Honestly, it really is. I'm in a long distance relationship and my GF hasn't texted in 5 months. It's so sad, when they're the absolute nicest thing to you, give you all their tenderness, say they want to marry you, and then out of nowhere she leaves.... I guess I'ma have to call it quits unless she miraculously responds... Ugh..
Lads, either y’all are being to clingy and you’re invading her personal space OR you care too much for that person and obviously you should drop that girl because if the girl doesn’t have the same energy as you when talking or being with you it’s not worth your time-- you’re better than this lad, don’t undersell yourself to a girl because you had history and you’re clinging on to the past- very hard but just let go....
Oh god... I think i just found out what I’m doing wrong. Im just a really clingy person because ivd had bad experience with stuff like trust and I always want to make sure shes alright. Its just that she never texts me... i text her. So I think I will let her be for a while and then maybe text her again.
Gf hasn’t talked to me in 2 months like she used to. Yeah breakup is on the way Edit: we broke up for a few months and have been together ever since. She apologized and I accepted it.
I get kinda depressed when my girlfriend ignores my messenges I love her so much but I don't understand why she does that, am I doing something wrong?😢
@@davidoman4133 well that's great that you don't have that kind of stress on you anymore. It's really cool that your able to get over it that quickly, this is my 3rd relationship I had my Exes had cheated on me so this is my last one. I will be sad if she does the same.
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Communication back and forth on line with a women is ridiculously overrated, especially if you are not dating or she is not taking you seriously. I agree with your video.
The funny thing is when you making a break with your girl and meanwhile posting a lot of the story content to your socials, and she still checks it anyway.
that's so sad, we just recently break up with my ex, a few days ago, I'm still trying to recover and fix it but it seems like she isn't interested in me anymore. bty we are ldr..
My girlfriend is currently really ill but i feel like she ignores my messages and she goes days without talking to me but i see her online om social media. It makes me really fustrated she can see how worried i am about chooses to ignore me and always has a excuse. Dunno what to do
Same here,i dont know what should i do about this,i stopped messenging her,and now i dont know if she will come back to me or not,i want to mention that we didnt brake up,we are still togheter in teory
I dont even know if I'm still in a relationship. My gf has been ill also so it's not been possible to see her, but before all this a week ago I pissed her off bad, shes been hot and cold so much its confusing. One minute I'm making her laugh and smile then the next it's like I dont exist and shes gone. I've been chasing her so think I've made things worse, but I'm going to stop that now. I just hope I can get her back.
Guys Girlfriends use a man once they find a good fucker they cheat u simple is that.A guy is good to her until he fulfil her wishes where they find a good guy or just feel bored of you leave u.A man is more senstive: have patience and care for women but women not but man shows themselves needy women hide her self
Except the part where we're far apart from each other, different countries, different languages, and only our interests and English language unites us. And the fact that I'm studying, which restricts me to get a normal job to get the money for travels, while both are okey with it since beginning and are fine with waiting without any rush until one of us is able to fly to the other... So "endless" messaging is something that you can't get out of in this kind of situation...plus, facebook voice chat is broken atm., and asks for camera which I don't have, not to mention I wasn't trying to use video chat, but voice chat... So yea...and we had this long talk about what was wrong, and I think I was too depressed/stressed/worried about what is wrong because she wasn't telling why she's not talking to me, and I revealed so many things about with what I was afraid of at that moment, because I thought that telling truth may be the best idea..., but maybe not under paranoia status, though, she says she's not quitting on relationship with me, obviously so 'am I (not quitting on this, and what we have talked through about our dreams etc.), after it I re-read all the messages, looking for a something that would ease my mind because I still don't know why she's not responding much, so I stopped messaging for few days already, almost for a week now, and it drags me nuts time to time, and wakes my inner depression out again. Because I thought about what she said, that she wanted to be alone for unknown time, and it was out of a sudden, because in previous night all was fine and great, and suddenly she starts to act weirdly... So, after I finally got her to talk (probably bad idea, but I wasn't forcing her in a bad way), we talked through it, like I said at the beginning, and now I decided I will stay quite because at least she gave me something to hope for, response such as - "I'm not quitting..." which gave me confidence of some sort, but at the same time despite all that, it still worries me, either because I miss the chatting, or I'm a paranoid person. We both know about each other already, not entirely, just some parts of course, and she already knows I'm a sensitive/emotional kind of person...and I once was honest to her (I'm trying to be always honest with her) and told that I felt depressive because of what she said, and she didn't felt good because of that, she's not the person that knows how to describe or tell what she wants to tell, we both are from different countries, and English isn't our first language, mostly second of not third, and I'm the person that knows how to explain stuff for her most of the part, so basically she says that I do understand her...but sometimes what she says can give me doubts about some stuff that I can't ask her straight forward, cause I'm shy as well...so it's a bit hard for me sometimes as well. I don't get it sometimes, girls/women are not open and doesn't understand that simple few words can place guys mind at ease if she feels that the guy is somehow stressed/worries about current situation, but they tend to shut down and drag the guy to total depression which can ruin a lot, and then who is to blame at the end? I mean...I, as a guy, when I feel uneasy and don't want to talk to anyone, I just say it, while saying that the person shouldn't worry, like - "I don't want to talk to anyone for some time, maybe days, but don't you worry, I will write you later, because the situation currently is hard" or something like that. Even for her such line is not too complicated to say, because I know how far she can describe what she wants, and because of that my mind goes nuts over the idea that I know she knows how to tell what she wants, but feels like that she isn't saying it, but uses that idea that she isn't best at explaining things as a shield for herself, where actually she knows how to explain it and doesn't require some high english skills to say that one line, that she'll write later at some point, that she doesn't feel okey now. That's it, all problems solved if the other person is being informed about the situation to some extent. There's constantly conflict in my head and questions about when such weird situations occur from which if I would feel like that, I know what I should say to the other person in order to not make her worry about me. She simply worries about me that I worry about her...basically she worries that I worry about her when she's sick or something like that, and sounds like she gets the wrong idea there as well, it's not a paranoia, but feels like she's mistaking paranoia with worrying, and places word "worried" to paranoia level, which is not.
