house or take his or her partner out to McDonalds so the money is not a big deal to them. Again it's the thought and that they remember.
Bernadette Banner is so impressive and lovely. Her channel is great, and she's got a sweet lil guinea pig who "helps" with her projects. I love seeing a crossover moment between two channels I love.
Family Law can be absolutely brutal. The best advice I ever received from our family law lawyer (my husband had 50/50 legal, full physical with supervised visitation for the mom) was to show respect to the other side by listening attentively when the other side spoke - and nodding when we agreed or shaking our heads when we didn't. When so many people are fighting out of anger, just doing that made us look more rational. And the lawyer always made us write the first draft of every declaration, which they rewrote. By walking me through the changes, it showed us how to argue the point and what was important for us to do. By the time the hcbm passed due to drug use (we had all the custody but had to keep going back every time she got temporarily clean), I was writing the declarations based on information I knew to look for. The lawyer's review dropped to edits instead of rewrites. Saving her time, and letting us feel like we were meaningfully contributing. All in all, an excellent process. And one I've never heard of others doing. Our lawyer had notes on judges that let them remember the ways a particular judge is likely to respond. She also kept memorable quotes and argued to get the judge to say them. Like "This is your final warning, if you do this again then you are done" - then she got a copy of the stenographer's notes if the judge said it. If she could get him to say that to the other side, all she had to do is say "you gave them your final warning last time and here we are again, I have a copy of the stenographer's notes". And boom, the judge would side with her. If the court gave her client that spiel, she moved heaven and earth to make sure we didn't do it again *and* worked in court to show that this time is different (even if it wasn't). We never left the courtroom in a worse position, even if it wasn't the position we wanted. That was about the best that could be said about joint custody while the biomom was an addict. Your lawyer's office will absolutely show you the ropes and you are a smart and eloquent person who will succeed no matter where you go. I'm just sharing my point because I'm excited for you and I like to share things. I hope you make the best impact you can and that you are fulfilled by fighting this very necessary fight. If it ever gets too bad, or you end up in a case that makes you cry, just imagine how it would be without your help. Imagine the world of hurt they would be in if you weren't there to work with them. Sure, another lawyer might have done it better, but they might not have. You are better than no representation at all. And with the backlog of family law cases, a lot of people go to court unrepresented just because nobody has the time or the price has risen out of their budget. So there are people getting lawyers just by your presence, which is something on the worst days.
This was great! Really basic info that everyone should know. Thanks. Also, it's been a long time since you did a reaction video. I'm here to formally make a request.
Woooo! My cousin is an Estate lawyer in MA and he makes me wanna be a lawyer toooooo. You also make me wanna be a lawyer but i dont think I could be a family lawyer but ive considered immigration law if not estate
At the Santa Fé law library you can get helpful forms and guides created by the staff for just the cost of the copier. Their divorce papers based on "irreconcilable differences and outlook on life" in a mutually agreed divorce say at the top of each page "don't be an asshole" (or something equivalent). That was a much better experience than my second divorce where my lawyer caved completely when my ex hired a much more expensive lawyer who live a few houses down from the judge. He managed to "win" a settlement exactly matching my fees to him.
Hey Leeja, I love you so much. I’m so happy for you and your career. You are an inspiration for me to keep going. I am so discouraged because I had to withdraw from my grad program because it was too expensive. Now I’m applying to other schools but I’m scared I won’t be able to get into a cheaper program. Also I’m looking for a job in my field with no luck and it’s been so awful to where I don’t want to live anymore but you keep me going.
Sorry you're going through that Alex!! That's so tough. I'm confident you'll get to where you're supposed to be if you just trust the process! Stay strong
@@LeejaMiller I appreciate it Leeja! You are truly my inspiration. The fact that you are building a life for yourself and are a homeowner in this economy makes my little gen z heart swoon.
Congrats on your new job... Thank you for this informative video. (Very needed) Off topic .. I love that you are learning to hand-sew. I have been sewing since a very young age. It is good therapy.
I'd say Step One for anyone thinking of hiring a lawyer would be to find out if he or she can afford to hire a lawyer to address the problem at hand. In some cases, it's pure contingency and the client pays nothing up front, while in other cases it will be prohibitively expensive. Those who watched the Heard-Depp trial should bear in mind that both parties spent millions in legal fees to litigate that case, although it's also good to know that certain *homeowner's insurance policies and other insurance policies may provide coverage for legal expenses related to defending against various types of legal actions.*
Some of the types of cases you mentioned, like immigration, don't usually involve the state or even federal courts, they involve federal agencies. So that's one situation where a lawyer anywhere in the US might be a good fit.
