How a man should love a woman!

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  • @daniellemason8481
    @daniellemason8481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Yes!! A man who doesn’t have a wife shouldn’t speak on how to care for a wife!!! Thank you for putting your actions behind your words.

    • @irlandaise5631
      @irlandaise5631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it s mostly men who dont have wives who want women to do chores for them or talk about their needs as men but each time a man was taken , he d tell me I couldnt care less what my wife does .

  • @LIVH_Olivia
    @LIVH_Olivia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    “Real lovemaking is the conversation!” Teach us, man of God 💯

  • @coolb4100
    @coolb4100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Hey Tony, as a man I watch your content daily and just want to say that there are good men who look up to you. Please continue doing what you’re doing for us!

  • @rosemarymartinez6709
    @rosemarymartinez6709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    “I look bigger than I am cause you know when you got light colors on you look bigger” 😂😂😅 I hear you

    • @tiabarring
      @tiabarring 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That tickled me! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @relisbetrel
      @relisbetrel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂

    • @aliciawoods8925
      @aliciawoods8925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @trulyshanell3143
      @trulyshanell3143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s why I love me some black clothes 😆

    • @marshehutch
      @marshehutch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I believe this 💯. All this sex and sex talk but still most people are in miserable loveless relationships.

  • @jewelsafire6844
    @jewelsafire6844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    An individual calling another man a "simp" bc he's doing for his wife & family, speaks more of that sorry individual than the family man. Definitely not in a good way.🧐

    • @christinedozier2154
      @christinedozier2154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly. It’s very telling of a man who calls a loving man a simp. Red flag 🚩

  • @onevenus6040
    @onevenus6040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Your wife is really using the sarcasm for motivating you to workout, she's clever and coming from a good place! Keep up the 3 B's Tony, your hard work is going to pay off!

  • @cindeed4422
    @cindeed4422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Communication is the key in everything you do. Real Stimulation comes from the mind first and everything else falls into place. Lack of stimulation comes from lack of communication. Real communication is not fed by fornication. When it is it’s empty and meaningless. Real love is wanting to love instead of having to force love. Then everyone is content with the outcome. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A beautiful date is what you make of it. It’s never forced or being lead astray because you don’t get your way! In life, You wait for the beauty by not just admiring what it is that’s beautiful but you admire it from where it comes from. That is what makes it better and beautiful.

  • @Valinda1
    @Valinda1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Tony is like a big brother, I've never had!! He is so REAL, lol... but seriously his words of wisdom has caused me to change my mindset n evaluate what n who I allow in my life...people don't like when u give them BOUNDARIES n ACCOUNTABILITY.. Thank you, man of God..

  • @denisewilliamson4749
    @denisewilliamson4749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When you only have a connection in your relationship based on sex, the relationship will start to fade away, somebody going to feel disconnected from your relationship when finally figure it out!😊

  • @camuyana
    @camuyana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I promise this will be my last comment under this video but I really needed to take this off my chest. How can a young man like Tony get it and an older, sixty-two-year-old cannot??? I think I'm so emotional today because the last step of my divorce is on Tuesday, February 17th (final payment for divorce and submitting to the court). I'm not regretting it but I am scared on how to face life alone after so many years. I ask for your prayers.

    • @ShmaAdonaiEhad
      @ShmaAdonaiEhad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He must be a man who prays and seeks Christ. God is the giver of all wisdom. He can give you insight beyond your years.

    • @promise7407
      @promise7407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a singleton, I will say be kind to yourself and consider your honest well-being throughout the entire journey, whether someone’s in the picture or not. You only get one you... of course you can face a whirlwind of emotions, but it’s worth the journey.💜💪🏾 take courage

    • @royalqueen2434
      @royalqueen2434 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I understand I'm nearing the end of my divorce after a 33 year marriage. Lots of mixed emotions......long story. Keeping you in my prayers 🙏 with God continual help we can get through this

  • @millicentstollenwerck5239
    @millicentstollenwerck5239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tony, you are a very rare man. You are telling women what love is and what love should be. Its sad that most women don't meet men with these qualities you are talking about, it does not happen everyday.

  • @Difficult000
    @Difficult000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    BRAVO !!!! BRAVO !!!! ITS MAGNIFICENT !!!!! be BLESSED mr Gaskins 🙏🏾 It'll be above and beyond anyone's IMAGINATION 🙏🏾

  • @LuxeGlobalLifestyle
    @LuxeGlobalLifestyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The diffence between you and some men you have the spirit of God brewing through you.