I discovered this channel when i decided to take a break from social media , after watching majority of these videos i realized i'm the female in the relationship. Not Anymore.
Texting will never replace human interaction. If you text someone, make sure it leads to an engagement. If you want to call someone, text them that you will call them at a certain time. This gives them the reason to change or deny your invitation. If they don't respond, proceed anyway since there hasn't been any objections.
Damn , i wish i knew it earlier : Online talkings not going ANYWHERE! so STOP That ASAP before you get hurt You are amazing man , where you've been all this time i needed to know these things?
Dudes it’s not rocket science: use the “one strike you’re out” rule. Respond with her texts, phone calls and dates .. that’s all good. If she doesn’t call, text or contact you in anyway after that .. move on! Never chase .. “one strike you’re out.” It’s that simple!
Wow this guy helped me a lot of how to text to a girl. A girl who use to be my friend at work dumped me just for texting her all the time and I’m still sad over it. She won’t even talk to me anymore she’s a stranger to me now.
I'm the same way bro. I prefer face to face initial interactions. It definitely shows more strength to approach a woman in person. Just use the phone for setting dates.
In short, the whole point of texting is to set a date up with her nothing more! If she tries to limit your communication to texting only, CUT THE CONTACT! (I did quite a mistake earlier today, and it's kind of pissing me off already!).
Ok problem. My gf sits next to me in class. So I just be quite. The thing is I never see her out of school. Only see her before class starts and my first class and that's it. She does say she is busy and I have been going away from her. I love her in my heart. I think of her every day. She makes me happy. I just miss her smiles and being happy. Update: She was cheating on me 😞😤😖
This video honestly does help with what I should do with my girlfriend at the moment since I've been crying like an idiot feeling I'm doing something wrong. I do have a question about the whole 'what-to-do-if-they-don't-respond-for-two-days': What if neither of you reply to each other in a month or two? If that happens, does that mean we're basically over? Thank you very much for this video. I really appreciate sir :)
Chris i get your point about getting out into the real world and meeting women. However people do meet up and have relationships through online dating. I myself saw a woman for a few months, and i remember she told me she'd been online dating on and off for 14 yrs!
I’ve been dating a girl for two months now and it’s our third month together so I could use some help preventing myself from spamming her with text messages
She's my girlfriend and has been for a year. And within this month, she hasn't been responding or talking that munch to me. She's my best friend and I really care about her. But it's starting to worry me alot that she hasn't been talking to me as much.
I need your advice here. Simple, my wife over 22 years and we do have some problems but she said all the time that she want to fix everything because she love me with her heart. We had strong arguments and we have two daughters. We had a strong argument on October 24th 2018 and she left to his mothers. She doesn’t answer any message, call or anything since the 25th in which she said that the only thing she wants the more we’re that I eat well and that I should rest. Since that message I don’t know anything from her. My older daughter is with me. The youngest is one week with her and one with me(that was my daughter choice). She just took clothes and work stuff and leave. All the rest which is the 60% of her things are here at home. Doesn’t block me from anyplace, and even on social networks there still our pics together in her profile. the phone isn’t block either. I just stop sending message on October. I don’t know what to think but I’m sure when she left, she was in pain and ill by the strong argument, we had.
Instead of going around chasing girls. Increase your status. The higher the status u r the better girls you'll be getting and the better they will treat you.
This video is without a doubt the most honest, accurate assessment of the state of dating in 2022. Women only want to communicate digitally. Many of them don't even want to talk on the phone. Think about it: why the fuck would you want to talk to a woman by text when you can't even see who you're texting. That's a risk in and of itself. Women complain about these dating apps, yet they don't want to leave their couches and iPhones and meet dudes the way they did 20 years ago. It's actually a very selfish mindset.
@@johnklansek5752 Try to not text her for like 2 day or more. If she don't text back, don't chase after her, make her chase you. And if she don't even talk to you after like month, forget and goes on!
she is ignoring me and not replying my texts. but talking to other people whom she just met few days before. even she openly says she is flirting to others now.. she was not like this before.