Congratulations on your new jobs! I have heard again and again that family law is very, very rough for the professionals working there. What's your stance on that in serious? But it would be a fun video seeing you show mocking stereotypical representations of the typical lawyer working in specific fields. A friend of mine is a lawyer that comes in when companies declare bankruptcy and... it just fits. He could as well work for the mafia. And another is international trade law and he's just... this sailor, article writing suave speaker guy...
This entire field of law is like a mine field. • Not all attorneys will take your case if the value is too small!! • Every lawyer has their own view of your case and it can be 180 degrees opposite from other attorney's viewpoint! • Billing is also another huge area of potential abuse and how do you as a client know if the attorney bills you 3.5 hrs for reading a particular document and drafting a response is appropriate?!!! Maybe he could have done this in 45 min??!!!This matters because bill rates at $500.00/hr adds up fast!!! • There are just too many aspects of this profession that the average person won't know because most of us have never been through this process!!!
Hey! I hit one almost when it dropped! Also, I have a close friend who is having issues with her ex neglecting (not feeding them while he has them, using abusive language about my friend to the kids). She's in/near Hibbing, MN.
This may be a silly/unanswerable question: But what level of "problem" should you seek a lawyer? I get the impression (could be wrong) that the legal system & legal advice is SO expensive, you aren't typically going to break even Ex. A discrimination lawsuit: Is it worth it OR is it most likely you aren't going to break even & should just let it go
From my life experience, unless you're the type with a big appetite for conflict and a need to be vindicated, I'd avoid it like the plague and walk away from the situation. Law matters are a lot of time and heartache. Only do it if you stand a very good chance of getting a good payout. Otherwise, move on with your life, and write it off as just another one of life's injustices.
Leeja you are a bad ass. I have a question: I am an American citizen but I live in Spain. I am having some private student loan issues. I’ve reached out to some student loan lawyers but its not what i needed. So 2 questions: where should i be looking for a lawyer and what kind of lawyer? Thanks!
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My husband: "You've filed for divorce?!"
Me: "I'm afraid so."
Him: "You filed in Minnesota???"
Me: "Hear me out. Y'know that TH-cam lawyer lady who we both love?"
Lol, you could just invite her out to dinner. 😉
„Im doing divorces and im so excited“ is such a lawyer thing to say😂 Jk, love your vids, your Drag Race review is one of favorites ♥️ Love from Vienna
I love family law for you! You have the perfect personality and demeanor to work with such a personal area of the law in people's lives. 😊
Seek out your public law library! They're not just for attorneys. Law librarians can show you local lawyer directories and can refer you to pro bono options.
Also check your state bar association’s website for legal referral, client match and/or legal aid programs. For some matters a legal aid clinic associated with a law school or a community legal service might be in your area. Some enployers also offer a legal benefit that goves you access to discounted legal services.
SOOOO happy to see an awesome lawyer going into family law.
Even though I don't have immediate plans for a lawyer at this moment I found the information in this video to be very helpful.
It depends on what kind of case it is. If it's criminal (especially if it's a first time offense) you need a heavy weight. The people who work in the court houses (clerks, bailiffs) know which lawyer is good and who's a flak, so you should go there and ask them which one you should take with your particular circumstances. All of the people that work there are decent people so you can approach them. Ask one for which lawyer you should take for your particular circumstances. Come back later when the shift has changed and ask 2 or 3 people if the lawyer that was recommended to you is any good. You might have to come up with 20 to 30 thousand, but a really good lawyer can have it so that, you get off scott free and it will not go down in any files. If it's recorded it's stay's in a file for quite a while and can cause problems for work or if you apply for a city job.
If it's a minor question about taxes or something like that, again you should check at the court and ask who's a good guy. If you get a lawyer who's decent he or she will charge a minor fee of 50. If that happens pay in cash and tell them you don't need a receipt.
It can be when you ask how much, he or she may say "Fuggedaboutit." If that happens, write out a note, telling him or her how much you appreciate it and leave thirty to fifty in an envelope and put it in the lawyer's mail box. Even if it's pro bono. That means a lot to any lawyer because sometimes they work a miracles for someone and the person never even bothered to thank them and that annoys them. Also you might in future have a question for a lawyer and you can call the lawyer that you asked before. In other words, "It's the thought that counts." Believe me, he or she is not going to forget you because you did a courtesy and a lawyer who did not charge anything is gold. Reason being you left a note with a little bit of cash so the guy or gal can have a dinner in Joe's Steak house or take his or her partner out to McDonalds so the money is not a big deal to them. Again it's the thought and that they remember.