  • @camuyana
    @camuyana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This comment is for all the gentleman, pay close attention and heed to Tony's advice because you will be happier with your wife. To get to her body you need to get to her emotions and her spirit. That is one important point that Tony is bringing up in this video. In summary, once you have our heart and our mind, you have our body also. Of course, how you treat her also will be a great plus to you.

  • @camuyana
    @camuyana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    You are absolutely right Tony. Love is more than just physical. When it transcends into the emotional and oneness connection it is a gift from God to the marriage. I hope that this second time around I do things right and pick the person that God really had envisioned for me. Many points that you touched we're all on the dot. I say it again, when you are married you know things that an unmarried person does not know and cannot relate to and therefore not give the experiences and the knowledge unless you are married. A marriage counselor should be one who is married himself, like Tony. That's not to say that those who are single cannot give counsel but the focus would be more on how to obtain a relationship as a boyfriend and girlfriend and other topics while being single because they are experts in single relationship but marriage is more profound and needs to have the experience and knowledge of somebody who is married himself and successfully married I might add.

  • @christinamontgomery9201
    @christinamontgomery9201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thanks for letting God use you Bro. 🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @Indiscrazyworld
    @Indiscrazyworld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    YESSS KEEP DROPPING THESE JEWELS YOU ARE A BLESSING MAY GOD KEEP POURING INTO YOUR FAMILY LIKE YOU ARE POURING INTO MILLIONS GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY TONY

  • @jasmineevans3215
    @jasmineevans3215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We be on the night shift lol God Bless you Tony 🙌🏿

  • @turner2952
    @turner2952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Outstanding message. We all need to nurture our most precious relationships - God and our families. Household chores should never take priority over spending time with our loved ones. We can always replace "stuff", but the time with God and our loved ones is more valuable.
    Thank you, Mr. Gaskins. You always bring words of wisdom that we all need. God bless you, your family, your ministry.

  • @nikkirowland
    @nikkirowland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    “You disrespecting my body goals, now instead of 10 courses I had 13 courses “😩😩😂😂

  • @Hazelshayy
    @Hazelshayy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Everyone has a different love language. You have to learn ones love language.

  • @thankyouforfavor8396
    @thankyouforfavor8396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow another awesome message!! This is a true message from God. I am a black female and 59yrs old. This is the definition of true kingdom husband coming from kingdom man. God is a heart checker and he wants the best for us. So we connect with our true purpose partner on the earth. Because true love is the key that God has for all that wants love. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE THATS GOD!!!❤❤🙏🙏

  • @lynnmothibeli325
    @lynnmothibeli325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen man of God🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️

  • @qscott888
    @qscott888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My goodness. I say it all the time Tony is a rare breed of a man/husband. So gets it!
    And Amen🙏🏽. “Don’t want no resentful supporting”. I pray for discernment and give as I’m led. And that process has never caused me any regret.

  • @terrieverd5
    @terrieverd5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They way you pronounced that 🥩 HOLLERED🤣🤣🤣
    However, Tony you’re speaking the truth and your wisdom is much appreciated

  • @denisewilliamson4749
    @denisewilliamson4749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Preach Tony on sex is not live! Some men think sex is love, and they can't get along with each other on other levels. You finally realized, you have nothing but sex!😊

  • @CandyLaLa25
    @CandyLaLa25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Another great video. Thank you Tony. I really want to, need to, really hope that I can, forever follow your teachings. I have been going through A LOT, not only relationship wise. Please pray for me. And asking the Tribe too. I would deeply appreciate it. Only clean, positive and genuine love accepted. ❤

  • @elizabethschilling7178
    @elizabethschilling7178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you Tony for this godly perspective, the Lord spoke through you. 🙏🙏

  • @kristinebrown9514
    @kristinebrown9514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow, this is amazing! If more men could understand this, the world and the family would be transformed! So much revelation 💕!

  • @iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906
    @iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Another great message, Tony. 👏🏽👏🏽 Finding peace and balance in the home is a necessity. "Consideration" is the word that comes to mind. Taking your spouse into consideration in all aspects is a major factor to the healthy relationship.