I had a drunken fight with my gf last night...I don't even remember what happened...now she's flat out ignoring me...was blowing up her phone, shall pull back now
Been with a girl 6-7 times , we even had dinner with her brother and his girlfreind, and we are happy together, chilling at her place, talking walks and so on, acting just like a couple (we are not in a relationship but does what you do in a relationship)for the last 2-3 months she allways texted a damn roman when she wrote something, for the last 3-4 days i only get 1 text back in the morning before she is going to school, my brain fuckes me up. Dont understand why it comes just now. Is there something wrong? it drives me crazy becourse i cant think about anything else.
I honestly do not understand how MY GIRLFRIEND can be so disrespectful by ignoring me and still be going on social media posting and what not!!!!!! I just want to give her a pep talk that her behavior is not ok and rude, if not I should honestly break up with her!
My girlfriend contacts me mainly when she is horny. She has her fun with me. Tells me she loves me more than anyone. Wants to make plans I can't afford now. Then suddenly stops communicating when I tell her I can't afford to do certain things. She'll ask me a question, then when I answer, she stops responding the rest of the night. This happens a lot every week. Since I am in a slump right now and don't want to date others, I put up with her selfish moods.
My bf gives the silent treatment as a punishment if i tell him im unhappy about something. Then completely ignores what i tried to tell him I was feeling unhappy about. Either thst or he blame shifts and takes my feelings and a personal attack and gets defensive. Its pushed me away and just about killed all the feelings, which for 7 months were pretty strong, but ive felt them dwindling down each time he shut me out. Now im irritated with him, hurt from being blamed and ignored and dissapointed.
for me it might be too late.. for one she left me for a close friend and was ashamed for doing so, as a result she also blocked me on all social media and phone. I even asked mutual friends about her and it got back to her making me look like a stalker... I am obviously done, but the big question I have is will she ever respect me no matter how long goes by? I was good to her, she said so much, but she was not in love and I was..
What about when the last interaction is being left thinking we might possibly go out and then she doesnt let me know anything and we havent text or talked at all in 6 days?
My girlfriend she pulled away from me . She told me that I'm boring person . I call her and text she doesn't responding. I will not gonna text her or calling her for one week .i hope it gonnna work .
Ok so look bro we been talking for like 4 months and know she don’t even text me back the last thing I texted was do you wanna FaceTime later on? And she left me on read,I feel like she talking to someone else... And we still kiss. I don’t know if it’s me or what and when we’re in class together we don’t say a word to each other anymore. but we still walk and talk with each other to class pls give advice I really love this girl🤦
hay sir is mayank form india I have long distance relationship last 5 months...but now she not responding me she ignored me she not texting Me she calls me what should I do. plss tell me sir
You need to give her own space see I m having good times with little sweet fights with my Girl ..... you have to keep faith in your girl n your trust in her any communication gap specially illogical will ruin it up.....
What to do? I am feeling so low, I'm in my lowest point in life and I am feeling so depressed and I needed someone to talk to. So, I messaged this girl that I'm attracted to (she knows), and we're good friends (sometimes sending mixed signals). She knows that I've going through something. But haven't talked to her about it for quite sometime now. I told her I needed someone to talk to. Knowing her, she would usually respond but that instance she ignored my message and left it on seen mode. I was so disappointed and felt I could no longer count on her. I was mad, yes. Then a day later, she messaged me. But it has nothing to do with my last message. She totally ignored the fact that I needed someone to talk to. So I did not reply to her message. Is it a good thing that I did not reply? Or should I reply?
We had a good relationship now we've almost been dating for 2 months and all my messages are getting left on read or seen and yea now I'm worried she's probably cheating on me or wants to break up with me
@@rhysburns5420 don't worry this powerful man that helped me get my ex back is a very simple man and he have helped lot of people in a faster way and you should also try him too
@@rhysburns5420 i can't also believe that this same powerful man you are been told about also helped me today and it works really fast and now I have a permanent, secure and better relationship... Thanks Dave
Don't you think that "responding with silence, playing the game she plays" thing is a bit risky? I'm talking from my personal experience here. I had a relationship (well, can't even call it true relationship cause it lasted only for a month) a few years back and this happened to me: after I went in a vacation (without my gf, cause it was impossible for her to come since it was a high-school-volunteering trip) , she started ignoring my texts and rarely responded with short, bland messages ... It was just my second relationship and I didn't know what to do at first. Well, I thought that playing distant would get her back, but nothing ... It all ended with this silence.
There's a saying, if u love her let her go, if she comes back she's yours if she don't then you know where it's at and u need to move accordingly not matter what
For over a year I’ve been messaging women for hours upon hours every single day. I’ve had dates with over 25 women. Now my current girlfriend doesn’t respond to texts nearly as much as my last relationships and it’s messing with me.
I just wanna know what I did all she said to me before she started ignoring me was “I feel really bad” and I said why and she hasn’t said shit for 3 days
She is my first girlfriend in like 6 years and back then I did not know what the heck was going on. I dont know what to talk about and I really love her. Please help me. Please dont send fucked up stuf
I seem to be cursed, every girlfriend is fine one month, the second month gets distant or arguing, the third month is the break up month, never had a relationship much longer than 3
This is making me stressed she's been ignoring my messages 2 days in a row im sick and tired of trying to get her to talk to me it seems like She lost interest.
My situation is completely different, my girl texts me back on time but sometimes for some reasons which I don't, she just takes her time to reply back to me... And when she does reply she replies with a one word or two or three word answer and then that's it... She doesn't start the topic but I always do... Even when I do start it she just shows no interest in me... Yesterday we arguing about that but she just told me straight over the phone that she just doesn't care about anything anymore... When I tell her I love her.. she never replies back with I love you too she just bluetick me or say okay
Mask off... Never chase a b*#$h.. just had to say that lol
I needed That lmao bitches needa chill
Chase a check never chase a bitch
This is the end of the human species.
the we should consider to start building a new relationship with aliens... lol
Unfortunately when you are in a Long Distance Relationship texting and the phone are the main or only ways to keep in contact. Its tough guys.
Honestly, it really is. I'm in a long distance relationship and my GF hasn't texted in 5 months. It's so sad, when they're the absolute nicest thing to you, give you all their tenderness, say they want to marry you, and then out of nowhere she leaves.... I guess I'ma have to call it quits unless she miraculously responds... Ugh..
@@sabr3T 5 months ???
@@sabr3T did she respond??
Video calls
@@sabr3T she is no longer you gf and you are no longer in relationship lol :D
Lads, either y’all are being to clingy and you’re invading her personal space OR you care too much for that person and obviously you should drop that girl because if the girl doesn’t have the same energy as you when talking or being with you it’s not worth your time-- you’re better than this lad, don’t undersell yourself to a girl because you had history and you’re clinging on to the past- very hard but just let go....
Nani Banani this was deep
But its hard to let go of my past
@@thenorthwesternman4978 yeah it is kinda hard but we gotta make sacrifices been through a heart break 😣
Thanks
Oh god... I think i just found out what I’m doing wrong. Im just a really clingy person because ivd had bad experience with stuff like trust and I always want to make sure shes alright. Its just that she never texts me... i text her. So I think I will let her be for a while and then maybe text her again.
Wow once I got off the video my girlfriend just texted me back. How funny
same here
Same
She better 😂
Me 2 bro 😂😂😂😂
As soon as i clicked on the video she did now im not texting her lmao
Thank u sir I was in depression because she doesn't respond me but after watch your video I able to ignore her ,
what I normally do is the opposite of your advice but after seeing this I'd like to try it.
Gf hasn’t talked to me in 2 months like she used to. Yeah breakup is on the way
Edit: we broke up for a few months and have been together ever since. She apologized and I accepted it.
LMAO. Breakup on the way, or happened 2 months ago. 🤣
Break up first
Then she'll think your awesome or when she breaks up just say yes
@@I-Am-Wonderfulthey came back together 😂
I get kinda depressed when my girlfriend ignores my messenges I love her so much but I don't understand why she does that, am I doing something wrong?😢
SAME I UNDERSTAND YOU MAN
@@jayson4641 it's alright now, she left me for some other dude, I'm a happier man now😊
@@davidoman4133 well that's great that you don't have that kind of stress on you anymore. It's really cool that your able to get over it that quickly, this is my 3rd relationship I had my Exes had cheated on me so this is my last one. I will be sad if she does the same.
@@jayson4641 unlucky man some people are horrible
David Oman same
Here
I hear what your saying, but damn, I would rather be alone and with friends than playing that shitty "im-not-gonna-answer-you-GAME"
smileyhenke1 busy guys do not care and sucessful man do not focus only on one girl... abundance mindset not scarcity one. Think about it
Erase her number altogether. If she is into you she'll let you know, if not she won't.
What about if I have her on Facebook should I erased her?
I hate it, everytime im talking to her she just stop's responding and doesn't tell me why i really hate it, its super rude
Same - rarely gets beyond 'how has your day been' before she disappears for 6 hours
If your girlfriend stops responding to you for no reason (baring the fact she was eating by a shark) just change your girlfriend.
lol
Or hear me out "ACT LIKE A MAN NOT LIIKE A CHICK"
It's been months and she still won't text me back
Sorry but you're no longer a priority to her. move on.
lol months.
Ryan Edward Wolf fucking same
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Because she's texting someone else 🤦🏾♂️ lol my gosh
Communication back and forth on line with a women is ridiculously overrated, especially if you are not dating or she is not taking you seriously. I agree with your video.
Yech 🧸
The funny thing is when you making a break with your girl and meanwhile posting a lot of the story content to your socials, and she still checks it anyway.
Ya ikr and then when you chat with her she is still not responding to my text 🥺
Word
@@masterjedi487 im in the same boat mate, shes checking my insta stories but isn't answering my messages
I.dont understand it. Happenings to me how I fix
All your advices is all about stop giving her attention
And improving ourself on the meantime (v imp point or u can say the most imp thing)
She left me after 4 long years...
Just do this mistake to texting to much messages and chase her..
That's my mistake
Now I am overcoming from that.
Shubham Bhosle same situation rn
If you don't love yourself you'll always be chasing after people who don't love you either.
I felt you bro, after 4 years and 10 months, she left me. :'( We both did the same mistake.
Mr J - Random Videos i had 5 yrs with my ex , still bot over it, she left me on feb 1 19
that's so sad, we just recently break up with my ex, a few days ago, I'm still trying to recover and fix it but it seems like she isn't interested in me anymore. bty we are ldr..
Women are more temperamental than a mad hatter. Unpredictable and odd.
My girlfriend is currently really ill but i feel like she ignores my messages and she goes days without talking to me but i see her online om social media. It makes me really fustrated she can see how worried i am about chooses to ignore me and always has a excuse. Dunno what to do
i'm having the same problem, it's jjust sad
Same here,i dont know what should i do about this,i stopped messenging her,and now i dont know if she will come back to me or not,i want to mention that we didnt brake up,we are still togheter in teory
I dont even know if I'm still in a relationship. My gf has been ill also so it's not been possible to see her, but before all this a week ago I pissed her off bad, shes been hot and cold so much its confusing. One minute I'm making her laugh and smile then the next it's like I dont exist and shes gone. I've been chasing her so think I've made things worse, but I'm going to stop that now. I just hope I can get her back.
Guys Girlfriends use a man once they find a good fucker they cheat u simple is that.A guy is good to her until he fulfil her wishes where they find a good guy or just feel bored of you leave u.A man is more senstive: have patience and care for women but women not but man shows themselves needy women hide her self
lol sam3
or is it just bcuz of the ongoing quarantine
Except the part where we're far apart from each other, different countries, different languages, and only our interests and English language unites us. And the fact that I'm studying, which restricts me to get a normal job to get the money for travels, while both are okey with it since beginning and are fine with waiting without any rush until one of us is able to fly to the other... So "endless" messaging is something that you can't get out of in this kind of situation...plus, facebook voice chat is broken atm., and asks for camera which I don't have, not to mention I wasn't trying to use video chat, but voice chat...
So yea...and we had this long talk about what was wrong, and I think I was too depressed/stressed/worried about what is wrong because she wasn't telling why she's not talking to me, and I revealed so many things about with what I was afraid of at that moment, because I thought that telling truth may be the best idea..., but maybe not under paranoia status, though, she says she's not quitting on relationship with me, obviously so 'am I (not quitting on this, and what we have talked through about our dreams etc.), after it I re-read all the messages, looking for a something that would ease my mind because I still don't know why she's not responding much, so I stopped messaging for few days already, almost for a week now, and it drags me nuts time to time, and wakes my inner depression out again. Because I thought about what she said, that she wanted to be alone for unknown time, and it was out of a sudden, because in previous night all was fine and great, and suddenly she starts to act weirdly... So, after I finally got her to talk (probably bad idea, but I wasn't forcing her in a bad way), we talked through it, like I said at the beginning, and now I decided I will stay quite because at least she gave me something to hope for, response such as - "I'm not quitting..." which gave me confidence of some sort, but at the same time despite all that, it still worries me, either because I miss the chatting, or I'm a paranoid person.
We both know about each other already, not entirely, just some parts of course, and she already knows I'm a sensitive/emotional kind of person...and I once was honest to her (I'm trying to be always honest with her) and told that I felt depressive because of what she said, and she didn't felt good because of that, she's not the person that knows how to describe or tell what she wants to tell, we both are from different countries, and English isn't our first language, mostly second of not third, and I'm the person that knows how to explain stuff for her most of the part, so basically she says that I do understand her...but sometimes what she says can give me doubts about some stuff that I can't ask her straight forward, cause I'm shy as well...so it's a bit hard for me sometimes as well.
I don't get it sometimes, girls/women are not open and doesn't understand that simple few words can place guys mind at ease if she feels that the guy is somehow stressed/worries about current situation, but they tend to shut down and drag the guy to total depression which can ruin a lot, and then who is to blame at the end? I mean...I, as a guy, when I feel uneasy and don't want to talk to anyone, I just say it, while saying that the person shouldn't worry, like - "I don't want to talk to anyone for some time, maybe days, but don't you worry, I will write you later, because the situation currently is hard" or something like that. Even for her such line is not too complicated to say, because I know how far she can describe what she wants, and because of that my mind goes nuts over the idea that I know she knows how to tell what she wants, but feels like that she isn't saying it, but uses that idea that she isn't best at explaining things as a shield for herself, where actually she knows how to explain it and doesn't require some high english skills to say that one line, that she'll write later at some point, that she doesn't feel okey now.
That's it, all problems solved if the other person is being informed about the situation to some extent. There's constantly conflict in my head and questions about when such weird situations occur from which if I would feel like that, I know what I should say to the other person in order to not make her worry about me.
She simply worries about me that I worry about her...basically she worries that I worry about her when she's sick or something like that, and sounds like she gets the wrong idea there as well, it's not a paranoia, but feels like she's mistaking paranoia with worrying, and places word "worried" to paranoia level, which is not.
Dude, this man is so right, this man is speaking fax right here
I discovered this channel when i decided to take a break from social media , after watching majority of these videos i realized i'm the female in the relationship. Not Anymore.
That's right bro, don't let these hoes determine your worth
Ok but why ignore me if I don’t do anything?! I might be on lockdown but that’s not an excuse to ignore me for 24H
needy
Texting will never replace human interaction. If you text someone, make sure it leads to an engagement. If you want to call someone, text them that you will call them at a certain time. This gives them the reason to change or deny your invitation. If they don't respond, proceed anyway since there hasn't been any objections.
Damn , i wish i knew it earlier :
Online talkings not going ANYWHERE! so STOP That ASAP before you get hurt
You are amazing man , where you've been all this time i needed to know these things?
Dudes it’s not rocket science: use the “one strike you’re out” rule.
Respond with her texts, phone calls and dates .. that’s all good.
If she doesn’t call, text or contact you in anyway after that .. move on!
Never chase .. “one strike you’re out.”
It’s that simple!
Wow this guy helped me a lot of how to text to a girl. A girl who use to be my friend at work dumped me just for texting her all the time and I’m still sad over it. She won’t even talk to me anymore she’s a stranger to me now.
I'm the same way bro. I prefer face to face initial interactions. It definitely shows more strength to approach a woman in person. Just use the phone for setting dates.
You calm me down, you slow down my thoughts after over thinking.. Thank you so fucking much.
You need to be patient. Or just send her a million emojis.
I wonder if that would piss her off or just show how much you want to talk.................... :D
My gf legit does this when i don't respond her texts. She starts randomly sending emojis and i'm not sure whether i wanna punch her or kill myself
Nymira lol 😄
If she's not interested in you then she might block you do
Lol did that work on you armelle and nymira
In short, the whole point of texting is to set a date up with her nothing more! If she tries to limit your communication to texting only, CUT THE CONTACT! (I did quite a mistake earlier today, and it's kind of pissing me off already!).
Ok problem. My gf sits next to me in class. So I just be quite. The thing is I never see her out of school. Only see her before class starts and my first class and that's it. She does say she is busy and I have been going away from her. I love her in my heart. I think of her every day. She makes me happy. I just miss her smiles and being happy.
Update: She was cheating on me 😞😤😖
This video honestly does help with what I should do with my girlfriend at the moment since I've been crying like an idiot feeling I'm doing something wrong. I do have a question about the whole 'what-to-do-if-they-don't-respond-for-two-days': What if neither of you reply to each other in a month or two? If that happens, does that mean we're basically over? Thank you very much for this video. I really appreciate sir :)
I think you just answered ur question sir. If she doesn't still respond by a month or two, move on find another one
Chris i get your point about getting out into the real world and meeting women.
However people do meet up and have relationships through online dating. I myself saw a woman for a few months, and i remember she told me she'd been online dating on and off for 14 yrs!
She just giving dead response n hardly texting back
I was there ..start doing voice msgs ...make it fun .. play pubg together ..lol 😂 😂
Same
If your gf doesnt text you. She isnt your girl. She is someone elses!!!🤪🤣
Broo ur just discouraging us😂
I’ve been dating a girl for two months now and it’s our third month together so I could use some help preventing myself from spamming her with text messages
Indominous 116 yeah i need to chill out too lol
She's my girlfriend and has been for a year. And within this month, she hasn't been responding or talking that munch to me. She's my best friend and I really care about her. But it's starting to worry me alot that she hasn't been talking to me as much.
Damn...I'm in the exact same situation...How did it turn out?
I'm also worried, she's literally my best friend too.
Same guys help me
Your mates should be your best friends not ur girl. Distance yourself from her
Easier to not bother in the first place and just knock one out
“Fucking waste of time.” “Shit like tinder.” - What a legend
I need your advice here. Simple, my wife over 22 years and we do have some problems but she said all the time that she want to fix everything because she love me with her heart. We had strong arguments and we have two daughters. We had a strong argument on October 24th 2018 and she left to his mothers. She doesn’t answer any message, call or anything since the 25th in which she said that the only thing she wants the more we’re that I eat well and that I should rest. Since that message I don’t know anything from her. My older daughter is with me. The youngest is one week with her and one with me(that was my daughter choice). She just took clothes and work stuff and leave. All the rest which is the 60% of her things are here at home. Doesn’t block me from anyplace, and even on social networks there still our pics together in her profile. the phone isn’t block either. I just stop sending message on October. I don’t know what to think but I’m sure when she left, she was in pain and ill by the strong argument, we had.
my gf frustrated me smh
captain delicious pants factz
Love u bro ...I think ur right ..I was trying to hard I guess ..and now she is ignoring me..but not sure what to do or how to react
If she ignores you for a week, ✂ her off. It's a waste of time.
Instead of going around chasing girls. Increase your status. The higher the status u r the better girls you'll be getting and the better they will treat you.
true true some girls nowdays really love texting and dont want meet ups which pisses me off
but they always broke up.lol
This video is without a doubt the most honest, accurate assessment of the state of dating in 2022. Women only want to communicate digitally. Many of them don't even want to talk on the phone. Think about it: why the fuck would you want to talk to a woman by text when you can't even see who you're texting. That's a risk in and of itself. Women complain about these dating apps, yet they don't want to leave their couches and iPhones and meet dudes the way they did 20 years ago. It's actually a very selfish mindset.