Bernadette Banner is so impressive and lovely. Her channel is great, and she's got a sweet lil guinea pig who "helps" with her projects. I love seeing a crossover moment between two channels I love.
Family Law can be absolutely brutal. The best advice I ever received from our family law lawyer (my husband had 50/50 legal, full physical with supervised visitation for the mom) was to show respect to the other side by listening attentively when the other side spoke - and nodding when we agreed or shaking our heads when we didn't. When so many people are fighting out of anger, just doing that made us look more rational. And the lawyer always made us write the first draft of every declaration, which they rewrote. By walking me through the changes, it showed us how to argue the point and what was important for us to do. By the time the hcbm passed due to drug use (we had all the custody but had to keep going back every time she got temporarily clean), I was writing the declarations based on information I knew to look for. The lawyer's review dropped to edits instead of rewrites. Saving her time, and letting us feel like we were meaningfully contributing. All in all, an excellent process. And one I've never heard of others doing.
Our lawyer had notes on judges that let them remember the ways a particular judge is likely to respond. She also kept memorable quotes and argued to get the judge to say them. Like "This is your final warning, if you do this again then you are done" - then she got a copy of the stenographer's notes if the judge said it. If she could get him to say that to the other side, all she had to do is say "you gave them your final warning last time and here we are again, I have a copy of the stenographer's notes". And boom, the judge would side with her. If the court gave her client that spiel, she moved heaven and earth to make sure we didn't do it again *and* worked in court to show that this time is different (even if it wasn't). We never left the courtroom in a worse position, even if it wasn't the position we wanted. That was about the best that could be said about joint custody while the biomom was an addict.
Your lawyer's office will absolutely show you the ropes and you are a smart and eloquent person who will succeed no matter where you go. I'm just sharing my point because I'm excited for you and I like to share things. I hope you make the best impact you can and that you are fulfilled by fighting this very necessary fight. If it ever gets too bad, or you end up in a case that makes you cry, just imagine how it would be without your help. Imagine the world of hurt they would be in if you weren't there to work with them. Sure, another lawyer might have done it better, but they might not have. You are better than no representation at all. And with the backlog of family law cases, a lot of people go to court unrepresented just because nobody has the time or the price has risen out of their budget. So there are people getting lawyers just by your presence, which is something on the worst days.
This was great! Really basic info that everyone should know. Thanks.
Also, it's been a long time since you did a reaction video. I'm here to formally make a request.
Yay Bernadette! Have fun with her class. And congratulations on your new job 🎉
Bailey, Caitlin, Bernadette - it's like you're in my subscriptions lately lol. The taste 🤌💋
Just recently came across your channel but wanted to say how much I enjoyed your videos. Great work 👍
I heard Family Law is the pits!! Glad you are enjoying it!!
hahahah yeah people can burn out after a few years but for me it's all new and fun so far!
*Feverishly taking notes* "Lawyer must be in same state as me... no liquid or plasma lawyers... SOLID ONLY"
HEH
Woooo! My cousin is an Estate lawyer in MA and he makes me wanna be a lawyer toooooo. You also make me wanna be a lawyer but i dont think I could be a family lawyer but ive considered immigration law if not estate
At the Santa Fé law library you can get helpful forms and guides created by the staff for just the cost of the copier. Their divorce papers based on "irreconcilable differences and outlook on life" in a mutually agreed divorce say at the top of each page "don't be an asshole" (or something equivalent). That was a much better experience than my second divorce where my lawyer caved completely when my ex hired a much more expensive lawyer who live a few houses down from the judge. He managed to "win" a settlement exactly matching my fees to him.
This video is CRIMINALLY underliked
Hey Leeja,
I love you so much.
I’m so happy for you and your career. You are an inspiration for me to keep going. I am so discouraged because I had to withdraw from my grad program because it was too expensive. Now I’m applying to other schools but I’m scared I won’t be able to get into a cheaper program. Also I’m looking for a job in my field with no luck and it’s been so awful to where I don’t want to live anymore but you keep me going.
Sorry you're going through that Alex!! That's so tough. I'm confident you'll get to where you're supposed to be if you just trust the process! Stay strong
@@LeejaMiller I appreciate it Leeja! You are truly my inspiration. The fact that you are building a life for yourself and are a homeowner in this economy makes my little gen z heart swoon.