  • @shelleywoods2578
    @shelleywoods2578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish more men understood what you are teaching. It would change the trajectory of a marriage between a husband and a wife.OMG!!!

  • @KeyshasCorner
    @KeyshasCorner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Come on now, Tony speak the truth 🙌🏾 Love it!

  • @reina6542
    @reina6542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this! It’s golden y’all, listen!!

  • @kaylabrannen1331
    @kaylabrannen1331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes maximize conference seminars online that are not related to your subscriptions or the Tony G Academy

  • @TheHarmonyPill
    @TheHarmonyPill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Okay Tony on our west coast time with this one 🔥

  • @zeeo3546
    @zeeo3546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tony, this is a word!! This is a word!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @clapyourhands8056
    @clapyourhands8056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tony moved mountains on this one!

  • @coachlatalyaelder
    @coachlatalyaelder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Late night post!! Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @lydiamyself105
    @lydiamyself105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this insight especially from a Man’s perspective, especially a Married man.

  • @JWW77
    @JWW77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Doubting me will motivate me quickly to Brother Tony!🤣

  • @Cynthea3124
    @Cynthea3124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I listen and listen to you and to me I sincerely feel as though you are the picture of how a man's mind should think and be when it comes to how he cares and nurtures his wife and I adore that about you when it comes to your wife cuz that is what it should be like when it comes to a man and a woman's relationship in a marriage and it's just nothing but truth when you speak and I love it 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🤗and wish you all nothing but joy and much peace

  • @dineoportiamagoro3212
    @dineoportiamagoro3212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great content. Very informative and eye-opening. I wish most men and women can watch this video

  • @OnlyQueenE
    @OnlyQueenE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Conversation starts at 12:01 🙃 this was so refreshing. God bless you and your wife Tony. This was a word!!!

  • @jocelynwilson9243
    @jocelynwilson9243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, I wholeheartedly felt this. If only more men could completely grasp this concept🙌🏾

  • @MissFayeCBL
    @MissFayeCBL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank You so much for sharing this content and wisdom with us. Would you please also consider making a video about How a woman should love a man? (if you haven't already)

  • @Rdy2win
    @Rdy2win 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lol way to encourage Coach Tony Queen 🙏🏽❤️💪🏽 🚶🏽

  • @edmarielafontaine3683
    @edmarielafontaine3683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is good, We stay Alert, Proud of you in the Comments. 🏆

  • @leleharris7955
    @leleharris7955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tell 'em Tony... 👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾💯💯

  • @beautifulrosexo2105
    @beautifulrosexo2105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    43:29 LOOOOOLLL "IF YOU KNOW SOMEBODY HAVE THEM REACH OUT TO ME" a few secs Later " ...IF HE DO THIS, HE SCAM-MING" I AM ROLLING!!!!!

  • @teresaroquemore670
    @teresaroquemore670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes Lawd preach bout some for real love making oh my God this really exist um bout to shout Hallelujah ❤️

  • @teresaroquemore670
    @teresaroquemore670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok own it men 👏

  • @dare2bda137
    @dare2bda137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow!! This is so good. This is MEAT. Ty Toni

  • @teresaroquemore670
    @teresaroquemore670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hold a man loving a wife like that u talking bout best love in the world wow 👏❤️✌🏾

  • @ulricka2131
    @ulricka2131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are doing great Tony! Keep up with your workouts. You inspire me in this way too. Thank you for showing us what a true king looks like🙏🏾👌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @dorothysambucci9468
    @dorothysambucci9468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great message! thank you Tony!

  • @teresaroquemore670
    @teresaroquemore670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen to loving yo wife I done been bout to die no help driving kids only God gave me the strength ❤️

  • @shadowzazaprincess4612
    @shadowzazaprincess4612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you TG for all do for us God bless you and your family 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @xmswayzemx
    @xmswayzemx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    1st 😊 Notification gang GANG!

  • @fishstickbio594
    @fishstickbio594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh …..they choose to stay disconnected …..

  • @eagles-soar
    @eagles-soar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    REAL LIFE INCITE on life of Loving and understanding real marriage, we don't have NO excuse when something similar happens we will remember these talks

  • @jam1369
    @jam1369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I pray this for every Godly union amen!!!

  • @TArienvsTweety
    @TArienvsTweety 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    T-Shirt w/ “I rest in the Lord”

  • @kishoflife
    @kishoflife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes, do tell.