It's really hurt 💔 special someone close to you
I discovered this way too late. I texted her 17 times in an hour last week, and now I'm blocked :(
Lmao me too bro
@@johnklansek5752 Try to not text her for like 2 day or more. If she don't text back, don't chase after her, make her chase you. And if she don't even talk to you after like month, forget and goes on!
wow...man...made my life....
Nice one, Subscribed. Please keep them coming.....
she is ignoring me and not replying my texts. but talking to other people whom she just met few days before. even she openly says she is flirting to others now.. she was not like this before.
She hid from you who she truly was.
Six Strings let it go
Acoustic Jain indian girls are typical bro😂😂
six strings same
Six strings sam
I had a drunken fight with my gf last night...I don't even remember what happened...now she's flat out ignoring me...was blowing up her phone, shall pull back now
How about if the girl is making up reasons to ignore you
This man is honestly great!!!
I don’t understand when they initiate and update me on something going on with their life and when I reply with a question I get ignored? 😕
same here dude, so weird
Been with a girl 6-7 times , we even had dinner with her brother and his girlfreind, and we are happy together, chilling at her place, talking walks and so on, acting just like a couple (we are not in a relationship but does what you do in a relationship)for the last 2-3 months she allways texted a damn roman when she wrote something, for the last 3-4 days i only get 1 text back in the morning before she is going to school, my brain fuckes me up. Dont understand why it comes just now. Is there something wrong? it drives me crazy becourse i cant think about anything else.
How did it end? If you were with her 7 times and didn't have sex I assume she LJBF'd you.
It’s been 2weeks she hasn’t texted me back N we don’t even talk that much face to face,painful but I guess it’s over,I gotta move on
I honestly do not understand how MY GIRLFRIEND can be so disrespectful by ignoring me and still be going on social media posting and what not!!!!!! I just want to give her a pep talk that her behavior is not ok and rude, if not I should honestly break up with her!
No friend
Don't break up with her
I know of a man who
Can make you have full control over her
I did my for me
My girlfriend contacts me mainly when she is horny. She has her fun with me. Tells me she loves me more than anyone. Wants to make plans I can't afford now. Then suddenly stops communicating when I tell her I can't afford to do certain things. She'll ask me a question, then when I answer, she stops responding the rest of the night. This happens a lot every week. Since I am in a slump right now and don't want to date others, I put up with her selfish moods.
Who Shaina
Thumbs up on your advice..Looking forward for more..
My bf gives the silent treatment as a punishment if i tell him im unhappy about something. Then completely ignores what i tried to tell him I was feeling unhappy about. Either thst or he blame shifts and takes my feelings and a personal attack and gets defensive.
Its pushed me away and just about killed all the feelings, which for 7 months were pretty strong, but ive felt them dwindling down each time he shut me out. Now im irritated with him, hurt from being blamed and ignored and dissapointed.
what happens if you blow it with a girl due to being needy and clingy... but at some point you stop, is it too late for her to ever regain attraction?
SJ it's not too late, but you will need to change your behavior.
for me it might be too late.. for one she left me for a close friend and was ashamed for doing so, as a result she also blocked me on all social media and phone. I even asked mutual friends about her and it got back to her making me look like a stalker... I am obviously done, but the big question I have is will she ever respect me no matter how long goes by? I was good to her, she said so much, but she was not in love and I was..
Me na my gf never had a problem but she just gone and live home by a next guy
Well I feel mine is backing away from me because she doesn't contact that much anymore 😕
Do you need help
Friend
I know of a man who can help you
In getting her full time
My boyfriend was like that
My girlfriend turn off her phone for 4 days in a row 😢 im depressed
Play pubg and get a life ....there's a huge world except ur gf ...so experience other things
HaloXRey / you depressed because your girlfriend turned her phone off? wow you are such a low life idiot.
@@EmmaEraga hahaha wtf
@@EmmaEraga 1ol fuck it bro.
This is actually good advice. Don’t cough up any free information to a women. Many men will talk a women out of fckg them
What about when the last interaction is being left thinking we might possibly go out and then she doesnt let me know anything and we havent text or talked at all in 6 days?
There is your answer
You need to set definite dates
My girlfriend she pulled away from me .
She told me that I'm boring person .
I call her and text she doesn't responding.
I will not gonna text her or calling her for one week .i hope it gonnna work .
He can help you faster even less than 12hours
Ok so look bro we been talking for like 4 months and know she don’t even text me back the last thing I texted was do you wanna FaceTime later on? And she left me on read,I feel like she talking to someone else... And we still kiss. I don’t know if it’s me or what and when we’re in class together we don’t say a word to each other anymore. but we still walk and talk with each other to class pls give advice I really love this girl🤦
hay sir is mayank form india
I have long distance relationship
last 5 months...but now she not responding me she ignored me
she not texting Me she calls me
what should I do. plss tell me sir
You need to give her own space see I m having good times with little sweet fights with my Girl ..... you have to keep faith in your girl n your trust in her any communication gap specially illogical will ruin it up.....
what do you do if it’s long distance
levi marton not worth it
I'm on same boat
@@PlutoniumSlums were 11 months strong 😁
@@DBZGirlUwU that sux dude but if u truly love her she’s worth it
@@joshingarounddd still not the same like a physical relationship
Please help me because my fiancé stopped texting me I get worried sometimes or where she is going at
Hope, you've got her back buddy :)
Join gym
Just drop her. She's probably screwing around with the mailman.
Brian Jones I feel you bro my fiance does the same to me...
She’s fuckin around with somebody else. Probably the cable guy.
Hey what does it mean "when she says I need space but we're not separated...."
It means that you have to give her some space. She’s not breaking up with you.
What to do? I am feeling so low, I'm in my lowest point in life and I am feeling so depressed and I needed someone to talk to. So, I messaged this girl that I'm attracted to (she knows), and we're good friends (sometimes sending mixed signals). She knows that I've going through something. But haven't talked to her about it for quite sometime now. I told her I needed someone to talk to. Knowing her, she would usually respond but that instance she ignored my message and left it on seen mode. I was so disappointed and felt I could no longer count on her. I was mad, yes. Then a day later, she messaged me. But it has nothing to do with my last message. She totally ignored the fact that I needed someone to talk to. So I did not reply to her message. Is it a good thing that I did not reply? Or should I reply?
Yes ignore her
Its not like I feel like she is pulling away from me its just that I think.... idk..
We had a good relationship now we've almost been dating for 2 months and all my messages are getting left on read or seen and yea now I'm worried she's probably cheating on me or wants to break up with me
No don't worry anymore, there's a powerful man which I know of and he can help you solve your problems and also make your relationship stronger
@@davejospeh1000 she left me on Tuesday night :(
@@rhysburns5420 I know that, that's why I said that you should contact the powerful man that helped me get my ex back in less than 12 hours
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His advice is gold.
And that just a reason to ignore me? yet she responds to other boys whom she met for a few days? Like what the actual f*** is this bullcrap
its probably because you made too many mistakes and you've turned her off. remember if she thinks you're high value she will spam text you.
The best and only response is NO response at all.
Your videos are always great...keep it up
Just move on and stop wasting your time
she replied while watching this
They have a psychic connection for these things lmao
Don't you think that "responding with silence, playing the game she plays" thing is a bit risky? I'm talking from my personal experience here. I had a relationship (well, can't even call it true relationship cause it lasted only for a month) a few years back and this happened to me: after I went in a vacation (without my gf, cause it was impossible for her to come since it was a high-school-volunteering trip) , she started ignoring my texts and rarely responded with short, bland messages ... It was just my second relationship and I didn't know what to do at first. Well, I thought that playing distant would get her back, but nothing ... It all ended with this silence.
AlinRaZoR21 you have to do it the right way.
There's a saying, if u love her let her go, if she comes back she's yours if she don't then you know where it's at and u need to move accordingly not matter what
For over a year I’ve been messaging women for hours upon hours every single day. I’ve had dates with over 25 women. Now my current girlfriend doesn’t respond to texts nearly as much as my last relationships and it’s messing with me.
She could be settled in the relationship an feels she doesn't need to text you as much, she could be busy, just chill
@@walsh007 thanks!
My current GF hasn't responded to my texts in 5 months....
Brillant listening to you sir. Great stuff i can't believe what i have just heard. Thanks for giving me the answer.
What if you pull away like she does, but then she loses even more interest from the lack of contact?
show that you're happy live without her.
I just wanna know what I did all she said to me before she started ignoring me was “I feel really bad” and I said why and she hasn’t said shit for 3 days
Yeah my girlfriend not talking to me now
You nailed it bro, you got me subscribed. Thank you for the golden words.
Starting the 25th she hasnt responded like she used to it used to be instant now its never and i keep blaming it on myself
She is my first girlfriend in like 6 years and back then I did not know what the heck was going on. I dont know what to talk about and I really love her. Please help me. Please dont send fucked up stuf
hi .... its great experience to watch ur vedio what ever u say its perfact.....i thnk thats gona work ill try ....thnx for ur gud ideas
I;m not too crazy about online dating myself. Especially if you have to pay a monthly fee.
I seem to be cursed, every girlfriend is fine one month, the second month gets distant or arguing, the third month is the break up month, never had a relationship much longer than 3
Same here
This is making me stressed she's been ignoring my messages 2 days in a row im sick and tired of trying to get her to talk to me it seems like She lost interest.
i know yall in pain right now cause right now i saw she online in the midnight and when i text her he offline as fast as possible
Mine has her account activity turned off so i can't even tell when she's online
My girlfriend my legit girlfriend not always but sometimes will not reply to my text but will have been on Snapchat like wtf bruh.
So you want me just to go outside and ask a girl to hang out lol
BIG JT tried it?
I know outside boi we don't go outside
Thanks bro.... You are correct 😔
My situation is completely different, my girl texts me back on time but sometimes for some reasons which I don't, she just takes her time to reply back to me... And when she does reply she replies with a one word or two or three word answer and then that's it... She doesn't start the topic but I always do... Even when I do start it she just shows no interest in me... Yesterday we arguing about that but she just told me straight over the phone that she just doesn't care about anything anymore... When I tell her I love her.. she never replies back with I love you too she just bluetick me or say okay
She has moved on. Don’t chase her, she’ll be back
@@tinetin8862 thank you brue for your reply