Congrats on your new job... Thank you for this informative video. (Very needed) Off topic .. I love that you are learning to hand-sew. I have been sewing since a very young age. It is good therapy.
You're SO BADASS! I signed up!
BERNADETTE!
Love to echo your outtro back to you like a parrot 😆 buhBYE 💕
lollllllll
I'd say Step One for anyone thinking of hiring a lawyer would be to find out if he or she can afford to hire a lawyer to address the problem at hand. In some cases, it's pure contingency and the client pays nothing up front, while in other cases it will be prohibitively expensive.
Those who watched the Heard-Depp trial should bear in mind that both parties spent millions in legal fees to litigate that case, although it's also good to know that certain *homeowner's insurance policies and other insurance policies may provide coverage for legal expenses related to defending against various types of legal actions.*
How do I find a lawyer with multiple licenses? For example representing New Jersey and New York. Thank you for your leadership. Keep up the good work.
Some of the types of cases you mentioned, like immigration, don't usually involve the state or even federal courts, they involve federal agencies. So that's one situation where a lawyer anywhere in the US might be a good fit.
Congratulations on your new jobs! I have heard again and again that family law is very, very rough for the professionals working there. What's your stance on that in serious?
But it would be a fun video seeing you show mocking stereotypical representations of the typical lawyer working in specific fields.
A friend of mine is a lawyer that comes in when companies declare bankruptcy and... it just fits. He could as well work for the mafia. And another is international trade law and he's just... this sailor, article writing suave speaker guy...
This entire field of law is like a mine field.
• Not all attorneys will take your case if the value is too small!!
• Every lawyer has their own view of your case and it can be 180 degrees opposite from other attorney's viewpoint!
• Billing is also another huge area of potential abuse and how do you as a client know if the attorney bills you 3.5 hrs for reading a particular document and drafting a response is appropriate?!!! Maybe he could have done this in 45 min??!!!This matters because bill rates at $500.00/hr adds up fast!!!
• There are just too many aspects of this profession that the average person won't know because most of us have never been through this process!!!
Thank you
congratulations to your new job ♥️
Hey! I hit one almost when it dropped! Also, I have a close friend who is having issues with her ex neglecting (not feeding them while he has them, using abusive language about my friend to the kids). She's in/near Hibbing, MN.
Will our queen please bless this aspiring family lawyer while he gets through his Themis course for the CA bar? 🥺✨💙
This was such an amazingly informative video! Thank you!
If attorney over charge how can you report it how often should a attorney reach out for updates
Congratulations!! You go girl.
Thank you ❤
CONGRATULATIONS
Is having more than one lawyer present to defend your case allowed?
I have a very convoluted case that has been thru the trenches but I believe is still viable. How do I find an attorney to take such a case?
congrats on the new job!!!!
this was so great!! thank you!!
Leeja you really mastered that Katya "goodbye!"
warm and non-threatening!!!
What happens if you're arrested and want a lawyer, what does that look like from jail?
you live in minneapolis? how have i not known
If I didn't already have a lawyer I would use your law firm
Very helpful!
This may be a silly/unanswerable question: But what level of "problem" should you seek a lawyer? I get the impression (could be wrong) that the legal system & legal advice is SO expensive, you aren't typically going to break even
Ex.
A discrimination lawsuit: Is it worth it OR is it most likely you aren't going to break even & should just let it go
From my life experience, unless you're the type with a big appetite for conflict and a need to be vindicated, I'd avoid it like the plague and walk away from the situation. Law matters are a lot of time and heartache. Only do it if you stand a very good chance of getting a good payout. Otherwise, move on with your life, and write it off as just another one of life's injustices.
Leeja you are a bad ass. I have a question: I am an American citizen but I live in Spain. I am having some private student loan issues. I’ve reached out to some student loan lawyers but its not what i needed. So 2 questions: where should i be looking for a lawyer and what kind of lawyer? Thanks!
Fantastic, thanks 😊
I need to fire my lawyer and I’m scared. Any way I could get a consultation with you?
If you're looking for a family law lawyer in MN hit me up! Email is lmiller@vox-law.com
Can you talk about if pregnant women putting thier unborn fetuses down on their tax forms as dependents is legally a good idea or not?
Everyday I think about how shit your take on the amber heard case was lol
I, I, I, I
👌🏾
Need to move to Minnesota and get married and divorced so i can hire Leeja 🤔