  • @nasowa_ki
    @nasowa_ki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💯TRUTH!!!

  • @denisewilliamson4749
    @denisewilliamson4749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Correction: sex is not love

  • @Sari_jesus
    @Sari_jesus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    amazing just amazing!

  • @jerryrobinson8570
    @jerryrobinson8570 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's right. Sometimes a man has ED! That's his 'headache'🥰❤

  • @nikkijanay
    @nikkijanay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is really good 🙌🏽 thank God for this knowledge

  • @cytinachavis9157
    @cytinachavis9157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    See that's why Mrs. Gaskins is the queen she got the great Tony Gaskins with reverse psychology! 😀

  • @loisevora2717
    @loisevora2717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Preach Tony, there would be less divorce and more happy marriage if more men understood what you are saying.

    • @loisevora2717
      @loisevora2717 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dadaomowunmi2692 No, thanks

  • @sharonhall7439
    @sharonhall7439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    she really know how to get to you. 🤣🤣

  • @noel9863
    @noel9863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If he doesn't put God first then he is not the man for me . He must love God first

  • @MzSupaNova
    @MzSupaNova 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great message, Tony. Would you talk about "Netflix" Love is blind season 2? Your perspectives on the dynamics of the different relationships; would be very insightful. 🙏🏽

  • @stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644
    @stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've lost all hope for a good man. They are long gone, I'm waiting for Jesus to come back, quickly and in a hurry.

  • @kadinethompson9442
    @kadinethompson9442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU!!!!!

  • @BrittanyCaprice86
    @BrittanyCaprice86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like that’s how Adam failed Eve. He didn’t love and lead her properly.

  • @belindamendez1278
    @belindamendez1278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome!!!!!!! Yes!

  • @KDStyle1
    @KDStyle1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yall are too funny!!🥰💜

  • @helenlovell8587
    @helenlovell8587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video TG. Hope you reach you’re body goal🙏

  • @hp5552
    @hp5552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Exactly ♥️🙏🏽

  • @lisabowman9522
    @lisabowman9522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We gotta get the lesson. 😂😂😂

  • @chowbay-la4248
    @chowbay-la4248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1 Corinthians 7:5-7
    5 Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6 I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7 But I wish everyone were single, just as I am. Yet each person has a special gift from God, of one kind or another.

  • @candaceclark9266
    @candaceclark9266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you talk about men who don’t want sex as much as the wife! This is a subject that many people don’t talk about!

  • @commonsenseiswhatitwere
    @commonsenseiswhatitwere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tony🙋‍♀️

  • @lizvalenzuela4396
    @lizvalenzuela4396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen

  • @zabrinatheteacher
    @zabrinatheteacher 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Teach.

  • @queenkeesh8660
    @queenkeesh8660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speaking to me im more turned on mentally by a man now more so sexually. I need my mind stimulate i also love cuddln n talkn n someone askn how my day was n health.....more men need to know that n wwn u make love it feels better for me wen the man loves her mind n stimulate it

  • @irlandaise5631
    @irlandaise5631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    80% arent in love, how is this possible on my way home on St Valentine weekend almost 80% of men with women on the streets are giving me looks with interest- That let me know most people/men aren't with the right person.

  • @lizvalenzuela4396
    @lizvalenzuela4396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are funny 👍

  • @tyanalashell2420
    @tyanalashell2420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    12:17

    • @christinedozier2154
      @christinedozier2154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you 😂😂

    • @tyanalashell2420
      @tyanalashell2420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@christinedozier2154 lol np. I wasn't trying to be rude Tony. I just wanted to get to the message

  • @benjamincrooms5041
    @benjamincrooms5041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen 🙏

  • @jam1369
    @jam1369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🎯🎯💯❤️

  • @shanessabrown8856
    @shanessabrown8856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Felec mec non 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ndpugh3571
    @ndpugh3571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @cindthorpe
    @cindthorpe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not send you a scam artist???😆😆

  • @meridithprincess2533
    @meridithprincess2533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏👏👏👏👏👍✅

  • @atumhotep833
    @atumhotep833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Until the marriage laws change.....your leading men into a trap.

    • @la6136
      @la6136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you don’t want to get married then don’t no one is trapping you

  • @contrinadurant9846
    @contrinadurant9846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen